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I Hate My Husband

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    I really despise my husband.

    We have been married for over 5 years and I have started to have such angry feelings toward him I could scream. He is an abusive man, he digs into his paycheck before I can even touch it to pay bills. I struggle week to week, not even having money for lunch... we talked about me...
    Anon0526 Anon0526 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 28

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    my husband ****** me

    so hard and after that said-You can't make me happy :(..,wtf with him
    icanreachyourhight icanreachyourhight 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    My husband is an *******!

    !!!!!! I hate how my kids cry for him when he leaves or goes out to be with his friends!! He doesnt deserve that kind of love from them he never spends time with them never. I resent him for all the breaks he gets. I know he works hard, i know he needs time alone too but what...
    texaschick85 texaschick85 26-30, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I have given my very best

    and its never good enough.i know what a wife should be and i am more than that.i have no one to talk to.when i talk to him about personal things during a fight he will use something i told him to hurt me.just hits me below the belt.how evil??????
    rece1117 rece1117 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 29

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    mrstonie mrstonie 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 23

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    I hate my husband of 20 yrs.

    I often wish he would just leave or even die, and then feel like a horrible person for wishing for him to die. Not because I would miss him, but because of the pain it would put his mom, dad,sister and our children through. Truthfully Im not sure if I ever really loved him. He...
    shazzy41498 shazzy41498 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    Well 40 years ago I knew what he was like,

    but he was fit, good looking and healthy and we both worked long hours so we only had the weekends. Even then I knew he would make an unbearable 50+ year old, but it seemed so far away I thought I would deal with it when it happened. I thought I would be a different person too...
    Gaaaah Gaaaah 56-60, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am so tired of picking up

    after your immigrant ***, and then after 3 years of you not working and me like an idiot paid for everything now that I had a baby you throw in my face that you work. Huh, hello I take care of the kids,clean cook, wash clothes, do errand, pay bills and work side gigs to get...
    malonso1994 malonso1994 36-40, F Jul 31

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 44 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    wasted my life...

    For the past couple of days I have been wondering why I have wasted so much of my life?  I have been with my husband for 13 years, married for 9.  The only joy that has come out of this marriage are my 3 beautiful children, who are truly my life.  Other than that...
    judy3kids judy3kids 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    So here goes.. I've been with my partner

    for 8 years and we haven't been Married for even a year yet and I'm hating him so much already I feel like he never wants to be home his always at work for long hours then goes to the gym for over an hour and a half every single day including weekends. Then I'm the worst...
    lostaussie lostaussie 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 82 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    Not even sure where to start.

    I feel like I'm married to a stranger. To make the story shorter, we've been married for 4 years, 2 young girls, he's physically cheated on me and has had issues with ***** clubs and massage places. I have stuck by his side, as stupid as that may be. And we have been doing...
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    Why do I ALWAYS get put on the back burner?

    ! My husband chooses everything over me and our kids. I'm ******* sick of it. What's love anyway, right??
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 23

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    I married my husband

    because I was ready. I was ready for a family. My parents are both deceased and my window of time for having a baby was coming down. We dated for a year, during which I saw glimpses of his emotional distance. But once I became pregnant and we married he became a total stranger...
    silentla silentla 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    mrstonie mrstonie 46-50, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 19-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    I love my husband but i hate him more!

    He is a huge pain in my a... He claims he works to pay the bills but when i tell him what needs to be paid he doesn't want to pay them!! I would probably get more financial help from him if i divorced him and sued him for child support.
    Unhappilymarried34 Unhappilymarried34 31-35, F 13 Responses Jun 27

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    My husband's ex cheated on him.

    I'm not saying it was right or that he deserved it but I'm beginning to understand why she thought she was justified in doing it. God I wish I could tell my husband that!
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F 2 Responses May 12

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    Married to a Jerk

    I have been married for almost 14 years. I started to hate my husband about 10 years ago (when my son was born). Everything in life that goes wrong is my fault at least he sees it that way. I cannot do anything right and I am a horrible mother. He has called me fat for as...
    libbie libbie 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 30, 2008

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    Actually I Don't " Hate " My Husband.

    I just don't have any strong emotion toward him anymore. I used to love him. Loved enough to leave my home country to be with him. He was playing a pro sport in my country for about a year when I first met him. I was 23 and he was 21. We dated for several months and...
    Halfmoon008 Halfmoon008 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I met my husband when I was a vulnerable 17 yr

    old. I had no self confidence and meeting him was amazing. We married 6 years later when I was 23 and have an 8 yr old and 5 yr old. I love them dearly. I'm now 34 and a completely different person. He still acts the fool whuch us embarrassing I tried telling him I've the years...
    rainebow79 rainebow79 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 15

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    I cant stand that he d doesnt understand

    that when anyone brings up his mother's name it makes my blood boil you see I invited her over for a party and as usual his mother can b not behave she sat in my dining room saying terrible things about my family this is the second time she has done this and she hurt me...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I am Stuck with a man

    who I don't even want to be around... Yet I am stuck living with him ....And no it is not easy to get out.... I depend on him to watch kids so I can work so I can afford the house I just purchased for us and he is a great dad to his 2 kids we have... Not so much to my older...
    summersnow78 summersnow78 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 16

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 186 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    I'm so sick of doing everything in the house

    and being told I never do anything. Or being on my feet all night trying to clean up and get my basement finished and get a nursery ready while my lazy husband sits on the couch. I need help cleaning the house, I need compassion for being 9 months pregnant, I need back massages...
    blondie529 blondie529 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm a Mexican girl from East Los Angeles,

    California, and I now live in New Zealand. I married a Kiwi man, and it's not all that I thought it would be. I feel constantly dismissed, and I feel like my husband does not see me as an equal and puts his friends above my own needs and desires. He is also on the high-end of...
    secretsurgeon secretsurgeon 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 8 Responses Jan 11

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    after 4 years of marriage

    and a beautiful daughter out of it, i am done. i am done with being used financially, emotionally, and physically. it didn't start out this way, and i am just sad and sorry that it ended up this way. i hate him for his deceitfulness, for taking me fro granted, and for...
    kmdavid kmdavid 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 5

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 4

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    I hate my husband because he always comes first.

    His drinking comes first. His needs/wants come first. He doesn't care if I need sleep, if I'm sick, pregnant, whatever, he will badger me until he gets what he wants. I cannot believe this is my life; that this is the man I'm supposed to spend the rest of my life with. Once...
    sickofthisdisrespectfuljerk sickofthisdisrespectfuljerk 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Is there anyone in this group

    who wants to be apart of a documentary? You would submit a video to us and the team will contact you if we want to use it for the documentary. We would have to speak by email first and explain everything to you before you would make and submit the video. Currently, we are...
    ShyMysticc ShyMysticc 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    23 Years of Hell

    I don't know why I have stayed married to this guy for so long, I guess you could say it is a marriage of convenience.  He has never been a good father to our two daughters, always his work came first.  I have felt like a single parent forever.  But God forbid I...
    babs45 babs45 46-50, F 19 Responses Dec 29, 2007

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 19 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    Starting to hate him more

    and more everyday just found out from my son that he has been bashing me to him which is horrible.then when we have fights he will call me a stupid c**t in front of my children and he has the nerve to say that he gets mad when I say that I dont like his mother but he can call...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 6 Responses Jan 10

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 15 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Hate my husband, he's very inconsiderate .

    ... Never smiles... Always negative ..
    crazybish crazybish 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I married a man 20 years ago.

    After the first 5 years the sight of him made me sick. I stuck around because i thought i had to. Ladies if you hate this man please leave them. Dont turn out like me and curse the day we meet and the day we married. I wasted 15 years of my life. I started hating the...
    gmayes9 gmayes9 51-55 4 Responses Aug 5

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    I hate my husband! He is

    such a child.. He calls me names all the time and repeats them because he knows how much it irritates me! Sometimes I sit and think about how good my life would be if he would just disappear!
    irritatedtothemax irritatedtothemax 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    Animal

    i just wanted to say reading u all makes me feel better. because i now no I'm not alone. and neither are you (even though it may feel like it) i want out. and I'm working on it. it takes a while to save enough money when u do not work and just go to school. but i am getting...
    fuckhim fuckhim 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 31 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    Ugh my husband is being a f***ing a-hole!

    ! I hate long weekends i'd rather be at work!! 😡
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 12 Responses Apr 18

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    My husband and I have been together

    for almost 13 years and married for 5. He has known since the beginning that I wanted children. I have a 17 y/o from a previous relationship and lost a child to SIDS before we got together. Now, I am 36 and my doctor says I am peri-menopausal. Early menopause runs through my...
    gd78 gd78 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 64 Responses May 10, 2007

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    My husband just left me

    and my son said I should talk to people here about my lack of sex. I worry about my son sometimes any hi
    Lisamum46 Lisamum46 46-50, F 21 Responses May 28

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    I am new to EP, and noticed there are just over

    4,000 members in this group. I was wondering out of all those people, how many have actually gotten away from their husbands and how?
    fedup9742 fedup9742 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 12

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