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I Hate My Kids

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    I cannot believe I'm saying this,

    but I hate my children. I have 12 children and all of them are rotten. Paul age 17, Mary age 15, Eve age 15, Adam age 13, Sebastian age 12, Alice age 11, Abraham age 9, Magdalene age 9, Benedict age 7, Bridgette age 5, Zachariah age 3, and Lucy age 3 months. My husband says...
    CatLady664 CatLady664 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    2 Adhd Children......im Losing My Mind.

    I have a 8 year old boy who has SEVERE ADHD. He is medicated but my god it really does not work, we play around with his meds all the time to find a good fit. Still have yet to find one. I also have a 6 year old daughter who excuse my language is the biggest ***** already. She...
    AtMyWitsEnd27 AtMyWitsEnd27 26-30 Jun 8, 2013

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    I Wish I Would Have Gotten An Abortion With These Two

    28 year old male & 19 year old female, I had put them through private Christian schools, braces on their teeth, worked very hard for many years just to make sure they had all needs met & most of the wants...their father was out of the picture (in prison) Now the two have been...
    RapidCity RapidCity 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2012

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    What Kids?

    Kids make me sick and I just want to bunch myself. I have two and I hAte myself because I didn't have a abortion. Don't judge me until u live in the projects with roaches and dirty neighbors and loud kids ******* in the elevators. This is why i indulge myself into books because I...
    Nadiatomas Nadiatomas 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    This Does Not Feel Like My Life...

    Ok a few years back, I was a girl of 27 years.. I was single and thinking no one wanted me... Then a guy started to show interest and we got engaged and married but deep down I felt it all wrong though everyone thought  and still thinks he was heavensent.... sigh... but he...
    RosalindaG RosalindaG 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    I Should Have Never Had Kids!

    I probably am the most unmaternal mother there is! When I was growing up, I never heard an I love you or was ever hugged by my parents. That is probably why I was such a bad mother. I have no deep love for them even though they are my kids. I feel like I don't know how to love...
    sandmack55 sandmack55 56-60, F Oct 18, 2013

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    Counting Down The Days Until The Last One Turns Eighteen

    I am 34 and I hate my kids. I have 4 kids. Two boys ages 15 &12 and two girls ages 4 & 8. I can honestly say say their behavior is mainly due to my VERY controlling mother. I hate her even more than I hate my kids. My kids are destructive and don't listen to a word I say. They...
    1 Response Feb 1, 2013

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    I Hate My Kids

    I will keep this short and judge me how you like I am just being honest. I wish i never had my kids, I wish I could get rid of them. I try to be nice and take care of them as best I can but sometimes my anger shows through and I get too mad at them. My ex left me for another girl...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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    Sometimes, I Don'T Even Know How To Feel.

    So, I'm here because I started feeling like I had hate, actual HATE, for my family, especially the kids. What follows may include typos cause I'm so upset I just want to get it out. I have a 4yr old girl and a 4month old boy. Why the hell did I have another child? Admittedly...
    fedup1019 fedup1019 31-35, F Apr 29, 2013

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    Update: My two eldest twin daughters ran away.

    What on EARTH should I do. They will not come back..
    CatLady664 CatLady664 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    How Did I Get A Son Like This?

    My youngest child(boy) makes our lives absolutely miserable. He's scared of everything. He wakes up screaming regularly because he saw a shadow or some other stupid crap. Then he runs down the hall and tries to get into our room(we lock the door). He's also afraid of random...
    mercurylamp02 mercurylamp02 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    I Have A 28 Year Old Girl 2 Boys 17 And 19 And A Daughter That Is 14 And Another Son That Is 11. My 17 Year Old Is A Total Jerk, Total Pig, And Walks Around All The Time Just To Scare Me, My Husband Does Nothing. I Want To Run Away With The 14 And 11 Yr O

    I did that wrong for the women with the little kids, savor it, go scream, go to the book store and read what you want to read put your feet up and just stay there. My husband comes and gets me. thank God there is school soon. Teenagers stink they are pigs and they think I'm their...
    exhaustedangela exhaustedangela 46-50 Aug 18, 2012

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    I Hate My Two Sons

    I am a single Mom with one 32 year old and another 16 year old son, from different fathers (never married to them) who both would have nothing to do with their kids (no money, no nothing). So I raised them alone, while having my own Mother ignore them too while doing everything...
    4thclass 4thclass 56-60, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Sociopaths Are Not "made".

    I have four children - two of them are sociopaths. These two as infants were completely unlike the other two - they screamed incessantly and could not be helped. they appeared to have no conscience. I would stick up for them against their teachers, our neighbours, the police but...
    VivalaLeta VivalaLeta 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    I understand I will be judged harshly,

    yelled at, and called awful. I completely understand I'd feel the same way. But I was diagnosed with post postpartum depression. I am being treated and lying that I am getting so much better, I exaggerate how well I am doing to everyone and my therapists because I do not want to...
    MonsterMonster MonsterMonster 18-21 Apr 20

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    I Didn't Sign Up For This

    Seriously. Iove my kids and I know I am supposed to-but I wish they were 18 and in college. My son has ODD, ADHD, and is autistic. Sweetest kid ever except when he is acting out-75% of the time!! Daughter could give a crap about school, is a tomboy, plays video games all the time...
    Vodkamom Vodkamom 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    My Son Is Ruining My Marriage

    I had to talk with someone about this but not sure who to go to so I thought I'd try here. My wife has two children 8 and 5 from a previous marriage. I just celebrated my 3rd wedding anniversary. So the kids were 5 and 2 when I got with her. We consequently had a boy of our own...
    badpop badpop 46-50, M Oct 21, 2013

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    ... and I hate when people say it's just a phase, that I'm too young but when I "find the right guy I'll have kids". I find the "concept" of "looking for the father of my children...
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    I currently live with a roommate who has a baby (approximately one year old). I didn't know I would be living with a baby when I decided to move in, I was told all of the roommates...
    secretgarden22 secretgarden22 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My roommate has a baby and IMO is a terrible mother. She does drugs (alcohol and weed) while breastfeeding. She often goes out late at night to party and leaves the baby with a...
    secretgarden22 secretgarden22 22-25, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't know why, but I don't like them, and actually, I'm afraid of having children with disabilities...
    kripunova kripunova 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I live nearby my cousins houses.. we live in a small neighbourhood consists of few houses... I hate them because they are so mean to me especially these 3 people.. they are toxic...
    Loneliness78 Loneliness78 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    So I just really need to get this off my chest as it is taboo to mention such things anywhere else! I hate being a stepmom!! Yes I hate it... I didn't say I hate my step kids... I...
    Unleashedmind Unleashedmind 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6

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    It takes a lot for me to hate someone. So to be specific I don't hate the person I hate the behavior. I deal with kids five days a week all day in the summer. It's a martial arts...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I wasn't able to carry a baby to full term so when my sister called me 3 days after her daughter's 12th birthday I jumped at the chance to take my niece into our home. We had just...
    Megit Megit 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I hate when people complain that obese children are being called "fat" and "overweight" what do you expect them to be called? "We'll fit","very health kids"?? When the truth is...
    Storyguy007 Storyguy007 18-21, M Jul 13

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    Hi, I'm 16 this year. I just really need someone who can relate to me. I hate myself so much. I hate everything about myself. And this is why. I'm Asian so ever since I was young...
    jyjho jyjho 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 14

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    I absolutely positively HATE love "Why?" You ask? Let's go down the list Love is the most useless emotion, you can survive life without it. It can lead to heart break which can...
    LuckyGuy001 LuckyGuy001 13-15, M 52 mins ago

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    My ex wife and I have 3 kids. We share custody where we have alternating weeks with the kids. I pay child support and alimony. In addition to that i also pay for my two oldest...
    RichardHertz RichardHertz 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    My mom and father both smoke. Dad had quit for a long time and then a family friend got him back on it. I resent her for it. My mom hadn't smoked in years. Then one day when we...
    jcylee99 jcylee99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I just hate it when people say “you will change your mind as you get older”! Guess what, I said I didn't want kids when I was 15, now I'm 25 and I still don't want kids! I just...
    Naturalsimple Naturalsimple 22-25, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm 29 my life came crashing down around me about 2mths ago I've been given a bad hand at live so much so that I wish like the rest of my family I was dead but death isn't comming...
    CathyKenney CathyKenney 26-30 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well I hate my neighbors even more now I supposed to receive a shipment last Wednesday never received it. So I called UPS I told them I looked at my neighbors porches and I didn't...
    Slackergirl Slackergirl 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My sister is getting married tomorrow and the whole thing has been a royal pain in my ***. My sister was raised by her father (we are half sisters) and she was given every luxury...
    shoxic shoxic 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I can't stand my family.. Since I was young my real dad left when I was young I don't even know who he is and my mother she never gives me the time of day, when my step dad and...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F Jul 14

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    So what are you mixed with??? Anyone who is biracial knows how offensive those words can be my mother is Puerto Rican and white and my dad is black going to school in a small town...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 20

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    I have been dating my bf for over a year now and we have lived together for most of it. We are extremely happy and compatible and plan to marry (unannounced as of yet). I have...
    Nate427 Nate427 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    My stepson aged 14 has been really hostile to me and my two new sons 14 & 16. My partner and stepsons dad split about a year ago (nothing to do with me). The dad of my stepson owns...
    derick113 derick113 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    My stepson aged 14 has been really hostile to me and my two new sons 14 & 16. My partner and stepsons dad split about a year ago (nothing to do with me). The dad of my stepson owns...
    derick113 derick113 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    So yesterday I had to baby sit two kids ages 7 and 5 and holy **** these two drove me insane never have I had so much trouble with kids their age I use to baby sit a 4 and 2 year...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I love my stepkids, but I hate their mom(Who doesn't, I guess? :P). She is a drunk and she is miserable and wants everyone around her to be miserable. Last night she called the...
    justtakestime justtakestime 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I feel like she is haunting me from the grave! The grave of get out of our life! We told my MIL she was to no longer contact us at all period. She told us our son was a mistake...
    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 4

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    Brain: Hello. Me: Hi. Brain: Are you enjoying the moment? Me: Actually, yes I am! Brain: I'm glad to hear that. Allow me to relash all of your failures and tell you everything...
    kitkat923 kitkat923 13-15, F Jul 15

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    I'm so angry with my mum. My dad died when I was 6 and when we needed her the most she decided to wallow in her own crap, mostly guilt because she was having an affair behind his...
    fiveplusfourpennies fiveplusfourpennies 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Have you ever just sat and started to cry?. Because you know that no her you do will ever take away the pain. So it all started at the age of 14 I was a bit bigger than the other...
    anonymousgirl1010 anonymousgirl1010 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Ok so I have a bf who has a son with someone else and me and him also have a daughter together. Since day one of me and him being together she's been a pain. She hates me with a...
    rrhdh rrhdh 18-21, F Jul 21

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    I have been going through a tough in the past couple years I'm also recovering from reconstructive surgery on my knee I'm not 100 percent and she used to helped me out she doesnt...
    Robyned Robyned 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hate It When Old People Say Kids Bring Pedos On Themselves
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I learned from an early age that my parents didn't love me, they hated me. Don't misunderstand my parents love her daughter, they just hate every characteristic that makes me... me...
    SSLCO SSLCO 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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