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I Hate My Father

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    Proof After All These Years- While rooting

    around for something while still living with my parents in high school I stumbled upon a collection of unsent letters. They were written by my father in his native language(so my mother wouldn't know what was said) and addressed to me from him. I tucked them away and forgot...
    FutureMaxiSurgeon FutureMaxiSurgeon 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    for he blames everyone else in the family

    when he cant handle the situation. He says he's sorry over and over, but I have given up on forgiving him.
    lowerthanl0w lowerthanl0w 13-15 1 Response Mar 29

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    My father is the definition of a serial cheater

    and baby maker. He has 6 children and with 4 different women. I hate him so much and I let him know it but honestly I don't think that affects him. He talks so much **** about how he does all these things. The thing is he didn't raise me and I hate him for it. I grew up with my...
    MeepingSophia MeepingSophia 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    Today I just experienced the most horrible day.

    My idiot of a father wouldn't listen to my explanation on why I can't pick my my little sister from her after school club. I told him I had an important GP appointment but he wouldn't listen. Which shows that he doesn't care. If my siblings said they were busy he would accept it...
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 a week ago

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    BeautifulMistake21 BeautifulMistake21 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    I Can't Forgive Or Forget.

    I really can't, I've tried so many times. He has 'changed' says my grandparents and his new wife. But there will always be a part of me that wont forgive him, he can't just expect to be gone out of my life for years and years and then show up and be super dad. It's just not how...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Dad I'm Not A Doll

    I obeyed you from childhood but you ditched me. I worshipped you but you treated me like a **** I asked certain things to buy for me but you did for my brother not me I was kind to you when you made mistakes but you yelled at me when I did them I didnt bad mouth about you to...
    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    He gets drunk every night making excuses of

    money problem due educational loan he took for me. In the morning he again becomes good person but that lasts only for few hours. Today my blood was boiling when he was talking all rubbish and then he started crying saying he is under lot of pressure. I really don't know what to...
    lonelyplanet777 lonelyplanet777 22-25, M Jan 29

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    Couple of years ago, my father verbally abused

    me to start my driving theory test revision but I was busy soon my school work. I hate him, he only cares about himself. He is a selfish bastard. I wish he dies and go to hell. It's my choice when I am going to my theory test not his.
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 6 days ago

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    I hate my father because he hates me.

    I've had enough of trying to build a relationship with him an am now convinced he hates my existence. He's someone who would blatantly show favouritism towards my brother in front of me. He likes his son so much he doesn't need a daughter apparently. All he ever knows how to do...
    MouldyLatte MouldyLatte 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    My dad makes my mom a worse off person

    than she happens to be. And thats a FACT. So if he didnt rant everytime you have to change a curtain or a bulb, housework would have been so easy. And id actually feel like taking part or doing it or whatever. its funny but theres a strange tyranny in my house. And we know...
    WhisperinAngel WhisperinAngel 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I haven't seen mine in 4 years.

    I really don't care. There is a lot of excess baggage. I'd rather not have him around. Sounds harsh but I just don't want to deal with him. The only time he ever contacts me is if he wants something. It has been that way for 25 years.
    sillyboy5 sillyboy5 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 15

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    Where Can I Get A New Father From?

    I've always been emotionally hurt because of my father. I've never felt like I have a father, he's physically there, but emotionally, he's absent. I've never felt that paternal affection, he's personality is so complicated, I've always tried so hard to create that father and son...
    ichbinverloren ichbinverloren 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    No matter what I tell you,

    you don't hear the words. No matter how oblivious you are to my actions you only see me failing to be your perfect child. I hate you. Thanks for giving me something to model my life around. I now know I want to be nothing like you. Now please dismiss this post as the rants of an...
    Untrustworthy117 Untrustworthy117 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 9

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    Hate him for the bad memories,

    the abuses, the insults, the blackmails and the cynicism that makes it so hard to believe people.
    Sicknconfused Sicknconfused 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2014

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    I hate him, really, I hate this old man,

    I wish he got the **** out of my sign, I wish I had someplace to go now, I hate him, I wish I could get the **** out of here as soon as possible, shame on you! He can't teach me and my younger sister anything, he's stupid who acts like crazy, ******* stupid, he's good for...
    LuckyLam LuckyLam 18-21 Oct 18, 2014

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    I Hate My Father, Want To Disown Him

    Seriously, its difficult for me to believe what impact do bad karmaas have on one's life, as it is only my karmaas that have led me to live with the kind of person whom I am forced to call my father. He biologically has a connect with me in terms of being my father but then was...
    Angeloffire Angeloffire 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 18, 2010

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    Funny how i'm gonna post this,

    for all my life i was shown a world of flawless perfection and how i must be perfect, i'm Asian and my father doesn't understand me, he makes me question my heritage and beliefs too. Like "Confucius says" or "tiger parent". Also he is afraid to admit things like if got...
    nothingtospare nothingtospare 18-21, F 2 Responses May 21, 2014

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    Maybe I Should Just Wait For It To Become A Reality.

    I don't hate him, I don't think that I "on a personal level" hate anyone in the world, I don't see that anyone has given me a serious reason to hate them like they have done a real evil unethical thing that led me to HATE them, I am not sure how can I know if I hate someone or...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I don't like him. But there are little memories

    I cherish. Right now at this age those feel so bitter. I was at the bus stop and this man walked through the middle of the road to go to this bank. I couldn't help but watch him as he walked away from me..his back turned to me. How he resembled my dad. How he didn't look back...
    AlexisOwO AlexisOwO 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    lordkrishna lordkrishna 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    He was always a crazy guy

    but truly crazy. I mean he was hitting me and my little sis for eating, playing or watching TV. He was hitting my mom in front of my eyes. He did never let me call a friend at our house to play, while I was a little kid. He was every night out for a drink at some dirty...
    lizablack lizablack 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2014

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    Male Gene Donor, I hate you.

    All my life I have tried to forgive, to reconnect, to ignore, to move on, turn a blind eye, to understand. I am tired of trying. Today you once again proved what an aggressive and negative idiot you truly are although you try to make the world think differently. I remember...
    NowRadiate NowRadiate 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 9, 2014

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    Today it's Mother's Day in France.

    I wanted this day to be a beautiful day for my mum, so I gave her gifts and smiled at her, made her laugh... And my father stayed on the computer. He didn't say a word, he didn't help her to clean the house, like every single day. He didn't do anything for her, he didn't care...
    Eryalina Eryalina 18-21, F 1 Response May 25, 2014

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    I am a father and you readers will perhaps one

    day be a father or mother. You will see your hatred differently if and when you become a parent. Hate makes everything worse
    steelponyrider steelponyrider 51-55, M 3 Responses Feb 25

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    I absolutely hate my father,

    and I'm the type of person that loves everyone even if they hate me. Pretty much wish he was in hell http://youtu.be/5OW_bd1UjqM I wish he was my father. He understands But no my father had a kid and doesn't want to even say I love u let alone help.
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F Oct 20, 2014

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    Maybe he is why I always have my guard up.

    Maybe he is why I can't trust anyone. Maybe he is why I cry myself to sleep at night.
    jvolost jvolost 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2014

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    So yesterday was wrenching

    for me. My father took my door off so I won't have privacy. I yelled at him for taking my phone away and he made me clean the bathroom. I don't know why we're arguing again. This shouldn't happen at all. But the thing that gives me on my nerves is that he predicts my life. He...
    gorgeusgirlSky3 gorgeusgirlSky3 13-15 Jan 20

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    Sharing A House With The Devil/ My Father.

    Since the day i can remember i hated my father. By the age of 7 i rember saying how I wish he would die. He has been abusing me and my brother emosionally and phisacly . I always stood up to him,then i would get the beating of my life. By the age of 14 we moved to Cape Town...
    AdriaanM AdriaanM 22-25 1 Response Aug 11, 2013

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    I Hate My Father.

    Ever since I was little I can remember having a certain level of hate for my 'father', he never abused me or my siblings, but he has and never will be my father. Why? Because he honestly does neglect me and he has done for my entire life. Not once has he ever said he loves me and...
    Watson003 Watson003 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I hate my father with a passion!

    You expect me to build a bond with you when its too late for that. I'm 19 now and he missed 5 years of that for something stupid. He missed my graduation, he never came to my honor assemblies, and missed other important things in my life. What is the point of being in my life...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I hate my father so much.

    He pressurize me so much that i want to commit suicide. But I dont have the guts to do so and i still have people to live for... but my father is gonna confiscate my laptop and my phone and i wont be able to get in contact with the people im living for.
    ItsXainSF ItsXainSF 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    Growing Up

    My father has made a huge impact on my life growing up, negatively. But then I realized that I have become such a better person because of it. I am mature, doing well in school, and determined to achieve my goals. Because of you, dad, I am a strong person, something you can never...
    xPriyax xPriyax 18-21, F May 12, 2013

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    I hate my father. I hope one day he picks up

    and leaves and never looks back or idk... Maybe die.... Either one works just fine with me. This old bastard already has one foot in the grave. Just waiting for him to out the other foot in so we can put the nails in the casket and wish his old swiveled up mean *** fare...
    BlackBuddafly88 BlackBuddafly88 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27

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    I have a father who did most of the things

    anyone here could mention. He left when I was three. Has been gone for more than twenty years. (Even as we speak, he is with another woman, I believe with kids too) Coming home for a day or two then leaving for years. His absence has had a toll on the kind of man I've turned out...
    Mutiso Mutiso 26-30, M Jan 10

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    Hate the Asswipe I'm Still Living With.

    firstly....I ABOLUTELY HATE MY FATHER. i'm a 16 year old girl who has had enough of everything about that ******. 1. from a very young age he calls me fat and fat girl. I remember waking up one dy realising h e was right...this began my vicious cycle of binging purging fasting...
    acb123 acb123 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2008

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    I'm new to this experience thing.

    But The reason I joined is so that I could write about my feelings towards my "dad". Ever since I was little he's really been nothing more than a coach and a provider to me. He thinks thinks that just because he pays the bills and helps pay for some of my athletic gear that he...
    aloflo aloflo 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    You wonder why I don't talk to you!

    Maybe it's because no matter what I do, I'm not good enough for you! Doesn't matter what it is, I will never be good enough. You know what! I'm my own person and don't have to be good enough for anybody but myself. So **** you! I do not care what you have to say! I'm gonna do...
    CheerleaderEm CheerleaderEm 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    well yeah i hate him

    because he never loved me and my mom., even he doesn't care about us ....,i have seen him to abuse my mom.,idk why my mom still live with him while he is like a devil for me.
    xandrays xandrays 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    I actually really hate you,

    all you've ever done is want to keep up appearances within the ******* Sri Lankan community. Why won't you let me be yourself?!?! Why?! I can't go out for longer than 2 hours incase, God forbidden, some brown person sees me and talks "bad" about me. I can't stay out later than...
    ihatemyfamily7 ihatemyfamily7 18-21, F Dec 31, 2014

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    When I was a teenager

    and I was a sixth former ,I had couple weeks left until my exams came up. One day I was revising for my sociology exam, then my heck of my father came in and told me to iron everyone clothes. I told him I had my exams in a couple days but he didn't listen to me and told me to...
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 1 Response May 3

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    All of my life he has just been this person

    that has always been emotionally abusive to my entire family. More than once my siblings and i had to step in between him and my mom just so he wouldn't hit her. I never knew my oldest brother because he chased him out of our home just because he stepped up to him. My mom used...
    evangeline6667 evangeline6667 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2014

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    Today

    Today I remembered how as a child I used to write suicide letters. They weren't your typical "goodbye" letters but more like "God, why?" letters. Each one of those letters ended up behind my dresser. Funny, that rhymes. God did answer me. whenever the slightest thought of...
    HopelessInMiami HopelessInMiami 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    I hate my father. He was a drug addict,

    and an abuser. He terrorized me, dragged me through poverty and hell, he ruined my credit (he stole my identity and put two evictions, a bankruptcy, and a 2000 dollar civil issue with Pacific Bell - phone company in California - on my credit. He tried to start a failed...
    rkmarco rkmarco 36-40, F 3 Responses May 8

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    I'm aware that hate is a strong word,

    but i really do hate my father. I don't talk about him much because he isn't worth the time or the energy, but i have to get it out some where. My parents got a divorce 3 years ago because my father cheated on my mother . My father cheated on my mother with his 26 year old...
    stacy0508 stacy0508 18-21, F Jan 12, 2014

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    I remember a time when I took ballet classes

    and my father would pick me up afterwards to fetch me home safely. However there was this incident when I decided to call it quits officially (I was into ballet before this and quit. At this time I took up ballet again because of nostalgia, I guess). On this Friday, I'd lent my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 23, 2014

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