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I Hate My Husband

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    Hate is a strong word,

    so I won't say I necessarily hate my husband. I strongly dislike the dude though. No I'm not in an abusive home. His job allows me to stay home with our 20 month old. He has not cheated on me, nor stolen from me, nor done any of the horrible things you usually equate to a...
    MrsTellit MrsTellit 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 22, 2015

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    And I don't use the word HATE lightly.

    He's narcissistic and the most disrespectful person I have ever known. I am trapped by my two young children. I'm not ready to give then up every second weekend... They are still babies. Does anyone else live this life??
    Gracey0079 Gracey0079 36-40, F 30 Responses Jan 30, 2015

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    He promised to love me,

    he gave his word and I was young and dumb enough to truly believe he actually meant it.
    quietlucy quietlucy 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    I'm so tired of feeling alone I hate

    Valentine's Day my husband has made me hate anything romantic. I hate that I feel like this but I really don't like him right now
    unhappywife16 unhappywife16 41-45, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I really think he's crazy.

    He screams so loud, drives crazy, tells me if I leave the "next guy" will beat me to death because I'm unbearable. Tells me to "shut the **** up" and slams the steering wheel almost daily. If I am not immediately quiet and stay quiet until he is ready for me to talk he either...
    Krose77 Krose77 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2015

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    Everything he does proves his lack of respect

    for me. Tonight he took dinner out of the oven and ran across the street to get three things from the store. It was literally right across the street. Like, walk out the front door, cross a one lane road and walk through the front door of the shop. This was an hour ago. He...
    Krose77 Krose77 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    I cannot say with any certainty

    that I hate him. What was once a wonderfully dark romance, keeping my palms sweaty from the mystery of what was to come; is now a cold bitter place filled with resentments. I willingly gave up anything I needed to, to appease him. Nothing makes him happy not even myself or my...
    LivingDeadgirl30 LivingDeadgirl30 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    giveusstreangth giveusstreangth 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    I always write stories about how unhappy i am

    with him.It's a love/hate relationship.He is a controlling a**hole,and i finally exploded on him last night.Once again,telling me step by step what i should do,being dis respectful,the same old crap,so i FINALLY went off on him.See ,i don't work,but i will in September when my 5...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 53 Responses Mar 19, 2015

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me

    and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a lie. I hate pretending that everything is ok. I hate the person I am. I have lost myself in this lie that has become my life. There is no...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    We've been married six years.

    He physically abused me the first two and lied to me about virtually everything. I never knew what was real. He calls me names and says I deserve it. He says I provoked the abuse and that it took a month of being around me to abuse me. He wrote s book and made me the bad...
    Krose77 Krose77 36-40, F 9 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    Yep. I hate my annoying,

    rude, uninterested, unapologetic, narcissistic, self absorbed, ignorant, mamas boy. Can't think of a dumber thing I've ever done than marry him. He makes me want to jump off a cliff. He is THAT annoying.
    mason2x mason2x 36-40 6 Responses Mar 22, 2015

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 66 Responses May 10, 2007

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    So my dead car has been sitting in Visitors

    Parking of the condo where we live for a few months. I've been saving the money needed to tow it out of there and have it fixed... While I assume it was likely annoying my neighbours, most know me and have expressed empathy and understanding to me in regards to it's presence...
    Gracey0079 Gracey0079 36-40, F 52 Responses Sep 26, 2015

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 16 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 190 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    He criticizes my cooking.

    If I'm cooking and he thinks I am doing it wrong he gets so angry his face turns red. Yes, he abuses me and I know I need to get out. Try not to judge me, leaving us much easier said than done.
    Krose77 Krose77 36-40, F 8 Responses Jan 2

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    I am a 32 years old and I need help.

    ...I have been separated from my husband of 6 years for about 5 months,, i am so confused because I miss him so much but when he is near me I can't stand him..He has been a selfish, self center, baby...a year after we get married le left me to go back to his country to take care...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have hated my husband

    for years, I can't get out of this. He keeps me broke so I can't leave. He's self employed with a very very small business, one moth is good and the next isn't. He has gone through all my inheritance. We have a deal on what each other pays, since he doesn't have a good month at...
    Eggshells122 Eggshells122 51-55 51 Responses Jul 20, 2015

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    I hate valentine's day.

    I'm feeling so angry. I never understood why people do mean and nasty things to others and think that their behavior is ok. I guess my husband conscientious stupidity and sincere ignorance, In his sick mind is ok. I hate cops they think they are above the law and can get...
    unhappywife16 unhappywife16 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    He is Livid ,he has lost all control of me,

    like i told you guys,I will no longer be his victim,control,that he has financially.He started his crap,and wouldn't put up w/ it ,and that has him furious w/ me.I guess he is filing for divorce tomorrow,makes me feel really sad,for him,he had a great wife.I never cheated,i take...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 20 Responses Mar 24, 2015

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    I never thought I would say this,

    I regret marring him so much, I feel like I ruined my life, we have nothing in common, i used to love dancing, dancing was everything for me, and now because if he's lame *** I never dance, my life is so boring by his side, he hates my dog, I had to give it to my mom, I feel so...
    Mimi7288 Mimi7288 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    He doesn't just say things to hurt me,

    he says things to destroy me!
    quietlucy quietlucy 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 23

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    Things seem tolerable

    and then back he demeans you.
    clmr33 clmr33 46-50, F 6 Responses Dec 28, 2015

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    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!

    !! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I know that ****** him off more hahaha.!!!!! I have to keep reminding myself that by "taking the high road" is a win for me. although his...
    Jofree Jofree 46-50, F 7 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    I have always dreamed of having one of those

    husbands that would die for me. That loved me so much and had nothing but nice, beautiful things to say about me. To be my knight in shining armor. To defend me and have my back. I could have made someone else so happy, someone who deserves me. I get so jealous and depressed...
    Scarletcharlotte Scarletcharlotte 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    Sadly I don't even know

    where to start....... I have been married for a little over a year... verbal and phyiscal abuse off and on......came close to divorcing........ he's has cheated and what little self worth i have is gone. I thoroughly believe he pretended to be someone he wasn't because he...
    starlight1976 starlight1976 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 30 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    I can hardly bear to look at him anymore these

    days. The abuse that he has subjected me to makes it next to impossible to stay here, but I have little other choice for a while longer. I'm tired of his refusal to bathe - he thinks that a wash is as good as a bath... his "dirty protest" now means that my family barely see me...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    I can't handle it anymore.

    . can anyone help? He drives me crazy.. he nags me constantly, he claims constantly. .he basically tells me I'm stupid. . No patience. . Mean to my friends and son.. Tells me to get rid of them. Does not want me going anywhere and when I do. It's the major guilt trip. Calls me...
    giveusstreangth giveusstreangth 46-50, F 7 Responses Jan 26

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    I know hate is a strong word

    and it ebbs and flows but tonight I hate him. Everything about him. I have terrible thoughts about what I wish would happen to him. Tomorrow I will feel the guilt of it but tonight I will dream of a life without him as my husband and pray I am strong enough to make it happen.
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 29, 2015

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    I've been in this group

    since 2009. It took me six years to get up the nerve, but I finally did it. I DIVORCED MY HUSBAND!!! The divorce is final. I feel like the a huge weight has been lifted from me. I wish I hadn't waited so long, but it's now over and I have no more obligation to him. YAY...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 3 Responses Sep 26, 2015

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    I've been married to him

    for a year and 7 months and been together for 2 years before marriage. We both are from two different countries. And we are still in a long distance relationship. Things were quite good at first unless i found out about this other lady with two children (still confused who's...
    nish43 nish43 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    I think we are on the verge of divorce,

    while we've only been married for a couple of months, since late last year. Our conflicts are obvious even before we were married, but it has reached new heights after we got married. My husband blames me for many things, including his inability of not waking up early enough...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 8

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    He is the biggest jerk ever .

    his mothers hobby is putting me down and he can't understand why I do not want to be around her ugh!!!!!!!
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 7, 2015

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    Sometimes I wish I could go back in time

    and just walk away from my husband after our first date.
    typsygypsy typsygypsy 36-40, F 18 Responses Jan 31, 2015

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 17 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    Today we got into another fight,

    he threatened to break my gadgets, passport, residence permit ( i reminded him also to include our marriage contract lol) he said unless I cooperate to fix our marriage. I want out already, it's clear for me that I married the wrong guy as he is becoming more controlling...
    ObsidianSky ObsidianSky 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 13

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    an update or vent, wuichevwr so we had a

    massive hail storm last night. leaks from light five fixtures in three different rooms. two kids still up and scared by storm. he did nothing. i ran around, grabbing towels and buckets and ringing real estate agent to advise. he then bitched we didnt know when we would have...
    caligal73 caligal73 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    He is such a negative person!

    Finds faults in everything I do... Expects me to cook, clean, work full time and spend on the house... He doesn't spend a penny on the house, grocery, or his own kids! The only reason I am in this marriage is that we have a special needs kid. Even looking at him makes me sick...
    Fay1985 Fay1985 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 25, 2015

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    So I found out a few days ago he has been

    sneaking into my purse and stealing my credit card. He spends hundreds of dollars on himself on stupid things and has completely drained our savings. I don't have $20 to my name at this point. We will probably end up losing our house. He has said before that he won't stop...
    sansastark12 sansastark12 22-25, F 34 Responses Dec 7, 2015

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