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    I love my husband but i hate him more!

    He is a huge pain in my a... He claims he works to pay the bills but when i tell him what needs to be paid he doesn't want to pay them!! I would probably get more financial help from him if i divorced him and sued him for child support.
    BlackBeauty35 BlackBeauty35 31-35, F 14 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    The picture pretty much sums it all up.

    I literally hate my husband to the point that I am going to end up in a mental institute. I am trying to not let this anger destroy me but it is sooo frustrating when you are with a person who has no consideration about how you feel. ARGH! Makes me soo mad he's so stubborn...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 Dec 29, 2014

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    canthinkofanything canthinkofanything 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    I'm 44 years old. I have been with my husband

    for 20 years, 14 married. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. My husband is a raging narcissist. Nothing is his fault. Everyone else is to blame, does not support him, or in some way has betrayed him, which justifies his terrible behavior. I am the breadwinner. He is...
    ughmarriage ughmarriage 41-45 6 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    He is always putting me down

    and trying to make me look like a fool I hate him .why would I stay with someone who is always trying to make me look like a jerk goes out of there way to make sure I look like a dummy thanks alot you have definitely made me feel the worst I have ever felt you succeeded! ! But...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Jan 5

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 65 Responses May 10, 2007

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    Well my husband still want leave out of my

    house. The police said they can't make him leave until I have filed divorce proceedings. So I went out and had an affair,and it was awesome! He didn't care about a marriage and he 27 and he's huge. Total package. I feel open and happy. I never knew there was a man like this,and...
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Mine is not a husband!

    !! He's just a spouse. A husband is someone who takes care of his wife. Emotionally, physically, and everything in between. A spouse is an *******, that constantly degrades you, brings you down, and doesn't get off his *** to do a dam thing!
    okiedokie92914 okiedokie92914 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 4, 2014

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    Ugh my husband is being a f***ing a-hole!

    ! I hate long weekends i'd rather be at work!! 😡
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 13 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    I am really getting tired of his sh.

    .. I am going to school and paying for it- despite constant setbacks from him. The schooling itself has its own setbacks- I have a committee chair who is dumber than a pile of rocks and has lost my paperwork numerous times. There is no way to explain the depths of her level of...
    annasteve annasteve 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Went back to the freak of a husband

    and same thing just different day. I just want him to go. I tell him to leave and he want. It's my house, my bills and my life he's making miserable Sooooooo I decided to ignore him on 1000 degrees! If that doesn't work I'm just going to move. I don't have the money for divorce...
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Animal

    i just wanted to say reading u all makes me feel better. because i now no I'm not alone. and neither are you (even though it may feel like it) i want out. and I'm working on it. it takes a while to save enough money when u do not work and just go to school. but i am getting...
    fuckhim fuckhim 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    23 Years of Hell

    I don't know why I have stayed married to this guy for so long, I guess you could say it is a marriage of convenience.  He has never been a good father to our two daughters, always his work came first.  I have felt like a single parent forever.  But God forbid I...
    babs45 babs45 46-50, F 19 Responses Dec 29, 2007

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    He is a big jerk he is causing trouble

    for no reason I didnt do anything to him he is the type of person who is a mean person enjoys trouble always yells and screams because he came from a house that does nothing but yells and screams alls im trying to do is try to help and he making it seem like I am the biggest...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    So upset. Dropped kids at school,

    grocery shopped and ran I few errands all within two hours. Ended up at the mall just before heading home. Hubby calls pissed off and asking me where I was. Told him at the mall in old navy. When I get home with coffee for him. He accuses me of cheating on him because he used a...
    hsyt hsyt 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    My husband now wants me to take antibiotics all

    the time...he's even putting them in my food I think. The reason, he says, is that this way he can stand to enter the bathroom after I do my bowel movement. Otherwise he complains about the odors. Apparently his mother had told him that when women do Number 2, it comes out...
    suzzieQue suzzieQue 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 31 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 19-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    I have been married for 14 months to a complete

    loser. Before we got married, he pretended to be everything thing I wanted in a man. When he returned from the honeymoon, his true colors came out. He is a complete and utter loser. He refuses to work or get a job. He has no problem watching me work 10 hour days with a 2...
    MISTEEZBLUEZ MISTEEZBLUEZ 41-45 4 Responses Jan 21

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 88 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me

    and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a lie. I hate pretending that everything is ok. I hate the person I am. I have lost myself in this lie that has become my life. There is no...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 7 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    25th anniversary here today on New Year's eve.

    Lazy slob has, as usual, zero ideas about what to do or where to go. I have to plan everything. His idea of asking me out on a date is asking me if I "want to go out to eat" and then letting me plan the entire thing. There is no conversation unless I make it. Dinner is...
    Sharon6319 Sharon6319 51-55, F Dec 31, 2014

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    He used to have a contract with the town

    for snow removal and lost it and now everytime that it snows he acts like such a jerk screams and yells at us because he dosent have the job anymore and its not fair to us I really cant stand him and he thinks that everyone is talking down to him all the time he yells and...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    Why is it that whenever my husband feels like

    having sex I have to give it to him, but when it comes to me he's always like "I'm tired" or "You can't force someone if they don't want to do it"....Like really? This is so UNFAIR !! So I have to have sex whenever he feels like it, and most of the time I don't even feel like it...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    So tonight we got home late

    and I was exhausted! Our upstairs neighbors, probably barely of legal age, decided that they were going to have a loud dance party at 2am. I am not older, I still have a fun side, but when I'm exhausted and want to go to bed I don't want to hear a bunch of kids screaming and...
    FedUp91 FedUp91 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 186 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 15 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    OMG!! My d bag husband has time to step out

    for a nasty cigarette but when I ask him to watch the baby for five freaking minutes I get eye rolls and nothing but attitude!! It's like living with a teenage girl!
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    Here's my Christmas present: constantly being

    screamed at and called a moron. This is in addition to the absolute REFUSAL to help clean the house he trashes all day long while I am at work.
    annasteve annasteve 36-40, F Dec 29, 2014

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    I haven't written on this topic in a while

    so I guess he's been less annoying or I've just learned to cope. Who knows? Anyway, I didn't have the best day at work, maybe because I didn't sleep well last night and had a busy day. It wasn't the worse day ever but it was nonstop. When I got home from work I tried to talk to...
    prugirl prugirl 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike

    and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out there for others as well. We met when I was 18, married 5 years later. I ignored the signs (shame on me), but have no regrets because of...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    I never thought this day would come.

    I finally got him out of my house torturing me daily. Man this feel good to breathe.. My God thank you. Now I know what it mean to be at peace. I love this feeling
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    My husband is Egypian Muslim.

    He is critical of everything I do. He picks on me for the littlest things. For instance, my skirt/dress is too short, my shirt too low, etc. I donated 80 percent of my clothes to charity. Now, even the clothes I have left, he finds something wrong. He asks me to cook and...
    Anaheimkaren Anaheimkaren 46-50 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    All it takes is 3 seconds,

    3 seconds to apologize but no my husband refuses to apologize instead he comes with excuses about how it's my fault. He makes me think I'm crazy because he'll find some way to make his actions my fault!
    luuucy luuucy 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    Man this bloated, fat,

    lazy, Man still laying up in my house. Annoying, tormenting, chain smoking, rude, gluttonous ,with mental issues,snoring all day that sounds horrendous like a wild boar will not leave! Why want he find somebody else to sleep with please! He trashes the place all day. Plates...
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F Dec 30, 2014

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    My husband is like a baby I may

    as well call him one of my children. We have three children, a 6, 5 and 3 year old. It's a miracle we are still together close to 9 years and I can't remember the last time we went through a stage of happiness without the drama I have no memory of it at all. Apparently because...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    'How long have you been married?

    ' I reply 'Too long.' The correct response, is 18 months. I love the man I married, to the moon and back, but even then I had doubts on what our future would be like and I've reached a point where I want to go back and slap my twenty-something year old self: I should have...
    geektulle geektulle 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My husband and I have been married 3 years.

    We have a 2 year old child. My husband puts me down all the time, even in front of our child. He does everything that he wants to and never listens or cares about how I feel, but he nags me to live my life according to his whims. He has completely forgotten how much effort I've...
    Confused24x7 Confused24x7 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I'm So Sick of Him

    I am so sick of everything being my fault! I can't stand him and want to go right this instant! Now I'm responsible for the crappy washer and dryer, it's my fault that rent a center keeps giving us pieces of crap. He's the one who went there and got the stuff, without me. Now I'm...
    literalgal literalgal 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 12, 2008

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 43 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 17 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    My son, his wife and two preschool children

    came to visit from out of state, arriving Christmas Eve. I only see them about 6 times a year so I was looking forward to the visit. My drunken husband arrives home driving his truck followed by "friends" who wanted to be sure he arrived home safely (but not concerned enough...
    Seriouslysickofhim Seriouslysickofhim 61-65, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    Married To Mr. Negativity

    We've been together 21 years. Married for 20 in December, 2012 (I was 19). We have 3 kids (they are fantabulous & I wouldn't trade them for anything) and if either of us could afford it, we would have divorced long ago. I wish he would cheat on me, beat me, gamble, anything that...
    hatdancer39 hatdancer39 41-45, F 15 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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