I Hate My Mom But Love Her

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    My mom has always been there

    for me. Or so I though...I've lived with her for nigh on 12 years and I've pretty much just been forced to see, in a good way, that my mom has emotionally and mentally abused me. I'm moving to my dads, but I've already had this talk with my mom and she went all berserk. Calling...
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    2 Responses Jun 28, 2014

    see my mom she is a ***** she hits me

    and I call her a ***** because she is but I do love her even if she is one
    5Freddykruger 5Freddykruger
    18-21, T
    Jul 2, 2015

    I have no idea what my mom problem is today.

    She tells me to change when I put on a tee shirt from bike week. Then when I asked if we can get McDonald's she gave me a whole speech on how I can't get a kids meal. Well excuse me if I want the kids meal where i dont have to pay for extra food instead of spending money on...
    BooBear99 BooBear99
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2014

    My mom always puts on restriction

    and never listens to what I have to say. But she takes care of me.
    why03 why03
    36-40, M
    May 25, 2015

    I really dislike my mom with a passion to

    where I cry when I think about it! She does nothing but put me down anytime I express my choices in anything to do with managing MY OWN LIFE . I am 18 going on 19 this year. I recently just moved in with her from living with my grandmother which lives all the way in Illinois...
    Anaya18 Anaya18
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 1, 2015

    How can my mum act so kind

    while im ill but as soon as she thinks im fit for school just spend the rest of the day shouting at me... I care for her and everything but she just spent the rest of this day giving me **** about not doing anything the past four days i have been ill hell my fever still hasnt...
    otakugamerwolf otakugamerwolf
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Mar 11, 2015

    im 12 and my mom feeds me

    and gives me a roof above my head but she hates me and i hate her she is not a mom she hates me my friends cuss sometimes so she is always judging me because im friends with them when she has has never even met them and she cusses to she also told me that im a dissapointment...
    angrymissunderstood angrymissunderstood
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 21, 2015

    My mum calls me lazy

    and a waste of space all the time. She tells me to clean every day and I try and explain to her that I feel faint but she just ignores me and then doesn't speak to me if I don't do what she says. I have a bit of a fainting problem and anytime I try to tell her she completely...
    heyitslucy1 heyitslucy1
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 30, 2015

    So my mom basically just told me

    that when I walk into a room everybody else gets the moodiness from me, she told me I'm basically a piece of ungrateful ****, and I make everybody else feel like **** too. She told me that my attitude isn "horrible" and that I make people feel "miserable". What if I was...
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    2 Responses Jul 16, 2015

    My mom will not accept gay people

    and she's so public about it. It ****** me off.
    MildlyDizzy MildlyDizzy
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 28, 2015

    you know science camp my mom just yelled at me

    saying i dont want to pay for your crap pay for it your self and i dont have that kind of money and i was like but i want to go for my edication and science and she is all like i dont care she never cared in the first place i dont even know why i still talk to her
    angrymissunderstood angrymissunderstood
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 22, 2015


    I've never met anyone who had the ability to hurt me so much and make everything better at the same time. She uses personal information I told her in confidence to get back at me in arguments--I try to act like it doesn't hurt me but it does (I always get that frog in my throat...
    PseudoNymph PseudoNymph
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

    she has done and still does me wrong

    whenever she gets the chance also won't talk to me but I guess it's just a biological need to love your mom
    Louisboy17 Louisboy17
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 26, 2015

    I hate my mom and her boyfriend

    and my little sibling cause it made me feel like I wasn't enough for her the day I found out about her dating I asked why she said "I don't want to live alone or die alone." Thanks mom real self esteem booster
    Cuteycake26 Cuteycake26
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 23, 2014

    My husband, 3 kids and I stay with my mom

    and my brother also lives here too... My mom charges us $400 a month and mom brother $75. Is this fair? My family and I stay in a small room until we all move.. My husband also only makes $9 an hour and we have car insurance to pay. It sucks! Our three kids are still in diapers...
    niklee86 niklee86
    31-35, F
    Jun 24, 2015

    My mother never understood me .

    I was strange in her eyes , in everybody's eyes maybe.When I tell her I suffer , she always thinks it's her fault so I feel guilty about telling her . When I tell her a secret , she tells it to the whole family or uses it against me . She always puts the blame on herself. She...
    awhisper4me awhisper4me
    18-21, F
    Dec 16, 2015

    At first i hated her

    but loved her. Now i simply hate her. She makes me so mad i was break something And sometimes that something is my skin. I hate her! She makes me so mad i wana hurt myself and just scream and kill something
    EverMoree EverMoree
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 2, 2014

    Do you know how you feel

    that you are never good enough... Just no matter how hard you try... Never a thank you, or a compliment just no end criticism... Did all the washing up, cleared up the kitchen but apparently "it was really messy"... Boyfriend was there with me... I have a witness... But still...
    SweetBrazilianLizzy SweetBrazilianLizzy
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 25, 2015

    Sometimes, majority of the times actually,

    she favors my brother in every single argument. Even when I'm right. Yes, I can accept the fact that I'm not right all the time. I know that. But I'm right sometimes at least, and in those times its like, nope, you're wrong because I love him more. She never says that last part...
    PercyJacksonisAWESOME PercyJacksonisAWESOME
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 12, 2014

    ok ok I'm gonna keep this

    as short as possible but my mom is always judging me and it hurts me so much . I've been punching walls lately n i have my kunckles bruised up . my mom always talk mad **** i cant be home alone wit her we are always arguing together . how can i solve all of this ? i cant even...
    babyyyelisa babyyyelisa
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 4, 2015

    I hate her and I don't think she can do

    anything to make me like her like I once did. Yes, I love her, but only because I have to. It's only right. Don't say this is a phase because I felt this way since u was 12 and I'm turning 19. For the longest I've always told myself, when I leave this house I'm never coming...
    BrownSugar96 BrownSugar96
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2014

    What she said to me can never be erased,

    " Your friends you think they like you? You're mistaken they wanted to be close to you only because me and your father they know we have money and that's all they're ever concerned about. You're a miserable brat! Even I can't stand you and I love you only because you're my...
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    3 Responses Aug 22, 2014
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    Oct 3, 2014

    I hate my mom at certain times,

    but love her other times. I called her just now and casually asked, "Can I dye my hair?" and she said, "Yeah, sure." :D
    jeanzie jeanzie
    16-17, F
    Jan 9, 2015

    my mom she simply is argutive,

    rude, judgemental, disrespectful. im an infp, we need lots of affection and care. you see the problem. I naturally hate arguments and ugly heart people, I love people easily and find it extremely hard to hate someone, even if they do me wrong the fact that I can say I have no...
    HandyMannyWanny HandyMannyWanny
    18-21, M
    Dec 7, 2014

    Mom, I Really Do Love You

    I love mother and I do have a good relationship. It's just sometimes when I call her, she is always depressed and feeling sorry for herself. She is 87 years young and other than a few aches & pains from Arthritis, she is perfectly healthy. Yes, she is lonely after my father...
    tickleshy tickleshy
    51-55, F
    Apr 28, 2013

    My mom is always on her cellphone

    and never shows interest in what I want to tell her!!
    niklee86 niklee86
    31-35, F
    Jun 23, 2015

    I accidentally slammed my door ( with my foot )

    so I could change into today's clothes and she took my f*cking door ! I told her It was an accident and she did that annoying " mhm " ugh . Now I won't be able to get any privacy like my uncles will see my privates , my sisters , my aunts etc . She loves to embarrass me it's...
    Hatfield24 Hatfield24
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 23, 2015

    ok so today I was looking

    for food in my house I told MY mom we hav e no food and she starts screaming YOU LITTLE BRAT DO U KNOW WHAT POOR PEOPLE WOULD SAY IN THIS HOUSE (were poor) U DONT CARE A **** ABOUT ME OR OUR FAMILY. So I want her to die ALOT she always says I'm a spoiled brat and I don't a...
    soccergamerbv soccergamerbv
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 23, 2015

    I love my mom, but I simply can't think of

    anything positive about her. In my mind, she's controlling and judgmental, which she kind of isn't. She's very nice.
    0emma0 0emma0
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2015

    I have very mixed feelings about my mom,

    I love her but hate her at the same time she had done some really good things, and horrible. Like she used to sometimes beat me during asthma attack this one time I'll never forget I was 13 or 14 she threw me on the ground while I was having in asthma attack and kicked me in...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Jan 16, 2016

    Where Do We Go From Here?

    From I was very small I have never gotten along with my mother. My earliest memories of her, was of her anger, and her rage, and her spite. She screamed and raged  (not scolded) at me for the littlest things (things that children normally do -- spilling a drink on the carpet...
    TheBestMeICanBe TheBestMeICanBe
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 6, 2012

    Many people, especially ignorant people like my

    mom, want to punish you for speaking the truth, for being correct, for being you. Never apologize for being correct, or for being years ahead of you time. If you're right and you know it, speak your mind. Even if you are a minority of one, the truth is still the truth
    shymic shymic
    22-25, F
    Aug 21, 2015

    So im almost 13, and im not skinny

    but not fat. But she always makes me feel like i am fat. I try my best at working out, i usually work out 4 times a week and sometimes i go running with her. She gets me in trouble just because i dont want to do exercise or run. And shes always calling me fat, and names like...
    mymomissomeantome mymomissomeantome
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 6, 2015

    I hate my mom so much the woman I love

    so much when i was a kid now hates me. .she's so rude she curses me. ..never cares me . .. she literally teases me. . she is so partial ,loves my elder brother so much.. .I cry to god why she's so rude to me all time . .I wish I had a great loving mother.. .I feel like . .run...
    saivaibhav9 saivaibhav9
    18-21, M
    Apr 2, 2015

    I hate her so much but some how I always go

    back to her even though all the pain she's caused me will never heal she's my mom but I hate her and love her at the same time
    silentpoet23 silentpoet23
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 22, 2015

    It'S Complicated

    I love my Mama. I always have and always will. But she's such a mess. The picture of us she actually looks good, she cleans up nice, but she's always been such an emotionally unstable mother. She put herself first most of the time and left me to take care of my siblings. And...
    Sammiebaby1016 Sammiebaby1016
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 15, 2013

    I hate that she: Had me Always put her

    boyfriends before me That she doesn't try to improve her life and the lives of her kids Only calls me when she wants to borrow money for cigarettes and beer That the only way I could get her attention as a kid was to write fake suicide notes and it only got me a handful of...
    DreamingOfSparrows DreamingOfSparrows
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2015

    I don't actually know what she's done.

    .. But I can't help it sometimes if I inwardly cringe just at the sound of her voice, or if I want to look away when I see her face. As a single mom, she must've gone through a lot, and I really am proud of her. But I don't know what it is, and it makes me feel so absolutely... I...
    evie421 evie421
    13-15, F
    Feb 22, 2016

    when I was a little girl my mom .

    no let me pause right there before I start just know my mom had me when she was 18 and she is a drug addict. ok so again when I was a little girl my mom was dating this guy. well this guy was a drug dealer an older guy ... so if any of you have grown up in the hood his house was...
    youngadult14 youngadult14
    18-21, F
    Aug 18, 2014

    my mother has gotten me in

    so many horrible situations, its really severed the almost non exsistent bond we had, now.its.more of an obligation to love her than the actual emotion itself.
    forevernostalgic forevernostalgic
    31-35, F
    May 22, 2015

    Treat Others The Way You Want To Be Treated

    My mom let me get molested, raped abused you name it. She hated me and would always gossip and bad mouthed me to her friends and family. I still shined and she continued to hate me more.she would always be like you dumb *****, if you treat others the way you want to be treated...
    Mackneededlove Mackneededlove
    3 Responses Feb 3, 2013

    In a very short text I will try to describe my

    relationship with my mom.. My mother has always been to close to me because my father was always working abroad and my brother at college and we only had each other. I love her and I couldn't live without her but now I'm 14 years old and I am beginning to understand everything...
    depb05 depb05
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2015

    venting for the sake of a place to vent to.

    ..I could scream and scream at the stupid, selfish, heartless things my mother is responsible for. it was one thing when I was the target of her manipulative words and behavior, but my daughter (age 16) is now taking it at full force. very long story made very short: my mother...
    cdawn1980 cdawn1980
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2015

    I don't know what to do.

    My mother took away my childhood by beating and neglecting me. Making me take care of her. Then she leaves me and runs off to New York. Leaving me with my dad, who i i don't know anything about. All of this was three years ago and I can't live it down. She asks my grandmother...
    omfgitsabbs omfgitsabbs
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 15, 2014

    Hatred Hurts

    I just had another huge blow out with my mother. So many times I just sit back and take her crap, but how many times can you do that before you explode? I will be the first to admit I wasn't the easiest kid growing up, but now with 3 kids of my own, do you ever think she would...
    ablford36 ablford36
    36-40, F
    20 Responses Aug 27, 2012

    My mom just came downstairs

    after just getting into a fight with her boyfriend on her phone while I was watching T.V. and started to yell at me "Where is my Coke" (Coke-a-cola) (Although I thought she said coat). Due to her yelling at me I yelled right back sayings it's on the chair! And she couldn't find...
    AlanaMarieE AlanaMarieE
    16-17, F
    Mar 15, 2015

    My mom wanted to hit my big brother

    when he flunked out of college because of a girl and I took the hit My mom hates the girl and calls her a "wh0r€","$!ut", etc when it was really his fault he flunked, because HE was the one who decided to put all of his time on her. He is now working 3 jobs (mom kicked him...
    alexkoz alexkoz
    16-17, F
    Jul 10, 2015

    So I'm 13, and no I'm trying my best not to

    bit©h on the internet about how my mother CAN be an a$$hole. So let's move on... I love my family, I wish that we could never go into fights, but we do. And that's mostly for the most dumbest reasons! Here I'll tell you want happened just a few days ago. So we decided to go...
    MilicaNikolic MilicaNikolic
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 5, 2015

    My mom could be really nice one second

    and really mean the next second. She always form these crazy thoughts in her head that make her mad or sad when she's alone, so when she sees us, we become her punching bag. I think she's suffering from depression and separation anxiety now that all three of her kids are not...
    dinosaurrrrr dinosaurrrrr
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2016

    one day my whole family went to curch we all

    prayed and stuff then we went downstairs to eat. There was no good food so i went to help with the little kids. I ended up staying there the whole time . So when it was time to go I was helping the teacher clean up, not know that it was tim eto go i finished and went outside...
    jalika12 jalika12
    16-17, F
    Aug 2, 2015
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