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I Hate My Looks

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    My Reflection

    The old dark hatred is creeping up again. I haven't felt it since I was a teenager, when it was easy to dismiss it as teen angst. Now I am not a teenager and it's coming back. I hate my reflection, I obsess about my reflection. It devours my entire life. I might be having a happy...
    PreRaphaeliteEyes PreRaphaeliteEyes 18-21, F Nov 1, 2013

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    Casting!!! Want To Lose Weight?

    NOW CASTING WOMEN AGES 18-35 THAT WANT TO LOSE 50-85 lbs. AND SHOW OFF THEIR NEW BOD'S! Where do you fantasize about showing off your new physique and who is the one that you want to flaunt it in front of most? • a childhood bully at a family reunion • an old nemesis or...
    Casting2012 Casting2012 26-30 Jul 27, 2012

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    I've Hated How I Looked Since I Was 14

    i was made fun of a lot about my face as a freshmen in high school ever since then(19 now)  i feel disgusted when i look at myself in the mirror, i wish i could be someone else, i think everyone is prettier then me, i avoid talking to people cause i worry what they think of...
    questionmark555 questionmark555 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2009

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    You're Beautiful

    Butterflies cant see their wings, they cant see how beautiful they truly are. they are, and everyone around them can see that. but they cant. kinda, like you everyone is beautiful in their own unique, but what matters most in the amazing soul you have on the inside <3 dont...
    onelittlecat onelittlecat 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    D: Fml

    i have a big chin, big forehead, and big lips. my face looks like a really pretty face with a super streched chin and forehead, and small eyes. my eyes arent slits, just that my eyeballs are small. i look like the trollface, and i used to get called that in school. anybody have...
    Allyson1998 Allyson1998 13-15 Dec 24, 2011

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    It Doesn'T Matter What You Look Like , We Are All Truly Beautiful!

    I don't know how it happened but I finally woke up. I've woken up to see that all women , including myself, posses amazing beauty. I don't want to talk about the cliche of it being internal beauty. We all know that exists. We also tend to say it when we want to comfort one...
    Tryn2Heal Tryn2Heal 41-45 1 Response Apr 16, 2013

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    God Do I Hate My Looks!

    Every time I look in the mirror I feel like my face is so crooked that I look like Sloth from The Goonies.  I know my face is crooked.  I used to wear glasses and I could always see they were crooked on my face.  I had a hard time finding a pair where the frames were just...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F Jul 26, 2011

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    I have a large labia minors,

    those of you who don't know what that is, it's the little flab inside the fold of your vagina. Most aren't seen but mine hangs out like roast beef. 😔
    Lindsey238 Lindsey238 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    I Don't Get Why

    I baffle even myself at times. Why do I feel this way? Why do I feel the constant need to be prettier, to be more beautiful? I'm not dead skinny, but my waist is slim. My hair isn't lustrous, but it's fairly tamable and non-greasy most days. My eyes are covered by glasses, but...
    LittleMiss4Eyes LittleMiss4Eyes 18-21, F May 4, 2013

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    It Is Bad But I Cannot Stop Myself...

    I already accepted my looks, my whole image... but there will be always times when I question why is it me to have this look? Why do I need to look like this? *sigh*
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

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    Not

    My favorite person in the mirror I must say. I just don't think I'm aging well and feel that looking at me as I look back is like seeing a total stranger. *heavy sigh*
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2009

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    Hating Myself

    i think most people hate their look and wt i hate more is that i hate myself for my look and ask people to love me for who i am !! that's stupid if i can't love myself for who i am how can i ask other to do ! we care a lot abt look maybe cuz that's wt people notice first anyway i...
    soma79 soma79 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2013

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    I took a really gay picture of myself

    and I made it my profile picture. How is it? Be honest? Should I keep it or change it back to the RHCP picture I had?
    teddyisnotcool teddyisnotcool 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2014

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    I Am The Ugliest Girl

    I've looked in the mirror a million times, taken close up pictures, have studied my face to where I know every single flaw. And let me tell you there are a lot of flaws. I try to find girls uglier than me and I just can't. I'm disgusting. And I have proof. No guys are attracted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

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    Another Story About This Subject

    Yep, once again, I'm writing a story about how much my perception of how I look affects my daily life and my ability to get close to people and form healthy relationships.I loathe my reflection. I avoid physical contact with people at all costs, and if possible, I avoid them...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Sep 27, 2011

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    Well actually everything about myself.

    Thanks to my parents who never had a good word for me and thanks to my so called life partner who says that he has never loved me and that our marriage was just a compromise. If only there was someone who could love me and accept me for who I am !
    karmicsouls karmicsouls 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    I Hate My Body

    I think I'm too fat cause my mom and DaD always making fun of my weight its goes up and Down from stress and I can't take it no more this is my last year in high school and I feel as if I'm just going to eat like crazy when I go to college I'm 116 IBS and 5'1 my parents been...
    123unhappyrefrian 123unhappyrefrian 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2013

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    I Need To Wake Up And Smell The Coffee!

    What is the matter with me? I should be loving myself and embracing myself, because I´m beautiful and unique. But I don´t! Every time when I see those commercials about Fitness and all those "models" showing their flawless bodies,I get sad and I cry, because it makes me...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    It disgusts me how shallow people can be, I'm over society putting people down because we are "not skinny enough" or in a guys case not "muscly enough" looks can only get you so...
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    I don't completely hate my life I just hate most things involved with my life, including myself
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    Okay noe dont hate for this but it must be said. I care about looks but Im not saying I dont care about personality. People have to get it that we are sexual beings. We find love...
    AlphaSigmaFuror AlphaSigmaFuror 13-15, M 15 hrs ago

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    idk how to feel I'm always that person who looks out for my friends like recently she was being bullied I stuck up for her but when I just wanted to talk to her about my problems...
    Darkprincess24 Darkprincess24 13-15, F 21 hrs ago

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    I HATE my husband's ex...I finally said it! My husband dated this woman for a few months when he realized she was wrong for him and told her he didn't see this having a future bc...
    LAE1005 LAE1005 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I really do hate it more than anything . It's like cancer loves my family . My aunt passed away two months ago , she had ovarian cancer and lung cancer . but we discovered that...
    serla12 serla12 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Confusedlady1 is the same account as lagertha344 and Kattyep....looks like some fat canadian is getting lazy with his trolling!
    i182 i182 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I had sex with a guy I just met. I wasn't expecting it so I didn't do any female landscaping.. oops.. what can I say it happens. Anyways the other day we were drinking and smoking...
    handache handache 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Confession I hate dating. I hate it so much that it leads me to be envious of mundane, comfortable and consistent boring marriages of my friends. I hate having to be somebody else...
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    She's always being mean to me. Calling me bald head and ugly and stupid. I wish that somebody in this family understood me. I literally have no one to talk to that would understand...
    LoveDimpless LoveDimpless 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Some people on here suck they ask you for your picture and you send it to them and they instantly blocked seriously can you be anymore immature???? How about trying to get to know...
    Jessa28 Jessa28 26-30, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hi.im a 29 year old male and this is my story.iv started getting acne from the age 13 up until 24.i wasnt bad looking at all.school was torture,i hated going to school and would...
    bluemetalx bluemetalx 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    What is with these "Challenges". I mean as soon as a trend is set which seems to be every month or so EVERYBODY is following it. Like do anybody have a mind of their own? Can you...
    DaCreativeChild DaCreativeChild 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    she's more beautiful than me, she looks nice than me, she's way too cool than me. i give up. ive got nothing. im just a nerdy debater that came out of nowhere..
    Fabulousmmm Fabulousmmm 18-21 3 days ago

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    We all learned how things are from the environment we grew up in. My MIL learned to manipulate to get what she wanted because her father made it so he wasn’t approachable, so she...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    When I look at pics of myself it literally makes me feel like vomiting, I have so many imperfections that my face looks like a puzzle waiting to be solved by puberty, my profile...
    Readaholic11 Readaholic11 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It looks ******* ugly, I'm deciding if I should go bald or have my hair trimmed
    Gill1998 Gill1998 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I hate it when one group of people looks down on another group of people just because they are different from them. There's not a single one of us who is perfect and no one race is...
    marlene41298 marlene41298 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    My hair looks exactly like this photo only shorter, if it was longer that would be great
    bmorev bmorev 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Looks are a bonus, sure. But if you've got zero personality, you can be super hot and I won't care. I once (somehow) managed a date with a really beautiful woman who was very...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    i hate my mother she is a *****. i don't believe she loves me , i don't love her. she doesnt understand me , she's not very supportive , she's a hypocrite , i hate the way she...
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