I Hate My Father With a Passion

Hate is a strong word - Pain can make you feel this way, 528 People

    The Jerk

    He was a distant self-righteous alcoholic who used us as punching bags at his whim. I understand why my siblings have cut off all contact with him.  I have not spoken to him since 1995 until today.  I told him I hope he burns in hell and it felt so good.  I...
    middlechild2 middlechild2
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 21, 2009

    i hate my father so much

    and i've hated him since i can remember myself
    sabbracaddabraa sabbracaddabraa
    22-25, M
    Nov 21, 2014

    My Mother's Ex Husband AKA ***** Donor of

    Myself&Younger Siblings- He is worse than a fly that's impossible to kill! Ever since the No Contact Order installed upon the divorce finalization (Winter 1992/1993) was lifted in Summer 2013 when my sister turned 21 he has not let us have a moment of peace! The order was there...
    Nevalost Nevalost
    26-30, M
    Nov 9, 2014

    My Father

    How do i explain my father? Mean? Arrogant? Hateful? Alaholic? All those words suit him. I lived with both parents until the 3rd grade but even b4 that i hated him.He would spend all his money on beer and vokda. I can only remember the bad times.... When he didnt catch me...
    Confused1396 Confused1396
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 25, 2010

    OK to Hate Your Dad

    It's OK to hate your father.  Many dads deserve that emotion to be applied to them.  Usually, it is because the hated man cares more about himself than his family.  Get over his guilt trips.  Get over his invocation of "honor thy father" and all...
    baddadd baddadd
    17 Responses Oct 19, 2008

    As much as I hear people talk about there father

    so nicely. I can never ever thank my father for anything. He never did anything for me and never does now... I'm 16 and never did he call once to tell me Happy Birthday, or congratulate me on graduation. If he cared he would have came to my graduation and supported me. I...
    sweetlove2014 sweetlove2014
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 4, 2014

    In my house everything we eat is healthy

    and my father really cares and always goes hiking. A couple years ago I use to go with him because I didn't want him to be angry at me but one day I told him that hiking and running is his hobby not mine. We never east junk food everything is healthy. One day he yelled at me...
    hannahabraham hannahabraham
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 2, 2014

    My father left when I was 2 months old

    and it's been like 15 almost 16 years now and it never really bothered me until a few years ago when I really started to notice, things in my life and my mom and sister where placed in different environments. He was called and asked if he wanted to meet me by a government worker...
    abrokendreamer abrokendreamer
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 1, 2014

    I understand he's my father

    and all and he's done so much to help me along the way but I can't stand him. It's a shame too because he always wanted a son and I feel like I'm not living up to his standards. I play a lot of video games. It's my passion and the way I like to spend my down time. He would...
    adav218 adav218
    18-21, M
    Jun 29, 2014

    I used to be such a daddy's girl.

    ...He was the man I respected and loved most...He had never laid his hands on me and he was always patient with my complicated character...Well now I am 18 and my senior year is coming to an end..A few months ago I was so stressed about my studying that I came home and started...
    Neverforgetthepain Neverforgetthepain
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 2, 2014

    I Hate My Father, And I Have No Feelings Towards Him.

    I hate my Dad so much he disgust me. His voice, his face, his existence. I wish he was dead and away from me. His a plague. My mom and dad were force into a marriage by my church. He married my mom because he had too not wanted too. My dad was crazy something my mom didn't know...
    123hurt 123hurt
    6 Responses Jun 11, 2012

    I'am numb because of you.

    Because of you I'm afraid. Afraid to love, or to get my hopes up. But I do thank you. For making me realize that no one in this ******* world is worth loving because in the end they'll just ******* drop me at any point in time. Thank you father for showing me that you should...
    RecklessXO96 RecklessXO96
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 10, 2014

    My dad is self centered,

    i lived with my mother growing up and she could hardly make ends meat,my dad refused to pay child support and moved away, there was a few times i went without good shoes settling for old holey ones.i asked him if he could just do me one thing and buy my ring for senior year,he...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv
    22-25, F
    Jul 26, 2014

    i basically wrote my whole life story here

    and it didnt post now its gone.. FML... but **** my father! god and satan please please take him away. he has never done anything good. all he did was put our life through the depths of hell. please take him away and end our suffering. his death would be like reaching the other...
    Mateom93 Mateom93
    22-25, M
    Nov 7, 2014

    My Father Doesn't Know That Respect Is Earned

    I have decided to write down my feelings towards my father. I hope it will help me. When I was younger he couldn't deal with a teenager having her own opinions. He hit me a few times when I talked back to him. He still believes it's my fault that he did that. He thinks that just...
    dcha9031 dcha9031
    3 Responses Nov 14, 2010

    My Mother's Lover-My father was a mystery.

    He was a deep harsh thickly accented voice coming from inside my mother's bedroom on the nights me and my sister couldn't sleep with our Mama. He was the unseen receiver of an extra plate of food that was left on the counter as my mother was rushing her kids out the door to...
    Xadon Xadon
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2015

    I Hate My Dad With a Passion

    My Dad used to beat me and I never knew when it was coming. I could never do anything to please him. I tried and tried through the years to have a relationship with him. The last straw was when the house I had been buying from him for 5 years he evicted me from because I was late...
    mls0126 mls0126
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2009

    Yesterday my father had stopped speaking to me,

    his lat words were: 'I have no problem disowning you. Never talk to me again...' I was so hurt I couldn't believe my own father would say that to me. He is not ideal, he cheated on my mum when she was pregnant with my little sister. He told her he doesn't want a 3rd child. After...
    zoe1809 zoe1809
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 15, 2014

    I come home, a 22 yr old college student to

    find my father in his late 30s standing behind the door. He pushes in really fast and in my reaction I slam the door back at him. In my shock and rage I don't even remember what I said but by what my brother tells me I must've said "hell" What the hell is wrong with you? Why...
    isodole isodole
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2014

    Two Faced

    My father is very popular to all who know him. The exceptions are my mother, my sister, and myself. Outwardly he is an amazing person, the ideal type of father everyone wants. He complusively lies - even when he doesn't have to do so - and I guess this must make his charade...
    Zeldalynn Zeldalynn
    18-21, F
    14 Responses Mar 18, 2010

    Short rant I guess - every person

    that my mother talks to, he feels the need to threaten them until they stop talking to my mom because he is so scared of us leaving when he doesn't really care at all. He needs to man the hell up. If we leave it's his ******* fault and everybody knows it and don't you...
    me856 me856
    18-21, F
    Dec 23, 2013

    I Hate Men Because Of Him

    I can't look at men in the eye. I don't think I will ever be able to have a healthy relationship with a man. I blame my father. My father is an alcoholic. He has forced my mother, sister, and I out to a hotel, only once, but he gets violent quickly when he is pissed off and...
    grrrrrrrrrrr9999 grrrrrrrrrrr9999
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 4, 2011

    Emotionally Abused Us

    My father, by economic standards, is a successful man. And he got to where he is through years of hard work and dedication. But I won't remember him for his secure job or for his service to the community or for the awards he won. I'll remember him for the times he shouted at us...
    chalkdust chalkdust
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 7, 2009

    I lie to my friends and tell them my father died

    when I was 16. He is the biggest disappointment and I feel sorry for whoever is dealing with him right now. He is the biggest alcoholic and I'm like 98% sure he smokes crack. He leaves horrendous messages on my mothers voicemail at 3am calling her a fat pollack **** even though...
    stinkerpink stinkerpink
    26-30, F
    Dec 17, 2013

    I wouldn't say hate..

    . Haven't talked to him in over a year now, don't plan on it either. It sucks to see people hold on to the pain from some event in their life. I wouldn't be where I am now if it wasn't for him. Even using him as an example of "how not to be" has helped.
    PuckDrop PuckDrop
    22-25, M
    Jul 21, 2014

    I truly believe an absent deadbeat 'dad' is

    better than a deadbeat dad that is a part of your life. I'm 41 and have four kids that I am raising just fine. My father, who should never have had kids at all thinks he can have a do over by parenting my kids and now has the audacity to say I am not fit to be a mother!!!!! I...
    fitwith4 fitwith4
    41-45, F
    Mar 16, 2014

    Honestly, I Don't Believe That Family Is Important...

    Well, It's been awhile since anything big happened in my family regarding my father. And that's exactly the problem, NOTHING'S HAPPENING. I'd rather have him let me openly wrench my heart out and make me cry and hate him all the more, but he's just been playing it low profile and...
    Forsaken101 Forsaken101
    13-15, M
    1 Response May 30, 2012

    I hate my father. I wish he'd just pick up

    and leave one day and never look back or idk... Maybe die..... Either one will work just fine.
    BlackBuddafly88 BlackBuddafly88
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2015

    I hate my father so much,

    I always have and always will, he drove my mom away on multiple occasions, he drove my sister to live with my mother, and now all he does is tell me what to do, boss me around and critisize anything and everything I ever done or do. Whenever I need to do something, he complains...
    slater768 slater768
    18-21, M
    Jun 11, 2015

    Daddy's Little Girl

    I've probably written a hundred pages discussing my relationship with my father. I've written about it for 14 years, spoken about it with countless friends, my mom, my brother. And after every single conversation, every single venomous word written, the only thoughts I have are...
    flipgirl6886 flipgirl6886
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2010

    Living Under A Tyrant

    Let's talk about my father. Lets pretend the internet is a silent psychiatrist, or a prisoner that is forced to listen to people whine. But this is not a rant. This is genuine. We have a strict traditional Pakistani joint family system. Which means my father being the eldest...
    Pariah22 Pariah22
    26-30, F
    May 6, 2013

    Hate You

    U know u were never there for me u were never there to help me ,all what  u kept telling me is make me proud soon well fk you dad.and all this acomplishments i have made in my life it like never happened and when i do mistakes u are there to point them out and to judge me...
    22-25, M
    Jan 4, 2010

    He's an idiot, useless,

    and borderline annoying. He can't/ won't do anything right, and he's extremely petty. He can't ever talk to you directly about a problem, he only texts. He's a complete and utter waste of time. He only pretends to be an actual parent, to impress his friends (who all hate him, by...
    YoungAndAwkward YoungAndAwkward
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 20, 2014

    I Want To Kill Him

    Over the last few weeks I've developed this real intense anger towards my father. How dare you call yourself my dad?? You're not my dad. You're only my father. A dad loves and protects his children. Unlike you. You beat me. You molested me. You hurt me all the time. Physically...
    Flyingsnake Flyingsnake
    36-40, M
    1 Response Oct 24, 2013

    If My Dad Died...i Would Be Ok With That....

    I cannot stand my father. I was born into a relgious family so expectations of reading scriptures etc. have always been high. My father is and has been a football coach since before I was born and was never around when me and my 3 other siblings grew up. When he was spending...
    fEDuP32 fEDuP32
    4 Responses Aug 3, 2012

    Sometimes I Feel Like He's A Truly Bad Person.

    My mom is away in the other hemisphere to be with her dying mother. My dad is here. I wish I were with my mom right now. My dad is not supporting her at all (that I know of). We had this conversation in the car the other day: my sister: I get out of track practice at 4:30...
    lolamento lolamento
    Feb 26, 2012

    Another thing I thought of is

    that he's like jealous and in constant competition with me for my mom's like love and attention. I don't feel this way, in fact I have come to deal with always being second. I could be mid sentence about how I almost died or something and he could come in and ask her a question...
    dianamarie93 dianamarie93
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2014

    Hate Is A Strong Word- But It Ain't Even Close To Strong Enough To Truely Describe Exactly How Much I Loathe You Dad.

    Fear. Terror. Torment. How I lived 18 years of what should have been a lovely childhood, thanks to the absolute dickhead of my father. No freedom, only fear and constant worry. Somebody please, save me.
    xxeva xxeva
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 11, 2012

    I hate my father. Everyday is a new problem.

    I'm 14 and I just started high school I show self confidence but I am really am insecure. I use to live with my mom but she abused me now me and my sister live with my dad. He subtly calls me fat. He would say you need to work out before you turn out like Tasha (my dad's really...
    Jailalee Jailalee
    Jan 5, 2014

    He's been showing up in my dreams at least

    weekly for the past few months. Sometimes I have multiple dreams of him in a week. And each time I'm telling him off, trying to tear him apart emotionally and occasionally trying to hurt him physically.
    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    i seriously hate my father hes

    so annoying i cant stand seeing his face i just want to stab him in the eye, if he dies i will pray that GOD MAKE HIM SUFFER IN THE GRAVE , because his an asshoal , he treats me like **** , like he didnt want to have me wich is true, today he was driving me from the school , and...
    collegegirl20 collegegirl20
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 1, 2015

    To my "dad", When I was little,

    you used to be everything to me. I looked up to you. You were the best dad ever. But that was back when my mom used to dress me in pink dresses and all things girly. Back when I was "perfect"; all that changed when I started to become my own person. I started dressing myself...
    Fabihurtado123 Fabihurtado123
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2014

    My Dads "nice" Shell

             Before you read this article, let me tell you that for years i have tried pretending that i don't hate my dad. I have given him the respect that he would deserve if he wasn't an *******, but now finally I have realized that i need to stop. I had...
    gabrielmayer gabrielmayer
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2009

    I Hate My Father and Will Never Forgive Him

     I really hate my dad, and I don't think I can find it in my heart to love him. When I was little he'd beat me over the stupidest ****. Now I think about it, it was ridiculous. He's beat me over a math problem, always striking my head, or he'd beat me because I played too...
    cherishxme cherishxme
    10 Responses Aug 22, 2008

    My father left me when I was a kid not

    even born. From then on I felt betrayed. No one to take me fishing or to give me a pat on the back. But that didn't hinder me from success don't rely on somebody for success be your own motivation and self support. My father failed himself not me.
    uzair97 uzair97
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jul 21, 2014

    I basically wrote my life story on here

    but it didnt lost FML now its gone. i hate my father so much i just hope he would pass away already. god and satan please take him away alreasy and end everyones suffering. life is better without my physically,mentally, emotionally, financially abusive, cheating, shittalker...
    Mateom93 Mateom93
    22-25, M
    Nov 7, 2014

    I hate the man who calls me his daughter.

    My who life all i wanted was daddy. Not just any daddy, but my daddy. The one who donated his dna to my gene pool. In May of 2010 to my suprise I found him in Montana State Prison serving time for felony assult/burglary. That right there should have sent me running, but it didn...
    karenwarden karenwarden
    31-35, F
    Jul 8, 2014

    I Hate My Father

    The earliest memory I have in life is when the fire trucks came to my house when my little brother died in his crib. I was 3 years old.  The first memory I can bring to my mind of my father was him dragging my unconscious mother by her hair down the hallway to their...
    earlbowden earlbowden
    46-50, M
    11 Responses Apr 2, 2008

    Living Under A Tyrant II

    So my hate for him is so pure. I have never felt anything more surely or wildly. He takes my money, any pet that I want, he took a t.v I bought. It's not fair to become a bloodsucking leech. I hate him so much. Sometimes I wish I could run away and be free of him. I hate him. I...
    Pariah22 Pariah22
    26-30, F
    May 6, 2013

    It seems to me that when I was a child,

    my father would beat me for some stupid stuff. When I was in elementary school I get hit because I got an F, if I fell over, left the fridge open, got more B's than A's, or never spoke to him. Not to mention the fact that when I was bullied my father only made me feel worse and...
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 1, 2014

    Me and my dad almost never hug,

    or say I love u to one another. He doesn't believe in tears bc they show weakness. He is extremely strict and has anger issues. He was suppose to go to therapy... But sadly he thinks he doesn't belong there. I can't get through to my dad, does anyone have an idea!
    ForeverMe101 ForeverMe101
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 4, 2014
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