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    So my husband does a really good job in

    providing for his family. I mean he takes care of majority of the bills but that does not give him the right to try to bring me down mentally. Today this basturd called me fat and then when I walked away trying to hide my tears because I did not want him to think he won this...
    tisha472 tisha472 22-25, F Nov 14

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    Wouldn't you call the person

    who keeps on putting down your father a jerk .!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I cant stand someone who would do this to me. Its not my husband its his mother but my husband didnt tell his mother that she was wrong :( how did i end up with someone like this . My husband thinks that i am...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Nov 23

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    I'm 44 years old. I have been with my husband

    for 20 years, 14 married. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. My husband is a raging narcissist. Nothing is his fault. Everyone else is to blame, does not support him, or in some way has betrayed him, which justifies his terrible behavior. I am the breadwinner. He is...
    ughmarriage ughmarriage 41-45 5 Responses Jul 29

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 15 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    He totally behaves like he is god.

    .. refuses to apologise and and ignoring me blatantly that the kids have noticed and are asking questions, I don't know what to say... read my posts in I suffer with depression, you will get the story
    081275fizz 081275fizz 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 16

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 186 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    My husband enjoys fighting

    if its not with me its with my son and he thinks that he is perfect its us not him .when hes at work we all get alng nice but when hes around complete drama he rude crude and abnoxious he dosent know how to talk to people whatever comes out of his mouth is always rude I find...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    My husband refuses to accept my FB Friend

    requests. He said today it was expletive embarrassing. But he's friends with his mom, several mutual friends and his ex. His mom and our mutual friends know who his ex is. He accepted a fake FB friend request from me before and got pretty involved with 'her'. He unfriended her...
    Iamjenn Iamjenn 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    I am so frustrated. I'm 26 years old,

    work two jobs, pay all the bills and do all the housework. I want to get my masters degree but I can't afford to now. I can't stand that my husband is 33, has no direction in life, unemployed and plays video games most of the time. I am waking up from this delusion that I loved...
    Carma88 Carma88 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate when my husband hurts my feelings he

    never feels the need to apologize instead he feels to call me sensitive and f*** my tears. I honestly feel like half the time I don't mean much to him.
    tisha472 tisha472 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 14

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    23 Years of Hell

    I don't know why I have stayed married to this guy for so long, I guess you could say it is a marriage of convenience.  He has never been a good father to our two daughters, always his work came first.  I have felt like a single parent forever.  But God forbid I...
    babs45 babs45 46-50, F 19 Responses Dec 29, 2007

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 31 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 65 Responses May 10, 2007

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 11

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    I swear I hate this ugly a*** nasties of a

    husband. This is the last straw today he calls me a idiot b**** because of his bipolar disorder. I can't stand him and I honestly don't want anything to do with him. Then he goes to tell me that I don't remember how he beat me in the past. That I'm an idiot because I can't...
    tisha472 tisha472 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    Am finally getting the the point in my life

    where I can do something to get away from my husband. After 30 years and two terrific kids, it's time to get away from my poisonous husband. I spent too much time when our marriage began hoping things would get better and making changes to suit him. I should have listened to...
    Momo2GS Momo2GS 56-60, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    So I hate my husband

    for having this sense of winning after calling me out my name and successfully hurting my feelings . I don't understand how he could be a dad to two girls calling his own wife out of her name. And then bragging about how he beat me. How could he feel that is an accomplishment. I...
    tisha472 tisha472 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    OMG I want to scream been planning my daughters

    birthday party Booked the party at a frozen yogurt shop Sent out invitations Made fresh chocolate cupcakes with buttercream icing and decorated with the disney frozen theme Made up little gift bags for her birthday at school with frozen pencils and tattoos for the girls and...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 6

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    I promise myself I would not let these feelings

    swell and try to over take my mind but the stuff that my husband says takes me to the next level. I get so tired of him saying that its all my fault he is the way he is. Then for him to threaten me and tell me that he does not have to try to be better. I am starting not to give...
    tisha472 tisha472 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 15

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike

    and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out there for others as well. We met when I was 18, married 5 years later. I ignored the signs (shame on me), but have no regrets because of...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 19

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    We been together for 4 years

    and I finally got pregnant after 2 years of trying. My husband is constantly cheating on me. I found out from this woman who he slept with that my husband paid her. It's too hurt to accept. When I move out while his overseas that time next morning I found. Out I am pregnant. We...
    anne2387 anne2387 26-30, F 19 Responses Sep 26

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    My husband goes out drinking,

    comes home obnoxious and wakes up our child! Then he gets her all riled up so she believes its play time(she's a toddler)! Cooks and trashes the kitchen and most of the time burns food, throws it away or forgets about it!!! So thoughtless. Oh and God forbid you point out...
    pg1341290 pg1341290 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 25

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    You say I'm crazy Cause you don't think I know

    what've done But when you call me baby I know I'm not the only one.
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 19-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    He came home from work not speaking

    and angry for some invisible reason. That's his primary emotion. It destroys more than he realizes. He can be quite demeaning too. And antagonizing. He told me last week his nickname is Psycho T...yeah, i know. Leave now. I carried his preemie son. I raise my stepson. I care for...
    cellogal cellogal 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 6 Responses Jan 10

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    Ugh my husband is being a f***ing a-hole!

    ! I hate long weekends i'd rather be at work!! 😡
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 13 Responses Apr 18

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    my mother in law starts badgering my son having

    his cousin call him up saying if you want we or your grandma are going up to the hospital and my son said no I want to go up with my dad so she comes riding past my house acting like a complete jerk causing trouble so I told my husband your mother was way out of line for doing...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 12

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 23

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    wasted my life...

    For the past couple of days I have been wondering why I have wasted so much of my life?  I have been with my husband for 13 years, married for 9.  The only joy that has come out of this marriage are my 3 beautiful children, who are truly my life.  Other than that...
    judy3kids judy3kids 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    I should start off by saying

    that he is a wonderful guy. He tries to be a good husband and works a lot. He is a good dad, and isn't abusive at all. However, after almost a decade together I feel nothing but contempt and disgust for him. It's completely my fault I'm sure.There are several reasons why I hate...
    redrosesareriveting redrosesareriveting 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    Married To Mr. Negativity

    We've been together 21 years. Married for 20 in December, 2012 (I was 19). We have 3 kids (they are fantabulous & I wouldn't trade them for anything) and if either of us could afford it, we would have divorced long ago. I wish he would cheat on me, beat me, gamble, anything that...
    hatdancer39 hatdancer39 41-45, F 13 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me

    and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a lie. I hate pretending that everything is ok. I hate the person I am. I have lost myself in this lie that has become my life. There is no...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 7 Responses Sep 20

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    I can not stand how awful

    and mean my husbands family is to me .but yet he expects me to say that I like them? Would you like peole that are mean to you and his sister says really mean stuff to me all the time and I am so sick f them I tell him how I feel and I am his wife he needs to stick up for me...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    OMG!! My d bag husband has time to step out

    for a nasty cigarette but when I ask him to watch the baby for five freaking minutes I get eye rolls and nothing but attitude!! It's like living with a teenage girl!
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4

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    OMFG!!!!! I just want to scream.

    .........WTF is wrong with him?!?!?! Why do I get yelled at because your phone cuts out? Why yell at me because I asked you to repeat what you said so I could hear you correctly?? Why ***** at me because I informed you of a problem at the house??? I only tell you this stuff so...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 4

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    I'm So Sick of Him

    I am so sick of everything being my fault! I can't stand him and want to go right this instant! Now I'm responsible for the crappy washer and dryer, it's my fault that rent a center keeps giving us pieces of crap. He's the one who went there and got the stuff, without me. Now I'm...
    literalgal literalgal 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 12, 2008

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    Dont understand why he is trying

    so hard to bring me down , dont understand why someone would go out o f there way to treat the person that they are suppose to love terrible I wish I had a normal man in my life not one that hates me
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I promise my husband has to be bipolar.

    He only wants to be bothered when he wants to and that is nerve wrecking. Honestly I am tired of dealing with a sometimey type dude. Its irritating that I have to put up with something like that. At times I feel like I have lost all my self esteem knowing the truth as to how he...
    tisha472 tisha472 22-25, F Nov 12

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    This experience site cracks me up.

    I literally laugh out loud at all the women who hate their husbands. Not because I think their situations are funny. The opposite. I can't believe how many people there are to relate to. I am no longer with my husband, but I hated him! I'm free now and I feel such a kindred...
    cleophoenix cleophoenix 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    Animal

    i just wanted to say reading u all makes me feel better. because i now no I'm not alone. and neither are you (even though it may feel like it) i want out. and I'm working on it. it takes a while to save enough money when u do not work and just go to school. but i am getting...
    fuckhim fuckhim 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    I wish he would cheat.

    Or fall for someone.
    Midnightheart Midnightheart 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 14

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    I am in a loveless, sexless marriage,

    which I am choosing to currently live with because I cannot say that getting out would make my life or the lives of my children any better. In addition to that, my husband is truly an idiot when it comes to finances. He refuses to allow me to take over. He is not paying off the...
    exhaused1 exhaused1 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 9

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    He is trying s hard t make me get upset he

    knows my sons principles brother and he is having him harass my son and my sons a good kid why would anyone use there child to get back at there spouse is really bad .I never meet anyone who is so angry and I I cant even explain how this man thinks or acts its terrible .and he...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Dec 11

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