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I Hate My Mother In Law

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    I am here to vent. If you read this, I thank you. I will get right down to it. I hate my mil. I have been married for 5 years. I have a son by someone else. A ex boyfriend from...
    jammin02 jammin02 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    A Little Advice - Things right now are going realy well with my MIL and I. Of course she still hates me...but really I do not think that is EVER going to change. There is still...
    northernlightsalaska333 northernlightsalaska333 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    My mil and fil just moved about 45 minutes away from us. Before they lived about 5 or 6 hours away. Before they moved my fil answered the phone when I called to talk to mil one day...
    Jpgirlie Jpgirlie 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    What Have I Gotten Myself Into???? - My mother-in-law lives with us, we took her in about a year ago. She has alot of health issues and she couldn't cook for herself and was...
    Windylittlehound Windylittlehound 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2007

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    Let me tell you about my sister. She is 3 years older than me, was very jealous of me as a child, was a bully to me until I left home before her and has always been a broody type...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 1 Response Mar 22

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    Do I Hate My Mil? - i've read all the awful things mil's have done and not sure how to explain the pain i've received from my mil and sil. their not like alot of the stories i've...
    nomotherlove nomotherlove 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2007

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    (Bf mother not really mother-in-law) I have only been dating my bf for a year but I do want to be with him forever. His immediate family has found out that I HATE HATE HATE his...
    carebare124 carebare124 18-21 3 Responses Mar 23

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    My mother in law is something serious. I cannot tell if she is truly nuts or .. just crazy jealous, clingy, selfish, and extremely rude... Well first of all before I met her my...
    dayrinp dayrinp 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My Mother In Law Is Crazy.really! - I have always thought my mil was nuts, shes annoying and repetitive and generally doesnt make any sence. she drives me mad. things recently got...
    dizzy dizzy 26-30, F 28 Responses Mar 29, 2007

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    MIL’s Latest Tricks - Well, where to start huh :-) My name is Kelly and I Hate My Mother In Law, who actually isnt my mother-in-law yet and probably won't ever be if my...
    kellyfromnewcastle kellyfromnewcastle 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 30, 2007

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    Never Wishes Me Well - I can't say that I hate my Mother in Law really.  I don't like to waste my time on such negative feelings but I do stay away from her as much as I...
    neopet neopet 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 27, 2007

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    I Love You My Best Friend! - This is my first story, so forgive my spelling iam dexlic. lets travle back in time for a momnet back to 1980, my best friend was don i'll call him...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 10 Responses Dec 4, 2007

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    Not All of Us Hate Our Mother-in-laws - Not all of us hate our mother-in-laws.  Here is tribute I wrote and read at a mother's day service. To be honest I'm tired of the hated...
    tearsfallen19 tearsfallen19 21-25, F 63 Responses May 4, 2007

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    I absolutely hate living with my mother in law!!! My husband is stuck on living with her because she is a widow and doesn't want to leave her alone... Ever. It is driving me crazy...
    balshi balshi 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Mil From H-e- Double Hockey sticks. - here is the shortest breakdown humanly possible with out me having to go buy some eggs and pull an easter drive by to make myself feel better...
    lostcancerian lostcancerian 26-30, F 21 Responses Apr 5, 2007

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    My husband and I went on holiday for two weeks. It was lovely, and we both had a really good time. However, the second we landed on home ground, his mother starts calling my...
    genie201 genie201 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    The Day My Mother In Law Cut My Daughters Hair - My dghter had a beautiful head of blond curls.  But while I was at work my monster in law cut my 3 year olds hair for no...
    curls curls 26-30, F 84 Responses Jun 9, 2007

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    Borderline Personality Mil: Crazy! - My MIL has Borderline Personality Disorder, in a nutshell it means that she is two-faced, manipulative, sneaky, and just plain off. I have...
    nilestheninja nilestheninja 31-35, F 36 Responses Apr 4, 2007

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    So my husbands parents have always been weird to me. One because they are not happy together and didn't even really raise my husband and they are rude and clingy. So even before we...
    mad4maddie mad4maddie 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I understand that hate is such a strong word, but I am so conflicted with this woman I don't understand how someone can be so selfish and self-involved. Married for 7-years, my...
    ari2607 ari2607 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 5

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    I do, I hate my mother in law. The feelings are mutual. She hates me ofcourse has from the get go. I could dismiss the fact that she hates me as I do return the gesture and frankly...
    Happiegurl Happiegurl 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    IS Your Mother In Law Worth Dying Over? - update on the update nove 2011 things went this year we took her out to dinner her fussing nitpicking everything about the dinner .thank...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 37 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    Deal with It... - Have you ever noticed that people who blantantly disregard boundaries and disrespect you never seem to acknowledge their role and/or behavior?  It is almost...
    bonobabe bonobabe 31-35, F 15 Responses May 6, 2007

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    Not Mil But Whole Family - Not Hatred But Uneasy Feeling - about 18 mos after my failed marriage to a man AND his mother from hell, i began to date again.  i met a great...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 7 Responses May 27, 2007

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    Hmmm, where to start. According to my husbands mother. Everything is my fault. And she says I am taking away all her happiness. How did I do that? I really don't know. According...
    MacieLynn MacieLynn 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    My first impression of her was a when she dropped my step daughter off at our apartment and asked me whether he and I share a room , she stated that my step daughter said she doesn...
    HisAngelof222 HisAngelof222 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    I have never hated anyone in my life. My MIL I DO hate she has destroyed my marriage with get son her golden child . I am 45, he is 63, she is 86. Her son divorced his wife 30...
    sueoneil sueoneil 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    Where to start?? My MIL is jealous of me, my relationship and doesn't respect the boundaries of our marriage. She victimizes herself and manipulates my husband repeatedly. We can't...
    AmericanWomanUSA AmericanWomanUSA 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 1

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    At times I hate my mother in law very much, she keep taunting on me, not always she behaves but sometimes she behaves this and it irritates me.. And she also keep commenting on my...
    shlproy123 shlproy123 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    She has to be the most evil woman alive ! After 15 years you would think she would stop acting so crazy. She still calls me "Sue" his x-wife and blames me for the things she did...
    lauren0325 lauren0325 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    Should I go or not go with him?? This is my story. I don't have a nice realtionship with my mil. She is very possessive of her sons and daughters. She wanted to be treated like a...
    Doctor2012 Doctor2012 31-35 6 Responses Mar 7

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    I Hate My Dil Page... - So I saw this, and was curious of the opinions from the other side. What I saw made my pulse jump, palms twitch, and made me just down right angry. I...
    steamed27 steamed27 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    Spawn Of Satan - My MIL Sheryl is an evil, manipulative, lying, self-absorbed *****. She is always the victim, and is never at fault. She makes my poor husband's life miserable...
    alwaysabitch alwaysabitch 56-60 8 Responses Jul 11, 2013

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    I hate my mother in law!!!!!
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    Not Even 6 Months Married.... - My husband and I were married 5 months ago.  We have known each other for 6 years now and lived together for 3 before getting married.  I...
    beaglewoman beaglewoman 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 5, 2007

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    Help! I have to go visit with my MIL this weekend and I am dreading it. My MIL was great at first when we first got together and even for a few months after we were married about...
    geolbt geolbt 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 8

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    ...but My Father-in-law Is Worse! - My mother-in-law was livid when she heard I was pregnant and told us not to tell anyone else.  At a family party (his family) that week, we...
    alfeen alfeen 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2007

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    I am thankful for this blog . I can express my feelings. I kept telling my husband about it but he loves his mother much more then me. He cannot listen to me complaining about his...
    angelfaithshakthi angelfaithshakthi 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 14

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    Reading all the stories here I know my MIL is not the worst around but boy she can be annoying... and I'm only 1 month into my marriage. She is nice but her endless, unsolicited on...
    honestlymem honestlymem 26-30 1 Response Apr 3

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    Why do these things happen, I mean why do we end up "hating" our mils? It may sound weird, but we are to blame a great deal. We let it happen. This does not remove the guilt of our...
    stellera stellera 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Now That Her Wish Came True And We're Divorced... - Of all the EP groups, none are as emotionally-driven as this one; excepting, of course, those relating to illness/injury/death...
    girlcapitol girlcapitol 51-55, F 24 Responses Jul 5, 2011

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    I Wish I Had A Mother-in-law - Someday, I hope to have a mother-in-law to hate!!
    ProvidentialParlance ProvidentialParlance 26-30, M 7 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    I hate my mother in law when she becomes one, i love her when she is mumma only, I hate it whenever she compares..... Its not always I hate her but sometimes i do....
    vedanshi vedanshi 22-25, F Mar 19

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    Today I am tired of everything. On first sight this does not belong to a MIL topic, but it does.. All my marriage life is determined by her. It´s ups and downs, but not the usual...
    stellera stellera 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    Where Do I Begin...i Am Tired of Trying!! - I have been married for 13 years to a wonderful man who was very emotionally messed up when we met.  I have always gone out of my...
    jlkenny jlkenny 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2007

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    God I Hate Her.. - I know this is horrible but I do hate her so. She has caused me so much pain and misery in my life. She almost cost me my child. She still chooses to this day my...
    FolsomOrchid FolsomOrchid 26-30, F 63 Responses Mar 10, 2007

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    The Devil Herself... - I will be honest in everything I say here and all is true I have no reason to lie about what I say here today. My mother in law was great when me and my...
    pzdmom pzdmom 26-30, F 8 Responses Oct 1, 2007

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    Well, First off let me say Thank God for this website! I effin' hate my "MIL". Me and Hubby met on the internet, we talked for about a year on the phone before we met in person...
    Juicy777j Juicy777j 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    The relationship with my MIL has always been ok. She's been nice, but 'cool'. To me, she's socially awkward and often unaware of rude comments. ANYWAY- I just had a baby a few...
    SmellyPug17 SmellyPug17 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Truth. - I hate my ******* mother in law. She gets in the way of everything in my life. She draws my wife into her wicked ******* web of hate and suffering, and that in turn is...
    thefragile77 thefragile77 36-40 7 Responses Aug 9, 2013

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    I Am Leaving This Group !!! - I've spent 29 years come August being physically, emotionally and verbally abused by my s / o's mother. We all live in the same house and have for...
    justmarji justmarji 51-55, F 9 Responses Jul 5, 2013