Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Hate My Looks

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 251 People

    My Reflection

    The old dark hatred is creeping up again. I haven't felt it since I was a teenager, when it was easy to dismiss it as teen angst. Now I am not a teenager and it's coming back. I hate my reflection, I obsess about my reflection. It devours my entire life. I might be having a happy...
    PreRaphaeliteEyes PreRaphaeliteEyes 18-21, F Nov 1, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not

    My favorite person in the mirror I must say. I just don't think I'm aging well and feel that looking at me as I look back is like seeing a total stranger. *heavy sigh*
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    God Do I Hate My Looks!

    Every time I look in the mirror I feel like my face is so crooked that I look like Sloth from The Goonies.  I know my face is crooked.  I used to wear glasses and I could always see they were crooked on my face.  I had a hard time finding a pair where the frames were just...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F Jul 26, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hating Myself

    i think most people hate their look and wt i hate more is that i hate myself for my look and ask people to love me for who i am !! that's stupid if i can't love myself for who i am how can i ask other to do ! we care a lot abt look maybe cuz that's wt people notice first anyway i...
    soma79 soma79 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    You're Beautiful

    Butterflies cant see their wings, they cant see how beautiful they truly are. they are, and everyone around them can see that. but they cant. kinda, like you everyone is beautiful in their own unique, but what matters most in the amazing soul you have on the inside <3 dont...
    onelittlecat onelittlecat 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 4, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am The Ugliest Girl

    I've looked in the mirror a million times, taken close up pictures, have studied my face to where I know every single flaw. And let me tell you there are a lot of flaws. I try to find girls uglier than me and I just can't. I'm disgusting. And I have proof. No guys are attracted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've Hated How I Looked Since I Was 14

    i was made fun of a lot about my face as a freshmen in high school ever since then(19 now)  i feel disgusted when i look at myself in the mirror, i wish i could be someone else, i think everyone is prettier then me, i avoid talking to people cause i worry what they think of...
    questionmark555 questionmark555 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Casting!!! Want To Lose Weight?

    NOW CASTING WOMEN AGES 18-35 THAT WANT TO LOSE 50-85 lbs. AND SHOW OFF THEIR NEW BOD'S! Where do you fantasize about showing off your new physique and who is the one that you want to flaunt it in front of most? • a childhood bully at a family reunion • an old nemesis or...
    Casting2012 Casting2012 26-30 Jul 27, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Don't Get Why

    I baffle even myself at times. Why do I feel this way? Why do I feel the constant need to be prettier, to be more beautiful? I'm not dead skinny, but my waist is slim. My hair isn't lustrous, but it's fairly tamable and non-greasy most days. My eyes are covered by glasses, but...
    LittleMiss4Eyes LittleMiss4Eyes 16-17, F May 4, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Hate My Body

    I think I'm too fat cause my mom and DaD always making fun of my weight its goes up and Down from stress and I can't take it no more this is my last year in high school and I feel as if I'm just going to eat like crazy when I go to college I'm 116 IBS and 5'1 my parents been...
    123unhappyrefrian 123unhappyrefrian 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Another Story About This Subject

    Yep, once again, I'm writing a story about how much my perception of how I look affects my daily life and my ability to get close to people and form healthy relationships.I loathe my reflection. I avoid physical contact with people at all costs, and if possible, I avoid them...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Sep 27, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I took a really gay picture of myself

    and I made it my profile picture. How is it? Be honest? Should I keep it or change it back to the RHCP picture I had?
    teddyisnotcool teddyisnotcool 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Doesn'T Matter What You Look Like , We Are All Truly Beautiful!

    I don't know how it happened but I finally woke up. I've woken up to see that all women , including myself, posses amazing beauty. I don't want to talk about the cliche of it being internal beauty. We all know that exists. We also tend to say it when we want to comfort one...
    Tryn2Heal Tryn2Heal 41-45 1 Response Apr 16, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    D: Fml

    i have a big chin, big forehead, and big lips. my face looks like a really pretty face with a super streched chin and forehead, and small eyes. my eyes arent slits, just that my eyeballs are small. i look like the trollface, and i used to get called that in school. anybody have...
    Allyson1998 Allyson1998 13-15 Dec 24, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Is Bad But I Cannot Stop Myself...

    I already accepted my looks, my whole image... but there will be always times when I question why is it me to have this look? Why do I need to look like this? *sigh*
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have a large labia minors,

    those of you who don't know what that is, it's the little flab inside the fold of your vagina. Most aren't seen but mine hangs out like roast beef. 😔
    Lindsey238 Lindsey238 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Need To Wake Up And Smell The Coffee!

    What is the matter with me? I should be loving myself and embracing myself, because I´m beautiful and unique. But I don´t! Every time when I see those commercials about Fitness and all those "models" showing their flawless bodies,I get sad and I cry, because it makes me...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Hate me? Go sit with the rest of the haters waiting for me to care!
    XXimdeadinsideXX XXimdeadinsideXX 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I do hate all that filth, as I call it, as it so hurts me to see it and mentionned everywhere..  It hurts me so very much as I was shown it at a too young age..  I got...
    Sorrentina Sorrentina 41-45, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I had lived in the uk since I was 13 and sadly I have been very unlucky and I had encountered lots of racial abuse and hatred I feel that 99% of white people and especially...
    newyear15 newyear15 31-35, F 9 Responses Jan 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My dear friend Zias I'm writing to you this post as I feel mad and distressed by the mental health professionals in middlesbrough in the uk ... As you know my dear friend I was...
    newyear15 newyear15 31-35, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate my father with a passion! You expect me to build a bond with you when its too late for that. I'm 19 now and he missed 5 years of that for something stupid. He missed my...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Don't you hate it when u have to wake up early the next day so u go to bed early sleep 2 or 3 hours and u wake up and can't go back to sleep🙈
    versace101 versace101 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hate is such a strong word. I'd like to say that I tolerate my unpleasant co-workers. I call them trolls because they hide their true selves until something happens then...
    Sweetphoenix35 Sweetphoenix35 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    He was 18 I was 15. He had swag and I was a lunatic. He was the best thing that happened to me but I knew I wasn't going to be the guy he ever wanted. So I made him hate me so he...
    StrandedandAlonr StrandedandAlonr 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    1. I give a **** a lot of times to what people have to say/think. 2. someone ordering me around in a way that shows that he/she thinks i can't help but doing as he/she said...
    iamnoor iamnoor 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Im starting to hate how my body looks ,i don't have curves but a big stomach,My ex makes funs on how my back looks like a ironing board.I have gotten so insecure and my butt is a...
    soon2bemom soon2bemom 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm so confused, one day my husband is the sweetest man in the world the next he hates me and looks at every flaw. It could be a week an hour there's no telling when his mood will...
    Mee4 Mee4 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ugh I hate how mom is so obsessed with how I look YES I cld be a reflection of how I feel/ what I'm going through HOWEVER I feel like she is being rude if she comments on how I...
    Hey4yu Hey4yu 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well actually my eyes are small. The thing is they look so emotional. Most of the time they look mean and people always think I'm angry. If I have no expression it looks like I...
    toniyl toniyl 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Of course they matter. If you didn't like the look of the person you wouldn't date them because you wouldn't be attracted to them. It doesn't matter with friends certainly, but...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M Jan 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There's this girl who I'm sure will grow up to be a perfect little B*tch. She strives too hard to be at the top of everything, even to the point of being annoying. She never...
    malipatient malipatient 26-30, F 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband is like a baby I may as well call him one of my children. We have three children, a 6, 5 and 3 year old. It's a miracle we are still together close to 9 years and I can...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    people say they hate their body but they really don't understand what it's like to have a very bad and truly hideous body. my body is just absolutely terrible, that's just it...
    Dreamscape98x Dreamscape98x 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm ugly, a *****, selfish, fat, lazy, lesbian, immature, thick, hated, loner, loser, ridiculous, a failure, annoying!! I have a lot of reasons to hate myself. and in case I begin...
    AceTeen123 AceTeen123 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm 18 years old and I'm an avid Christian, but I can't help but hate my family for the things they put me through. They call me the "accident baby" in the family cause my parents...
    Lilliane19 Lilliane19 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really hate being a black female. It's really hard to know whether a guy likes black girls. People always ask if your hair is "real". If you get mad or upset, boys think you're...
    Theconfused1 Theconfused1 13-15, F Jan 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    She manipulates me, makes me feel guilty when I am not guilty, she says everything I do is disgusting, she looks at me with disgust, she talks crap about me and twists stories to...
    hollyissad hollyissad 18-21, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If small towns are the "real America", then the real America is racist, populist, anti-education, ignorant, fat and ugly. Yeah, I said it. Let me explain the more controversial...
    Mokiba Mokiba 31-35, M Dec 26, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate it the way my body looks. It seems to be than every man wants a skinny woman...I'm far from it. I have horrible stretch marks from pregnancy not to mention the cellulite. I...
    MermaidTripp MermaidTripp 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    so people say that I am not a christian for some of the things I say and do. Not all Christians are perfect. I have been in and out of Christianity and Wiccanism. I have recently...
    scarxscar scarxscar 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate getting my hair cut. I'm always trying my best to grow my hair long because I don't like the length it is now. My mom is always saying to me if you cut here your hair will...
    Girlinpink0075 Girlinpink0075 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i really hated when people ask me for money in the university at home they always ask me for money they assume am rich from my looks but i dont work and i dont have any money i...
    collegegirl20 collegegirl20 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate having strawberry legs....looks unattractive to me
    ArtisticLife ArtisticLife 16-17, F a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't mind seeing my sex partner spit on my vajay, though, 'cause that's sexy. But yes... I hate seeing people spit, especially while walking. It's so gross. Like, even...
    TiraVara TiraVara 22-25, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Dear friend I want to share with you my experience with the mental health services in the uk I'm a dark skinned woman of Asian appearance .people often assume that I'm an Indian...
    newyear15 newyear15 31-35, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't want to sound superficial but looks are not NOT important meaning if someone looks like that upside down faced kid in the Simpson's and smells like a ogre there probably...
    sixtens sixtens 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 8

    Your Response

    Cancel