I Hate My Husbands Ex

For any woman out there who has to deal with the meddling of another woman in her relationship feel free to rant here!!! 329 People

    My situation is so very similar to a lot of

    yours, but also quite unique. The anger, resentment, hostility and bitterness is a commonality, and for some of our stories you might be familiar with a depth of history and backstory I share with my husband and his ex. Let me begin my explaining the depths of insanity this...
    josapiercer josapiercer
    26-30, F
    Feb 6, 2014

    Should I Have Said Something

    It's not even really her this time, it's my husband. My stepson had a field trip today and my husband went, when they returned I asked my husband how did he go and he started explaining about how the other children were unruly and so I asked him if he was the only adult in his...
    tjones44 tjones44
    31-35, F
    May 9, 2012

    just after we finished dinner last night,

    she walked in unannounced , an hr early for child pick up. then proceeded to run and bath child in house, I was stuck on the lounge while she made herself at home
    spearso5 spearso5
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 24, 2015

    I Want To Hurt Her

    Uh where do I begin... Well I guess a quick recap of the past 5 years, actually more like 13, o wow. So I have been with my fiance for 5 years now. He has a 6 year old from a previous marriage. Let me just throw out there that I'm not the reason they broke up. Although his ex...
    jushadenough jushadenough
    4 Responses Aug 12, 2010

    I am tired of my husband’s ex.

    She’s got a pretty good thing going. She sits on her behind all day long collecting child support, getting her hair done, her nails done, her steaks at the best deli in town . . . She sits in a $500,000 house and has my husband, her previous ex-husband and her previous...
    tiredofthescam tiredofthescam
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2014

    i cant forget that my husband had a long time gf

    and they almost married. no matter how much i try to forget she s always around our life.she s married a guy from our same community and now we bump into her every now and then.sometimes i quarrel with my husband when we bump into his ex.i hate her so much,what do i do
    angelangel198727 angelangel198727
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2014

    I have been with my husband

    for 4 years (only recently married 6 months ago) and have been a step mom for all 4 of those years. We are having a difficult time since the birth of our 3rd child and to be honest for the 9 months before that. My husband exwife pushed her children (6 and 7 years old at the time...
    NotTheEvilOneCinderella NotTheEvilOneCinderella
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2014

    Where to Begin.....

    This group was made for me.  No doubt there. The problem is---where to even begin.  This woman is the mother of my husband's two older children, and she is mentally unstable, and they are now as well.  Lies, deceit, manipulation, sob stories, damsel in distress...
    MerryGoRound MerryGoRound
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jan 20, 2008

    Jealous And Hate Her!

    I saw my husband's ex-girlfriend's photos a couple of years ago. She was very sweet and beautiful. I was quite jealous then but was very confident of myself as well, so I sort of forgot about it. I never ask my husband anything about his past relationship as I don't tell him...
    Redeyed Redeyed
    3 Responses Apr 11, 2012

    The Ex From Hell

    My husband and I have been married almost a year and only knew each other for 2 months before we married and from the moment we married we have had to deal with his ex. They were together for 12 years and she had 3 children that he raised from the time he was 16 that turned...
    lfw2009 lfw2009
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2009

    I Hate Being Jealous And Untrusting.

    This weekend my husband and I have to deal with his Ex. She is the mother of his kids so she will never go away. She constantly throws herself at him. We go pick up the kids Saturday and I'm already having panic attacks and bad Anxiety. It's terrible because I remain appropriate...
    JustAnotherMemory2 JustAnotherMemory2
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Oct 24, 2013

    Surviving Jennifer

    My husband ran off with his secretary - whom he had been having an affair with for two years behind my back - almost 16 yrs ago now. It IRKED me that everyone thought their union was so romantic and they were "socialites" while I was left pregnant with three kids under 5.....and...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2012

    I hate my boyfriends ex wife.

    I've never done anything to her, I don't bad mouth her in front of her daughter, and I don't intrude on their time. It wouldn't be so bad if she would just be a ***** to me, but she uses her daughter to do it. She knows that my boyfriend would choose his daughter over me and...
    notallthatstuff notallthatstuff
    18-21, F
    Dec 11, 2015

    She'S Running Up Their Kid'S Medical Bills On Purpose

    Knowing full well that her ex husband has to pay for their child's medical bills, she likes to take her kid to the ER/hospital for every little cough and sneeze. He once threw up, which is normal for a 5 year old. Off to the emergency room he goes! The most recent ones were a...
    sharper43 sharper43
    1 Response May 9, 2013

    There are so many things I could write about

    this woman, but I will stick to my current issue with her. Let me lay out the story first. They have a child together and he pays child support every 2 weeks. We also pay half of (sometimes more than half) the child's private school tuition, books, fees, and lunches. Also if the...
    JessicaJones0613 JessicaJones0613
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 21, 2016

    Just bc you gave birth to them doesn't make you

    the better mom for them. You are a selfish, and cold mom and you don't deserve them, that's why I'm the mom they spent Sunday with. Karma has you right where you put yourself - first and alone.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 12, 2015

    That Woman.........

    well I knew my husband had children when I met him. We moved from Hawaii back to the states where his ex was as well as his children. I have 2 children form my ex as well. Anyways This woman is a head case. She has 2 children yet lets us raise them then tries to get childsupport...
    rachelfowler rachelfowler
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 2, 2008

    I Love My Step Child But Can't Stand Her Mother.

    I am a wife that feels so stress My husband and I have been together for 14 years  we split for a year because we was going through some things  during our year split he and I saw other people but so happen he got this girl pregnant I was so pissed how could he get someone...
    vancrum vancrum
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2012

    The Most Psycho Of All!!

    My husband's ex wife is the most psycho I've ever met. She accused me of assaulting her while i was 5months pregnant when in fact she's the one who displayed a scandalous behavior in front of our house. She even told my step kids I attacked her. I cannot believe she can come up...
    MissVansy MissVansy
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2013

    My Husband'S Ex Has Stalked Me For 5 Years

    I started dating my husband in 2008, he had been with his ex for 7 years before we met. When we first started dating his ex would text him all the time and at least when i was there he wouldn't write back to her, after about 3-4 months of her BEGGING to talk to me and me saying I...
    PurpleBarbie420 PurpleBarbie420
    3 Responses Apr 8, 2013

    My Husbands Ex

    This women has done awful things. She is engaged to someone else but that is still not enough to make her go away. my Husband has 3 to her and 2 with me and I had 2 before so 7 in total. We are meant to forget about everyone else in the house when her kids are with us do what she...
    jjkktt01 jjkktt01
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2013

    How to Enjoy Life With His Ex Around

    I have been in a commited relationship for about 5 years. My boyfriend has 2 children with his ex and a child with me as well. My issue is when we go to the activities for thier children together. We have a beautiful life together. We have a beautiful home, wonderful jobs, and...
    wantlifewithoutex wantlifewithoutex
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 26, 2009

    My husband dated a girl in college

    for a couple years until he was over her. However he stayed with her because he said it was convenient and they got along. They finally ended up breaking up after 7 or 8 years of being together. I started dating him 5 years ago and back then, she called him all the time, even...
    ilovemycat3 ilovemycat3
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 10, 2015

    Husband's Ex-Wife Hates Being A Mother Or Having Responsibilities!

    This going to take a bit of background to explain... My husband married a young woman a some years ago, lets call her Crazy-pants. He got Crazy-pants pregnant when they were kids and like a responsible man he married the girl. Here's where the problems start: Her first decision...
    hortonj4 hortonj4
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2013

    Read If You Dare!

    Hello, Ok I do not know if I can put all of this here so I will put what I can remember off the top of my head. I met my husband in 2009. I met him though a mutual friend. I would always hang out with friend #1 at his apartment. One day when I went over there this guy was...
    iyamai2005 iyamai2005
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 7, 2013

    They wont stop talking

    and they are basically together again and i belong to an indian family so i cannot divorce because i will get a bad reputation and my parents cant help me in this because my step mum forced my biological dad to disown me... Husband is abusive and bashes me constantly...
    kaur101 kaur101
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 11, 2014

    I could fill a book with all the crap the

    biomom to my stepdaughter has done. But recently, it's been driving me nuts. My stepdaughter is 5, and in theory we have 50/50 custody. However, this March we had her 80% because biomom asked us to take her extra days. I adore my SD and its been an amazing month. We live near...
    evilstepmom12 evilstepmom12
    22-25, F
    Mar 30, 2016

    I Have Really Good Advice To Share When Dealing With Husband'S Ex.

    I don't hate my husband's ex. I feel sorry for her. She's her own worst enemy. Unfortunately for her she's going to eventually hang herself with her own rope. I read many women's stories of similar circumstances and they are all so angry and frustrated and rightfully so. Much of...
    towmater74 towmater74
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jun 23, 2013

    Sad, Pathetic Excuse For A Woman

    My partner and I have been together for 2 years. Since the day I walked into the picture, his ex has been a train wreck from hell. He has a 9 year old son with her whom I love like he is my own. I provide for his son as if he is my own, I treat my stepson with complete love and...
    HaloNhORNS HaloNhORNS
    26-30, F
    Jan 6, 2013

    Very Manipulating

    My husband and I have been married for 6 years and dealing with his ex I'm sure will always be an up hill battle. I've fought with her, gone to court, dealt with police at my home ( she loves to call them when things don't go her way) and I've also gone out of my way to be nice...
    gracey77us gracey77us
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2013

    She Just Wants To Cause Trouble

    My husband & I have been together 9 mos. Him & his ex wife have been divorced for 3 yrs. He got his kids every weekend until we got married 3 mos ago. Since we got married she has denied him the right to see his kids, he took her to court & gets them every other weekend now...
    mbaisden79 mbaisden79
    4 Responses Sep 3, 2010

    She is nothing but a groupie.

    She is a washed up old hag. I bet she idolized 'ex-wives of rock and roll' she probably thinks she's one of them. She needs to stop calling ,y husband, he hates her.
    bitchinlaw bitchinlaw
    51-55, F
    1 Response Sep 23, 2014

    I am in a relationship with a man

    who is divorced and has four children. The children live put of state And only come three times a year. I am divorced and have four kids of my own. My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship most of the time. Now, when it comes to his ex wife we fight all the time! I love...
    Rosebud7254 Rosebud7254
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2014

    I hate my husbands. Ex.

    They were never married Nd no kids. We have been married 9 yrs and almost every 3 months she calls or emails with crap about she needs closure. We have gotten court orders for her to stop then she make fake profiles and harasses us that way. Frustrated
    ldyfubar ldyfubar
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2014

    She Loves to Be the Center of Attention....

    My husbands ex is one of the fakest people that I know.  She says she is christian, she goes to church only when it suits her, I know this because I went to the same church, lets just say I don't anymore.  She recently got a myspace page and puts christian music and...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Feb 8, 2008

    I Hate My Future Husbands Ex

    I've been with my fiancé for over a year now. He has been divorced for 3 years. Together they have a 6 year old son. He is a great kid and he does adore me. His mom has been asking him question about me all the time until she just met me for the first time 2 weeks ago. I...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

    So my boyfriends ex wife has just filed a

    restraining order against me because she's mad she got served contempt of court papers that were in my handwriting...Do you think she has any grounds? I have never verbally or physically assaulted her or anyone she knows and I have several witnesses who can testify about how I...
    notallthatstuff notallthatstuff
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    Will It Ever End?

    My fiancée and I have been together for about 3 years now and recently just got engaged in the last 2 weeks. He was married previously for about 3 years to quite possibly the worlds most irrational and selfish woman. They have one child together who is 6 years old, she also has...
    emc33 emc33
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jun 30, 2012

    The Ex From Hell

    The ex from hell has been a part of my life for about 8 years now and I'm getting to the stage where I regret marrying my husband!he has a 10 yr old daughter with her. She is needy,pathetic and manipulative.and my husband just takes everything she throws at him.... She insists...
    Blondechick37 Blondechick37
    36-40, F
    3 Responses May 2, 2012

    Not Sure What To Do Anymore!!!!

    I have been with my husband for almost 8 years now...married 2 years out of the 8. i am at my wits end...my husband and I fight constantly about her, so i am on here trying to figure out a way to not fight with him and save our marriage! Let me fill you in on the things I go...
    cmb210 cmb210
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Oct 5, 2012

    I Don'T Know What To

    My husband and I have been together for 4 and a half years now and have been married for 3. My husband has a 7 year old son which was three when we first met. When we were first dating he was great...until his ex started threatening him with his son...he left a few times while we...
    Jjb1113 Jjb1113
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 5, 2013

    I Tried To Like Her

    Okay here it goes.... I met my husband 7 years ago 2 weeks after his divorce from his first wife was final. Since he was so fresh from a divorce and did not have any closure from the experience ( she was active duty military and filed for divorce while of leave from Korea) I...
    Mrs904 Mrs904
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Oct 9, 2013

    I HATE HATE My Husbands EX

    I have been a step mom to a wonderful boy for 12 yrs. My stepson came from a one night stand with a very ex girlfriend when my husband and took a break while we are dating. We found out 6 days after we got married that my husband got papers he had a son. We knew that we would...
    stepmom1971 stepmom1971
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

    What Would You Have Done?

    My husband talks to a lot of girls. He has a lot of friends that are ex girlfriends. I honestly try to get along with them the best I can and a couple of them are actually pretty nice. There is one in peticular that is making my hands shake. She irratates me to the point that I...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

    I Hate My Husband's Ex

    I despise my husband's ex. I hate her so much, I get sick and want to vomit. seeing her pictures sickens me. My husband has son with his ex girlfriend. his son is 5. my husband and I have a 1 year old daughter. well, when my husband and I met, she had a fit and accused...
    strawberry3580 strawberry3580
    26-30, F
    Jul 13, 2013

    I can't understand what it was

    that my husband saw in his ex. But I never knew that it would be this hard to have a step child and always have her being a part of my life. What should I do?
    Gruella Gruella
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2015

    Hate His X-girlfriend...

    I'm 19 years old and i been married for a year. But i cant say that I'm happily married because i have thoughts in my head of my husband and his x. Like when me and him started dating, he used to talk about her all the time and that didnt bug me as much, but now it all comes to...
    Dalexia Dalexia
    18-21, F
    Sep 3, 2009
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