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    I hate my husband with every fiber of my being.

    Our 15 years of marriage have been the most horrible years of my life; there has never been a time when things were good or easy, not even from the beginning. The only reason I married him was because I had to so he could stay in this country. I just want it to be over, like...
    Lulu73 Lulu73 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 19

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    I have been married for 13 years.

    I fell in love with my husband the first time I met him, he is good looking, hard working and we used to share so many interests. He has always been very quiet but he has become - over the last 5 years intolerable. He never speaks to me at home unless he wants something and when...
    jacquiskye jacquiskye 56-60, F 7 Responses Feb 15

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 7 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    Sometimes I wish I could go back in time

    and just walk away from my husband after our first date.
    typsygypsy typsygypsy 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 31

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    Hate is a strong word,

    so I won't say I necessarily hate my husband. I strongly dislike the dude though. No I'm not in an abusive home. His job allows me to stay home with our 20 month old. He has not cheated on me, nor stolen from me, nor done any of the horrible things you usually equate to a...
    MrsTellit MrsTellit 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    He wants to bring me down

    so badly and is to stupid to realize that he is failing so bad at being a good supportive husband why do you think your doing good your a mean person and I dont want to think about all day long why your such an *** your not worth it and I am so above you if you feel so bad about...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 43 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me

    and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a lie. I hate pretending that everything is ok. I hate the person I am. I have lost myself in this lie that has become my life. There is no...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't even know were to begin.

    .... We have been married for about 7 years and 3 of those we spent separated from each other before deciding to work it out. I soon found out I was pregnant with our 2nd child together. I am currently about to give birth at any time as I am in my ninth month of pregnancy...
    nisa890 nisa890 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    a little inspirational music this morning

    :) http://youtu.be/CevxZvSJLk8
    okiedokie92914 okiedokie92914 31-35, F Feb 17

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    Everything has changed

    since we had a baby. I don't know this man anymore. I secretly wish he would cheat on me so I'd have a great excuse to leave and it wouldn't be my doing.
    PittFam PittFam 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    'How long have you been married?

    ' I reply 'Too long.' The correct response, is 18 months. I love the man I married, to the moon and back, but even then I had doubts on what our future would be like and I've reached a point where I want to go back and slap my twenty-something year old self: I should have...
    geektulle geektulle 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    All I can think about tonight is my mum telling

    him "Tick Tock" in reference to his eviction if he doesn't get an appointment for the checks he needs to do. I know that it's wrong to force him but reducing me to tears over this to run the other way was just as wrong. He's not going to do it anyway, so I guess I never...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    Mine is not a husband!

    !! He's just a spouse. A husband is someone who takes care of his wife. Emotionally, physically, and everything in between. A spouse is an *******, that constantly degrades you, brings you down, and doesn't get off his *** to do a dam thing!
    okiedokie92914 okiedokie92914 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 4, 2014

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    I fell in love with this great guy.

    Slowly he showed his true self. He is a misogynistic , self absorbed, better than anyone , homo phobe. Negative energy. All he wants to do is sleep eat work go on ebay and complain about everything and everyone. Not enought sleep, but yet sets his alarm for 2 to 3 hours after he...
    Tattoojoy7 Tattoojoy7 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    I'm so sick of the mood swings.

    I can't keep up. One minute he is great, the nest he is a total douche
    blondie529 blondie529 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    So upset. Dropped kids at school,

    grocery shopped and ran I few errands all within two hours. Ended up at the mall just before heading home. Hubby calls pissed off and asking me where I was. Told him at the mall in old navy. When I get home with coffee for him. He accuses me of cheating on him because he used a...
    hsyt hsyt 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    So, I got hungry tonight

    and I couldn't really face another sandwich since that's all we've been eating for our only meal for the best side of a week. I grabbed myself a couple of slices of ham to snack on instead to be told to have bread with them because "I'm wasting ham". He later said that it was...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 9

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    Went out to dinner with him last night

    and couldnt stand his company he was rude to me all day long saying really mean things to me like im not pretty my shirt that I was wearing made me look like a boy and then he gets annoyed and says that I didnt thank him for dinner either I married an idiot who is t stupid to...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    23 Years of Hell

    I don't know why I have stayed married to this guy for so long, I guess you could say it is a marriage of convenience.  He has never been a good father to our two daughters, always his work came first.  I have felt like a single parent forever.  But God forbid I...
    babs45 babs45 46-50, F 19 Responses Dec 29, 2007

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike

    and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out there for others as well. We met when I was 18, married 5 years later. I ignored the signs (shame on me), but have no regrets because of...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    I'm fed up right now.

    .. just 2 little jobs is all that I've asked of him this week. The first was to empty the ashtray in the bathroom and the second was to empty the small bin in the bedroom - so why did I end up having to do both by myself? I wouldn't mind so much if my step dad hadn't been in...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 20

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    I don't hate my husband

    but I currently am irritated with him. I woke him up due to bad snowstorm outside and he was all like you woke me up over a damn snow. I was getting ready to knock out. he has work at 6p-12a. and he totally took it out on me. well your the one who decided to take someone's...
    AngelicInnocence92 AngelicInnocence92 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 65 Responses May 10, 2007

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 31 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    And I don't use the word HATE lightly.

    He's narcissistic and the most disrespectful person I have ever known. I am trapped by my two young children. I'm not ready to give then up every second weekend... They are still babies. Does anyone else live this life??
    Gracey0079 Gracey0079 36-40, F 21 Responses Jan 30

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    Enjoying the rain and my coffee watching Jerry

    Springer. Listening to my iPhone ring periodically from these two nuts. Hahaha. lol. Leave me alone already...sheesh... ; )
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    I'm So Sick of Him

    I am so sick of everything being my fault! I can't stand him and want to go right this instant! Now I'm responsible for the crappy washer and dryer, it's my fault that rent a center keeps giving us pieces of crap. He's the one who went there and got the stuff, without me. Now I'm...
    literalgal literalgal 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 12, 2008

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 186 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    His selfish gets mad

    and complaints about evereverything. Lousy husband, doesn't help with the kids. says i am ungrateful and should kiss Ground he walks on because he pays The bills. Drinks and smokes, on the weekends when he comes back from 3 days of being out, sleeps all day. I can't say nothing...
    julee04 julee04 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    somedays, I want him gone,

    dead, whatever. I can't breathe whenever he's around. He won't let me go, and I feel compelled to stay with him because we have a daughter together, but every nerve in my body screams how much I hate him.
    amydunne23 amydunne23 26-30, F 22 hrs ago

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 89 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 15 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Omg, I am so happy I found this site I

    literally hate husband. He is a no good, drunk, who can't stay with a job for more than a week. He is a lousy husband, terrible father, and just a all around miserable, negative piece of ****. All my family and friends hate him also, even his own mother hates him. I am totally...
    kel619 kel619 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 10

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    I am really getting tired of his sh.

    .. I am going to school and paying for it- despite constant setbacks from him. The schooling itself has its own setbacks- I have a committee chair who is dumber than a pile of rocks and has lost my paperwork numerous times. There is no way to explain the depths of her level of...
    annasteve annasteve 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I love my husband but i hate him more!

    He is a huge pain in my a... He claims he works to pay the bills but when i tell him what needs to be paid he doesn't want to pay them!! I would probably get more financial help from him if i divorced him and sued him for child support.
    BlackBeauty35 BlackBeauty35 31-35, F 14 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!

    !! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I know that ****** him off more hahaha.!!!!! I have to keep reminding myself that by "taking the high road" is a win for me. although his...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    wasted my life...

    For the past couple of days I have been wondering why I have wasted so much of my life?  I have been with my husband for 13 years, married for 9.  The only joy that has come out of this marriage are my 3 beautiful children, who are truly my life.  Other than that...
    judy3kids judy3kids 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 17 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    I never thought this day would come.

    I finally got him out of my house torturing me daily. Man this feel good to breathe.. My God thank you. Now I know what it mean to be at peace. I love this feeling
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 28

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    Im to the point of just acting like i live with

    my brother cause he makes me feel that way!! He cares more about his job and video games than me and his two kids!!
    lashes88 lashes88 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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