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I Hate My Husbands Family

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    So Frustrated And Stuck, Feel Depressed And Don't Know What To Do.

    So, I don't know where to begin my story/rant. Six years ago I met my husband while living on the west coast. We had an instant connection and strong attraction/chemistry toward each other. Which of course is why we dated and got married. Anyway, long story short, his family has...
    highdimension highdimension 26-30 3 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    """""the Villagers""""""""

    My outlaws are American Russian. All born in USA, but not one ounce of class among 6 of them. They have money, but no taste or class. They don't bring anything to your home when invited for dinner and never forget to bring tupperware to take home left overs. They successfully...
    kendallweeken kendallweeken 31-35 2 Responses Oct 26, 2011

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    I Wana Slap His Fam One At A Time

    ME AND MY HUSBAND HAVE BEEN MARRYED FOR 4 WEEKS .... BUT HAVE BEEN TOGTHER 7YRS AND HAVE 2 KIDS TOGTHER AND I HAVE OTHER KIDS FROM B4 WE MEET ....... WELL HIS SISTER WHO I HAVE ALWAYS GOT ON WITH BUT WAS A BIT LIKE DO SHE LIKE ME !!!! ... HASE BEEN TELLING EVERYONE WHAT I HAVE...
    CAT321 CAT321 26-30 Jul 21, 2010

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    Should I Leave My Husband

    I am suffocating in my husbands world. I moved to his town in the boonies where I had no other friends except my husband. I moved into his ****** house that was litterally torn apart and under construction and by the way a mile from his parents house. So as we worked on it we...
    onthefritz onthefritz 31-35, F 31 Responses May 1, 2007

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    Hate Them Two Face Mexican Family

    i'm married to my husband almost 5 years already.We met online 8 years ago start from penpals.I'm asian and he is mexican.He always told me he hate his family and i never thought they are really terrible like this.He is the youngest son of the family and have 4 oldest loser...
    iceandfrost iceandfrost 26-30 1 Response Nov 13, 2011

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    I Hate My Husband's Nieces

    WARNING: This is going to be pretty darn long. so spare me. I don't know if it's just the pregnancy hormones talking, or it's the nesting phase most pregnant women go through that's making me some sort of a ***** towards my husband's nieces. But I've always had a problem living...
    sickofthem23 sickofthem23 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2013

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    Hate My Husband Family

    im really having problem with my husband family first the dad and brother live with us because they been kicked out from there grandmas house because of too much problems plus brother is addict, father in law has different family and he has attitude problem , he talked too much...
    Jan 10, 2013

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    My Dh's Relatives Are Parasites

    This is my third rant about my DH's family and I can't burden my friends anymore with my sob stories and marital woes, so writing about it and sharing it with people who might have the same sentiments as i have may be my only release. This time, I'm not gonna rant about those...
    sickofthem23 sickofthem23 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2013

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    Farm Family On The Fritz

    I've been married now for six years to an incredible guy....incredible that is until you throw his family into the mix. My husband is the oldest of two children, both of who belong to the "ma" and "pa" of farming. We have been together for 10 years and before that time I never...
    geezlouise1 geezlouise1 26-30 1 Response Jan 29, 2012

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    I don't hate them I dislike them most of the

    time. So I been married for 10months I know still newlyweds, and we have been staying with his whole family in a New York apartment it gets pretty tight. I'm from California so this work differently on my side. but since I been here its been a living he'll. I use to work then I...
    confusedasia confusedasia 22-25, F a week ago

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    So my husband and I have had our fights

    and doubts in our marriage. It has only made us stronger. His family doesnt like me bc of all of it. So they started bringing gis ex gf around. She is always with his family. They have a daughter together. But we both feel like our marriage is being disrespected by that. The...
    Disrespected25 Disrespected25 26-30, F Aug 25, 2015

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    My husband and I moved in with his family this

    past July. The family members who we moved in with always acted so nice before. As soon as we moved in things went down hill fast. His mom always acts like anything I do isn't right. It's gotten a little better since and she genially has been trying to be nice to me. But his...
    MoonLightwolf18 MoonLightwolf18 18-21, F Sep 29, 2015

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    I am so glad to find this app.

    My husband's family have driven me to the point of talking to a preacher, questioning humanity (which I was questioning before, but they just confirmed my loss of faith in it), seeking a therapist. Just seeing other people that have had the same experiences and feeling have made...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 26, 2015

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    The Feeling Is Mutual

    My husband's family is the most dysfunctional, backstabbing, gossiping, low class bunch that I have ever met in my life.  They go out of their way to spread vicious gossip about me like: I got fired from the job that I quit, That I don't like his children...
    sheisnotthedevilmama sheisnotthedevilmama 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 20, 2008

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    Well I Wouldn't Say Hate,But I Don't Like Them!!!

    Well I wouldn't say that I hate them.  I really don't like to use the word hate when it comes to people.  I do have a problem with a couple of his sisters, even a brother or two for trying to get a little to close to me.  My husband has 11 siblings.  That's a hell of a lot...
    TexasLily TexasLily 56-60, F 5 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    The Saga Continues ...

    I thought it was over.  I thought we'd all come to some form of understanding and agreement.  Evidently, we did but my s.o. and I were not understanding nor agreeing to that particular plan.  We were kept from their understanding but made to feel it was all going...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 4, 2007

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    So Much Drama From 1 Person Can Ruin Anothers Spirit

    hello everyone this is for anyone who is gonna be interested...now i would never state that i am perfect because we all know none of us are. i do try to keep it as real as possible (being bipolar its the only way i know). ok here i go...i am a 37 yr old woman and i've been with...
    tirednfedup tirednfedup 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2012

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    every since almost 4 years ago my husband

    family has treated me like **** not even knowing me,harrased and threatened me and threw my herpes **** in my face from being raped and one got me put in a psych ward cause I lost it and started cutting instead of killing her for my husband. but they always treated him like the...
    mandyvargas18 mandyvargas18 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2015

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    My Husband's Family

    We have been married 10 year and have a daughter. My husband family is always around so me and my daughter never get to spend any time with him.  He seems to care more about his sister kids than he does us. And they dont care for me like i don't care for them. They take up a...
    FEDUPWOMEN FEDUPWOMEN 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 12, 2010

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    My mother in law is mean.

    My sisters in laws are just as crazy as her. The rest of his family is weird, too. I am beginning to think my husband is no good for me either. Maybe this marriage was a mistake. Wish I had figured that out a long time ago. duh! I never thought I'd get a divorce. My...
    tiredofit44 tiredofit44 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    I Hate Those Monkeys He Calls His Family

    My fiance and i have been together for about 3 years. Shortly after we met i got pregnant. He was living with his mom and two kids whom he has custody of and I was living by myself with my two kids. I moved into a 3 bedroom apt. I had the baby and was out of work. We decided that...
    AmandaJones621 AmandaJones621 22-25 3 Responses Dec 28, 2011

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    How Much Should I Spend On These People

    I can't stand my husbands family especially his mother. I have made it a point not to let these guys ( his mother, 3 sisters, and brother) get to me or anger me anymore. I have no choice but to spend money on them this holiday season. I barely ever see his sisters so I will be...
    Qmomma206 Qmomma206 26-30 Dec 9, 2012

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    I can't say I hate his family.

    But there's a few I truly dislike that I don't want to be around them. His mother and sister...Mostly his sister. She's nothing but a hot head and trouble maker who doesn't know how to mind her business!!!!! I'm going to share one story that got my blood boiling about the both...
    simplyme12345 simplyme12345 18-21, F Jan 27

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    THEYYYYYY SUCKKKKKK SO BAD!

    What a bunch of a holes! I spent almost this whole wkend with them so far n i wanna punch a few of them in the face! Ughhhhh! Bunch of hypocritical, gossipy, fake a$$$, drama filled, bs feeding bunch of jerks. Whoooooo..... Rant done (for now) lol
    Contrarthodox Contrarthodox 26-30, F Oct 25, 2015

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    Seriously? Hate this family.

    Used to love them. My husband and I cared off them for years. They were tough, but we stuck with it. My husband's brother and wife merely tolerated them, and moved away. My mil got sick and died. We cared for her the whole time. Then my FIL came to live with us. We do...
    Getouttamyhead Getouttamyhead 41-45 2 Responses Jan 29, 2014

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    My Husband'S Family Shoved Down My Throat!!!

    I never seen such wild animals in my life!!! The entire family that I have met and those I heard of do nothing but fight, beg and steal. They are so disrespectful and bummy. They call my husband and beg for money or show up at his job!!!! I don't want any of them around and my...
    evemommyof4 evemommyof4 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2013

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    We get along great, moved to another state to

    be away from them, and after we are here 2 months, his mom wants to suddenly have our daughter spend the night after not spending any time with her for 5 years when we lived 30 minutes away. I think it has nothing to do with her grandkids, but more to do with trying to get my...
    louieshack louieshack 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 5, 2015

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