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I Hate My Marriage

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    Cannot Forgive, Cannot Forget. - My husband and I grew up together. We had a love-hate relationship with each other until I moved when we started high school. We kept in touch...
    Wishing4Things2Work Wishing4Things2Work 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    Why Am I Sleeping On The Couch In My Own House? - for real? i met my husband 5 years ago and after knowing each other for two months we got married! WTF was i thinking? things were...
    HOLLY1012 HOLLY1012 26-30 1 Response Mar 18, 2013

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    I Hate The Way My Husband Make Me Feel - I been married for 10 years all i wanted was to be happy we had our ups and downs but now i just can't take it anymore i hate the way i...
    yelenam yelenam 26-30 1 Response Feb 10, 2011

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    Should I Stay In My Marriage Or Finally Just Go? - So, I have been married to my husband now for 2 years and been together total for 6. About 8mos. into our marriage, my husband...
    WISHIWASFREE WISHIWASFREE 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2013

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    People Change! - I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 5 YEARS, AND I RELIZE WHEN YOU HAVE KIDS FROM DIFFERENT MATES THINGS CAN GET CRAZY. I HAVE TWO AND HE HAS 3. BUT EVERYTHING HAS IT'S EFFECTS...
    Diamond10n1 Diamond10n1 36-40, F Jul 19, 2013

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    My story may sound a little weird to a lot of people. I am newly married. Just a few months into my marriage. What is new there, one may wonder... Well, I come from a place where...
    Lostandstruggling Lostandstruggling 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I Want A Divorce From My House. - I actually like my husband, most of the time. I just hate living with him, and especially in this house. I might be okay living with him in...
    planogal planogal 31-35, F Aug 8, 2010

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    I Can't Figure Out What To Do - I love my husband, but I cannot stand our marriage. We had a super-passionate start, with tons of interests in common, and a scarily powerful...
    tiredtiredtired tiredtiredtired 31-35 4 Responses Jul 13, 2011

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    Need to Share and Vent - 3 years ago I married a man with whom I was in a problematic relationship with prior to wedding.  He was seperated with 2 kids, I was never married...
    waterdrop waterdrop 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2008

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    I Hate My Marriage - 3 years of living together, 1 year of marriage a baby and what seems like a whole lifetime of misery is the only thing I can resume my marriage to. This man...
    SillyDreamer25 SillyDreamer25 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 21, 2013

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    Miserable Wife, Miserable Life - After 17 years of being together (11 married) I have finally realized nothing I do will make my wife happy. When we go places or try to do things...
    Jcm71 Jcm71 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    Never Again - We were married for 30 years. Now she has decided to leave. Has left me with nothing. All though I am still deeply in love with her yhe pain of losing her is...
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    I Am Not A Slave! - MARRIAGE I WILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN. I THOUGHT MARRIAGE TAKES TWO BUT I WAS WRONG. HE LIES OVER AND OVER. HE IS DISABLED AND I FEEL SOME THINGS HE CAN DO FOR...
    Diamond10n1 Diamond10n1 36-40, F Jul 19, 2013

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    Love Failure - 3yrs love.... she cheated me.... she only came and proposed to me. i love her more. i treated her as my mom... oneday she said u ll get a good girl and married...
    alags alags 22-25, M Jun 4, 2013

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    I really don't know why husbands does try to know about us they just need a girl to sleep and to cook food for her ..I feel I have wasted my life by choosing the wrong one
    deepthiyag deepthiyag 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2013

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    I Don't Know - We've been married for 12+ years. Three kids. I work my *** off to be a good husband, and she doesn't care! I am sick of it.
    blueatticus blueatticus 31-35 1 Response Aug 31, 2012

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    Crap Marriage - I hate my marriage. I dread being home with my husband and feel like I made a big mistake. I have almost left many times, but he always talks me into staying. Then...
    Bubbles278 Bubbles278 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    I love my spouse but I hate my marriage. Right now we are separated for the 4th time. The last time we separated about 2 years ago we agreed that we would try just this last time...
    whatnow73 whatnow73 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 25

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    Hate My Marriage - i'm tired of being the perfect wife. well i may not be perfect. i'm on the chubby side but i cook, i clean, i balance the checkbook. i work a f/t job and i don't...
    dogloverapril dogloverapril 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    Alcoholic Spouse - too awful to talk about it. Just started a new business and my finances are not good. I have been in it for 6 yrs. He is not a good person. I need a miracle...
    va57 va57 51-55 Aug 28, 2012

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    My Wife Bores Me - I have been married 2 years and the last year has been sooo boring! My wife doesn't ever initiate sex or makes me feel wanted anymore. I've been told I'm a...
    Kpatton261 Kpatton261 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 12, 2012

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    Cannot Get It Right. - My story is not interesting. He is an alcoholic... I joined him for awhile. I can not do it any more. I want my life back. I have 2 children. I often feel...
    maryjane40 maryjane40 41-45, F Aug 28, 2013

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    Wasted Time....and Broken Heart - I met my husband at an early age and it was like love at first sight. We were in the 8th grade...inseparable. He was my first and only everything...
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    Unhappy In Texas - My husband was wonderful enough to agree that I needed to quit work after we had our son to finish a degree. He works away from home most weeks, coming home...
    student2140 student2140 26-30, F Jul 19, 2012

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    I Hate My Marriage - I rushed into marriage 5 years ago, without knowing anything about my husband. I'm an Indian woman and come from a culture where young women are encouraged to...
    angrywife79 angrywife79 26-30 9 Responses Sep 24, 2008

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    New Day - I hate my marriage I want to meet a new girl and just be happy no bullshit nothing I just want bliss. I work 12 hours a day so my wife dint have to do **** she says I...
    quieguy24 quieguy24 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 10, 2013

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    I'm Moving Into My Office. - My husband and I have been fighting. It is all my fault because I got mad at him for sleeping until 2:30 in the afternoon. If he just did this...
    planogal planogal 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2010

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    I'm Going Crazy - I hate everything about my husband. He's an impulsive spender and I can't trust him. I trust him not to cheat with someone else but I don't trust him to be...
    internalexplosion internalexplosion 22-25 5 Responses Nov 18, 2008

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    You Say You Love Me... - You say you love me... is this love? To me love is wanting your spouse to be happy... their dreams and wants should mean some thing to you. Your sole...
    blissfulmiss blissfulmiss 36-40, F 3 Responses May 12, 2012

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    Its Complicated - I am married to a guy just about 4 months ago. Never really like him before we get married. We are in the same research group. He is doing his phd and i am...
    emm336 emm336 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 8, 2011

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    Where Did My Cinderella Story Go? - I hate my marriage. It makes me feel guilty not being happy with it. there are those with worse marriages than mine. When I was 25 I had just...
    aingeal aingeal 26-30 5 Responses Sep 2, 2008

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    Try Try Try Nothing Seems To Work - Well been married almost 11 years and to be honest it has never been a great marriage from the beginning there were problems with alcohol,drugs...
    artt0315 artt0315 31-35 2 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    I married my hubby right out of getting a divorce from my first hubby. I should've just stayed with my first even though I wasn't even in love with him but we were making it work...
    armstrong7984 armstrong7984 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 5

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    Anniversary Pain - Today is our anniversary  Remember the first night,  The world was our oyster  There was nothing we couldn't do together. Who ever would of guessed all the...
    Existentialcrisis Existentialcrisis 31-35 Jun 3, 2012

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    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 27 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I stumbled across this song on YouTube. I'm a Natalie Merchant fan and was surprised I hadn't heard this song before. I've done some research about the meaning of the song. I read...
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Anyone know of any sexless marriage conventions?
    SheldonJPlankton SheldonJPlankton 41-45, M 18 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    My time has come. Court is tomorrow. Hopefully it is the last court date and I get my divorce. It is bittersweet. I had such hopes. I took my vows seriously. For better or worse...
    pointbreakgirl pointbreakgirl 36-40, F 18 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I am in A DD marriage . But i am no longer aloud to write about it . My husband said i am to emotion of a person to be talking about such a private part of my life . and i get to...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F 31 mins ago

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    Let me tell you about my sister. She is 3 years older than me, was very jealous of me as a child, was a bully to me until I left home before her and has always been a broody type...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 1 Response Mar 22

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    I have never hated anyone in my life. My MIL I DO hate she has destroyed my marriage with get son her golden child . I am 45, he is 63, she is 86. Her son divorced his wife 30...
    sueoneil sueoneil 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    People don't like hate, and it's understandable. It's not a pleasant feeling. However, many self-help and New Age books talk longly and vigorously about how to 'extinguish hate in...
    MidsouthGuy MidsouthGuy 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    My mother in law is mean. My sisters in laws are just as crazy as her. The rest of his family is weird, too. I am beginning to think my husband is no good for me either. Maybe...
    tiredofit44 tiredofit44 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    I have been married for almost 4 yrs and I have hated almost every day of it. I wasn't overly in love anyway. The one thing that I did love was that I felt I could trust him...
    onlynmiami onlynmiami 46-50 1 Response a week ago

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    America is going down majorly gay should be married once I have started this movement, I will not stop until gays everywhere can be married it's bull **** the American people deny...
    SeaBassStein SeaBassStein 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I guess "troubled" is the best way to describe it. I used to think nothing could come between us. My husband's been in and out of part-time, dead-end jobs for ten years. Most...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Being gay is a deviation from nature. If we take a look at animals in nature we can see that none of them are gay. A few are heterosexual or androgynous but they are actually...
    darkanddesolate darkanddesolate 16-17, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    My Life to me been F up since I waa Born been going thru so much aye Family dat hated me since I was yunger neva had anybody n my circle dat love me for me . I use to feel as if my...
    Moneea Moneea 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Another thing missing from this sexless marriage, besides intimacy, love and respect is fun and laughter. (Jeez, what exactly do I get from this marriage) I thought that I had...
    Gingersnapped Gingersnapped 51-55, F 13 Responses Mar 25

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