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I Hate My Husband After 40 Years of Marriage

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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    I hate my husband of 19 yrs.

    No, I only hate last 2 years when he constantly lie and cheat on me. I use technology to track his activity with a certain *****.. He is too dumb to know .. Why don't I leave him? It because my 2 teenagers life will be destroy if I divorce him... It's affecting my health! Damn...
    newseason2 newseason2 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    He's a Liar and a Cheater

    I used technology to find out the real character of my psychopath of a husband. I used a digital recorder as well as computer spyware on his computer. I found out the lies that dript off of his rancid tongue. I plan to leave him in the night.
    Teresathebitch Teresathebitch 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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    43 Yrs And I Hate My Wife.

    I think how in the world did it get this bad. can't stand to look at her ,be around, talk to her. I have so much animosity toward her. For yrs she would hate sex with me I try everything nothing helped now I hate to think about sex with her. she won't try to stay fit. I try to...
    trell49 trell49 61-65 Sep 25, 2012

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    Lost Years

    I  HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 42 YEARS, MY HUSBAND IS 14 OLDER THAN ME , WHEN I MARRIED HIM I REALLY  LOVED HIM, BUT I SOON HAD TO WAKE UP TO MYSELF HIS JEALOUSY SOON MADE MY LIFE A PRISON. WE BROUGHT A HOUSE AFTER A FEW YEARS THAT HE PUT ONLY ON HIS NAME BECAUSE HE IS AND WAS GOD...
    antoninabruno1948 antoninabruno1948 56-60 3 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    nnaymar nnaymar 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I am 65 and my wife is 62. We have been together for over twenty years and married for six. I love my wife very much and tell her so frequently. We are compatible and agreeable in...
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    If you have read any of my stories, you probably know a lot about my life. My marriage has been a complete disaster, my husband finally confessed he had an emotional affair for...
    90loveandhate 90loveandhate 22-25, F Jul 3

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    Hello all you wonderful EP folks, I have another update on my formerly sexless marriage. If you want the back story, read my previous posts as they will shed light on the progress...
    mistereko mistereko 36-40, M 11 Responses Jul 14

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    Am finally getting the the point in my life where I can do something to get away from my husband. After 30 years and two terrific kids, it's time to get away from my poisonous...
    Momo2GS Momo2GS 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I'm trying to do the right thing not only for myself, but for my family, especially for my beautiful baby daughter, to whom I might never apologize enough for not choosing well her...
    mery81 mery81 31-35, F a week ago

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    Pelvic Floor Disorder. Something to think about. My marriage ultimately ended due to this disorder. The lack of intimacy and sex killed our marriage. For over 12 years I...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 15

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    So I met my husband 9 years ago and fell deeply in love immediately I had a son from a previous relationship and he accepted me and my son told me I'm the woman of his dreams that...
    canadian4 canadian4 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I've thought about it for years, and it all makes sense; no use denying it now. She hates me. I've known her since I was eight years old and dating my father, and everything was...
    NotNicole NotNicole 18-21, F Jul 19

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    What can I do to bring intimacy back into my marriage? I love my wife and I believe she loves me. We have been through some tough times in our marriage (including her having an...
    joeknox joeknox 46-50, M 13 Responses Jul 14

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    When love knocked my door and I wasn't ready yet ' For long time ago I promise to my self not gonna fall Inlove with somebody .. Because I know that it will just destroyed me for...
    marianlee marianlee 22-25, F Jul 7

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    It amazes me how stupid and narrow minded people, especially bullies are. People don't think with logic/common sense anymore. There are a lot of stupid people where I live. I...
    NovaScotia902 NovaScotia902 22-25 Jul 5

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    It sucks so bad! Who else hate the teen years?
    ItsSwagGurl19 ItsSwagGurl19 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My husband's ex has caused us years of hassle - when we met they were still meeting up at her house. Every time he tried to end it with her, she harmed herself and even attempted...
    bebyvee bebyvee 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    I think I belong to this group with my story instead of ILISM, or both.. Something just doesn’t feel right on the inside of me. I have this heart that can love and be loved, but...
    moonstruck77 moonstruck77 46-50, F 1 hr ago

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    I'm 44 years old. I have been with my husband for 20 years, 14 married. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. My husband is a raging narcissist. Nothing is his fault...
    ughmarriage ughmarriage 41-45 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    We were always close. We always shared and did things equally. That was until he had an affair. 22 yrs of marriage, and hey!!! He had an affair. I mean, when you've got a...
    Mylifesover Mylifesover 46-50 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    My eid experience. Me and my sister and their friends planned to eat at each other house. It was great except for the people. There was people who stood right in our room judging...
    ohida ohida 16-17, F 8 hrs ago

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    I just turned one when my parents divorced so it wasn't hard for me to get over that since I don't remember when my parents even were together. A few years later my dad met my step...
    ahk16 ahk16 13-15, F 18 hrs ago

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    I have been a member of this forum for nearly two years now. During this time, I have gone through the most challenging experience of my life –a divorce from my wife of nearly 3...
    Buroak Buroak 51-55, M 5 hrs ago

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    I have been a member of this forum for nearly two years now. During this time, I have gone through the most challenging experience of my life –a divorce from my wife of nearly 3...
    Buroak Buroak 51-55, M 11 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I'm new at this but I needed to find a safe place to vent. I'm in my 20's and I recently got engaged to a man I've been dealing with on and off for about 6 years. Sounds so perfect...
    curlsandall curlsandall 18-21, F 37 mins ago

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    I have to start my story about my experiences living in Australia, saying that I'm not advising anyone not to come here if you want to. Although, I had very difficult experiences...
    joseerickson joseerickson 41-45, M 14 hrs ago

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    I was unfortunate enough to land myself in a house that includes not only my husband but along with my in laws, sister in law, her husband, and two kids. Everyone knows and can...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been working through this for a long time, and I have a question. I need to try to assess whether I am being unreasonable, going crazy, silly etc. I have been married 20...
    endofthetether endofthetether 41-45, M 13 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    We had been discussing the possibility of separating for about 4 months. Things were becoming strained between us. We were growing distant and I kept trying so hard to bridge the...
    Navylove19 Navylove19 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The world would be a much better place if women ruled it. Although i believe it going into that direction, there is still a way to go. Our life as a couple and parents has become...
    Humblesissy Humblesissy 46-50, M 14 hrs ago

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    I am married and so my AP, neither happily married. We became friends over 2 years ago, but over the last year have gotten alot closer. Our families were all friends (his wife, my...
    Suzanne1976 Suzanne1976 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    In 2008 my Mother in law lost h husband . I tried helping her through his illness and after his death and things were ok.I had never had bad feelings toward her in the past,as a...
    helpless69 helpless69 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I never dreamed I'd find myself here. I never imagined it would all end this way for me. I'm new here to this forum but I am not new to SM. I haven't lived it as long as some of...
    justnanl justnanl 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 1

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    I had a arrange marriage…the very next day mil takes away my gold jewellery worth more than 12 lakhs (without my permission) and keeps it in her locker. I stay mum..n when I ask...
    srinivasleela84 srinivasleela84 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    My wife absolutely refuses to message me. We've been together 15 years, and the last 2 years have been completely text free. 3 years ago we did try and spice things up by sending...
    RicRaver RicRaver 41-45, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I can't speak and write english very well, because I am from Czech Republic, but I want to tell you about my father. My father and mom had marriage more than 20 years ago. My mom...
    Loretten Loretten 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    So sorry this is happening in your marriage. I as, the wife, am suffering the consequences of a sexless marriage. But I am here over 24 years... it's been going on for at least...
    mwmom mwmom 46-50 17 Responses Jul 4

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    At first I didn't know what to think. Then I decided that I was giving this man something his wife could not give him. Sexual satisfaction. I knew the mans wife because I was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    recently i was in a serious car accident , and of course it has been very traumatic and this is a time more than ever that i need my wife to be there for me to provide some love...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 13 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I have 2 sons- one who has been friends with this boy since he was little, my home has always been a bolt hole for him, his mum n sister are drug dealers always in and out of...
    marty1968 marty1968 41-45, F 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    My husband and I have been married for 10 years but we've been together for 15. During our marriage, he cheated on me twice with two different women. The first woman he actually...
    futureexwife14 futureexwife14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    This is just an update on my story and I hope it can show other people here that there is future after a bad relationship. I read stories for here for maybe more than one year...
    mfur mfur 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 20

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    Ok, warning this is going to be long! I am at a loss in life. I have been married for almost 10 yrs, with him for almost 15. Things between us were always good,( not perfect of...
    AuntieShani AuntieShani 31-35, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm 42, he's 40. We've been married 7 years with 2 kids. I just thought we were too tired for a sex life. For the last couple of years I have had this low level of resentment...
    Blox99 Blox99 41-45, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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