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I Hate My Father With a Passion

Hate is a strong word - Pain can make you feel this way, 422 People

    It seems to me that when I was a child,

    my father would beat me for some stupid stuff. When I was in elementary school I get hit because I got an F, if I fell over, left the fridge open, got more B's than A's, or never spoke to him. Not to mention the fact that when I was bullied my father only made me feel worse and...
    xXTHETRUEPOWERXx xXTHETRUEPOWERXx 13-15, M 1 Response May 1

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    Why Me?

              Okay, my life story: There were five kids before me...four boys and a girl...the last boy died...as he was born...you know what else? I didn't know this until my sixth birthday...before my sixth birthday, I didn't realize it...
    Deadbeat101 Deadbeat101 13-15 2 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    Me and my dad almost never hug,

    or say I love u to one another. He doesn't believe in tears bc they show weakness. He is extremely strict and has anger issues. He was suppose to go to therapy... But sadly he thinks he doesn't belong there. I can't get through to my dad, does anyone have an idea!
    ForeverMe101 ForeverMe101 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 4

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    Ever Since I Remember

    I cant even remember the day I realized that I will always despise my own flesh and blood. I blame him for my negativity, insecurity, depression, and my disgust in most men. No offense to the good men out there. I just have trust issues and have constant need for love and comfort...
    voodoogirl88 voodoogirl88 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    Due to devotion. That won punishment.

    Instead of reward. Was he horrid. Have heard of worse. But horrid is my pick of adjectives.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    To my "dad", When I was little,

    you used to be everything to me. I looked up to you. You were the best dad ever. But that was back when my mom used to dress me in pink dresses and all things girly. Back when I was "perfect"; all that changed when I started to become my own person. I started dressing myself...
    Fabihurtado123 Fabihurtado123 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    Living Under A Tyrant

    Let's talk about my father. Lets pretend the internet is a silent psychiatrist, or a prisoner that is forced to listen to people whine. But this is not a rant. This is genuine. We have a strict traditional Pakistani joint family system. Which means my father being the eldest...
    Pariah22 Pariah22 22-25, F May 6, 2013

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    I used to be such a daddy's girl.

    ...He was the man I respected and loved most...He had never laid his hands on me and he was always patient with my complicated character...Well now I am 18 and my senior year is coming to an end..A few months ago I was so stressed about my studying that I came home and started...
    Neverforgetthepain Neverforgetthepain 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 2

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    Another Hate Story

    My respected father married my mother for her money...he was a suicidal useless creature who couldnt earn a proper living..still cannot....its my moms money that we survive on....works hard...despite her ailing health...but he just wouldnt give a ****. A quintessential male...
    3 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    My father left me when I was a kid not

    even born. From then on I felt betrayed. No one to take me fishing or to give me a pat on the back. But that didn't hinder me from success don't rely on somebody for success be your own motivation and self support. My father failed himself not me.
    uzair97 uzair97 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    I Hate My Dad With a Passion

    My Dad used to beat me and I never knew when it was coming. I could never do anything to please him. I tried and tried through the years to have a relationship with him. The last straw was when the house I had been buying from him for 5 years he evicted me from because I was late...
    mls0126 mls0126 46-50 2 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    Emotionally Abused Us

    My father, by economic standards, is a successful man. And he got to where he is through years of hard work and dedication. But I won't remember him for his secure job or for his service to the community or for the awards he won. I'll remember him for the times he shouted at us...
    chalkdust chalkdust 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 7, 2009

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    My father left when I was 2 months old

    and it's been like 15 almost 16 years now and it never really bothered me until a few years ago when I really started to notice, things in my life and my mom and sister where placed in different environments. He was called and asked if he wanted to meet me by a government worker...
    abrokendreamer abrokendreamer 13-15, F 2 Responses May 1

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    If My Dad Died...i Would Be Ok With That....

    I cannot stand my father. I was born into a relgious family so expectations of reading scriptures etc. have always been high. My father is and has been a football coach since before I was born and was never around when me and my 3 other siblings grew up. When he was spending...
    fEDuP32 fEDuP32 18-21 4 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    Daddy's Little Girl

    I've probably written a hundred pages discussing my relationship with my father. I've written about it for 14 years, spoken about it with countless friends, my mom, my brother. And after every single conversation, every single venomous word written, the only thoughts I have are...
    flipgirl6886 flipgirl6886 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    I Want To Kill Him

    Over the last few weeks I've developed this real intense anger towards my father. How dare you call yourself my dad?? You're not my dad. You're only my father. A dad loves and protects his children. Unlike you. You beat me. You molested me. You hurt me all the time. Physically...
    Flyingsnake Flyingsnake 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    He's an idiot, useless,

    and borderline annoying. He can't/ won't do anything right, and he's extremely petty. He can't ever talk to you directly about a problem, he only texts. He's a complete and utter waste of time. He only pretends to be an actual parent, to impress his friends (who all hate him, by...
    YoungAndAwkward YoungAndAwkward 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    Sometimes I Feel Like He's A Truly Bad Person.

    My mom is away in the other hemisphere to be with her dying mother. My dad is here. I wish I were with my mom right now. My dad is not supporting her at all (that I know of). We had this conversation in the car the other day: my sister: I get out of track practice at 4:30...
    lolamento lolamento 16-17 Feb 26, 2012

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    I hate the man who calls me his daughter.

    My who life all i wanted was daddy. Not just any daddy, but my daddy. The one who donated his dna to my gene pool. In May of 2010 to my suprise I found him in Montana State Prison serving time for felony assult/burglary. That right there should have sent me running, but it didn...
    karenwarden karenwarden 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    As much as I hear people talk about there father

    so nicely. I can never ever thank my father for anything. He never did anything for me and never does now... I'm 16 and never did he call once to tell me Happy Birthday, or congratulate me on graduation. If he cared he would have came to my graduation and supported me. I...
    sweetlove2014 sweetlove2014 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    Hate You

    U know u were never there for me u were never there to help me ,all what  u kept telling me is make me proud soon well fk you dad.and all this acomplishments i have made in my life it like never happened and when i do mistakes u are there to point them out and to judge me...
    ADAMTISMS ADAMTISMS 22-25, M Jan 4, 2010

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    I Hate My Father, And I Have No Feelings Towards Him.

    I hate my Dad so much he disgust me. His voice, his face, his existence. I wish he was dead and away from me. His a plague. My mom and dad were force into a marriage by my church. He married my mom because he had too not wanted too. My dad was crazy something my mom didn't know...
    123hurt 123hurt 18-21 6 Responses Jun 11, 2012

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    My "real" father. When I was little.

    My father and me were very close. My family were. We are seen as a perfect family and i thought it is. My dad is Japanese and my mom is a Filipino. We live in the Philippines. My dad lives at Japan to work returning to our place for 1 month every 6 months. I have one brother and...
    azyleak azyleak 22-25, F Aug 31

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    Short rant I guess - every person

    that my mother talks to, he feels the need to threaten them until they stop talking to my mom because he is so scared of us leaving when he doesn't really care at all. He needs to man the hell up. If we leave it's his ******* fault and everybody knows it and don't you...
    me856 me856 16-17, F Dec 23, 2013

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    Two Faced

    My father is very popular to all who know him. The exceptions are my mother, my sister, and myself. Outwardly he is an amazing person, the ideal type of father everyone wants. He complusively lies - even when he doesn't have to do so - and I guess this must make his charade...
    Zeldalynn Zeldalynn 16-17, F 14 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    I Hate My Father With A Passion

    I hate my father for a big reason, he thinks I should be a damn robot. First off I am not a robot. Secondly I hate the fact that he a hypocrtic, One time I was @ home with my dad and we decided to do some yard work okay. And then my big brother comes home and then like I told my...
    jhgirl jhgirl 22-25 2 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    I Hate My Father

    The earliest memory I have in life is when the fire trucks came to my house when my little brother died in his crib. I was 3 years old.  The first memory I can bring to my mind of my father was him dragging my unconscious mother by her hair down the hallway to their...
    earlbowden earlbowden 46-50, M 11 Responses Apr 2, 2008

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    I lie to my friends and tell them my father died

    when I was 16. He is the biggest disappointment and I feel sorry for whoever is dealing with him right now. He is the biggest alcoholic and I'm like 98% sure he smokes crack. He leaves horrendous messages on my mothers voicemail at 3am calling her a fat pollack **** even though...
    stinkerpink stinkerpink 22-25, F Dec 17, 2013

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    I truly believe an absent deadbeat 'dad' is

    better than a deadbeat dad that is a part of your life. I'm 41 and have four kids that I am raising just fine. My father, who should never have had kids at all thinks he can have a do over by parenting my kids and now has the audacity to say I am not fit to be a mother!!!!! I...
    fitwith4 fitwith4 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    I Hate My Father and Will Never Forgive Him

     I really hate my dad, and I don't think I can find it in my heart to love him. When I was little he'd beat me over the stupidest ****. Now I think about it, it was ridiculous. He's beat me over a math problem, always striking my head, or he'd beat me because I played too...
    cherishxme cherishxme 18-21 7 Responses Aug 22, 2008

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    I understand he's my father

    and all and he's done so much to help me along the way but I can't stand him. It's a shame too because he always wanted a son and I feel like I'm not living up to his standards. I play a lot of video games. It's my passion and the way I like to spend my down time. He would...
    adav218 adav218 13-15, M Jun 29

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    Honestly, I Don't Believe That Family Is Important...

    Well, It's been awhile since anything big happened in my family regarding my father. And that's exactly the problem, NOTHING'S HAPPENING. I'd rather have him let me openly wrench my heart out and make me cry and hate him all the more, but he's just been playing it low profile and...
    Forsaken101 Forsaken101 13-15, M 1 Response May 30, 2012

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    One Question, "Why?"

    I really can't remember how this all started. I mean when my father started resenting and ultimately hating me as I have grown into an adult. Part of me always wanted to shy away from writing this, but it wasn't until my Psychiatrist & my therapist suggested I explore writing...
    jsnlambert jsnlambert 31-35, M May 31, 2013

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    I Want To Move Out..

    I am a 15 year old brown or South Asian girl.. We live in a family or society.. People are worried more in what others think about us.. I live in NY.. But for many family or parent problems, I want to move out.. My dad wants to live his own life and wants money from my mom.. My...
    BrownGirrl BrownGirrl 18-21, F 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    Wisdom

    Who would have thought my feelings would attract such an audience. The sad part of it all is that I don't hate my father with a passion. I love my father and my family. Never-the-less, I do hate the pain I feel, and every day I pray for Peace. For me and everyone in the same...
    shakaindy shakaindy 56-60, F 1 Response May 31, 2013

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    In my house everything we eat is healthy

    and my father really cares and always goes hiking. A couple years ago I use to go with him because I didn't want him to be angry at me but one day I told him that hiking and running is his hobby not mine. We never east junk food everything is healthy. One day he yelled at me...
    hannahabraham hannahabraham 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    The Jerk

    He was a distant self-righteous alcoholic who used us as punching bags at his whim. I understand why my siblings have cut off all contact with him.  I have not spoken to him since 1995 until today.  I told him I hope he burns in hell and it felt so good.  I...
    middlechild2 middlechild2 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2009

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    I wouldn't say hate..

    . Haven't talked to him in over a year now, don't plan on it either. It sucks to see people hold on to the pain from some event in their life. I wouldn't be where I am now if it wasn't for him. Even using him as an example of "how not to be" has helped.
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M Jul 21

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    Living Under A Tyrant II

    So my hate for him is so pure. I have never felt anything more surely or wildly. He takes my money, any pet that I want, he took a t.v I bought. It's not fair to become a bloodsucking leech. I hate him so much. Sometimes I wish I could run away and be free of him. I hate him. I...
    Pariah22 Pariah22 22-25, F May 6, 2013

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    My Dads "nice" Shell

             Before you read this article, let me tell you that for years i have tried pretending that i don't hate my dad. I have given him the respect that he would deserve if he wasn't an *******, but now finally I have realized that i need to stop. I had...
    gabrielmayer gabrielmayer 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 17, 2009

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    I'am numb because of you.

    Because of you I'm afraid. Afraid to love, or to get my hopes up. But I do thank you. For making me realize that no one in this ******* world is worth loving because in the end they'll just ******* drop me at any point in time. Thank you father for showing me that you should...
    RecklessXO96 RecklessXO96 18-21, M Aug 10

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    I hate my father. Everyday is a new problem.

    I'm 14 and I just started high school I show self confidence but I am really am insecure. I use to live with my mom but she abused me now me and my sister live with my dad. He subtly calls me fat. He would say you need to work out before you turn out like Tasha (my dad's really...
    Jailalee Jailalee 18-21 Jan 5

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    OK to Hate Your Dad

    It's OK to hate your father.  Many dads deserve that emotion to be applied to them.  Usually, it is because the hated man cares more about himself than his family.  Get over his guilt trips.  Get over his invocation of "honor thy father" and all...
    baddadd baddadd 36-40 18 Responses Oct 19, 2008

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    My dad is self centered,

    i lived with my mother growing up and she could hardly make ends meat,my dad refused to pay child support and moved away, there was a few times i went without good shoes settling for old holey ones.i asked him if he could just do me one thing and buy my ring for senior year,he...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F Jul 26

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    Yesterday my father had stopped speaking to me,

    his lat words were: 'I have no problem disowning you. Never talk to me again...' I was so hurt I couldn't believe my own father would say that to me. He is not ideal, he cheated on my mum when she was pregnant with my little sister. He told her he doesn't want a 3rd child. After...
    zoe1809 zoe1809 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    My Father Doesn't Know That Respect Is Earned

    I have decided to write down my feelings towards my father. I hope it will help me. When I was younger he couldn't deal with a teenager having her own opinions. He hit me a few times when I talked back to him. He still believes it's my fault that he did that. He thinks that just...
    dcha9031 dcha9031 22-25 3 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    I come home, a 22 yr old college student to

    find my father in his late 30s standing behind the door. He pushes in really fast and in my reaction I slam the door back at him. In my shock and rage I don't even remember what I said but by what my brother tells me I must've said "hell" What the hell is wrong with you? Why...
    isodole isodole 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I feel like ****... I hate this. 72 hours clean :'(
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    :'( I hate it like this is the 12th time this month that we fight isn't that bad but then he said that we should breakup if this keeps going:(:(:(:(:(:(:( But I thought we were...
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