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I Hate My Husband

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    You say I'm crazy Cause you don't think I know

    what've done But when you call me baby I know I'm not the only one.
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2014

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    I hate him so much I can't

    even stand to say his name or hear it mentioned and when he chain smoking those cigarettes; he smoking them cigarettes like he making love to them looking at them while he smoking dumping the ashes on the floor. While he smoking I have to suffer from burning eyes and coughing to...
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    Ugh my husband is being a f***ing a-hole!

    ! I hate long weekends i'd rather be at work!! 😡
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 13 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    Here's my Christmas present: constantly being

    screamed at and called a moron. This is in addition to the absolute REFUSAL to help clean the house he trashes all day long while I am at work.
    annasteve annasteve 36-40, F Dec 29, 2014

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    canthinkofanything canthinkofanything 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 43 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 87 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    I am so frustrated. I'm 26 years old,

    work two jobs, pay all the bills and do all the housework. I want to get my masters degree but I can't afford to now. I can't stand that my husband is 33, has no direction in life, unemployed and plays video games most of the time. I am waking up from this delusion that I loved...
    Carma88 Carma88 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    I Told My Husband that I Hate My Husband

    and I feel conflicted about it. When I first wrote about my unhappy marriage five years ago, we'd been married about 10 years. We just "celebrated 15." I am still unhappy. He is still as he was five years ago. This year's obsession for him is a metaphysical group that he thinks...
    jemcakes jemcakes 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me

    and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a lie. I hate pretending that everything is ok. I hate the person I am. I have lost myself in this lie that has become my life. There is no...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 7 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    How difficult to live with your H

    when everything he does annoy you or it seems he does everything to annoy you:(
    kimlife kimlife 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 17 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    I'm So Sick of Him

    I am so sick of everything being my fault! I can't stand him and want to go right this instant! Now I'm responsible for the crappy washer and dryer, it's my fault that rent a center keeps giving us pieces of crap. He's the one who went there and got the stuff, without me. Now I'm...
    literalgal literalgal 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 12, 2008

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    Went back to the freak of a husband

    and same thing just different day. I just want him to go. I tell him to leave and he want. It's my house, my bills and my life he's making miserable Sooooooo I decided to ignore him on 1000 degrees! If that doesn't work I'm just going to move. I don't have the money for divorce...
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I can not stand how awful

    and mean my husbands family is to me .but yet he expects me to say that I like them? Would you like peole that are mean to you and his sister says really mean stuff to me all the time and I am so sick f them I tell him how I feel and I am his wife he needs to stick up for me...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    My husband is Egypian Muslim.

    He is critical of everything I do. He picks on me for the littlest things. For instance, my skirt/dress is too short, my shirt too low, etc. I donated 80 percent of my clothes to charity. Now, even the clothes I have left, he finds something wrong. He asks me to cook and...
    Anaheimkaren Anaheimkaren 46-50 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    So tonight we got home late

    and I was exhausted! Our upstairs neighbors, probably barely of legal age, decided that they were going to have a loud dance party at 2am. I am not older, I still have a fun side, but when I'm exhausted and want to go to bed I don't want to hear a bunch of kids screaming and...
    FedUp91 FedUp91 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Well my husband still want leave out of my

    house. The police said they can't make him leave until I have filed divorce proceedings. So I went out and had an affair,and it was awesome! He didn't care about a marriage and he 27 and he's huge. Total package. I feel open and happy. I never knew there was a man like this,and...
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 65 Responses May 10, 2007

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    Am finally getting the the point in my life

    where I can do something to get away from my husband. After 30 years and two terrific kids, it's time to get away from my poisonous husband. I spent too much time when our marriage began hoping things would get better and making changes to suit him. I should have listened to...
    Momo2GS Momo2GS 56-60, F 3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    My son, his wife and two preschool children

    came to visit from out of state, arriving Christmas Eve. I only see them about 6 times a year so I was looking forward to the visit. My drunken husband arrives home driving his truck followed by "friends" who wanted to be sure he arrived home safely (but not concerned enough...
    Seriouslysickofhim Seriouslysickofhim 61-65, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Why is it that whenever my husband feels like

    having sex I have to give it to him, but when it comes to me he's always like "I'm tired" or "You can't force someone if they don't want to do it"....Like really? This is so UNFAIR !! So I have to have sex whenever he feels like it, and most of the time I don't even feel like it...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Dont understand why he is trying

    so hard to bring me down , dont understand why someone would go out o f there way to treat the person that they are suppose to love terrible I wish I had a normal man in my life not one that hates me
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I haven't written on this topic in a while

    so I guess he's been less annoying or I've just learned to cope. Who knows? Anyway, I didn't have the best day at work, maybe because I didn't sleep well last night and had a busy day. It wasn't the worse day ever but it was nonstop. When I got home from work I tried to talk to...
    prugirl prugirl 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    wasted my life...

    For the past couple of days I have been wondering why I have wasted so much of my life?  I have been with my husband for 13 years, married for 9.  The only joy that has come out of this marriage are my 3 beautiful children, who are truly my life.  Other than that...
    judy3kids judy3kids 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    Animal

    i just wanted to say reading u all makes me feel better. because i now no I'm not alone. and neither are you (even though it may feel like it) i want out. and I'm working on it. it takes a while to save enough money when u do not work and just go to school. but i am getting...
    fuckhim fuckhim 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    Man this bloated, fat,

    lazy, Man still laying up in my house. Annoying, tormenting, chain smoking, rude, gluttonous ,with mental issues,snoring all day that sounds horrendous like a wild boar will not leave! Why want he find somebody else to sleep with please! He trashes the place all day. Plates...
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F Dec 30, 2014

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 19-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    My husband and I have been married 3 years.

    We have a 2 year old child. My husband puts me down all the time, even in front of our child. He does everything that he wants to and never listens or cares about how I feel, but he nags me to live my life according to his whims. He has completely forgotten how much effort I've...
    Confused24x7 Confused24x7 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    He is a big jerk he is causing trouble

    for no reason I didnt do anything to him he is the type of person who is a mean person enjoys trouble always yells and screams because he came from a house that does nothing but yells and screams alls im trying to do is try to help and he making it seem like I am the biggest...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My husband is like a baby I may

    as well call him one of my children. We have three children, a 6, 5 and 3 year old. It's a miracle we are still together close to 9 years and I can't remember the last time we went through a stage of happiness without the drama I have no memory of it at all. Apparently because...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 6 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 15 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike

    and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out there for others as well. We met when I was 18, married 5 years later. I ignored the signs (shame on me), but have no regrets because of...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    My husband now wants me to take antibiotics all

    the time...he's even putting them in my food I think. The reason, he says, is that this way he can stand to enter the bathroom after I do my bowel movement. Otherwise he complains about the odors. Apparently his mother had told him that when women do Number 2, it comes out...
    suzzieQue suzzieQue 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    'How long have you been married?

    ' I reply 'Too long.' The correct response, is 18 months. I love the man I married, to the moon and back, but even then I had doubts on what our future would be like and I've reached a point where I want to go back and slap my twenty-something year old self: I should have...
    geektulle geektulle 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I'm 44 years old. I have been with my husband

    for 20 years, 14 married. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. My husband is a raging narcissist. Nothing is his fault. Everyone else is to blame, does not support him, or in some way has betrayed him, which justifies his terrible behavior. I am the breadwinner. He is...
    ughmarriage ughmarriage 41-45 6 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!

    !! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I know that ****** him off more hahaha.!!!!! I have to keep reminding myself that by "taking the high road" is a win for me. although his...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    Married To Mr. Negativity

    We've been together 21 years. Married for 20 in December, 2012 (I was 19). We have 3 kids (they are fantabulous & I wouldn't trade them for anything) and if either of us could afford it, we would have divorced long ago. I wish he would cheat on me, beat me, gamble, anything that...
    hatdancer39 hatdancer39 41-45, F 15 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 186 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    I have been married for 14 months to a complete

    loser. Before we got married, he pretended to be everything thing I wanted in a man. When he returned from the honeymoon, his true colors came out. He is a complete and utter loser. He refuses to work or get a job. He has no problem watching me work 10 hour days with a 2...
    MISTEEZBLUEZ MISTEEZBLUEZ 41-45 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't even know were to begin.

    .... We have been married for about 7 years and 3 of those we spent separated from each other before deciding to work it out. I soon found out I was pregnant with our 2nd child together. I am currently about to give birth at any time as I am in my ninth month of pregnancy...
    nisa890 nisa890 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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