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I Hate My Husband

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    Your so rude to me and yell at me,

    call me every name in the book then turn around and want sex. When I tell you your out of your mind, there goes more name calling. Your such an idiot! Please give me the silent treatment. Then I don't have to hear your voice.
    oboyoboyoboy oboyoboyoboy 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    I just came to our apartment

    and the door was unlocked. he was laying on the floor asleep with an open, condom wrapper beside him and a used condom in the toilet.
    n0tg01ngcr8z4u n0tg01ngcr8z4u 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    Another fight over sex

    and him controlling everything and needing to know my every move! I'm so sick of it. I need to leave. I want to leave. I should leave. Yet I'm still here! Ugh!!
    Strugglemuch Strugglemuch 46-50, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I think I'm here! I am finally at the point of

    ready to leave him! The only thing keeping me here his finances. We just stupidly bought a Home that of course is only in my name that I slowly will never be able to afford. But he didn't mean today and I just went and took myself off our joint account and took a half of the...
    Wishful2388 Wishful2388 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 2

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    Don't let it drag out

    if you hate your husband. Leave him. Otherwise you will end up maybe like me and have no money, no house and a person you don't want to take care of in your care. He has Alzheimer's now and I am losing my health and everything else taking care of him. I just wish I had gone...
    TiredCaretaker TiredCaretaker 61-65, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I never thought this day would come.

    I finally got him out of my house torturing me daily. Man this feel good to breathe.. My God thank you. Now I know what it mean to be at peace. I love this feeling
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 28

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    Sometimes I wish I could go back in time

    and just walk away from my husband after our first date.
    typsygypsy typsygypsy 31-35, F 17 Responses Jan 31

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    He is Livid ,he has lost all control of me,

    like i told you guys,I will no longer be his victim,control,that he has financially.He started his crap,and wouldn't put up w/ it ,and that has him furious w/ me.I guess he is filing for divorce tomorrow,makes me feel really sad,for him,he had a great wife.I never cheated,i take...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 25 Responses Mar 24

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 30 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    He is such an ******* I cant stand him my son

    asks me if his mom was annoying to me and I said yes alittle .and he eV gets mad at me what a jerk.
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Unforgivble- In March of this year

    after serving 15 years of a 20 year sentence my husband of 21 years was deported from the United States back to his native Italy. That's where I met and married him while I was still in the Army and where our daughter was born in July 1994. He served those 15 years after...
    CocoaBelle CocoaBelle 41-45, F 7 Responses May 24

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me

    and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a lie. I hate pretending that everything is ok. I hate the person I am. I have lost myself in this lie that has become my life. There is no...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    Rain is so soothing. I'm watching through the

    window so hipnotic. Then I see his stupid grin he's under the porch. I now turn sour and wish for lightning.
    tripsandtricks tripsandtricks 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Yep. I hate my annoying,

    rude, uninterested, unapologetic, narcissistic, self absorbed, ignorant, mamas boy. Can't think of a dumber thing I've ever done than marry him. He makes me want to jump off a cliff. He is THAT annoying.
    mason2x mason2x 36-40 6 Responses Mar 22

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    I can't stand my husband anymore.

    I wish I wouldn't have married him. I depend on him so much financially mostly because of our 3 children. My oldest my 10 year old isn't his though. My husband is a bully to me and my 10 year old the other two children that aren't his are still to little to understand how he is...
    sunkissed26 sunkissed26 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 16

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    For allowing his mom to verbally abusing me .

    and acting as if I should take it she is never civil around anyone she just dosent care and I'm pissed that I don't mean enough well that's the way that I feel anyway .
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 1

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 10 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    I don't think there is a word

    that can sum up how much I hate my husband. I hate him I hate him I hate him. We have been together for 9 years and 3 children. For as long as I can remember my husbands world doesn't include wife and kids. I get that he works hard to provide for us but where in the equation do...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 5 Responses May 15

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    My husband promised me the world

    and hasn't delivered. Our financial situation basically isn't a financial situation because we are always broke. I work insane amounts of overtime to try to get by. My husband promised to pay certain bills and I would pay certain things, however I pay mine and help him with his...
    BeingStrong1 BeingStrong1 26-30, F Jun 7

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 89 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 18 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    My story sounds a bit like a lot of your

    stories........I've been married for 3yrs. We have no kids together. I've had my Fallopian tubes removed to make sure that never happens. He has 3 kids from a previous relationship and I have 2. His kids call me mama and my daughter calls him daddy, my 16yr old son doesn't care...
    wishforsinglelife wishforsinglelife 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    I hate him more then I have ever hated anybody

    in my life! My God why me?!?? After a day literally a whole day of cleaning the entire house top to bottom while taking care of our 1 year old son. He comes home and fights with me AGAIN about a supposed person at my job named "Alex" that I am supposedly sleeping with. I just...
    Wishful2388 Wishful2388 26-30, F 4 Responses May 31

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    My husband I met when we were over 50.

    I had been in a very abusive marriage and had no desire to ever marry again. I told him that I did not want to marry again up front, but, over the three years we dated, he finally talked me into it. Our dating life was quite romantic and sexy, so I thought that would continue...
    Bobbi9698 Bobbi9698 56-60, F 3 Responses May 17

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 7 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Jun 18

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    I try hard so very hard not to.

    I try to find redeeming qualities that I can hold on to. But some times he makes it so f'ing hard.
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 16 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!

    !! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I know that ****** him off more hahaha.!!!!! I have to keep reminding myself that by "taking the high road" is a win for me. although his...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    Interested in a story

    that will make you feel like your problems are minor? READ ON... I can only give a quick summary, but looking forward to a true vent session later tonight when I have the time. I have only been married for 2.5 years. We have one little toddler aged girl (my LIFE). When she was...
    ReAwakenedGirl ReAwakenedGirl 26-30, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    He is so mean he is putting holes in my

    clothing I really hate him . I fell like he is going out of his way to be a complete jerk and make sure I have no money .I am taking a course so that I will have more money and I fell like he is ruining that to but, he is being more of a jerk instead his family were always...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Jun 11

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 188 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    i am a married guy just reading.

    shocked there is so many woman on here that are unhappy with their husbands. but i am not one to judge because i have been there before with an ex wife.
    stlguy45 stlguy45 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 1

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    I always write stories about how unhappy i am

    with him.It's a love/hate relationship.He is a controlling a**hole,and i finally exploded on him last night.Once again,telling me step by step what i should do,being dis respectful,the same old crap,so i FINALLY went off on him.See ,i don't work,but i will in September when my 5...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 63 Responses Mar 19

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    My husband promised me the world

    and hasn't delivered. Our financial situation basically isn't a financial situation because we are always broke. I work insane amounts of overtime to try to get by. My husband promised to pay certain bills and I would pay certain things, however I pay mine and help him with his...
    BeingStrong1 BeingStrong1 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 7

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    I have come to terms

    that my 5 year marriage is crap. I can't stand my husband in the slightest. I am probably the best actress on the planet. I smile, kiss him, make his lunches, and even walk him to the door. He wakes up to coffee and breakfast and even gets pampered to much. The reason I do it...
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Today is fathers day

    and I don't feel he deserves to be celebrated at all! He is both a bad father and husband. He'd much rather spend his evenings either sleeping or with his friend smoking pot! He will bounce a ball in front of my baby's face to distract him thus is able to run out the front door...
    L14366 L14366 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I love my husband but i hate him more!

    He is a huge pain in my a... He claims he works to pay the bills but when i tell him what needs to be paid he doesn't want to pay them!! I would probably get more financial help from him if i divorced him and sued him for child support.
    BlackBeauty35 BlackBeauty35 31-35, F 13 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike

    and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out there for others as well. We met when I was 18, married 5 years later. I ignored the signs (shame on me), but have no regrets because of...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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