I Hate My Husbands Ex Wife

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    Ugh! I have been married with an amazing man

    for a few years but can't kick the ex wife thing! How do you deal with a greedy manipulative, no boundaries, talks about herself and is ugly to boot ex wife! Every celebration we have, she hits us with court papers, nasty comments and works on every last nerve of myself and...
    steny steny
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2015

    Baby Mama Drama

    Okay, So i've been married to my husband for about a year now, but have been dating for three, almost four years. It hasn't been going so good because of his ex wife from before. She keeps saying ****, and then trys to get along with me to get information about my husband. She...
    MrsTakingChances MrsTakingChances
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

    She is at it again!! My youngest step son is

    supposed to be at our house for the summer...which is great. He wanted the entire summer with us...even better. No suddenly he is on a football team that has two weekend football camps that he doesn't even want to be on. She enrolled him to ruin our summer. We only get to see...
    CamoCountryGirl CamoCountryGirl
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 6, 2014

    It's been almost 12 yrs

    now when my husband & I met fell in-love after being good friends for at least 2 yrs. He was married to a woman that many described as a mean, nasty *****!! I "never" pursued him at all & he we tell you that himself. They were married for over 30 yrs having to get married at...
    danig1956 danig1956
    61-65, F
    2 Responses Jan 11, 2014

    Well the she devil has arose

    once again. This time her ordeal was over stinky clothes in her son's (my stepson) book bag. Somehow it was my fault that his clothes left in his book bag for who knows how long stunk. She told my husband (her ex) that I was a troll and needed to buy laundry detergent that...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 21, 2015

    Just wanting peoples take on the situation: My

    husband still has his name on a house with his ex wife. During the divorce it was made that he has no obligation to the house but it is still in his name, so on his credit, any claims made show up on his credit, if she stops paying it will hurt his credit. He has been "trying...
    CamoCountryGirl CamoCountryGirl
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2014

    Sometimes i pitty her cuz of all the bad things

    happening to her, sometimes i just hate her guts cuz she always act like the victim
    BlackAngel523 BlackAngel523
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2014

    Court date #500 on the 21st,

    ex wife will just not give up! False contempt charges filed for the umpteen time in an attempt to bankrupt my husband and make him pay for her cheating ways... She's the most bitter & vindictive woman I've ever came across in my life! She cheated, lied and now has the audacity...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 11, 2016

    I've been married now 9 months

    and my husbands ex has been nothing but hell. We have 4 kids between us. 2 from his previous marriage and 2 from mine. I get mine full time, he gets his every weekend. We live an hour and a half from his kids. He has gone every single time and picked them up and taken them home...
    chattyM chattyM
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2014


    Hello...I'm CatherineJoan and I hate my husband's ex-wife! Boy does that feel good to just let out :) For the past 5 years, my husband's ex-wife has done everything in her power to make my marriage miserable. Like most scorned women, TrAshley is still bitter about her split with...
    CatherineJoan CatherineJoan
    2 Responses Sep 8, 2011

    She is such a horrible human being.

    She goes out of her way to belittle and disrespect me in from of my step son, and husband. But then pretends to be the best person ever in front of others! My step son is not allowed to speak to me in her presence, and she's made statements saying I am not considered a parent...
    Jillskell Jillskell
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2014

    oops wrong add o well I can reed what other ex

    husbands has to say about their nightmare ex
    ritskixx ritskixx
    36-40, F
    Jun 19, 2015

    I Hate My Husband's Late Wife!

    I can't believe I'm posting this but I can't tell this to anyone that I know, they will never understand how I feel. my husband's wife passed away from cancer 2 years ago. We met 3 months after she died, I did not know this at the time. If I would've known i would have run away...
    almf916 almf916
    Jul 12, 2012

    Yeah Me Too...I Effing Hate Her Guts!

    It's a story that's been told before...They divorced, she won't let go and intends to be in his life "because she is *after all* the mother of his children!" Bleah! It makes me vomit a little bit in my mouth every time I hear that garbage. She didn't want him but she also didn't...
    juliannagoldenstein juliannagoldenstein
    4 Responses May 28, 2013

    Does anyone have an ex wife problem with a

    stalker, hypocritical, "religious", greedy, false police reporting female?
    badluckbabe badluckbabe
    26-30, F
    Nov 10, 2014

    This is a country song

    that always makes me feel better about my husbands ex I haven't been to church since I don't remember when Things were goin' great 'til they fell apart again So I listened to the preacher as he told me what to do He said you can't go hatin' others who have done wrong to you...
    CamoCountryGirl CamoCountryGirl
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 18, 2014


    Gah that felt good to get out! As you can tell I have no one to vent to about this she devil. Can't talk to my husband cause we end up arguing and have no close friends that can relate so I ended up on here. My she devil battle has been ongoing since 2006 and has NOT STOPPED...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 7, 2015

    Ok I just want to say

    that hate is a strong word. But this girl (I won't call her a woman because women don't treat people so poorly) brings so much negativity to our lives that it's almost comical. Luckily my husband is wonderful, and although he used to be scared of her threats and manipulation he...
    Boylston Boylston
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2014

    Pure Evil Lives On Earth...And Shes My Husbands Ex Wife.

    Before I married my husband I had heard about his ex wife of course. She's mean...she's nasty...she cheated. Alright...she's horrible but there are two sides to every story and just because I married him didn't mean I would believe him 100%. We all say things when we are hurt. I...
    FrenchApple FrenchApple
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2013

    I think she just likes to try to ruin our

    weekends. She text my husband to say that he is buying their oldest son a car and asked if he wanted to put in for it. Her dad already gave the kid a car and he doesnt want to put in the time or effort to fix it so it is for sale. My husband has always told the boys that he isnt...
    CamoCountryGirl CamoCountryGirl
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2014

    Psychotic Narcissistic Sociopath

    I met my husband in April of 2010. He warned me the first time we talked that his ex wife was crazy. Crazy wasn't even close to what this woman is! She has made our lives, her children's lives and even my ex husband's life a living nightmare. I will try to make this as short as...
    ExCuseYou ExCuseYou
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Jan 23, 2012

    i think standing up to someone

    who is literally crazy, only makes them more desperate. they need to further their maligning adgenda by getting you to believe you are crazy/wrong/stupid so they can still get everything they want, so when you cut them off and refuse to listen to the "im so innocent, you are...
    LeighChristine LeighChristine
    31-35, F
    May 17, 2015

    What Will They (ex-wives) Do With Themselves After 18 Years?

    Sometimes I wonder if all these bitter ex-wives/baby-mama ever put any thought into what to do with their lives after 18 years have passed, & our husbands are no longer obligated to pay financial support to their kids or communicate with them. I mean really, you can only make a...
    CatherineJoan CatherineJoan
    8 Responses Sep 10, 2011

    Dear Ex-wife, Please move on.

    Divorce means it's over for you. Thank you - The Upgrade
    texan75 texan75
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2014

    The Welfare Princess

    Well lets see, where to start....My husband begins dating this girl named Nicole when they were both young. (her still in high school). She ends up pregnant after a month of dating. RIght before the baby was born, he married her, 8 months pregnant and all. The whole time they're...
    Flutterbies Flutterbies
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jun 5, 2010

    I hate her because my husband treats her with

    respect but treats me like ****!! When we have arguments he wouldn't think twice about shouting at me in front of my stepchildren who will probably tell her everything that goes on in our relationship. When she asks to send the kids over he will do so. When we have to meet up...
    bluepanda3333 bluepanda3333
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2016

    I married my husband

    after dating for 5 years. We've been married just over a year. In a nutshell - he has been divorced for 9 years and continues to support his ex-wife financially and emotionally. He was married for 18 yrs and has 3 daughters (now 24,21,15). She cheated on him throughout their...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 26, 2014

    I've been married now 11years.

    So much drama I just can't write it all. My husband's ex wife did not pay her portion of child care or insurance premiums for several years and the judge finally convicted her of criminal contempt. She was given a 30 day suspended jail sentence and ordered to sign over every...
    nolookingback nolookingback
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2015

    Should Say Ex Wives

    My husband has 3. One he had 2 kids with and that is the one i have problems with. Really when any contact him I have a problem but when she does it makes life hell on both of us. She turns the boys against us, I'm not even able to talk to the kids unless they are with us. She...
    CamoCountryGirl CamoCountryGirl
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2013
    heytheredelilacs heytheredelilacs
    31-35, F
    3 Responses May 9, 2014

    I Loath My Husband's Ex Wife

    My first name is Michelle. I have been married to my husband Tim for 15 years, together for 18 years. This family had moved in behind our house and I was asked to babysit for them on occasion. Well I got asked to babysit a lot and loved it, they had three, later four sons and I...
    mrsfritch79 mrsfritch79
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 24, 2013

    The B**Ch Is Crazy!!

    I am in serious need of help. My husband's ex is destroying my marriage. To start from the beginning they separated in dec. 08 and she was dating a guy as so as they split. Feb. 09 we started dating and from then on she started emailing me nasty things. She then remarried in May...
    christina783 christina783
    36-40, F
    3 Responses May 14, 2013

    My Husband Is Not Her Counselor!

    I don't like my husband's ex-wife because: She waited 9 months to meet me after we got married even though she had a 6 year old(at the time) living under my roof half the time, so I have no respect for her as a mother. Instead of meeting me in a normal, mature way, she found out...
    Krackerjack Krackerjack
    1 Response Mar 3, 2013

    Very long story short.

    ..my DH (darling husband) and his Ex have been D for 5 years. 2 kids (10 & 7). She remarried 2 months after the D. Has 2 yr old with new Hubby. Right before my DH and I began dating she wanted to leave her hubby and reconcile with DH. He felt bad and said ok, then changed...
    QuiltyByMarriage QuiltyByMarriage
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2014

    She had her kid, she was abusing her we had to

    take her, i dont know if it is that she just wants to deny it all or that she really doesnt realize what she has done, so now its been 8 months since we have her, we are the ones taking care of her, educating her and trying to discipline her IT IS NOT EASY because what she...
    BlackAngel523 BlackAngel523
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 21, 2014

    What Part Of "don't Call,text & Email Anymore" Does This B* Not Understand?

    So a few months ago after confronting my husband's ex-wife about her intrusive behavior into my marriage (which she denied & went adolescent ballistic on me) my husband told her never to call, text, or email him anymore. He specifically stated that if she had anything that needed...
    CatherineJoan CatherineJoan
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2011

    Get Over It Already

    My husbands ex-wife seems to have forgotten that they were divorced 22 years ago. She moved in and out of the house for the first 17 years after the divorce, she comes over and prances around like they are still married, and he doesn't seem bothered by this. If I critisize or...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2011

    Looks my world is about to change majorly.

    Just got news late last night that my step-sons mom has cancer. She apparently has had it before but it is now in her lungs and brain. Idk how bad it really is or how far along but so far it doesnt sound too good. I dont take much she says to value but she says she is dying...
    CamoCountryGirl CamoCountryGirl
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 4, 2014

    I Really Hate This Woman.

    My husband's ex wife can not stand the fact that she no longer has control over my husband. She still tries whenever she gets the chance. She wants to have daily contact with him. Fifteen text, several emails and phone calls each day. After he told her that this is harassment...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 2, 2011

    My husband and his ex-wife were only married a

    short time. Just long enough for them to have a child together. When I met my husband I had been briefly married before but had been single for several years with no children. We began dating and I was introduced to his child whom he was raising who was just over a year old at...
    Marlette76 Marlette76
    41-45, F
    Dec 12, 2015

    I am tired of being treated like **** by

    someone I barely know. Sometimes I feel like this can ruin my marriage. I wish my husband could stand up to her ****.
    eccentricpython eccentricpython
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 15, 2015

    If They Can't Hurt His Heart, They Take Aim To His Pocket.

    What is up with these ex-wives and their relentless efforts to rape our husband's pocket? My husband's ex-wife is remarried with 2 other children in addition to the daughter they have together. She constantly insists that she "deserves" more but refuses to give accountability to...
    CatherineJoan CatherineJoan
    1 Response Sep 9, 2011

    Can't You Just Let Us Be Happy?

    Ok so me and my husband just got married about one month ago although we have been living together for over 1 year and a half. We have a new born baby boy, born September 25 2012. My husband was married for 7 years and just got divorced this year. He has a 4 year old daughter...
    agonz17 agonz17
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 17, 2012
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