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I Hate My Husband

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    Today is my first post. Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 7 Responses Jan 11

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    I have been married 19 yrs and I hate my husband. I realize I made a huge mistake by marrying him. He is not the person I thought he was at all. He is always angry and fussing...
    Madeahugemistake Madeahugemistake 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I found this when I googled how I feel. My life has been not a life at all.Within the last 5 years my @$$hole and I started a business, he started drinking heavily, has had...
    lilmom3 lilmom3 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 23

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    NOT Worth It - I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 66 Responses May 10, 2007

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    Things are very strained at the moment. I'm up to my neck in his emotional abuse. Can't afford to leave. I think he get a lot of it from the t.v. We are almost living separate...
    fluffy3hazel fluffy3hazel 66-70 3 Responses Feb 14

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    This weekend is about to be hell. We have to take a trip down to North Carolina to visit my mother-in-law and then to pick up my husband's truck after deployment. Basically we are...
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me - Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 187 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    Duper's Delight - I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 26 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    I hate my husband. He has been verbally abusive to me and our kids for my entire marriage of 15 years. He blames me for everything. I walk around on eggshells, afraid of him. He is...
    kk3538 kk3538 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 4

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    We have been married 38yrs!!! He is very controlling and demeaning!!1 He has never been a Dad to our kids or his 3 kids from previous marriage!!! I cannot stand to listen to...
    sittinonthecouch sittinonthecouch 66-70, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    Well I just started a new job and my husband has been nothing short of useless all he has to do all day is all the stuff he ******* I never do right. He goes back to work at the...
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 28

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    I Hate My Abusive Husband - I am only 21 years old, and I have a 2 year old with my husband. He isnt what you would call nice, kind, or caring. He finds pleasure in hurting me, he...
    Shawnnas Shawnnas 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    Well my husband just came home from a 2 year duty station overseas and the past week has just been a stressful nightmare. I would do and give anything just to escape with my son...
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    He took a pair of scissors and chopped off a chunk of my hair (vertically) so that I cannot leave my house.
    gmgle gmgle 51-55, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    So why is he still your husband? Lol.
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 26

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    Satan's Secretary - You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 30 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    My fiancé is the most narcissistic insensitive condescending idiot in the planet!
    LovesDeceit LovesDeceit 18-21, F 12 Responses Feb 26

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    I Married A Loser! - My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 78 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    Husband Refuses To Help - God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    First off shame on you for using the word hate. Second if you don't love your husband please leave him. My wife just died and I can tell you it's a whole lot easier to go through a...
    Shmily68 Shmily68 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    My husband has untreated bipolar disorder. I need some serious support!
    Iwillsurviveagain Iwillsurviveagain 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I have spent the past couple of weeks finding cards and gifts for my children for Valentine's Day and also cards from my girls to my husband, his parents and my parents. I also got...
    ihatemikea ihatemikea 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    fionacc11 fionacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Sexy Honest Conman - I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 16 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    20 Years Later..... - i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    Actually I Don't " Hate " My Husband. - I just don't have any strong emotion toward him anymore. I used to love him. Loved enough to leave my home country to be with him. He was...
    Halfmoon008 Halfmoon008 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Animal - i just wanted to say reading u all makes me feel better. because i now no I'm not alone. and neither are you (even though it may feel like it) i want out. and I'm...
    fuckhim fuckhim 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    As I lay here on the couch while he sleeps in our bed I think. I think of how it was long ago. How he wanted to spend every minute possible with his family. Now he finds every...
    insanemomof4 insanemomof4 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    My husband is a manipulative verbally abusive a$$hole. He engineered a hunger strike to get control of a fight. He is such as a mama's boy that he can't think for himself. Takes...
    zarandfontein zarandfontein 41-45 3 Responses Feb 25

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    He Makes My Blood Boil!!!! - How can 1 person **** me off so bad? I am turning into someone I don't even know. I can't even speak cause he won't ever shut the hell up!! I have...
    muzzled74 muzzled74 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2012

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    I'm at my breaking point. I really do hate my husband. We used to have a great relationship and then it all changed when his kid moved in. He started sleeping on the couch because...
    min28 min28 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 4

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 6 Responses Jan 10

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    Recently Married And Unhappy - I just joined this community to seek out support. I am newly married and extremely unhappy. I have been with my husband for 7 yrs. and I have seen...
    laurenlo laurenlo 31-35 32 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    I Hate My Husband ! - After 24 years and 4 kids, my husband wants a divorce. I was pretty and he pursued me when ever I left him over the years. I feel like now that I gained 20...
    robLOVER robLOVER 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    I hate him.. I will be strong and divorce him,
    Sofia3434 Sofia3434 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive - My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    Enough Is Enough!!! - I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    You Supposed To Be The Man - Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 45 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Married to a Jerk - I have been married for almost 14 years. I started to hate my husband about 10 years ago (when my son was born). Everything in life that goes wrong is my...
    libbie libbie 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 30, 2008

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    Tantrum - I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 20 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    I Hate My Husband -   When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 19-21, F 19 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    This weekend we are in North Carolina visiting his mom and getting his truck done after his deployment. Every time I come down my mother-in-law and I go out to eat and go shopping...
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    when i got married i thought my husband was the one but i was wrong. he has lied about everything the entire time and i don't believe anything he says. He has gone to made up jobs...
    marriedtoalier marriedtoalier 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    23 Years of Hell - I don't know why I have stayed married to this guy for so long, I guess you could say it is a marriage of convenience.  He has never been a good father to...
    babs45 babs45 46-50, F 20 Responses Dec 29, 2007

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    I'm So Sick of Him - I am so sick of everything being my fault! I can't stand him and want to go right this instant! Now I'm responsible for the crappy washer and dryer, it's my...
    literalgal literalgal 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 12, 2008

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    I hate him. It has been 7 years since I first posted in this forum and I still hate him. The hatred has grown. this has begun to affect me, I know this. I have begun to wonder...
    Donnawashere Donnawashere 46-50 6 Responses Mar 13

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    I am sick and tired of him calling me fat to people that I do not know he told my nephews girlfriend that his wife meaning me is 500 pounds and I am 5 foot 2 and weight 104 pounds...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    My husband makes it hard to like him as a human. Here's why. I used to love him a lot, he used to be sweet, caring, loving etc etc...but after years all that slowly started...
    miffedwife38 miffedwife38 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    We have been together since we were teenagers. I was so in love with him from the start, but he smoked marijuana which was a deal breaker for me. And he knew it. For three years he...
    lonelyintenn lonelyintenn 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 30

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    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!!! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    wasted my life... - For the past couple of days I have been wondering why I have wasted so much of my life?  I have been with my husband for 13 years, married for 9.  The...
    judy3kids judy3kids 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2009

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