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I Hate My Husbands Ex

For any woman out there who has to deal with the meddling of another woman in her relationship feel free to rant here!!! 294 People

    She Needs To Grow Up

    My husband and I have been married almost 2 years. We share joint custody with his ex, we have the kids one week and she has them the next.She lives across the street from us with the man she was cheating on my now husband with. She calls continuously for the stupidest things, to...
    piper66 piper66 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    Married Step Mom Four Years

    My husband and I dated for three years I met his daughter at her age of 6. When her mom found out it was so much confusion and lies told and I had never met the woman because they live in another state. Now at my sd being aged 13 I'm just tired of the same old things. Everyone...
    sljames sljames 31-35 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    The Ex From Hell

    The ex from hell has been a part of my life for about 8 years now and I'm getting to the stage where I regret marrying my husband!he has a 10 yr old daughter with her. She is needy,pathetic and manipulative.and my husband just takes everything she throws at him.... She insists...
    Blondechick37 Blondechick37 36-40, F 3 Responses May 2, 2012

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    I hate my husbands. Ex.

    They were never married Nd no kids. We have been married 9 yrs and almost every 3 months she calls or emails with crap about she needs closure. We have gotten court orders for her to stop then she make fake profiles and harasses us that way. Frustrated
    ldyfubar ldyfubar 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    They wont stop talking

    and they are basically together again and i belong to an indian family so i cannot divorce because i will get a bad reputation and my parents cant help me in this because my step mum forced my biological dad to disown me... Husband is abusive and bashes me constantly...
    kaur101 kaur101 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    The Ex From Hell

    My husband and I have been married almost a year and only knew each other for 2 months before we married and from the moment we married we have had to deal with his ex. They were together for 12 years and she had 3 children that he raised from the time he was 16 that turned...
    lfw2009 lfw2009 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Where to Begin.....

    This group was made for me.  No doubt there. The problem is---where to even begin.  This woman is the mother of my husband's two older children, and she is mentally unstable, and they are now as well.  Lies, deceit, manipulation, sob stories, damsel in distress...
    MerryGoRound MerryGoRound 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2008

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    Not Sure What To Do Anymore!!!!

    I have been with my husband for almost 8 years now...married 2 years out of the 8. i am at my wits end...my husband and I fight constantly about her, so i am on here trying to figure out a way to not fight with him and save our marriage! Let me fill you in on the things I go...
    cmb210 cmb210 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    Read If You Dare!

    Hello, Ok I do not know if I can put all of this here so I will put what I can remember off the top of my head. I met my husband in 2009. I met him though a mutual friend. I would always hang out with friend #1 at his apartment. One day when I went over there this guy was...
    iyamai2005 iyamai2005 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2013

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    I Love My Step Child But Can't Stand Her Mother.

    I am a wife that feels so stress My husband and I have been together for 14 years  we split for a year because we was going through some things  during our year split he and I saw other people but so happen he got this girl pregnant I was so pissed how could he get someone...
    vancrum vancrum 26-30 2 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    She Loves to Be the Center of Attention....

    My husbands ex is one of the fakest people that I know.  She says she is christian, she goes to church only when it suits her, I know this because I went to the same church, lets just say I don't anymore.  She recently got a myspace page and puts christian music and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 8, 2008

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    I Need Help...

    So for starters I have been married 2 years, together for 3. We have a 21 month old son, a 6 month old daughter and he has an almost 8 year old daughter from a previous marriage of 10 years (majority of which was empty with tons of verbal and physical abuse from her and she...
    dyingtomakeitwork dyingtomakeitwork 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    I Hate My Husband's Ex

    I despise my husband's ex. I hate her so much, I get sick and want to vomit. seeing her pictures sickens me. My husband has son with his ex girlfriend. his son is 5. my husband and I have a 1 year old daughter. well, when my husband and I met, she had a fit and accused...
    strawberry3580 strawberry3580 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2013

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    I Hate My Future Husbands Ex

    I've been with my fiancé for over a year now. He has been divorced for 3 years. Together they have a 6 year old son. He is a great kid and he does adore me. His mom has been asking him question about me all the time until she just met me for the first time 2 weeks ago. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    I Really Hate That Woman

    I know that this is going to sound extremely shallow and ridiculous but I hate the fact that my husband's ex looks so much better than I do. She has the perfect hair, perfect skin and perfect figure. She even has perfect feet! I know that this should not matter but I have felt...
    Penelopejones Penelopejones 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 24, 2009

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    I Hate Being Jealous And Untrusting.

    This weekend my husband and I have to deal with his Ex. She is the mother of his kids so she will never go away. She constantly throws herself at him. We go pick up the kids Saturday and I'm already having panic attacks and bad Anxiety. It's terrible because I remain appropriate...
    JustAnotherMemory2 JustAnotherMemory2 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    Surviving Jennifer

    My husband ran off with his secretary - whom he had been having an affair with for two years behind my back - almost 16 yrs ago now. It IRKED me that everyone thought their union was so romantic and they were "socialites" while I was left pregnant with three kids under 5.....and...
    swssociety swssociety 46-50 2 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    I Thought This Would Be Easy

    I started dating my significant other with a very positive attitude about his two teenage boys and his ex-wife. I have no children and was really looking forward to having a relationship with his boys, all my friends have kids and their kids love me as I do them. My parents are...
    Beck65 Beck65 46-50 1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    What Would You Have Done?

    My husband talks to a lot of girls. He has a lot of friends that are ex girlfriends. I honestly try to get along with them the best I can and a couple of them are actually pretty nice. There is one in peticular that is making my hands shake. She irratates me to the point that I...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    I Don'T Know What To

    My husband and I have been together for 4 and a half years now and have been married for 3. My husband has a 7 year old son which was three when we first met. When we were first dating he was great...until his ex started threatening him with his son...he left a few times while we...
    Jjb1113 Jjb1113 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 5, 2013

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    I Never Hated Anyone Till I Had This Woman In My Life!

    My husband has an exwife that is so manipulative and just does small things that make me go so mad!!! I absolutely hate that woman and I barely know her!! I hate feeling like this and everytime she even rings it sets off this anger inside me and causes fights with me and my...
    distraction distraction 31-35 1 Response Jul 8, 2009

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    Jealous And Hate Her!

    I saw my husband's ex-girlfriend's photos a couple of years ago. She was very sweet and beautiful. I was quite jealous then but was very confident of myself as well, so I sort of forgot about it. I never ask my husband anything about his past relationship as I don't tell him...
    Redeyed Redeyed 31-35 3 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    I Tried To Like Her

    Okay here it goes.... I met my husband 7 years ago 2 weeks after his divorce from his first wife was final. Since he was so fresh from a divorce and did not have any closure from the experience ( she was active duty military and filed for divorce while of leave from Korea) I...
    Mrs904 Mrs904 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    I have been with my husband

    for 4 years (only recently married 6 months ago) and have been a step mom for all 4 of those years. We are having a difficult time since the birth of our 3rd child and to be honest for the 9 months before that. My husband exwife pushed her children (6 and 7 years old at the time...
    NotTheEvilOneCinderella NotTheEvilOneCinderella 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    My situation is so very similar to a lot of

    yours, but also quite unique. The anger, resentment, hostility and bitterness is a commonality, and for some of our stories you might be familiar with a depth of history and backstory I share with my husband and his ex. Let me begin my explaining the depths of insanity this...
    josapiercer josapiercer 26-30, F Feb 6

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    I Want To Hurt Her

    Uh where do I begin... Well I guess a quick recap of the past 5 years, actually more like 13, o wow. So I have been with my fiance for 5 years now. He has a 6 year old from a previous marriage. Let me just throw out there that I'm not the reason they broke up. Although his ex...
    jushadenough jushadenough 22-25 4 Responses Aug 12, 2010

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    Very Manipulating

    My husband and I have been married for 6 years and dealing with his ex I'm sure will always be an up hill battle. I've fought with her, gone to court, dealt with police at my home ( she loves to call them when things don't go her way) and I've also gone out of my way to be nice...
    gracey77us gracey77us 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2013

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    My Husband's Bm Is The Worst

    I know that I should be the bigger better woman but I'm getting to the point where I want my husband to cut all ties with his child . How wrong is that!! I can't stand that I should take her disrespect, why should I?? This is a girl he had sex with a few times in 1998 . Bam she...
    Goddess504 Goddess504 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 10, 2010

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    My Husband's Ex Wife Is Malicious.

    My husband of 10 years was married to his ex for 12 years before he left her. She has alienated his children from him and continues to get paid > $10,000.00 a month (with a masters degree in hand), no job (doesn't need to with that income), and continues to drive the kids (now...
    annlogic annlogic 51-55 1 Response Nov 25, 2012

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    Go Away You Evil B****

    I have been married for a little over 2 weeks. I have 2 children and I've got a chick that won't go away. She comes back around whenever she pleases no matter what. It's bizarre because she comes around mostly when we are going through hell. It makes my life difficult and my...
    4 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    What Goes Around Comes Around

    My husband and I dated in our twenties and I thought we were in love. At about the year and a half mark we broke up because he was cheating on me(as I saw it) and our relationship was over (as he saw it). H ended up marrying the woman he was with 6 months later and I found out...
    Ximene33 Ximene33 31-35 1 Response Dec 12, 2012

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    What a Basket Case!!

    My husband and I have been together for 8 yrs. He has a child from a previous relationship and I'm telling you the mother of his child is insane! She started calling my cell phone a couple of weeks ago out of the blue and has not stopped leaving vulgar messages since. She blocks...
    Imperceptible Imperceptible 31-35, F 2 Responses May 15, 2008

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    I Hate My Husband's Ex

    My husband is an insensitive and an extremely selfish person who thinks that only his happiness counts in the relationship. He likes to do anything which keeps him happy regardless of my feelings or how it is going to affect the relationship or me. When he gets worried and upset...
    bluesea21 bluesea21 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    The Most Psycho Of All!!

    My husband's ex wife is the most psycho I've ever met. She accused me of assaulting her while i was 5months pregnant when in fact she's the one who displayed a scandalous behavior in front of our house. She even told my step kids I attacked her. I cannot believe she can come up...
    MissVansy MissVansy 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2013

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    She Just Wants To Cause Trouble

    My husband & I have been together 9 mos. Him & his ex wife have been divorced for 3 yrs. He got his kids every weekend until we got married 3 mos ago. Since we got married she has denied him the right to see his kids, he took her to court & gets them every other weekend now...
    mbaisden79 mbaisden79 31-35 4 Responses Sep 3, 2010

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    Hate His X-girlfriend...

    I'm 19 years old and i been married for a year. But i cant say that I'm happily married because i have thoughts in my head of my husband and his x. Like when me and him started dating, he used to talk about her all the time and that didnt bug me as much, but now it all comes to...
    Dalexia Dalexia 18-21, F Sep 3, 2009

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    How to Enjoy Life With His Ex Around

    I have been in a commited relationship for about 5 years. My boyfriend has 2 children with his ex and a child with me as well. My issue is when we go to the activities for thier children together. We have a beautiful life together. We have a beautiful home, wonderful jobs, and...
    wantlifewithoutex wantlifewithoutex 26-30, F 1 Response May 26, 2009

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    She'S Running Up Their Kid'S Medical Bills On Purpose

    Knowing full well that her ex husband has to pay for their child's medical bills, she likes to take her kid to the ER/hospital for every little cough and sneeze. He once threw up, which is normal for a 5 year old. Off to the emergency room he goes! The most recent ones were a...
    sharper43 sharper43 31-35 1 Response May 9, 2013

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    I HATE HATE My Husbands EX

    I have been a step mom to a wonderful boy for 12 yrs. My stepson came from a one night stand with a very ex girlfriend when my husband and took a break while we are dating. We found out 6 days after we got married that my husband got papers he had a son. We knew that we would...
    stepmom1971 stepmom1971 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    Husband's Ex-Wife Hates Being A Mother Or Having Responsibilities!

    This going to take a bit of background to explain... My husband married a young woman a some years ago, lets call her Crazy-pants. He got Crazy-pants pregnant when they were kids and like a responsible man he married the girl. Here's where the problems start: Her first decision...
    hortonj4 hortonj4 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    My Husband'S Ex Has Stalked Me For 5 Years

    I started dating my husband in 2008, he had been with his ex for 7 years before we met. When we first started dating his ex would text him all the time and at least when i was there he wouldn't write back to her, after about 3-4 months of her BEGGING to talk to me and me saying I...
    PurpleBarbie420 PurpleBarbie420 22-25 3 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Where to Begin.....

    This group was made for me.  No doubt there. The problem is---where to even begin.  This woman is the mother of my husband's two older children, and she is mentally unstable, and they are now as well.  Lies, deceit, manipulation, sob stories, damsel in distress...
    MerryGoRound MerryGoRound 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 20, 2008

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    Should I Have Said Something

    It's not even really her this time, it's my husband. My stepson had a field trip today and my husband went, when they returned I asked my husband how did he go and he started explaining about how the other children were unruly and so I asked him if he was the only adult in his...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F May 9, 2012

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    My Husbands Ex

    This women has done awful things. She is engaged to someone else but that is still not enough to make her go away. my Husband has 3 to her and 2 with me and I had 2 before so 7 in total. We are meant to forget about everyone else in the house when her kids are with us do what she...
    jjkktt01 jjkktt01 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2013

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    I Have Really Good Advice To Share When Dealing With Husband'S Ex.

    I don't hate my husband's ex. I feel sorry for her. She's her own worst enemy. Unfortunately for her she's going to eventually hang herself with her own rope. I read many women's stories of similar circumstances and they are all so angry and frustrated and rightfully so. Much of...
    towmater74 towmater74 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    That Woman.........

    well I knew my husband had children when I met him. We moved from Hawaii back to the states where his ex was as well as his children. I have 2 children form my ex as well. Anyways This woman is a head case. She has 2 children yet lets us raise them then tries to get childsupport...
    rachelfowler rachelfowler 21-25, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2008

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    Will It Ever End?

    My fiancée and I have been together for about 3 years now and recently just got engaged in the last 2 weeks. He was married previously for about 3 years to quite possibly the worlds most irrational and selfish woman. They have one child together who is 6 years old, she also has...
    emc33 emc33 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 30, 2012

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    Domineering Ex-wife: Help!

    Hi all, I need help with my situation. I can't stand my husband's ex-wife and how her values seep into our household. My husband and I have been together for over 3 years. She and my husband have a 13-year-old son. They divorced over 10 years ago after she cheated on him. We have...
    1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    I am in a relationship with a man

    who is divorced and has four children. The children live put of state And only come three times a year. I am divorced and have four kids of my own. My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship most of the time. Now, when it comes to his ex wife we fight all the time! I love...
    Rosebud7254 Rosebud7254 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I am tired of my husband’s ex.

    She’s got a pretty good thing going. She sits on her behind all day long collecting child support, getting her hair done, her nails done, her steaks at the best deli in town . . . She sits in a $500,000 house and has my husband, her previous ex-husband and her previous...
    tiredofthescam tiredofthescam 36-40 1 Response Jan 30

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    Sad, Pathetic Excuse For A Woman

    My partner and I have been together for 2 years. Since the day I walked into the picture, his ex has been a train wreck from hell. He has a 9 year old son with her whom I love like he is my own. I provide for his son as if he is my own, I treat my stepson with complete love and...
    HaloNhORNS HaloNhORNS 26-30, F Jan 6, 2013

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    I can write a novel of how much I hate people and their stupid, lack of knowledge, and zero common sense behaviour! I hate people who think they know everything yet they are so...
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