I Hate My Mother In Law and Sisters In Laws

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    What can I say? My mil has done everything she

    can to belittle me and when I confront her, she hides and says it was a misunderstanding. My husband is not help at all, he is a... Coward. My mil has insulted my background, my children, and the worst part she wants me to be around so she can keep "bullying me" she uses the...
    jfrancisco jfrancisco
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 7, 2014

    Do You Hate Your Mother-in-law?

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    BCOpportunity BCOpportunity
    22-25
    Jul 29, 2011

    I have been with my fiancé

    for about 6 years now and we are getting married in a few months. For the first few years, I have been pretty close with his family, but I was able to see a few instances of ridiculous behavior with them. Now that we are engaged, it has become so much worse. my fiance's mother...
    tiffanyrenee88 tiffanyrenee88
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 18

    I could never think they hate me

    as much as they do till the day i found emails exchanged with my husband! I was choked because they have always been kind to me an offer me presents!!!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 2, 2015

    To Peaceknot:catch Um' All

    same her girl...you got that right-when then cats away the rats will play. I have used my good sense of my memory for 5 years which that's how long they mil'and sil have played on me-to my husband.until they got dirty digged up my past thinking my husband didn"t know..but our...
    icuao2 icuao2
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2010

    Im a 20 year old muslim girl.

    Part of our culture is we have arranged marragies where the mother or father of the guy comes to the girls family and ask for her hand in marriage. Thats what happened to me. I was 17 at the time, still in high school and i was in a relationship with someone else whom i loved...
    Zozolove Zozolove
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 21, 2015

    omg where to start lol she tells us how to

    spend money and manage our time together. she lives an hour away but yet we see her once or twice a week my parents live around the corner from my house and i see them maybe once or twice a month lol. which my parents are upset about the difference. i dont blame them but my...
    ashleynichole25 ashleynichole25
    22-25, F
    Mar 11, 2015

    Mil And Sil I'm Confused

    I didn't know where to go and thought I should try it this way, its about 4 am in the morning and I can't get this out of my head. I have a MIL who hasn't worked since my husband was born and a SIL who I think has no friends. I don't mean to rude or disrespectful, but just...
    collage1 collage1
    31-35
    Oct 15, 2012

    I've been putting up with nasty in laws

    for over 23 yrs now and sometimes I do not know how much more I can take. I have two sons that have been outcast-ed and left out of basically everything. My in laws favor all the other kids and basically act like mine do not exist. The father won't speak to me. I am not even...
    doubletees doubletees
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 23, 2015

    I haven't written anything in the past few

    months but today is the last day before we start a new year. Let's see...it's been more than a year and seven months since I moved into this house with my husband. Most Chinese people leave their house for their son. Well, I live with my husband, in laws, sister in law, her...
    destinii3 destinii3
    31-35, F
    Dec 31, 2014

    7 Unexpected Visitors......

    My in-laws call to see where we were. We were grocery shopping. They want to stop by, they are in the area. Really? They live 3 hours away, they couldn't call sooner? Ok, fine. BTW, its MIL, FIL, SIL, her kid, an uncle, an aunt, & a cousin. So we grab more meat to grill. They are...
    VegaLove VegaLove
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 26, 2011

    They borrow our car since they cant afford one,

    i give money for gas and drivers fee and they will talk bad about me when they are in the car, driver hears it and tells me the details of their convo. Told my hubby about it and told me to ignore it and just don't think about it.
    mymami mymami
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Aug 13, 2014

    My Mother In Law Is Phsycotic

    i have a mother in law that feels as if the world owes her something the only time she is ever nice is when she wants something from me she has three children my husband being the oldest one he is amazing nothing like his mother at all in fact i have been the only one to keep...
    kat081505 kat081505
    31-35
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2012

    She thinks that I am someone

    that she can control. I'm not your puppet you do not treat people like this you can not command me to do things . Every time my husband does something to her it's my fault and she comes after me . The kids do something that makes her mad again it's my fault and she comes after...
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    Apr 21

    So how do you deal with someone

    who talks down to you and speaks down to your family members every time that you see them how do you . I am sick of it . She is so mean then the next time that you see her she thinks you should just forget about it and she doesn't need to apologize. If she never does anything...
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    Mar 15

    My husband loves me we have 1 daughter

    but My mother inlaw always jealous of me she always conpet with me specially in cooking....My Sister Inlaw All of them !! They hate me because they dont want me to become a wife of her Son/Brother ...Because i didnt finish my college because all of them are professionals...But...
    Romechan Romechan
    31-35, F
    Feb 26, 2015

    The Unwanted 'out Law' That's Me

    I could write a long winded, epic novel on that topic, but we all probably have alot in common with that. I am the unwanted OUTLAW. My mother in law has come around, but my Sister In Law, well that's a totally different story. Quick Run Down 1. Hubby has had 3 failed...
    anonsmom anonsmom
    36-40
    2 Responses Sep 14, 2012

    My Mother In Law And I Get In Huge Fights!

    my mother in law and i get into almost fist fights, she hasnt been in my husbands life for twelve years and treats him and me like crap. i got sick of her putting me down, snapping at me, and making me feel like utter dog poop. so i stood up for my self and she decided to stop...
    AshRene93 AshRene93
    22-25
    1 Response Jun 28, 2013

    SILs are jealous of the attention i get from

    hubby, well the hell they cant open their legs and give the happiness i can give to my husband! Stupid inlaws!
    mymami mymami
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2014

    I dont bother with my in laws due to the fact

    that they interfere a lot when it comes to parenting. Is anyone here having the same problem as me?
    mabuhayka mabuhayka
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2014

    At My Wits End With This Family

    I posted this on the MIL forum, but I think it's more fitting for this one! I'm so aggravated... Michelle is my MIL Krista is my SIL Jakey is my Nephew (Krista's son) Ian is my husband I'm public enemy numero uno So Michelle and Krista decide to bring the kids over for a visit...
    sehall sehall
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 20, 2013

    Welcome To Hell...

    We have a new sister-in-law in the family & I love it because it takes a lot of the pressure off of me & my other SIL!My MIL is at her normal b!tchy self, but it is so nice to see my new SIL go through it with them. I know it sounds mean & selfish but I don't care! Here's the...
    VegaLove VegaLove
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2011

    Been Horrific With Sister In Law Lately

    A silent battle waged over a FB post my husband made has really just impacted an entire family. His family all use FB as their mode of communication these days. He posted something about please stop judging my wife because I vent. Everyone does it. I wish that my family would...
    anonsmom anonsmom
    36-40
    1 Response Nov 20, 2012

    All Three Of The Trolls

    I have 2 nasty SILs and an evil MIL they have completely destroyed my marriage. They have said the worst things to me repeatedly...and just bc there is only 1 of me doesn't make those 3 right! I just never really liked them and my husband has always told me he didn't care for...
    Endb143 Endb143
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 29, 2011

    So how do you deal with someone

    who talks down to you and speaks down to your family members every time that you see them how do you . I am sick of it . She is so mean then the next time that you see her she thinks you should just forget about it and she doesn't need to apologize. If she never does anything...
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 15

    Well, Not Entirely.

    I'm not yet married. However, I already consider my boyfriend's family to be my in-laws because it's like I'm one of the family. I really don't have a problem with his mom... yet. She's been so nice to me, and thankful that her son found a decent girl who isn't a cheating...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2010

    It is not so that I hate my mother in law

    because she in my mother in law. No, no, no. I hate her because she is a bad person. At the begining I wanted to be a friend of hers, but now I do not want to be anything to her. I have married my husband and not his entire family, and when I do not like them I think it is good...
    emikolic emikolic
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2014

    I Hate My Mil And Sil! ^o^

     I'm 19. My fiance lives in another state, and at the beginning of our relationship I lived with him and his family for a few months. My SIL is younger, she is a 15 year attention-seeking-drama-queen who pretends she has every mental problem in the book. She is irresponsible...
    carolioness carolioness
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2009

    So how do you deal with someone

    who talks down to you and speaks down to your family members every time that you see them how do you . I am sick of it . She is so mean then the next time that you see her she thinks you should just forget about it and she doesn't need to apologize. If she never does anything...
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 15

    Stupid Sil

    My sister n law goes out of her way to make me feel unwelcomed in the family and I've been with my hubby for 4 years, married 2, with a baby (1 yr). She is always putting her 2 cents in when we do something she doesn't like. She is 32 years old, only daughter w/3 lil bros...
    VegaLove VegaLove
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Sep 14, 2009

    The Crazies

    omg where do i start? first off my mother in law still thinks my husband is a child and her baby at that. His two sisters hate me and i have always been there for them all. I am the reason his mom even has a job I told her about it as well as filled out the application for her...
    lia760 lia760
    26-30, F
    Sep 23, 2012

    Baby Shower

    So my MIL and SILs wanted to throw me a a baby shower....so I thought alright how bad could that be? Well then I was standing with my MIL and SIL and they informed me that they were going to invite every girl my husband has ever dated and started listing them off to me. I said...
    Endb143 Endb143
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 29, 2011

    B*****s

    My mother in law is a devout Catholic and she keeps pressuring me to go with her to church. She doesn't understand that I was raised Christian and thats the way I'll remain... She says thats a disappintment. She hates that I'm a lot more successful than her daughters (both are...
    DUMBLiTTLEGiRL DUMBLiTTLEGiRL
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 12, 2008

    My Sister In Law The Psychopath!!!

    so i have been with my current husband for 4 years and married for 3 of them and we have 3 beautiful daugthers! at first my sister in law was nice to me for the first 2 months of me and my husbands relationship and my mother as well! then as soon as my husband moved out into our...
    sunshinebear5 sunshinebear5
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 29, 2013

    Drama, Drama, Drama!!!!!

    Between my mother-in-law and my 2 sister-in-laws, there is NOTHING BUT DRAMA!!  They would be great for the Jerry Springer show!1 sister in law is in prison for mail fraud.  She is a habitual liar.  If you've done it, so has she, only better.  She...
    mmbmama mmbmama
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 25, 2010

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