I Hate My Grandmother

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    I Almost Hate My Grandmother

    Β  My mother and i live with my grandmother in her home home along with my 9 year old cousin my mother pays the water, cable and phone bill my grandmother pays the light bill and herΒ  home owners insurance she no longer has a house note to pay her light bill and insurance are...
    eliseelise225 eliseelise225
    Feb 25, 2011

    I don't feel bad that she's losing her vision.

    I believe it's her punishment for making her family suffer.
    ChiaXUno ChiaXUno
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2015

    Whenever I remember her I'm reminded of how she

    choose my uncle over my mother. I can never understand how a mother choose between her children. I don't think I can forgive her. I'm not just plain angry, she's dead and I still feel the hate eating me up. I know I'm hurting myself for being angry with her but that's how I feel...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 4, 2015


    My dad's mom is one of the nastiest people I have ever had the misfortune to know. She has always been such an awful woman. When we were kids she would give my brother and I my uncle's old clothes for Christmas gifts my sister received nothing because she isn't dad's. One...
    Spryte79 Spryte79
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 9, 2013

    Sure, grandmas are expected to bake

    and be some of the sweetest old ladies but that was never the case with mine. In elementary if she was visiting she'd demand I and my older sibling read for a certain amount of time, as well as do our homework the way she wanted. Neither of us was interested in reading; though...
    0ct0pus 0ct0pus
    18-21, F
    Jun 27, 2014

    Hate is a bad emotion to have.

    Especially when it hurts people you love. My mother has a strong opinion on my attitude towards my grandma. I avoid her at all times, and I have for a long time. She has lived in a different day and age, but it doesn't take away from the fact that she manipulates, that she...
    Projectoneway Projectoneway
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2015

    I hate both my grandparents.

    my grandpa is overwieght cant walk or hear or see well and does nothing about it hes only in his 60s and has an 90 year olds body. My grandma oh my god where do i begin. i have no memories of my grandparents going out of their way for any of their grandchilren. my grandma is a...
    shotgunrider2012 shotgunrider2012
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 15, 2014

    Domineering Personality!

    I am 34, and unfourtunatly I have a Grandmother who has serious control issues, issues that are driving me over the deep end. Almost every single time I am in her presence she says something that is either contraversial, controlling, manipulative or insulting, nothing ever seems...
    Casper2012 Casper2012
    2 Responses Mar 27, 2012

    She sides with my verbally abusive dad

    and chose my brother over me. She's dead to me.
    LookToTheNeonLights LookToTheNeonLights
    26-30, F
    Jun 16, 2015

    I don't really hate my grandmother.

    ..at least not all the time. Growing up, she was very kind and important to me. She and my grandfather were the only reason I survived childhood. But as she has gotten older, and I am now in my teens, she has seriously come to dislike me. She demands absolute respect, to the...
    woolygrey woolygrey
    18-21, F
    Jan 8, 2016

    It grieves me to read people having problems

    with their grandparents. I never knew my dad's dad as he died when my father was about 5 or 6 years old. My mother's father died when I was three years old. However, I did know each of my grandmothers and was actually born on one of their birthday and my youngest sister was born...
    ruledbyvenus ruledbyvenus
    56-60, F
    1 Response Mar 21, 2014

    Hope she dies .......

    ...I hate her
    smileforme14 smileforme14
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Sep 8, 2015

    my grandmother at my mom's side really needs to

    learn to shut up. I Will not tollerate that she drags my name through the filth by calling me, my mother and my aunts antisocial and antifamilial brats. The whole town is talking about it. It's also her sister's fault. If she will not stop brainwashing her I will go to the...
    Belgianbro Belgianbro
    22-25, M
    Aug 22, 2015

    I hate my grandmom too she yells at everything

    I say and do she hates my mom too just coz we keep silent .... we dont fight back. now we both have to bear her shouting and screaming at us for everything she acts like she knows everything .... if asked she gets mad and stops talking for 3 or 4 whole days then she blames...
    abhinavah abhinavah
    18-21, M
    Dec 22, 2014

    My grandmother has never said she loves me.

    Never. If I was little, she used to take me to the kindergarden and stuff and she still talks about how good child I was back then. But never said anything good about me now. The only thing she sees is the fact that I am overweight and that I should move more and etc. I know I...
    WhiteDragoness WhiteDragoness
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 28, 2014

    It has been almost 3 years

    since I moved to my grandma's house.for the whole three years I was there I forgot the meani
    Zeyyad Zeyyad
    May 29, 2014

    My grandma's brain is gone.

    She is a new level of irritating I hope no child has to experience. It's so bad my sister cries sometimes. Everyone in my family is just waiting for her to die even her son. The person she was would've never wanted this. The hospital even released her early after a surgery.
    deleted deleted
    Dec 8, 2014

    Maybe its a mental scar thing

    but no what anyone else say to me i have never cried or bat in eye. But my grandma said something that idk just got to me so bad that i started to cry then again im use to her insults.
    LolipopGummi LolipopGummi
    22-25, T
    Mar 7, 2014

    I wish I didn't hate my grandmother.

    It isn't as much hate as it is the absence of love, and this feeling greatly saddens me. She has always been rough around the edges, when my mother and five siblings were young she would threaten to send them to orphanages or discuss how she should have aborted them when they...
    oceaneyes24 oceaneyes24
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2014


    😑😑😑😑😑😑 Sorry but not sorry.
    DessyLove DessyLove
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 17, 2015

    So, I'm 13 and have 4 siblings

    and both of my parents. Due to financial problems, we had to move in with my grandmother. I am in middle school and my grandmother(I'm just gonna say G) decided she wanted to drive me to school because I was always late. But she complains to me about how we do nothing AT ALL...
    amazingrhynisnotonfire amazingrhynisnotonfire
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

    As I have mentioned before my 16 year old

    brother and 15 year old sister died in a horrific car crash back in January 2010. Three days later my father took his own life. He shot himself in the head while my mother&me were out shopping for clothes to bury my siblings in when their bodies were released. We at the time...
    BlipsieSwag BlipsieSwag
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 10, 2013

    Every single day my grandma criticizes the

    things i do. I live with her and wish i could run away. I feel like nothing i do will ever make her happy. She constantly hurts my feelings by telling me i eat too much and that i am an idiot. She always says she does't understand why i do so well in school because of the...
    Lilaclover17 Lilaclover17
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 24, 2015

    She was the spawn of satan!

    !!! She raised me and killed me emotionally killed my soul I'm glad she died a painful miserable death... I'm glad she died alone with no one to care for her. I'm glad she was depressed miserable helpless and unloved. I'm glad she is gone... She deserved hell she deserved to die...
    JustMeWuuuut JustMeWuuuut
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Nov 16, 2014

    This is such a long story,

    I apologize; I just really need to let others know about this woman, and seek advice for what I should do. It actually all starts with my dad (her son). He was born as the second son of four boys. My grandmother is from the country Turkey, and thus believes heavily in...
    Kairisheartless Kairisheartless
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 30, 2014

    I don't understand how my grandfather married a

    complete ***** in all honestly. I can't take living with her at all!!!! Just ****** me off greatly!!! So basically, I've been wearing the same pants (washing them every night) for the past 3 going on 4 days!!!! Why she won't let me go back to my college, when It's literally 15...
    Xmidniteangel15X Xmidniteangel15X
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2016

    I Dont Know If I Would Even Refer To Her As A Grandma (let Alone Mine)

    She is my Dad's mom. For as long as I've know her, she's never told me or my siblings that she loves us. When we were little, she told my MOM that she wouldnt watch my little brother (while my Mom went to work and us older siblings were at school) without my Mom paying her...
    calmafterthestorm calmafterthestorm
    4 Responses Aug 6, 2012

    Gosh she's so ******* irritating.

    She's treated me like **** my whole life, but that's not what makes me hate her. Oh no, it's the ******* fact that she somehow convinced my mom to name me the same damn name twice. My whole name is Addison Adison Alicea, both my first name and middle name is basically the same...
    Adeinwonderland Adeinwonderland
    22-25, F
    Aug 7, 2014

    My Grandmother Is Annoying

    I have just too many stories to write but here is one that just happened today. At approximately 5 in the morning I hear a smash. I came out of my room to see that my grandmother had dropped a glass that she had "put in her dressing gown pocket" (stupid, I know). Later that...
    Amjfaith Amjfaith
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 11, 2011

    I hate my maternal grandmother.

    She looks at me so meanly, she doesnt respond when I say hi to her, and if he does she doesn't say my name, when she says my brothers name all the time. She gives my brother money and does not give me anything. I'm ******* tired of her staying at our house. She walked into my...
    Clarissaisaboss Clarissaisaboss
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2015

    I Hate My Grandmother So Much!

    kitkat30565 kitkat30565
    13-15, F
    Apr 25, 2012

    My grandmother is an 85 year old woman

    who criticizes EVERYONE on the planet except for herself. She is selfish and rude, and cannot even spell anything right. I am not sure how ignorant she really is. She told me today that I was filling my face and that I will end up working in a nursing home. There is no limit...
    theeeitgirl theeeitgirl
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 3, 2014

    If you knew her, you'd understand.

    I have spent my entire existence trying to please her, but nothing is good enough. I'm not pretty enough, or smart enough, or thin enough, or good enough. According to her, I am worthless. She is a hateful, bitter, horrible person. I wish I had a good relationship with her. I've...
    reneeo11314 reneeo11314
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2014

    I hate that woman of70

    who gives slangs to her son ,husband and my great grand mother. she who wishes her son to return home dead and beats my weak grandpa with a stick. she who has no respect for anyone yet expects her 16 year old granddaughter to luv and respect her . how can I not hate such a woman...
    itsmecrazyUCme itsmecrazyUCme
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jul 4, 2015

    My Grandmother Only Cares About Herself

    Ok so today i got home from skool and the house phone rings its my grandmother's bestie from college. So my mother is at work and she has not been feeling the best lately so my mother calls while my is on the phone she clicks over to talk to my mom. My mom says "Hey mom i'm...
    kitkat30565 kitkat30565
    13-15, F
    3 Responses May 3, 2012

    My "Great Grandmother"

    My great grandmother has always loved my older sister more than me. Even as a baby she treated me differently. I was just as much her flesh and blood as my sister. when my parents were arrested for drug use. she had the option of taking me and my sister. she took only my sister...
    daisy115 daisy115
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 7, 2013

    I Hate My Grandmother.

    She's a terrible person. She nags. She nit-picks. She complains. She's deemed unbearable by everyone that meets her. She takes sides, the wrong side. She does things just to aggravate me for not wanting to be around her. She criticizes everything I do. She'll take whatever...
    RealitySpark RealitySpark
    3 Responses Aug 6, 2012

    I guess my Grandmother isn't pure evil,

    but if I didn't feel at least some hatred for her I wouldn't be writing this. My parents are in a arranged marriage, and I live with my dad's parents. My grandmother continues to make a drift in our family between my parents. My parents are ready to get a divorce, because of her...
    Unom123 Unom123
    16-17, F
    May 13, 2015

    It'S Almost Depressing

    I am living with my Grandmother for summer, but I've called it off. Why? Because..... My Grandmother is rude. She smokes and gambles. She always asks me for money to do HER laundry. She called me a glutton for eating 2 bowls of cereal! She tells me I'm lazy, or to watch my...
    dreamofprayer dreamofprayer
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2013

    Wicked Witch Of The South

    Okay this is going to be really long, I'm not sure If I told about what all my grandmother was doing while my dad was fighting for his life in a hospital bed. But it started long before I was even born, my mother grew up looking for love in all the wrong places. She'd been with...
    ButterflyGirl9521 ButterflyGirl9521
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2013

    My grandmother is an 80 year old bitter woman

    that obsesses over money and uses emotional abuse to get what she wants. She'll talk mess about my mother and all of us right to her face, but when we have something to say she gets all sensitive and cries. I used to come to her for information, but now I see her wisdom comes...
    cparks cparks
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 11, 2014

    My Grandma Has Bipolar Disorder..

    Ok, lets start off like this. When my mom was pregnant with me, she tortured her day n night. She told her that she would kill my mom if she comes to her place where she lives! She even said that she would stab my mom's tummy! What kind of grandmother does that?? So stupid!! I...
    Alisha7 Alisha7
    26-30, F
    Aug 1, 2013

    I ******* hate my grandma it's getting worse.

    I can't spend a day without crying .I want to calm down then she comes into my room without knocking, and it starts again
    deleted deleted
    May 29, 2015

    I don't want to but I do.

    I feel betrayed for my mom she did everything for my grandma and grandfather but still they loved my uncle more than my mom. My grandma favored my cousin more than me. They forced me in going to church every Sunday and hit me when I don't want to.. Now she's dead and her husband...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 21, 2014

    She's a *****. I think my mom gets it from her,

    the being jealous and making comments about me. (Their both narcissistic mothers). She didn't give a s*** when my grandfather died and she's still a ***** about it, she gets an attitude when I mention him and how much i love him or great memories and talk about the sorry a...
    FutureVet2014 FutureVet2014
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015

    Sometimes family can be some of the worst

    people in the world. Just remember when they're gone there's no looking back there's no room to forgive and all you have is what it if.
    Sims11 Sims11
    36-40, M
    Oct 9, 2014

    she's always bring me down,

    she's hateful, she disdained me, she uncaring, she does absolutely nothing for her family, she's one of the worst old woman ever
    craz3f8g craz3f8g
    1 Response May 3, 2015
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