I Hate My Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 138 People

    When I met my wife she had an almost insatiable

    sexual apatite. But, she was a full blown out of control alcoholic. The day before she went into rehab, she was hospitalized for uncontrollable bleeding. It had been several hours since she had a drink and her BAC was just below deadly levels. The week prior to this, I had...
    Ivithos Ivithos
    36-40, M
    1 Response Mar 20, 2015

    I NEVER LIKED HERE even

    before marriage due to her attitude but my family confessed me there's a good family and everything should fall in place post marriage but it as only fallen apart again not sure if I just go for a divorce after just 1 month of marriage now or should I still wait for more time...
    humminn humminn
    31-35, M
    3 Responses May 4, 2014

    You Say You Love Me...

    You say you love me... is this love? To me love is wanting your spouse to be happy... their dreams and wants should mean some thing to you. Your sole purpose seems to be to squelch mine. Every day I feel like a little more of me dies inside, this eternity is just too long. I feel...
    blissfulmiss blissfulmiss
    36-40, F
    3 Responses May 12, 2012

    Cannot Forgive, Cannot Forget.

    My husband and I grew up together. We had a love-hate relationship with each other until I moved when we started high school. We kept in touch until after graduation. We saw each other again, strangely in the same town we grew up together. It was fate. At the age of 18 I found...
    Wishing4Things2Work Wishing4Things2Work
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 20, 2013

    Miserable Wife, Miserable Life

    After 17 years of being together (11 married) I have finally realized nothing I do will make my wife happy. When we go places or try to do things together she is always miserable. The look on her face always makes people think she has a problem with them. I used to think it was...
    Jcm71 Jcm71
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Sep 9, 2012

    I Hate The Way My Husband Make Me Feel

    I been married for 10 years all i wanted was to be happy we had our ups and downs but now i just can't take it anymore i hate the way i feel! we have 2 daughters together and a boy on the way all i wanted was to have a good marriage no matter what i do it will never happen, my...
    yelenam yelenam
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 10, 2011

    Should I Stay In My Marriage Or Finally Just Go?

    So, I have been married to my husband now for 2 years and been together total for 6. About 8mos. into our marriage, my husband decided that he was very unhappy with his 9-5 job and wanted to try out his own entrepreneurship skills. Although I was nervous, I totally understand...
    WISHIWASFREE WISHIWASFREE
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 21, 2013

    Why didn't i just move on

    when I had the chance. I honestly don't know why I went through this marriage. I already knew it was going to trust issue. I am so mad @ myself for not running the other way. Ugh! I feel stuck and I feel like there is no way out. I wish I could leave. Easier said than done. I am...
    MaySheReign MaySheReign
    26-30, F
    Apr 17

    Ive been married for 1 year

    and i hate my marriage. All my husband do is take me for granted, harass everyone in the house, disrespect us and verbally abuse us. Im tired of my marriage, i want too take our kids and move ASAP.
    shakii00 shakii00
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2014

    Wasted Time....and Broken Heart

    I met my husband at an early age and it was like love at first sight. We were in the 8th grade...inseparable. He was my first and only everything. We graduated high school..had a son and moved into an apartment to start our lives together. We got married in 2009 we have 3 kids...
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2013

    The girl of my dreams told me to move on

    as she was battling depression. I didn't want to go as I was by her side from day one. But, no matter what she told me to move on so after a long hard decision I did. I made even a worse decision then leaving her. I tied the knot with the first girl I met just to fill the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 15

    I met my husband online 7 yrs ago.

    I'm from the Philippines and he is from US. We fell in love really quick but it took us 2 yrs before he decided to go to the Philippines to meet me. To make the long story short I got here in US with him and we got married...
    sunshininginme sunshininginme
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 16, 2014

    Cannot Get It Right.

    My story is not interesting. He is an alcoholic... I joined him for awhile. I can not do it any more. I want my life back. I have 2 children. I often feel like he hates us. We are not as good as his first family. We never will be. Regardless. He is a gambling, drinking **** at...
    maryjane40 maryjane40
    41-45, F
    Aug 28, 2013

    I Can't Figure Out What To Do

    I love my husband, but I cannot stand our marriage. We had a super-passionate start, with tons of interests in common, and a scarily powerful attraction. But now, 6 six years later, I find myself silenced by his maddeningly circular arguments and justifications, with new reasons...
    tiredtiredtired tiredtiredtired
    31-35
    4 Responses Jul 13, 2011

    I Hate My Marriage

    3 years of living together, 1 year of marriage a baby and what seems like a whole lifetime of misery is the only thing I can resume my marriage to. This man has single handily managed to ruin every special moment in my life. My proposal, my pregnancy, my baby shower, our wedding...
    SillyDreamer25 SillyDreamer25
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 21, 2013

    I'm so tired of my marriage I feel on the brink

    of depression - my husband picks on me all the time everything that comes out of his mouth is either some comment of my failure in some way, a negative remark on one of my choices or just a negative attitude in general. its so draining wish I could leave (too hard at this stage...
    Shansy Shansy
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2014

    I really don't know why husbands does try to

    know about us they just need a girl to sleep and to cook food for her ..I feel I have wasted my life by choosing the wrong one
    deepthiyag deepthiyag
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 27, 2013

    I'm Going Crazy

    I hate everything about my husband. He's an impulsive spender and I can't trust him. I trust him not to cheat with someone else but I don't trust him to be reliable because I can't trust him with money, a job, or even to tell me the truth about things. Half of the time when...
    internalexplosion internalexplosion
    22-25
    6 Responses Nov 18, 2008

    I'm slowly moving on I think she knows it's

    almost to late to do anything to fix it
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 13, 2015

    Love Failure

    3yrs love.... she cheated me.... she only came and proposed to me. i love her more. i treated her as my mom... oneday she said u ll get a good girl and married someone now. but i still love her... i hate girls dnt wanna girls in my life....
    alags alags
    26-30, M
    Jun 4, 2013

    Crap Marriage

    I hate my marriage. I dread being home with my husband and feel like I made a big mistake. I have almost left many times, but he always talks me into staying. Then i just hate myself for staying. All we do is fight and resent each other, and I just feel so angry all the time. I...
    Bubbles278 Bubbles278
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 30, 2012

    My husband seems more interested in fixing

    other people's marriage than his own. His cousin sisters are getting married soon, and all he has been thinking about is that. The weddings are across the globe, and we're both unemployed and have no future planned. Yet he thinks he's justified in going and claims to understand...
    invisiblesoul invisiblesoul
    26-30, F
    Jun 24, 2014

    I feel my wife is not the right person

    for me. we're growing apart and her and I are different mentality people. she is more into ghetto thinking, jealousy and constantly accusing me of doing things behind her back.
    slimjim212 slimjim212
    26-30, M
    Dec 29, 2015

    So what do you do when you're 7 years into a

    relationship/marriage and you wake up one morning and realize you want out? You have three kids. You love them, and you're scared for them because they're growing up around fighting and negativity between adults and family. You aren't happy because you didn't know who the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 11

    it is like being a slave,

    it is not a normal marriage because my husband is controlling and no matter how I try to find good in this , it is nowhere to be found. I always wanted to be married when I grew up but I didn't want this. At first it was physical abuse now it is mental to where he controls my...
    unadorned unadorned
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 6, 2015

    I am 4 months pregnant

    and regret that I was dumb enough to marry my husband after 2 months and get pregnant. He tells me what to where, abuses my poor dog, I can't go anywhere by myself, I'm isolated from my friends and family, he calls my mother horrible names every day. Im told what i can't put...
    fakinghappy2 fakinghappy2
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 27, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 23, 2015

    Never Again

    We were married for 30 years. Now she has decided to leave. Has left me with nothing. All though I am still deeply in love with her yhe pain of losing her is unbearable. Please help me understand why now I have lost my wife,marriage, children, money and homes. This sucks
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

    My story may sound a little weird to a lot of

    people. I am newly married. Just a few months into my marriage. What is new there, one may wonder... Well, I come from a place where marriages are arranged. I have had one of them. I realized soon into my marriage that the person I married has no idea what it is to be married...
    Lostandstruggling Lostandstruggling
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2014

    I can't take it anymore I can't cry anymore

    it's always something feeling that dreadful lump in your throat cause you don't want them to see he's made you cry and another put down. I fear he's going to drive me insane I just want out
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Mar 13

    I'm in a marriage of 11 years

    and together for 16 years she has always been selfish when it comes to us .I've changed things about my self to make her happy.we have three kids and that's why I'm trying to make thise work.she says she wants to make thise work but hangs out and talks to her friend that has...
    Stevenkull Stevenkull
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 23

    Why Am I Sleeping On The Couch In My Own House?

    for real? i met my husband 5 years ago and after knowing each other for two months we got married! WTF was i thinking? things were fun in the beginning, i guess like how you date someone kinda fun. then i got pregnant with our son who was born 3 days after our 1 year anny.. (yep...
    HOLLY1012 HOLLY1012
    31-35
    1 Response Mar 18, 2013

    Need to Share and Vent

    3 years ago I married a man with whom I was in a problematic relationship with prior to wedding.  He was seperated with 2 kids, I was never married with 1 son.  My son and I looked forward to meeting his kids and becoming a family, his kids rejected us from day 1 with...
    waterdrop waterdrop
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Dec 23, 2008

    Try Try Try Nothing Seems To Work

    Well been married almost 11 years and to be honest it has never been a great marriage from the beginning there were problems with alcohol,drugs and trust. He lied to me often so I can honestly say I have never trusted him he would run off and stay gone for days I had no idea...
    artt0315 artt0315
    31-35
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2012

    My Wife Bores Me

    I have been married 2 years and the last year has been sooo boring! My wife doesn't ever initiate sex or makes me feel wanted anymore. I've been told I'm a pretty attractive man, and have turn away request at times, but I feel like I'm in an elderly marriage with no passion. My...
    Kpatton261 Kpatton261
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 12, 2012

    Its Complicated

    I am married to a guy just about 4 months ago. Never really like him before we get married. We are in the same research group. He is doing his phd and i am struggling with my master thesis. It was because my personal situation at that time forced me into a decision that I should...
    emm336 emm336
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2011

    New Day

    I hate my marriage I want to meet a new girl and just be happy no bullshit nothing I just want bliss. I work 12 hours a day so my wife dint have to do **** she says I cant stand the people at every job she has cant stay at a place for more than a week . The worst part is I have...
    quieguy24 quieguy24
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Aug 10, 2013

    Where Did My Cinderella Story Go?

    I hate my marriage. It makes me feel guilty not being happy with it. there are those with worse marriages than mine. When I was 25 I had just left an abusive relationship. When I had met two gentlemen. It was total bliss. But one seemed more interested than the other to make a...
    aingeal aingeal
    26-30
    5 Responses Sep 2, 2008

    I Hate My Marriage

    I rushed into marriage 5 years ago, without knowing anything about my husband. I'm an Indian woman and come from a culture where young women are encouraged to have arranged marriages. Well, I wasn't forced into my marriage and picked my husband out of purely my choice. My husband...
    angrywife79 angrywife79
    26-30
    9 Responses Sep 24, 2008

    I Am Not A Slave!

    MARRIAGE I WILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN. I THOUGHT MARRIAGE TAKES TWO BUT I WAS WRONG. HE LIES OVER AND OVER. HE IS DISABLED AND I FEEL SOME THINGS HE CAN DO FOR HIS SELF. BUT I DO HIS HAIR AND KEEP HIM GROOMED. I ALSO WORK AND COOK AND CLEAN. ONLY THING WRONG WITH HIM IS ONE OF HIS...
    Diamond10n1 Diamond10n1
    36-40, F
    Jul 19, 2013

    People Change!

    I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 5 YEARS, AND I RELIZE WHEN YOU HAVE KIDS FROM DIFFERENT MATES THINGS CAN GET CRAZY. I HAVE TWO AND HE HAS 3. BUT EVERYTHING HAS IT'S EFFECTS ON MARRIAGE. OK WE TRYED TO WORK ON THAT NOW IT'S HIM LYING ABOUT DRUGS AND ALCOHOL AND THIS I CANT TAKE I WANT OUT...
    Diamond10n1 Diamond10n1
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2013

    Hate My Marriage

    i'm tired of being the perfect wife. well i may not be perfect. i'm on the chubby side but i cook, i clean, i balance the checkbook. i work a f/t job and i don't cheat, i don't drink and don't smoke. but at times i hate my marriage. my husband works long hours and tires easily...
    dogloverapril dogloverapril
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Aug 1, 2008

    I Want A Divorce From My House.

    I actually like my husband, most of the time. I just hate living with him, and especially in this house. I might be okay living with him in another house. It all started when we were dating and he insisted on buying a house. I really was not for this, I figured we would get...
    planogal planogal
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2010
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