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I Hate My Husband

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    Well he comes and he goes.

    ..My ptsd gets worse with his absences. He said I could quit working;he'll pay all the bills. I'm scared he'll leave again when he's upset and I'll be stuck here with the bills and unemployed. Its hard to go to work when all you do is cry.
    n0tg01ngcr8z4u n0tg01ngcr8z4u 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Im just curious, i know marriage can be an all

    out war on us sometimes but even so do some of you just look at your marriage now and your husband and still want him? Not even sexually, just want back what you had, or even realize you still love him so much even for the (few or rare) good things about him? If so what are...
    mrsmr2011 mrsmr2011 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 7 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    I'm a UK size 10...hardly fat yes I have put on

    weight but I'm 36 years old now every so often he drops a little comment about my weight tonight was do you have to wear those shorts there to small for you they are pj bottoms not like I am going out in them .. He makes me feel like I look like a pig ..he knows I get a lot of...
    lostmyselfgirl lostmyselfgirl 36-40, F 9 Responses Jul 2

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    He is such a jerk his mother is a jerk to me ,

    and if I vent about it to anyone im giving them a bad picture .what!!!!!!! She's terrible and I need to vent you should be ashamed of yourself noone deserves to be baggered by her people need to vent and talk to feel better especially women you big a**
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I never thought this day would come.

    I finally got him out of my house torturing me daily. Man this feel good to breathe.. My God thank you. Now I know what it mean to be at peace. I love this feeling
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 28

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 18 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 89 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 188 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    My story sounds a bit like a lot of your

    stories........I've been married for 3yrs. We have no kids together. I've had my Fallopian tubes removed to make sure that never happens. He has 3 kids from a previous relationship and I have 2. His kids call me mama and my daughter calls him daddy, my 16yr old son doesn't care...
    wishforsinglelife wishforsinglelife 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    And I don't use the word HATE lightly.

    He's narcissistic and the most disrespectful person I have ever known. I am trapped by my two young children. I'm not ready to give then up every second weekend... They are still babies. Does anyone else live this life??
    Gracey0079 Gracey0079 36-40, F 30 Responses Jan 30

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 30 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    I don't know why I forgive him,

    because deep down I know that he will never change. I feel like an ***. Luckily, I am still able to move forward, but damn - I'm afraid. I suppose the feelings are similar to leaving the parental nest. There are times I wish I could lean on friends, but I really don't want to...
    FlutrbyButrfly FlutrbyButrfly 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    I have hated my husband

    for years, I can't get out of this. He keeps me broke so I can't leave. He's self employed with a very very small business, one moth is good and the next isn't. He has gone through all my inheritance. We have a deal on what each other pays, since he doesn't have a good month at...
    Eggshells122 Eggshells122 51-55 70 Responses Jul 20

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    stubborn pain wont try anything new .

    he would rather hang out with his friends than his wife. Big ****
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I wish I could just make the decision to leave

    already. He is miserable all the time. The news makes him upset, face book makes him upset. The whole world is stupid except him. He works harder than anyone else, drives better, can fix anything better. If I say anything negative he blows up. If I am mad he gets madder. I have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 3

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    I can't stand him any more!

    ! I have to vent to someone. I've been with him for over ten years and we have two young children. I'm at the point with him that I just want to scream like a wild banchee and runaway. He works part time...and then sleeps...I work full time, school, and kids...and expected to do...
    Crazylady85 Crazylady85 26-30 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I realize that I really hate him.

    I think I have finally had enough with his sh*t. I thought he had changed, but he hasn't and has started drinking every night again. I've also realize the crappy things that come out of his mouth when he's been drinking are his true feelings and thoughts. I don't know why I...
    FlutrbyButrfly FlutrbyButrfly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I just really need someone

    that I can talk to. Someone who won't judge me or the relationship I have chosen to stay in. Someone that can help me survive this nightmare that I am in. I hate hate hate my husband for literally destroying a single-handedly with his insecurities. I don't deserve this and...
    Wishful2388 Wishful2388 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 66 Responses May 10, 2007

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    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I really hate my husband.

    he always speaks down to me .what a jerk .I feel like he dosent show any respect for anyone . my family who is very respectful twords people so this I will never be used to. how do you tell him to just stop putting me down I can't take him anymore.
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    Yep. I hate my annoying,

    rude, uninterested, unapologetic, narcissistic, self absorbed, ignorant, mamas boy. Can't think of a dumber thing I've ever done than marry him. He makes me want to jump off a cliff. He is THAT annoying.
    mason2x mason2x 36-40 6 Responses Mar 22

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    now his biggest thing is to criticize

    and make me feel really stupid about everything that I say or write in a text .now do you feel smart for putting your wife down .he always has to put people down to TRY and make himself look good to everyone .what a jerk
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike

    and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out there for others as well. We met when I was 18, married 5 years later. I ignored the signs (shame on me), but have no regrets because of...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 10 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 16 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Interested in a story

    that will make you feel like your problems are minor? READ ON... I can only give a quick summary, but looking forward to a true vent session later tonight when I have the time. I have only been married for 2.5 years. We have one little toddler aged girl (my LIFE). When she was...
    ReAwakenedGirl ReAwakenedGirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    FlutrbyButrfly FlutrbyButrfly 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I've been married for 7 years

    and together with my husband for 11 years. I've never felt so much hate for someone in my life. I really hate myself for being the biggest idiot. 3 months after we married, he was fired from his job for having inappropriate relations with one of his employees. He told me it wasn...
    Stuck4ever15 Stuck4ever15 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    I just dont understand the very first day I met

    my husbands mother she was so mean, then she gave me a shirt with dirt on it for xmas , she knew that I was allergic to perfume and she gave me that as a gift , she knew that I cant have anything with cream and cheese and she made that for dinner this is all through the years...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have come to terms

    that my 5 year marriage is crap. I can't stand my husband in the slightest. I am probably the best actress on the planet. I smile, kiss him, make his lunches, and even walk him to the door. He wakes up to coffee and breakfast and even gets pampered to much. The reason I do it...
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 28

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 42 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    He has the nerve to get mad

    because , I don't care for his mothers taste. How stupid! And for trying to get on my nerves well you won because I have had it with you
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    i hate that bastard. I just hate him.

    I have never seen such a horrible person. He shows no love or comfort towards me. I want to divorce him so much more every day.
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    Hate is a strong word,

    so I won't say I necessarily hate my husband. I strongly dislike the dude though. No I'm not in an abusive home. His job allows me to stay home with our 20 month old. He has not cheated on me, nor stolen from me, nor done any of the horrible things you usually equate to a...
    MrsTellit MrsTellit 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    Sometimes I wish I could go back in time

    and just walk away from my husband after our first date.
    typsygypsy typsygypsy 31-35, F 17 Responses Jan 31

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    My husband makes all types of things

    for others, it's like he likes to play hero for everyone else except me and our children. I hate it that I don't have the heart to just leave because my children adore him. Why did I have children with him. WHYYYYY?????
    Hatehumidity Hatehumidity 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So I filed for divorce

    and it is getting UGLY. We have 2 little kids, 8 and 10, and he is using them as pawns. I never thought I could despise someone I had lived so much at some point. He is despicable. Luckily, I have talked to our children about the divorce and every time he tells them an...
    lookingtovent2 lookingtovent2 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I have been married almost 3 months!

    He went to court in another state a month after our wedding (for charges I have seen the paperwork and will be thrown out- this is important) well I knew prior to marriage about one legit charge he had on his record and I wrote it off as everyone makes mistakes. My dad spent 8...
    bentbutnotbroken bentbutnotbroken 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Rain is so soothing. I'm watching through the

    window so hipnotic. Then I see his stupid grin he's under the porch. I now turn sour and wish for lightning.
    tripsandtricks tripsandtricks 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    His mother is the type of person

    that says anything thats on her mind . I really cant stand that about her it's a horribe trait .so she insults my hair color and tells me that I look old , of course that hurts me its an insult .but, of course the only right thing to do is to get even and insult her with two...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 3

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