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I Hate My Husband After 40 Years of Marriage

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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    43 Yrs And I Hate My Wife.

    I think how in the world did it get this bad. can't stand to look at her ,be around, talk to her. I have so much animosity toward her. For yrs she would hate sex with me I try everything nothing helped now I hate to think about sex with her. she won't try to stay fit. I try to...
    trell49 trell49 61-65 Sep 25, 2012

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    He's a Liar and a Cheater

    I used technology to find out the real character of my psychopath of a husband. I used a digital recorder as well as computer spyware on his computer. I found out the lies that dript off of his rancid tongue. I plan to leave him in the night.
    Teresathebitch Teresathebitch 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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    Lost Years

    I  HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 42 YEARS, MY HUSBAND IS 14 OLDER THAN ME , WHEN I MARRIED HIM I REALLY  LOVED HIM, BUT I SOON HAD TO WAKE UP TO MYSELF HIS JEALOUSY SOON MADE MY LIFE A PRISON. WE BROUGHT A HOUSE AFTER A FEW YEARS THAT HE PUT ONLY ON HIS NAME BECAUSE HE IS AND WAS GOD...
    antoninabruno1948 antoninabruno1948 56-60 3 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    I hate my husband of 19 yrs.

    No, I only hate last 2 years when he constantly lie and cheat on me. I use technology to track his activity with a certain *****.. He is too dumb to know .. Why don't I leave him? It because my 2 teenagers life will be destroy if I divorce him... It's affecting my health! Damn...
    newseason2 newseason2 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    I am separated for a 1 year but I want it to work but he does not want counseling now
    brown040 brown040 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    Update. Last time I posted I was overwhelmed at how many responses I had. Some understood my struggle and some completely didn't get it. Reading it now I was pretty upset writing...
    2Blossom 2Blossom 46-50, F 15 Responses Sep 27

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    Well I did it. I took everyones advice in ILIASM, and I consulted an attorney in the event that I may need to pull the parachute on my marriage. Thank you Bazaar for hammering this...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 8

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    Well, I don't live in a SM anymore. I left him 1-year ago today. I'm still sexless (not for the whole year) but that's now my choice as opposed to a symptom. Choice feels way...
    NeedingToVent NeedingToVent 36-40, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've known my husband 13 years and married for 3 of them. Our marriage has had its ups and downs but through all of it I've always loved him and still do. He blames me for the...
    Joseko Joseko 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    This forum should be, "I married a sicko." My refuser X is literally sick. He never cared for me the way a husband should care for a wife. He truly thinks he was a wonderful...
    pointbreakgirl pointbreakgirl 41-45, F 12 Responses Oct 14

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    Slaying Dragons: A Sleepless Journey Into Oppositeland… Having spent over a year wandering in Oppositeland, the refuge for escapees from a sexless marriage, I am experiencing...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 15 Responses Oct 11

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    I have been married for almost three years now. My husband and I have not had sex in months. I believe he enjoys his video game and social media instead. I've talked to him...
    MrsEG MrsEG 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 22

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    Living in Japan, my experience may be slightly different than a lot of you... I've been married for 8 years, she got pregnant before we were married, and since then, I can count...
    griker42 griker42 31-35, M 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    My wife and I have had a tumultuous last four weeks after approaching the brink of divorce for the second time in about a 30 month span after years of issues. Over a week we had...
    lonelyguy375 lonelyguy375 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 26

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    For those following my posts and who asked for updates: My wife and I are now about a month into our efforts to turn our marriage around after years of highs and lows. I'm doing...
    lonelyguy375 lonelyguy375 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 3

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    On commitment. I can say that my belief in God is directly proportional to the amount of trouble I find myself in at a particular time. After years of searching, I have gone back...
    RobertCarlos RobertCarlos 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 13

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    All those times for the last twenty-odd years. All those times I sat there, telling myself not to be so paranoid. Just pick up the 'phone. My father, I'm talking about. We've been...
    canis65536 canis65536 41-45, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Well I'm not but I did and I would like to encourage all of you who are standing up to all the pressure of society and peer group and saving yourself for your future husband and...
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Okay, so my g/f and I got into a huge fight last night. After years of quitting and not smoking, she was so upset that she bought a pack of cigarettes. I can't stand the smell...
    fuckitol fuckitol 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    My husband is overweight, but is kind, considerate, even handsome. We have two kids together and have a wonderful family life. Since we've been married (4 years now), the sex...
    mzansigirl mzansigirl 36-40, F 22 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. The whole time even when we dated has been full of abusive ways. I am so lost by the fact that he doesn't exactly...
    Anyonehome Anyonehome 26-30, F 20 hrs ago

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    Funny situation I'd like some input on. So anyway, Lucy has facebook, I've left her to her privacy and not snooped. It's often left open on our shared computer , for whatever...
    1RedKing 1RedKing 41-45, M 9 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Is it my turn yet? My name is Shannon ,I am forty years old and I have been married for 20 years, I have 3 beautiful children; ages 19, 17 and 15. My children have been my number...
    star1301 star1301 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    My husband and I have been together for 2 years now (married for almost a year and a half). My husband and I are a great team and have built a great life with each other so far...
    anonyguhrl anonyguhrl 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    Today was my husbands b'day. After work I took him out to dinner. It was absolutely delicious. He had a nice time I think. Ran a couple of errands afterwards and came back for the...
    Sweetpea379 Sweetpea379 46-50, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Update from yesterday Got up on the morning, only task planned was getting our blood tests together. She fasted having been told she had to and I didn't for the same reason...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I didn't ********** last night, but I did exchange sexual words with a woman (also in a sexless marriage) on EP last night. We were just about to video chat when her husband came...
    JamesPople JamesPople 51-55, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    So rock me momma like a wagon wheel Rock me momma any way you feel Hey momma rock me Rock me momma like the wind and the rain Rock me momma like a south bound train Hey momma rock...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 9 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I feel so hurt. I can hardly even write on here. I feel so lonely and lost. I am married and my husband treats me bad and blames me for everything. I want to leave but don't...
    lonilyheart lonilyheart 41-45, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm currently fourteen years old, and lost my virginity at the age of twelve. Sure it's embarrassing to say, but believe me I regret it. I was doing some pretty bad stuff at...
    Flannell Flannell 13-15, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    My marriage is in trouble. We are just over a month married. My husband is 51 and has been living with his mother in somewhat of a husband/wife situation for many years (since...
    W0eIsMe W0eIsMe 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    Searching these posts for help winning back my wife. I have failed my my wife. It took an entire year for me to be able to admit that or even see it. For the last year it's been...
    TonyM323 TonyM323 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 23

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    I have been married for 15 years and inherited monies. My husband wanted his own business so I provided it. After he worked in it for 2 years he felt it was too much work and made...
    Marleerh99 Marleerh99 41-45, F Oct 2

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    I joined this forum just so that i can put my experience with my mother in law in writing. so here is the story. I met my husband in college. we were first friends and it turned...
    Aleksanrda Aleksanrda 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 7

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    It is horribly lonely. We have been together 18 years and been to therapy many times. Each time he has not told the entire story. He is diagnosed with depression. Sex is gone...
    mabon1 mabon1 56-60, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Wow there are other people out there like me. Thank God - I'm not stupid or crazy. I hate this man and yet my heart hurts when I think about walking away after 17 years. But my...
    Cflo Cflo 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 30

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    Attention Stepmom's: Put yourself first. I recently left my husband this week after 10 years of marriage. I was unhappy with the conditions of our home and how he never held his...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Coercion. Years ago I read about husbands forcing their wives to perform a certain sex act (named at the end of this story for those curious) under the threat of divorce. It was...
    something2talkabout something2talkabout 51-55, M 16 Responses Sep 25

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    I have failed my my wife. It took an entire year for me to be able to admit that or even see it. For the last year it's been "my wife is selfish" or "my wife is unreasonable." But...
    TonyM323 TonyM323 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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    I have to vent. My husband is the textbook definition of what they call a "crazy maker" to the outside world he is seen as a hard working, loving, head on his shoulders man. To me...
    Jennigans Jennigans 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 4

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    Hi I am new to this forum but I have had the opportunity to read posts and study them. I feel less lonely now and realize that my experience is shared by many. I decided to post as...
    FantasticNJGuy FantasticNJGuy 41-45, M 12 Responses Oct 7

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    I just want to share my experience with you all. I've never come across a story like me.... My marriage is on the verge of collapse and It's all attributed to my mil. I've been...
    trufflecake trufflecake 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Rediscovering Sex in a Sexless Marriage: Rediscovering sex - This is where things are at now. For those who are reading my story for the first time let me point out my marriage...
    Fireflyz26 Fireflyz26 31-35, F 13 Responses Oct 2

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    My ex and I were together for 7 years. The last year was extremely tough on our relationship, we have 2 very young children together. At the time, my husband was working two jobs...
    MsUnderstanding MsUnderstanding 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 6

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