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I Hate My Husband

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    I am sick and tired if him causing trouble all

    the time . For no reason are you really that dense I am so sick and tired of this
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 17 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 65 Responses May 10, 2007

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    My husband ruins me! I just can't!

    I've done nothing wrong but because he tracks my every move I went to drop my car off today to get washed and he obviously new I left my office to do it and called I missed the call so now he's being a complete ******* to me! I can't take it! And to top it off his oldest son...
    Wishful2388 Wishful2388 26-30, F 2 Responses May 13

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    Unforgivble- In March of this year

    after serving 15 years of a 20 year sentence my husband of 21 years was deported from the United States back to his native Italy. That's where I met and married him while I was still in the Army and where our daughter was born in July 1994. He served those 15 years after...
    CocoaBelle CocoaBelle 41-45, F 7 Responses May 24

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    For allowing his mom to verbally abusing me .

    and acting as if I should take it she is never civil around anyone she just dosent care and I'm pissed that I don't mean enough well that's the way that I feel anyway .
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I don't think there is a word

    that can sum up how much I hate my husband. I hate him I hate him I hate him. We have been together for 9 years and 3 children. For as long as I can remember my husbands world doesn't include wife and kids. I get that he works hard to provide for us but where in the equation do...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 4 Responses May 15

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    I hate my husband too.

    and it grows day after day. I see I am not alone:) He grosses me out with everything he does. But I can't leave him yet because I depend on him financially and I am generally afraid of divorce.
    aliyam aliyam 36-40, F 1 Response May 16

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    I always write stories about how unhappy i am

    with him.It's a love/hate relationship.He is a controlling a**hole,and i finally exploded on him last night.Once again,telling me step by step what i should do,being dis respectful,the same old crap,so i FINALLY went off on him.See ,i don't work,but i will in September when my 5...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 63 Responses Mar 19

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    Who many wifes think that

    if yu husband became female for 1 day then he can understand our problem
    swatha4u swatha4u 22-25, F May 2

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    If I leave him, he has no money,

    no house, the kids will want to be w me, he's an *** but wasn't always and I love him still. but. I can /not/ stand him, at all right now.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 11

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    Rain is so soothing. I'm watching through the

    window so hipnotic. Then I see his stupid grin he's under the porch. I now turn sour and wish for lightning.
    tripsandtricks tripsandtricks 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I've posted here before about how abusive my

    husband is to me. I'm planning on leaving him this summer because my parents are coming down and by that time I'll save up some more money. But summer seems like so far away. Things are really bad right now. He keeps treating me like crap. And I just found out this morning that...
    Faith89 Faith89 26-30, F 2 Responses May 14

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    I am so sick and so tired of my husband ,

    his mother sat in my livingroom right infront f me and infront of my family and put my family down and if I say anything negative about his mother he thinks that i deserve to be punished for it she never ever says anything nice to me or my family why would I have anything nice to...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses May 1

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 10 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    I love my husband but i hate him more!

    He is a huge pain in my a... He claims he works to pay the bills but when i tell him what needs to be paid he doesn't want to pay them!! I would probably get more financial help from him if i divorced him and sued him for child support.
    BlackBeauty35 BlackBeauty35 31-35, F 13 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    My husband has been someone

    that I have completely killed myself to please. He is a complete ball of insecurities and for the past 5 years always try's to catch me in a lie that never comes! I have given up everything I enjoyed in life because I though all I wanted was him. I used to be an amazing outgoing...
    Wishful2388 Wishful2388 26-30, F 4 Responses May 10

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    My husband never listens to me

    and manipulates me. He was married to a crazy person who lies to the police like once a day and we have full custody and his son is 4 and acts out all the time and my husband does nothing. I am not attracted to him and I don't know why im staying. I hate him for hiding his past...
    stuckinarut94 stuckinarut94 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have to prove my worth to him all the time.

    I'm a stay at home mom with a part time job, but as long as I make less than him, I will always be worth less. He says a bunch of nice things to me but then when he gets angry, says incredibly hurtful things that undermine anything he could possibly say to lift me up. Hes always...
    snjarvis snjarvis 22-25, F 4 Responses May 7

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    I never thought this day would come.

    I finally got him out of my house torturing me daily. Man this feel good to breathe.. My God thank you. Now I know what it mean to be at peace. I love this feeling
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 28

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    i have days where i can't take it.

    i hate him. all he cares about is himself. he's a selfish narssasistic jerk. i wish my baby and i never saw him again. i just want him far far away. i can't live like this. we dont deserve this. and he doesn't deserve us. im so scared cus he's already threatened me with taking...
    silentmommy silentmommy 22-25 1 Response Apr 30

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me

    and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a lie. I hate pretending that everything is ok. I hate the person I am. I have lost myself in this lie that has become my life. There is no...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 29 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    He got out of the navy almost a year ago

    and is still unemployed. I'm the sole source of income for our household and I do everything for our two girls. He is selfish and lazy! Is it so much to ask that my partner actually be a partner and not just another stress in my life? I asked him to handle the to and from of...
    anonymous157 anonymous157 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 16

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 43 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Yep. I hate my annoying,

    rude, uninterested, unapologetic, narcissistic, self absorbed, ignorant, mamas boy. Can't think of a dumber thing I've ever done than marry him. He makes me want to jump off a cliff. He is THAT annoying.
    mason2x mason2x 36-40 5 Responses Mar 22

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    We just fought because he had a UGLY outburst

    with me. We were going to go on a nice hike, but after his outburst I no longer wanted to spend time with him today. We will be married 32 years in a few weeks. I know it can't be perfect all the time but right now, I hate him.
    JustTryingToLiveThisLife JustTryingToLiveThisLife 51-55, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    And I don't use the word HATE lightly.

    He's narcissistic and the most disrespectful person I have ever known. I am trapped by my two young children. I'm not ready to give then up every second weekend... They are still babies. Does anyone else live this life??
    Gracey0079 Gracey0079 36-40, F 29 Responses Jan 30

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    I hate him this weekend.

    ....he has had back pain n it makes him miserable. He has no clue how horrid n verbally mean he can be. He has to take pain meds n such to deal with his pain. I hate when he gets in these nasty moods n doesn't realize how it efects me. There are times he comes off Narssisist like...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 7 Responses Apr 26

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    My soon to-be husban,

    complains about every thing I do! Lately it's been about me not making enough money because I am currently in college trying to get my diploma. He has the nerve to say that I live off other sources and can't just get a full time job. My other sources he means are student loans...
    MelanieS1991 MelanieS1991 22-25 4 Responses Apr 22

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    I am so unhappy!! My husband

    and I have been together for 10 years. I was only 18 when we started dating and I had just turned 20 when I had my 1st baby. I have so much hate for him, but there is a small part of me that has love for him. I am not in love with him and the thought of having sex with makes me...
    mommachels mommachels 26-30, F 1 Response May 12

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    Sometimes I wish I could go back in time

    and just walk away from my husband after our first date.
    typsygypsy typsygypsy 31-35, F 17 Responses Jan 31

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    He is Livid ,he has lost all control of me,

    like i told you guys,I will no longer be his victim,control,that he has financially.He started his crap,and wouldn't put up w/ it ,and that has him furious w/ me.I guess he is filing for divorce tomorrow,makes me feel really sad,for him,he had a great wife.I never cheated,i take...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 25 Responses Mar 24

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 89 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    Oh god where do I begin?

    This is a man who once threw a glass of chewed tobacco in my face for insulting his sister. Physical, verbal, mental, emotional, sexual you name it, he's done it to me. Not even counting with being dragged by my hair while 6 months pregnant then punched on the top of my head...
    Bellalargo Bellalargo 31-35, F 2 Responses May 5

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike

    and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out there for others as well. We met when I was 18, married 5 years later. I ignored the signs (shame on me), but have no regrets because of...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    My husband I met when we were over 50.

    I had been in a very abusive marriage and had no desire to ever marry again. I told him that I did not want to marry again up front, but, over the three years we dated, he finally talked me into it. Our dating life was quite romantic and sexy, so I thought that would continue...
    Bobbi9698 Bobbi9698 56-60, F 2 Responses May 17

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    My husband wont stand up to his family

    when they are rude to me. He gives me the lame excuse that it's hard to stand up to his sister. my response was you took vows with me not that piece of work. It makes me want a divorce. I deserve better. I already spoke with an attorney and was advised we have to be...
    notinmydeck notinmydeck 31-35, F 2 Responses May 6

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    i am a married guy just reading.

    shocked there is so many woman on here that are unhappy with their husbands. but i am not one to judge because i have been there before with an ex wife.
    stlguy45 stlguy45 41-45, M 1 day ago

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