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    Julieccaa Julieccaa 26-30, F May 12

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    I hate him this weekend.

    ....he has had back pain n it makes him miserable. He has no clue how horrid n verbally mean he can be. He has to take pain meds n such to deal with his pain. I hate when he gets in these nasty moods n doesn't realize how it efects me. There are times he comes off Narssisist like...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 7 Responses Apr 26

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    My soon to-be husban,

    complains about every thing I do! Lately it's been about me not making enough money because I am currently in college trying to get my diploma. He has the nerve to say that I live off other sources and can't just get a full time job. My other sources he means are student loans...
    MelanieS1991 MelanieS1991 22-25 5 Responses Apr 22

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    My husband wont stand up to his family

    when they are rude to me. He gives me the lame excuse that it's hard to stand up to his sister. my response was you took vows with me not that piece of work. It makes me want a divorce. I deserve better. I already spoke with an attorney and was advised we have to be...
    notinmydeck notinmydeck 31-35, F 2 Responses May 6

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    I always write stories about how unhappy i am

    with him.It's a love/hate relationship.He is a controlling a**hole,and i finally exploded on him last night.Once again,telling me step by step what i should do,being dis respectful,the same old crap,so i FINALLY went off on him.See ,i don't work,but i will in September when my 5...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 64 Responses Mar 19

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    We got pregnant before we got married.

    .. And even when I first found out I was pregnant, I contemplated not having the baby bc I didn't concretely see a future between us. I ended up convincing myself that things would work bc "he is a good guy" but now, I realize every day, more & more how wrong he is for me. He...
    ara0615 ara0615 26-30, F 4 Responses May 3

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    He thinks he's god's gift to the world.

    He's never wrong, and everything is always my fault. He's better than everyone else and he lets you know it. Its my fault he has no friends. He's lazy and I do all the work for both of our kids - I'm surprised he knows their names or anything they like to do. He's mean to them...
    scar17 scar17 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 89 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    If I leave him, he has no money,

    no house, the kids will want to be w me, he's an *** but wasn't always and I love him still. but. I can /not/ stand him, at all right now.
    Jess9880 Jess9880 31-35, F 5 Responses May 11

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 10 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    Who many wifes think that

    if yu husband became female for 1 day then he can understand our problem
    swatha4u swatha4u 22-25, F May 2

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    I am so sick and so tired of my husband ,

    his mother sat in my livingroom right infront f me and infront of my family and put my family down and if I say anything negative about his mother he thinks that i deserve to be punished for it she never ever says anything nice to me or my family why would I have anything nice to...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses May 1

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    I've posted here before about how abusive my

    husband is to me. I'm planning on leaving him this summer because my parents are coming down and by that time I'll save up some more money. But summer seems like so far away. Things are really bad right now. He keeps treating me like crap. And I just found out this morning that...
    Faith89 Faith89 22-25, F 2 Responses May 14

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    My husband never listens to me

    and manipulates me. He was married to a crazy person who lies to the police like once a day and we have full custody and his son is 4 and acts out all the time and my husband does nothing. I am not attracted to him and I don't know why im staying. I hate him for hiding his past...
    stuckinarut94 stuckinarut94 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    I don't think there is a word

    that can sum up how much I hate my husband. I hate him I hate him I hate him. We have been together for 9 years and 3 children. For as long as I can remember my husbands world doesn't include wife and kids. I get that he works hard to provide for us but where in the equation do...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 3 Responses May 15

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    I have to prove my worth to him all the time.

    I'm a stay at home mom with a part time job, but as long as I make less than him, I will always be worth less. He says a bunch of nice things to me but then when he gets angry, says incredibly hurtful things that undermine anything he could possibly say to lift me up. Hes always...
    snjarvis snjarvis 22-25, F 4 Responses May 7

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    He got out of the navy almost a year ago

    and is still unemployed. I'm the sole source of income for our household and I do everything for our two girls. He is selfish and lazy! Is it so much to ask that my partner actually be a partner and not just another stress in my life? I asked him to handle the to and from of...
    anonymous157 anonymous157 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 16

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    Yep. I hate my annoying,

    rude, uninterested, unapologetic, narcissistic, self absorbed, ignorant, mamas boy. Can't think of a dumber thing I've ever done than marry him. He makes me want to jump off a cliff. He is THAT annoying.
    mason2x mason2x 36-40 5 Responses Mar 22

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    He is Livid ,he has lost all control of me,

    like i told you guys,I will no longer be his victim,control,that he has financially.He started his crap,and wouldn't put up w/ it ,and that has him furious w/ me.I guess he is filing for divorce tomorrow,makes me feel really sad,for him,he had a great wife.I never cheated,i take...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 25 Responses Mar 24

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    I cant stand that he thinks

    that his sister and mom were nice to me in the past , oh no they weren't
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 18

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    My husband is the dumbest most childish person

    I have ever met! When people ask how long we've been married, I respond with way too long. Really though, we've only been married for almost three dreadful years. Within the first few months, I deployed and found out he was looking for singles on craigslist to hook up with...
    dixielanddelight dixielanddelight 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 5

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    i have days where i can't take it.

    i hate him. all he cares about is himself. he's a selfish narssasistic jerk. i wish my baby and i never saw him again. i just want him far far away. i can't live like this. we dont deserve this. and he doesn't deserve us. im so scared cus he's already threatened me with taking...
    silentmommy silentmommy 22-25 1 Response Apr 30

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    And I don't use the word HATE lightly.

    He's narcissistic and the most disrespectful person I have ever known. I am trapped by my two young children. I'm not ready to give then up every second weekend... They are still babies. Does anyone else live this life??
    Gracey0079 Gracey0079 36-40, F 29 Responses Jan 30

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    Hate is a strong word,

    so I won't say I necessarily hate my husband. I strongly dislike the dude though. No I'm not in an abusive home. His job allows me to stay home with our 20 month old. He has not cheated on me, nor stolen from me, nor done any of the horrible things you usually equate to a...
    MrsTellit MrsTellit 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    Sometimes I wish I could go back in time

    and just walk away from my husband after our first date.
    typsygypsy typsygypsy 31-35, F 17 Responses Jan 31

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 43 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    We just got married less

    than a year ago. They say women let themselves go but so do men. All he does is come home and drink beer and play video games. We moved into our house a year before the wedding and he siad that he would fix it up (he is an engineer and more than capable but lazy). I cook, clean...
    araebella araebella 26-30, F 6 Responses May 1

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    He's obsessed with himself

    and everything that he wants to accomplish in life. I just find his personality annoying is that normal? Every time he talks I just want to tell him to shut up no one cares
    starrynight2424 starrynight2424 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 6

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    I hate my husband too.

    and it grows day after day. I see I am not alone:) He grosses me out with everything he does. But I can't leave him yet because I depend on him financially and I am generally afraid of divorce.
    aliyam aliyam 36-40, F 1 Response May 16

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    I love my husband but i hate him more!

    He is a huge pain in my a... He claims he works to pay the bills but when i tell him what needs to be paid he doesn't want to pay them!! I would probably get more financial help from him if i divorced him and sued him for child support.
    BlackBeauty35 BlackBeauty35 31-35, F 13 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 7 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 187 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me

    and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a lie. I hate pretending that everything is ok. I hate the person I am. I have lost myself in this lie that has become my life. There is no...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    Unforgivble- In March of this year

    after serving 15 years of a 20 year sentence my husband of 21 years was deported from the United States back to his native Italy. That's where I met and married him while I was still in the Army and where our daughter was born in July 1994. He served those 15 years after...
    CocoaBelle CocoaBelle 41-45, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 65 Responses May 10, 2007

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 15 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!

    !! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I know that ****** him off more hahaha.!!!!! I have to keep reminding myself that by "taking the high road" is a win for me. although his...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike

    and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out there for others as well. We met when I was 18, married 5 years later. I ignored the signs (shame on me), but have no regrets because of...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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