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I Hate My Husband After 40 Years of Marriage

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    I hate my husband of 19 yrs.

    No, I only hate last 2 years when he constantly lie and cheat on me. I use technology to track his activity with a certain *****.. He is too dumb to know .. Why don't I leave him? It because my 2 teenagers life will be destroy if I divorce him... It's affecting my health! Damn...
    newseason2 newseason2 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    He's a Liar and a Cheater

    I used technology to find out the real character of my psychopath of a husband. I used a digital recorder as well as computer spyware on his computer. I found out the lies that dript off of his rancid tongue. I plan to leave him in the night.
    Teresathebitch Teresathebitch 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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    43 Yrs And I Hate My Wife.

    I think how in the world did it get this bad. can't stand to look at her ,be around, talk to her. I have so much animosity toward her. For yrs she would hate sex with me I try everything nothing helped now I hate to think about sex with her. she won't try to stay fit. I try to...
    trell49 trell49 61-65 Sep 25, 2012

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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    Lost Years

    I  HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 42 YEARS, MY HUSBAND IS 14 OLDER THAN ME , WHEN I MARRIED HIM I REALLY  LOVED HIM, BUT I SOON HAD TO WAKE UP TO MYSELF HIS JEALOUSY SOON MADE MY LIFE A PRISON. WE BROUGHT A HOUSE AFTER A FEW YEARS THAT HE PUT ONLY ON HIS NAME BECAUSE HE IS AND WAS GOD...
    antoninabruno1948 antoninabruno1948 56-60 3 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    40 years of a miserable marriage/ I cant afford

    to leave. I am not working. We have a lot of debt. He causes me so much stress. He has such a temper. Never helps me in the house. Even after surgery. I wish I could leave. I have never wanted to hurt my children by leaving. I eat out of sadness a lot.
    Maggie1909 Maggie1909 61-65, F Nov 27, 2014

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    So I decided to share my story with you all, because I can't find a solution anymore... I'm sorry for my bad english. I'm almost 18 years old, my boyfriend is 19 years old. We...
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    This is hard. I don't know if this is what I want. My husband, who had an affair for almost two years, has come home. It's been over a month now. He works ALL THE TIME, so it...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    He is such an amazing person. At first i thought he must be a very serious personality but as the time went by i discovered that he is very humorous. Everyday i learn so much from...
    sonalanimax sonalanimax 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I was blindsided one day when my husband called me out of the blue crying and told me that he had messed around and got another woman pregnant. He was away from me training in...
    forty6and2 forty6and2 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am a newly wed, and my husband has three kids (11yrs, 2 yrs, 11 months) with two other women. I have a 2 yr old from a previous relationship (whose "real" dad has never been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been married for going on 10 months. Your typical marriage, where when its great its amazing, when its bad its horrible. Well lately its more horrible then great. I guess my...
    baileygrl82 baileygrl82 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been SD free for years now, only having to see her twice in the past 8 years, and it's been wonderful. Although she still calls my husband only when she wants money with...
    amphen amphen 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    this hasn't been forever, but I have been hating her since I was old enough to understand what hate really is and why this happens. she's disgusting, literally disgusting. I abhor...
    ihateyouuu123 ihateyouuu123 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I was so naive..... I am not allowed to be married to my husband, but rather I have to compete with my SD and his dead wife's memory. I thought I was a nice person, good mom...
    frecks6 frecks6 31-35, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've been with my husband for 15 years, after we lost our business 2 years ago he started hitting me. I'd give the entire world to leave him but I don't have 1 single family member...
    adultchildofasociopath adultchildofasociopath 31-35, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have come to terms that my 5 year marriage is crap. I can't stand my husband in the slightest. I am probably the best actress on the planet. I smile, kiss him, make his lunches...
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am to the point that I just don't even care anymore. I met my man 5 years ago. He was just finalizing his divorce. He had been separated from his ex for almost 2 years at...
    roxmac roxmac 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I read some of the stories here, and most of those are wayyy worse than mine. I felt like an ungrateful, spoiled brat, compared to all those people who have much more valid reasons...
    Forrestgump93 Forrestgump93 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Why do I have to be the "bad guy"? Why do I have to look like the a=hole who wants to leave our marriage despite the fact that my husband (lets call him "T") has only touched me...
    Maymer14 Maymer14 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 25

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    I have been married for a little over 10 years and have been miserable for about 9 of it. I have 2 beautiful girls both under the age of 10 whom I love to the moon and back. After...
    laiken20 laiken20 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    I was just thinking of something that's annoyed me (on and off) over the years--my husbands ex-wife and her behavior. When she was married to husband (over 16 years ago), she was...
    BetweenStates BetweenStates 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    My life is perfect... When its just me my husband and our daughter. But when we get my step daughter my life is a living hell. I feel like a horrible person for having bad feelings...
    stepmom310 stepmom310 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    I found this site while googling things that would spice up my sex life. I wanted something that would add a little excitement. Something that would fulfill my needs and desires...
    BadlyBent BadlyBent 36-40, F 14 Responses Jun 24

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    When I talk about our marriage I often get critical responses especially because of the micro management. I think that is rather sad as it neglects my wife's strength and her as a...
    husbandanddad husbandanddad 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I cannot deal with her. I hate to use the word hate, but it's pushing that point. First, she plays herself to be a saint. She does not drink, she does not curse. That's fine...
    1MoreSilverDollar 1MoreSilverDollar 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    First, I would like to say that I wish I had found this group prior to even getting involved with a man with kids!!! I would have ran so fast the other way. I'm 36...I have a...
    Dddsss123 Dddsss123 36-40 3 Responses Jun 22

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    Both got together in 2006. The first year or two was great. Fantastic really. He was my love, my joy. We were together near 10 years. After those two years our relationship started...
    mkp86 mkp86 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    Needing advice its a long story.... Sorry Sept 2010 I met my husband he was 18 I was 17 still in school. In Nov of the same yr we quit school and moved in with my dad we were...
    CassFitz CassFitz 22-25, F Jun 21

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    Had a "friend" pretend to be my friend only to after my husband! Was pretending for months!!!!! The worst kind of person!!!! Had an affair! Even got close to my 2 kids, the worst...
    Tigerlilly1122 Tigerlilly1122 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I hate the after 3 months apart I allowed you to seduce me back into a relationship with you. I was doing well, I was strong, I was healing. Only for you to tear me down 2 months...
    BeauKitty BeauKitty 26-30, F Jun 21

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    My mother got pregnant with my oldest sister at 15 so she knows how adventurous teenagers can be. When I was a sophomore in high school my mother introduced the pill to me. I had...
    SunnyRaye SunnyRaye 18-21, F Jun 20

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    My husband and I lived about a 7 hour drive from his parents. About 5 yrs. into our marriage I got a promotion that required we relocate. The job I would be working at would place...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 4 Responses Jun 19

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    I can't stand him. I don't want him to touch me, kiss me, sit next to me or breathe in my face. He makes me physically ill. He's lied to me continuously throughout the years...
    vznevada vznevada 61-65, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    Strangers lying to gain pals bites. But a pal lying after years of caring Wow. The pain that causes.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 3 Responses Jun 19

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    My ex husband ruined the way I think about relationships. He was my first boyfriend and he took my virginity. I was with him for about 9 years but only married for 2. Because he...
    MammaWolfie MammaWolfie 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 18

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