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I Hate My Husband

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    I'm so tired of giving everything,

    being supportive, doing all the yard work, doing all the housework, repairing bridges that he blows up with his family and then I do something "wrong" I get the silent treatment for days. He plays the victim role. If I have a bad day, I'm being dramatic and it is always about...
    jbhenderson jbhenderson 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I love my husband but i hate him more!

    He is a huge pain in my a... He claims he works to pay the bills but when i tell him what needs to be paid he doesn't want to pay them!! I would probably get more financial help from him if i divorced him and sued him for child support.
    BlackBeauty35 BlackBeauty35 31-35, F 14 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    I hate him this weekend.

    ....he has had back pain n it makes him miserable. He has no clue how horrid n verbally mean he can be. He has to take pain meds n such to deal with his pain. I hate when he gets in these nasty moods n doesn't realize how it efects me. There are times he comes off Narssisist like...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 6 Responses Apr 26

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    I am so sick and so tired of my husband ,

    his mother sat in my livingroom right infront f me and infront of my family and put my family down and if I say anything negative about his mother he thinks that i deserve to be punished for it she never ever says anything nice to me or my family why would I have anything nice to...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I never thought this day would come.

    I finally got him out of my house torturing me daily. Man this feel good to breathe.. My God thank you. Now I know what it mean to be at peace. I love this feeling
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 28

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 29 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    He got out of the navy almost a year ago

    and is still unemployed. I'm the sole source of income for our household and I do everything for our two girls. He is selfish and lazy! Is it so much to ask that my partner actually be a partner and not just another stress in my life? I asked him to handle the to and from of...
    anonymous157 anonymous157 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 16

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    I always write stories about how unhappy i am

    with him.It's a love/hate relationship.He is a controlling a**hole,and i finally exploded on him last night.Once again,telling me step by step what i should do,being dis respectful,the same old crap,so i FINALLY went off on him.See ,i don't work,but i will in September when my 5...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 65 Responses Mar 19

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    Sometimes I wish I could go back in time

    and just walk away from my husband after our first date.
    typsygypsy typsygypsy 31-35, F 17 Responses Jan 31

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 65 Responses May 10, 2007

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 7 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    My husband is abusive.

    .. Physically, emotionally and in every way possible. We've been married for 2 years. I went against my whole family to be with him, and just months into our marriage, he started treating me like sh**t. I have a daughter with him. I love her so much, she's part of a reason why I...
    Faith89 Faith89 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 20

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 89 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    I swear I hate my husband.

    I know that now! This isn't a story you haven't heard before. I'm just sick and tired and really need to get this out of my system before I lose my mind. I'm sick of his Narcissistic *** being in my life. Sick of always being last on the list. Sick of him treating my children...
    CatsInTheHat CatsInTheHat 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    He is Livid ,he has lost all control of me,

    like i told you guys,I will no longer be his victim,control,that he has financially.He started his crap,and wouldn't put up w/ it ,and that has him furious w/ me.I guess he is filing for divorce tomorrow,makes me feel really sad,for him,he had a great wife.I never cheated,i take...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 27 Responses Mar 24

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    Well it happened tonight.

    I got an open hand slap from him. In front of the kids. I dialed 911 and then chicken out. I should of have him charged. 2 hours of talking and lots of promises. I hate him. It still stings with the tears. The kids are so protective and are hoping we are done fighting...
    tripsandtricks tripsandtricks 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    He has never been physically abusive,

    and sometimes he can be truly amazing, but whenever anything goes wrong for him: at work, with his friends, etc, he becomes indescribably cruel, and can't be satisfied until he's brought me to tears. Its gotten to the point where even the good times are unbearable, because I am...
    LonelyTogether LonelyTogether 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I hate my husbands guts.

    We moved from Austrailia to England for a new life. Some life. The moment I got here I found out this two timing cheat was having an affair with a married woman at work. I brought my dogs with me and now can't go back until I can get a ship to take them which you have to book a...
    bronzebeauty1 bronzebeauty1 46-50 3 Responses Mar 21

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike

    and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out there for others as well. We met when I was 18, married 5 years later. I ignored the signs (shame on me), but have no regrets because of...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    My son was home sick yesterday

    and my husband got pissed had his parents friends say something t me about it what jerks stay out of my life kids get sick I hate living in the same town as the inlaws
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I need time to think.

    It's to hard. It will be the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. He asked me if I wanted him to leave. I hesitated and said I don't know yet. The thing is I do know so why can I not just say it. LEAVE!!!! Then he said court, fight, kids. So I stopped. I can't do...
    tripsandtricks tripsandtricks 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Rain is so soothing. I'm watching through the

    window so hipnotic. Then I see his stupid grin he's under the porch. I now turn sour and wish for lightning.
    tripsandtricks tripsandtricks 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    My husband is the dumbest most childish person

    I have ever met! When people ask how long we've been married, I respond with way too long. Really though, we've only been married for almost three dreadful years. Within the first few months, I deployed and found out he was looking for singles on craigslist to hook up with...
    dixielanddelight dixielanddelight 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 5

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    My husband swears to me every single words.

    He never respect me. He's always playing game on the phone. He treats me like a slave. He doesn't care about me and he doesn't behave like 'a husband'. He never wipe my tears and on Valentines he left me with my son went out and came home 4 in the morning. It's been 2 years...
    Brokenheartwomen Brokenheartwomen 26-30 4 Responses Apr 2

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    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!

    !! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I know that ****** him off more hahaha.!!!!! I have to keep reminding myself that by "taking the high road" is a win for me. although his...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    Who many wifes think that

    if yu husband became female for 1 day then he can understand our problem
    swatha4u swatha4u 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Hate is a strong word,

    so I won't say I necessarily hate my husband. I strongly dislike the dude though. No I'm not in an abusive home. His job allows me to stay home with our 20 month old. He has not cheated on me, nor stolen from me, nor done any of the horrible things you usually equate to a...
    MrsTellit MrsTellit 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 10 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    My husband is abusive mentally,

    he was able to convince me that I am capable of nothing more than being a housewife and a mother,he reminds me time and time again that I will have no life outside this home and that I will not ever be allowed to divorce him.He has taken everything from me my confidence...
    samiam198812 samiam198812 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I cant stand that he thinks

    that his sister and mom were nice to me in the past , oh no they weren't
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 18

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    He's obsessed with himself

    and everything that he wants to accomplish in life. I just find his personality annoying is that normal? Every time he talks I just want to tell him to shut up no one cares
    starrynight2424 starrynight2424 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 6

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    We just got married less

    than a year ago. They say women let themselves go but so do men. All he does is come home and drink beer and play video games. We moved into our house a year before the wedding and he siad that he would fix it up (he is an engineer and more than capable but lazy). I cook, clean...
    araebella araebella 26-30, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 43 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 17 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    Do I have a right to hate my husband?

    For 15 years (8 legal) I have kept this family together. I could go through the list of what I do but its long. So what he does is bring home the income and take out the trash. He will cook a meal on his off days. He recently was handed an opportunity to make 10,000 a month and...
    Jaebolden Jaebolden 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 15 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    My soon to-be husban,

    complains about every thing I do! Lately it's been about me not making enough money because I am currently in college trying to get my diploma. He has the nerve to say that I live off other sources and can't just get a full time job. My other sources he means are student loans...
    MelanieS1991 MelanieS1991 22-25 5 Responses Apr 22

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    Yep. I hate my annoying,

    rude, uninterested, unapologetic, narcissistic, self absorbed, ignorant, mamas boy. Can't think of a dumber thing I've ever done than marry him. He makes me want to jump off a cliff. He is THAT annoying.
    mason2x mason2x 36-40 6 Responses Mar 22

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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