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I Hate My Husband

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    somedays, I want him gone,

    dead, whatever. I can't breathe whenever he's around. He won't let me go, and I feel compelled to stay with him because we have a daughter together, but every nerve in my body screams how much I hate him.
    amydunne23 amydunne23 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Was going out of his way to be a jerk to me

    yet again dont know if he will ever stick up for me . I think im done , im sick f this seesaw all the time . He made me cry. People who love youwouldn't make you cry right then he said h I was teasing noyou wweren't you made me cry I really hate you
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    I'm fed up right now.

    .. just 2 little jobs is all that I've asked of him this week. The first was to empty the ashtray in the bathroom and the second was to empty the small bin in the bedroom - so why did I end up having to do both by myself? I wouldn't mind so much if my step dad hadn't been in...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 20

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 17 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    he is to stupid to realize

    that his mother was so mean to me , and I have had it with her **** .come to your senses *******
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 29 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    We disagree on everything there to disagree

    about parenting. He is a friend, and I'm a parent (enforcer), and always get a bad rep.
    wfewfe wfewfe 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike

    and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out there for others as well. We met when I was 18, married 5 years later. I ignored the signs (shame on me), but have no regrets because of...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    I love my husband but i hate him more!

    He is a huge pain in my a... He claims he works to pay the bills but when i tell him what needs to be paid he doesn't want to pay them!! I would probably get more financial help from him if i divorced him and sued him for child support.
    BlackBeauty35 BlackBeauty35 31-35, F 15 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    My husband is not providing At first i was

    working hard to pay for life when he was still in university Then i still am working hard now, even after he graduates. Hes not working or making money. He said he wanted baby, i gave him a son. Still he wont work. With a baby im not covering our expenses plus all the money...
    Shada01 Shada01 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    My husband is a nightmare.

    At the drop of a hat he will go crazy and turn the smallest fight into an all out war. He throws me around and then tells me it's my fault worst of all we have out official wedding out of the country in 2 months (we've been legally married for a year) and our whole family...
    harlow7 harlow7 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 18

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    He is Livid ,he has lost all control of me,

    like i told you guys,I will no longer be his victim,control,that he has financially.He started his crap,and wouldn't put up w/ it ,and that has him furious w/ me.I guess he is filing for divorce tomorrow,makes me feel really sad,for him,he had a great wife.I never cheated,i take...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 26 Responses a week ago

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    i hate my husband. he is

    so rude to me. he treats me like garbage. he talks to me like im stupid. now i feel stupid and i feel like im garbage. i wanna kill myself for this reason. you know he is supposed to be my best friend, my support but he is the one who puts me down. I have no one to talk to... im...
    thinkerwell thinkerwell 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 8

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    Ugh my husband is being a f***ing a-hole!

    ! I hate long weekends i'd rather be at work!! 😡
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 13 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    I'm so tired of giving everything,

    being supportive, doing all the yard work, doing all the housework, repairing bridges that he blows up with his family and then I do something "wrong" I get the silent treatment for days. He plays the victim role. If I have a bad day, I'm being dramatic and it is always about...
    jbhenderson jbhenderson 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Sometimes I wish I could go back in time

    and just walk away from my husband after our first date.
    typsygypsy typsygypsy 31-35, F 15 Responses Jan 31

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    Do I have a right to hate my husband?

    For 15 years (8 legal) I have kept this family together. I could go through the list of what I do but its long. So what he does is bring home the income and take out the trash. He will cook a meal on his off days. He recently was handed an opportunity to make 10,000 a month and...
    Jaebolden Jaebolden 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Everything has changed

    since we had a baby. I don't know this man anymore. I secretly wish he would cheat on me so I'd have a great excuse to leave and it wouldn't be my doing.
    PittFam PittFam 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 19

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    He has never been physically abusive,

    and sometimes he can be truly amazing, but whenever anything goes wrong for him: at work, with his friends, etc, he becomes indescribably cruel, and can't be satisfied until he's brought me to tears. Its gotten to the point where even the good times are unbearable, because I am...
    LonelyTogether LonelyTogether 31-35, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    So annoyed. I have a germaphobe of a husband,

    I can't even touch him without freaking out. If any of my things touches them he acts as if he's getting contaminated by a disease. He wasn't like this before, but now it's getting way out of hand. I just wanna smack him sometimes, or better yet walking away from him for the...
    falafel86 falafel86 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 89 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    I hate my husband so much

    and I sometimes wish I had an incurable disease so I could leave him without having to put the kids through a divorce! He drinks too much, never wants to go out cause he would rather not miss any sport. When I've been out to a friend's house and come back an hour later than I...
    redstone74 redstone74 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    Enjoying the rain and my coffee watching Jerry

    Springer. Listening to my iPhone ring periodically from these two nuts. Hahaha. lol. Leave me alone already...sheesh... ; )
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F Feb 23

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    Hate is a strong word,

    so I won't say I necessarily hate my husband. I strongly dislike the dude though. No I'm not in an abusive home. His job allows me to stay home with our 20 month old. He has not cheated on me, nor stolen from me, nor done any of the horrible things you usually equate to a...
    MrsTellit MrsTellit 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 7 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    And I don't use the word HATE lightly.

    He's narcissistic and the most disrespectful person I have ever known. I am trapped by my two young children. I'm not ready to give then up every second weekend... They are still babies. Does anyone else live this life??
    Gracey0079 Gracey0079 36-40, F 22 Responses Jan 30

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 65 Responses May 10, 2007

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    My husband is abusive.

    .. Physically, emotionally and in every way possible. We've been married for 2 years. I went against my whole family to be with him, and just months into our marriage, he started treating me like sh**t. I have a daughter with him. I love her so much, she's part of a reason why I...
    Faith89 Faith89 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    falafel86 falafel86 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    My son was home sick yesterday

    and my husband got pissed had his parents friends say something t me about it what jerks stay out of my life kids get sick I hate living in the same town as the inlaws
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me

    and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a lie. I hate pretending that everything is ok. I hate the person I am. I have lost myself in this lie that has become my life. There is no...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    I can't talk to him any more.

    Everything seems to end in an argument. I dare not say anything if he is driving even to give him directions if he makes a wrong turn because he gets upset, but if I don't say anything I'm in trouble because he wants directions. Some days I wish him gone from my life. He has...
    unme1 unme1 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    I love him but hate him at the same time.

    He's been with his ex all night at their child's ball game. Apparently they have bonded by banding together and telling off their kid's coach. I don't understand how he can even breathe the same air as she does. She is the devil in human form. Just last week she was telling him...
    lynne7722 lynne7722 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 27

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    I hate my husbands guts.

    We moved from Austrailia to England for a new life. Some life. The moment I got here I found out this two timing cheat was having an affair with a married woman at work. I brought my dogs with me and now can't go back until I can get a ship to take them which you have to book a...
    bronzebeauty1 bronzebeauty1 46-50 3 Responses Mar 21

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    he knows that my mom has been sick

    and he knows that I am upset about it but, yet my *** husband instead of being nice to me decides to start trouble . I married a real jerk
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    I feel like if you (husband) have

    so little responsibility in life that you can up and go skiing for days on end when ever you feel, you cannot then finally come home and immediately go upstairs to take a ******* nap.
    layladay layladay 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    I'm so sick of the mood swings.

    I can't keep up. One minute he is great, the nest he is a total douche
    blondie529 blondie529 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 186 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    Yep. I hate my annoying,

    rude, uninterested, unapologetic, narcissistic, self absorbed, ignorant, mamas boy. Can't think of a dumber thing I've ever done than marry him. He makes me want to jump off a cliff. He is THAT annoying.
    mason2x mason2x 36-40 5 Responses