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I Hate My Husband

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 30 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    now his biggest thing is to criticize

    and make me feel really stupid about everything that I say or write in a text .now do you feel smart for putting your wife down .he always has to put people down to TRY and make himself look good to everyone .what a jerk
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Jul 25

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 17 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    I have been married almost 3 months!

    He went to court in another state a month after our wedding (for charges I have seen the paperwork and will be thrown out- this is important) well I knew prior to marriage about one legit charge he had on his record and I wrote it off as everyone makes mistakes. My dad spent 8...
    bentbutnotbroken bentbutnotbroken 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I have been married to my husband

    for 10 yrs. I used to love him, but after years of not supporting our family, and the constant putting me down I just hate him . Everyone around me screams divorce but I keep holding on because we have 4 children that love him. He is nice when he isn't asked for anything, but if...
    sambray sambray 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I never thought this day would come.

    I finally got him out of my house torturing me daily. Man this feel good to breathe.. My God thank you. Now I know what it mean to be at peace. I love this feeling
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 28

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    Im just curious, i know marriage can be an all

    out war on us sometimes but even so do some of you just look at your marriage now and your husband and still want him? Not even sexually, just want back what you had, or even realize you still love him so much even for the (few or rare) good things about him? If so what are...
    mrsmr2011 mrsmr2011 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    My husband is a loser.

    A self-centered, cold-blooded loser. When I met him, I thought it would be a nice challenge to make him feel something (he is just so apathetic), because everyone is entitled to love... not him. He couldn't feel love even if it jump on him. In fact, I hope he falls in love with...
    Alllosers Alllosers 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    I don't know how much longer I can hang on.

    I am always the care taker. I work full-time, pay all the bills, pay our health insurance, go to the grocery store, cook, clean, and much more. I take care of us and he doesn't even make the bed when he wakes up at a leisurely hour and does nothing all day. I actually wouldn...
    LostSomeWhere123 LostSomeWhere123 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    From day one of our marriage he has not been my

    partner. We've been together 8, married 5. He was a great boyfriend but a horrible husband. He's not the adult I dated, he makes immature arguments in regards to what is right and wrong, always sides with my step son, no matter how wrong he is. I get questioned over every...
    marty0710 marty0710 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!

    !! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I know that ****** him off more hahaha.!!!!! I have to keep reminding myself that by "taking the high road" is a win for me. although his...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me

    and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a lie. I hate pretending that everything is ok. I hate the person I am. I have lost myself in this lie that has become my life. There is no...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    I hate him so much that I know he just spent

    this last weekend with another woman and I am happy about it, because I'm hoping he'll leave soon and I 'll be free at last.
    hassareh hassareh 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    Sometimes I wish I could go back in time

    and just walk away from my husband after our first date.
    typsygypsy typsygypsy 31-35, F 17 Responses Jan 31

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    And I don't use the word HATE lightly.

    He's narcissistic and the most disrespectful person I have ever known. I am trapped by my two young children. I'm not ready to give then up every second weekend... They are still babies. Does anyone else live this life??
    Gracey0079 Gracey0079 36-40, F 29 Responses Jan 30

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    I just want to rant. When my husband gets mad

    at me because something so small & unreasonable in my opinion, I hate him. He said that he is stress because of me, but I think it's just because his heart is so small. And maybe because of the culture. He said that my behavior in front of others was very rude while I found that...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    My husband thinks he is an intelligent,

    thoughtful, responsible and loyal man. I did too when I married him. The truth is that he is lazy, educated in pop culture, needy and insecure. He vies for attention from out daughter to satisfy his own need for affection and validation to a point of annoyance. He wastes all...
    wildsmile wildsmile 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike

    and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out there for others as well. We met when I was 18, married 5 years later. I ignored the signs (shame on me), but have no regrets because of...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 10 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    This sounds like I wrote it to a "T.

    " I am so scared of what he has charged on credit cards to pay his half of expenses that I am liable for now when I have paid cash for my share all along. Basically he's financially cheating me. I have had 2 affairs with other men because I am not interested sexually in him in...
    Pattye2015 Pattye2015 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    Hate is a strong word,

    so I won't say I necessarily hate my husband. I strongly dislike the dude though. No I'm not in an abusive home. His job allows me to stay home with our 20 month old. He has not cheated on me, nor stolen from me, nor done any of the horrible things you usually equate to a...
    MrsTellit MrsTellit 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    I know hate is a strong word

    and it ebbs and flows but tonight I hate him. Everything about him. I have terrible thoughts about what I wish would happen to him. Tomorrow I will feel the guilt of it but tonight I will dream of a life without him as my husband and pray I am strong enough to make it happen.
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Is texting another woman

    and sending her your pic considered cheating? And then when asked about it you lie
    nursesrock007 nursesrock007 31-35, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 66 Responses May 10, 2007

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Yep. I hate my annoying,

    rude, uninterested, unapologetic, narcissistic, self absorbed, ignorant, mamas boy. Can't think of a dumber thing I've ever done than marry him. He makes me want to jump off a cliff. He is THAT annoying.
    mason2x mason2x 36-40 6 Responses Mar 22

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    He is the biggest jerk ever knows how much I

    cant not stand his little cuban brother in law and has to make sure that this jerk makes my life miserable. I didnt even do anything .why the hell would you do this to me .you are such a jerk .and you really need to take care of yourself you look terrible .I am really starting...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Aug 19

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    I don't know why I forgive him,

    because deep down I know that he will never change. I feel like an ***. Luckily, I am still able to move forward, but damn - I'm afraid. I suppose the feelings are similar to leaving the parental nest. There are times I wish I could lean on friends, but I really don't want to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 25

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    I just dont understand the very first day I met

    my husbands mother she was so mean, then she gave me a shirt with dirt on it for xmas , she knew that I was allergic to perfume and she gave me that as a gift , she knew that I cant have anything with cream and cheese and she made that for dinner this is all through the years...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    Just stop it? seriously?

    This is what my husband tells me when he asks what is wrong and I am depressed. At least this was his answer 1 year ago. I remember at that moment never again opening up to him. I am clinically depressed. I have been diagnosed and apparently I should "just stop thinking like...
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Rain is so soothing. I'm watching through the

    window so hipnotic. Then I see his stupid grin he's under the porch. I now turn sour and wish for lightning.
    tripsandtricks tripsandtricks 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    I am married to the most boring

    and low self-esteem man on earth.. I feel bored with him and his personality
    rockygunz rockygunz 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 92 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    Well it was the final straw tonight.

    i found out the husband I hate is cheating AGAIN. I am so over it I feel....empty. I don't care anymore. He has no idea that I know but I will be getting my ducks in a row. It is time for me to reclaim my freedom and my life. Being a single mom of 4 I will never be lonely. My...
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I have hated my husband

    for years, I can't get out of this. He keeps me broke so I can't leave. He's self employed with a very very small business, one moth is good and the next isn't. He has gone through all my inheritance. We have a deal on what each other pays, since he doesn't have a good month at...
    Eggshells122 Eggshells122 51-55 55 Responses Jul 20

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    We've known each other

    since high school, dated on and off while he was in the military and have been married for 3 years. I've always know he is a me me person, but things have gotten worse. We have 2 older children and a toddler, I work full time, pay bills, cook dinner nightly and clean the house...
    nursesrock007 nursesrock007 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 188 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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