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I Hate My Husbands Family

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    """""the Villagers""""""""

    My outlaws are American Russian. All born in USA, but not one ounce of class among 6 of them. They have money, but no taste or class. They don't bring anything to your home when invited for dinner and never forget to bring tupperware to take home left overs. They successfully...
    kendallweeken kendallweeken 31-35 2 Responses Oct 26, 2011

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    Hate Them Two Face Mexican Family

    i'm married to my husband almost 5 years already.We met online 8 years ago start from penpals.I'm asian and he is mexican.He always told me he hate his family and i never thought they are really terrible like this.He is the youngest son of the family and have 4 oldest loser...
    iceandfrost iceandfrost 26-30 1 Response Nov 13, 2011

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    The Feeling Is Mutual

    My husband's family is the most dysfunctional, backstabbing, gossiping, low class bunch that I have ever met in my life.  They go out of their way to spread vicious gossip about me like: I got fired from the job that I quit, That I don't like his children...
    sheisnotthedevilmama sheisnotthedevilmama 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 20, 2008

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    My Husband's Family

    We have been married 10 year and have a daughter. My husband family is always around so me and my daughter never get to spend any time with him.  He seems to care more about his sister kids than he does us. And they dont care for me like i don't care for them. They take up a...
    FEDUPWOMEN FEDUPWOMEN 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 12, 2010

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    How Much Should I Spend On These People

    I can't stand my husbands family especially his mother. I have made it a point not to let these guys ( his mother, 3 sisters, and brother) get to me or anger me anymore. I have no choice but to spend money on them this holiday season. I barely ever see his sisters so I will be...
    Qmomma206 Qmomma206 26-30 Dec 9, 2012

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    Well I Wouldn't Say Hate,But I Don't Like Them!!!

    Well I wouldn't say that I hate them.  I really don't like to use the word hate when it comes to people.  I do have a problem with a couple of his sisters, even a brother or two for trying to get a little to close to me.  My husband has 11 siblings.  That's a hell of a lot...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F 5 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    My mother in law is mean.

    My sisters in laws are just as crazy as her. The rest of his family is weird, too. I am beginning to think my husband is no good for me either. Maybe this marriage was a mistake. Wish I had figured that out a long time ago. duh! I never thought I'd get a divorce. My...
    tiredofit44 tiredofit44 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    Seriously? Hate this family.

    Used to love them. My husband and I cared off them for years. They were tough, but we stuck with it. My husband's brother and wife merely tolerated them, and moved away. My mil got sick and died. We cared for her the whole time. Then my FIL came to live with us. We do...
    Getouttamyhead Getouttamyhead 41-45 1 Response Jan 29

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    I Hate My Husband's Nieces

    WARNING: This is going to be pretty darn long. so spare me. I don't know if it's just the pregnancy hormones talking, or it's the nesting phase most pregnant women go through that's making me some sort of a ***** towards my husband's nieces. But I've always had a problem living...
    sickofthem23 sickofthem23 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2013

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    So Frustrated And Stuck, Feel Depressed And Don't Know What To Do.

    So, I don't know where to begin my story/rant. Six years ago I met my husband while living on the west coast. We had an instant connection and strong attraction/chemistry toward each other. Which of course is why we dated and got married. Anyway, long story short, his family has...
    highdimension highdimension 26-30 3 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    I Wana Slap His Fam One At A Time

    ME AND MY HUSBAND HAVE BEEN MARRYED FOR 4 WEEKS .... BUT HAVE BEEN TOGTHER 7YRS AND HAVE 2 KIDS TOGTHER AND I HAVE OTHER KIDS FROM B4 WE MEET ....... WELL HIS SISTER WHO I HAVE ALWAYS GOT ON WITH BUT WAS A BIT LIKE DO SHE LIKE ME !!!! ... HASE BEEN TELLING EVERYONE WHAT I HAVE...
    CAT321 CAT321 26-30 Jul 21, 2010

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    The Saga Continues ...

    I thought it was over.  I thought we'd all come to some form of understanding and agreement.  Evidently, we did but my s.o. and I were not understanding nor agreeing to that particular plan.  We were kept from their understanding but made to feel it was all going...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 4, 2007

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    Hate My Husband Family

    im really having problem with my husband family first the dad and brother live with us because they been kicked out from there grandmas house because of too much problems plus brother is addict, father in law has different family and he has attitude problem , he talked too much...
    Jan 10, 2013

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    Should I Leave My Husband

    I am suffocating in my husbands world. I moved to his town in the boonies where I had no other friends except my husband. I moved into his ****** house that was litterally torn apart and under construction and by the way a mile from his parents house. So as we worked on it we...
    onthefritz onthefritz 31-35, F 31 Responses May 1, 2007

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    My Dh's Relatives Are Parasites

    This is my third rant about my DH's family and I can't burden my friends anymore with my sob stories and marital woes, so writing about it and sharing it with people who might have the same sentiments as i have may be my only release. This time, I'm not gonna rant about those...
    sickofthem23 sickofthem23 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2013

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    So Much Drama From 1 Person Can Ruin Anothers Spirit

    hello everyone this is for anyone who is gonna be interested...now i would never state that i am perfect because we all know none of us are. i do try to keep it as real as possible (being bipolar its the only way i know). ok here i go...i am a 37 yr old woman and i've been with...
    tirednfedup tirednfedup 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2012

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    I Hate Those Monkeys He Calls His Family

    My fiance and i have been together for about 3 years. Shortly after we met i got pregnant. He was living with his mom and two kids whom he has custody of and I was living by myself with my two kids. I moved into a 3 bedroom apt. I had the baby and was out of work. We decided that...
    AmandaJones621 AmandaJones621 22-25 3 Responses Dec 28, 2011

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    Farm Family On The Fritz

    I've been married now for six years to an incredible guy....incredible that is until you throw his family into the mix. My husband is the oldest of two children, both of who belong to the "ma" and "pa" of farming. We have been together for 10 years and before that time I never...
    geezlouise1 geezlouise1 26-30 1 Response Jan 29, 2012

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    My Husband'S Family Shoved Down My Throat!!!

    I never seen such wild animals in my life!!! The entire family that I have met and those I heard of do nothing but fight, beg and steal. They are so disrespectful and bummy. They call my husband and beg for money or show up at his job!!!! I don't want any of them around and my...
    evemommyof4 evemommyof4 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2013

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    "I hate my family.." are the words that I never thought I would've said or even thought about. Yesterday an event happened which truly showed how much my family cares.. I finally...
    mercifulpennies mercifulpennies 22-25, F 16 hrs ago

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    I live with my mum, sister and dad.., oh i do hate them... my mum drinks and she can switch being nice to a total *****... my dad doesn't care about my feelings just ny sister and...
    littletease littletease 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I hate my family!!! I hate my family!!! All my sisters tell me to do is to watch their kids. My parents are phychotic strict and have me trapped, especially my mom. If I contradict...
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I really hate my family. They are all evil people who pass judgement onto other people. I can't rely on them for anything not even my own mother. She will even talk about me to...
    StrengthenMyHeart StrengthenMyHeart 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    everyone in my family is always controlling me, bullying me, betraying my trust and I just hate them more and more each day. I don't believe in family at all. I am going to live...
    D2BA D2BA 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    my adopted mom abused my little brother, my adopted sister told me she would turn me and my bio mom into the police, my adopted brother turned me in the next morning... my little...
    Abby97 Abby97 16-17, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    They talk bad about me infront of me and say really mean and nasty stuff to me but if I tell my husband that I dont like them he gets mad and starts breaking expensive things boy...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Jul 23

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    I'm adopted. But my Mother and my Sister always tend to gang up on me. Even when I'm sick, or I've been busy or something they complain or they blame for me for something I wasn't...
    rachelharperr rachelharperr 13-15, F Jul 25

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    Hey, I'm 18 male, and I really can't take my parents anymore. I'm thinking of running away all the time. I'm sorry, this is a bit long but I would really appreciate someone's...
    Balkan1996 Balkan1996 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I had a terrible experience just recently with my mother telling me I was out of line for trying to get my fathers cousin involved in an intervention you see my father is an...
    Bella70 Bella70 41-45, F Aug 6

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    My family members are horrible people. They are completely selfish, and only think of themselves. I am stuck living with them because my house is currently unlivable, and I have...
    redshoesrock redshoesrock 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Why bring me if I'm not wanted? Why speak about me when you've never spoken to me? What's the problem? Is it me? Is it your double standard reticule? Or is it the fact that you...
    kikisalamo22 kikisalamo22 13-15, F Jul 23

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    The only ones I can tolerate are my mother and grandmother. My grandmother raised me, so I am incredibly grateful to her. My mother gave birth to me and provides for me, so I am...
    Celal Celal 18-21, F Aug 1

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    I cant help it, I feel like I don't belong at all. My parents split up when I was around 7-9, and then my dad got a girlfriend who hates me with passion and has an older daughter...
    anonymouschicky anonymouschicky 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I wouldn't necessarily call it "hate" but more like a strong dislike. I don't feel close to anyone in my family. I'm totally the black sheep and I wish to disown all of them and...
    electrapleiadian electrapleiadian 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Well I don't ignore my family nowadays so that's fine and I'm no longer always feeling angry around them and sad when I'm not. Ignore your bullies right? But then my sister called...
    Leiai Leiai 13-15 1 Response Aug 8

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    It's my mum that usually gets to me! I'm a middle child! She loves my little sister more than she loves me. It's so obvious but whenever I tell her she always shouts at me and...
    cinderella27 cinderella27 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Sometimes I think I'm the only sane one. My family is a mad house, and it seems I'm always playing nurse. I have four sisters who all hate eachother and constantly fight. My poor...
    ExternalHappiness ExternalHappiness 13-15, F Aug 10

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    I can't take this anymore. My parents wanted me to be a stupid little fat Christian boy and I hate them for that. They are racist bigots and I hate their personalities. Apart from...
    TroubledIndividual TroubledIndividual 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Today I cleaned. ALL DAY. When I looked at the time, I realized my family would be home any minute. So... I ran out to the store quick before I would be blocked in the driveway...
    iammyownworstenemy1 iammyownworstenemy1 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Family can be your enemies and stab you in the back but your friends could be the real ones that are your family and help you all the time and be their and accept everything thats...
    melnie melnie 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I hate my mom I'm the middle kid and she only cares for my older brother while my dad sits in the side and says nothing I hate I hate smelling pot just do and they don't care...
    hinata6895 hinata6895 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I was 15 when my father committed suicide. My family blamed me. I was too needy, a daddy's girl. I suffer from depression. Have as long as I can remember. Even as a young kid I...
    2Lostinlife 2Lostinlife 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    It's funny how everyone says you can always trust family but yet when you're in trouble or have problems they're the first ones to judge and make you feel like **** and turn their...
    PrettyEvelin PrettyEvelin 18-21, F Aug 10

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    I can't stand my family always leaving me out, they don't care about me, I can't wait to make my own family. I be a better mum then mine and hopefully find a great husband
    Fabgal1 Fabgal1 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    What if your so called family is one of the worst things in ur life , they fill you up with anger and misery and all you do is be quiet about it but what if you get to the point...
    sarahamr sarahamr 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I love to write what I feel in my heart. I wrote many good stuffs about giving people advice. But now, I don't have any confidence in writing, because of the environment I live in...
    alienchenlein alienchenlein 18-21, F Jul 27

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    Both my parents and my brother are all energy vampires and make no ******* effort to understand me and expect things to sort out themselves. It makes me angry to be in their...
    wajaylababo wajaylababo 16-17, F Jul 31

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    Ever since my sister moved back in, it has been hell for me. I feel like everyone is against me and I don't try to let it get to me because its the same repeated process every year...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 5

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    I'm a college student who lives away from home during the majority of year. I come home Christmas break and sometimes during the summer. But when I'm home, I can't stand my family...
    hanako0848 hanako0848 18-21, F Aug 6