I Hate My Looks

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 244 People

    My Reflection

    The old dark hatred is creeping up again. I haven't felt it since I was a teenager, when it was easy to dismiss it as teen angst. Now I am not a teenager and it's coming back. I hate my reflection, I obsess about my reflection. It devours my entire life. I might be having a happy...
    PreRaphaeliteEyes PreRaphaeliteEyes
    18-21, F
    Nov 1, 2013

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    Casting2012 Casting2012
    Jul 27, 2012

    I Don't Get Why

    I baffle even myself at times. Why do I feel this way? Why do I feel the constant need to be prettier, to be more beautiful? I'm not dead skinny, but my waist is slim. My hair isn't lustrous, but it's fairly tamable and non-greasy most days. My eyes are covered by glasses, but...
    LittleMiss4Eyes LittleMiss4Eyes
    18-21, F
    May 4, 2013

    I took a really gay picture of myself

    and I made it my profile picture. How is it? Be honest? Should I keep it or change it back to the RHCP picture I had?
    teddyisnotcool teddyisnotcool
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jul 12, 2014

    I Am The Ugliest Girl

    I've looked in the mirror a million times, taken close up pictures, have studied my face to where I know every single flaw. And let me tell you there are a lot of flaws. I try to find girls uglier than me and I just can't. I'm disgusting. And I have proof. No guys are attracted...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 4, 2013

    D: Fml

    i have a big chin, big forehead, and big lips. my face looks like a really pretty face with a super streched chin and forehead, and small eyes. my eyes arent slits, just that my eyeballs are small. i look like the trollface, and i used to get called that in school. anybody have...
    Allyson1998 Allyson1998
    Dec 24, 2011

    I Need To Wake Up And Smell The Coffee!

    What is the matter with me? I should be loving myself and embracing myself, because I´m beautiful and unique. But I don´t! Every time when I see those commercials about Fitness and all those "models" showing their flawless bodies,I get sad and I cry, because it makes me...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2011

    Hating Myself

    i think most people hate their look and wt i hate more is that i hate myself for my look and ask people to love me for who i am !! that's stupid if i can't love myself for who i am how can i ask other to do ! we care a lot abt look maybe cuz that's wt people notice first anyway i...
    soma79 soma79
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2013

    I'm not very confident.

    And I hate my looks. I'm ugly. And fat. And I'm spotty. I don't like my looks one bit. Who else feels like this??
    Girlwithavoice15 Girlwithavoice15
    13-15, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2015


    My favorite person in the mirror I must say. I just don't think I'm aging well and feel that looking at me as I look back is like seeing a total stranger. *heavy sigh*
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 7, 2009

    It Is Bad But I Cannot Stop Myself...

    I already accepted my looks, my whole image... but there will be always times when I question why is it me to have this look? Why do I need to look like this? *sigh*
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 6, 2013

    I've Hated How I Looked Since I Was 14

    i was made fun of a lot about my face as a freshmen in high school ever since then(19 now)  i feel disgusted when i look at myself in the mirror, i wish i could be someone else, i think everyone is prettier then me, i avoid talking to people cause i worry what they think of...
    questionmark555 questionmark555
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 16, 2009

    Another Story About This Subject

    Yep, once again, I'm writing a story about how much my perception of how I look affects my daily life and my ability to get close to people and form healthy relationships.I loathe my reflection. I avoid physical contact with people at all costs, and if possible, I avoid them...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    31-35, F
    Sep 27, 2011

    You're Beautiful

    Butterflies cant see their wings, they cant see how beautiful they truly are. they are, and everyone around them can see that. but they cant. kinda, like you everyone is beautiful in their own unique, but what matters most in the amazing soul you have on the inside <3 dont...
    onelittlecat onelittlecat
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Nov 4, 2013

    I have a large labia minors,

    those of you who don't know what that is, it's the little flab inside the fold of your vagina. Most aren't seen but mine hangs out like roast beef. 😔
    Lindsey238 Lindsey238
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2014

    I Hate My Body

    I think I'm too fat cause my mom and DaD always making fun of my weight its goes up and Down from stress and I can't take it no more this is my last year in high school and I feel as if I'm just going to eat like crazy when I go to college I'm 116 IBS and 5'1 my parents been...
    123unhappyrefrian 123unhappyrefrian
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2013

    God Do I Hate My Looks!

    Every time I look in the mirror I feel like my face is so crooked that I look like Sloth from The Goonies.  I know my face is crooked.  I used to wear glasses and I could always see they were crooked on my face.  I had a hard time finding a pair where the frames were just...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat
    41-45, F
    Jul 26, 2011

    It Doesn'T Matter What You Look Like , We Are All Truly Beautiful!

    I don't know how it happened but I finally woke up. I've woken up to see that all women , including myself, posses amazing beauty. I don't want to talk about the cliche of it being internal beauty. We all know that exists. We also tend to say it when we want to comfort one...
    Tryn2Heal Tryn2Heal
    1 Response Apr 16, 2013

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