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I Hate My Husband

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    I don't understand why I have not left him.

    We have been married for 7 years, been together for about 10. I can do great with out him, I have an awesome career and no kids so I steady ask myself why I am still here. He is verbally abusive, selfish, manipulative, and has a really bad temper. I feel like I am tip-toeing in...
    helloimhere85 helloimhere85 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 11

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    I'm a UK size 10...hardly fat yes I have put on

    weight but I'm 36 years old now every so often he drops a little comment about my weight tonight was do you have to wear those shorts there to small for you they are pj bottoms not like I am going out in them .. He makes me feel like I look like a pig ..he knows I get a lot of...
    lostmyselfgirl lostmyselfgirl 36-40, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 43 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    He is such a jerk his mother is a jerk to me ,

    and if I vent about it to anyone im giving them a bad picture .what!!!!!!! She's terrible and I need to vent you should be ashamed of yourself noone deserves to be baggered by her people need to vent and talk to feel better especially women you big a**
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 7 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    Another fight over sex

    and him controlling everything and needing to know my every move! I'm so sick of it. I need to leave. I want to leave. I should leave. Yet I'm still here! Ugh!!
    Strugglemuch Strugglemuch 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Hate is a strong word,

    so I won't say I necessarily hate my husband. I strongly dislike the dude though. No I'm not in an abusive home. His job allows me to stay home with our 20 month old. He has not cheated on me, nor stolen from me, nor done any of the horrible things you usually equate to a...
    MrsTellit MrsTellit 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    I just really need someone

    that I can talk to. Someone who won't judge me or the relationship I have chosen to stay in. Someone that can help me survive this nightmare that I am in. I hate hate hate my husband for literally destroying a single-handedly with his insecurities. I don't deserve this and...
    Wishful2388 Wishful2388 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 30 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    I have come to terms

    that my 5 year marriage is crap. I can't stand my husband in the slightest. I am probably the best actress on the planet. I smile, kiss him, make his lunches, and even walk him to the door. He wakes up to coffee and breakfast and even gets pampered to much. The reason I do it...
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    i hate that bastard. I just hate him.

    I have never seen such a horrible person. He shows no love or comfort towards me. I want to divorce him so much more every day.
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Your so rude to me and yell at me,

    call me every name in the book then turn around and want sex. When I tell you your out of your mind, there goes more name calling. Your such an idiot! Please give me the silent treatment. Then I don't have to hear your voice.
    oboyoboyoboy oboyoboyoboy 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    He sits home all day granted he collects social

    security but I work my *** off everyday. I stopped doing things for myself all he does is use my money to smoke weed. I can't even get a cooked meal when I come home from work. I confronted him on this you know what he does pulls my hAir and punches me in my head because...
    Firecracker17 Firecracker17 26-30, F 2 Responses May 30

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    We just fought because he had a UGLY outburst

    with me. We were going to go on a nice hike, but after his outburst I no longer wanted to spend time with him today. We will be married 32 years in a few weeks. I know it can't be perfect all the time but right now, I hate him.
    JustTryingToLiveThisLife JustTryingToLiveThisLife 51-55, F 1 Response May 30

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    He is such an ******* I cant stand him my son

    asks me if his mom was annoying to me and I said yes alittle .and he eV gets mad at me what a jerk.
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me

    and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a lie. I hate pretending that everything is ok. I hate the person I am. I have lost myself in this lie that has become my life. There is no...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    Today is fathers day

    and I don't feel he deserves to be celebrated at all! He is both a bad father and husband. He'd much rather spend his evenings either sleeping or with his friend smoking pot! He will bounce a ball in front of my baby's face to distract him thus is able to run out the front door...
    L14366 L14366 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I never thought this day would come.

    I finally got him out of my house torturing me daily. Man this feel good to breathe.. My God thank you. Now I know what it mean to be at peace. I love this feeling
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 28

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    I always write stories about how unhappy i am

    with him.It's a love/hate relationship.He is a controlling a**hole,and i finally exploded on him last night.Once again,telling me step by step what i should do,being dis respectful,the same old crap,so i FINALLY went off on him.See ,i don't work,but i will in September when my 5...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 63 Responses Mar 19

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    I wish I could just make the decision to leave

    already. He is miserable all the time. The news makes him upset, face book makes him upset. The whole world is stupid except him. He works harder than anyone else, drives better, can fix anything better. If I say anything negative he blows up. If I am mad he gets madder. I have...
    182days 182days 41-45, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!

    !! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I know that ****** him off more hahaha.!!!!! I have to keep reminding myself that by "taking the high road" is a win for me. although his...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    For allowing his mom to verbally abusing me .

    and acting as if I should take it she is never civil around anyone she just dosent care and I'm pissed that I don't mean enough well that's the way that I feel anyway .
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 1

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 16 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    And I don't use the word HATE lightly.

    He's narcissistic and the most disrespectful person I have ever known. I am trapped by my two young children. I'm not ready to give then up every second weekend... They are still babies. Does anyone else live this life??
    Gracey0079 Gracey0079 36-40, F 28 Responses Jan 30

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    My husband promised me the world

    and hasn't delivered. Our financial situation basically isn't a financial situation because we are always broke. I work insane amounts of overtime to try to get by. My husband promised to pay certain bills and I would pay certain things, however I pay mine and help him with his...
    BeingStrong1 BeingStrong1 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 7

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    My husband promised me the world

    and hasn't delivered. Our financial situation basically isn't a financial situation because we are always broke. I work insane amounts of overtime to try to get by. My husband promised to pay certain bills and I would pay certain things, however I pay mine and help him with his...
    BeingStrong1 BeingStrong1 26-30, F Jun 7

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 10 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    I love my husband but i hate him more!

    He is a huge pain in my a... He claims he works to pay the bills but when i tell him what needs to be paid he doesn't want to pay them!! I would probably get more financial help from him if i divorced him and sued him for child support.
    BlackBeauty35 BlackBeauty35 31-35, F 13 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 89 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    Interested in a story

    that will make you feel like your problems are minor? READ ON... I can only give a quick summary, but looking forward to a true vent session later tonight when I have the time. I have only been married for 2.5 years. We have one little toddler aged girl (my LIFE). When she was...
    ReAwakenedGirl ReAwakenedGirl 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    He is Livid ,he has lost all control of me,

    like i told you guys,I will no longer be his victim,control,that he has financially.He started his crap,and wouldn't put up w/ it ,and that has him furious w/ me.I guess he is filing for divorce tomorrow,makes me feel really sad,for him,he had a great wife.I never cheated,i take...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 25 Responses Mar 24

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    i am a married guy just reading.

    shocked there is so many woman on here that are unhappy with their husbands. but i am not one to judge because i have been there before with an ex wife.
    stlguy45 stlguy45 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 1

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    I try hard so very hard not to.

    I try to find redeeming qualities that I can hold on to. But some times he makes it so f'ing hard.
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 25

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    His mother is the type of person

    that says anything thats on her mind . I really cant stand that about her it's a horribe trait .so she insults my hair color and tells me that I look old , of course that hurts me its an insult .but, of course the only right thing to do is to get even and insult her with two...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    I hate him more then I have ever hated anybody

    in my life! My God why me?!?? After a day literally a whole day of cleaning the entire house top to bottom while taking care of our 1 year old son. He comes home and fights with me AGAIN about a supposed person at my job named "Alex" that I am supposedly sleeping with. I just...
    Wishful2388 Wishful2388 26-30, F 4 Responses May 31

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    Rain is so soothing. I'm watching through the

    window so hipnotic. Then I see his stupid grin he's under the porch. I now turn sour and wish for lightning.
    tripsandtricks tripsandtricks 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    My story sounds a bit like a lot of your

    stories........I've been married for 3yrs. We have no kids together. I've had my Fallopian tubes removed to make sure that never happens. He has 3 kids from a previous relationship and I have 2. His kids call me mama and my daughter calls him daddy, my 16yr old son doesn't care...
    wishforsinglelife wishforsinglelife 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I can't stand my husband anymore.

    I wish I wouldn't have married him. I depend on him so much financially mostly because of our 3 children. My oldest my 10 year old isn't his though. My husband is a bully to me and my 10 year old the other two children that aren't his are still to little to understand how he is...
    sunkissed26 sunkissed26 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 16

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 188 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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