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I Hate My Husband

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 16 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 7 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 188 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    This sounds like I wrote it to a "T.

    " I am so scared of what he has charged on credit cards to pay his half of expenses that I am liable for now when I have paid cash for my share all along. Basically he's financially cheating me. I have had 2 affairs with other men because I am not interested sexually in him in...
    Pattye2015 Pattye2015 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    He is the biggest jerk ever knows how much I

    cant not stand his little cuban brother in law and has to make sure that this jerk makes my life miserable. I didnt even do anything .why the hell would you do this to me .you are such a jerk .and you really need to take care of yourself you look terrible .I am really starting...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Aug 19

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    Well it was the final straw tonight.

    i found out the husband I hate is cheating AGAIN. I am so over it I feel....empty. I don't care anymore. He has no idea that I know but I will be getting my ducks in a row. It is time for me to reclaim my freedom and my life. Being a single mom of 4 I will never be lonely. My...
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    now his biggest thing is to criticize

    and make me feel really stupid about everything that I say or write in a text .now do you feel smart for putting your wife down .he always has to put people down to TRY and make himself look good to everyone .what a jerk
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Jul 25

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    I always write stories about how unhappy i am

    with him.It's a love/hate relationship.He is a controlling a**hole,and i finally exploded on him last night.Once again,telling me step by step what i should do,being dis respectful,the same old crap,so i FINALLY went off on him.See ,i don't work,but i will in September when my 5...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 56 Responses Mar 19

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    I just dont understand the very first day I met

    my husbands mother she was so mean, then she gave me a shirt with dirt on it for xmas , she knew that I was allergic to perfume and she gave me that as a gift , she knew that I cant have anything with cream and cheese and she made that for dinner this is all through the years...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    Just stop it? seriously?

    This is what my husband tells me when he asks what is wrong and I am depressed. At least this was his answer 1 year ago. I remember at that moment never again opening up to him. I am clinically depressed. I have been diagnosed and apparently I should "just stop thinking like...
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    And I don't use the word HATE lightly.

    He's narcissistic and the most disrespectful person I have ever known. I am trapped by my two young children. I'm not ready to give then up every second weekend... They are still babies. Does anyone else live this life??
    Gracey0079 Gracey0079 36-40, F 29 Responses Jan 30

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    I know hate is a strong word

    and it ebbs and flows but tonight I hate him. Everything about him. I have terrible thoughts about what I wish would happen to him. Tomorrow I will feel the guilt of it but tonight I will dream of a life without him as my husband and pray I am strong enough to make it happen.
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have hated my husband

    for years, I can't get out of this. He keeps me broke so I can't leave. He's self employed with a very very small business, one moth is good and the next isn't. He has gone through all my inheritance. We have a deal on what each other pays, since he doesn't have a good month at...
    Eggshells122 Eggshells122 51-55 55 Responses Jul 20

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me

    and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a lie. I hate pretending that everything is ok. I hate the person I am. I have lost myself in this lie that has become my life. There is no...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 42 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 93 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 66 Responses May 10, 2007

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike

    and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out there for others as well. We met when I was 18, married 5 years later. I ignored the signs (shame on me), but have no regrets because of...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 10 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    My husband makes all types of things

    for others, it's like he likes to play hero for everyone else except me and our children. I hate it that I don't have the heart to just leave because my children adore him. Why did I have children with him. WHYYYYY?????
    Hatehumidity Hatehumidity 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    From day one of our marriage he has not been my

    partner. We've been together 8, married 5. He was a great boyfriend but a horrible husband. He's not the adult I dated, he makes immature arguments in regards to what is right and wrong, always sides with my step son, no matter how wrong he is. I get questioned over every...
    marty0710 marty0710 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I have been married almost 3 months!

    He went to court in another state a month after our wedding (for charges I have seen the paperwork and will be thrown out- this is important) well I knew prior to marriage about one legit charge he had on his record and I wrote it off as everyone makes mistakes. My dad spent 8...
    bentbutnotbroken bentbutnotbroken 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    Well today is my anniversary.

    I see couples post lovey posts of how great it is to be with someone. How wonderful and caring that person is. Me? Today I woke up and cried. Once the flash of emotion was over I felt numb. I am existing today. Tomorrow it will be back to normal but today I mourn the day I...
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Ever since the day I married my husband,

    he's become a changed man. Not at all in a good way but a bad way. He has a drinking problem and every time he drinks he treats me like crap!! He flirts with other girls and never gives me the time of the day. Every time I cry and try to talk to him he gets annoyed or get mad...
    blessings1 blessings1 26-30, F Aug 22

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    I have been married to my husband

    for 10 yrs. I used to love him, but after years of not supporting our family, and the constant putting me down I just hate him . Everyone around me screams divorce but I keep holding on because we have 4 children that love him. He is nice when he isn't asked for anything, but if...
    sambray sambray 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 17 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 10 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    Im just curious, i know marriage can be an all

    out war on us sometimes but even so do some of you just look at your marriage now and your husband and still want him? Not even sexually, just want back what you had, or even realize you still love him so much even for the (few or rare) good things about him? If so what are...
    mrsmr2011 mrsmr2011 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    My husband thinks he is an intelligent,

    thoughtful, responsible and loyal man. I did too when I married him. The truth is that he is lazy, educated in pop culture, needy and insecure. He vies for attention from out daughter to satisfy his own need for affection and validation to a point of annoyance. He wastes all...
    wildsmile wildsmile 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    We've known each other

    since high school, dated on and off while he was in the military and have been married for 3 years. I've always know he is a me me person, but things have gotten worse. We have 2 older children and a toddler, I work full time, pay bills, cook dinner nightly and clean the house...
    nursesrock007 nursesrock007 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 30 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    I am married to the most boring

    and low self-esteem man on earth.. I feel bored with him and his personality
    rockygunz rockygunz 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I hate my husband, i don't think i love him

    anymore. I want out of this marriage but he wouldn't let me. I will go to my mother's house and take my kids with me this weekend and i have no plans of coming back. I wonder what he'll do when he finds out. He'll probably act out again but it won't work this time, i had enough...
    Misfit143 Misfit143 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    He is such a jerk he had the nerve to get

    pissed off at me because ,I said to him Italians do not throw their children out of the house like your mother did to you and some of your other siblings . I would never do that no matter how mad that I got at them . he really has some nerve my family is so different in a lot...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    He is Livid ,he has lost all control of me,

    like i told you guys,I will no longer be his victim,control,that he has financially.He started his crap,and wouldn't put up w/ it ,and that has him furious w/ me.I guess he is filing for divorce tomorrow,makes me feel really sad,for him,he had a great wife.I never cheated,i take...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 23 Responses Mar 24

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    He has the nerve to get mad

    because , I don't care for his mothers taste. How stupid! And for trying to get on my nerves well you won because I have had it with you
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response