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I Hate My Husbands Ex Wife

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    Psychotic Narcissistic Sociopath

    I met my husband in April of 2010. He warned me the first time we talked that his ex wife was crazy. Crazy wasn't even close to what this woman is! She has made our lives, her children's lives and even my ex husband's life a living nightmare. I will try to make this as short as...
    ExCuseYou ExCuseYou 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    It's been almost 12 yrs

    now when my husband & I met fell in-love after being good friends for at least 2 yrs. He was married to a woman that many described as a mean, nasty *****!! I "never" pursued him at all & he we tell you that himself. They were married for over 30 yrs having to get married at...
    danig1956 danig1956 56-60, F 4 Responses Jan 11

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    Just wanting peoples take on the situation: My

    husband still has his name on a house with his ex wife. During the divorce it was made that he has no obligation to the house but it is still in his name, so on his credit, any claims made show up on his credit, if she stops paying it will hurt his credit. He has been "trying...
    SgtArmyWife SgtArmyWife 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    What Will They (ex-wives) Do With Themselves After 18 Years?

    Sometimes I wonder if all these bitter ex-wives/baby-mama ever put any thought into what to do with their lives after 18 years have passed, & our husbands are no longer obligated to pay financial support to their kids or communicate with them. I mean really, you can only make a...
    CatherineJoan CatherineJoan 31-35 8 Responses Sep 10, 2011

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    Looks my world is about to change majorly.

    Just got news late last night that my step-sons mom has cancer. She apparently has had it before but it is now in her lungs and brain. Idk how bad it really is or how far along but so far it doesnt sound too good. I dont take much she says to value but she says she is dying...
    SgtArmyWife SgtArmyWife 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    She is at it again!! My youngest step son is

    supposed to be at our house for the summer...which is great. He wanted the entire summer with us...even better. No suddenly he is on a football team that has two weekend football camps that he doesn't even want to be on. She enrolled him to ruin our summer. We only get to see...
    SgtArmyWife SgtArmyWife 22-25, F 2 Responses May 6

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    She is such a horrible human being.

    She goes out of her way to belittle and disrespect me in from of my step son, and husband. But then pretends to be the best person ever in front of others! My step son is not allowed to speak to me in her presence, and she's made statements saying I am not considered a parent...
    Jillskell Jillskell 31-35 3 Responses Mar 10

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    Is It Me?

    So I've been looking through the Internet and I noticed that there are so many "I hate my husband's ex-wife" topics, forums, & groups out there but not so much: "I hate my ex-husband's new wife" groups. Does that mean we (2nd wives) are just more expressive & realistic about our...
    CatherineJoan CatherineJoan 31-35 3 Responses Sep 13, 2011

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    She had her kid, she was abusing her we had to

    take her, i dont know if it is that she just wants to deny it all or that she really doesnt realize what she has done, so now its been 8 months since we have her, we are the ones taking care of her, educating her and trying to discipline her IT IS NOT EASY because what she...
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I Hate My Husband's Late Wife!

    I can't believe I'm posting this but I can't tell this to anyone that I know, they will never understand how I feel. my husband's wife passed away from cancer 2 years ago. We met 3 months after she died, I did not know this at the time. If I would've known i would have run away...
    almf916 almf916 41-45 4 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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    I Hate The Fact That They Are Still Friends

    I hate the fact that hes friends with his ex! They have a daughter together and talk to eachother because of her but sometimes they talk about other things like what they plan on doing, their plans for the future, stuff they did back when they were dating, blah! Makes me mad too...
    flanchic flanchic 41-45 5 Responses Apr 25, 2012

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    I Loath My Husband's Ex Wife

    My first name is Michelle. I have been married to my husband Tim for 15 years, together for 18 years. This family had moved in behind our house and I was asked to babysit for them on occasion. Well I got asked to babysit a lot and loved it, they had three, later four sons and I...
    mrsfritch79 mrsfritch79 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2013

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    Baby Mama Drama

    Okay, So i've been married to my husband for about a year now, but have been dating for three, almost four years. It hasn't been going so good because of his ex wife from before. She keeps saying ****, and then trys to get along with me to get information about my husband. She...
    MrsTakingChances MrsTakingChances 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    I've been married now 9 months

    and my husbands ex has been nothing but hell. We have 4 kids between us. 2 from his previous marriage and 2 from mine. I get mine full time, he gets his every weekend. We live an hour and a half from his kids. He has gone every single time and picked them up and taken them home...
    chattyM chattyM 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    Get Over It Already

    My husbands ex-wife seems to have forgotten that they were divorced 22 years ago. She moved in and out of the house for the first 17 years after the divorce, she comes over and prances around like they are still married, and he doesn't seem bothered by this. If I critisize or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    Pure Evil Lives On Earth...And Shes My Husbands Ex Wife.

    Before I married my husband I had heard about his ex wife of course. She's mean...she's nasty...she cheated. Alright...she's horrible but there are two sides to every story and just because I married him didn't mean I would believe him 100%. We all say things when we are hurt. I...
    FrenchApple FrenchApple 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    I Really Hate This Woman.

    My husband's ex wife can not stand the fact that she no longer has control over my husband. She still tries whenever she gets the chance. She wants to have daily contact with him. Fifteen text, several emails and phone calls each day. After he told her that this is harassment...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    Anyone Had Their Ex-wife Write A Letter About How Horrible It Was To Divorce Her And Send It To Both Sides Of The Families??

    Hello, I was wondering if this was normal or just a way for my bf's ex-wife to play the victim. Last Christmas her family and her sent out a letter to her family including Aunts and Uncles and all of my boyfriends family including his parents and siblings, about how horrible it...
    codanote codanote 31-35 3 Responses Dec 5, 2012

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    Ok I just want to say

    that hate is a strong word. But this girl (I won't call her a woman because women don't treat people so poorly) brings so much negativity to our lives that it's almost comical. Luckily my husband is wonderful, and although he used to be scared of her threats and manipulation he...
    Boylston Boylston 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    Yes I Do!

    Hello, Ok I do not know if I can put all of this here so I will put what I can remember off the top of my head. I met my husband in 2009. I met him though a mutual friend. I would always hang out with friend #1 at his apartment. One day when I went over there this guy was...
    iyamai2005 iyamai2005 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2013

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    The B**Ch Is Crazy!!

    I am in serious need of help. My husband's ex is destroying my marriage. To start from the beginning they separated in dec. 08 and she was dating a guy as so as they split. Feb. 09 we started dating and from then on she started emailing me nasty things. She then remarried in May...
    christina783 christina783 31-35, F 3 Responses May 14, 2013

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    Trashley

    Hello...I'm CatherineJoan and I hate my husband's ex-wife! Boy does that feel good to just let out :) For the past 5 years, my husband's ex-wife has done everything in her power to make my marriage miserable. Like most scorned women, TrAshley is still bitter about her split with...
    CatherineJoan CatherineJoan 31-35 2 Responses Sep 8, 2011

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    Gonna Let It Out

    I hate my husbands ex-wife! My husband and i have been friends for years and just got married and had a child last yr. i went to school with his exwife but i never dreamed how horrible she could be. She has done so many things right from the start to pick at me that if i was not...
    1 Response Feb 11, 2013

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    If They Can't Hurt His Heart, They Take Aim To His Pocket.

    What is up with these ex-wives and their relentless efforts to rape our husband's pocket? My husband's ex-wife is remarried with 2 other children in addition to the daughter they have together. She constantly insists that she "deserves" more but refuses to give accountability to...
    CatherineJoan CatherineJoan 31-35 1 Response Sep 9, 2011

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    My Husband Is Not Her Counselor!

    I don't like my husband's ex-wife because: She waited 9 months to meet me after we got married even though she had a 6 year old(at the time) living under my roof half the time, so I have no respect for her as a mother. Instead of meeting me in a normal, mature way, she found out...
    Krackerjack Krackerjack 41-45 1 Response Mar 3, 2013

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    Where To Start...

    My husband and I have been married for 10 yrs. His ex has constantly harrassed us the entire time mainly by bogus legal proceedings. Now that the children are almost grown, she is really turning up the heat! She is a lunatic. It would take me months to tell everything this woman...
    Rehg Rehg 36-40, F Jun 14, 2012

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    What Part Of "don't Call,text & Email Anymore" Does This B* Not Understand?

    So a few months ago after confronting my husband's ex-wife about her intrusive behavior into my marriage (which she denied & went adolescent ballistic on me) my husband told her never to call, text, or email him anymore. He specifically stated that if she had anything that needed...
    CatherineJoan CatherineJoan 31-35 4 Responses Nov 15, 2011

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    Yeah Me Too...I Effing Hate Her Guts!

    It's a story that's been told before...They divorced, she won't let go and intends to be in his life "because she is *after all* the mother of his children!" Bleah! It makes me vomit a little bit in my mouth every time I hear that garbage. She didn't want him but she also didn't...
    juliannagoldenstein juliannagoldenstein 36-40 3 Responses May 28, 2013

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    The Welfare Princess

    Well lets see, where to start....My husband begins dating this girl named Nicole when they were both young. (her still in high school). She ends up pregnant after a month of dating. RIght before the baby was born, he married her, 8 months pregnant and all. The whole time they're...
    Flutterbies Flutterbies 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 5, 2010

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    I think she just likes to try to ruin our

    weekends. She text my husband to say that he is buying their oldest son a car and asked if he wanted to put in for it. Her dad already gave the kid a car and he doesnt want to put in the time or effort to fix it so it is for sale. My husband has always told the boys that he isnt...
    SgtArmyWife SgtArmyWife 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    Should Say Ex Wives

    My husband has 3. One he had 2 kids with and that is the one i have problems with. Really when any contact him I have a problem but when she does it makes life hell on both of us. She turns the boys against us, I'm not even able to talk to the kids unless they are with us. She...
    SgtArmyWife SgtArmyWife 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    heytheredelilacs heytheredelilacs 26-30, F 3 Responses May 9

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    Can't You Just Let Us Be Happy?

    Ok so me and my husband just got married about one month ago although we have been living together for over 1 year and a half. We have a new born baby boy, born September 25 2012. My husband was married for 7 years and just got divorced this year. He has a 4 year old daughter...
    agonz17 agonz17 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    This is a country song

    that always makes me feel better about my husbands ex I haven't been to church since I don't remember when Things were goin' great 'til they fell apart again So I listened to the preacher as he told me what to do He said you can't go hatin' others who have done wrong to you...
    SgtArmyWife SgtArmyWife 22-25, F 1 Response May 18

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    Sometimes i pitty her cuz of all the bad things

    happening to her, sometimes i just hate her guts cuz she always act like the victim
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    frustrated3678 frustrated3678 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I am married. I hate my wife, I don't find her sexually attractive because her attitude sucks. Remember pretty is as pretty does. I'm a staunch constitutionalist, she's now a...
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    I have fond memories of previous years with my wife, but in the last few months she doesn't want to help me with the simplest thing and we don't go have fun together either. We...
    wakeupdead wakeupdead 26-30, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Come on ladies, you are no bundle of fun either. We men like to explore, have fun, travel, and be with our buddies much more than being with you. Why is that? Most every man I...
    mbb50 mbb50 61-65, M 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I have suspected my wife of having an emotional affair around 5 months. In that time she reassured me countless times that he is not her type, he is not as sexy as me and there...
    tuxiflet tuxiflet 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 28

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    The necklace My wife my 6 yr. old son and I went on vacation to Miami as we are leaving the beach one day we see a street vendor selling necklaces of sharks tooth. My six year old...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I am a divorce attorney who has represented women and men in countless cases. based on my observations, there are certain truths about marriage and divorce. 1. Marriage is a...
    divorceatty divorceatty 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 1

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    ShyMysticc ShyMysticc 26-30, F Aug 2

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    I hate having asian parents. Why? Because they push you so hard in school and wanted a Full marks as always. They wanted me to be a doctor but I wanted to be a vet. I hate it when...
    Mitzeeeeey Mitzeeeeey 13-15, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I hate my husbands dog. He's a 80+lb lab. The dog is actually very sweet but my husband take terrible care of him. He was never neutered or leash trained. As a result our backyard...
    sincitymom sincitymom 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    As Everyone Else On Here, I do hate my body. The hate is pretty consistent from day to day. Things I hate include: My mousy brown hair, my weight, my wide feet, and my round face...
    Emilys93 Emilys93 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I hate it, and i know this sounds crazy, but i hate missing school and staying in bed, almost more than i hate the actual symptoms. Dad told me this morning i wasn't allowed to go...
    bridgetdarcy998 bridgetdarcy998 18-21 2 hrs ago

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    In 2008 my Mother in law lost h husband . I tried helping her through his illness and after his death and things were ok.I had never had bad feelings toward her in the past,as a...
    helpless69 helpless69 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I absolutely Hate my sister in-law.I've been married to her brother for over 30 years and from day one her and the "family" has done everything they could to try to make my life a...
    nanaof6 nanaof6 51-55, F Jul 28

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    Internet is full of stories of people falling in love with someone else while married to their husband or wife's. Most of the stories proclaim that their husbands or wives were...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 31

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