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I Hate My Marriage

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    You Say You Love Me...

    You say you love me... is this love? To me love is wanting your spouse to be happy... their dreams and wants should mean some thing to you. Your sole purpose seems to be to squelch mine. Every day I feel like a little more of me dies inside, this eternity is just too long. I feel...
    blissfulmiss blissfulmiss 36-40, F 3 Responses May 12, 2012

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    Need to Share and Vent

    3 years ago I married a man with whom I was in a problematic relationship with prior to wedding.  He was seperated with 2 kids, I was never married with 1 son.  My son and I looked forward to meeting his kids and becoming a family, his kids rejected us from day 1 with...
    waterdrop waterdrop 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2008

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    My husband seems more interested in fixing

    other people's marriage than his own. His cousin sisters are getting married soon, and all he has been thinking about is that. The weddings are across the globe, and we're both unemployed and have no future planned. Yet he thinks he's justified in going and claims to understand...
    invisiblesoul invisiblesoul 22-25, F Jun 24

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    Should I Stay In My Marriage Or Finally Just Go?

    So, I have been married to my husband now for 2 years and been together total for 6. About 8mos. into our marriage, my husband decided that he was very unhappy with his 9-5 job and wanted to try out his own entrepreneurship skills. Although I was nervous, I totally understand...
    WISHIWASFREE WISHIWASFREE 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2013

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    I'm Moving Into My Office.

    My husband and I have been fighting. It is all my fault because I got mad at him for sleeping until 2:30 in the afternoon. If he just did this occasionally it wouldn't be so bad, but he does it a lot, several times a week I figure. And I think that is hurting his job searching...
    planogal planogal 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2010

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    I Want A Divorce From My House.

    I actually like my husband, most of the time. I just hate living with him, and especially in this house. I might be okay living with him in another house. It all started when we were dating and he insisted on buying a house. I really was not for this, I figured we would get...
    planogal planogal 31-35, F Aug 8, 2010

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    New Day

    I hate my marriage I want to meet a new girl and just be happy no bullshit nothing I just want bliss. I work 12 hours a day so my wife dint have to do **** she says I cant stand the people at every job she has cant stay at a place for more than a week . The worst part is I have...
    quieguy24 quieguy24 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 10, 2013

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    I'm Going Crazy

    I hate everything about my husband. He's an impulsive spender and I can't trust him. I trust him not to cheat with someone else but I don't trust him to be reliable because I can't trust him with money, a job, or even to tell me the truth about things. Half of the time when...
    internalexplosion internalexplosion 22-25 6 Responses Nov 18, 2008

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    Try Try Try Nothing Seems To Work

    Well been married almost 11 years and to be honest it has never been a great marriage from the beginning there were problems with alcohol,drugs and trust. He lied to me often so I can honestly say I have never trusted him he would run off and stay gone for days I had no idea...
    artt0315 artt0315 31-35 2 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    I Am Not A Slave!

    MARRIAGE I WILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN. I THOUGHT MARRIAGE TAKES TWO BUT I WAS WRONG. HE LIES OVER AND OVER. HE IS DISABLED AND I FEEL SOME THINGS HE CAN DO FOR HIS SELF. BUT I DO HIS HAIR AND KEEP HIM GROOMED. I ALSO WORK AND COOK AND CLEAN. ONLY THING WRONG WITH HIM IS ONE OF HIS...
    Diamond10n1 Diamond10n1 36-40, F Jul 19, 2013

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    I Can't Figure Out What To Do

    I love my husband, but I cannot stand our marriage. We had a super-passionate start, with tons of interests in common, and a scarily powerful attraction. But now, 6 six years later, I find myself silenced by his maddeningly circular arguments and justifications, with new reasons...
    tiredtiredtired tiredtiredtired 31-35 4 Responses Jul 13, 2011

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    Unhappy In Texas

    My husband was wonderful enough to agree that I needed to quit work after we had our son to finish a degree. He works away from home most weeks, coming home late on Thursday nights and heading out on Monday mornings. He is an avid hunter and fisherman so most months he is gone...
    student2140 student2140 26-30, F Jul 19, 2012

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    My story may sound a little weird to a lot of

    people. I am newly married. Just a few months into my marriage. What is new there, one may wonder... Well, I come from a place where marriages are arranged. I have had one of them. I realized soon into my marriage that the person I married has no idea what it is to be married...
    Lostandstruggling Lostandstruggling 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Its Complicated

    I am married to a guy just about 4 months ago. Never really like him before we get married. We are in the same research group. He is doing his phd and i am struggling with my master thesis. It was because my personal situation at that time forced me into a decision that I should...
    emm336 emm336 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 8, 2011

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    Miserable Wife, Miserable Life

    After 17 years of being together (11 married) I have finally realized nothing I do will make my wife happy. When we go places or try to do things together she is always miserable. The look on her face always makes people think she has a problem with them. I used to think it was...
    Jcm71 Jcm71 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    I Don't Know

    We've been married for 12+ years. Three kids. I work my *** off to be a good husband, and she doesn't care! I am sick of it.
    blueatticus blueatticus 31-35 2 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    Cannot Forgive, Cannot Forget.

    My husband and I grew up together. We had a love-hate relationship with each other until I moved when we started high school. We kept in touch until after graduation. We saw each other again, strangely in the same town we grew up together. It was fate. At the age of 18 I found...
    Wishing4Things2Work Wishing4Things2Work 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    Hate My Marriage

    i'm tired of being the perfect wife. well i may not be perfect. i'm on the chubby side but i cook, i clean, i balance the checkbook. i work a f/t job and i don't cheat, i don't drink and don't smoke. but at times i hate my marriage. my husband works long hours and tires easily...
    dogloverapril dogloverapril 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    I Hate My Marriage

    3 years of living together, 1 year of marriage a baby and what seems like a whole lifetime of misery is the only thing I can resume my marriage to. This man has single handily managed to ruin every special moment in my life. My proposal, my pregnancy, my baby shower, our wedding...
    SillyDreamer25 SillyDreamer25 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 21, 2013

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    Crap Marriage

    I hate my marriage. I dread being home with my husband and feel like I made a big mistake. I have almost left many times, but he always talks me into staying. Then i just hate myself for staying. All we do is fight and resent each other, and I just feel so angry all the time. I...
    Bubbles278 Bubbles278 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    Where Did My Cinderella Story Go?

    I hate my marriage. It makes me feel guilty not being happy with it. there are those with worse marriages than mine. When I was 25 I had just left an abusive relationship. When I had met two gentlemen. It was total bliss. But one seemed more interested than the other to make a...
    aingeal aingeal 26-30 5 Responses Sep 2, 2008

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    My Wife Bores Me

    I have been married 2 years and the last year has been sooo boring! My wife doesn't ever initiate sex or makes me feel wanted anymore. I've been told I'm a pretty attractive man, and have turn away request at times, but I feel like I'm in an elderly marriage with no passion. My...
    Kpatton261 Kpatton261 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 12, 2012

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    I really don't know why husbands does try to

    know about us they just need a girl to sleep and to cook food for her ..I feel I have wasted my life by choosing the wrong one
    deepthiyag deepthiyag 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2013

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    I Hate My Marriage

    I rushed into marriage 5 years ago, without knowing anything about my husband. I'm an Indian woman and come from a culture where young women are encouraged to have arranged marriages. Well, I wasn't forced into my marriage and picked my husband out of purely my choice. My husband...
    angrywife79 angrywife79 26-30 9 Responses Sep 24, 2008

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    Ive been married for 1 year

    and i hate my marriage. All my husband do is take me for granted, harass everyone in the house, disrespect us and verbally abuse us. Im tired of my marriage, i want too take our kids and move ASAP.
    shakii00 shakii00 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I NEVER LIKED HERE even

    before marriage due to her attitude but my family confessed me there's a good family and everything should fall in place post marriage but it as only fallen apart again not sure if I just go for a divorce after just 1 month of marriage now or should I still wait for more time...
    humminn humminn 26-30, M 3 Responses May 4

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    I met my husband online 7 yrs ago.

    I'm from the Philippines and he is from US. We fell in love really quick but it took us 2 yrs before he decided to go to the Philippines to meet me. To make the long story short I got here in US with him and we got married...
    sunshininginme sunshininginme 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 16

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    I am 4 months pregnant

    and regret that I was dumb enough to marry my husband after 2 months and get pregnant. He tells me what to where, abuses my poor dog, I can't go anywhere by myself, I'm isolated from my friends and family, he calls my mother horrible names every day. Im told what i can't put...
    fakinghappy2 fakinghappy2 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Alcoholic Spouse

    too awful to talk about it. Just started a new business and my finances are not good. I have been in it for 6 yrs. He is not a good person. I need a miracle and I am out the door!
    va57 va57 51-55 Aug 28, 2012

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    People Change!

    I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 5 YEARS, AND I RELIZE WHEN YOU HAVE KIDS FROM DIFFERENT MATES THINGS CAN GET CRAZY. I HAVE TWO AND HE HAS 3. BUT EVERYTHING HAS IT'S EFFECTS ON MARRIAGE. OK WE TRYED TO WORK ON THAT NOW IT'S HIM LYING ABOUT DRUGS AND ALCOHOL AND THIS I CANT TAKE I WANT OUT...
    Diamond10n1 Diamond10n1 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 19, 2013

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    Why Am I Sleeping On The Couch In My Own House?

    for real? i met my husband 5 years ago and after knowing each other for two months we got married! WTF was i thinking? things were fun in the beginning, i guess like how you date someone kinda fun. then i got pregnant with our son who was born 3 days after our 1 year anny.. (yep...
    HOLLY1012 HOLLY1012 26-30 1 Response Mar 18, 2013

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    I Hate The Way My Husband Make Me Feel

    I been married for 10 years all i wanted was to be happy we had our ups and downs but now i just can't take it anymore i hate the way i feel! we have 2 daughters together and a boy on the way all i wanted was to have a good marriage no matter what i do it will never happen, my...
    yelenam yelenam 26-30 1 Response Feb 10, 2011

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    Cannot Get It Right.

    My story is not interesting. He is an alcoholic... I joined him for awhile. I can not do it any more. I want my life back. I have 2 children. I often feel like he hates us. We are not as good as his first family. We never will be. Regardless. He is a gambling, drinking **** at...
    maryjane40 maryjane40 41-45, F Aug 28, 2013

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    Love Failure

    3yrs love.... she cheated me.... she only came and proposed to me. i love her more. i treated her as my mom... oneday she said u ll get a good girl and married someone now. but i still love her... i hate girls dnt wanna girls in my life....
    alags alags 26-30, M Jun 4, 2013

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    Anniversary Pain

    Today is our anniversary  Remember the first night,  The world was our oyster  There was nothing we couldn't do together. Who ever would of guessed all the pain we would inflict on eachother 12 years of cuts to the heart 12 years of trying to change eachother  12 years seeing...
    Existentialcrisis Existentialcrisis 31-35 Jun 3, 2012

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    My mom is so annoying and she makes me so angry. She's always getting on to me about my weight and she's been doing it a lot for the past few months. I know I'm not hw skinniest...
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