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I Hate My Kids

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    My Son Is Ruining My Marriage

    I had to talk with someone about this but not sure who to go to so I thought I'd try here. My wife has two children 8 and 5 from a previous marriage. I just celebrated my 3rd wedding anniversary. So the kids were 5 and 2 when I got with her. We consequently had a boy of our own...
    badpop badpop 46-50, M Oct 21, 2013

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    I Hate My Two Sons

    I am a single Mom with one 32 year old and another 16 year old son, from different fathers (never married to them) who both would have nothing to do with their kids (no money, no nothing). So I raised them alone, while having my own Mother ignore them too while doing everything...
    4thclass 4thclass 56-60, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Sociopaths Are Not "made".

    I have four children - two of them are sociopaths. These two as infants were completely unlike the other two - they screamed incessantly and could not be helped. they appeared to have no conscience. I would stick up for them against their teachers, our neighbours, the police but...
    VivalaLeta VivalaLeta 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    Counting Down The Days Until The Last One Turns Eighteen

    I am 34 and I hate my kids. I have 4 kids. Two boys ages 15 &12 and two girls ages 4 & 8. I can honestly say say their behavior is mainly due to my VERY controlling mother. I hate her even more than I hate my kids. My kids are destructive and don't listen to a word I say. They...
    1 Response Feb 1, 2013

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    I understand I will be judged harshly,

    yelled at, and called awful. I completely understand I'd feel the same way. But I was diagnosed with post postpartum depression. I am being treated and lying that I am getting so much better, I exaggerate how well I am doing to everyone and my therapists because I do not want to...
    MonsterMonster MonsterMonster 18-21 Apr 20

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    I cannot believe I'm saying this,

    but I hate my children. I have 12 children and all of them are rotten. Paul age 17, Mary age 15, Eve age 15, Adam age 13, Sebastian age 12, Alice age 11, Abraham age 9, Magdalene age 9, Benedict age 7, Bridgette age 5, Zachariah age 3, and Lucy age 3 months. My husband says...
    CatLady664 CatLady664 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I Have A 28 Year Old Girl 2 Boys 17 And 19 And A Daughter That Is 14 And Another Son That Is 11. My 17 Year Old Is A Total Jerk, Total Pig, And Walks Around All The Time Just To Scare Me, My Husband Does Nothing. I Want To Run Away With The 14 And 11 Yr O

    I did that wrong for the women with the little kids, savor it, go scream, go to the book store and read what you want to read put your feet up and just stay there. My husband comes and gets me. thank God there is school soon. Teenagers stink they are pigs and they think I'm their...
    exhaustedangela exhaustedangela 46-50 Aug 18, 2012

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    How Did I Get A Son Like This?

    My youngest child(boy) makes our lives absolutely miserable. He's scared of everything. He wakes up screaming regularly because he saw a shadow or some other stupid crap. Then he runs down the hall and tries to get into our room(we lock the door). He's also afraid of random...
    mercurylamp02 mercurylamp02 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    I Didn't Sign Up For This

    Seriously. Iove my kids and I know I am supposed to-but I wish they were 18 and in college. My son has ODD, ADHD, and is autistic. Sweetest kid ever except when he is acting out-75% of the time!! Daughter could give a crap about school, is a tomboy, plays video games all the time...
    Vodkamom Vodkamom 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    I Wish I Would Have Gotten An Abortion With These Two

    28 year old male & 19 year old female, I had put them through private Christian schools, braces on their teeth, worked very hard for many years just to make sure they had all needs met & most of the wants...their father was out of the picture (in prison) Now the two have been...
    RapidCity RapidCity 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2012

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    This Does Not Feel Like My Life...

    Ok a few years back, I was a girl of 27 years.. I was single and thinking no one wanted me... Then a guy started to show interest and we got engaged and married but deep down I felt it all wrong though everyone thought  and still thinks he was heavensent.... sigh... but he...
    RosalindaG RosalindaG 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    What Kids?

    Kids make me sick and I just want to bunch myself. I have two and I hAte myself because I didn't have a abortion. Don't judge me until u live in the projects with roaches and dirty neighbors and loud kids ******* in the elevators. This is why i indulge myself into books because I...
    Nadiatomas Nadiatomas 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    Update: My two eldest twin daughters ran away.

    What on EARTH should I do. They will not come back..
    CatLady664 CatLady664 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    I Hate My Kids

    I will keep this short and judge me how you like I am just being honest. I wish i never had my kids, I wish I could get rid of them. I try to be nice and take care of them as best I can but sometimes my anger shows through and I get too mad at them. My ex left me for another girl...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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    Sometimes, I Don'T Even Know How To Feel.

    So, I'm here because I started feeling like I had hate, actual HATE, for my family, especially the kids. What follows may include typos cause I'm so upset I just want to get it out. I have a 4yr old girl and a 4month old boy. Why the hell did I have another child? Admittedly...
    fedup1019 fedup1019 31-35, F Apr 29, 2013

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    I Should Have Never Had Kids!

    I probably am the most unmaternal mother there is! When I was growing up, I never heard an I love you or was ever hugged by my parents. That is probably why I was such a bad mother. I have no deep love for them even though they are my kids. I feel like I don't know how to love...
    sandmack55 sandmack55 56-60, F Oct 18, 2013

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    2 Adhd Children......im Losing My Mind.

    I have a 8 year old boy who has SEVERE ADHD. He is medicated but my god it really does not work, we play around with his meds all the time to find a good fit. Still have yet to find one. I also have a 6 year old daughter who excuse my language is the biggest ***** already. She...
    AtMyWitsEnd27 AtMyWitsEnd27 26-30 Jun 8, 2013

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    I don't hate kids as much as I hate their wuss parents for not doing anything about them acting up! This weekend I had a hair appointment. When I went into the salon, one woman's...
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    I currently live with a roommate who has a baby (approximately one year old). I didn't know I would be living with a baby when I decided to move in, I was told all of the roommates...
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    I'm 29 my life came crashing down around me about 2mths ago I've been given a bad hand at live so much so that I wish like the rest of my family I was dead but death isn't comming...
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    They know that I was always polite and would use it againts me they would buy things for my kids that my kids didnt like and iwould be polite and say that they like it .so I...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    Good Riddance To The Jailbird!-In late 2002 several months after CPS seized me(10) and sister(9) from our parents following a car wreck that nearly killed us and our father driving...
    Bashka91 Bashka91 22-25, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I live nearby my cousins houses.. we live in a small neighbourhood consists of few houses... I hate them because they are so mean to me especially these 3 people.. they are toxic...
    Loneliness78 Loneliness78 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    Think Kids Should Use Booster Seats it would save lives and stop deaths
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Think Kids and weak swimmers Should Wear Life Jackets When Swimming if needed
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    If I Were To Have Kids I'd want to name them something that isn't so common. My six choices for a girl is Violet, Willow, Heaven, Faye, Lucille & Brookelle (or Brooklyn, can't...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    So I just really need to get this off my chest as it is taboo to mention such things anywhere else! I hate being a stepmom!! Yes I hate it... I didn't say I hate my step kids... I...
    Unleashedmind Unleashedmind 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6

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    Crusade of the Jerks. In my earlier post, in this group, I haven't really gone into a whole lot of detail about all two of the guys I've seen my mom get into serious relationships...
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F Jun 25

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    I wasn't able to carry a baby to full term so when my sister called me 3 days after her daughter's 12th birthday I jumped at the chance to take my niece into our home. We had just...
    Megit Megit 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I hate when people complain that obese children are being called "fat" and "overweight" what do you expect them to be called? "We'll fit","very health kids"?? When the truth is...
    Storyguy007 Storyguy007 18-21, M Jul 13

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    I, I HATE myself. I hate myself so much. I hate myself so much, it's hard for me to explain just how much. I don't think you'll ever be able to comprehend the amount of hatred and...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 9 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Hi, I'm 16 this year. I just really need someone who can relate to me. I hate myself so much. I hate everything about myself. And this is why. I'm Asian so ever since I was young...
    jyjho jyjho 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 14

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    I'm very well aware about society's "guidelines" in terms of what so and so should do and whatnot. I feel that most people are just sheep and do not think freely for themselves. Oh...
    Discordiant Discordiant 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    My ex wife and I have 3 kids. We share custody where we have alternating weeks with the kids. I pay child support and alimony. In addition to that i also pay for my two oldest...
    RichardHertz RichardHertz 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    My mom and father both smoke. Dad had quit for a long time and then a family friend got him back on it. I resent her for it. My mom hadn't smoked in years. Then one day when we...
    jcylee99 jcylee99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I just hate it when people say “you will change your mind as you get older”! Guess what, I said I didn't want kids when I was 15, now I'm 25 and I still don't want kids! I just...
    Naturalsimple Naturalsimple 22-25, F 6 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Ok this is actually my 1st post and it's somethings that have been bothering me for months now. I got pregnant last summer by a loser. Although before that I didn't know he was one...
    tiffani425 tiffani425 26-30, F Jun 25

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    I can't stand my family.. Since I was young my real dad left when I was young I don't even know who he is and my mother she never gives me the time of day, when my step dad and...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F Jul 14

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    So what are you mixed with??? Anyone who is biracial knows how offensive those words can be my mother is Puerto Rican and white and my dad is black going to school in a small town...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been dating my bf for over a year now and we have lived together for most of it. We are extremely happy and compatible and plan to marry (unannounced as of yet). I have...
    Nate427 Nate427 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Does anyone hate Fifty Shades of Grey? I do. If it isn't the one dimensional characterization, it's the " Oh my's " or " My inner Goddess". Please feel free to share why you hate...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 17 hrs ago

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    This is why people don't send me hate mail on online gaming. Lol. It's a guy by the way, and he kept calling me gay, so, yeah.
    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M 16 hrs ago

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    Hubby won't lemme adopt the rabbit I rescued, but I got really attached to it emotionally. He ignores my feelings completely, refuses talk about it, and meanwhile treat me like a...
    sheilahbun sheilahbun 22-25, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Absolutly hate my teeth the shape gaps etc my smile looks goofy hate people seeing them I try keep my mouth closed at all times
    selfconscious24 selfconscious24 22-25, M 13 hrs ago

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    Ok so I can't say hate. In my opinion, it requires a lot of love to hate someone. I feel nothing towards her. Maybe pity. When our mother passed away, my sister only cared about...
    AuntieShani AuntieShani 31-35, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Well i don't hate myself. I just joined this group to encourage others who hate themselves and make them feel good about theirselves. Just wanna say that Everyone is beautiful in...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Hate Being Restrained and I hate restraints
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    Ugh. I am gonna hate myself for writing in this experience. But wth. As if I don't 😂😂, well. I hate wanting to eat everything and yet feeling like I don't want to eat...
    iamnoor iamnoor 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I need more control in my life. Being a stepmom and having my husbands children live with us full time and not being able to have my house the way I would like is frustrating...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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