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I Hate My Husband After 40 Years of Marriage

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    I hate my husband of 19 yrs.

    No, I only hate last 2 years when he constantly lie and cheat on me. I use technology to track his activity with a certain *****.. He is too dumb to know .. Why don't I leave him? It because my 2 teenagers life will be destroy if I divorce him... It's affecting my health! Damn...
    newseason2 newseason2 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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    Lost Years

    I  HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 42 YEARS, MY HUSBAND IS 14 OLDER THAN ME , WHEN I MARRIED HIM I REALLY  LOVED HIM, BUT I SOON HAD TO WAKE UP TO MYSELF HIS JEALOUSY SOON MADE MY LIFE A PRISON. WE BROUGHT A HOUSE AFTER A FEW YEARS THAT HE PUT ONLY ON HIS NAME BECAUSE HE IS AND WAS GOD...
    antoninabruno1948 antoninabruno1948 56-60 3 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    43 Yrs And I Hate My Wife.

    I think how in the world did it get this bad. can't stand to look at her ,be around, talk to her. I have so much animosity toward her. For yrs she would hate sex with me I try everything nothing helped now I hate to think about sex with her. she won't try to stay fit. I try to...
    trell49 trell49 61-65 Sep 25, 2012

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    He's a Liar and a Cheater

    I used technology to find out the real character of my psychopath of a husband. I used a digital recorder as well as computer spyware on his computer. I found out the lies that dript off of his rancid tongue. I plan to leave him in the night.
    Teresathebitch Teresathebitch 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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    90loveandhate 90loveandhate 22-25, F Jul 3

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    Hello all you wonderful EP folks, I have another update on my formerly sexless marriage. If you want the back story, read my previous posts as they will shed light on the progress...
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    Am finally getting the the point in my life where I can do something to get away from my husband. After 30 years and two terrific kids, it's time to get away from my poisonous...
    Momo2GS Momo2GS 56-60, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I'm trying to do the right thing not only for myself, but for my family, especially for my beautiful baby daughter, to whom I might never apologize enough for not choosing well her...
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    Pelvic Floor Disorder. Something to think about. My marriage ultimately ended due to this disorder. The lack of intimacy and sex killed our marriage. For over 12 years I...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 15

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    I wouldn't normally use the word 'hate' but after 4 years with my soon to be husband I have no other feeling towards my MIL than exactly this! She had made it's quite clear from...
    mbsk01 mbsk01 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I am 4 months pregnant and regret that I was dumb enough to marry my husband after 2 months and get pregnant. He tells me what to where, abuses my poor dog, I can't go anywhere by...
    fakinghappy2 fakinghappy2 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    So I met my husband 9 years ago and fell deeply in love immediately I had a son from a previous relationship and he accepted me and my son told me I'm the woman of his dreams that...
    canadian4 canadian4 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I've thought about it for years, and it all makes sense; no use denying it now. She hates me. I've known her since I was eight years old and dating my father, and everything was...
    NotNicole NotNicole 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Hussy2016 Hussy2016 31-35, F 11 Responses Jun 25

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    What can I do to bring intimacy back into my marriage? I love my wife and I believe she loves me. We have been through some tough times in our marriage (including her having an...
    joeknox joeknox 46-50, M 14 Responses Jul 14

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    When love knocked my door and I wasn't ready yet ' For long time ago I promise to my self not gonna fall Inlove with somebody .. Because I know that it will just destroyed me for...
    marianlee marianlee 22-25, F Jul 7

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    It amazes me how stupid and narrow minded people, especially bullies are. People don't think with logic/common sense anymore. There are a lot of stupid people where I live. I...
    NovaScotia902 NovaScotia902 22-25 Jul 5

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    I'm 29 my life came crashing down around me about 2mths ago I've been given a bad hand at live so much so that I wish like the rest of my family I was dead but death isn't comming...
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    Bashka91 Bashka91 22-25, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I was unfortunate enough to land myself in a house that includes not only my husband but along with my in laws, sister in law, her husband, and two kids. Everyone knows and can...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 22 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    This one is for the wives, and for the countless OW's that have messaged me. I have learned so much about the different types of affairs. My husbands affair was an "escape" affair...
    Uht2014 Uht2014 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I am married and so my AP, neither happily married. We became friends over 2 years ago, but over the last year have gotten alot closer. Our families were all friends (his wife, my...
    Suzanne1976 Suzanne1976 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    In 2008 my Mother in law lost h husband . I tried helping her through his illness and after his death and things were ok.I had never had bad feelings toward her in the past,as a...
    helpless69 helpless69 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    sheilahbun sheilahbun 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I never dreamed I'd find myself here. I never imagined it would all end this way for me. I'm new here to this forum but I am not new to SM. I haven't lived it as long as some of...
    justnanl justnanl 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 1

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    I had a arrange marriage…the very next day mil takes away my gold jewellery worth more than 12 lakhs (without my permission) and keeps it in her locker. I stay mum..n when I ask...
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    Lost42000 Lost42000 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    Betrayed wives, I have been posting stories and resources under "I am trying to save my marriage" and a few other places. An EP pal, Uht2014, has some really good info on her...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I can't speak and write english very well, because I am from Czech Republic, but I want to tell you about my father. My father and mom had marriage more than 20 years ago. My mom...
    Loretten Loretten 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    So sorry this is happening in your marriage. I as, the wife, am suffering the consequences of a sexless marriage. But I am here over 24 years... it's been going on for at least...
    mwmom mwmom 46-50 17 Responses Jul 4

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    I feel very trapped in my marriage. We are two people who should never have gotten married. There are some things I want to do and experience that I am unable to do. She has so...
    wannabechef wannabechef 51-55, M 5 hrs ago

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    When we got married five years ago, I was 24 and he was 47. He was very kind, respectful and affluent. He made me feel good about myself in ways I never did before. The sex wasn...
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    I too was raised as one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Both my mother and father had embraced this religion back in the late 40's and 50's before I was ever born. In fact, my father...
    crystalbuddah20 crystalbuddah20 51-55, F Jun 27

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    I too was raised as one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Both my mother and father had embraced this religion back in the late 40's and 50's before I was ever born. In fact, my father...
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    futureexwife14 futureexwife14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    mfur mfur 26-30, F 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ok, warning this is going to be long! I am at a loss in life. I have been married for almost 10 yrs, with him for almost 15. Things between us were always good,( not perfect of...
    AuntieShani AuntieShani 31-35, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    It is not so that I hate my mother in law because she in my mother in law. No, no, no. I hate her because she is a bad person. At the begining I wanted to be a friend of hers, but...
    emikolic emikolic 26-30, F Jul 3

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    In an effort to make a long story short, I will sum up by saying that I have been married to my husband for 11 yrs and we started dating in high school 15 yrs ago. We had our first...
    Jme0925 Jme0925 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10

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