I Hate My Husband's Ex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 58 People

    It's been more than 13 years

    since we married and his ex still has a way of being hateful. She uses their child against us and has the child believing all her lies. My stepdaughter calls me her step monster and I've never done a thing to her but love her as I would my own. She has a younger brother and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 11, 2015

    She's An Evil, Little Troll And I Hate Her

    From day one she's been not only a nuisance, but she's tried to drive my husband and I apart. She's interjected herself into our life, our home and our marriage countless times. My husband has been a pathetic little worm about it, letting her do whatever she wants and not...
    juliannagoldenstein juliannagoldenstein
    36-40
    4 Responses Jul 10, 2012

    This Will Take Awhile

    My husband and I were highschool sweeties.   AWWW  no.   We broke up and went our seperate ways.  I heard a little here and there.  He knocked up this ***** he used to work with.  She was married, and his friends say she would give head to...
    pbandjalways pbandjalways
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2009

    We Call Her "mega B***h"

    When I met my husband he had twin boys but I was so in love i didnt care. When I heard her name the torment I suffered in middle school came flooding back to me. It wasnt too bad at first. We kept out distance until I made the decision to grab a beer. After that, we would be...
    cocoabean85 cocoabean85
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 2, 2012

    This Is My Life

    my husband and I have been together about 5 years now, our family has gone thru so much, for instance; my hubby's ex formed an intimate relationship with a local police officer, she furthered this by using the cop to attempt to set up my husband, by using my stepdaughter to say...
    toehater toehater
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 23, 2011

    My Husband's Ex...

    ****** me off to the extreme! I don't understand how somebody can cheat on their husband into their own home with his best friend aaaaaand still want the ex husband to be misreable. Well, that's my case. This crazy woman who is 10 years my senior does whatever she can to get...
    mommy27 mommy27
    26-30, F
    Sep 20, 2012

    Actually, she isn't worth hating.

    She is simply one if the most horrible people I have ever encountered. She uses others for personal gain, lies about very important matters, has a history if pursuing married men with young children and has caused great grief in many people's lives. To top it off, she yells to...
    Morgana0596 Morgana0596
    46-50, F
    Jun 8, 2014

    Where do I even start?

    Since the day my husband and I got together, she has been non stop at trying to get him back. she used to send him texts saying she was in the shower and thought of him or asking if he missed her. It continued after we were married too! My husband never gave her an inch. They...
    WeRWhoWeR07 WeRWhoWeR07
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 20, 2014

    Dealing With The Ex

    My husband and I have been married for 6 years and together for 8 years. Right before we met he was in another relationship that only lasted a few months. Once him and I started dating his ex came back in the picture saying she was pregnant. After she told him the first time we...
    EndofRope2 EndofRope2
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2013

    My husband is sweet, kind

    and hates confrontation. Why does he prefer to argue with me rather than his ex? She pays no support, but he refuses to push her to contribute to her daughter's (16yrs old) upbringing at all. Most recently, she had her spend her birthday $$$ on jeans to keep at her mother's...
    VikingGirl74 VikingGirl74
    41-45, F
    Jan 1

    so my husband's ex girlfriend just facebooked

    my husband and said I wish you and your wife could come and visit. my husband has to work overnight and he told her that. and she was like I need company. this ex has threatened his life when they were dating. I don't think he remembered telling me this. and he tells me...
    AngelicInnocence92 AngelicInnocence92
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 8, 2015

    Reading all of these stories has me feeling a

    lot better about my situation. My parents are divorced plus my dad was married before my mom so I have grown up seeing the ex wife and current wife fight and all that BS but never did I think I would be in a similar situation. I met my boyfriend 2 1/2 years ago and I knew he...
    givemeadrink410 givemeadrink410
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 1, 2014

    What to do when his ex does not enforce

    visitation with his 15 year old step daughter? She begs us to take her to court so her daughter can tell a judge she never wants to see us again. We've done nothing wrong except make her follow normal rules for a teenager while at our home.
    tammyjden tammyjden
    46-50, M
    Jan 13, 2015

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