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I Hate My Husband

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    Married to a Jerk

    I have been married for almost 14 years. I started to hate my husband about 10 years ago (when my son was born). Everything in life that goes wrong is my fault at least he sees it that way. I cannot do anything right and I am a horrible mother. He has called me fat for as...
    libbie libbie 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 30, 2008

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    First off shame on you

    for using the word hate. Second if you don't love your husband please leave him. My wife just died and I can tell you it's a whole lot easier to go through a divorce then it is a death. Put things in perspective if you're in a marriage try to make it work if you hate the other...
    Shmily68 Shmily68 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Actually I Don't " Hate " My Husband.

    I just don't have any strong emotion toward him anymore. I used to love him. Loved enough to leave my home country to be with him. He was playing a pro sport in my country for about a year when I first met him. I was 23 and he was 21. We dated for several months and...
    Halfmoon008 Halfmoon008 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Things are very strained at the moment.

    I'm up to my neck in his emotional abuse. Can't afford to leave. I think he get a lot of it from the t.v. We are almost living separate lives in 1 house. He is 72. Why is he like this??
    fluffy3hazel fluffy3hazel 66-70 3 Responses Feb 14

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    Ugh my husband is being a f***ing a-hole!

    ! I hate long weekends i'd rather be at work!! 😡
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 78 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    I Hate My Abusive Husband

    I am only 21 years old, and I have a 2 year old with my husband. He isnt what you would call nice, kind, or caring. He finds pleasure in hurting me, he finds strength in beating me down. My husband makes it his goal to ensure I feel like **** everyday. I have had a distorted view...
    Shawnnas Shawnnas 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    wasted my life...

    For the past couple of days I have been wondering why I have wasted so much of my life?  I have been with my husband for 13 years, married for 9.  The only joy that has come out of this marriage are my 3 beautiful children, who are truly my life.  Other than that...
    judy3kids judy3kids 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2009

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 16 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 187 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    fionacc11 fionacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    We have been married 38yrs!

    !! He is very controlling and demeaning!!1 He has never been a Dad to our kids or his 3 kids from previous marriage!!! I cannot stand to listen to him breathe!!!
    sittinonthecouch sittinonthecouch 66-70, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    I have been married 19 yrs

    and I hate my husband. I realize I made a huge mistake by marrying him. He is not the person I thought he was at all. He is always angry and fussing about something. I have gotten to the point I would be happy if he never said a word to me ever. There are days his voice makes my...
    Madeahugemistake Madeahugemistake 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    Well I just started a new job

    and my husband has been nothing short of useless all he has to do all day is all the stuff he ******* I never do right. He goes back to work at the end of April but apparently until then wants to be completely useless. He says he is cleaning up the place but all that means to...
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 28

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    Am I crazy for feelin this way ?

    The worst thing happened to me I'm deep asleep my husband wakes me up at 5 in the mornin n farts on me then says he has a hard shaft rubs it on me tells me to suck it n get on top hell no u haven't gave it to me for a month n a half n expect me to want to do everything doesn't...
    Redgirljanine Redgirljanine 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 15

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 7 Responses Jan 11

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    My husband has untreated bipolar disorder.

    I need some serious support!
    Iwillsurviveagain Iwillsurviveagain 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 20 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    I Hate My Husband !

    After 24 years and 4 kids, my husband wants a divorce. I was pretty and he pursued me when ever I left him over the years. I feel like now that I gained 20 poulds over the past year and broke an incisor that I don't have the $3,000 to fix, I am no longer attractive to him. He has...
    robLOVER robLOVER 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    I'm at my breaking point.

    I really do hate my husband. We used to have a great relationship and then it all changed when his kid moved in. He started sleeping on the couch because he said "he didn't trust the kids sneaking out", well that has been over 10 years and we no boys in the house now. We took in...
    min28 min28 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 4

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    I hate him. It has been 7 years

    since I first posted in this forum and I still hate him. The hatred has grown. this has begun to affect me, I know this. I have begun to wonder what kind of a stupid person I am (he berates me at times so I have begun to wonder myself). He calls me useless among other things...
    Donnawashere Donnawashere 46-50 6 Responses Mar 13

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    He took a pair of scissors

    and chopped off a chunk of my hair (vertically) so that I cannot leave my house.
    gmgle gmgle 51-55, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    when i got married i thought my husband was the

    one but i was wrong. he has lied about everything the entire time and i don't believe anything he says. He has gone to made up jobs, had me fine other transportation and spend the little money we have on gas so he could go to work. but he was driving around pretending to work...
    marriedtoalier marriedtoalier 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    He Makes My Blood Boil!!!!

    How can 1 person **** me off so bad? I am turning into someone I don't even know. I can't even speak cause he won't ever shut the hell up!! I have never felt so devalued in my life! Feels like I just woke up in a roadside ditch...DON'T WAKE UP IN A ROADSIDE DITCH...stay single...
    muzzled74 muzzled74 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2012

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    This weekend is about to be hell.

    We have to take a trip down to North Carolina to visit my mother-in-law and then to pick up my husband's truck after deployment. Basically we are going to be stuck on the road together for five hours and then we're to be stuck at his stupid dads house for the next five days. We...
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    23 Years of Hell

    I don't know why I have stayed married to this guy for so long, I guess you could say it is a marriage of convenience.  He has never been a good father to our two daughters, always his work came first.  I have felt like a single parent forever.  But God forbid I...
    babs45 babs45 46-50, F 20 Responses Dec 29, 2007

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    I'm So Sick of Him

    I am so sick of everything being my fault! I can't stand him and want to go right this instant! Now I'm responsible for the crappy washer and dryer, it's my fault that rent a center keeps giving us pieces of crap. He's the one who went there and got the stuff, without me. Now I'm...
    literalgal literalgal 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 12, 2008

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    We have been together

    since we were teenagers. I was so in love with him from the start, but he smoked marijuana which was a deal breaker for me. And he knew it. For three years he hid his habit from me, and I only found out after we were engaged. Four years later and the "habit" that he was...
    lonelyintenn lonelyintenn 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 30

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    Well my husband just came home from a 2 year

    duty station overseas and the past week has just been a stressful nightmare. I would do and give anything just to escape with my son but I feel helpless and like this is all my fault. I am the stupid one that married him without knowing him well enough. I am also the stupid one...
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    Stupidity Just Can't Be Fixed!

    I've been married for 13 years.  God knows why.  I figured out pretty fast that "quirky" was really just a cover for stupid and obnoxious.  I think maybe I stay married because its easier than going through the crap of getting a divorce.  I have two special...
    wildfern34 wildfern34 36-40, F 13 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    As I lay here on the couch

    while he sleeps in our bed I think. I think of how it was long ago. How he wanted to spend every minute possible with his family. Now he finds every excuse not to come home. Our children cry where is my daddy. I want my daddy. All I can do is look at them and just want to cry...
    insanemomof4 insanemomof4 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    I found this when I googled how I feel.

    My life has been not a life at all.Within the last 5 years my @$$hole and I started a business, he started drinking heavily, has had affairs, we have gone to counselling , I finished trade school, he started dipping into the nose snow, and became possessive, egotistical...
    lilmom3 lilmom3 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 23

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    My fiancé is the most narcissistic insensitive

    condescending idiot in the planet!
    LovesDeceit LovesDeceit 18-21, F 12 Responses Feb 26

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 30 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 26 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    I fell and cracked my rib

    and he was acting like I made it up so I got an X-ray and the doctor said that i cracked my rib then he is saying i need to toughen up really it friggen hurts and your fat *** should be buying me flowers men can be such jerks
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Animal

    i just wanted to say reading u all makes me feel better. because i now no I'm not alone. and neither are you (even though it may feel like it) i want out. and I'm working on it. it takes a while to save enough money when u do not work and just go to school. but i am getting...
    fuckhim fuckhim 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    Sofia3434 Sofia3434 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!

    !! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I know that ****** him off more hahaha.!!!!! I have to keep reminding myself that by "taking the high road" is a win for me. although his...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 26

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    I am sick and tired of him calling me fat to

    people that I do not know he told my nephews girlfriend that his wife meaning me is 500 pounds and I am 5 foot 2 and weight 104 pounds and then my kids asked me if I ever went into this deli with my husband and then they said if you did I will bet that the owner would fall over...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    My husband is a manipulative verbally abusive

    a$$hole. He engineered a hunger strike to get control of a fight. He is such as a mama's boy that he can't think for himself. Takes her side every time. He lets her come into my house and insults me and he says nothing. He talks to his mom for at least an hour every day...
    zarandfontein zarandfontein 41-45 3 Responses Feb 25

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 19-21, F 19 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    I have spent the past couple of weeks finding

    cards and gifts for my children for Valentine's Day and also cards from my girls to my husband, his parents and my parents. I also got a card for my husband-this was very difficult. It is not easy purchasing a card when everything is about love and sexual innuendo and I do not...
    ihatemikea ihatemikea 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    I hate my husband. He has been verbally abusive

    to me and our kids for my entire marriage of 15 years. He blames me for everything. I walk around on eggshells, afraid of him. He is explosive and says I'm moody and don't help out. I never know what will set him off. I have been a stay at home mom for 12 years. He makes more...
    kk3538 kk3538 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 4

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    Recently Married And Unhappy

    I just joined this community to seek out support. I am newly married and extremely unhappy. I have been with my husband for 7 yrs. and I have seen him change , but turned a blind eye bc I wanted to be married and move from my parents house. He is extremely cheap, nasty and doesnt...
    laurenlo laurenlo 31-35 32 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 45 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    I Hate My Husband

    I met my husband when I was fifteen and we have been together for twenty yrs! We have been married for thirteen with two great kids. My hsbnd is a great father. He is hard working generous person. The problem? He cannot tell you what is bothering him so he blames me usually and...
    missmom2245 missmom2245 31-35, F 10 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    I've been married 16 yrs

    and he keeps getting worse. He's lazy, critical, verbally abusive to myself and our 2 sons. He throws things when he's angry, like a toddler having a tantrum. He complains the house is dirty after he throws a half full can of soda against the wall. (Yeah, that may be why the...
    lilguppy lilguppy 46-50, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My husband makes it hard to like him

    as a human. Here's why. I used to love him a lot, he used to be sweet, caring, loving etc etc...but after years all that slowly started tapering off. He gets mad easily and for ridiculous reasons, nothing is ever good enough, I'm never good enough. He constantly comments on my...
    miffedwife38 miffedwife38 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 6 Responses Jan 10

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    WLIH completely, totally,

    and horrifically ruined my graduations for my bachelor and master degrees- he made me BABYSIT HIS DAUGHTER during one of them and didn't even bother to show up himself. Well, now he's made it three for three. My graduation for my doctorate is at a very odd time- the beginning of...
    annasteve annasteve 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 20

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 66 Responses May 10, 2007

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