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I Hate My Looks

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    Yep, once again, I'm writing a story about how much my perception of how I look affects my daily life and my ability to get close to people and form healthy relationships.I loathe my reflection. I avoid physical contact with people at all costs, and if possible, I avoid them...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Sep 27, 2011

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    It Is Bad But I Cannot Stop Myself...

    I already accepted my looks, my whole image... but there will be always times when I question why is it me to have this look? Why do I need to look like this? *sigh*
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    Hating Myself

    i think most people hate their look and wt i hate more is that i hate myself for my look and ask people to love me for who i am !! that's stupid if i can't love myself for who i am how can i ask other to do ! we care a lot abt look maybe cuz that's wt people notice first anyway i...
    soma79 soma79 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2013

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    I took a really gay picture of myself

    and I made it my profile picture. How is it? Be honest? Should I keep it or change it back to the RHCP picture I had?
    teddyisnotcool teddyisnotcool 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    I have a large labia minors,

    those of you who don't know what that is, it's the little flab inside the fold of your vagina. Most aren't seen but mine hangs out like roast beef. 😔
    Lindsey238 Lindsey238 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    It Doesn'T Matter What You Look Like , We Are All Truly Beautiful!

    I don't know how it happened but I finally woke up. I've woken up to see that all women , including myself, posses amazing beauty. I don't want to talk about the cliche of it being internal beauty. We all know that exists. We also tend to say it when we want to comfort one...
    Tryn2Heal Tryn2Heal 41-45 1 Response Apr 16, 2013

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    I've Hated How I Looked Since I Was 14

    i was made fun of a lot about my face as a freshmen in high school ever since then(19 now)  i feel disgusted when i look at myself in the mirror, i wish i could be someone else, i think everyone is prettier then me, i avoid talking to people cause i worry what they think of...
    questionmark555 questionmark555 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2009

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    I Need To Wake Up And Smell The Coffee!

    What is the matter with me? I should be loving myself and embracing myself, because I´m beautiful and unique. But I don´t! Every time when I see those commercials about Fitness and all those "models" showing their flawless bodies,I get sad and I cry, because it makes me...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    Not

    My favorite person in the mirror I must say. I just don't think I'm aging well and feel that looking at me as I look back is like seeing a total stranger. *heavy sigh*
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2009

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    I Am The Ugliest Girl

    I've looked in the mirror a million times, taken close up pictures, have studied my face to where I know every single flaw. And let me tell you there are a lot of flaws. I try to find girls uglier than me and I just can't. I'm disgusting. And I have proof. No guys are attracted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

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    I Don't Get Why

    I baffle even myself at times. Why do I feel this way? Why do I feel the constant need to be prettier, to be more beautiful? I'm not dead skinny, but my waist is slim. My hair isn't lustrous, but it's fairly tamable and non-greasy most days. My eyes are covered by glasses, but...
    LittleMiss4Eyes LittleMiss4Eyes 16-17, F May 4, 2013

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    You're Beautiful

    Butterflies cant see their wings, they cant see how beautiful they truly are. they are, and everyone around them can see that. but they cant. kinda, like you everyone is beautiful in their own unique, but what matters most in the amazing soul you have on the inside <3 dont...
    onelittlecat onelittlecat 13-15, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    God Do I Hate My Looks!

    Every time I look in the mirror I feel like my face is so crooked that I look like Sloth from The Goonies.  I know my face is crooked.  I used to wear glasses and I could always see they were crooked on my face.  I had a hard time finding a pair where the frames were just...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F Jul 26, 2011

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    The Military

    One of the big issues I have with being in the military is this dumb waist measurement in the PT test. Now Im in great shape and Im healthy I do over 70 push ups and sit ups and my 1.5 mile run time is in the 10 minute area but I can never get maxiumum points for my waist...
    hal84 hal84 26-30, M 5 Responses Mar 10, 2013

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    Casting!!! Want To Lose Weight?

    NOW CASTING WOMEN AGES 18-35 THAT WANT TO LOSE 50-85 lbs. AND SHOW OFF THEIR NEW BOD'S! Where do you fantasize about showing off your new physique and who is the one that you want to flaunt it in front of most? • a childhood bully at a family reunion • an old nemesis or...
    Casting2012 Casting2012 26-30 Jul 27, 2012

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    D: Fml

    i have a big chin, big forehead, and big lips. my face looks like a really pretty face with a super streched chin and forehead, and small eyes. my eyes arent slits, just that my eyeballs are small. i look like the trollface, and i used to get called that in school. anybody have...
    Allyson1998 Allyson1998 13-15 1 Response Dec 24, 2011

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    I Hate My Body

    I think I'm too fat cause my mom and DaD always making fun of my weight its goes up and Down from stress and I can't take it no more this is my last year in high school and I feel as if I'm just going to eat like crazy when I go to college I'm 116 IBS and 5'1 my parents been...
    123unhappyrefrian 123unhappyrefrian 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2013

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    My Reflection

    The old dark hatred is creeping up again. I haven't felt it since I was a teenager, when it was easy to dismiss it as teen angst. Now I am not a teenager and it's coming back. I hate my reflection, I obsess about my reflection. It devours my entire life. I might be having a happy...
    PreRaphaeliteEyes PreRaphaeliteEyes 18-21, F Nov 1, 2013

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    Unpopular opinion, I know, but I'm cutting through the bullshit. Looks matter. Are they the only thing that matter? Good god no! But there's a minimum level of physical attraction...
    RustinCohle RustinCohle 18-21, M 14 hrs ago

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    Is there a group "I believe looks are everything". I shall go and create one if there isn't already, just for fun.
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 9 hrs ago

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    yea i hate all my life hate family love my parents love my brother love my sister but i hate other of my family hae them they treat me like iam child like iam insane hate them hate...
    Outsider92 Outsider92 22-25, M 8 hrs ago

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    So it all started when i was young when my dad killed my mom and started using me...i felt dirty....very ....unfit for . then when i started cutting i felt even worse because of...
    EmoNekoNiki EmoNekoNiki 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Unfortunately this horrific experience happened to me at hotel du vin Brighton in 2004 and it made me very traumatised and terrorised I One day after I lost my little job in cafe...
    Amirhom Amirhom 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I hate taking care of my mom. I hate that she's living with me. I feel suffocated and overwhelmed. I moved over 800 miles to get away from her. That lasted 9 months before she...
    EclecticHumanDecoy EclecticHumanDecoy 41-45 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Can you.. Love someone & hate them at the same time but you don't know why you hate them. Maybe you hate them because you hate how they made you happy but did they make you happy...
    BookOfShadows BookOfShadows 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I hate war. I absolutely hate it. Being a patriotic American it makes me upset to say that we go to war for stupid reasons. I've been speaking with a person from a different...
    brookledsome brookledsome 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I Will Not Let An Exam Result Decide My Fate- Suli Breaks Read all of these lyrics or search it up on YouTube and listen. -Exactly why I hate school. Right now There is a kid...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Truthfully I do believe that looks are not everything considering a person can be beautiful, but that does not mean they are a good person. Personality can go a long ways with some...
    Ahaizzy Ahaizzy 16-17, F Aug 25

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    I f*cking hate my family. They see me as an irrational moron and put my feelings and demands right to the trash can. We live in a ****** apartment and our financial situation is...
    Balkan1996 Balkan1996 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 1

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    The lines I wear around my wrist are there to prove that I exist. a broken mirror a bleeding fist a silver blade against a wrist tears falling down to lips unkissed he's not the...
    bakanatsu bakanatsu 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I do hate when I already know that a person is lying to me and when I confront that person they still lie, and that makes me hate them.
    mcindygrace mcindygrace 22-25, F 14 hrs ago

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    I don't hate it because we have study there. I just hate some people in my school. And of course school didn't teach most important things that life teaches us. I know many people...
    Ramakichi Ramakichi 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    im constantly angry all the time. i took an extended leave of absene to come home to take care of my sick dad. i havent been home since high school, so as you can imagine, ive...
    blue951 blue951 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    Im not really sure how I’m supposed to start one of these vents, but here I go. I hate myself. I hate and loathe every cell in my body, but even more than that I hate how I look...
    bluestripes421 bluestripes421 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    I feel like my step-mother hates me as clearly as I feel pain if I poke my own eyes. Its an almost tangible, clear feeling that was at the center of my childhood experience. Now...
    whitemut whitemut 13-15, M Sep 5

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    Omfg. I hate my dad so much. He hates that I go out and looks at me in a very obnoxious manner every time. I really hate it. In this time and age, it's better that we hang out...
    KaiWong KaiWong 18-21, M Aug 30

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    so by posting this some of you may think I'm stuck up or conceded but I promise you I'm definitely not. this is one of many many insecurities I have... so, I'm 17 and I have a...
    Itschan Itschan 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i hate my sister in law and loser brother , both who think that they are entitled to my parents money. my sister in law is a ***** with no social skills who ignores me and the...
    blue951 blue951 26-30, M 21 hrs ago

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    I don't really bite people I'll scratch them if they really get on my nerves am try to fight me well... That's mainly my brother It will leave claw marks that looks like from a...
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I have always had a weight problem. Growing up, I was always chubby, and it didn't bother me until the kids started bullying me in 7th grade. It was the typical "Skinny girl hates...
    vbs28 vbs28 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    We're all born without a choice, we can't configure how we will look in the future apart from mabye keeping fit and healthy then mabye that counts but that only goes so far right...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F Aug 31

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    My friend is 32 years old and married. She looks really young for her age because she is short and I guess just has good genes? She looks about 18-20 years old. She has a wonderful...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    Douchebag men will belittle other men who's "too nice", "looks weak", looks "feminine" or simply just doesn't appear "tough enough" to them. Douchebag men will also harass women...
    Incognito666 Incognito666 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I absolutely hate the way I look to the point where I have to cover my body, and I wish I could cover my face without drawing attention to myself. I know I shouldn't compare myself...
    Gaemerysudi Gaemerysudi 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    Ok s she's back. I had high hopes for her truly. Her dad told me how tidy she is now, how healthy she eats, how she is doing really good in school. Weeeelllllll turns out its all...
    septemberiscoming septemberiscoming 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    People who get tired of Northern winters tend to move to Florida looking for paradise and a place without snow. The problem is, it's too extreme of a change. Unless you LOVE hot...
    Georgie0324 Georgie0324 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    Ya know.. I gripe about my life all the time, I'm very dramatic at most times I'm homeschooled... I barely ever interact with people.. I'm super shy.,, like.. I won't even go in...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 6 Responses Sep 9

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    Well not hate but dislike. Can't be hate because my husband is one of them. I will go out for two hours and come home to a house that looks like it's been vandalized. I go out...
    HushedThoughts HushedThoughts 22-25 1 Response Sep 11

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