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I Hate My Husband After 40 Years of Marriage

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    43 Yrs And I Hate My Wife.

    I think how in the world did it get this bad. can't stand to look at her ,be around, talk to her. I have so much animosity toward her. For yrs she would hate sex with me I try everything nothing helped now I hate to think about sex with her. she won't try to stay fit. I try to...
    trell49 trell49 61-65 Sep 25, 2012

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    He's a Liar and a Cheater

    I used technology to find out the real character of my psychopath of a husband. I used a digital recorder as well as computer spyware on his computer. I found out the lies that dript off of his rancid tongue. I plan to leave him in the night.
    Teresathebitch Teresathebitch 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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    40 years of a miserable marriage/ I cant afford

    to leave. I am not working. We have a lot of debt. He causes me so much stress. He has such a temper. Never helps me in the house. Even after surgery. I wish I could leave. I have never wanted to hurt my children by leaving. I eat out of sadness a lot.
    Maggie1909 Maggie1909 61-65, F Nov 27, 2014

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    Lost Years

    I  HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 42 YEARS, MY HUSBAND IS 14 OLDER THAN ME , WHEN I MARRIED HIM I REALLY  LOVED HIM, BUT I SOON HAD TO WAKE UP TO MYSELF HIS JEALOUSY SOON MADE MY LIFE A PRISON. WE BROUGHT A HOUSE AFTER A FEW YEARS THAT HE PUT ONLY ON HIS NAME BECAUSE HE IS AND WAS GOD...
    antoninabruno1948 antoninabruno1948 56-60 3 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    I hate my husband of 19 yrs.

    No, I only hate last 2 years when he constantly lie and cheat on me. I use technology to track his activity with a certain *****.. He is too dumb to know .. Why don't I leave him? It because my 2 teenagers life will be destroy if I divorce him... It's affecting my health! Damn...
    newseason2 newseason2 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    My Husband Is a Pig

    I really do hate my husband he calls me such horrible thngs hes a total pig .stay in mym marrage cos its the easy opption i must be guttless.
    hatetheman hatetheman 51-55 1 Response Aug 24, 2009

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