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    i hate my husband. he is

    so rude to me. he treats me like garbage. he talks to me like im stupid. now i feel stupid and i feel like im garbage. i wanna kill myself for this reason. you know he is supposed to be my best friend, my support but he is the one who puts me down. I have no one to talk to... im...
    thinkerwell thinkerwell 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 8

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 29 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    My husband is abusive.

    .. Physically, emotionally and in every way possible. We've been married for 2 years. I went against my whole family to be with him, and just months into our marriage, he started treating me like sh**t. I have a daughter with him. I love her so much, she's part of a reason why I...
    Faith89 Faith89 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 20

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    My soon to-be husban,

    complains about every thing I do! Lately it's been about me not making enough money because I am currently in college trying to get my diploma. He has the nerve to say that I live off other sources and can't just get a full time job. My other sources he means are student loans...
    MelanieS1991 MelanieS1991 22-25 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Do I have a right to hate my husband?

    For 15 years (8 legal) I have kept this family together. I could go through the list of what I do but its long. So what he does is bring home the income and take out the trash. He will cook a meal on his off days. He recently was handed an opportunity to make 10,000 a month and...
    Jaebolden Jaebolden 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    He has never been physically abusive,

    and sometimes he can be truly amazing, but whenever anything goes wrong for him: at work, with his friends, etc, he becomes indescribably cruel, and can't be satisfied until he's brought me to tears. Its gotten to the point where even the good times are unbearable, because I am...
    LonelyTogether LonelyTogether 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Hate is a strong word,

    so I won't say I necessarily hate my husband. I strongly dislike the dude though. No I'm not in an abusive home. His job allows me to stay home with our 20 month old. He has not cheated on me, nor stolen from me, nor done any of the horrible things you usually equate to a...
    MrsTellit MrsTellit 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Sometimes I wish I could go back in time

    and just walk away from my husband after our first date.
    typsygypsy typsygypsy 31-35, F 17 Responses Jan 31

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    He thinks he's god's gift to the world.

    He's never wrong, and everything is always my fault. He's better than everyone else and he lets you know it. Its my fault he has no friends. He's lazy and I do all the work for both of our kids - I'm surprised he knows their names or anything they like to do. He's mean to them...
    scar17 scar17 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I always write stories about how unhappy i am

    with him.It's a love/hate relationship.He is a controlling a**hole,and i finally exploded on him last night.Once again,telling me step by step what i should do,being dis respectful,the same old crap,so i FINALLY went off on him.See ,i don't work,but i will in September when my 5...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 66 Responses Mar 19

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    I hate my husbands guts.

    We moved from Austrailia to England for a new life. Some life. The moment I got here I found out this two timing cheat was having an affair with a married woman at work. I brought my dogs with me and now can't go back until I can get a ship to take them which you have to book a...
    bronzebeauty1 bronzebeauty1 46-50 3 Responses Mar 21

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    My son was home sick yesterday

    and my husband got pissed had his parents friends say something t me about it what jerks stay out of my life kids get sick I hate living in the same town as the inlaws
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 15 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    I cant stand that he thinks

    that his sister and mom were nice to me in the past , oh no they weren't
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    When ever he is out or at work

    or wherever he is, sometimes i wish he would never come back home. I know it isn't right to think this way, but my baby and i would be much more happy if it was just us. Instead of being here in hell with the devil himself and making our lives miserable. Sometimes i want to...
    silentmommy silentmommy 22-25 4 Responses Mar 11

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    My husband is not providing At first i was

    working hard to pay for life when he was still in university Then i still am working hard now, even after he graduates. Hes not working or making money. He said he wanted baby, i gave him a son. Still he wont work. With a baby im not covering our expenses plus all the money...
    Shada01 Shada01 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 7

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    Yep. I hate my annoying,

    rude, uninterested, unapologetic, narcissistic, self absorbed, ignorant, mamas boy. Can't think of a dumber thing I've ever done than marry him. He makes me want to jump off a cliff. He is THAT annoying.
    mason2x mason2x 36-40 6 Responses Mar 22

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    My husband is a nightmare.

    At the drop of a hat he will go crazy and turn the smallest fight into an all out war. He throws me around and then tells me it's my fault worst of all we have out official wedding out of the country in 2 months (we've been legally married for a year) and our whole family...
    harlow7 harlow7 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 18

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    So annoyed. I have a germaphobe of a husband,

    I can't even touch him without freaking out. If any of my things touches them he acts as if he's getting contaminated by a disease. He wasn't like this before, but now it's getting way out of hand. I just wanna smack him sometimes, or better yet walking away from him for the...
    falafel86 falafel86 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 65 Responses May 10, 2007

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    My husband swears to me every single words.

    He never respect me. He's always playing game on the phone. He treats me like a slave. He doesn't care about me and he doesn't behave like 'a husband'. He never wipe my tears and on Valentines he left me with my son went out and came home 4 in the morning. It's been 2 years...
    Brokenheartwomen Brokenheartwomen 26-30 3 Responses Apr 2

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    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Apr 3

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 43 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Rain is so soothing. I'm watching through the

    window so hipnotic. Then I see his stupid grin he's under the porch. I now turn sour and wish for lightning.
    tripsandtricks tripsandtricks 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    He got out of the navy almost a year ago

    and is still unemployed. I'm the sole source of income for our household and I do everything for our two girls. He is selfish and lazy! Is it so much to ask that my partner actually be a partner and not just another stress in my life? I asked him to handle the to and from of...
    anonymous157 anonymous157 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 16

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    I feel like if you (husband) have

    so little responsibility in life that you can up and go skiing for days on end when ever you feel, you cannot then finally come home and immediately go upstairs to take a ******* nap.
    layladay layladay 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    And I don't use the word HATE lightly.

    He's narcissistic and the most disrespectful person I have ever known. I am trapped by my two young children. I'm not ready to give then up every second weekend... They are still babies. Does anyone else live this life??
    Gracey0079 Gracey0079 36-40, F 22 Responses Jan 30

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 89 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    I hate my husband so much

    and I sometimes wish I had an incurable disease so I could leave him without having to put the kids through a divorce! He drinks too much, never wants to go out cause he would rather not miss any sport. When I've been out to a friend's house and come back an hour later than I...
    redstone74 redstone74 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm so tired. 25 years!

    ! I let it go for to long every year that goes by it only gets worse. He is a Sociopath that is controlling. Tried his hardest to make my self worse to nothing. He mentally abuses me and name calls. Lies and insists he is not a lier with all his idiosyncrasies and malus. He...
    tripsandtricks tripsandtricks 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 3

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    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!

    !! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I know that ****** him off more hahaha.!!!!! I have to keep reminding myself that by "taking the high road" is a win for me. although his...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    He is Livid ,he has lost all control of me,

    like i told you guys,I will no longer be his victim,control,that he has financially.He started his crap,and wouldn't put up w/ it ,and that has him furious w/ me.I guess he is filing for divorce tomorrow,makes me feel really sad,for him,he had a great wife.I never cheated,i take...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 26 Responses Mar 24

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike

    and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out there for others as well. We met when I was 18, married 5 years later. I ignored the signs (shame on me), but have no regrets because of...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    I love my husband but i hate him more!

    He is a huge pain in my a... He claims he works to pay the bills but when i tell him what needs to be paid he doesn't want to pay them!! I would probably get more financial help from him if i divorced him and sued him for child support.
    BlackBeauty35 BlackBeauty35 31-35, F 14 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 186 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 10 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    He's obsessed with himself

    and everything that he wants to accomplish in life. I just find his personality annoying is that normal? Every time he talks I just want to tell him to shut up no one cares
    starrynight2424 starrynight2424 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 6

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    I need time to think.

    It's to hard. It will be the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. He asked me if I wanted him to leave. I hesitated and said I don't know yet. The thing is I do know so why can I not just say it. LEAVE!!!! Then he said court, fight, kids. So I stopped. I can't do...
    tripsandtricks tripsandtricks 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    falafel86 falafel86 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me

    and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a lie. I hate pretending that everything is ok. I hate the person I am. I have lost myself in this lie that has become my life. There is no...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 8 Responses