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I Hate My Father

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    I know it's bad to wish someone to die

    but I hope he does. He's a parasite and unreliable. He does nothing but drink.
    alone03 alone03 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    BeautifulMistake21 BeautifulMistake21 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    My father was cast in the John Wayne mans man

    type. He smoked and caroused around with what he called "broads" or "dames" he drank and played the horses. He was not the family man type . His life would have been better if he'd stayed single. I will never understand why my parents stayed together,or even why my mother worked...
    ATroubledLife ATroubledLife 46-50, M 1 Response May 2, 2014

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    Today it's Mother's Day in France.

    I wanted this day to be a beautiful day for my mum, so I gave her gifts and smiled at her, made her laugh... And my father stayed on the computer. He didn't say a word, he didn't help her to clean the house, like every single day. He didn't do anything for her, he didn't care...
    Eryalina Eryalina 18-21, F 1 Response May 25, 2014

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    Where Can I Get A New Father From?

    I've always been emotionally hurt because of my father. I've never felt like I have a father, he's physically there, but emotionally, he's absent. I've never felt that paternal affection, he's personality is so complicated, I've always tried so hard to create that father and son...
    ichbinverloren ichbinverloren 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    Every year for my birthday,

    he puts a MasterCard Gift card into my mailbox as a gift. We haven't spoken in almost a year. I can't use words strong enough to describe how much I hate this person(I would say man but he isn't one) So instead of using his gift. I took the card, cut it up, put it in an evolope...
    0KatieKat0 0KatieKat0 18-21, F Jul 12

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    I Hate My Father, Want To Disown Him

    Seriously, its difficult for me to believe what impact do bad karmaas have on one's life, as it is only my karmaas that have led me to live with the kind of person whom I am forced to call my father. He biologically has a connect with me in terms of being my father but then was...
    Angeloffire Angeloffire 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 18, 2010

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    I hate you very much.

    You are the reason for everything going wrong in my life.
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2014

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    My father decided to evict me by placing all of

    my belongings into the trash. What a miserable SOB.
    LfeSzdBarbie LfeSzdBarbie 26-30, F Jul 14

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    I liked some Face-Book page a

    while back as it had some funny comments and posts; they used to crack me up so I thought to myself: why not have some laughs for a change? I ended up un-liking the page for different reasons, which I may write about here in other stories, mainly because of some annoying and...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    This... is something I've never shared out side

    of my significant other. But I feel, if it's out there, someone somewhere will begin to read this very text and be witness to the release of a horrific past. I just pray for those of you that have found similarities in my past that match your own, find sanctuary in knowing you...
    Discordiah Discordiah 18-21, F Aug 15

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    I don't like him. But there are little memories

    I cherish. Right now at this age those feel so bitter. I was at the bus stop and this man walked through the middle of the road to go to this bank. I couldn't help but watch him as he walked away from me..his back turned to me. How he resembled my dad. How he didn't look back...
    AlexisOwO AlexisOwO 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Wow I don't even know

    where to start….but in a nutshell, my father has been emotionally manipulative and abusive for his entire life. I did not really feel the wrath of his evil nature until I decided to get married. To make a very long story short, he does not want me to get married. I don't...
    kimalee77 kimalee77 31-35, F Jul 27

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    My life would be better without my dad.

    Sad, but true. He is selfish and has anger issues. He is very stubborn too. He doesn't like to listen to what anyone says even if they are right. He spends money on unnecessary items for himself instead of buying groceries for the family. He complains about everything. The...
    VVVKayKayVVV VVVKayKayVVV 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    I hate my dad so much.

    my other three sisters hate him too. we beg our mom to divorce him and to leave him but she can't because we need the money he gets from his job. we are so poor and my mother can't work because she has a medical problem. my dad acts like some retarded person. he is so annoying...
    anonymoussas anonymoussas 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I hate him, really, I hate this old man,

    I wish he got the **** out of my sign, I wish I had someplace to go now, I hate him, I wish I could get the **** out of here as soon as possible, shame on you! He can't teach me and my younger sister anything, he's stupid who acts like crazy, ******* stupid, he's good for...
    LuckyLam LuckyLam 18-21, M Oct 18, 2014

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    Lies,lies,and lies! My Uncles Were My Role

    Models and I Owe My Life To Them- My younger sister and I resided in the home of our paternal grandparents with our grandmother as primary caregiver. My father's stepfather her husband was often abroad working. His two sons with my grandmother, my paternal uncles, fulfilled the...
    RunEun RunEun 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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    Today

    Today I remembered how as a child I used to write suicide letters. They weren't your typical "goodbye" letters but more like "God, why?" letters. Each one of those letters ended up behind my dresser. Funny, that rhymes. God did answer me. whenever the slightest thought of...
    HopelessInMiami HopelessInMiami 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    Sometimes it hurts so much to say this things.

    I hate him because he things I'm worthless and he says mean things to me all the time. I hate him so much because he is a teacher in my school. I never tell my classmates that he is my father because I hate him. I hate him because he is a bitter man and a hypocrite "feeling...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I hate how of all people my dad tried telling

    me to be responsible when he abandoned me and every other member of the family. I am responsible unlike him, nothing but a dead beat father
    forgottenluna forgottenluna 18-21, M Jul 19

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    I kind of feel bad for posting this,

    but I need advice. My dad is a smart man. However, that's the only quality he has. He's lazy and has severe anger issues. He always blame others for his mistakes and he has no sense of logic. It's impossible arguing with him since he only cares about his opinion. I could be...
    chosen442 chosen442 16-17, M 2 Responses May 25, 2014

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    Hate the Asswipe I'm Still Living With.

    firstly....I ABOLUTELY HATE MY FATHER. i'm a 16 year old girl who has had enough of everything about that ******. 1. from a very young age he calls me fat and fat girl. I remember waking up one dy realising h e was right...this began my vicious cycle of binging purging fasting...
    acb123 acb123 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2008

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    How can you live with a bad man

    who has affected your and your mother and sisters' lives so negatively. I cannot find away to calm myself. His rude and bad words in his speaking and how he behave us makes me mad. I want to leave the family but what about my mother? He has a very weak character, he just shout...
    maryam85 maryam85 26-30, F Jul 18

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    When I was a kid, my father gave me the belt.

    He taught me so much. I learned that he was ******* and not to follow his pathetic example of life.
    MeadowLark4 MeadowLark4 18-21 1 Response Jun 25

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    Happy fathers day from the daughter

    who was never good enough for you. Cant believe I stayed up and cried because I never got a card from you. You used me as a pay check and a chick magnet. You didnt even tell them I was your daughter you said you were watching me for a friend. When I proudly always said you were...
    KiraRawr KiraRawr 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Funny how i'm gonna post this,

    for all my life i was shown a world of flawless perfection and how i must be perfect, i'm Asian and my father doesn't understand me, he makes me question my heritage and beliefs too. Like "Confucius says" or "tiger parent". Also he is afraid to admit things like if got...
    nothingtospare nothingtospare 18-21, F 2 Responses May 21, 2014

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    I will be spending this father's day alone like

    usual....considering that he pushed me away for drugs and hated me my whole life but now he's in prison for the third time in four years..but I just wanted to say 8 hope your happy with the way your life played out....happy father's day
    FindWhatMakesYou FindWhatMakesYou 13-15, M Jun 21

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    Today I had a reuniting with my father.

    Today he has verbally abused me again, but this time it was more hurtful as he was interfering with my private life, which has nothing to do with him. This is because he disowned me years ago. I just wish he would die or leave me alone.
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 Jul 21

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    Parents are not supposed to have favourites.

    But that's not the case with my father, I am one of nine children and my whole life my father has been comparing me to my perfect sister. My sister always had good grades, lots of friends and a few years ago married a perfect boy from a well known family, and promptly moved to...
    KatnissGranger KatnissGranger 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I hate my dad ,because he's treated me like

    crap my entire life.I can't be an adult he won't let me.I am old enough to make my own choices.He also hit my mother.i can't forgive him for what's his down to her or me.
    punkglampire punkglampire 22-25 2 Responses Jun 22

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    What's a good father?

    The one working far away providing all the needs, but has no time to be with the family, a father that has all the time, but can't provide for the family or a father that's there but feels like he's not?
    alone03 alone03 22-25, F Jul 9

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    I'm aware that hate is a strong word,

    but i really do hate my father. I don't talk about him much because he isn't worth the time or the energy, but i have to get it out some where. My parents got a divorce 3 years ago because my father cheated on my mother . My father cheated on my mother with his 26 year old...
    stacy0508 stacy0508 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2014

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    Today my father used me

    as a table, literally used me as a table. He put a glass of juice on to of me without permission, and it accidentally spilled on my clothes and floor. Then he verbally and physically abused me. I was so angry and hurt that I just wanted to die. I just wish he just left me alone...
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 1 Response Aug 11

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    It is kind of annoying,

    in my culture, the father name comes right after your name. So I have my father name stuck to my name. I wonder if it would be appropriate to refer to him as just an M. after my name and follow my name directly by my grandfather name (who my mum says was a kind man), or follow...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Jun 19

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    I hate my father. He was a drug addict,

    and an abuser. He terrorized me, dragged me through poverty and hell, he ruined my credit (he stole my identity and put two evictions, a bankruptcy, and a 2000 dollar civil issue with Pacific Bell - phone company in California - on my credit. He tried to start a failed...
    rkmarco rkmarco 36-40, F 2 Responses May 8

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    I Can't Forgive Or Forget.

    I really can't, I've tried so many times. He has 'changed' says my grandparents and his new wife. But there will always be a part of me that wont forgive him, he can't just expect to be gone out of my life for years and years and then show up and be super dad. It's just not how...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Today my father came to my house

    and I was expecting the day to be fine. But how wrong was I. I was doing the dishes then all he was talking about is how i am washing the dishes wrong. I have been doing the dishes ever since I was 15 and no one complained, and it is how my mother taught me. But all he was doing...
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 Aug 3

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    Maybe I Should Just Wait For It To Become A Reality.

    I don't hate him, I don't think that I "on a personal level" hate anyone in the world, I don't see that anyone has given me a serious reason to hate them like they have done a real evil unethical thing that led me to HATE them, I am not sure how can I know if I hate someone or...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Growing Up

    My father has made a huge impact on my life growing up, negatively. But then I realized that I have become such a better person because of it. I am mature, doing well in school, and determined to achieve my goals. Because of you, dad, I am a strong person, something you can never...
    xPriyax xPriyax 18-21, F May 12, 2013

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    I ******* hate my father he is awful

    why he takes out his anger on us Only if I could leave this ******* house and this ******* family......!
    Jaderuby Jaderuby 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I'm new to this experience thing.

    But The reason I joined is so that I could write about my feelings towards my "dad". Ever since I was little he's really been nothing more than a coach and a provider to me. He thinks thinks that just because he pays the bills and helps pay for some of my athletic gear that he...
    aloflo aloflo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    You wonder why I don't talk to you!

    Maybe it's because no matter what I do, I'm not good enough for you! Doesn't matter what it is, I will never be good enough. You know what! I'm my own person and don't have to be good enough for anybody but myself. So **** you! I do not care what you have to say! I'm gonna do...
    CheerleaderEm CheerleaderEm 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    Today is my youngest son's 4th birthday.

    His grandfather hasn't acknowledged the last 3 birthdays. I've lived in the same house for 11 years, he's been here maybe twice. He doesn't care about me or my family. He said he was no longer my father because I posted something he didn't like on his Facebook page. He would...
    Giskard Giskard 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    My father is the definition of a serial cheater

    and baby maker. He has 6 children and with 4 different women. I hate him so much and I let him know it but honestly I don't think that affects him. He talks so much **** about how he does all these things. The thing is he didn't raise me and I hate him for it. I grew up with my...
    MeepingSophia MeepingSophia 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    I Hate My Father.

    Ever since I was little I can remember having a certain level of hate for my 'father', he never abused me or my siblings, but he has and never will be my father. Why? Because he honestly does neglect me and he has done for my entire life. Not once has he ever said he loves me and...
    Watson003 Watson003 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I know it's not ever good to hate someone

    but I seriously have gave him so many chances to get on good terms with me and he never does. I am so tired of him like to the point where I don't wanna live at home with him anymore. He's always trying to get me into trouble but yet he never see's what I so called 'did' he just...
    JusttMee123 JusttMee123 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 25