Post

I Hate My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 4,244 People

    Married To Mr. Negativity

    We've been together 21 years. Married for 20 in December, 2012 (I was 19). We have 3 kids (they are fantabulous & I wouldn't trade them for anything) and if either of us could afford it, we would have divorced long ago. I wish he would cheat on me, beat me, gamble, anything that...
    hatdancer39 hatdancer39 41-45, F 13 Responses Oct 16, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate my husband ,and he hates me back ,

    I hate his family i think he has the worst parents in the world and they are moving to live with us soon. and i don't know what to do. we got married two years ago at first i loved him so much but he treated me with disrespect and called me the worst names -just like the way his...
    alashadid alashadid 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!

    !! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I know that ****** him off more hahaha.!!!!! I have to keep reminding myself that by "taking the high road" is a win for me. although his...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 7

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I love my husband but i hate him more!

    He is a huge pain in my a... He claims he works to pay the bills but when i tell him what needs to be paid he doesn't want to pay them!! I would probably get more financial help from him if i divorced him and sued him for child support.
    Unhappilymarried34 Unhappilymarried34 31-35, F 13 Responses Jun 27

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am finally coming at peace with all of my

    decisions; I know my husband and I are finally done and accept that we are going to get a divorce and we have to just get along for the time being. I am going to write out a separation agreement for us and see what it is like to just be on my own.
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 24

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Just wanting to scream!

    Haven't been on here the last week or answering messenger because my Dad is visiting well yesterday my daughter accidently hit the TV and immediately started apologizing and my husband went off the deep end and she's apologizing and he won't except her apology well he went and...
    Rena4 Rena4 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He will say to me all these mean things

    that his mother has said about me and then of course I get mad and say and thats why I dont like her and then he will get mad at me wtf what about what she is saying about your wife? ?....
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Am I crazy for feelin this way ?

    The worst thing happened to me I'm deep asleep my husband wakes me up at 5 in the mornin n farts on me then says he has a hard shaft rubs it on me tells me to suck it n get on top hell no u haven't gave it to me for a month n a half n expect me to want to do everything doesn't...
    Redgirljanine Redgirljanine 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 15

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 19-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 16, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I fell in love with someone

    who adored me. Now I feel no adoration, love, I feel nothing from him. My husband is attractive and well built (muscular). We have three kids 14, 18, and 19 and a grandbaby who's 1. However in the last year we have grown apart. I find my self not talking to him about...
    LloydsLordes LloydsLordes 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My husband mentally abuse me

    and sometimes hurts me physically. I've called my friends, his family, police and his coworkers for help but he always tell them "She is mentally ill so don't give her any attention". He always blame me for putting others into our business but I only do when I feel my life is in...
    vivian93xx vivian93xx 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ugh my husband is being a f***ing a-hole!

    ! I hate long weekends i'd rather be at work!! 😡
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 11 Responses Apr 18

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Everything he does winds me up.

    He never talks to me, just spends all his spare time on his phone or iPad (playing games, not to girls or anything). He says I am angry all the time but he pushes and pushes me until I am angry, then acts all self righteous. I feel so unhappy and alone. We have one child with...
    tizzwizz tizzwizz 31-35 1 Response Jul 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 15

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 30 Responses Jul 31, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He is so freak rude and self center he thinks

    that the nice things I do for him I have too. I am the best woman he has ever had and he treats me like ish.
    Missthang82 Missthang82 31-35, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't know anymore how to like him just like

    before. He keeps on making me trust him and disappointing me everytime. I think he's a waste of my 7 years of marriage. I could have left him since the beginning.
    Kattleya Kattleya 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Everyone, including my own extended family,

    thinks that my husband is just the nicest guy in the world. He puts on his nice, friendly mask and attitude when others are around. Then when it's just us and the kids, here comes the miserable tyrant. He has OCD and if things aren't just so it drives him to throwing a temper...
    wifeofmiserabletyrant wifeofmiserabletyrant 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 23

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 4

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My husband is so annoying I can't take it

    anymore.......ok I'm a regular 44 year old lady with 2 kids. My husband has no aspirations in life that I've ever heard him talk about. He works construction. He is getting to old for that and has been getting injured alot lately. So everyday I have to hear him complain about it...
    clover17392 clover17392 41-45, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate my husband. I pay

    for everything . Food. Electricity. Water. Health insurance. Doctor bills. Dentist bills. Car insurance . House insurance . Clothes for kids. Any and all extras. If it gets done at our house it MUST have been initiated by me. I never dreamed in 1000 years when i got married...
    ohiogirl789 ohiogirl789 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 2

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My husband is such a jerk .

    I I hate his sisters husband and so does everyone that I know this jerk is very disrepectful to me disrepectful twords my family , this thing is the biggest *** I ever met and my husband is expecting me to treat him nice are you kidding me I would divorce my husband over this...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel

    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 44 Responses Jun 3, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Married to a Jerk

    I have been married for almost 14 years. I started to hate my husband about 10 years ago (when my son was born). Everything in life that goes wrong is my fault at least he sees it that way. I cannot do anything right and I am a horrible mother. He has called me fat for as...
    libbie libbie 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 30, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm at my breaking point.

    I really do hate my husband. We used to have a great relationship and then it all changed when his kid moved in. He started sleeping on the couch because he said "he didn't trust the kids sneaking out", well that has been over 10 years and we no boys in the house now. We took in...
    min28 min28 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 4

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Passive aggressive behavior has to be one of

    the worst behaviors to live with,coupled with the just plain meanness, narrow minded judgmental outlook on life. I have been with this man almost 8 years,I have realized what a mistake. Through the loss of my mother 8 months ago, his inability to to be supportive, his...
    bekah930 bekah930 46-50 4 Responses Jun 16

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm So Sick of Him

    I am so sick of everything being my fault! I can't stand him and want to go right this instant! Now I'm responsible for the crappy washer and dryer, it's my fault that rent a center keeps giving us pieces of crap. He's the one who went there and got the stuff, without me. Now I'm...
    literalgal literalgal 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 12, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 8 Responses Jan 11

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate my husband so much I want to explode.

    We have nothing in common, he's so immature, not responsible except for when he wants to be a suck up to my mom. He doesn't even try to do anything to make me love him, even when I tell him every day that I regret marrying him he doesn't take me seriously. He says he'll change...
    sabinadp sabinadp 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 1

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Am finally getting the the point in my life

    where I can do something to get away from my husband. After 30 years and two terrific kids, it's time to get away from my poisonous husband. I spent too much time when our marriage began hoping things would get better and making changes to suit him. I should have listened to...
    Momo2GS Momo2GS 56-60, F 3 Responses Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The key to HATE is: Lying,

    cheating, deserting, 4 children in 5 years (six beautiful children in total), the *Death of one's dreams*, Not ONE discussion over how any given bill will be paid- and then, be told,"You are NOT like my mom, she takes care of everything." I say this as a woman who was a small...
    sunbeam1 sunbeam1 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I h a te that he has a really bad temper

    and acts like its me I made him that way but its really him .l feel like he is like an old pair of comfortable shoes dont wanna get rid if them because they are comfortable but know that you are better off with new ones he is always up and down with his personality I am afraid...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 23

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 6 Responses Jan 10

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It's pathetic just how dependent my husband has

    become. He will use every excuse in the book to do absolutely nothing around the house and when the excuses are rendered irrelevant he still won't do anything. All of a sudden he tells me his hours are changing to night check which is 2pm to midnight and says "once that starts I...
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Animal

    i just wanted to say reading u all makes me feel better. because i now no I'm not alone. and neither are you (even though it may feel like it) i want out. and I'm working on it. it takes a while to save enough money when u do not work and just go to school. but i am getting...
    fuckhim fuckhim 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Okay, I need to get this is off my chest.

    My husband never tries to see things from my perspective. Every time he upsets me he never takes me seriously and here is the most recent fight we have had. On July the 4th weekend we were supposed to go out of town with my family but my mom got sick so the plans got cancelled...
    jrlegg jrlegg 26-30, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He spends all his free time watching tv

    or reading on the internet. We never have real conversations. He eats crap all the time which makes it hard for us to even share a meal. He is now sleeping in a separate room but every morning he kisses me before going to work. I feel compelled to stay -- you know what they say...
    emilysaunt emilysaunt 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 23

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    His family says really mean

    and awful things to me but he gets mad at me if I say that I hate them then tries to get me back for saying anything about them when they did it first wtf I am your wife dont I I matter at all I feel like I am his familes punching bag and if I try to stick up for myself I get...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    23 Years of Hell

    I don't know why I have stayed married to this guy for so long, I guess you could say it is a marriage of convenience.  He has never been a good father to our two daughters, always his work came first.  I have felt like a single parent forever.  But God forbid I...
    babs45 babs45 46-50, F 19 Responses Dec 29, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have been with my husband

    since 1999. He has a additive personality that he thinks he is in control of. In the last 15 yrs he has been addicted to meth, cocaine, pills, alcohol, ****, sex, and beating off. I made him leave in 2007 and he had 2 kids in the 3 yrs we was separated. I myself didn't get...
    2012death 2012death 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 15 Responses Jan 1, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 80 Responses Mar 9, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 186 Responses Apr 29, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My husband just left me

    and my son said I should talk to people here about my lack of sex. I worry about my son sometimes any hi
    Lisamum46 Lisamum46 46-50, F 12 Responses May 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Everyday, I wonder why I still stay with him.

    We got married last February and we opted to live with his mother. In their house, I was the one spending for groceries and food. I did most of the housework. I loved him back then. He used me. He swiped my credit card for a personal computer which lead to us being kicked out of...
    bea7788 bea7788 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well here we go again everyday he starts

    trouble with me its like he wants me to be unhappy . I just dont understand him.we were in serous ffinancial trouble about thirteen years ago got out if it had to leave my 1 yr old and 3 yr old to get out of it and go to work because my husband went credit card happy and we live...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 65 Responses May 10, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My husband's ex cheated on him.

    I'm not saying it was right or that he deserved it but I'm beginning to understand why she thought she was justified in doing it. God I wish I could tell my husband that!
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F 2 Responses May 12

    Your Response

    Cancel