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I Hate My Husband

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    Spent the day busy with relatives helping unpack

    and hubs had an attitude with me all day. I only know half of what he did. And there's several hours between each "thing he did" that's unaccounted for. (He has a history of being unfaithful) And of course when I ask in detail what he did, I get yelled at for asking "21...
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 14

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    I hate my husband so much.

    I can't divorce him because I'm afraid of what he'd do if I did. He's mentally ill but thinks it's everyone else who is the problem. He gets into conflicts with everyone he comes into contact with. He gets kicked out of everywhere because people can't stand him. Yet he doesn't...
    lm22900 lm22900 56-60, F Oct 14

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    You Supposed To Be The Man

    Being married is the only dumb thing I regret mostI’am going to write it while blood is still boiling to the  thousands of degrees and not for the sake of sharing it.    Now don’t get me wrong, teachers and preachers and judge mental people stay away from this rant and don...
    TemptressKassandra TemptressKassandra 31-35 45 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    I'm 44 years old. I have been with my husband

    for 20 years, 14 married. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. My husband is a raging narcissist. Nothing is his fault. Everyone else is to blame, does not support him, or in some way has betrayed him, which justifies his terrible behavior. I am the breadwinner. He is...
    ughmarriage ughmarriage 41-45 4 Responses Jul 29

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    NOT Worth It

    I too hated my husband for a very long time, fell into a deep depression over 10 years, thought this poor marriage had to be my fault. Contrire...It was him..Still hate him, he makes my life hell in little ways still, left 8 months ago, and could not be happier..I left money...
    RAINBOW RAINBOW 41-45, F 65 Responses May 10, 2007

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    I'm certain my husband has depression

    and is in denial. I don't think our marriage can tolerate much more. All of the kids are complaining to me about his grumpiness. I feel like he wants me to be someone I'm not. Just do what he wants/says, never disagree, be his servant. We've both become very different people...
    skcg1 skcg1 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 12

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    I am the maid, waitress,

    financial manager, painter, installer, laundress, cook and the only grown up who does anything. I am sick of it. I am sick of being the only adult even though he is almost 50. He still goes to his mommy and lets her pet him and shower him with praise...and of course wait on...
    IAmTheMaid IAmTheMaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 4

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    I seriously feel like I am raising a child with

    a complete idiot. It's even worse because he thinks he knows everything! I feel like I'm always wanting to leave him because life should not be this unhappy. I'll talk to him about it and he will try to be nice for like a day then goes back to being a selfish a hole.
    MrsForgotten MrsForgotten 26-30 Sep 19

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    I'm So Sick of Him

    I am so sick of everything being my fault! I can't stand him and want to go right this instant! Now I'm responsible for the crappy washer and dryer, it's my fault that rent a center keeps giving us pieces of crap. He's the one who went there and got the stuff, without me. Now I'm...
    literalgal literalgal 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 12, 2008

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    Tantrum

    I can feel the tantrum in the air. He is going to subject my kids to his cruel behavior because he is mad that I (the employed) wont support his ( the lazy unemployed one) smoking habit. He has not even tried to get a job. It's a year this month he has lived off me. I made a...
    Whatinthellwasithinking Whatinthellwasithinking 36-40, F 19 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    Animal

    i just wanted to say reading u all makes me feel better. because i now no I'm not alone. and neither are you (even though it may feel like it) i want out. and I'm working on it. it takes a while to save enough money when u do not work and just go to school. but i am getting...
    fuckhim fuckhim 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    We been together for 4 years

    and I finally got pregnant after 2 years of trying. My husband is constantly cheating on me. I found out from this woman who he slept with that my husband paid her. It's too hurt to accept. When I move out while his overseas that time next morning I found. Out I am pregnant. We...
    anne2387 anne2387 26-30, F 19 Responses Sep 26

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    Duper's Delight

    I absolutely love that I found this! Needless to say, the love is dead. WTF was I thinking? As I lie here, sleepless, kept awake by horrendous pig snoring noises... Everyone outside this house thinks you're great and, to them, you are. Volunteer to coach, check, Sunday school...
    konichiwabtchs konichiwabtchs 36-40 27 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    wasted my life...

    For the past couple of days I have been wondering why I have wasted so much of my life?  I have been with my husband for 13 years, married for 9.  The only joy that has come out of this marriage are my 3 beautiful children, who are truly my life.  Other than that...
    judy3kids judy3kids 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    Satan's Secretary

    You know how someone can upset your spirit? You know how no matter how you try to distance yourself from someone they just can’t help themselves, they have to torment you? That is what I get. A man that just does not know when to quit. Even now we are apart, he still persists...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 31 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    What to do, WHAT to do?

    One's life cannot continue to unravel- at the speed mine does. I feel I have paid my toll for passing smoothly at this point. To be loved, really loved... My children just went through 34 days if flu. I have six, so it just kept passing around and around. On the 25th day- my...
    sunbeam1 sunbeam1 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 26

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    I hate my husband sometimes specially

    when he leaves me for his friends. We got married in August and yes I do think I should of waited because I clearly see his mind isn't where it should be. He's in the army and didn't want to live in Alaska alone. I pretty much left my life to live his and now he thinks it's okay...
    chanel0408 chanel0408 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Okay so I twisted my ankle last week

    so badly that I needed a cast for it and am told not to be on my ankle at all ugh My husband informed me yesterday I needed to clean the kitchen okay wtf Today has informed me I need to cook breakfast for us and our 5yo okay then goes and lays across the bed and when I ask for...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 5

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    I Never Thought It Would Be Me

    Greetings. I am at the stage where I  do not mind if my "husband" finds this mail. I have always considered myself warm, generous, moral, kind ,into world peace and all that but......... I am QUITE surprised about this particular emotion  I have called...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 186 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    I have been married two years,

    and I want a divorce. Not as much want as need. I hate my life with him. I'm scared for my son. I'm scared to leave because I can't afford to. How do I get out? My husband freaks or about small things. The other day he spanks my son for not eating his food. He is only...
    kelly65876 kelly65876 22-25, F 7 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Done with this ****. Leaving the *******.

    Biggest rest of my life getting married to him.
    nextstep345 nextstep345 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 2

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    I have only been with my husband

    for 4 years... 2 years married. Ever since we got married, he's become anti social. It has really became a huge stress in my life. We argue about this a lot and I'm starting to feel like the best thing would be to get a divorce. I'm really frustrated because I've done a lot for...
    onelove2755 onelove2755 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I love my husband but i hate him more!

    He is a huge pain in my a... He claims he works to pay the bills but when i tell him what needs to be paid he doesn't want to pay them!! I would probably get more financial help from him if i divorced him and sued him for child support.
    Unhappilymarried34 Unhappilymarried34 31-35, F 14 Responses Jun 27

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    I have been married for 18 years

    and I'm sick of seeing him everyday. He works from home so I am his fetcher. I think I should change my name to Fetch or Getthat. We have 4 fantastic children. whom I love more than I could ever love this man. When anything goes wrong its always my fault. He is volatile...
    sallyalex sallyalex 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 7

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    This is just the latest incident.

    ...I live in the same house with my husband and we have not spoken in 2 days. My daughters 5 and 8 had an informal activity Fri. night. Since he was coming from work he decided to meet us there. He hugs and kisses the girls and leans over to me and asks why I didn't fix my...
    SoSickofYou SoSickofYou 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 12

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    My husband of 14 years just told my kids

    that the only reason I went to college (where I met him) was to find a husband. I find that so disrespectful. I have always had bigger goals beyond him and for him to say that in front of my children really hurts. They laughed and then when I mentioned that I had another...
    clnelson clnelson 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    20 Years Later.....

    i met my husband in 1986.  We  married in 1994.  Everything was good until about 2 years ago.  I believe he is the root of my depression.  I really think he tries to upset me.  Right now I am not working and most  men can "step up" and...
    josie josie 36-40, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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    71/2 years together 3 years married

    and I have had enough of this selfish *****. Goes through many different therapists, always a new breakthrough recovery program, the latest is Landmark forum. The first day there he calls me and says he realizes how for years he's had a victim mentality and now he's been called...
    Tabicat2 Tabicat2 61-65, F Oct 4

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    I Hate My Husband

      When I got together with my husband I was sixteen and I had no idea that it would put me where i am right now. When I turned seventeen he had gotten me pregnant and i split up with him before i  found out. I saw him once after i had my son. Then not again until he was...
    midnightfantisy2005 midnightfantisy2005 19-21, F 18 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    Today is my first post.

    Been with my husband 26 years. I'm still in love with the man I married however that man is hard to find in the man I'm with today. I'm here so someone will hear my voice. There are people in my live that I could go to, but I am embarassed & I don't know who I can trust to...
    2lostnlonley 2lostnlonley 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 11

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    Enough Is Enough!!!

    I asked my pathetic excuse for a man "husband" and I use this word lightly because this idiot literally has no business being in a relationship with anyone in his entire life. I just cannot comprehend how any one person would insist on wanting to spend the rest of their life with...
    Smw1089 Smw1089 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    My husbands mother and sister are

    so mean to me that I told my husband to his face that I just simply do nt like them there actions tword me are horrible anyway it's so bad that if anyone brings up there name I get so angry and mad I just cant stand even being forced to think about someone that is so horrible...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Oct 14

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    Sexy Honest Conman

    I dicovered this website when i typed "I HATE MY HUSBAND" IN TO GOOGLE. I didnt think it would bring anything up, but surprise, it did. I just got of the train and sat i n the station still dumb founded from the days events. I decided to go to New York to surprise...
    shakerababy shakerababy 22-25, F 15 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    I would like to tell my story

    and see what you think of it. Been married for 7 years. My husband is an expat living in my country. My father gave us an apartment free to live in so my husband didn't pay rent, but he has a mortgage for house to pay overseas. After 7 years, I find out my husband has no savings...
    Gretasun Gretasun 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 17

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine

    about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell, educated, and RICH!! Maybe he is just a better man then you, LITTLE guy. And from what I saw at the pool party he is supremely better equipped...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 23

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    My husband just left me

    and my son said I should talk to people here about my lack of sex. I worry about my son sometimes any hi
    Lisamum46 Lisamum46 46-50, F 57 Responses May 28

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    Why did I marry him 6 months ago!

    I must have had my head up in the clouds. I even let him go to VEGAS for his bucks when I had a small hens at home and was pregnant. Yuck. I'm an idiot.
    nextstep345 nextstep345 26-30, F 7 Responses Sep 26

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    15 Years With A Passive-aggressive

    My soon-to-be ex husband is not a bad guy. He tries to do the right thing and so do I. I do not blame him entirely for the dissolution of our marriage as I am at fault as well. My experience with him has been rough. He always seemed to work well and function under "crises" mode...
    crystalclearvideo crystalclearvideo 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    I'm in the same boat

    as you ladies .. I thought I met this great guy but I was wrong .. I'm now 6 months pregnant and jobless as I was wrongfully terminated from my last job. I have been fighting it with unemployment but the law is so unfair sometimes .. I have two kids from two different prior...
    idelac13 idelac13 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    God He makes my blood boil sometimes!

    !! I really want to scream in his face!!!! But instead I Calmly walked away with a smile from his antagonistic mind games and his BS as I know that ****** him off more hahaha.!!!!! I have to keep reminding myself that by "taking the high road" is a win for me. although his...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 7

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    Today was my birthday.

    Worthless Loser Idiot Husband said not a single word all day. I quit caring long ago whether or not I got a present - you know, after the dollar store run that scored ONE measly item... But this was lower than even that.
    annasteve annasteve 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 23

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    I have big plans! I am finally ready to ask

    him to move out and file for divorce. I've spoken with an attorney. I'm even paying his moving expenses. I AM FILING FOR DIVORCE! I am so looking forward to NOT being his wife. I just KNOW I'll be so much happier not being married. I will ask him to move out tomorrow...
    areyoustillhere areyoustillhere 46-50 6 Responses Jan 10

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    Alls I have to say is

    if he doesnt wise up I sooooooo want a divorce what an *******
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    I Married A Loser!

    My husband was wonderful until he quit his job in 2004 trying to become an entreprenuer.  Since then its been up and down.  Lately its been down and I wish I never married him.  He walked out on his last job in January, stays at home for 22 hours a day, never...
    ihatetlb ihatetlb 31-35, F 85 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    He never even once initiated take me out on the

    weekend or dinner out. It has got to be me that asked and organizes all, and with my own cost as well. How sucks was that! Hate him!
    Spore93 Spore93 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    He has a mother that is mean to me mean to my

    family but if I say to him your mother is mean he gets mad as if I need to take it back she is mean since when did they change this behavior to nice omg
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Oct 16

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    I have to vent. My husband is the textbook

    definition of what they call a "crazy maker" to the outside world he is seen as a hard working, loving, head on his shoulders man. To me he is "all talk no action" but the kicker is whenever i get the nerve to confront him and try to tell him ALL the needs he neglects, he turns...
    Jennigans Jennigans 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 4

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    Another night of him bullying me

    and intimidating me, running me out then I go to leave and he says he will go- it's an attempt to keep me from arguing in the driveway the neighbors will hear & call the cops.. I made a mistake and had sex w him last night- I avoid it a lot well because he sickens me- but last...
    lostinnewengland lostinnewengland 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 15

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    Husband Refuses To Help

    God, I have been frustrated for so many years. We have been married for 7 years. I do everything around the house. He doesn't lift a finger. He leaves dirty dishes and his clothes on the floor and then complains that the house is messy. When I am sick he says that I am...
    dorotax1 dorotax1 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    Ugh my husband is being a f***ing a-hole!

    ! I hate long weekends i'd rather be at work!! 😡
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 12 Responses Apr 18

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    I am at he end of my ROPE with the BS with this

    man. I mind as well be blind if every-time I open my eyes I'm looking at another guy. That would be stupid of me knowing that he accuses me and that he's insecure. Last night we get home from work after his rant, I cook, he talks on the phone, I check my daughter's homework, he...
    Eastbaygirl Eastbaygirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 15

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    Married To Mr. Negativity

    We've been together 21 years. Married for 20 in December, 2012 (I was 19). We have 3 kids (they are fantabulous & I wouldn't trade them for anything) and if either of us could afford it, we would have divorced long ago. I wish he would cheat on me, beat me, gamble, anything that...
    hatdancer39 hatdancer39 41-45, F 13 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    He is the biggest pile of crap

    that ever was born. Today he came in screaming at the dog and the poor dog was cowered on the floor. I had my hands full trying to fix his fat *** dinner and he starts asking me where things are instead of actually looking for his lazy self. He starts yelling and would not...
    HeIsTrash HeIsTrash 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 15

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