I Hate My Father

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    I Hate My Father, Want To Disown Him

    Seriously, its difficult for me to believe what impact do bad karmaas have on one's life, as it is only my karmaas that have led me to live with the kind of person whom I am forced to call my father. He biologically has a connect with me in terms of being my father but then was...
    Angeloffire Angeloffire
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 18, 2010

    What a life? A miserable life we have.

    Can we change the past? Why is it hard for him to accept the things happened before? I know that my father was hurt because my mother cheated on him. It was very sad because I thought he is strong, can forgive my mother and move on. He always drunk, always hurt us physically and...
    simplegirl101 simplegirl101
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    I have a father who did most of the things

    anyone here could mention. He left when I was three. Has been gone for more than twenty years. (Even as we speak, he is with another woman, I believe with kids too) Coming home for a day or two then leaving for years. His absence has had a toll on the kind of man I've turned out...
    Mutiso Mutiso
    31-35, M
    Jan 10, 2015

    Im 20 years old girl.

    ....and i hate my daddy coz he leave us when i was 2 and im the only child i never saw him and i dont want to meet him oh god.. plzz kill my dad plzzzzz i beg of u
    SubhasmilySG SubhasmilySG
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 22, 2015

    All my life I have been hiding my emotions,

    from family and friends. I remember when I was about 5 years old, I asked my dad if he will evver take me to Disney World, and he said, no. I went under the couch and started crying for so long. That was my memory of my dad. My dad is a confused man. He physically and verbally...
    Itshard2forgive Itshard2forgive
    26-30, F
    Dec 28, 2015

    He woke me up from a good sleep at 10 in the

    morning to clean the God damn diches i hope he burns in hell šŸ˜ 
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    2 Responses Mar 11, 2016

    That cheap pastaRd , I told him about my friend

    going to a gym cost 10k a three month for slimming perhaps he will let me go to a cheaper one but instead he kept saying that she is lying and that she is working out ! He thinks all the world are penny pinshing like him
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    2 Responses Oct 19, 2015
    Hammer2222 Hammer2222
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 19, 2015

    I hate my father. He was a drug addict,

    and an abuser. He terrorized me, dragged me through poverty and hell, he ruined my credit (he stole my identity and put two evictions, a bankruptcy, and a 2000 dollar civil issue with Pacific Bell - phone company in California - on my credit. He tried to start a failed...
    rkmarco rkmarco
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 8, 2015

    honestly I wish my ******* father could die I

    ******* hate him for all the **** he put me through. he treats me like trash and my mom wants me to forgive him **** no I'll never forgive him. I've been ignoring him for the past two months( yes I live with him and it ******* sucks ) . it be so awkward and **** cause we don't...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 27, 2015

    My father is the definition of a serial cheater

    and baby maker. He has 6 children and with 4 different women. I hate him so much and I let him know it but honestly I don't think that affects him. He talks so much **** about how he does all these things. The thing is he didn't raise me and I hate him for it. I grew up with my...
    MeepingSophia MeepingSophia
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 17, 2014

    Nice thing about not using real name no one I

    know will see me share real feelings. One being anger/hurt. I'm halfway across the US, miss my friends I grew up with, but a part of me is ok cuz I can avoid my father. I haven't talked to or seen my father in more then 5 years, as far as I know he don't even know he has a...
    Red1098 Red1098
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 23, 2016

    Given a chance, he would

    even try to control my breathing. All he wants out me is to make him look good. All he wants to do is brag about how fine his children have become thanks to his particularly fine upbringing. Truth is, I feel suffocated. When nobody is around us, he will accuse me of being...
    meera168 meera168
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    It was only a year ago

    when he took me away from my mother.She was on drugs.I know all of you must think I should be grateful for being taken away from a drug addict mother, but I'm not.She never did it around me or my brother, she never wanted us to see her like a bad mother. He kept trying to say...
    pikachulover927 pikachulover927
    13-15, M
    1 Response Nov 2, 2015


    Today I remembered how as a child I used to write suicide letters. They weren't your typical "goodbye" letters but more like "God, why?" letters. Each one of those letters ended up behind my dresser. Funny, that rhymes. God did answer me. whenever the slightest thought of...
    HopelessInMiami HopelessInMiami
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 1, 2013

    Today it's Mother's Day in France.

    I wanted this day to be a beautiful day for my mum, so I gave her gifts and smiled at her, made her laugh... And my father stayed on the computer. He didn't say a word, he didn't help her to clean the house, like every single day. He didn't do anything for her, he didn't care...
    Eryalina Eryalina
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 25, 2014

    I'm new to this experience thing.

    But The reason I joined is so that I could write about my feelings towards my "dad". Ever since I was little he's really been nothing more than a coach and a provider to me. He thinks thinks that just because he pays the bills and helps pay for some of my athletic gear that he...
    aloflo aloflo
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2014

    My father was cast in the John Wayne mans man

    type. He smoked and caroused around with what he called "broads" or "dames" he drank and played the horses. He was not the family man type . His life would have been better if he'd stayed single. I will never understand why my parents stayed together,or even why my mother worked...
    ATroubledLife ATroubledLife
    46-50, M
    1 Response May 2, 2014

    Everyday when i did nothing wrong

    that jerk go scold me for nothing! He want to control my life!
    AKB48 AKB48
    16-17, F
    Oct 15, 2015

    Maybe I Should Just Wait For It To Become A Reality.

    I don't hate him, I don't think that I "on a personal level" hate anyone in the world, I don't see that anyone has given me a serious reason to hate them like they have done a real evil unethical thing that led me to HATE them, I am not sure how can I know if I hate someone or...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Oct 21, 2013

    He is not the ideal one,

    always making bad life choices, putting us in loans, having always insufficient money, limiting funds for school & then spending it on stupid stuff as car models ...He is stubborn, is passive over my mother and always wants to be right...talks to me when he needs something or...
    anonymous2626 anonymous2626
    18-21, F
    Dec 1, 2015

    Im so depressed i need someone to talk to i was

    googling how to kill my damn father and this site popped up my story is realy disturbing i need someone to hear me and understand me im seriously losing my mind i need help
    gia89 gia89
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 7, 2016

    my dad gifted me a TV

    for Christmas. key word is gifted there for making me the legal owner of that TV. it never gets used at his place because I go there once a month and I use a smaller screen for my computer I carry around. I want to take it home with me but he won't let be because he think I may...
    haleyroberts haleyroberts
    18-21, T
    Jan 24, 2016

    I Can't Forgive Or Forget.

    I really can't, I've tried so many times. He has 'changed' says my grandparents and his new wife. But there will always be a part of me that wont forgive him, he can't just expect to be gone out of my life for years and years and then show up and be super dad. It's just not how...
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    1 Response Oct 20, 2013

    Growing Up

    My father has made a huge impact on my life growing up, negatively. But then I realized that I have become such a better person because of it. I am mature, doing well in school, and determined to achieve my goals. Because of you, dad, I am a strong person, something you can never...
    xPriyax xPriyax
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 12, 2013

    I liked some Face-Book page a

    while back as it had some funny comments and posts; they used to crack me up so I thought to myself: why not have some laughs for a change? I ended up un-liking the page for different reasons, which I may write about here in other stories, mainly because of some annoying and...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2015

    For the reason he doesn't care about me.

    He's nuts. He's an absolut nonsense. And i can't figure him out. I just wanna go on the street and shooooouuuttttt!!!!
    dzordze dzordze
    22-25, M
    Oct 20, 2015

    I ******* hate my father he is awful

    why he takes out his anger on us Only if I could leave this ******* house and this ******* family......!
    Jaderuby Jaderuby
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2015

    He Doesn't Even Deserve The Title

    As some just might know, I haven't seen him since I was three. A few years ago, little Green wanted to know who Daddy was, and to say the least, was terribly disappointed, repeatedly. Apparently, "Dad" doesn't want anything to do with me, and just walked out when responsibility...
    GreenManley GreenManley
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

    I hate him, really, I hate this old man,

    I wish he got the **** out of my sign, I wish I had someplace to go now, I hate him, I wish I could get the **** out of here as soon as possible, shame on you! He can't teach me and my younger sister anything, he's stupid who acts like crazy, ******* stupid, he's good for...
    LuckyLam LuckyLam
    18-21, M
    Oct 18, 2014

    I don't like him. But there are little memories

    I cherish. Right now at this age those feel so bitter. I was at the bus stop and this man walked through the middle of the road to go to this bank. I couldn't help but watch him as he walked away from me..his back turned to me. How he resembled my dad. How he didn't look back...
    AlexisOwO AlexisOwO
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 1, 2015

    Hate the Asswipe I'm Still Living With.

    firstly....I ABOLUTELY HATE MY FATHER. i'm a 16 year old girl who has had enough of everything about that ******. 1. from a very young age he calls me fat and fat girl. I remember waking up one dy realising h e was right...this began my vicious cycle of binging purging fasting...
    acb123 acb123
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 3, 2008

    My life would be better without my dad.

    Sad, but true. He is selfish and has anger issues. He is very stubborn too. He doesn't like to listen to what anyone says even if they are right. He spends money on unnecessary items for himself instead of buying groceries for the family. He complains about everything. The...
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jun 11, 2014

    I kind of feel bad for posting this,

    but I need advice. My dad is a smart man. However, that's the only quality he has. He's lazy and has severe anger issues. He always blame others for his mistakes and he has no sense of logic. It's impossible arguing with him since he only cares about his opinion. I could be...
    chosen442 chosen442
    18-21, M
    2 Responses May 25, 2014

    I sit there...watching him fling his plate into

    the air like a saucer...I could see the food spilling and spreading all over the house...my mother half-dead because of her fasting,widens her eyes and tears start to roll down... and I just SIT there...WATCHING him.It's hard for a fighter to not fight back...all my life,I have...
    anstein anstein
    18-21, F
    Jan 23, 2016

    My father and step-father are honestly two of

    the worst people I know. My father never did **** for me and spent most of his life doing drugs and hopping from remedial job to job. My step-dad psychologically and every now and then physically attacked me until the age of 17 when he kicked me out because I "was a bad kid...
    Hello1234567899 Hello1234567899
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 23, 2015

    My father suck because he is boring

    as we always go to the same food court for who know, the rest of my life and he think he know everything thing in the world and alway shout at my mother like one time when my father was driving the car to a secondly school to see it for me to choose school I want to go. He...
    Starlight99 Starlight99
    16-17, F
    Dec 13, 2015

    I wish that drunk bastard was dead.

    He says I can never be happy in life, well thank you for filling me with hatred so strong that I do not care if I am killing my life, I will make sure that you do not live happily ever.
    meera168 meera168
    22-25, F
    Nov 25, 2015

    This... is something I've never shared out side

    of my significant other. But I feel, if it's out there, someone somewhere will begin to read this very text and be witness to the release of a horrific past. I just pray for those of you that have found similarities in my past that match your own, find sanctuary in knowing you...
    Discordiah Discordiah
    22-25, F
    Aug 15, 2015

    I hate you very much.

    You are the reason for everything going wrong in my life.
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    Aug 22, 2014

    "Dad" Why did you hate me

    so much??? Don't you remember the time when i loved you to the point where i only wanted to be with you, or the times when we spent hours listening to your records. Much of my taste in music was shaped around the songs we'd listen to back then. Do you ever think about the night...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 8, 2016

    Sometimes it hurts so much to say this things.

    I hate him because he things I'm worthless and he says mean things to me all the time. I hate him so much because he is a teacher in my school. I never tell my classmates that he is my father because I hate him. I hate him because he is a bitter man and a hypocrite "feeling...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 29, 2015

    The thing is im i girl

    and in my country we cant move or say any thing without a permission from the fatherĀ  Im not allow to go to hospital or leave the house cuz my dad hates meĀ  Im so sick i cant call any one no relatives nothing cuz my father banned me he controles every thing i tried contacting...
    gia89 gia89
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2016

    i hate my father for all the right reasons he

    is a liar and a child molester
    Dena999 Dena999
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2016

    You won't believe me

    when I tell you that I still remember a very much old memory, when I was very young, probably not in school yet and I told my mum that my father promised me something, my mum's face expressions were not happy, as if she does not believe the promise and doesn't want me to believe...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2016

    You wonder why I don't talk to you!

    Maybe it's because no matter what I do, I'm not good enough for you! Doesn't matter what it is, I will never be good enough. You know what! I'm my own person and don't have to be good enough for anybody but myself. So **** you! I do not care what you have to say! I'm gonna do...
    CheerleaderEm CheerleaderEm
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2015

    There are days I just don't want a father.

    I just be dead and in hell then be in the same house as him. I hate him so much that I think about leaving and that is hard.
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx
    2 Responses Sep 29, 2015

    Funny how i'm gonna post this,

    for all my life i was shown a world of flawless perfection and how i must be perfect, i'm Asian and my father doesn't understand me, he makes me question my heritage and beliefs too. Like "Confucius says" or "tiger parent". Also he is afraid to admit things like if got...
    nothingtospare nothingtospare
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 21, 2014

    I'm aware that hate is a strong word,

    but i really do hate my father. I don't talk about him much because he isn't worth the time or the energy, but i have to get it out some where. My parents got a divorce 3 years ago because my father cheated on my mother . My father cheated on my mother with his 26 year old...
    Cleopatra05 Cleopatra05
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2014

    Another argument with my father,

    and this time I am super mad. He is such a bastard who makes my life a living hell and I wish that he leaves and never comes back. I want him no longer in my life . I want him to die and rot in hell for an eternity.
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx
    Mar 4, 2016

    i was ambushed by the ***** donor today.

    .. he came to speak to his daughter. Had to be me because i was the only one up at the time. The "conversation" consisted of him showing me his stitches, then sitting around in silence watching tv for the remainder of his visit. i still found myself constantly keeping an eye on...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls
    31-35, F
    Mar 8, 2016

    it's killing frustrating stressing madness

    that even when every one every one says I'm good .successful .good raised . polite. and soo other . (really not showing off I Swear) but although I'm 30 I had never ever ever ever heard my father telling me any good words never "good one , Bravo ,well done, you right. I agree...
    amirfares amirfares
    31-35, M
    1 Response Sep 11, 2015

    Dad I'm Not A Doll

    I obeyed you from childhood but you ditched me. I worshipped you but you treated me like a **** I asked certain things to buy for me but you did for my brother not me I was kind to you when you made mistakes but you yelled at me when I did them I didnt bad mouth about you to...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 1, 2013

    When I was a kid, my father gave me the belt.

    He taught me so much. I learned that he was ******* and not to follow his pathetic example of life.
    MeadowLark4 MeadowLark4
    1 Response Jun 25, 2015

    I probably hate no one

    as much as him- so much that I wouldn't even waste one drop of tears when he'd die. I just can't live with him I even hate it to only see his face. He has done so many f**ked up things to my family and I only think of him as a psycho. The first time I realised that was when I...
    Sugakookie Sugakookie
    18-21, F
    Sep 21, 2015
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