I Hate My Friends

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    I have no friends I can talk to.

    Like sure, we can talk about movies or books. I am even really close to some of them. But my husband and I want more in our lives. We are married and bought a house. We could barely get anyone to come see it. It is like 3 minutes from our last apartment that people regularly...
    bopsy bopsy
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    Went on an outing with some of them today to

    see Into The Woods (loved it) and I could barely stand them the entire time except for one of my close friends. I'm finally branching away from that group though and am going to a party at an old friend's friend's house haha. Can't wait to meet some new people, even if I am a...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 11, 2015

    In one occasion, i called multiple times in

    different times a friend and said come on lets play basketball. Cause we used to play before. Actually. he was my ball buddy. Anyway at first he said "we had a child, i cant come to play right now". Then in our ever last talk he said "i can only come to play after my child grows...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 31, 2015

    I could say I hate my friends

    but that would be lying Sometimes I hate how my. Friends or are as a person see you know I did I cook those friends are for stop talking to them found new people that appreciate me for who I am not for what I do how much money I make how many times I can go out clubbing in the...
    MissRBear MissRBear
    26-30, F
    Feb 7, 2016

    I hate my friends because they make me feel

    inferior, useless and stupid. And this is a problem I've seen throughout time. But it is only now that I see it clearly: they were never my friends, and never will be. In fact, about four years ago, I told my "best friend" that I was depressed. And instead of supporting me, she...
    JuliBeatles JuliBeatles
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    Friendship is overrated.

    Today a "friend" of mine contacted me out of the blue to tell me about a position she was made aware of recently. She knows I have been looking for work and was kind enough to let me know. That was nice enough of her. But she marred her goodwill by stating "Well maybe your...
    bulgarwheat bulgarwheat
    26-30, F
    Dec 17, 2014

    I hate to say this but GEEZ HAS THIS ALWAYS

    BEEN A PROBLEM FOR ME. I actually don't hate my friends but I feel an extreme disconnect from them which is what drove me to download this app in order to meet some new people because I just felt so lonely. I feel like what I truly want to say remains something that I wish to...
    heyimbored224 heyimbored224
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    My Group Is A Bunch Of Douche Bags.

    My group = drama, i dont want to be in this group anymore with these so called "friends" I've come to notice in these past couple months that im not going to treat any of them with respect.... because they will only talk to you if they want something... well most. 80/20bitches...
    lowkey4 lowkey4
    9 Responses Feb 18, 2011

    My best friend is a control freak.

    She will tell me the most hateful thing she can think of to hurt me if the slightist thing doesn't go in her way. recently I was chatting on the phone with her and we were just talking abot smoothies ( nothing of major importance keep in mind) and she heard my boyfriend through...
    Janipp Janipp
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2015

    Seriously, I joined a party to talk to them

    and they start debating who their ex's are and which one was the biggest *****. Really? I Hate how they don't have any freaking respect for anyone.
    Destroyer2266 Destroyer2266
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 27, 2015

    They're relatively awful.

    I constantly feel belittled when I'm around them and they put an intense strain on me. They're all very childish. I don't want to hate them, but its really become something else. I doubt I'll ever find real friends. I don't mind, I guess. I'm not afraid or sad to be alone. It...
    Ophelilac Ophelilac
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 3, 2016

    Well I don't hate all of my friends only some I

    feel this wAy sometimes I don't even know why even right now idk why I am writing this but I will post it anyways.🍓🍎🍉
    Singingbutterfly Singingbutterfly
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 14, 2015

    Do you ever have that one friend

    that you struggle to have an opinion of? One moment super sweet and lovely and gives thoughtful presents but then diplomatically slags people off? I predict there's one in most friend groups
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 9, 2014

    We are all told at young age "faith family

    and friends". I remember growing up and always going to my friends house after school to just hang out and have fun. But as I entered my senior year things started to change.The first three years were pretty fun and I hade a nice girlfriend for about a year and a half and...
    Garrett1212 Garrett1212
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 3, 2014

    I always have to compromise to their needs >.

    < When they ask me for favors, I give my effort and time to them wholeheartedly. Why can't they do the same for me? D:
    olahjagger olahjagger
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 14, 2015

    Im stuck in a group of friends

    who are all girls. Im in highschool and I don't have good relations with some people and it is hard to make friends because people have spread rumors of me. My group of friends are nothing like me and i wish i could leave that group but if i did they would be butt hurt and talk...
    Trinitywalker Trinitywalker
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2016

    I Though They Cared.

    I can't even sit with them at lunch anymore. I thought these people were my friends. What does 'friend' mean? I trusted them. Well one of them. And I told her about my problems. Not all. Just one. Just that I cut. And guess what? I come back to school and I get called names. Emo...
    bladesilverred bladesilverred
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 11, 2011

    I'm always left out. Especially this one friend

    who always left me out. I hate you. You are so fake. you make me feel disgusted.
    SadBeany SadBeany
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2015

    I hate my friends, every single one of them,

    they're just a bunch of stupid, selfish f*ckers who can't seem to get their life together. I'm the smartest one on the group (we're 5), and we all know it, the problem is not much people appreciate intelligence nowadays, so i'm stuck with a bunch of superficial idiots who just...
    PinkBlueyes PinkBlueyes
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2014

    Actually they are two

    or more I hate. They are immature, perverted, always have something dirty on their minds, leave me out of conversations and stuff, hardly don't like me, betrays me, have absolutely nothing to do with me, I'm the total outcast of my friends in all. I'm glad I have a best friend...
    TheSwitchIsNowOFF TheSwitchIsNowOFF
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Dec 18, 2015

    My friends on and off EP are full of 💩!

    !! I hate them so much They are so fake and selfish, but I need them for shopping and gossip. When someone better comes along, Ill dumb them. They have given me nothing but stress and unhappiness for too long.
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 9, 2016

    I went out with two of my best friends

    and they were totally rude to me, like i know that i may not be the prettiest, trendiest person out there, but i have feelings too! it was totally not cool and they kept telling me i was weird or a bummer or how i was being such a let down - just because i didn't want to go...
    hannmuller hannmuller
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    Just because I don't usually go out with my

    them, doesn't mean I don't want to spend some time with them. They've been planning trips without me. What the hell. And here I am still calling you friends. Geez!
    wildflower1992 wildflower1992
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    I don't necessarily hate them.

    I'm just disappointed in them. They put me in an emotional roller coaster and it's become so draining. They haven't done anything to intentionally hurt me. However I know that I can't rely on them. Just the thought of this is draining. I love my friends...i'm just very...
    nostalgickittens nostalgickittens
    18-21, F
    Nov 4, 2015

    I Feel Disconnected Of My Friends.

    It has been a really long time since I've know my close friends maybe more than like 12 or 13 years. So I've been best friends with a girl and then another one came in so we were like 3 best friends. We were best friends for a few years and then my first best friend and I fought...
    JessicaH11 JessicaH11
    Apr 4, 2013

    My "friends"...

    The only time my "friends" ever want to hang out with me is when they want something. The last time one of my "friends" wanted to hang out they wanted $40. The time before that they wanted $20... It's not like I don't try to get a hold of them to see if they want to go and do...
    lyinginwait lyinginwait
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Jul 3, 2012

    Is There Something Wrong With

      so I guess I'm just here to find other people like me. So I really do hate my friends. I have like two close ones one I don't like so much. But seriously the others just suck. They are selfish people and very immature. its hard to get close to them. Oh and I have this one...
    e5r520 e5r520
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jun 14, 2010

    I had classes today but I am not feeling too

    well so I tell my now ex friends that I can't make it so they get upset at me saying your always sick and stuff and accuse me of being a faker. then after that they try to act slick and ask to borrow the charger I had bought. at this point I said **** our friendship and I told...
    SladeBolinLeaderofEp SladeBolinLeaderofEp
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 30, 2015

    My 'friends' (aka basically the only people

    that I have to hang out with) are really mean. They laugh, whine and gossip behind people's backs including eachother. Then they pretend they never said anything about you or whispered some nasty like comment to each other while ur in the other room. They suck ***!
    shan8350 shan8350
    1 Response Nov 30, 2014

    Not all of them and not everyone completely.

    .. My "best friend" admitted that she loves me and texted me 3 days after it - she needed more time. I wasn't hurt but now she acts as if I hurt her! She used to say things just to make me like her. Now she says things to provoke me. My friends at school make a big deal out...
    Vakuum Vakuum
    16-17, T
    1 Response Nov 1, 2015

    Things Will Never Get Better. Ever.

    The general consensus here seems to be 13-17 year olds sharing their experiences but let me tell you, as a man coming up to the ripe old age of 22, yes, I know I'm too old to be posting here but to hell with it, I need a good vent. So, here is my experience not only with what...
    Foreveralone146 Foreveralone146
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2012

    I told my friend about my cutting issue

    and all she said was next time write my name on your skin and I said why and she said because it's funny
    cutsandbruises cutsandbruises
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 14, 2015

    I Hate My Friends

    I'm 18 and I should be too old for this, but I'm so fed up.So I've had this group of friends for about 5 years. This year I turned 18 over summer (when most of them travel), and it's safe to say most of them forgot. For everyone else's 18th there was a social gathering of some...
    euphoreka euphoreka
    1 Response Nov 13, 2013

    I hate my friends... I can honestly say

    that I hate all of my friends, I hate my friends so much so that its like if I meet someone new its better if I dont be friends with them so that way we can be friends if thats understandable at all. I recently got into some trouble and it was highly publicized and it made me...
    bushi132001 bushi132001
    26-30, M
    Oct 22, 2015

    Oh my god. I am sitting in class with 3 of them

    right now. Oh my god. They just don't shut up. The last thing anybody said was "my sweater came in," which made the blonde one laugh. It's funny I guess? They're talking while our teacher talks. I hate when people talk while the teacher talks. They aren't even whispering. The...
    nicoleg7 nicoleg7
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

    I Do Not Belong

    I have had the same group of friends now for what seems like forever. I have never really fit in with them. The older I get the more I realize how much I hate almost everyone that I know. They talk about stupid meaningless things and are so boring that it makes me want to...
    Mingo10 Mingo10
    5 Responses Jul 31, 2009

    I hate my friends so much.

    Sometimes I wish they would disappear. I only use them for company. They are always so uppity. They get on my nerves but I dont even bother to say anything.
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe
    22-25, F
    Sep 30, 2015

    "Friends" my arse. Is it

    so hard to be a decent and nice person and care about simple friendship logic like care about your friend, don't **** with your friend, add to your friend, respect to your friend...etc? Maybe being alone is way better than having stupid friends what do you say?
    deleted deleted
    Oct 31, 2015

    I have a friend that has a boyfriend

    and she's always needy about him like she gets pissed if he cant talk right now or he's handing out with his friends than her..etc. Like let him do what he wants omg. Then After awhile when they were dating and they still are but she's still needy and I share a locker with her...
    absherexoxo absherexoxo
    22-25, F
    Jan 17, 2016

    I don't understand this experience.

    If you hate your friends wouldn't that make you friendless... I'd rather be alone than with people I hate
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

    I bend over backwards to help people

    and make them happy, and I never get shown the same respect. People I thought were my friends are blowing me off now that they have gotten ahead in life, after I sacrificed my own happiness to help them succeed. I want to tell everyone to **** off and have a nice life while I...
    Tabooyou24 Tabooyou24
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2015

    I hate the fact I'm the one making the effort

    yet their planning holidays, nights out Ect without me even though I already suggested that. I'm close friends with three guys I'm starting to wonder if they only think of as a piece of meat.
    AngelOfDeath92 AngelOfDeath92
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 9, 2016

    My friend is so immature

    and selfish and annoying. But I am her only friend. Even if I left her, she wouldn't leave me alone. I have talked about this with my bff and she agrees with me.
    alonelia alonelia
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2015

    my friends are always self centered

    and only talk about themselves, and when I talk about my self they change the subject or cut me off
    LonelyStreets LonelyStreets
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    Ok some 15 years ago this happened.

    I got this very close friend from high school who actually dumped me after we went to the same college. He got himself a new best friend and due to different majors he had lots of different people to hang out. My major was so boring, so I tried to hang out with his new friends...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 31, 2015

    Friends here are such a nuisance!

    It feels like they all just want one thing 😞 I hate it. Boys and girls can just be friends right??? 😕
    AngelOfDeath92 AngelOfDeath92
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2016

    I cannot say I hate my friends.

    But I'm very lonely. There's not even a single one of them I can talk to. I feel really lonely. I recently started working so I have been busy and don't get a lot of time pondering over these things but its a weekend and I'm down with flu and I just feel like crying and talking...
    sayo8 sayo8
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    I Hate My Friends Because I Can't Identify Myself With Them.

    You know the age old saying "Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are." Well, what happens when your "friends" aren't exactly people that you wanna hang out or be affiliated with, but just people you hang out with by default. There's this one friend that I've known for...
    taecsarang1220 taecsarang1220
    4 Responses Mar 12, 2011

    Two of my 'BFFs' are just

    so annoying and i totally hate them. The problem is I dont know if I should just end my friendship with them, cause I'm not close with anyone else or bear with it for another 3 years. One of them, lets call her Gummy Bear for the sake of privacy, is loud and shameless, often...
    haterbutlover haterbutlover
    16-17, F
    Oct 18, 2015

    I wish I had no friends.

    Because it's not worth it to entertain people who pretend to like you. I'm sure not every person hates me but maybe that wouldn't be so bad.
    tolii tolii
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2014

    Arrogant, Lazy, Douchbags

    2 in particular make me feel like ****. They like to take everything I say and twist it, and any idea I have to be proactive gets shot down. I'm so tired of accommodating for their needs. They never accommodate for anyone. They're lazy, useless and arrogant. They do not treat...
    Northern49 Northern49
    10 Responses Jul 9, 2009

    My friends are so immature

    and the only reason i still chill with them is because I have no one else
    emslife emslife
    18-21, F
    Oct 17, 2015

    I hate them when they left me out.

    I hate them when they don't bother about my feelings. I hate them when they are making me upset but still ask if I'm okay. I hate them despite hurting me but still act as a friend with me. I'm not an option to you okay and not a last option to you either!!!!!!
    SadBeany SadBeany
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2015
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