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I Hate My Husband After 40 Years of Marriage

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    Lost Years

    I  HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 42 YEARS, MY HUSBAND IS 14 OLDER THAN ME , WHEN I MARRIED HIM I REALLY  LOVED HIM, BUT I SOON HAD TO WAKE UP TO MYSELF HIS JEALOUSY SOON MADE MY LIFE A PRISON. WE BROUGHT A HOUSE AFTER A FEW YEARS THAT HE PUT ONLY ON HIS NAME BECAUSE HE IS AND WAS GOD...
    antoninabruno1948 antoninabruno1948 56-60 3 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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    43 Yrs And I Hate My Wife.

    I think how in the world did it get this bad. can't stand to look at her ,be around, talk to her. I have so much animosity toward her. For yrs she would hate sex with me I try everything nothing helped now I hate to think about sex with her. she won't try to stay fit. I try to...
    trell49 trell49 61-65 Sep 25, 2012

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    40 years of a miserable marriage/ I cant afford

    to leave. I am not working. We have a lot of debt. He causes me so much stress. He has such a temper. Never helps me in the house. Even after surgery. I wish I could leave. I have never wanted to hurt my children by leaving. I eat out of sadness a lot.
    Maggie1909 Maggie1909 61-65, F Nov 27, 2014

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    He's a Liar and a Cheater

    I used technology to find out the real character of my psychopath of a husband. I used a digital recorder as well as computer spyware on his computer. I found out the lies that dript off of his rancid tongue. I plan to leave him in the night.
    Teresathebitch Teresathebitch 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    I hate my husband of 19 yrs.

    No, I only hate last 2 years when he constantly lie and cheat on me. I use technology to track his activity with a certain *****.. He is too dumb to know .. Why don't I leave him? It because my 2 teenagers life will be destroy if I divorce him... It's affecting my health! Damn...
    newseason2 newseason2 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    tammynsparkles tammynsparkles 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    So after I was born my dad had spent a lot of time on the computer. Back then they're wasn't facebook or twitter but they're where chat rooms. Whenever my mom would ask him what he...
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    The love of my life, my dear husband, 36 years old, lost his fight to urachal cancer in dec 2014. I was with him when he breathed his last. It's been really difficult and I am...
    abc2482 abc2482 31-35, F Jan 10

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    i was born as a muslim, muslim parents muslims country, i started to pray at age 4 and that made my parents (Proud), when i was 5 years old i had a really odd dream, i dreamed i...
    S1m0n92 S1m0n92 22-25 1 Response Jan 7

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    Thats the one thing i HATE about new years, everyone talking sh*t about some New year new me And making all kinds of new years resolution that everyone knows they wont keep past...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    I think my husband hates me.....My childhood was REALLY bad. My current husband also had a childhood similar to mine but was not as lucky as me and his life took a different path...
    Lsngthsbttle Lsngthsbttle 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I've been married to my husband for 7 years. We both have had our ups and downs and like most our marriage is far from perfect. I never really had a problem with my SIL, SMIL, or...
    hm3mac hm3mac 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    My husband is always on his iPhone. It doesn't matter what he is doing or where we are he is on it playing games surfing the web and who knows what else. He sits down after supper...
    justagirl30 justagirl30 36-40, F 29 mins ago

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    Well he ****** my *** after spanking me with different implements and positions an I still didn't cry 😞 whyyyyy
    drubear drubear 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I have considered cheating on my husband. we have been married for 22 years and together for 26 years. We did not live together before marriage. We have not had sex in 11 years...
    Mukwah Mukwah 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 2

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    Hate is a pretty strong word, but when it comes to my stuck up SIL, this wench takes the hate cake. Been married to my husband for 6 years. At first she seemed ok. We were married...
    foreverholding foreverholding 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    India as you all might know is a country rich in culture and tradition. Arranged marriages happens to be a very integral part of this culture. I am 27 years old and got married in...
    femaleskeleton femaleskeleton 26-30 1 Response Jan 19

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    Open Letter To My Stepfather-At NO TIME were your children held hostage or missing! While you were telling those lies I noticed you never mentioned that by the time my mother died...
    RicanoinHouston RicanoinHouston 26-30, M Jan 10

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    Step-dad to two girls, now 28 and 23. As well as a daughter of ten (together with my wife of eleven years). A short history on the early days reflects many of the stories I’ve...
    Gutsful Gutsful 46-50, M Dec 31, 2014

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    I have the stepdaughter tale to top them all... Step-dad to two girls, now 28 and 23. As well as a daughter of ten (together with my wife of eleven years). A short history on the...
    Gutsful Gutsful 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    My step-daughter is now 25 years old (going on 6). She just married a man she met in AA (This is another whole story, but sheesh! AA is not the best place to hook up.) who has...
    MostEvil MostEvil 56-60, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I Told My Husband that I Hate My Husband and I feel conflicted about it. When I first wrote about my unhappy marriage five years ago, we'd been married about 10 years. We just...
    jemcakes jemcakes 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    To Have and To Hold: The Boiled Frog"The story is often used as a metaphor for the inability or unwillingness of people to react to significant changes that occur...
    menrclueless menrclueless 46-50, F Jan 19

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    I am the second of five sisters. We are all adults with husbands and children. Our parents, now in their seventies, are still working, blue collar, paycheck-to-paycheck kind of...
    BobbieB106 BobbieB106 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    I would like to get some responses.. Is there any of you or somebody you know who is in a long distance marriage, -I stressed, marriage, not 'long distance relationship', -and...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Well, here we go! I....I guess we....will be starting our new life style this Friday. I discovered DD about 8 years into a horrible marriage. I didn't agree with a lot of what I...
    TownsendsGirl TownsendsGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    'How long have you been married?' I reply 'Too long.' The correct response, is 18 months. I love the man I married, to the moon and back, but even then I had doubts on what our...
    geektulle geektulle 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have already shared my experience about how I cheated on my husband. and no I'm not proud of it and I am well aware of the guilt feeling and how my husband would feel if he knew...
    idontknowwhatiwant idontknowwhatiwant 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My uncle died of lung cancer in 2007. He was a skeleton when he died. It didn't matter he was smoke free for a dozen years. Lung cancer develops inside your body for years. Once...
    mengetpedicures mengetpedicures 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    I am not in a troubled marriage. I am now in my second marriage. My first marriage lasted 21 years. My wife was confined to a wheelchair due to disability. We had three children...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    Hi guys, I don't know from where to start but today I was super upset bcoz of my MIL.. its been ten months to my marriage.. its love marriage.. (inter caste as well).. ufff... my...
    SRT7 SRT7 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 2

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    My husband and I have been married 3 years. We have a 2 year old child. My husband puts me down all the time, even in front of our child. He does everything that he wants to and...
    Confused24x7 Confused24x7 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    My experience started the end of summer starting my sophomore year. My family moved as we just lost our house. The house my parents rented had a guy living next door that was a bit...
    princesskimber princesskimber 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    since I can just vent my frustration with everyone anonymously I would like to say.... I hate my life... I hate can't leave this relationship.... other day a guy hit on me and my...
    sahanara sahanara 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I met my husband when I was 19. He is 8 years older than me and was unhappily married at the time. While we did have a brief fling at the beginning, we remained strictly friends...
    GoddessShashini GoddessShashini 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Loving Women Since Forever- i knew i liked women from a very young age. Ive always been honest about my sexuality with my husband. We've been together ten years in april. He...
    snelletrail snelletrail 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 13

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    I have been divorced for over 3 years now. I often read stories here from people in sexless marriages, hoping that maybe I can help someone either save their marriage or help in...
    sundancesoul sundancesoul 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I have been married for 14 years but have recently separated from my husband. It has been 2 months. Previous to our separation he has been unfaithful and I forgave him and had...
    Ponytail5 Ponytail5 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been in my prison sentence of a marriage way to long I have given everything I can think of for my marriage and nothing works I had a glimmer of hope yesterday evening...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    When my husband cheated, it ended in a pregnancy. My husband is pro-life and she had strong feelings for him so wanted to keep the baby. Two years later and I still harbor deep...
    poojibp poojibp 18-21, F Jan 15

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