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I Hate My Husband After 40 Years of Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10 People

    He's a Liar and a Cheater

    I used technology to find out the real character of my psychopath of a husband. I used a digital recorder as well as computer spyware on his computer. I found out the lies that dript off of his rancid tongue. I plan to leave him in the night.
    Teresathebitch Teresathebitch 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    43 Yrs And I Hate My Wife.

    I think how in the world did it get this bad. can't stand to look at her ,be around, talk to her. I have so much animosity toward her. For yrs she would hate sex with me I try everything nothing helped now I hate to think about sex with her. she won't try to stay fit. I try to...
    trell49 trell49 61-65 Sep 25, 2012

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    40 years of a miserable marriage/ I cant afford

    to leave. I am not working. We have a lot of debt. He causes me so much stress. He has such a temper. Never helps me in the house. Even after surgery. I wish I could leave. I have never wanted to hurt my children by leaving. I eat out of sadness a lot.
    Maggie1909 Maggie1909 61-65, F Nov 27, 2014

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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    I hate my husband of 19 yrs.

    No, I only hate last 2 years when he constantly lie and cheat on me. I use technology to track his activity with a certain *****.. He is too dumb to know .. Why don't I leave him? It because my 2 teenagers life will be destroy if I divorce him... It's affecting my health! Damn...
    newseason2 newseason2 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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    Lost Years

    I  HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 42 YEARS, MY HUSBAND IS 14 OLDER THAN ME , WHEN I MARRIED HIM I REALLY  LOVED HIM, BUT I SOON HAD TO WAKE UP TO MYSELF HIS JEALOUSY SOON MADE MY LIFE A PRISON. WE BROUGHT A HOUSE AFTER A FEW YEARS THAT HE PUT ONLY ON HIS NAME BECAUSE HE IS AND WAS GOD...
    antoninabruno1948 antoninabruno1948 56-60 3 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    I think all husband's and wives in this situation should plan to meet, without our spouses, for a weekend experience together a couple times a year. The Sexless Marriage Club...
    volvoman60 volvoman60 56-60, M 3 hrs ago

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    After an emotionally challenging year, I'm proud to say that I have the marriage I've always wanted. It required some work on changing myself and how I interact with my husband, a...
    BBWand40 BBWand40 41-45, F 9 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I live in a mostly sexless marriage and it freaking sucks! We've been thru it all. Drs, therapy, talks,ultimatums , misunderstanding, understanding, pretending, lying / being...
    Micromint Micromint 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Lately I've been feeling/thinking that I would be better off with out my husband. I love him very much but I just feel better when he isn't around. I've grown accustomed to being...
    URLOVED4EVA URLOVED4EVA 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    We met 5-6 years ago and our relationship was going like any other. We talk a lot, spend lot of time together, kissing, hugging, laughing...we couldn't wait next time to see each...
    auspergerica auspergerica 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    A couple of years ago I divorced my now ex-husband. He cheated on me a year after we were married. Our relationship changed the day I caught him cheating and went downhill from...
    scifyblue scifyblue 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am sure I don't HATE my sister, but I really don't like her anymore. We were so close. It all started when she got Facebook. She somehow got in touch with a boyfriend from her...
    Oggidomani Oggidomani 51-55 a week ago

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    They said if two people love each other no matter what other people tells them they will still be together. But on my case that never happened. I always need to fight for my place...
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F a week ago

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    I'm recently married. I'd only met my MIL once before, & she seemed nice. She wasn't overly friendly or anything, but not rude or unkind, either. A surprise pregnancy led me to...
    lulabelle138 lulabelle138 31-35, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Hi Folks Well, in 2009 while working to try and get through a work-related (and marriage-related, although unbeknownst to me at the time) burnout, I wrote my fist post on...
    Mrcellophane Mrcellophane 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I think my husband is with me because his life would be worse if he left. He tells me he loves me but that's just a routine as he never shows it. He isn't romantic or flirty. If...
    Dollymixture2 Dollymixture2 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    So my husband and I have had our fights and doubts in our marriage. It has only made us stronger. His family doesnt like me bc of all of it. So they started bringing gis ex gf...
    Disrespected25 Disrespected25 26-30, F a week ago

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    After coming off a family holiday with my husbands daughter (I don't like to call her my SD), I had 7 days of rudeness, disrespect, viciousness. The holiday ended with a big...
    rubymae66 rubymae66 41-45, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    When she was 11 she sat in a court room and told the judge that her stepdad was her daddy. I tried to talk her out of it. She insisted she wanted to do that. 11 years later she...
    tori1215 tori1215 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I was watching the reality tv series Arranged and I thought wow, it must be therapeutic to go through the what ifs and shoulds before you get hitched to a person someone else chose...
    zizna zizna 36-40, F Aug 23

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    He's my oldest brother. I haven't spoken to him in five years. I doubt I ever will again. I'm open to giving him another chance, if he got off meth and stops drinking. I have a...
    SapphicMinion SapphicMinion 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 22

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    My husband thinks he is an intelligent, thoughtful, responsible and loyal man. I did too when I married him. The truth is that he is lazy, educated in pop culture, needy and...
    wildsmile wildsmile 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I have been married for almost 11 years. It is a long read...sorry We got married when he was 19 I was 18. I got pregnant before we were married. We only dated 6 months. I took my...
    redrubiess7 redrubiess7 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I just realised recently that I hate my mother. Because she practiced favouritism, and was abusive with it. And from the time I was under 5 years old, she would constantly accuse...
    AngryPlum AngryPlum 31-35, F Aug 20

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    I don't know how much longer I can hang on. I am always the care taker. I work full-time, pay all the bills, pay our health insurance, go to the grocery store, cook, clean, and...
    LostSomeWhere123 LostSomeWhere123 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I don't know what to do anymore, my wife is a real life Katy Perry song, she is always hot and cold then yes and no. A little bit about us, we have been married for 3 years now...
    NvPantieLVR NvPantieLVR 26-30, M Aug 19

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    I have been struggling with sexless marriage for years. Recently, I have been telling my husband to separate because I really don’t want to stuck on something is not going to...
    AwesomeLucy AwesomeLucy 31-35, F 11 Responses Aug 19

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    Ive been married for a year and a half to my husband. When we were dating I didn't mind he was previously married but now that we are married I hate being number two like it's bad...
    bchp1963 bchp1963 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I hate that I am jealous of my husbands ex. I used to think I didn't like being spoiled or getting gifts but when I see what my husband did for her it makes me feel like he loved...
    bchp1963 bchp1963 18-21, F Aug 19

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    While visiting my home town, I had dinner with my two best childhood friends. K is divorcing her husband and J, who is gay is having relationship issues with his partner of 33...
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    It sounds so awful but I can't stand my boyfriend. I know one of has to be the bigger person and leave but for some reason we stay together. I'm 50% miserable with him and 50...
    Worleybirdie Worleybirdie 22-25, F Aug 18

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    My ex mother-in-law was a major contributing factor to the destruction of my first marriage (I'm happily married to a different woman now, and my new mother-in-law is MUCH better...
    SomewhatJaded SomewhatJaded 26-30, M 6 Responses Aug 18

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    I hate my husband, i don't think i love him anymore. I want out of this marriage but he wouldn't let me. I will go to my mother's house and take my kids with me this weekend and i...
    Misfit143 Misfit143 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    For years I have been writing about my horrible and scary marriage. I have finally left him a few months ago.The big event that finally made me leave is? The last argument we had...
    Mikkimacoroni Mikkimacoroni 31-35, F Aug 18

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    I need some help/advice/reassurance. I'm 24 and have been married for almost 6 years. My husband is amazing. He's an awesome dad and a really loving supportive husband. The problem...
    lovedandlonely17 lovedandlonely17 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 17

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    I'm basically at fault for everything. We had troubles, she wanted to leave, I bucked up my ideas... But it's like I fixed my side of the garden, and hers is still full of weeds...
    uuugh uuugh 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 17

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    wow it has been a great and good thing know this man called Dr abulu the love spell caster who helped me get my husband back after two years . it all happened when my husband...
    michelle725 michelle725 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    My husband has been in jail for 2 months. He is an alcoholic and coke addict and I believe this is his rock bottom. He could be serving up to a year but is in the rehab program in...
    JillShep JillShep 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    My husband and I just "celebrated" 11 years of marriage & we have a beautiful daughter that is about to turn 5. We always agreed that when we had kids he would stay home & I would...
    sunshine1879 sunshine1879 36-40, F Aug 16

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