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I Hate My Father

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    I have a father who did most of the things

    anyone here could mention. He left when I was three. Has been gone for more than twenty years. (Even as we speak, he is with another woman, I believe with kids too) Coming home for a day or two then leaving for years. His absence has had a toll on the kind of man I've turned out...
    Mutiso Mutiso 26-30, M Jan 10

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    Dad I'm Not A Doll

    I obeyed you from childhood but you ditched me. I worshipped you but you treated me like a **** I asked certain things to buy for me but you did for my brother not me I was kind to you when you made mistakes but you yelled at me when I did them I didnt bad mouth about you to...
    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    My father has made lot of sins.

    He doesn't deserve to live.
    tik17 tik17 26-30, M Jul 13

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    Wow I don't even know

    where to start….but in a nutshell, my father has been emotionally manipulative and abusive for his entire life. I did not really feel the wrath of his evil nature until I decided to get married. To make a very long story short, he does not want me to get married. I don't...
    kimalee77 kimalee77 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    Hate the Asswipe I'm Still Living With.

    firstly....I ABOLUTELY HATE MY FATHER. i'm a 16 year old girl who has had enough of everything about that ******. 1. from a very young age he calls me fat and fat girl. I remember waking up one dy realising h e was right...this began my vicious cycle of binging purging fasting...
    acb123 acb123 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2008

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    Growing Up

    My father has made a huge impact on my life growing up, negatively. But then I realized that I have become such a better person because of it. I am mature, doing well in school, and determined to achieve my goals. Because of you, dad, I am a strong person, something you can never...
    xPriyax xPriyax 18-21, F May 12, 2013

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    He Doesn't Even Deserve The Title

    As some just might know, I haven't seen him since I was three. A few years ago, little Green wanted to know who Daddy was, and to say the least, was terribly disappointed, repeatedly. Apparently, "Dad" doesn't want anything to do with me, and just walked out when responsibility...
    GreenManley GreenManley 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Well , I won't say that I love my father ,

    he never let us travel or go out especially me , I always feel that he hates me , because he treats my big brother very nicely , to be honest I feel that I live in a prison , I just want to go out and discover more people , but no he always tells me that you are a girl so stay...
    XxSarahx XxSarahx 18-21 Jul 10

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    My father decided to evict me by placing all of

    my belongings into the trash. What a miserable SOB.
    LfeSzdBarbie LfeSzdBarbie 26-30, F Jul 14

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    Today

    Today I remembered how as a child I used to write suicide letters. They weren't your typical "goodbye" letters but more like "God, why?" letters. Each one of those letters ended up behind my dresser. Funny, that rhymes. God did answer me. whenever the slightest thought of...
    HopelessInMiami HopelessInMiami 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    I will be spending this father's day alone like

    usual....considering that he pushed me away for drugs and hated me my whole life but now he's in prison for the third time in four years..but I just wanted to say 8 hope your happy with the way your life played out....happy father's day
    FindWhatMakesYou FindWhatMakesYou 13-15, M Jun 21

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    Today I had a reuniting with my father.

    Today he has verbally abused me again, but this time it was more hurtful as he was interfering with my private life, which has nothing to do with him. This is because he disowned me years ago. I just wish he would die or leave me alone.
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 Jul 21

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    You wonder why I don't talk to you!

    Maybe it's because no matter what I do, I'm not good enough for you! Doesn't matter what it is, I will never be good enough. You know what! I'm my own person and don't have to be good enough for anybody but myself. So **** you! I do not care what you have to say! I'm gonna do...
    CheerleaderEm CheerleaderEm 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I hate how of all people my dad tried telling

    me to be responsible when he abandoned me and every other member of the family. I am responsible unlike him, nothing but a dead beat father
    forgottenluna forgottenluna 18-21, M Jul 19

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    Behenchod ne mera jeena haraam kar rakha hai.

    Main paagal ho gaya hun aise baap se -_- Aisa lagta hai ki main sach mein paagal ho jaunga. Yeh mera baap hai, mann karta hai ki Guillotine par uska sar rakh kar kaat daalun. Kata hua sar mummy ko bhej dun aur baaki body ko Punching Bag bana kar roz laat aur ghoosay maarun. Agar...
    zemli zemli 22-25, M Jul 7

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    I Can't Forgive Or Forget.

    I really can't, I've tried so many times. He has 'changed' says my grandparents and his new wife. But there will always be a part of me that wont forgive him, he can't just expect to be gone out of my life for years and years and then show up and be super dad. It's just not how...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    I'm new to this experience thing.

    But The reason I joined is so that I could write about my feelings towards my "dad". Ever since I was little he's really been nothing more than a coach and a provider to me. He thinks thinks that just because he pays the bills and helps pay for some of my athletic gear that he...
    aloflo aloflo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    I hate him because he's the reason

    why I've always been so fuc*ing insecure with my body. I'll never be confident or feel good in my skin because since the age of 7 I've been told that I'm fat and ugly and that I need to start to look like a girl. I hate him because he's the reason why I started self harming...
    lenna99 lenna99 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    I hate my father. He was a drug addict,

    and an abuser. He terrorized me, dragged me through poverty and hell, he ruined my credit (he stole my identity and put two evictions, a bankruptcy, and a 2000 dollar civil issue with Pacific Bell - phone company in California - on my credit. He tried to start a failed...
    rkmarco rkmarco 36-40, F 2 Responses May 8

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    My father was cast in the John Wayne mans man

    type. He smoked and caroused around with what he called "broads" or "dames" he drank and played the horses. He was not the family man type . His life would have been better if he'd stayed single. I will never understand why my parents stayed together,or even why my mother worked...
    ATroubledLife ATroubledLife 46-50, M 1 Response May 2, 2014

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    Today it's Mother's Day in France.

    I wanted this day to be a beautiful day for my mum, so I gave her gifts and smiled at her, made her laugh... And my father stayed on the computer. He didn't say a word, he didn't help her to clean the house, like every single day. He didn't do anything for her, he didn't care...
    Eryalina Eryalina 18-21, F 1 Response May 25, 2014

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    I don't like him. But there are little memories

    I cherish. Right now at this age those feel so bitter. I was at the bus stop and this man walked through the middle of the road to go to this bank. I couldn't help but watch him as he walked away from me..his back turned to me. How he resembled my dad. How he didn't look back...
    AlexisOwO AlexisOwO 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Funny how i'm gonna post this,

    for all my life i was shown a world of flawless perfection and how i must be perfect, i'm Asian and my father doesn't understand me, he makes me question my heritage and beliefs too. Like "Confucius says" or "tiger parent". Also he is afraid to admit things like if got...
    nothingtospare nothingtospare 18-21, F 2 Responses May 21, 2014

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    I know some people never had father

    and maybe worse, just hear me out. i don't really hate him i just don't like him, he is always angry always yelling at me since i was a kid, i can ignore all that but we never had a "father and son" thing, he never told me q story when i was young, never got me a GameBoy or a...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M 1 Response May 26

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    Couple of years ago, my father verbally abused

    me to start my driving theory test revision but I was busy soon my school work. I hate him, he only cares about himself. He is a selfish bastard. I wish he dies and go to hell. It's my choice when I am going to my theory test not his.
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 May 19

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    I hate my dad so much.

    my other three sisters hate him too. we beg our mom to divorce him and to leave him but she can't because we need the money he gets from his job. we are so poor and my mother can't work because she has a medical problem. my dad acts like some retarded person. he is so annoying...
    anonymoussas anonymoussas 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    Today I just experienced the most horrible day.

    My idiot of a father wouldn't listen to my explanation on why I can't pick my my little sister from her after school club. I told him I had an important GP appointment but he wouldn't listen. Which shows that he doesn't care. If my siblings said they were busy he would accept it...
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 May 18

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    Today is my youngest son's 4th birthday.

    His grandfather hasn't acknowledged the last 3 birthdays. I've lived in the same house for 11 years, he's been here maybe twice. He doesn't care about me or my family. He said he was no longer my father because I posted something he didn't like on his Facebook page. He would...
    Giskard Giskard 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    When I was a teenager

    and I was a sixth former ,I had couple weeks left until my exams came up. One day I was revising for my sociology exam, then my heck of my father came in and told me to iron everyone clothes. I told him I had my exams in a couple days but he didn't listen to me and told me to...
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 May 3

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    I hate you very much.

    You are the reason for everything going wrong in my life.
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2014

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    Sharing A House With The Devil/ My Father.

    Since the day i can remember i hated my father. By the age of 7 i rember saying how I wish he would die. He has been abusing me and my brother emosionally and phisacly . I always stood up to him,then i would get the beating of my life. By the age of 14 we moved to Cape Town...
    AdriaanM AdriaanM 22-25 1 Response Aug 11, 2013

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    I kind of feel bad for posting this,

    but I need advice. My dad is a smart man. However, that's the only quality he has. He's lazy and has severe anger issues. He always blame others for his mistakes and he has no sense of logic. It's impossible arguing with him since he only cares about his opinion. I could be...
    chosen442 chosen442 16-17, M 2 Responses May 25, 2014

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    Maybe I Should Just Wait For It To Become A Reality.

    I don't hate him, I don't think that I "on a personal level" hate anyone in the world, I don't see that anyone has given me a serious reason to hate them like they have done a real evil unethical thing that led me to HATE them, I am not sure how can I know if I hate someone or...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    My father chose his gf over me almost 2 years

    ago. I'm 15. At the time, my parents had joint custody of me and I switched out between them every Friday. May of 2013, my father sat me down and basically told me that we were moving in with his girlfriend's of 3 years. I didn't want to say how I felt about it because I wasn't...
    Outline Outline 18-21, F Jun 11

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    BeautifulMistake21 BeautifulMistake21 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    I hate him, really, I hate this old man,

    I wish he got the **** out of my sign, I wish I had someplace to go now, I hate him, I wish I could get the **** out of here as soon as possible, shame on you! He can't teach me and my younger sister anything, he's stupid who acts like crazy, ******* stupid, he's good for...
    LuckyLam LuckyLam 18-21, M Oct 18, 2014

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    Happy fathers day from the daughter

    who was never good enough for you. Cant believe I stayed up and cried because I never got a card from you. You used me as a pay check and a chick magnet. You didnt even tell them I was your daughter you said you were watching me for a friend. When I proudly always said you were...
    KiraRawr KiraRawr 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    My life would be better without my dad.

    Sad, but true. He is selfish and has anger issues. He is very stubborn too. He doesn't like to listen to what anyone says even if they are right. He spends money on unnecessary items for himself instead of buying groceries for the family. He complains about everything. The...
    VVVKayKayVVV VVVKayKayVVV 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    I'm aware that hate is a strong word,

    but i really do hate my father. I don't talk about him much because he isn't worth the time or the energy, but i have to get it out some where. My parents got a divorce 3 years ago because my father cheated on my mother . My father cheated on my mother with his 26 year old...
    stacy0508 stacy0508 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2014

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    I Hate My Father.

    Ever since I was little I can remember having a certain level of hate for my 'father', he never abused me or my siblings, but he has and never will be my father. Why? Because he honestly does neglect me and he has done for my entire life. Not once has he ever said he loves me and...
    Watson003 Watson003 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    Maybe he is why I always have my guard up.

    Maybe he is why I can't trust anyone. Maybe he is why I cry myself to sleep at night.
    jvolost jvolost 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2014

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    How can you live with a bad man

    who has affected your and your mother and sisters' lives so negatively. I cannot find away to calm myself. His rude and bad words in his speaking and how he behave us makes me mad. I want to leave the family but what about my mother? He has a very weak character, he just shout...
    maryam85 maryam85 26-30, F Jul 18

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    When I was a kid, my father gave me the belt.

    He taught me so much. I learned that he was ******* and not to follow his pathetic example of life.
    MeadowLark4 MeadowLark4 18-21 1 Response Jun 25

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    Where Can I Get A New Father From?

    I've always been emotionally hurt because of my father. I've never felt like I have a father, he's physically there, but emotionally, he's absent. I've never felt that paternal affection, he's personality is so complicated, I've always tried so hard to create that father and son...
    ichbinverloren ichbinverloren 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    Every year for my birthday,

    he puts a MasterCard Gift card into my mailbox as a gift. We haven't spoken in almost a year. I can't use words strong enough to describe how much I hate this person(I would say man but he isn't one) So instead of using his gift. I took the card, cut it up, put it in an evolope...
    Outline Outline 18-21, F Jul 12

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    I know it's bad to wish someone to die

    but I hope he does. He's a parasite and unreliable. He does nothing but drink.
    alone03 alone03 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13

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