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I Hate My Kids

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 40 People

    My Son Is Ruining My Marriage

    I had to talk with someone about this but not sure who to go to so I thought I'd try here. My wife has two children 8 and 5 from a previous marriage. I just celebrated my 3rd wedding anniversary. So the kids were 5 and 2 when I got with her. We consequently had a boy of our own...
    badpop badpop 46-50, M Oct 21, 2013

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    Sometimes, I Don'T Even Know How To Feel.

    So, I'm here because I started feeling like I had hate, actual HATE, for my family, especially the kids. What follows may include typos cause I'm so upset I just want to get it out. I have a 4yr old girl and a 4month old boy. Why the hell did I have another child? Admittedly...
    fedup1019 fedup1019 31-35, F Apr 29, 2013

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    I Should Have Never Had Kids!

    I probably am the most unmaternal mother there is! When I was growing up, I never heard an I love you or was ever hugged by my parents. That is probably why I was such a bad mother. I have no deep love for them even though they are my kids. I feel like I don't know how to love...
    sandmack55 sandmack55 56-60, F Oct 18, 2013

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    2 Adhd Children......im Losing My Mind.

    I have a 8 year old boy who has SEVERE ADHD. He is medicated but my god it really does not work, we play around with his meds all the time to find a good fit. Still have yet to find one. I also have a 6 year old daughter who excuse my language is the biggest ***** already. She...
    AtMyWitsEnd27 AtMyWitsEnd27 26-30 Jun 8, 2013

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    I Have A 28 Year Old Girl 2 Boys 17 And 19 And A Daughter That Is 14 And Another Son That Is 11. My 17 Year Old Is A Total Jerk, Total Pig, And Walks Around All The Time Just To Scare Me, My Husband Does Nothing. I Want To Run Away With The 14 And 11 Yr O

    I did that wrong for the women with the little kids, savor it, go scream, go to the book store and read what you want to read put your feet up and just stay there. My husband comes and gets me. thank God there is school soon. Teenagers stink they are pigs and they think I'm their...
    exhaustedangela exhaustedangela 46-50 Aug 18, 2012

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    I understand I will be judged harshly,

    yelled at, and called awful. I completely understand I'd feel the same way. But I was diagnosed with post postpartum depression. I am being treated and lying that I am getting so much better, I exaggerate how well I am doing to everyone and my therapists because I do not want to...
    MonsterMonster MonsterMonster 18-21 Apr 20

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    Sociopaths Are Not "made".

    I have four children - two of them are sociopaths. These two as infants were completely unlike the other two - they screamed incessantly and could not be helped. they appeared to have no conscience. I would stick up for them against their teachers, our neighbours, the police but...
    VivalaLeta VivalaLeta 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    How Did I Get A Son Like This?

    My youngest child(boy) makes our lives absolutely miserable. He's scared of everything. He wakes up screaming regularly because he saw a shadow or some other stupid crap. Then he runs down the hall and tries to get into our room(we lock the door). He's also afraid of random...
    mercurylamp02 mercurylamp02 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    I Wish I Would Have Gotten An Abortion With These Two

    28 year old male & 19 year old female, I had put them through private Christian schools, braces on their teeth, worked very hard for many years just to make sure they had all needs met & most of the wants...their father was out of the picture (in prison) Now the two have been...
    RapidCity RapidCity 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2012

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    I Didn't Sign Up For This

    Seriously. Iove my kids and I know I am supposed to-but I wish they were 18 and in college. My son has ODD, ADHD, and is autistic. Sweetest kid ever except when he is acting out-75% of the time!! Daughter could give a crap about school, is a tomboy, plays video games all the time...
    Vodkamom Vodkamom 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    What Kids?

    Kids make me sick and I just want to bunch myself. I have two and I hAte myself because I didn't have a abortion. Don't judge me until u live in the projects with roaches and dirty neighbors and loud kids ******* in the elevators. This is why i indulge myself into books because I...
    Nadiatomas Nadiatomas 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    Counting Down The Days Until The Last One Turns Eighteen

    I am 34 and I hate my kids. I have 4 kids. Two boys ages 15 &12 and two girls ages 4 & 8. I can honestly say say their behavior is mainly due to my VERY controlling mother. I hate her even more than I hate my kids. My kids are destructive and don't listen to a word I say. They...
    1 Response Feb 1, 2013

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    This Does Not Feel Like My Life...

    Ok a few years back, I was a girl of 27 years.. I was single and thinking no one wanted me... Then a guy started to show interest and we got engaged and married but deep down I felt it all wrong though everyone thought  and still thinks he was heavensent.... sigh... but he...
    RosalindaG RosalindaG 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    I Hate My Kids

    I will keep this short and judge me how you like I am just being honest. I wish i never had my kids, I wish I could get rid of them. I try to be nice and take care of them as best I can but sometimes my anger shows through and I get too mad at them. My ex left me for another girl...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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    I cannot believe I'm saying this,

    but I hate my children. I have 12 children and all of them are rotten. Paul age 17, Mary age 15, Eve age 15, Adam age 13, Sebastian age 12, Alice age 11, Abraham age 9, Magdalene age 9, Benedict age 7, Bridgette age 5, Zachariah age 3, and Lucy age 3 months. My husband says...
    CatLady664 CatLady664 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Update: My two eldest twin daughters ran away.

    What on EARTH should I do. They will not come back..
    CatLady664 CatLady664 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    I Hate My Two Sons

    I am a single Mom with one 32 year old and another 16 year old son, from different fathers (never married to them) who both would have nothing to do with their kids (no money, no nothing). So I raised them alone, while having my own Mother ignore them too while doing everything...
    4thclass 4thclass 56-60, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Probably something that always was with me. Because growing up I never liked baby dolls for little girls. I just didn't like those toys or ever want one. I just never liked them...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45, T Oct 16

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    I really whole heartedly hate kids. Whenever I say this people think i'm going through a phase, no it is my choice as a fertile woman not to have any. Probably more so hate them bc...
    Offing Offing 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    I've never understood how anyone could look at people with kids or babies and say to themselves, "Yeah, that looks like fun. That would make my life better." How HIGH would you...
    lillydontcare lillydontcare 26-30 1 day ago

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    well, i dont teach anymore, but i thought id write this post from all the past pent up anger and frustration lol. well, ive never taught at a public school, and my respect goes out...
    blahblah2789 blahblah2789 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    If I have kids, this is what could happen to them 1: I have very low stress tolerance levels. I could ignore the child because I can't take care of it properly from the extreme...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45, T 2 Responses Oct 16

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    I hate them. I am 16 years old, in grade nine, my classmates and I had to take home a computerised baby, which woke me up at 3am for whatever reason. It screamed and cried, and I...
    minecraftmaniac1998 minecraftmaniac1998 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 8

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    This past 3 months, I have been living in an basement apartment. I was in a rough patch, money wise, so I chose to live in a basement with a Jewish landlord walking above me. A...
    iwannarant iwannarant 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    I hate kids being on EP. I will not lie about that... but the fact that they are on here asking questions they should be asking their parents may be an indication of them searching...
    SKiesterly SKiesterly 36-40, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's like being punched in the ribs...with an iron glove...my bones are crunching and shattering...I hate this road I take to her house...every week..I hate to see my cheating ex...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    My family has finally put me over the edge. I have 4 years of my life watching a bunch of disrespectful kids. I've given up many experiences in my life. I've missed my friend's...
    patrick199 patrick199 16-17, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Some of the people are underaged who have knowingly done so to acces adult chats with people ,,but young kids dont realise it will only harm them and most adults will come to know...
    romell romell 36-40, M 21 hrs ago

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    I went to the movies today with my boyfriend to see Ouija. It sounded like the entire theatre was talking throughout the ENTIRE thing, and shouting. The screams from the kids hurt...
    elaineoxxy elaineoxxy 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I don't need to hear anyone's mean comments I need to hear from women who can help me deal with this child. First of all my little terror is my 9 year old going on 3 step daughter...
    Julierja Julierja 26-30, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    This may seem a bit Pollyanna, however, I do not know what it feels like to hate. I suppose I am lucky in a way. Don't let me mislead you though, I've been hated and I do not get...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F Oct 5

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    ***RANT***Don't like, to post matters that are so deep and so personal. but I'm a mother of a four year old, and I just want the best for her. the problem I'm having is when I'm...
    Luckycharm2014 Luckycharm2014 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    God ,i can't stand him!He is such a loser!Never has a dime to his name,steals money from the kids,(we have 2 kids,12 and 16).I'am remarried,for five years now,and i can't get my...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 10 Responses Sep 29

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    Attention Stepmom's: Put yourself first. I recently left my husband this week after 10 years of marriage. I was unhappy with the conditions of our home and how he never held his...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 15

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    So, this girl, she is my best friend. She is also my cousin, so we've known each other since we were born and stuff. She used to be kinda mean, so didn't like her. But then she...
    AvaRawr AvaRawr 16-17, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    My dad is the most miserable cranky unhappy person. He's very close to having agoraphobia too. He only leaves the house to go to a restaurant or if my mom forces him. All of my...
    cloey213 cloey213 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 26

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    Yesterday morning there was a *breaking news* story about a murder that took place around midnight Saturday night (very close to where I live). A husband had strangled his wife to...
    Polly73 Polly73 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    I hate my ex h for what he did to me and his sons.he was such a great dad n h .till he started affair with his best mates wife.who we had known years.he kept coming back promising...
    Pommy8 Pommy8 51-55, F Oct 4

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    Omg if only i could turn back time, i would never have married my husband and realize that i dont like living with his kids. It was just the two of us when we got married but then...
    missmiserable32 missmiserable32 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 27

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    I really shouldnt hate it, but it is the hardest most hurtful thing in the world. Especially when the stepkids have a bio mom like the one i deal with. I really need some...
    Kcmomof5 Kcmomof5 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 13

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    Ok. Short story. Aren't they all. Married for 20 years to college sweetheart. He tells me he doesn't love me and he thinks he never did. (All of this realization happens on the...
    canirunaway canirunaway 46-50, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate being the last person on his list.. Outside of work & the kids - I am last. I'm tired of him getting calls/texts everyday from his ex.. Interrupting anytime I ever get with...
    patientlove patientlove 22-25 3 Responses Oct 11

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    I removed my kids from the local school and decided to homeschool them. What happened after that shockingly amazed me. My kids started to be totally isolated from their 'street...
    adventure2003 adventure2003 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 29

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    i dont even know where to begin with this one. shes five years older then me. we have gone through points in our relationship where we get along and then we dont, at all. we took...
    LiveloveJ LiveloveJ 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 17

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    My ex and I were together for 7 years. The last year was extremely tough on our relationship, we have 2 very young children together. At the time, my husband was working two jobs...
    MsUnderstanding MsUnderstanding 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 6

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    I'm the parent that my kids hate, but guess what: I can't stand my kids! Teens are mean, selfish, and incredibly ignorant about virtually everything! Teens are good at video...
    LifeDispenser LifeDispenser 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 17

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    :'( Omg what some ppl will do I just watched a video on this guy that had taken his son from the mom and when I say this I mean actually just took the son and disappeared with him...
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F Sep 28

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    :'( Omg what some ppl will do I just watched a video on this guy that had taken his son from the mom and when I say this I mean actually just took the son and disappeared with him...
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F Sep 28

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    I really hate myself. I act like a 5 year old in so many situations and I really don't understand myself. I don't understand why I have friends, sometimes I act like SUCH a...
    mrskoala mrskoala 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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