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I Hate My Hair

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    Love/Hate Relationship

    Swivel round Up and down Around cheekbones Swither and sway But only today Only this hour Tomorrow-- Awaken the beast A monster of fire Alight on my head Angry and snarling At every passing minute All at one a goddess of sex But now an icon of fear
    AynsleyRosalinda AynsleyRosalinda 18-21, F Jun 21, 2013

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    My Hair...

    It's a dark muddy brown of a curly, frizzy mess. That's all you really can say about my hair. It's really just my natural hair when I don't do anything to style it that I hate. See, I have the quote on quote stereotypical Jewish hair, which most girls' on this family are blessed...
    SecretsofWillow SecretsofWillow 18-21, F May 5, 2012

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    UGH !!!

    My hair was breaking off and falling apart, so I cut it to "start over", I have to admit it was a good idea in theory but now I have this short curly (jeri-curl looking) hair that poofed out when it dries ... I can't wait until it's pony tail length again ... LOL....
    SomeOneInTheWorld SomeOneInTheWorld 26-30, F Sep 6, 2007

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    Stupid Hair..

    My hair is so horrible.. I hate it so much. It's just so frizzy and thick.. Right now it's all plaited up but when my mum undoes the plaits it hurts soooo much. Sometimes I'm literally screaming because it hurts so much. It's just much bother to make it look ok again. I can't...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 12, 2010

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    My Hair Straightening Hell

    Since puberty I have just had the most awful flyaway wavy, thick bush of hair. It also grows really slowly and never really grows that far past my shoulders unless I don't trim, AT ALL. I did at one point have it half way down my back at the longest point and that was when I...
    sarahd1988 sarahd1988 22-25, F Sep 24, 2011

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    Curly and Frizzy

    My hair is curly and frizzy. I've had more perms than I can count and I can never get it to be perfectly straight. The only way I can get it to look the way I want it is to get a perm, blow dry it, flat iron it, and put some oil in it. After all that it stays perfect for about 20...
    LauraLovesYou LauraLovesYou 26-30, F Nov 30, 2007

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    Me Too And With Passion!

    I am doing the keratin, I have type 3 something hair and it sucks! Now that I am in college I have to so it on my own and I am not good at it and omg it's so bad looking D:
    DRgirl809 DRgirl809 18-21, F Sep 30, 2012

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    Obsessed With Having to Have Perfect Hair

    I'm obsessed with my hair and I hate it. I used to have the longest and nicest hair and now after I got a perm and dyed it too much I feel like I'm losing all of it and everyday I worry about it! I know it will grow back, but it just feels so thin and now I cut it all off into a...
    LadyToken LadyToken 16-18, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2007

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    It's Really Starting To Bug Me

    It's starting to bother me to the point where I feel tempted to just hack it all off. Only that would probably make it worse because it seems that whenever I try and fix it myself, it only ends up looking sh!ttier. Ummm so basically it's always been really long and...
    FateCantDecide FateCantDecide 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2009

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    My Mop

    I shouldn't complain because at least I have hair and lots of it! So don't get me wrong... I'm eternally grateful that I have hair on my head, but 'omg' it's a going concern! When I had my 'natural' hair colour I used to hate that there were red highlights in it that especially...
    a68taurus a68taurus 41-45, F Aug 8, 2012

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    Only Looks Good At Home!!

    i really hate my hair,, it looks amazig bt as soon as i leave the house it goes frizzy n crazy.. i always tell my friends howgreat it looks at home bt its like im lying cz really everytime they see me its ugly, i tried taking pictures of me at home bt it goes crazy on th camera...
    lolitta lolitta 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2008

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    T-T

    I love my hair stylist, but I hate my new haircut... it is like 3 inches too short everywhere....and it is the exactly that same color as when I walked in...she told me Purple....I still ******* red....This just isnt fair...I look really stupid T-T
    Alizatina Alizatina 19-21, F Sep 26, 2007

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    Frizzy, Coarse, Separated Curls

    It's a big mess of hair. It's somewhat naturally curly, but less curly and more small waves that dont stick together, so it's a hot mess. Plus the bottom half of my head hair is very coarse. If I dry it and use a diffuser and tons of curlling/anti-frizz product with my head...
    BiForce BiForce 26-30 Mar 1, 2013

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    My Current .. Or Lack of

    i hate my hair or lack of coz its thinned and the way i describe myself would be bald or on my way to looking like the father in tekken *LOL* ;P
    wezamuntkee wezamuntkee 36-40, M 4 Responses Sep 1, 2007

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    My Fro

    My hair is kinda curly and its thick. I can handle it and I dont want to cut it My hair right now looks like the logo of this group. This is how I wake up every morning I by the time I get though 1/2 of it my arms are tried and I get so mad I just want to cut it all of. But Lucky...
    BlueberryChihuahua BlueberryChihuahua 21-25, F Nov 19, 2007

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    She's Got "That" Hair

    This has stuck with me for years. I've always hated my hair anyway, it's always been a little dry and it's just so wavy. It never straightens because it's too wild and it never curls right because the curls don't stay in. I can never win with my hair. Then i remember going for...
    SammyCymru SammyCymru 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    At The Moment Its Yukky

    you know when its long I think of going shorter and when its short I want it long... I can't win ... I like colour and playing with shades of blonde and browns and mahogany and aurburn and I love cherry black hair also I don't know what to do with my hair at the moment so I...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jun 14, 2011

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    Saving Up For Thermal Reconditioning

    I hate my hair, I really do. It's too much work. I'm biracial and both my mom and biological father have curly hair, so naturally my hair is super thick and curly. It is so annoying! It's not as bad as it used to be as I've been using this product called Curlaway, which has been...
    BreezeFlow BreezeFlow 13-15, F Aug 12, 2012

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    Work With Me

    why does my hair get so soft at night does someone magically press a button in the universe to trigger hair to get super silky and soft at night time i’m so mad like why can it be like this during the dAY WHEN I NEED IT TO BE NICE WORK WITH ME, HAIR
    AnnieWays AnnieWays 18-21, F Sep 21, 2012

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    My Hairy Tale

    When i was little, they were curly and too healthy and too many and thick like wires. When i grew older they became wavy but still thick. And now they're just a weak black mass that hurts to touch and is falling__without making a pattern or anything. Its just that, when i...
    FreeFallWall FreeFallWall 22-25, M 5 Responses Aug 9, 2010

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    Hate It So Much

    I hate my hair so much Its really thin on the top nd whenever i put my brush or fingers through my hair loads of hair comes out im surprised iv not got any patches i wish it was more alive and thicker . Iv stopped dying my hair because i think thats what damaged my hair but im...
    TheresNoRealLoveInYou TheresNoRealLoveInYou 22-25, F Oct 12, 2011

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    Ode to My Lost Hair

    My hair is thinning but thank god it stopped. I know it had to do with all the stress from the past year. I was and still am embarassed, especially when I go out and the spotlight from the club shines on my head then you can notice it. Guys will give me an smile ( I'm pretty...
    Earthchild Earthchild 26-30, F Jan 27, 2008

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    I Hate My Hair

    It's so thin and flat and I have hard sebum on the scalp.
    troubledwolfe troubledwolfe 18-21, F Sep 16, 2012

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    Why Us??!!

    I hate being black. No, I'm lying, I love my race. I just hate my hair. Why do black people's hair have to be so jacked up? It's like we're the only race on the whole planet that have this issue. All the other races have nice long, flowing, beautiful, manageable hair while black...
    queenodanet queenodanet 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26, 2012

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    Ugh!!!

    i really hate my hair... its too thick, curly, and its frizzy. even if i straighten my hair and use straightening product it only stays straight for a half hr then u can see it start to poof and curl. even if i try to style it so it looks semi decent when its curly, it goes crazy...
    LittleFerrett LittleFerrett 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 11, 2010

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    Does Anyone Else's Hair Flick Up At The Ends

    My hair flicks up at the ends really badly, like coat hooks. Even after I have straightened it (I have to use a blow dryer as flat irons make it feel all cruncy and damaged even with heat spray). I have to sit with rollers in and I look like an old granny. My boyfriend thinks...
    sarahd1988 sarahd1988 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2011

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    Gah!

    It's thin and straight and fine and flat! I have tried soooo many things to change it but I am who I am! I am envious of women with thicker hair. So frustrating!
    anotherinnocent anotherinnocent 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    Wish It Was Curly Not Fuzzy!

    I'd rather not admit it, but I've never really liked my hair... I have hair which when combed out looks much like the woman in the photograph who represents this group. Although i think she looks magnificent, I've always wished my hair was straight like most people's (I've seen...
    NightandDay NightandDay 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2007

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    I Don't Know What To Do

    I don't like my hair, actually I hate it. I'm 19 mixed between black and white. No one ever taught me how to take care of my hair so I had to learn on my own. My mom is white and she had me young so she didn't really know how to deal with my hair either. I recently started using...
    cwright4 cwright4 18-21 Dec 5, 2012

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    My Hair

    It drives me nuts. Its too fine to cut very short because it leaves me looking bald. If it gets too long, the slightest breeze blows it around. If it moves when its wet it stays that way for the rest of the day! In short, it is ridiculous. Why couldn't I be born with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    It's too thin and fine.

    It actually makes me feel self conscious. I've even had one person telling everyone I have cancer and that's why it's so thin. Which was extremely inappropriate of her, but it did bother me. I already feel nervous constantly, the extra attention didn't help. I wanted to drop out...
    xkaylerz xkaylerz 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I cannot stand my hair.

    For as long as I can remember, I have been getting relaxers in my hair, for it to just grow back and be a kinky mess all over again. I have to go through the burns on my scalp from every perm. It's just so annoying being black, your hair takes forever to grow, and there's...
    leggalybrown leggalybrown 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 12

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    I hate haircuts. I don't know why maybe becuz I have acne and I feel exposed
    allanpeter allanpeter 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I just do....although I love them ^_^ I really want my long hair back, but short hair suites me....weird huh? I will just stick with short hair because I think I look cutie...maybe...
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    I hate my neighbor with a passion, she's just an old ***** who gets into other peoples business and hates children. Sometimes I **** her off though just to mess with her like I'll...
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    Wow, who would have thought that I somehow became a victim of internet trolls!I posted a photo of some milk from a local supermarket, on the supermarkets facebook page. It shows...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    You don't understand how much I hate my boring, pathetic, pointless life. I miss put on everything. I have no experiences. I thought I had a good school friend then she hurt me too...
    emipurple emipurple 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    Warning! Rant about my stupid bowl hairstyle. Read on if you're curious as to why I am annoyed by it. If not, scroll or click away. Had it since I was a kid and mum still wouldn't...
    baseCharlie baseCharlie 18-21, M Mar 25

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    My parents sometimes have these little outbursts for no reason and sometimes I get the blame for said outbursts even though I didn't do anything wrong. The only times i've...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Mar 28

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    When I was younger I had hair but I wanted to try something different so I but chemicals in my hair, and at first it looked nice , but after some time my hair started to break off...
    TheRouge TheRouge 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    just got a new hair cut...I look stupid beyond belief I now have the dumbest bowl cut hair ever and I hate it its awful it makes me look worse than i already did
    greenteajello greenteajello 13-15, F Mar 30

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    It feels like a risk to take. Like you pick out a haircut and it looks good on the model but your unsure if you will look good with the hairstyle. It is a 50/50 chance of either...
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I have a shoulder length hair and I am not cutting it until it grows well. People always tell me I have a nice, soft, and shiny hair. I don't know about that, but they like petting...
    wherethehealingbegins wherethehealingbegins 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I hate the way that my love makes me fake indifference when your name is mentioned. I hate the way you make me break into a sweat, and talk too loud, and go red, I hate the way you...
    yuichie yuichie 13-15, F Mar 31

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    All Swedes are not blonde-haired, blue eyed, and tall! People at my school, since I now live in America, ask where I'm from, and I tell them Sweden. They say I can't be because I...
    Audrina14 Audrina14 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    I hate everything about me. I hate my hair, I hate face, I hate my nose. I just hate every inch of my body. No one will ever care. Because they'll soon hate me to
    rainsyd2014 rainsyd2014 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I avoid my reflection as much as possible. I wish I could only see my hair and face that's the only thing that's decent. I hate full length mirrors. I never look decent head to toe...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Hate. Hate. Hate. Really hate myself. I know I'm not beatiful. I don't have a beautiful face or a beautiful body or beautiful hairs or a beatiful soul. I really hate who I am.
    llilith llilith 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I was a small child i had this horrible mean teacher she was really old had wrinkles and white hair and she didn't really know how to put make up on it all Started when I first...
    moonshine25 moonshine25 16-17, F a week ago

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    I have never felt beautiful in my entire 19 years. A few years ago, my cousins who I have always been close to told me I was ugly. I felt really horrible and my self-esteem...
    willneverbepretty willneverbepretty 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    It's just so relaxing. :) I am really weird and when I was younger and they did lice checks at my school the nurse used these really long q-tips that didn't have a cotton tip on...
    EmptyAgain EmptyAgain 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Although it's natural it's just not my style the only hair I like to see is the long flowing hair on my head I think it's a family thing I remember in the slums of Brazil visiting...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    I'm 16 years old and my older sister (by 17 years) has agreed to let me stay at her house for the rest of the school year until mom gets back from visiting her brother. (I couldn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Spent two hours straightening all my curly hair for today . Steeped outside and poof ..... All my hard work gone . Any remedies to avoid frizz ? For course curly hair .
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 20 hrs ago