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I Hate My Husband With a Passion

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    Tyrant, Control Freak, Hypocrite And All Around Bad Husband!

    I have been married to the same man for 17 years. He is a professional executive. I am a stay at home mom of 3 kids ages 14, 11 and 5. All are boys. I have been an at home mom since I was pregnant with my first child Jack.  We are from Kansas. He took a job out of state 9...
    saddenedmom saddenedmom
    36-40, F
    8 Responses May 9, 2010

    I Hate Him So Much

    He is the laziest person I ever met. We live 3 blocks from the beach and he won't set a foot outside to get fresh air or walk or do any sort of exercise. He doesn't know the concept of saving money. I have never heard him say we need to save money for our future. All his...
    Luna5995 Luna5995
    2 Responses Jan 8, 2012

    American Idiot

    loud, aggressive, opinionated, selfish, liar, negative, insulting, dirty filthy pig, ugly, bald, fat, alcoholic, how the hell did I get myself in this mess
    pollyD pollyD
    Dec 30, 2012

    Because He Blames Me For Everything

    He cheated on me but somehow that was determined by him to be my fault.  He goes out with his friends drinking every weekend and that is my fault too.  I'm not saying that I haven't made mistakes because I have.  We got married young and maybe I wasn't ready. ...
    torijosh1012 torijosh1012
    1 Response Oct 23, 2010

    My Husband Is An ***!

    I have been married for 5 years to the most hateful, mean man. I have seriously considered divorce but we have a three year old daugter and she is crazy about her Dad and I just can't imagine hurting her. I have two other children from a previous marriage and they also reside...
    royaltyx3 royaltyx3
    1 Response Oct 25, 2010

    What An *******!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I won't say I hate my husband more like wish he was never born. He is the most ****** up person I know I am sad to say that I married this sack of ****. Really can't say why I stay he has the smallest penis ever and I do mean ever. There is really nothing good about him on top of...
    spankyrock17 spankyrock17
    2 Responses May 29, 2011

    Mister Why Don't You Go To War (pain In My Rear)

    i trully love this man i call husband, but (oh yes BUT) he has been pushing my last nerves. he came home from iraq almost 5 years ago. he was a reck then and still is now. within the last 2 years he has been diagnosed with ptsd. he is now recieving 40% disability from the va...
    fawkse fawkse
    4 Responses Mar 22, 2011

    I'm not married to that person,

    but we have been living together almost 20 years. Our daughter is 17 years old. In the early years of our life I had loved him and was afraid of losing, but as the years went in return to my selfless love I received rudeness and betrayal. Nevertheless, he didn't leave us...
    Nowil Nowil
    51-55, F
    Dec 14, 2013

    I Am Married To An Idiot

    I married my husband almost two weeks ago.  We haven't even recieved our marriage certificate yet and i am already talking to divorce lawyers.  From the moment I said I DO he has been a jerk.  He is controlling, argumentative constantly accusing me of cheating...
    2wksmarriedlookingtodivorce 2wksmarriedlookingtodivorce
    5 Responses Oct 15, 2010

    The Worst Husband In The World

    OK, he doesn't physically abuse me. But other than that, he is the worst husband in the world. Most women won't leave their husbands because they are financially dependent on them.... God I wish that was my problem!!!! My husband has been unemployed for 2 years. Before that...
    shinymama shinymama
    1 Response Apr 25, 2010

    My Husband Is Testing My Last Nerve

    julia07 julia07
    5 Responses Aug 2, 2009

    IF Only

    littlelamb36 littlelamb36
    8 Responses Apr 15, 2009

    I Am So Sick Of My Husband

    I hate being married to my husband I wish I was single. I filed for divorce but he begged me back and there have been nothing but problems since. I am not sure why I stay. I hate coming home every day and seeing him here.
    sara17986 sara17986
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 25, 2011

    I Can't Stand Him Anymore

    I've been married for just about 8 years. When we met he was so different. He was caring, sensitive and communicative. 1 year into our marriage I got pregnant with our first child. A month into the pregnancy he began to change. He started to become emotionally abusive to me. He...
    allabouthim666 allabouthim666
    36-40, F
    Mar 29, 2012

    My Husband's Mistress Is His Alcohol And Drugs

    I have been married for 25 years, yes just "celebrated" our 25th anniversary.  It was just like any other day.  Initially, I really loved this guy but after having to compete with alcohol and drugs, that love slowly faded.  I can actually remember the actual day...
    courtwalter courtwalter
    51-55, F
    8 Responses Apr 16, 2010

    I Wish I Could Kill My Husband And Get Away With It

    Hi all My husband is a big looser we've been married over 27 years now.. We had 2 opportunities to pay off our mortgage ...but my husband didn't want to listen to me.. He also had been unemployed for 6 years on and off now he has a job... but constantly saying he may be laid...
    lassiemom325 lassiemom325
    7 Responses Aug 21, 2011

    The Dickless Wonder!!!

    I can relate to the person who hates their husband with a passion. I too dislike mine but because he is a manless wonder. We haven't had sex in 7 years and on top of that he barely even speaks to me. He does work now, thank God, but when he gets home, I guess I'm just not...
    ms444125 ms444125
    46-50, F
    Jul 7, 2013

    Just Find Someone Else Leave Me The Hell Alone

    Well I have two beautiful children and 1 & 4 with the same same. A man that does not deserve me. I am young and attractive. I am faithful to him and always have been. He calles me a ***** and says I have a boyfriend. I just got a new job and he calls my work like 3-5 times. I am...
    Chula318 Chula318
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 1, 2011

    I Am Having Trouble Tolerating My Husband

    My husband and I have been married for four years -- we have both been married before to spouses who were unfaithful to us. I was drawn to him because he did not seem like the kind of person who would be unfaithful: he seemed earnest and without guile. He has some great...
    wayfarer2011 wayfarer2011
    2 Responses Jul 16, 2011

    Maybe hate is a strong word.

    He is my 4th child. He works, comes home and complains about everything. He doesn't do yard work. Staying with his own kids while I grocery shop is called babysitting. He is dirty, messy, and treats me like his servant. He will not do home repairs, I do. He is perfectly...
    Twoboys2012 Twoboys2012
    41-45, F
    Aug 26, 2014

    I Hate My Husband With A Passion...

      Why do I hate my husband?  He is so very emotionally abusive.  Such a functioning drunk and pot head.  I don"t know what to do.  We have been married 26 years.  He wanted me to stay home and be a housewife and mother to our 3 children, now they are grown up,  guess now...
    wishicouldleave wishicouldleave
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Nov 13, 2011

    Big Mistake

    I married my husband after only knowing him for a year. He ripped his ex wife off financially to the point where she was left with nothing but I foolishly believed that it was ok because she was "controlling". Now I find that he is the one that is controlling and revolting. He...
    notesmasters notesmasters
    46-50, F
    Jul 4, 2012

    Get A Clue

    Like other stories, there is so much more, but I will try to condense it. I have been with my husband for 22 years. Married for 19. I can barely stand to look at him. We went through several years of infertility treatments and have 2 children. I had extremely painful, as in...
    mmfreshie mmfreshie
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 5, 2011

    Sad To Still Be With Him

    I met my husband 14 years ago in Spain on vacation. When I tell people this they think "how Romantic". Anything but....When we first met I was very attracted to him. We had a whirlwind long distant relationship and he moved to the U.S. and we were married very quickly. We got...
    ronilynn123 ronilynn123
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jun 4, 2011

    I Accomplished My Greatest Dream

    And my husband keeps trying to tear me down. I was a teen mom who lived in her car while pregnant. I worked really hard to finish college and receive my degree while caring for my children and working. I have never wanted anything more and I can't enjoy it because he keeps...
    Astridlynn Astridlynn
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 11, 2012

    Blames Me For His Violence I Am Moving On

    My husband has a real problem with blame, denial deceit and destruction. I am always the one in his violent path. He surrounds himself with people who respect him so when ever he gets a chance or I get to close to his friends he tells them I am the crazy one... I abuse him, I...
    Simplesolutions88888888 Simplesolutions88888888
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 18, 2010

    Stuck! Don't Know What To Do.

    Where do I begin? There is so much to tell that I feel I can write forever. I’ve always felt ashamed about my true feelings for my husband but after almost 14 years of marriage I can truly say that I hate him. As petty as it seems it makes my skin crawl just to see his presence...
    free2020 free2020
    8 Responses Mar 18, 2011

    My Husband Is A Lazy Bastard

    I met my husband almost 5 years ago in college. He was my first love, I gave up school for him, because at the time he couldnt go to school and work because he was carrying too many hours. Well I have moved 6 times in the 5 years we have been together, he has worked a total of 9...
    okiegirl2012 okiegirl2012
    Nov 24, 2012

    Tired Of It All...

    Not that I'm an angel, but I've had it! I'm tired of it all. My husband's definition of love and intimacy is buying "things" for me. Some women would love this, I can't stand it anymore. I would rather just be hugged or kissed. I hate the fact he'll call me a dumb ***** or...
    amyhere amyhere
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Mar 3, 2011

    My Husband Has No Spine And He Calls Himself The "peace Keeper" Bullshit

    So, my husband can't stand up to his family at all. His mother is a ***** who thinks of no one but herself and he is so used to the drama being raised in it that he can't seem to want better for himself or his son. His brother recently came to our house (we live in another...
    justrediculous justrediculous
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Sep 8, 2011

    The Last Kid Leaves For College, and He Wants to Leave Me

    I've never been so blindsided in my life.  Our baby left for college and in less than a month, he's hiding money and telling me how he's "no longer happy" even though he still "cares" for me.  What the ****?  For 26 years I've emotionally...
    KB47 KB47
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Sep 30, 2009

    He Is Such A Victim

    i hate him for playing the victim when he is the one victimizing everyone around him. He takes no responsibilty for anything he says and or does and when is confronted with anything throws it back on me and or the kids like it is our fault well if you hadnt have said or done this...
    littlelamb36 littlelamb36
    18 Responses Nov 4, 2009

    I Really Hate My Husband So Much.

    My husband is super mean to me, he has been verbally abusive to mean. He always has to have his way or no way at all. He always cuts down my family, and me. I hate him so much I wish I could fake my death!!
    alexisdanna alexisdanna
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2011

    After 13 Years, Its So Over But....

    We are trying to keep a relative away from their parents. The parents are drug addicts and abusive, so we have a relative here. We are currently adopting this relative to insure the relatives stability, and so I say all this to say, as long as this adoption is up in the air, my...
    sadfmsheart sadfmsheart
    56-60, F
    Jul 14, 2013

    The Bill Cunningham Show

    My name is Rene, I work for the Bill Cunningham Show I am currently seeking potential guest to come on to our show and confront their husbands about the issues your having with him and to seek PROFESSIONAL counseling TOGETHER during and after the show. Please don't think "MAURY...
    NYCTalkShowGuest NYCTalkShowGuest
    31-35, F
    Jun 25, 2011

    Jealous Husband...

    I wish I have never met him. Or that I would have got away from him as soon as I saw how jealous he is. He creates his own stories. He never trusts me. Not even when I was pregnant, neither now, when we have baby. Im not able to go out without his control. If I do, he'll call...
    HugoWoman HugoWoman
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 13, 2010

    Hate My Husband

    My husband and I have been together 10 yrs and married for 4yrs.  I hate his guts!!!  He constantly reminds me how lucky I am to have him because other women would love to have him.  Other women would love to have a man who cleans up...Yeah right!!!  He...
    shamirakhan shamirakhan
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 15, 2010

    He Makes Me Sick

    I have been married to this person for six years  but we have lived together for 24 years we have known each other for 35 years we was best friends. Okay lets just get to it this man makes me sick and when i say sick i am not being dramatic i mean i look at him and feel...
    louie51 louie51
    4 Responses Nov 10, 2010

    My Husband Is a Freaking Jerk!

    My husband and I have only been married for a year and five months. Our marriage has been horrible from the beginning. It started out that he talk to other women. and even made plans to go visit a girl that he only knew for two weeks, while we were on vacation. Then there is the...
    mommie2be mommie2be
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Sep 21, 2009

    Financially Trapped

    I am 58 and have been married for 27 years. I have to say that I really cannot stand being in the same room with my husband. When we met he was the classic "best foot forward" guy. He was romantic, fun, interesting, basically not what he normally is. We were married a year and...
    MH1953 MH1953
    6 Responses Sep 6, 2011

    Love And Hate

    I been with my husband for 12 years all this time he has told me he is going to quite his drugs don't take me wrong he does work and give me all his check but his drug us is missing our life's we can't get out of the hole we are just getting in deeper he takes $100 i take the...
    esterjo esterjo
    2 Responses Mar 8, 2011

    I Hate Him !

    I have been w/my husband...aka Satan for almost 35 yrs ! We have also worked together for 28 yrs. He plans almost every aspect of my life. We work when HE decides and is best for him. Mostly it is 7 days a week. I am also a pretty good cook and cook 2 meals every day almost every...
    marriedtosatan marriedtosatan
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2011

    I Hate You More Everyday

    i hate you. i hate taking care of your lazy pathetic *******. i hate taking care of our children and household alone just becasue you are incompetant of being an adult. FIghting with you has caused me to hemorage at the seams, hoping that someday when my children are old enough...
    tiredofitall11 tiredofitall11
    6 Responses Dec 26, 2009

    He Is The Lowest Man On The Planet!

    My husband and I are separated, the divorce is pending. He has been angry, abusive, unfaithful and a liar to me but it's the way he's treated his children that makes me hate him. Most recently, my daughter found out via facebook that he has been ******* his cousin and...
    BBWKiwimouse BBWKiwimouse
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Nov 21, 2011

    I Hate Him So Much, Why Is He Still In My Life?

    I have asked this man to leave my house. I have packed his belongings. I am so sick of him, that seeing him makes me want to throw up. After knowing him for over 11 years, he has been one of my biggest mistakes. He promised to love me and never hurt me, yet he has done that and...
    exhaustedytriste exhaustedytriste
    Sep 30, 2011

    To Think I Married A Pastor!!!

    My husband is the worst person I have ever met in my entire life. He is a scum bag from the pits of hell. My husband (well he is not my HUSBAND but this person that I married) had to approach me 3 times in order for me to even talk to him. Anyhow I gave in and we exchanged...
    Diamond1984 Diamond1984
    31-35, F
    Jul 25, 2013

    I'm His Puppet In The Bedroom And I Deeply Hate Him For That.

    I just came out of a divorce from a man who repeatedly cheated on me for thirteen years. He just lost his wife of 26 years. I needed to trust again. To feel worth someone's time again. He needed ....I don't know what he needed. As he put it, he can't sleep without a bump in the...
    Twinkletoes68 Twinkletoes68
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jan 28, 2012
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