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I Hate My Father With a Passion

Hate is a strong word - Pain can make you feel this way, 344 People

    Meanest Dad Ever

    my dad is such a ruthless person that i hate him with everything i have. dont know what my mom saw in him that she got married. he's been unemployed for around 10 years now and my mom has to do go to work while he sits at home and enjoys himself. i had a physical fight with him...
    Ed16 Ed16 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2011

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    My Dad Was A Gouffe

    my dad wasnt there for me cause he was too busy drinking and beating on my mom!he died when i was 5 and very happy about it!!been fatherless was tough,learn everything myself the hard way!when i have kids i will be there for them cause im not a coward! please check my youtube...
    mydadwasagouffe mydadwasagouffe 36-40, M Jan 7, 2013

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    I truly believe an absent deadbeat 'dad' is

    better than a deadbeat dad that is a part of your life. I'm 41 and have four kids that I am raising just fine. My father, who should never have had kids at all thinks he can have a do over by parenting my kids and now has the audacity to say I am not fit to be a mother!!!!! I...
    fitwith4 fitwith4 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    My Dad's Fierce Anger

    My dad acts so friendly and lighthearted with his buddies, but when it comes to his family--the ones he's suppose to love and protect and be gentle to--he is emotionally abusive. He yells and screams at with me with a hatred that's thrown up from the pits of his cold, blackened...
    Weriv2000 Weriv2000 22-25 4 Responses Jun 15, 2012

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    Hate You

    U know u were never there for me u were never there to help me ,all what  u kept telling me is make me proud soon well fk you dad.and all this acomplishments i have made in my life it like never happened and when i do mistakes u are there to point them out and to judge me...
    ADAMTISMS ADAMTISMS 22-25, M Jan 4, 2010

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    I Wish I Had A Different Dad

    I freakin hate my dad he sucks he is soooo stupid I wish he could just go die he is the worst if he were to ever die or get killed of be the happiest person alive I wish I had a white father not some stupid Asian dad god I swear hes so retared
    Doggone1234568890 Doggone1234568890 13-15 1 Response Mar 28, 2012

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    Through Glass

    The sixth entry to my memoir "A Child Born From Sin" I'm looking at you through the glass... Praying that one day you'll come inside... You'll stand infront of me.... And call me your son.... A father, what is a father? Is a father someone who is loving and kind? Is a father...
    Cerorizo Cerorizo 18-21, M Mar 20, 2013

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    Daddy's Little Girl

    I've probably written a hundred pages discussing my relationship with my father. I've written about it for 14 years, spoken about it with countless friends, my mom, my brother. And after every single conversation, every single venomous word written, the only thoughts I have are...
    flipgirl6886 flipgirl6886 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    I Want To Kill Him

    Over the last few weeks I've developed this real intense anger towards my father. How dare you call yourself my dad?? You're not my dad. You're only my father. A dad loves and protects his children. Unlike you. You beat me. You molested me. You hurt me all the time. Physically...
    Flyingsnake Flyingsnake 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    Passionate Hatred

    I hate him for the kind of person he is, he will do something for you acting like he is being nice then use it against you later, he never does anything himself always getting others do do it for him. And if you refuse he acts offended and then starts a argument over it saying...
    Kazed Kazed 18-21 1 Response Jun 21, 2012

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    I Hate Him

    I hat my dad so much. 1 minut hes all smily around people & the nxt minute hes throwing things @ u for even leaving a lid of a bottle open. Sometimes he'd hit u with his belt for even not having your room tidy and then afterwards u hav 2 pretend as if your friends or he'd get...
    moodaysasolstice moodaysasolstice 16-17 Jun 18, 2012

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    I Hate My Dad With a Passion

    My Dad used to beat me and I never knew when it was coming. I could never do anything to please him. I tried and tried through the years to have a relationship with him. The last straw was when the house I had been buying from him for 5 years he evicted me from because I was late...
    mls0126 mls0126 46-50 2 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    One Question, "Why?"

    I really can't remember how this all started. I mean when my father started resenting and ultimately hating me as I have grown into an adult. Part of me always wanted to shy away from writing this, but it wasn't until my Psychiatrist & my therapist suggested I explore writing...
    jsnlambert jsnlambert 31-35, M May 31, 2013

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    My Dad Drags Me Down.

    I am very involved in music and someday I would like to be a producer but all my dad tells me is "it's a mans job","your not good enough", "it's only a silly dream" and "you have more chance of winning the lottery than becoming a producer". He is starting to make me dislike music...
    Gbrwmo95 Gbrwmo95 22-25 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    Pure Evil

    He is the most EVIL person I have ever known.  He always targets people who are weaker then he. Then he finds what they fear, or what will mentally "drive them nuts" and he focuses on that!!!   When my siblings and I were growing up he would make us lay in the floor naked...
    edgell edgell 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2011

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    I hate my father. Everyday is a new problem.

    I'm 14 and I just started high school I show self confidence but I am really am insecure. I use to live with my mom but she abused me now me and my sister live with my dad. He subtly calls me fat. He would say you need to work out before you turn out like Tasha (my dad's really...
    Jailalee Jailalee 18-21 Jan 5

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    A Letter to My Dad! I Remember...

    Dear Dad, I remember that I don't have any nice memory of you. I remember how you used to humiliate us on the traffic signal. I remember you kicking mum so bad that her hip broke. I remember you screaming at my mum so loud that the next day you neighborhood friend brought...
    timmyl timmyl 18-21, M 15 Responses Jul 24, 2008

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    I Don't Remember Being Daddy's Little Girl.

    Ever since I was born even before I was born my father was an alcoholic. He was always drunk. He was also a "pot head." As I grew up I watched my dad be arrested, hit my brothers and sisters, yell at my mom, and ruin any chance of our family actually being happy. Throughout...
    overlorddkid overlorddkid 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2011

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    Emotionally Abused Us

    My father, by economic standards, is a successful man. And he got to where he is through years of hard work and dedication. But I won't remember him for his secure job or for his service to the community or for the awards he won. I'll remember him for the times he shouted at us...
    chalkdust chalkdust 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 7, 2009

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    Wisdom

    Who would have thought my feelings would attract such an audience. The sad part of it all is that I don't hate my father with a passion. I love my father and my family. Never-the-less, I do hate the pain I feel, and every day I pray for Peace. For me and everyone in the same...
    shakaindy shakaindy 56-60, F 1 Response May 31, 2013

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    I Want To Move Out..

    I am a 15 year old brown or South Asian girl.. We live in a family or society.. People are worried more in what others think about us.. I live in NY.. But for many family or parent problems, I want to move out.. My dad wants to live his own life and wants money from my mom.. My...
    BrownGirrl BrownGirrl 16-17, F 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    A Child Born From Sin, Part III

    This is the continuation of my memoir "A Child Born From Sin" For so long I've been treated like nothing, for so long I've been neglected, for so long I've been battered; all I want is to be loved by someone, but how can I when the people who are supposed to love me the most...
    Cerorizo Cerorizo 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 5, 2013

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    A Problematic Parent

    This may not be true to everyone, most likely around your teenage years, you see a few arguments between your parents. And you pick the side of the most reasonable parent... but do you notice that for some families, its always the same parent who is being childish and the...
    fuzkitty fuzkitty 16-17 1 Response Jan 3, 2013

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    Sometimes I Feel Like He's A Truly Bad Person.

    My mom is away in the other hemisphere to be with her dying mother. My dad is here. I wish I were with my mom right now. My dad is not supporting her at all (that I know of). We had this conversation in the car the other day: my sister: I get out of track practice at 4:30...
    lolamento lolamento 16-17 Feb 26, 2012

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    Honestly, I Don't Believe That Family Is Important...

    Well, It's been awhile since anything big happened in my family regarding my father. And that's exactly the problem, NOTHING'S HAPPENING. I'd rather have him let me openly wrench my heart out and make me cry and hate him all the more, but he's just been playing it low profile and...
    Forsaken101 Forsaken101 13-15, M 1 Response May 30, 2012

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    I Hate My Father With A Passion

    I hate my father for a big reason, he thinks I should be a damn robot. First off I am not a robot. Secondly I hate the fact that he a hypocrtic, One time I was @ home with my dad and we decided to do some yard work okay. And then my big brother comes home and then like I told my...
    jhgirl jhgirl 22-25 2 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    The Jerk

    He was a distant self-righteous alcoholic who used us as punching bags at his whim. I understand why my siblings have cut off all contact with him.  I have not spoken to him since 1995 until today.  I told him I hope he burns in hell and it felt so good.  I...
    middlechild2 middlechild2 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2009

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    Abuses Me, We Are Two Totally Different People

    My dad is a dickhead. He always gets angry when I use the computer, but I play sport 3 days a week, so wtf. Once I had to call the cops on him because I accidentally farted near him and he grabbed me by the neck and threw me down on the ground and repeated this 3 times!!! I just...
    Jdog870 Jdog870 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 24, 2012

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    Father made me an orphan

    When I was about 5, my dad was a heavy alcoholic, well he always was. I don't think that he ever hurt my mom physically, but i'm not to certain. But he was cheating on my mom with some broad that he met 2 weeks ago at some cheap restraunt that me and my mom where also eating at...
    Emeraldstone1 Emeraldstone1 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2012

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    Greedy Bastard

    I hate my father. I mean i literally hate him. Since the day i was born everything about him has been about child support. He's one of those people who would sell one of their own children for $20 trust me and he would do it for less if he had to. this man has put me, my brother...
    navi1234 navi1234 18-21 4 Responses Aug 1, 2011

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    Short rant I guess - every person

    that my mother talks to, he feels the need to threaten them until they stop talking to my mom because he is so scared of us leaving when he doesn't really care at all. He needs to man the hell up. If we leave it's his ******* fault and everybody knows it and don't you...
    me856 me856 16-17, F Dec 23, 2013

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    Ever Since I Remember

    I cant even remember the day I realized that I will always despise my own flesh and blood. I blame him for my negativity, insecurity, depression, and my disgust in most men. No offense to the good men out there. I just have trust issues and have constant need for love and comfort...
    voodoogirl88 voodoogirl88 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    Another Hate Story

    My respected father married my mother for her money...he was a suicidal useless creature who couldnt earn a proper living..still cannot....its my moms money that we survive on....works hard...despite her ailing health...but he just wouldnt give a ****. A quintessential male...
    3 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    If My Dad Died...i Would Be Ok With That....

    I cannot stand my father. I was born into a relgious family so expectations of reading scriptures etc. have always been high. My father is and has been a football coach since before I was born and was never around when me and my 3 other siblings grew up. When he was spending...
    fEDuP32 fEDuP32 18-21 4 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    My Critical Dad

    I spoke with my dad tonight. After speaking with him I have an almost physical reaction. I can´t sleep so I am here now- trying to share to find a way to deal with so many years of hate. I just want him out of my life right now. But I can´t do it. All the things...
    richard28 richard28 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 9, 2010

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    My Dads "nice" Shell

             Before you read this article, let me tell you that for years i have tried pretending that i don't hate my dad. I have given him the respect that he would deserve if he wasn't an *******, but now finally I have realized that i need to stop. I had...
    gabrielmayer gabrielmayer 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 17, 2009

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    OK to Hate Your Dad

    It's OK to hate your father.  Many dads deserve that emotion to be applied to them.  Usually, it is because the hated man cares more about himself than his family.  Get over his guilt trips.  Get over his invocation of "honor thy father" and all...
    baddadd baddadd 36-40 18 Responses Oct 19, 2008

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    He Is The Worst Person Ever Lived

    Try living with a dad that treats you like a punching bag. When he gets mad at some random ****, he beats the **** out of me for NO REASON. He is the reason why I have to wear long sleeves and gloves all the time,  And all his curses and his insults made me feel like i am not...
    itsara itsara 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2011

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    Hate Is A Strong Word- But It Ain't Even Close To Strong Enough To Truely Describe Exactly How Much I Loathe You Dad.

    Fear. Terror. Torment. How I lived 18 years of what should have been a lovely childhood, thanks to the absolute dickhead of my father. No freedom, only fear and constant worry. Somebody please, save me.
    xxeva xxeva 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2012

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    I lie to my friends and tell them my father died

    when I was 16. He is the biggest disappointment and I feel sorry for whoever is dealing with him right now. He is the biggest alcoholic and I'm like 98% sure he smokes crack. He leaves horrendous messages on my mothers voicemail at 3am calling her a fat pollack **** even though...
    stinkerpink stinkerpink 22-25, F Dec 17, 2013

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    I Hate My Father, And I Have No Feelings Towards Him.

    I hate my Dad so much he disgust me. His voice, his face, his existence. I wish he was dead and away from me. His a plague. My mom and dad were force into a marriage by my church. He married my mom because he had too not wanted too. My dad was crazy something my mom didn't know...
    123hurt 123hurt 18-21 6 Responses Jun 11, 2012

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    Never Change

    I'm normally nice, shy and understanding person. I think hate is strong word. But when it comes to my father, I can barely tolerate him anymore. Most days I try to avoid him and hardly say anything to him. Today he ask me (not really asking) to help him to put tape on the back on...
    dianacruz dianacruz 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    A Waste Of 15 Years

    I really need someone to message, to talk too one on one, some that will listen to me. talk to me about all of the sh*t the man i used to call my father put me through.....please send me a message!
    bellwiza bellwiza 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    There's A Difference Between A Father And A Dad

    The ***** donating @ssbag that was once called my Father was an evil SOB that cared for absolutely no one else and got off on hurting children. He was as child molesting rapist that would take his anger out on his children.  He is now believed to be dead.  I have had no...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 Nov 9, 2012

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    Living Under A Tyrant II

    So my hate for him is so pure. I have never felt anything more surely or wildly. He takes my money, any pet that I want, he took a t.v I bought. It's not fair to become a bloodsucking leech. I hate him so much. Sometimes I wish I could run away and be free of him. I hate him. I...
    Pariah22 Pariah22 22-25, F May 6, 2013

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    I Hate Men Because Of Him

    I can't look at men in the eye. I don't think I will ever be able to have a healthy relationship with a man. I blame my father. My father is an alcoholic. He has forced my mother, sister, and I out to a hotel, only once, but he gets violent quickly when he is pissed off and...
    grrrrrrrrrrr9999 grrrrrrrrrrr9999 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2011

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    I Hate My Father and Will Never Forgive Him

     I really hate my dad, and I don't think I can find it in my heart to love him. When I was little he'd beat me over the stupidest ****. Now I think about it, it was ridiculous. He's beat me over a math problem, always striking my head, or he'd beat me because I played too...
    cherishxme cherishxme 18-21 5 Responses Aug 22, 2008

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    Yesterday my father had stopped speaking to me,

    his lat words were: 'I have no problem disowning you. Never talk to me again...' I was so hurt I couldn't believe my own father would say that to me. He is not ideal, he cheated on my mum when she was pregnant with my little sister. He told her he doesn't want a 3rd child. After...
    zoe1809 zoe1809 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    Trying To Move On And Forget

    I was in my late twenties and had a stable childhood with happy times and a strong family. Easter weekend three years ago, I went home for the long weekend and went to a yoga class in my hometown. When I came home I found my mom sitting on her bed staring at the cordless phone...
    HopeJoyLovePeace HopeJoyLovePeace 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2012

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    Hated With A Passion

    My Dad said "Most people don't collect antique garbage" and I said back "Most people don't collect antique **** either" and he said "Then why do I have you?" Joking of course, but what the hell was he trying to get out of me!? That cheeky little un-trusting smile I can't stand...
    FuHoLe FuHoLe 22-25 Jun 19, 2012

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    I Hate My Father

    The earliest memory I have in life is when the fire trucks came to my house when my little brother died in his crib. I was 3 years old.  The first memory I can bring to my mind of my father was him dragging my unconscious mother by her hair down the hallway to their...
    earlbowden earlbowden 46-50, M 11 Responses Apr 2, 2008

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    Living Under A Tyrant

    Let's talk about my father. Lets pretend the internet is a silent psychiatrist, or a prisoner that is forced to listen to people whine. But this is not a rant. This is genuine. We have a strict traditional Pakistani joint family system. Which means my father being the eldest...
    Pariah22 Pariah22 22-25, F May 6, 2013

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    I Hate My Dad With A Deep Passion.

    Hello everyone. I'm a very young girl in her teenage years. All I can say that's very straightforward is that I hate my dad with a passion.   I know many people have stories that are more worse than mine. This is why I joined this group. My dad..is the most hypocritic...
    Rain72 Rain72 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 6, 2009

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    Two Faced

    My father is very popular to all who know him. The exceptions are my mother, my sister, and myself. Outwardly he is an amazing person, the ideal type of father everyone wants. He complusively lies - even when he doesn't have to do so - and I guess this must make his charade...
    Zeldalynn Zeldalynn 16-17, F 14 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    My Father Doesn't Know That Respect Is Earned

    I have decided to write down my feelings towards my father. I hope it will help me. When I was younger he couldn't deal with a teenager having her own opinions. He hit me a few times when I talked back to him. He still believes it's my fault that he did that. He thinks that just...
    dcha9031 dcha9031 22-25 3 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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