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I Hate My Kids

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 40 People

    Sometimes, I Don'T Even Know How To Feel.

    So, I'm here because I started feeling like I had hate, actual HATE, for my family, especially the kids. What follows may include typos cause I'm so upset I just want to get it out. I have a 4yr old girl and a 4month old boy. Why the hell did I have another child? Admittedly...
    fedup1019 fedup1019 31-35, F Apr 29, 2013

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    Sociopaths Are Not "made".

    I have four children - two of them are sociopaths. These two as infants were completely unlike the other two - they screamed incessantly and could not be helped. they appeared to have no conscience. I would stick up for them against their teachers, our neighbours, the police but...
    VivalaLeta VivalaLeta 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    Counting Down The Days Until The Last One Turns Eighteen

    I am 34 and I hate my kids. I have 4 kids. Two boys ages 15 &12 and two girls ages 4 & 8. I can honestly say say their behavior is mainly due to my VERY controlling mother. I hate her even more than I hate my kids. My kids are destructive and don't listen to a word I say. They...
    1 Response Feb 1, 2013

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    2 Adhd Children......im Losing My Mind.

    I have a 8 year old boy who has SEVERE ADHD. He is medicated but my god it really does not work, we play around with his meds all the time to find a good fit. Still have yet to find one. I also have a 6 year old daughter who excuse my language is the biggest ***** already. She...
    AtMyWitsEnd27 AtMyWitsEnd27 26-30 Jun 8, 2013

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    What Kids?

    Kids make me sick and I just want to bunch myself. I have two and I hAte myself because I didn't have a abortion. Don't judge me until u live in the projects with roaches and dirty neighbors and loud kids ******* in the elevators. This is why i indulge myself into books because I...
    Nadiatomas Nadiatomas 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    My Son Is Ruining My Marriage

    I had to talk with someone about this but not sure who to go to so I thought I'd try here. My wife has two children 8 and 5 from a previous marriage. I just celebrated my 3rd wedding anniversary. So the kids were 5 and 2 when I got with her. We consequently had a boy of our own...
    badpop badpop 46-50, M Oct 21, 2013

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    I Wish I Would Have Gotten An Abortion With These Two

    28 year old male & 19 year old female, I had put them through private Christian schools, braces on their teeth, worked very hard for many years just to make sure they had all needs met & most of the wants...their father was out of the picture (in prison) Now the two have been...
    RapidCity RapidCity 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2012

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    I cannot believe I'm saying this,

    but I hate my children. I have 12 children and all of them are rotten. Paul age 17, Mary age 15, Eve age 15, Adam age 13, Sebastian age 12, Alice age 11, Abraham age 9, Magdalene age 9, Benedict age 7, Bridgette age 5, Zachariah age 3, and Lucy age 3 months. My husband says...
    CatLady664 CatLady664 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I Hate My Two Sons

    I am a single Mom with one 32 year old and another 16 year old son, from different fathers (never married to them) who both would have nothing to do with their kids (no money, no nothing). So I raised them alone, while having my own Mother ignore them too while doing everything...
    4thclass 4thclass 56-60, F Aug 22, 2013

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    I understand I will be judged harshly,

    yelled at, and called awful. I completely understand I'd feel the same way. But I was diagnosed with post postpartum depression. I am being treated and lying that I am getting so much better, I exaggerate how well I am doing to everyone and my therapists because I do not want to...
    MonsterMonster MonsterMonster 18-21 Apr 20

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    I Hate My Kids

    I will keep this short and judge me how you like I am just being honest. I wish i never had my kids, I wish I could get rid of them. I try to be nice and take care of them as best I can but sometimes my anger shows through and I get too mad at them. My ex left me for another girl...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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    How Did I Get A Son Like This?

    My youngest child(boy) makes our lives absolutely miserable. He's scared of everything. He wakes up screaming regularly because he saw a shadow or some other stupid crap. Then he runs down the hall and tries to get into our room(we lock the door). He's also afraid of random...
    mercurylamp02 mercurylamp02 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    This Does Not Feel Like My Life...

    Ok a few years back, I was a girl of 27 years.. I was single and thinking no one wanted me... Then a guy started to show interest and we got engaged and married but deep down I felt it all wrong though everyone thought  and still thinks he was heavensent.... sigh... but he...
    RosalindaG RosalindaG 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    I Have A 28 Year Old Girl 2 Boys 17 And 19 And A Daughter That Is 14 And Another Son That Is 11. My 17 Year Old Is A Total Jerk, Total Pig, And Walks Around All The Time Just To Scare Me, My Husband Does Nothing. I Want To Run Away With The 14 And 11 Yr O

    I did that wrong for the women with the little kids, savor it, go scream, go to the book store and read what you want to read put your feet up and just stay there. My husband comes and gets me. thank God there is school soon. Teenagers stink they are pigs and they think I'm their...
    exhaustedangela exhaustedangela 46-50 Aug 18, 2012

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    Update: My two eldest twin daughters ran away.

    What on EARTH should I do. They will not come back..
    CatLady664 CatLady664 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    I Didn't Sign Up For This

    Seriously. Iove my kids and I know I am supposed to-but I wish they were 18 and in college. My son has ODD, ADHD, and is autistic. Sweetest kid ever except when he is acting out-75% of the time!! Daughter could give a crap about school, is a tomboy, plays video games all the time...
    Vodkamom Vodkamom 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    I Should Have Never Had Kids!

    I probably am the most unmaternal mother there is! When I was growing up, I never heard an I love you or was ever hugged by my parents. That is probably why I was such a bad mother. I have no deep love for them even though they are my kids. I feel like I don't know how to love...
    sandmack55 sandmack55 56-60, F Oct 18, 2013

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    I just wanted to say im so glad I found this group. I had no idea that there were so many people that felt the same way I do about kids! It's very refreshing.
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    At least I am being honest. I don't pretend like I love them like others do. I hate baby talk, I hate kids yelling. They are so annoying. They are like little demons. They have no...
    AmberDD AmberDD 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    Telling my experience is like carefully unraveling delicate threads one by one from a blanket of chaos. My children are 4 and 6. They were born into a marriage of abuse loosely...
    Benandmcsmom Benandmcsmom 31-35, F 8 hrs ago

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    I cannot stand my parents. My biological parents , anyway. But I suppose I should start with my background. My mom got pregnant with me when she was 16, had me right after she...
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    School is such a waste of time. Instead of teaching us important life skills (financial literacy, how to function in society, buisiness, etc.), they waste time relentlessly trying...
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    Today is my oldest's 23 is my oldest's birthday. A flood of memories that can accurately be called wonderful come to mind--his birth, my first diaper change, his joy at age 3 when...
    KnightMoves KnightMoves 46-50, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Please excuse my rant as this will be a long story. It was a given...all people lie. There are white lies that are harmless and real lies that can harm. White lies, I can tolerate...
    bittersweethermit bittersweethermit 26-30, F Aug 29

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    According to my three children, I'm antique! 😟 I was in the living room with my kids... they were sitting down to watch TV, and I was logging into the computer. Chatting about...
    Unjusted Unjusted 36-40, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Well, I'll be going back to school in about 5 days and I remembered how I f*cking hate that place. I promise to you, reader, that I will keep calm. I'll state general facts and my...
    Balkan1996 Balkan1996 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    I hate the fact that he's not here anymore. I hate the fact that we can't talk anymore. I hate the fact that we can't think of meeting each other anymore. But worst of all, I hate...
    Moon95 Moon95 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    This is my first time posting and I need to get some stress out since I feel there is nobody around me psychically to communicate with in terms of my experience. I live in a medium...
    cbkmc24 cbkmc24 22-25, M Sep 10

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    Today I just need to vent. I know that I shouldn't hate her, and that honestly, love - not romantic- but agape or unconditional love is the only way ahead. I honestly don't know if...
    Boredonline4discovery Boredonline4discovery 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I can relate to all of the stories that evolve around "stepchildren." My husband and I have been married for 10 years, together for 12 years. I have a son and daughter, my...
    pinterest pinterest 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I have a stepmom who wants to sue my dad because of our wrongdoings towards her and her kids. We never did anything bad to her and her family. But she's using us(my siblings and I...
    DaniyelHaazik DaniyelHaazik 18-21, M Aug 18

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    I was always close to my brother when we were growing up. When we grew up and moved into our own lives, I lost contact with him for a few years. Then I signed up on Facebook and we...
    Baralinel Baralinel 26-30, F Aug 19

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    Well not hate but dislike. Can't be hate because my husband is one of them. I will go out for two hours and come home to a house that looks like it's been vandalized. I go out...
    HushedThoughts HushedThoughts 22-25 1 Response a week ago

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    There were some people I met in my life that if I knew now, I'd love to be around. I'm a different person. I want to engage. I wish I had maintained relationships with certain...
    shameinnoshame shameinnoshame 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I have a sister I'm law that hates me, now one thing is to hate someone,another is trying to sabotage ur sisters happiness. I feel she do it because she never had a man in her life...
    jay305 jay305 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    Maybe hate isn't the right word. I don't hate him. I hate his actions. He and my mom have been having marriage issues lately and he makes sure to always tell me it's my fault and...
    savannaha savannaha 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I feel like my step-mother hates me as clearly as I feel pain if I poke my own eyes. Its an almost tangible, clear feeling that was at the center of my childhood experience. Now...
    whitemut whitemut 13-15, M Sep 5

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    I am so confused right now. I met a man 2 years ago online. We met in person and immediately hit it off. He was a single dad of 3 & I'm a single mom of one. I had no plans...
    stepmominpgh stepmominpgh 36-40, F Aug 31

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    It is a tough thing to admit, and for some years I thought of it as more of a love/hate - relationship. But there is little love left now. Only hate, frustration, anger and then...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 20

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    My dad left when I was 3, and our mother is so sick in the head that she tells us to this day that our dad left because he didn't want children. That he had wanted her to abort...
    Ilovehavingbraces Ilovehavingbraces 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I was fishing at the local lake one night and as I was sitting there I heard footsteps walk up behind me. I turned around just in time to see two kids who looked like they were...
    whsnerd whsnerd 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 25

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    I have this aunt-in-law that doesn't take care of her kids and send them over to my house every time. I've been babysitting them ever since I was in elementary and now I'm in...
    adl117blue adl117blue 13-15, F Aug 31

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    I have a boyfriend we have been together now for three years. We have a baby together a year and a half. I have a son with my previous, and he has two sons with his ex wife... Four...
    lovinglife222 lovinglife222 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    It seems like I never have a minute to myself. A minute where I can just relax and breathe. I'm pretty much raising 2 small children by myself. I work 48+ hours a week. At the end...
    JacobsGirl360 JacobsGirl360 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    Her last scandal: One of her dancers spanked her bum with a Mexican flag as she was twerking during a performance in Monterrey. I don't hate because she is an awful singer, there...
    Danceofhours Danceofhours 36-40, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    They hate me so I hate them back. It's childish and petty but frankly, I could give a bleep. They are selfish and pretentious. My bro and sis are carbon copy toxic family members...
    candie29 candie29 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    So today marks a month that I have been in college and I'm dreading every day of it. Going into college, I expected it to be a fun and amazing experience because of all the stories...
    smsco smsco 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I hate having anxiety and depression and panic attacks and I hate having to take meds also this app has helped a lot to get stuff off my mind and I have had fewer attacks recently
    Zeontyon Zeontyon 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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