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I Hate My Father

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    Maybe he is why I always have my guard up.

    Maybe he is why I can't trust anyone. Maybe he is why I cry myself to sleep at night.
    jvolost jvolost 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I know hate is a strong word but,

    can you blame me after what he put me, my siblings, and my mother and I through. A lot of stuff that had happened has built up my hatred for my father, but this is something I'm never going to forget. One night a bunch of screaming, shouting, and objects smashing was heard from...
    RoyaleChick RoyaleChick 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    He Doesn't Even Deserve The Title

    As some just might know, I haven't seen him since I was three. A few years ago, little Green wanted to know who Daddy was, and to say the least, was terribly disappointed, repeatedly. Apparently, "Dad" doesn't want anything to do with me, and just walked out when responsibility...
    GreenManley GreenManley 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    I'm Not Saying This Lightly

    I hate him. He's been terrible to me. And now he's even worse. He hates me. He always has. I used to be his scapegoat when I was 3 to 4. He used to beat me up and leave me bruised. He can't do that now but he now tries to embarass me and humiliate me in every way possible. I...
    Dragon3lf Dragon3lf 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 2, 2013

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    I Can't Forgive Or Forget.

    I really can't, I've tried so many times. He has 'changed' says my grandparents and his new wife. But there will always be a part of me that wont forgive him, he can't just expect to be gone out of my life for years and years and then show up and be super dad. It's just not how...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Where Can I Get A New Father From?

    I've always been emotionally hurt because of my father. I've never felt like I have a father, he's physically there, but emotionally, he's absent. I've never felt that paternal affection, he's personality is so complicated, I've always tried so hard to create that father and son...
    ichbinverloren ichbinverloren 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    I hate him because he hates me

    and has never made me feel like he cares the slightest bit. Every time I'm a little cranky, like everyone is in the morning, he yells at me and tells me to not act like a little ***** all the time. Whenever I don't do something, like a chore, exactly right and exactly as he...
    winterpoppy winterpoppy 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    Time Doesn't Make It Better

    I thought as my Dad got older he would get better, maybe mature, see the light. I've been sooooo disappointed. Ever since my mom & dad divorced in 83", he's been on a downward spiral. It's as if my mother was the best thing that ever happened to him. My mom divorced him for...
    chukaberry chukaberry 31-35 1 Response Nov 30, 2013

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    When I was younger all I knew was your name

    Because when I was born I was given it as a middle name I always wondered what you were like and where you were or if you thought about me or my younger sister As I got older I heard more about how me and my sister looked just like you But I didn't know if that was good or bad...
    Alisaperne6446 Alisaperne6446 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2013

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    My Father Will Never Change

     every week with him is a constant struggle. i am a 17 year old female and i live ALONE with my father. i used to live with my mom and brothers but i left to another country to live with my dad and experience how we'd get along. that was a HUGE mistake.. he is the most...
    lolablack lolablack 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 15, 2008

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    ok so i know im at that age

    where everything my parents do may seem horrible, but my father has been terrifying me for years. he never had a father since his died when he was young and then he went to the military. I can say that my father doesn't know how to raise a family. there are times i remember him...
    Llamaglama Llamaglama 13-15, F Jan 20

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    Because he's an angry,

    resentful, violent, and childish f***. Why have a child if you didn't want it and thought it would ruin your life? Why even make the effort to be part of your child's life if all you ever want to do is call it a "worthless little *****" and tell it how much you regret the fact...
    fthis fthis 26-30 Feb 6

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    My father totally f*cked me up.

    what i remember of him is of a selfish lazy peedo ***** who lied to his family treated us like crap and then went on to destroy his family.He cheated on my mother with a 14 year old lied about it and when he was found out he said evil and cruel things about me and my sister (and...
    BenjaminChapman BenjaminChapman 18-21, M Mar 23

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    I really try not to hate anyone.

    But he has broken that. He's abusive. He doesn't love me. I told him if he truly loves his children, he'd give up the alcohol. He told me he will never give it up. Do you know how much it hurts to have beer chosen over you? A beverage chosen over your life? Your existence? He's...
    alienlullaby alienlullaby 16-17, F Jan 7

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    My father used to be my idol

    when I was small, but know I hate him with a fiery passion. When I was 8 years old I found out that he sleeps with other women. I found this out because of some pictures I saw in his phone. In my religion, it's wrong for the husband to be unfaithful to his wife and vice versa...
    Yasora Yasora 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    He expects me to report back to him,

    he thinks I'm still his child . He should've listened to me about not marrying so quickly especially in my birthday month. To me he is dead . He killed my mother
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I have never met my father.

    When i was eleven months old my mom took me and left my dad because of his abusive behavior. Since then my mother has raised me with only the help of my grandmother. I am now about to turn 19, and for the past year i haven't been able to stop thinking about who my father is...
    gaeson3 gaeson3 18-21, M Jan 11

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    I tried to sustain my fear

    and hatred against him. I tried to put myself in his shoes. I tried to make sure that i didn't make any mistake that make him shamed. I tried to make sure that I will be responsible for myself as much as possible. He is a coward outside. he liked to cry and beg in front of...
    InFiDeL0020 InFiDeL0020 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    Hate the Asswipe I'm Still Living With.

    firstly....I ABOLUTELY HATE MY FATHER. i'm a 16 year old girl who has had enough of everything about that ******. 1. from a very young age he calls me fat and fat girl. I remember waking up one dy realising h e was right...this began my vicious cycle of binging purging fasting...
    acb123 acb123 16-18, F 2 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    Dad I'm Not A Doll

    I obeyed you from childhood but you ditched me. I worshipped you but you treated me like a **** I asked certain things to buy for me but you did for my brother not me I was kind to you when you made mistakes but you yelled at me when I did them I didnt bad mouth about you to...
    psycruler psycruler 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    Growing Up

    My father has made a huge impact on my life growing up, negatively. But then I realized that I have become such a better person because of it. I am mature, doing well in school, and determined to achieve my goals. Because of you, dad, I am a strong person, something you can never...
    xPriyax xPriyax 16-17, F May 12, 2013

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    I love you dad. I too did my part.

    Your eldest daughter is a brat.
    HopelessInMiami HopelessInMiami 26-30, F Dec 9, 2013

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    He's So Mean...and I Hate Him To Death!

    Okay... just now I had some quarrel with him and I felt no one in this world could understand me how I'm feeling from the bottom of my heart right now...  A few weeks ago , they ( my parents ) started to strict with me , my curfew , hangouts with friends and stuffs...
    Drunkiss Drunkiss 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2010

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    Any word i say, any word

    that comes out of my mouth might exasperate him. I always have to watch my mouth. And when i do that he beats me and yells my mom for that. He accuses her for me being wrong. I just wanna leave the house but i cant because i am under age and me and my mother need his money for...
    letshare letshare 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Problems

    When I was younger my father used to hit me a lot but then I grew up and he stopped, instead it all got worser. He yells at me a lot, tells me how bad I am! What happend yesterday was just it. I came home from praying with a friend and cleaned up my room. Then I slept and he...
    Shabi97 Shabi97 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2013

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    Today

    Today I remembered how as a child I used to write suicide letters. They weren't your typical "goodbye" letters but more like "God, why?" letters. Each one of those letters ended up behind my dresser. Funny, that rhymes. God did answer me. whenever the slightest thought of...
    HopelessInMiami HopelessInMiami 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    he dont like me.i hate him.

    he beats my mother.talks bad words.talks bad with me. i hate him
    siriph8 siriph8 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    My father is the definition of a serial cheater

    and baby maker. He has 6 children and with 4 different women. I hate him so much and I let him know it but honestly I don't think that affects him. He talks so much **** about how he does all these things. The thing is he didn't raise me and I hate him for it. I grew up with my...
    MeepingSophia MeepingSophia 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    I Can't Let Go of My Hatred

    Every time he opens his mouth to speak it angers me; I don't want to hate him as much as I do but I can't control it. I've tried forgiving him on countless occasions but I just can't do it; I can't forget all the things he did to my mother, and all the things he did to our family...
    Debaser85 Debaser85 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 3, 2009

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    My father would shout

    as loud as he could whenever he feels a little unhappy or when people has made / said / done something that he feels undesirable. He is a very hot tempered and rude father only when he is in bad mood. Certainly I have get affected physically and mentally. I feel like I will...
    YoursTruly88 YoursTruly88 26-30 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    I wish I could live with my mom.

    :( My dad is an alcoholic and he abuses me everyday. I try to go get help but he stops me from even leaving the house..! I just don't know what to do anymore. Someone please help?
    CadyWelch CadyWelch 13-15, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    My step father raping me has gotten out of

    control now. He does it in the evenings when my mom leaves for work, and does it late at night when no one is awake; I'm too afraid to speak up or tell anyone. He will do what he says he'll do cause he's so violent..., I really need someone to talk to. Someone who will talk to...
    TristenJSmith TristenJSmith 13-15, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I just want to destroy his life bc he destroyed

    mine , he's the worst father ever , I've never see someone like him even in movies .
    emkayonexx emkayonexx 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I am the oldest daughter i have two sisters

    next to me and two brothers younger than me .. we all live with our parents. but my father seem to have same unusual complex about friendship where he can abandon us in any time in exchange of his own desires he tries a lot of time to do that but he know mom wouldn't stand...
    Hebatallah Hebatallah 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    Nothing TO hate. Take

    that how you will.
    FloatingStoutCotton FloatingStoutCotton 18-21 Apr 5

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    My father had been the main reason

    for all the pain I have ever felt in my entire life. Everything bad that has happened to me has lead back to him being the cause of it in some way. He's an abusive good for nothing piece of **** who abuses me every time he's around. And it's not just me, he does the same thing...
    carmel421 carmel421 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    I Hate My Father.

    Ever since I was little I can remember having a certain level of hate for my 'father', he never abused me or my siblings, but he has and never will be my father. Why? Because he honestly does neglect me and he has done for my entire life. Not once has he ever said he loves me and...
    Watson003 Watson003 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    My Father

    *I will refer to my biological father as SJW in this story.   Hate is a strong word that tend to avoid, but I truly hate my father. SJW is a convicted sex offender. SJW molested my sister when she was two and me when I was four. SJW also raped our thirteen-year old...
    zaqim zaqim 16-17, F Jul 31, 2008

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    I Hate Him

    I really just can't stand him. My parents have been fighting and yelling at each other since I can remember. Despite that I used to love my dad. It wasn't until my mom told me that she didn't love my father that reality sunk in. I was still in elementary school when she told...
    nvr4gtor4gv nvr4gtor4gv 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    this may sound a bit too much,

    since my father is the person whom i should respect and all but,,,hes totally lazy, may be the ideal dictionary meaning of lazy, he doesnt work at all most of the time and always scolds our shop (because he is too lazy to work), my mom runs the shop most of the time, but lately...
    falcon2397 falcon2397 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 16

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    I Hate My Father, Want To Disown Him

    Seriously, its difficult for me to believe what impact do bad karmaas have on one's life, as it is only my karmaas that have led me to live with the kind of person whom I am forced to call my father. He biologically has a connect with me in terms of being my father but then was...
    Angeloffire Angeloffire 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 18, 2010

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    Maybe I Should Just Wait For It To Become A Reality.

    I don't hate him, I don't think that I "on a personal level" hate anyone in the world, I don't see that anyone has given me a serious reason to hate them like they have done a real evil unethical thing that led me to HATE them, I am not sure how can I know if I hate someone or...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    How Could You Leave Her?

    - Unlike other people on here who bemoan their fathers leaving I had my father from conception until a week after my 18th birthday exactly. He wasn't perfect but I don't hate him for his shortcomings. I hate him for shooting himself and leaving my mother to bare the grief of the...
    BlipsieSwag BlipsieSwag 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 11

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    Love/Hate, Such A Thin Line....

    I was thankfully raised by my grandparents from 3 weeks on. But, when I would visit my parents, my dad was a drunk and was abusive.  By abusive, I mean I watched him try to throw my mom off the balcony, and also watched him push her into the tub when she was 6 months pregnant...
    Mom2IrishTwins Mom2IrishTwins 26-30, F Apr 17, 2013

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    Well I had a dad before.

    Now I'm only left with a powerful enemy. As a child I was always neutral in whatever my thoughts or acts were. I loved both my mum and dad as much even if my dad was not nice to my mum and to us. He dominated on my mum and abused a lot. Also, he scold at us, beat us sometimes...
    MD09 MD09 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    Sharing A House With The Devil/ My Father.

    Since the day i can remember i hated my father. By the age of 7 i rember saying how I wish he would die. He has been abusing me and my brother emosionally and phisacly . I always stood up to him,then i would get the beating of my life. By the age of 14 we moved to Cape Town...
    AdriaanM AdriaanM 22-25 1 Response Aug 11, 2013

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