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I Hate My Husband

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 10 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    I try hard so very hard not to.

    I try to find redeeming qualities that I can hold on to. But some times he makes it so f'ing hard.
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 6 Responses Jun 25

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    now his biggest thing is to criticize

    and make me feel really stupid about everything that I say or write in a text .now do you feel smart for putting your wife down .he always has to put people down to TRY and make himself look good to everyone .what a jerk
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 30 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    I can't stand him any more!

    ! I have to vent to someone. I've been with him for over ten years and we have two young children. I'm at the point with him that I just want to scream like a wild banchee and runaway. He works part time...and then sleeps...I work full time, school, and kids...and expected to do...
    Crazylady85 Crazylady85 26-30 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I'm a UK size 10...hardly fat yes I have put on

    weight but I'm 36 years old now every so often he drops a little comment about my weight tonight was do you have to wear those shorts there to small for you they are pj bottoms not like I am going out in them .. He makes me feel like I look like a pig ..he knows I get a lot of...
    lostmyselfgirl lostmyselfgirl 36-40, F 9 Responses Jul 2

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    Hate is a strong word,

    so I won't say I necessarily hate my husband. I strongly dislike the dude though. No I'm not in an abusive home. His job allows me to stay home with our 20 month old. He has not cheated on me, nor stolen from me, nor done any of the horrible things you usually equate to a...
    MrsTellit MrsTellit 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    I really hate my husband.

    he always speaks down to me .what a jerk .I feel like he dosent show any respect for anyone . my family who is very respectful twords people so this I will never be used to. how do you tell him to just stop putting me down I can't take him anymore.
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Interested in a story

    that will make you feel like your problems are minor? READ ON... I can only give a quick summary, but looking forward to a true vent session later tonight when I have the time. I have only been married for 2.5 years. We have one little toddler aged girl (my LIFE). When she was...
    ReAwakenedGirl ReAwakenedGirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 18 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    I always write stories about how unhappy i am

    with him.It's a love/hate relationship.He is a controlling a**hole,and i finally exploded on him last night.Once again,telling me step by step what i should do,being dis respectful,the same old crap,so i FINALLY went off on him.See ,i don't work,but i will in September when my 5...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 57 Responses Mar 19

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    I just dont understand the very first day I met

    my husbands mother she was so mean, then she gave me a shirt with dirt on it for xmas , she knew that I was allergic to perfume and she gave me that as a gift , she knew that I cant have anything with cream and cheese and she made that for dinner this is all through the years...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My story sounds a bit like a lot of your

    stories........I've been married for 3yrs. We have no kids together. I've had my Fallopian tubes removed to make sure that never happens. He has 3 kids from a previous relationship and I have 2. His kids call me mama and my daughter calls him daddy, my 16yr old son doesn't care...
    wishforsinglelife wishforsinglelife 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I don't know why I forgive him,

    because deep down I know that he will never change. I feel like an ***. Luckily, I am still able to move forward, but damn - I'm afraid. I suppose the feelings are similar to leaving the parental nest. There are times I wish I could lean on friends, but I really don't want to...
    FlutrbyButrfly FlutrbyButrfly 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have come to terms

    that my 5 year marriage is crap. I can't stand my husband in the slightest. I am probably the best actress on the planet. I smile, kiss him, make his lunches, and even walk him to the door. He wakes up to coffee and breakfast and even gets pampered to much. The reason I do it...
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 28

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    Well he comes and he goes.

    ..My ptsd gets worse with his absences. He said I could quit working;he'll pay all the bills. I'm scared he'll leave again when he's upset and I'll be stuck here with the bills and unemployed. Its hard to go to work when all you do is cry.
    n0tg01ngcr8z4u n0tg01ngcr8z4u 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    stubborn pain wont try anything new .

    he would rather hang out with his friends than his wife. Big ****
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    He has the nerve to get mad

    because , I don't care for his mothers taste. How stupid! And for trying to get on my nerves well you won because I have had it with you
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've been married for 7 years

    and together with my husband for 11 years. I've never felt so much hate for someone in my life. I really hate myself for being the biggest idiot. 3 months after we married, he was fired from his job for having inappropriate relations with one of his employees. He told me it wasn...
    Stuck4ever15 Stuck4ever15 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I have hated my husband

    for years, I can't get out of this. He keeps me broke so I can't leave. He's self employed with a very very small business, one moth is good and the next isn't. He has gone through all my inheritance. We have a deal on what each other pays, since he doesn't have a good month at...
    Eggshells122 Eggshells122 51-55 70 Responses Jul 20

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    I have been married almost 3 months!

    He went to court in another state a month after our wedding (for charges I have seen the paperwork and will be thrown out- this is important) well I knew prior to marriage about one legit charge he had on his record and I wrote it off as everyone makes mistakes. My dad spent 8...
    bentbutnotbroken bentbutnotbroken 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 188 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 42 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    OK so together for 13 years,

    married for 8 of those and honestly to the point i would rather go to jail for punching him in the face than deal with another bullshit day. I work 60 hour weeks (yes he works but never more than 40 hours because overtime is not allowed), handle all the bills, clean the house...
    lostandfedup lostandfedup 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 89 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    Don't let it drag out

    if you hate your husband. Leave him. Otherwise you will end up maybe like me and have no money, no house and a person you don't want to take care of in your care. He has Alzheimer's now and I am losing my health and everything else taking care of him. I just wish I had gone...
    TiredCaretaker TiredCaretaker 61-65, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    So I filed for divorce

    and it is getting UGLY. We have 2 little kids, 8 and 10, and he is using them as pawns. I never thought I could despise someone I had lived so much at some point. He is despicable. Luckily, I have talked to our children about the divorce and every time he tells them an...
    lookingtovent2 lookingtovent2 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    FlutrbyButrfly FlutrbyButrfly 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 7 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    And I don't use the word HATE lightly.

    He's narcissistic and the most disrespectful person I have ever known. I am trapped by my two young children. I'm not ready to give then up every second weekend... They are still babies. Does anyone else live this life??
    Gracey0079 Gracey0079 36-40, F 30 Responses Jan 30

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    Yep. I hate my annoying,

    rude, uninterested, unapologetic, narcissistic, self absorbed, ignorant, mamas boy. Can't think of a dumber thing I've ever done than marry him. He makes me want to jump off a cliff. He is THAT annoying.
    mason2x mason2x 36-40 6 Responses Mar 22

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    Lets see I'm the one

    who took my parents out to dinner and put them down oh no thats right it was your mother, oh and I'm the one who sat in the living room putting my family down , oh wait again that was your mother .you can not blame me for her actions I'm sick of you blaming me ,saying but I...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    I just really need someone

    that I can talk to. Someone who won't judge me or the relationship I have chosen to stay in. Someone that can help me survive this nightmare that I am in. I hate hate hate my husband for literally destroying a single-handedly with his insecurities. I don't deserve this and...
    Wishful2388 Wishful2388 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Rain is so soothing. I'm watching through the

    window so hipnotic. Then I see his stupid grin he's under the porch. I now turn sour and wish for lightning.
    tripsandtricks tripsandtricks 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!

    !! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I know that ****** him off more hahaha.!!!!! I have to keep reminding myself that by "taking the high road" is a win for me. although his...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 66 Responses May 10, 2007

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    His mother is the type of person

    that says anything thats on her mind . I really cant stand that about her it's a horribe trait .so she insults my hair color and tells me that I look old , of course that hurts me its an insult .but, of course the only right thing to do is to get even and insult her with two...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    i hate that bastard. I just hate him.

    I have never seen such a horrible person. He shows no love or comfort towards me. I want to divorce him so much more every day.
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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