I Hate My Hair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 401 People

    Does Anyone Else's Hair Flick Up At The Ends

    My hair flicks up at the ends really badly, like coat hooks. Even after I have straightened it (I have to use a blow dryer as flat irons make it feel all cruncy and damaged even with heat spray). I have to sit with rollers in and I look like an old granny. My boyfriend thinks...
    sarahd1988 sarahd1988
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 24, 2011
    allychef allychef
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 17

    Just today I rushed to wash my Bra strap lengh

    kinky NATURAL hair.. Im a mixed chick... I have a baby as well and back to the point I washed it in a hurry and now I have been sitting with a whole head of dreads... no not the nice dreads you see walking down the street... you have to understand MY WHOLE HEAD is one big dread...
    ThehanyG ThehanyG
    31-35, F
    Oct 14, 2015

    It's too long, and for senior year it's getting

    cut shoulder-length, with blond highlights. Yes.
    MajesticMia MajesticMia
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2014

    So my hair is really curly.

    Lol should I keep growing it, or cut it? I don't really hate my hair, it was just an option that was closest.
    yourbrowneye yourbrowneye
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Nov 3, 2014

    I always wanted longer hair 😔 I realize

    that can never happen so I'm thinking about rocking some short styles...
    zy7a zy7a
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 26, 2014

    I really do even before I went natural I hated

    it. Its so thick and no matter what I do it looks dry even when its wet and moisturized. So I try to keep it braided or covered.
    newasexy newasexy
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2014

    It looks ******* ugly,

    I'm deciding if I should go bald or have my hair trimmed
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 24, 2015

    Obsessed With Having to Have Perfect Hair

    I'm obsessed with my hair and I hate it. I used to have the longest and nicest hair and now after I got a perm and dyed it too much I feel like I'm losing all of it and everyday I worry about it! I know it will grow back, but it just feels so thin and now I cut it all off into a...
    LadyToken LadyToken
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 28, 2007
    deleted deleted
    Mar 5, 2015

    I have always had issues with my hair.

    For a long time I struggled with trichotillomania, which is a long term for the basic idea that I feel the urge to pull out my hair whether it be eye lashes, eyebrows, hair on top of my head or pubic hair. My urge was to pull from the top of my head. It was terrible. I pulled so...
    Narp12 Narp12
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 26, 2014

    Stupid bird's nest, can't

    even run a comb through this natty thing
    Cocrispy Cocrispy
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 7, 2015

    I always have this upset

    and remorse feeling after having a hair cut or getting a different hairstyle. Damn the new hairstyle always sucks and not as good as the old one. I've always wished that I've not get myself a new hairstyle and regretting after that.
    Likeylalayys Likeylalayys
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2014

    I have the most wavy poofy hair!

    I have to straighten it to make it look nice. It's a pain! Wish it was bone straight or super curly!
    Pinkshoxx23 Pinkshoxx23
    31-35, F
    Oct 31, 2015

    I have ethnic hair and it sucks balls.

    I really want to get my hair done with like braids or something. But it's so expensive
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 9

    It's fine and thin and straight.

    It's been very dry and flyaway so this morning I added conditioner. Now it's soft and silky and super straight and flat. *Sigh* There's no hope!!!!
    CoffeeFlavoredKisses CoffeeFlavoredKisses
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Jan 9, 2015

    One thing you have to understand about me: I'm

    lazy. So lazy I don't eat dinner some nights because then I'd have to cook. (yes I know this is unhealthy) And my hair requires a LOT of maintenance. I'd prefer to not ever have to touch to be honest. I let my mom play it, and when I have to look decent I throw a hat on or wrap...
    lunarrose123 lunarrose123
    16-17, F
    Feb 8

    My hair is to my chest,

    blond, wavy, frizzy and extreamly fine. That's my halloween costume BTW
    Ashthewolf7601 Ashthewolf7601
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

    I had my hair cut around a month ago,

    it went from waist length to shoulder length. All because of the damage caused by hair rebonding. My hair used to fall out in big clumps back when it was longer, it still falls but not as much as it used to be back then. Maybe I should have it shaved instead. >:)
    deleted deleted
    Aug 8, 2015

    I had my hair really long like 2 months ago

    and then I got 9 inches of it cut off and donated it for cancer patients, and even though I'm happy about donating it, I freaking hair how short my hair is!! It barely goes past my shoulders and it used to be barely touching my bellybutton! I can't do any hairstyles with it, it...
    Lcy2472 Lcy2472
    13-15, F
    Jun 11, 2015

    Me Too And With Passion!

    I am doing the keratin, I have type 3 something hair and it sucks! Now that I am in college I have to so it on my own and I am not good at it and omg it's so bad looking D:
    DRgirl809 DRgirl809
    18-21, F
    Sep 30, 2012

    I really want long hair

    but everytime I grow an inch or two it dies and needs to get cut off. The cycle is never ending and I feel like I should give up on my dream of having super long hair. My stylist tells me I have thin hair and I have to deal with my crappy hair but no my hair was wonderful before...
    taylorsuzenski taylorsuzenski
    16-17, F
    Jan 4, 2015

    I love when other people do my hair.

    They make it so straight. When I do my hair it's still poofy. I get so mad at my hair that I want to cut it off. But I love it when it's super straight but I can't EVER seem to get it that way. I hate getting mad at it but I do.
    notworthtime notworthtime
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2014

    It's so thin. Before I ever dyed it,

    my hair was a really light brown with a lot of natural blond highlights. When I went out in the sun a lot it would shade to a really light blond and it would be wavy. But I dyed it with red koolaid a couple times, with purple dye, and with black. The black was the best and the...
    Alaquesha Alaquesha
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 29, 2014

    I Hate My Hair

    I am 15 years old, and i have some hair issues. When I was very young, i had very curly dark hair. It was verylong and tangl, but i loved wearing it lose and carefree. I head when my mom would comb it; she would de-tangle it and pulL it back into braids so tight my scalp hurt. It...
    ElvishTrainwreck ElvishTrainwreck
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2009

    I hate having my hair straight!

    I like it waaay better curly or braided.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Mar 5

    Why Us??!!

    I hate being black. No, I'm lying, I love my race. I just hate my hair. Why do black people's hair have to be so jacked up? It's like we're the only race on the whole planet that have this issue. All the other races have nice long, flowing, beautiful, manageable hair while black...
    queenodanet queenodanet
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 26, 2012

    It's so hard to take care of

    and I hate it so much. I want to do something with it. Like buy a wig or get a weave. Idk
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 15

    It's too thin and fine.

    It actually makes me feel self conscious. I've even had one person telling everyone I have cancer and that's why it's so thin. Which was extremely inappropriate of her, but it did bother me. I already feel nervous constantly, the extra attention didn't help. I wanted to drop out...
    xkaylerz xkaylerz
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 11, 2014

    Will anyone help me??

    Dunno.....pervert-last time on here......
    baldwomenarebeautiful baldwomenarebeautiful
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2014

    My hair is so frizzy

    when I take a shower at night then sleep on it in the morning I'm shocked no clowns call to ask for their hair back
    jjjjdance jjjjdance
    13-15, F
    Jul 1, 2015

    I Don't Know What To Do

    I don't like my hair, actually I hate it. I'm 19 mixed between black and white. No one ever taught me how to take care of my hair so I had to learn on my own. My mom is white and she had me young so she didn't really know how to deal with my hair either. I recently started using...
    cwright4 cwright4
    Dec 5, 2012

    My Hair...

    It's a dark muddy brown of a curly, frizzy mess. That's all you really can say about my hair. It's really just my natural hair when I don't do anything to style it that I hate. See, I have the quote on quote stereotypical Jewish hair, which most girls' on this family are blessed...
    Chasing4flowers Chasing4flowers
    18-21, F
    May 5, 2012

    She's Got "That" Hair

    This has stuck with me for years. I've always hated my hair anyway, it's always been a little dry and it's just so wavy. It never straightens because it's too wild and it never curls right because the curls don't stay in. I can never win with my hair. Then i remember going for...
    SammyCymru SammyCymru
    22-25, F
    Jun 27, 2009
    femalehasclippercutfetish femalehasclippercutfetish
    31-35, F
    Dec 12, 2014
    baldwomenarebeautiful baldwomenarebeautiful
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2014

    I don't mind the color

    but my hair always does this weird **** where it gets really wavy on the sides. That usually means I need a haircut haha
    joshbeaudoin joshbeaudoin
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jul 17, 2014
    JoanieNewHampshire JoanieNewHampshire
    61-65, T
    3 Responses Oct 6, 2015

    My mom always have my a very short hair cut I

    am like come on even when I used to wear a ponytail
    anymoushuman22 anymoushuman22
    26-30, T
    Mar 22, 2015

    My hair is such an issue.

    So much money is spent getting it done just so I can feel okay. I have African hair so It's extremely stubborn and not pretty at all. I really do wish is was longer but It's very short and not feminine at all. I suppose I just have to wait for it to grow and take more care of it...
    VictoriaTarawally VictoriaTarawally
    18-21, F
    Jul 23, 2015

    I have made a horrible mistake.

    .. I got side sweep bangs.. They looked good on me when I was younger but I had lighter hair back then. Now I have black hair and it makes me look goth. Nothing against goth people. I just don't like the look on me.
    BlinkAtTheDisco BlinkAtTheDisco
    13-15, F
    Jul 11, 2015


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    Feb 4, 2015

    Well what can I say, other

    than my hair causes me too much grief even if it means something as simple as tying it back in a ponytail. It is thin and wavy but there is a lot of it so wearing it down isn't an option whatsoever as it will not sit neatly unless I go at with curlers/straighteners. Now onto the...
    MissLangdon MissLangdon
    18-21, F
    Jul 23, 2015

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