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I Hate My Father

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    When I was a teenager

    and I was a sixth former ,I had couple weeks left until my exams came up. One day I was revising for my sociology exam, then my heck of my father came in and told me to iron everyone clothes. I told him I had my exams in a couple days but he didn't listen to me and told me to...
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 May 3

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    for he blames everyone else in the family

    when he cant handle the situation. He says he's sorry over and over, but I have given up on forgiving him.
    lowerthanl0w lowerthanl0w 13-15 1 Response Mar 29

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    I hate my dad so much.

    my other three sisters hate him too. we beg our mom to divorce him and to leave him but she can't because we need the money he gets from his job. we are so poor and my mother can't work because she has a medical problem. my dad acts like some retarded person. he is so annoying...
    anonymoussas anonymoussas 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Ever since I was a child,

    age 5, my father made a promise to me; one that kept close to my heart. He told me 'No matter what, I will always be there for you.' and I believed him. Once he told the that, it began to snow; ever since then, I called it the 'Snowy Promise'. My father suddenly stopped talking...
    AmaterasuNoOkami AmaterasuNoOkami 18-21, F May 28

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    I haven't seen mine in 4 years.

    I really don't care. There is a lot of excess baggage. I'd rather not have him around. Sounds harsh but I just don't want to deal with him. The only time he ever contacts me is if he wants something. It has been that way for 25 years.
    sillyboy5 sillyboy5 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 15

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    It is kind of annoying,

    in my culture, the father name comes right after your name. So I have my father name stuck to my name. I wonder if it would be appropriate to refer to him as just an M. after my name and follow my name directly by my grandfather name (who my mum says was a kind man), or follow...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Jun 19

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    No matter what I tell you,

    you don't hear the words. No matter how oblivious you are to my actions you only see me failing to be your perfect child. I hate you. Thanks for giving me something to model my life around. I now know I want to be nothing like you. Now please dismiss this post as the rants of an...
    Untrustworthy117 Untrustworthy117 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I Hate My Father, Want To Disown Him

    Seriously, its difficult for me to believe what impact do bad karmaas have on one's life, as it is only my karmaas that have led me to live with the kind of person whom I am forced to call my father. He biologically has a connect with me in terms of being my father but then was...
    Angeloffire Angeloffire 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 18, 2010

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    I don't like him. But there are little memories

    I cherish. Right now at this age those feel so bitter. I was at the bus stop and this man walked through the middle of the road to go to this bank. I couldn't help but watch him as he walked away from me..his back turned to me. How he resembled my dad. How he didn't look back...
    AlexisOwO AlexisOwO 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I need a good job very badly

    so i can take my mother and move out I cant see her suffer anymore with that person so called my father
    lonelyplanet777 lonelyplanet777 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    Dad I'm Not A Doll

    I obeyed you from childhood but you ditched me. I worshipped you but you treated me like a **** I asked certain things to buy for me but you did for my brother not me I was kind to you when you made mistakes but you yelled at me when I did them I didnt bad mouth about you to...
    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    On this Father's Day all I have to say is I

    hate you. I have not seen such a selfish person in my entire life. He doesn't have money to pay my exam fee but he has enough money to buy a stupid painting of his niece .he has money to groom his horses which cost double the amount of my fee. I literally loath this man . And I...
    Jaderuby Jaderuby 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I hate my father. He was a drug addict,

    and an abuser. He terrorized me, dragged me through poverty and hell, he ruined my credit (he stole my identity and put two evictions, a bankruptcy, and a 2000 dollar civil issue with Pacific Bell - phone company in California - on my credit. He tried to start a failed...
    rkmarco rkmarco 36-40, F 2 Responses May 8

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    My father was cast in the John Wayne mans man

    type. He smoked and caroused around with what he called "broads" or "dames" he drank and played the horses. He was not the family man type . His life would have been better if he'd stayed single. I will never understand why my parents stayed together,or even why my mother worked...
    ATroubledLife ATroubledLife 46-50, M 1 Response May 2, 2014

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    lordkrishna lordkrishna 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    My dad makes my mom a worse off person

    than she happens to be. And thats a FACT. So if he didnt rant everytime you have to change a curtain or a bulb, housework would have been so easy. And id actually feel like taking part or doing it or whatever. its funny but theres a strange tyranny in my house. And we know...
    WhisperinAngel WhisperinAngel 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I know some people never had father

    and maybe worse, just hear me out. i don't really hate him i just don't like him, he is always angry always yelling at me since i was a kid, i can ignore all that but we never had a "father and son" thing, he never told me q story when i was young, never got me a GameBoy or a...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M 1 Response May 26

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    Today I just experienced the most horrible day.

    My idiot of a father wouldn't listen to my explanation on why I can't pick my my little sister from her after school club. I told him I had an important GP appointment but he wouldn't listen. Which shows that he doesn't care. If my siblings said they were busy he would accept it...
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 May 18

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    I kind of feel bad for posting this,

    but I need advice. My dad is a smart man. However, that's the only quality he has. He's lazy and has severe anger issues. He always blame others for his mistakes and he has no sense of logic. It's impossible arguing with him since he only cares about his opinion. I could be...
    chosen442 chosen442 16-17, M 2 Responses May 25, 2014

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    I hate my father so much.

    He pressurize me so much that i want to commit suicide. But I dont have the guts to do so and i still have people to live for... but my father is gonna confiscate my laptop and my phone and i wont be able to get in contact with the people im living for.
    ItsXainSF ItsXainSF 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    Sharing A House With The Devil/ My Father.

    Since the day i can remember i hated my father. By the age of 7 i rember saying how I wish he would die. He has been abusing me and my brother emosionally and phisacly . I always stood up to him,then i would get the beating of my life. By the age of 14 we moved to Cape Town...
    AdriaanM AdriaanM 22-25 1 Response Aug 11, 2013

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    He Doesn't Even Deserve The Title

    As some just might know, I haven't seen him since I was three. A few years ago, little Green wanted to know who Daddy was, and to say the least, was terribly disappointed, repeatedly. Apparently, "Dad" doesn't want anything to do with me, and just walked out when responsibility...
    GreenManley GreenManley 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    I have a father who did most of the things

    anyone here could mention. He left when I was three. Has been gone for more than twenty years. (Even as we speak, he is with another woman, I believe with kids too) Coming home for a day or two then leaving for years. His absence has had a toll on the kind of man I've turned out...
    Mutiso Mutiso 26-30, M Jan 10

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    Today

    Today I remembered how as a child I used to write suicide letters. They weren't your typical "goodbye" letters but more like "God, why?" letters. Each one of those letters ended up behind my dresser. Funny, that rhymes. God did answer me. whenever the slightest thought of...
    HopelessInMiami HopelessInMiami 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    You wonder why I don't talk to you!

    Maybe it's because no matter what I do, I'm not good enough for you! Doesn't matter what it is, I will never be good enough. You know what! I'm my own person and don't have to be good enough for anybody but myself. So **** you! I do not care what you have to say! I'm gonna do...
    CheerleaderEm CheerleaderEm 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    Couple of years ago, my father verbally abused

    me to start my driving theory test revision but I was busy soon my school work. I hate him, he only cares about himself. He is a selfish bastard. I wish he dies and go to hell. It's my choice when I am going to my theory test not his.
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 May 19

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    When I was a kid, my father gave me the belt.

    He taught me so much. I learned that he was ******* and not to follow his pathetic example of life.
    MeadowLark4 MeadowLark4 18-21 1 Response Jun 25

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    Growing Up

    My father has made a huge impact on my life growing up, negatively. But then I realized that I have become such a better person because of it. I am mature, doing well in school, and determined to achieve my goals. Because of you, dad, I am a strong person, something you can never...
    xPriyax xPriyax 18-21, F May 12, 2013

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    Where Can I Get A New Father From?

    I've always been emotionally hurt because of my father. I've never felt like I have a father, he's physically there, but emotionally, he's absent. I've never felt that paternal affection, he's personality is so complicated, I've always tried so hard to create that father and son...
    ichbinverloren ichbinverloren 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    I hate you very much.

    You are the reason for everything going wrong in my life.
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2014

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    I Hate My Father.

    Ever since I was little I can remember having a certain level of hate for my 'father', he never abused me or my siblings, but he has and never will be my father. Why? Because he honestly does neglect me and he has done for my entire life. Not once has he ever said he loves me and...
    Watson003 Watson003 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I hate my father. I hope one day he picks up

    and leaves and never looks back or idk... Maybe die.... Either one works just fine with me. This old bastard already has one foot in the grave. Just waiting for him to out the other foot in so we can put the nails in the casket and wish his old swiveled up mean *** fare...
    BlackBuddafly88 BlackBuddafly88 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27

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    BeautifulMistake21 BeautifulMistake21 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    Sometimes it hurts so much to say this things.

    I hate him because he things I'm worthless and he says mean things to me all the time. I hate him so much because he is a teacher in my school. I never tell my classmates that he is my father because I hate him. I hate him because he is a bitter man and a hypocrite "feeling...
    lavendermist07 lavendermist07 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I dont know if hate is a big word.

    .i just dont love him. He cheated on my mom and hes going to get married soon. I cant stand the idea and i dont stand even looking him in the eye. He doesnt even feel guilty he believes that its his right being a muslim to marry 4 women. He doesnt want to give my mother a divorce...
    ineedtotalk92 ineedtotalk92 22-25, F Apr 5

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    Hate the Asswipe I'm Still Living With.

    firstly....I ABOLUTELY HATE MY FATHER. i'm a 16 year old girl who has had enough of everything about that ******. 1. from a very young age he calls me fat and fat girl. I remember waking up one dy realising h e was right...this began my vicious cycle of binging purging fasting...
    acb123 acb123 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2008

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    I will be spending this father's day alone like

    usual....considering that he pushed me away for drugs and hated me my whole life but now he's in prison for the third time in four years..but I just wanted to say 8 hope your happy with the way your life played out....happy father's day
    FindWhatMakesYou FindWhatMakesYou 13-15, M Jun 21

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    My father is the definition of a serial cheater

    and baby maker. He has 6 children and with 4 different women. I hate him so much and I let him know it but honestly I don't think that affects him. He talks so much **** about how he does all these things. The thing is he didn't raise me and I hate him for it. I grew up with my...
    MeepingSophia MeepingSophia 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    Maybe he is why I always have my guard up.

    Maybe he is why I can't trust anyone. Maybe he is why I cry myself to sleep at night.
    jvolost jvolost 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2014

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    I hate my dad ,because he's treated me like

    crap my entire life.I can't be an adult he won't let me.I am old enough to make my own choices.He also hit my mother.i can't forgive him for what's his down to her or me.
    punkglampire punkglampire 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I hate him, really, I hate this old man,

    I wish he got the **** out of my sign, I wish I had someplace to go now, I hate him, I wish I could get the **** out of here as soon as possible, shame on you! He can't teach me and my younger sister anything, he's stupid who acts like crazy, ******* stupid, he's good for...
    LuckyLam LuckyLam 18-21 Oct 18, 2014

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    My life would be better without my dad.

    Sad, but true. He is selfish and has anger issues. He is very stubborn too. He doesn't like to listen to what anyone says even if they are right. He spends money on unnecessary items for himself instead of buying groceries for the family. He complains about everything. The...
    VVVKayKayVVV VVVKayKayVVV 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    Today my father verbally abused me

    because I wouldn't sign someone's permission. As he has time that I saw plenty off, he should just sing it . Why ask me? If I am busy doing my own work. If he gave it to me I will sign it whenever I want
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 1 Response May 2

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    Happy fathers day from the daughter

    who was never good enough for you. Cant believe I stayed up and cried because I never got a card from you. You used me as a pay check and a chick magnet. You didnt even tell them I was your daughter you said you were watching me for a friend. When I proudly always said you were...
    KiraRawr KiraRawr 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I Can't Forgive Or Forget.

    I really can't, I've tried so many times. He has 'changed' says my grandparents and his new wife. But there will always be a part of me that wont forgive him, he can't just expect to be gone out of my life for years and years and then show up and be super dad. It's just not how...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    I liked some Face-Book page a

    while back as it had some funny comments and posts; they used to crack me up so I thought to myself: why not have some laughs for a change? I ended up un-liking the page for different reasons, which I may write about here in other stories, mainly because of some annoying and...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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