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I Hate My Father In Law

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    I have hit a brick wall.

    I want to help but I don't know how. I have sat back and listened and witnessed my mothers ex (thank god it is EX STEPFATHER) take complete control of her life, and then as she tries to get the control back he pushed her down and is digger her grave deeper and deeper trying to...
    Jaimedee Jaimedee 18-21, F Apr 17

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    I Really Hate My Father-in-law

    Any one who reads thanks it feels good to vent!!!He is the biggest as$ hole I have ever met in my life!! He is an Ex crack head bipolar an schizo When I first started dating my husband he started automatically wanting rides every day (he has no car) when Jon would come stay the...
    BuffyFan21 BuffyFan21 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 29, 2012

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    When I got pregnant at 17 my then boyfriend

    forced to live in their house which was a hell cause his father is an alcoholic dickhead. I've tried many times to leave my husband but he keeps telling me to hold on. It took me five antagonizing years after we got ourselves our own house. Now, my mom in law kicked his husband...
    alivia25 alivia25 26-30, F Apr 19

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    My Father-In-Law Moved BACK In With Us.

    This is the second time my husband's father has moved in with us. He and his wife are separated but still live together. He has been unemployed for almost two years (because he has no skill set and is too damn picky about what he wants to do) and is on the verge of losing his...
    moofydear moofydear 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    He is mad because my wife took my last name.

    Wth did he expect???? He also doesn't like that I left the construction industry when I finished law school because he says real men work with their hands. He is also mad because I wont give him my 1984 monthe carlo...I said he could buy it...he took over 2 years so I started to...
    marine1984 marine1984 26-30, M Apr 23

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    I Really Hate My Rude And From-hell Father In Law..

    This old man happened to be my father in law. He's been hated ever since by his family for being so strict, rude and never care if he could done wrong to anyone of his family. When I got married to his youngest daughter few of his children didn't like me much for whatever reasons...
    thewriter071612 thewriter071612 46-50, M Jul 16, 2012

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    I Really Really Hate My Father In Law

    12 years ago I moved in with my husband and his father.  At the time I told my husband that I don't think I can live with his father that he will need to make other arrangements at some point, he told me we would deal with this.   Let me know explain who my father...
    kmholden kmholden 36-40 4 Responses Oct 7, 2010

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    He smokes inside the house

    even in front of the kids when he's around!!!
    stiffadak stiffadak 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I Hate My Soon To Be Sister In Law And Father In Law.

    I've been with my fiancé, TJ, for 6 years, and my family has always been very welcoming to him. When he was 18, we had a long distance relationship as he attended technical school in Wyoming for a year and planned on coming back home to Texas to pursue a degree in business...
    mandarae mandarae 22-25 4 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    He Moved Away, After 25 Years.

    I could write a lot of stuff on here...I am a 25 year "vet" of my father in laws need for control, gossip and back-stabbing, pettiness, manipulations, rudeness - even to my parents - snooping, passive/aggressive behavior and lies which don't quit. He has been hated by so many...
    25yearvet 25yearvet 61-65, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2013

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    He Is Living With Us

    OMG, my house isn't my own any longer; He is at my table eating my food, in my living room sitting in my sunshine, in my family watching my big-screen TV (sports-turned up to full volume). Also, he is such a racist. Talks down women, blacks, Hispanics, and anyone else who isn't...
    pgother pgother 51-55 13 Responses Apr 2, 2011

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    I (shouldnt But Do) Hate My Father In Law!

    I appreciate, in advance, anyone who reads this in its entirety. It feels good just to get it all out, and look forward to advice and comments!! <3 A very short (cuz boy, I could go on forever!) synposis of our history: Together 12 years. My husbands mother passed away a...
    twooc twooc 36-40 4 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    My father in law is a very selfish,

    controlling and dictator type guy. I am convinced he doesn't love my husband, his older son. In our last visit he called him names, he offended him, and verbally attacked me and my kids. He is very religious but not and spiritual or loving Christian. He demands to be obeyed...
    peachfacelovebird peachfacelovebird 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I still have a hatred

    for my ex father in law even if he's dead! He sexually abused my daughter when she was a toddler. My ex stuck by his father probably bc he was sexually abused also by the hands of his own father. My ex can't face his demons in his closet,,, He just can't face the truth till...
    ConBr ConBr 46-50, F 8 hrs ago

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    I Don't Even Want To Call Him My "father In Law" He Doesn't Deserve The Title

    I can't stand him. Although I have read many of your stories and mine can't compare to some of them, but what we all have in common is that we are technically related to complete ******. When I first met him after dating my husband for just over a month - I stayed at their place...
    MrsEmma MrsEmma 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    My Father In Law...

    I've been married to my husband since the 80s and we're both in our 50s, we live in the UK. My husbands father is a right mean old man, he always has been. He is now 82 years old but hasn't mellowed down at all and still seems to think he can knock anyone out, any age, any time...
    elsiewatts1003 elsiewatts1003 51-55, M Nov 11, 2013

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    Feel Like Terrible Christian

    I, too, have my very elderly father in law living with us. I don't hate him and he's basically a nice man, but realize now our problems (full house--adult children + father) really came about when we didn't talk out how this was going to all work when he first moved in. You...
    Bridget2 Bridget2 46-50, F 6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    My fil is the biggest manipulator

    that I have ever come across. 10 years ago when my husband and I were about purchase our home we found out fil stole husbands info and racked up credit card debt. Ended up buying house in my name only, had to downsize because of this. Husband refused to press charges. Fast...
    Ginajagha Ginajagha 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Cant Stand My Father In Law

    This is a long story i dont intend to make short. It all started about three years ago...... I knew him before that and always thought he was a pretty bitter, angry and all around unhappy person. We would visit him here and there and my fiance was the outgoing happy person he...
    DelightfullyDistant DelightfullyDistant 26-30 Oct 28, 2012

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    I have got married 6 months back .

    My husband mostly talks abt his father who doesn't help me or my husband either physically or financially he has rented house in his native , he will just say he will go to his native but he won't go,father in law interferes whenever me and my husband talk ,bcoz of which me and...
    vidh vidh 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Father In Law From Hell

    I have been married for 6 years. In the past I traveled quite a bit for work so I didn't notice as much as I do now. First of all we live next door to them. He is nasty; never brushes his teeth, wears the same clothes for days in a row and sits on my nice furniture, bathes...
    Jmillwill Jmillwill 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    And The Award For The World's Most Selfish Person Goes To....

    My father-in-law is the most selfish person on earth. He always says he had children in order for them to support him. He "retired" as soon as my husband was out of college so that my husband could pay the bills & support the family.. Not only that -he has racked up debt upon...
    Mifschick Mifschick 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2012

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    I Hate My Father-in-law

    I hate my father-in-law. I resent his guts and the way he meddles in my life. It has escalated to the point where even small things drive me mad and I find myself constantly figuring out ways to get back at him. He brings out the worst in me :(
    sdfunguy sdfunguy 31-35, M Dec 2, 2012

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    Hate From the Start

      Step Father in Law, I couldn't stand his temper and his abusive attitude. He didn’t like me from the start, until now I still don’t know why and what the hell is his problem. I noticed it, it’s all about pretended to be nice to me in front everybody. I...
    SaBinh SaBinh 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    I Don'T Hate My Father In Law But...

    I hate that I found out he talked about me behind my back. My husband has been sick for almost a year...in and out the hospital. We have been to gather for 7 years and we just got married on Dec. 31, 2012. He told a good friend of mines that the only reason I married his son...
    Udie2002 Udie2002 46-50 Apr 28, 2013

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    Pissed

    My in laws gave me and my husband a very nice camper and camping set. My mother in law;who I adored; died. Then my father in law asked for the camper and set back. We gave in. We asked to borrow them for a camping trip this weekend and he says no. He has never used it. Meanwhile...
    sickofhating sickofhating 26-30 Mar 31, 2013

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    My Father-in-law Is A Criminal

    I am ashamed to say him ------ he doesnt deserve it the worst fellow i have ever met .he used to mute TV to listen our personal conversation in bedroom. he is a worst fellow who demand more jewels in my wedding he created a greatest loss for my father during wedding that he...
    prijes prijes 31-35 1 Response Dec 18, 2012

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    How Entitled Can He Be?

    We sometimes leave the door unlocked when one or both of us is in, because it's a safe neighbourhood.  Now I have to make sure it's always locked because he just walks right in.  You don't just walk into someone's home, for God's sake.  Luckily, I've been dressed...
    cryptine cryptine 26-30 5 Responses Mar 11, 2008

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    Living In A Nightmare!

    I got married a little over two years ago. My husband was living in a home that he purchased with his father. He felt obligated to stay (financially) until we could sell the house, split the profits, and go our separate ways. We were thinking one year at the most. Well, two...
    gottagetout1 gottagetout1 26-30 4 Responses Jan 4, 2011

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    My Father-In-Law acts like he gave birth to my son

    He is the most self-absorbed, cheap, sexist, big-headed "Democrat" I have ever met! Every chance he gets he makes some comment about how superior his genes are to mine, how much more important his surname is than mine. If my 2-yr old son has any talents or endearing qualities...
    sickntired1992 sickntired1992 18-21 Dec 22, 2012

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    Casting Feuding In-laws

    Hello there, I am an Associate Producer with Left Field Pictures and we are working on a new series about couples dealing with issue with their In-Laws. I am reaching out to the non-religious community because we would like to devote an episode to a couple looking for acceptance...
    Amymarie777 Amymarie777 26-30 2 Responses Jan 28, 2011

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    If my husband reads this,

    I am sorry. But I cannot tolerate living with your uncle any longer. We have been living with this person for almost 15 years, we did live alone for 2 years not too long ago and it was wonderful. But it has almost been 1 year back with him again and I cannot stand it. He is like...
    70cupps 70cupps 41-45, F Jun 3

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    Father To His Lovers Only

    For the last 30 years, including time he was still with my MIL, my FIL, liked having sex with young women in the 17-25 range (19 is an adult in our state). This occurred well into his 50's. Occasionally, he'd try to be will someone approximately his age, but it would always go...
    lauraherrington lauraherrington 26-30, F Oct 31, 2013

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    When I first met my father in law I actually

    really liked him. I thought he was funny and enjoyed his stories...that all changed when I started working for him. I soon found out how much of a head case he really is! He is the single most annoying person I have ever met. He asks the same questions over and over again and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 20, 2013

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    Is It Wrong To Wish Bad Things For This Guy?

    My father in law is such a horrible person. I lived with him with my husband for a bit we have finally moved into our own place. I thought living with the man was hell but I was wrong. I wasn't even gone and he was talking crap about me to the movers, the nieghbors, the...
    AangBeast AangBeast 26-30, F Apr 6, 2013

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    Father In Law Stole

    One day my husband opens his pay stub to realize that his wages are being garnished. As a man who never had a credit card and has no debts he was quite confused. After looking in to it a credit card was opened in his name, never paid, went to cout and now wages garnished all...
    1 Response Feb 3, 2013

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    How Stupid Can A Man Be?

     Last year, I wrote how much I hated my father-in-law. It has now gotten much worse. He now orders me around, never says thank you and complains ALL of the time. Now, he is saying just pure, stupid comments. I cannot even sit in the livingroom to watch the morning news, without...
    dgrey63 dgrey63 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2012

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    After my mother-in-law passed away my

    father-in-law went a little crazy with money. He had over $150,000.00 which is spent on scratch tickets, bingo and gambling at the casino. This was done in less than a year. My sister-in-law told him to spend his money and she would take care of him when he was broke. Well...
    joejonjack3 joejonjack3 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    Hate Father Inlaw

    i hate my father in law... he is the most person i have ever intracted with. He is rude in his speech all the time. One cannot have a healthy discussion with him on anything. He feels tht he is the only intelligent man left on this earth an d all other people are fools. He is...
    ibuya5ga55 ibuya5ga55 26-30 3 Responses Jun 1, 2010

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    Complete Psycho

    My father-in-law is a complete nutjob and has made my life a living hell. I have never met anyone in my life that likes drama as much as him, not even a preteen girl! He has four children, and all of them have very limited contact with him. He puts everyone down at all times and...
    rlr1234 rlr1234 26-30 1 Response Nov 26, 2011

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    Hateful Mental Father Inlaw

    I have been in a relationship for a little over 5 years. We both recently had a son. My father inlaw has always been abusive to his wife, his children, his family. For the most part they have always put up with his rude behaviour. He yells if he finds a speck of dust on the...
    TessAnne TessAnne 36-40 6 Responses Jul 5, 2009

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    Biggest dickhead! Came to my house

    and threatened to hurt me if I keep seeing his son. My boyfriend now lives with me and has for the past 2 years. Haven't seen my fil in a long time but I've heard that he's changed a lot for the better. Still hasn't apologised to me though lol.
    Jahhh Jahhh 18-21, F Mar 7

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    Unfit Grandfather

    I HATE my father-in-law more than I could ever imagine hating anyone. He is arrogant, ignorant, rude, and obnoxious. He was OK before I was married, but I didn't see him often as my husband's parents are divorced and he lives 45 minutes away anyway. After we got married we still...
    Capricorn15 Capricorn15 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Monster-in Law

    Hi folks , I recently experienced the worst that could happen to anyone , when it comes to in-laws . My father IN-LAW came to visit us from Queens New York . And as soon as he walked through the door , my living nightmare began . And for some strange reason I started to feel...
    peaceDREAMMER peaceDREAMMER 26-30 1 Response Nov 16, 2011

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    Manipulative Know It All

    There is no one I hate like my father-in-law (fil). When I married my husband, he appeared to be a nice man, funny, understanding, compassionate, all good reasons for my husband to look up to him. In the last 2 years or so (we dated 10 years, married for 6 now), he's become an...
    equuleus equuleus 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    I hate my father in law.

    I try to avoid seeing him as much as possible. Now since we have children it's a little harder. He uses the kids as an excuse to get my husband over to his house to fix stuff. He never calls unless he needs something. He is the worlds biggest victim. All of his kids have...
    vanessatex vanessatex 26-30, F May 23

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    Oh My Goodness!

    Now August 2013, so I hope all of you good, patient people are in better situations now. I had never thought to type this topic into google, but found out this evening I am not the only one dealing with this situation. This all began when my FIL, at 89 years old, tripped over the...
    GFCookie GFCookie 46-50, F Aug 4, 2013

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    I do the best for my husband

    but he tells to the world that I don't treat his son well. We are in Saudi Arabia,Mecca and my father in law lives Jeddah and now he is on vacation to Srilanka.He had visited to my parents and told so many bad things about me and on treating to his son.
    sumi123455 sumi123455 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    My Father-in-law Is Crazy!!!!

     My previous stories may seem cruel, but certainly not meant to be.Update: Father-in-law's copd/emphyseme is in end stages and the doctor thinks he has only months left, but hard to tell. Meanwhile, he developed a more severe bacterial infection in lung that did not clear up. So...
    dgrey63 dgrey63 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 18, 2012

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    DO NOT Move In With Your In Laws!

    My wife and I have been living with her parents for about a year and a half now. At first, things were going good and then we started having problems. It all started on a Saturday when they asked me to do some things around the farm, like a good son in law, I gladly accepted the...
    frustratedhusband3 frustratedhusband3 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    I hate my dad and my sister-in-laws they lie. It makes me want to cry so bad. My brothers are douche bags who never treats us well and lives in our house that my sister bought for...
    ohida ohida 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    My boyfriends father and brother just left to go on a camping trip. It's 8am. I arrived here at 7 cause I spend Friday-Sunday at his house. I usually don't come over until the...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    I hate him for once was leaving me because a sk*nk and hurted my grandma. I hate him for I was made of my parents's stupidity. I have never felt Father's Love like kids in common...
    quiteanorphan quiteanorphan 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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