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I Hate My Mother In Law

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    Not Even 6 Months Married....

    My husband and I were married 5 months ago.  We have known each other for 6 years now and lived together for 3 before getting married.  I have always had problems with my mother in law and have tried my best to overcome them, however, since we have been married it has...
    beaglewoman beaglewoman 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 5, 2007

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    So she is mean crude

    and rude . But my husband gets angry because I have nothing nice to say about her ever. Gee I really wonder why ?well if she were nice 90 percent of the time instead of nasty 90 percent then maybe I could be .i really do not understand some people why and how would he even...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    We are planning a family trip to disney world

    with her. I don't want her to go to disney world with us but husband does. She complains about everything that my husband and I do he drives to fast, we smoke, we aren't strict Baptist, we listen to music other than Christian music, we aren't legally married, I'm not ready to...
    Samllang Samllang 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    I feel like I have paying the price

    for some horrible evil I have committed in my youth. My mil has lived with us since 2/2008. At first, we got along fine, but now she acts like she is entitled to be lazy, rude, and cause headaches for me on a daily basis. My husband is an only child, so since she only gets $700...
    Yssic2000 Yssic2000 41-45, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    This woman is impossible!

    My husband has gone off to boot camp and I am completely by my self. We just moved back to this area and I feel like an outsider with all of my old friends, and my family is all off doing other stuff. So I keep busy working (60 hours a week) and love that on my days off I can...
    LovablefunLady LovablefunLady 26-30, F 7 Responses Sep 28, 2015

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    BIL Update: So today my BIL stopped by

    unannounced to see my husband before his big move about 1,500 miles away. I did wake up my husband so he could spend a few minutes talking to his brother, and when BIL finally left, my husband got all weepy. Really?? Now that BIL came over and was nice for 5 minutes, and...
    FarAway FarAway 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    Spawn Of Satan

    My MIL Sheryl is an evil, manipulative, lying, self-absorbed *****. She is always the victim, and is never at fault. She makes my poor husband's life miserable. He hates her, but also tries to be a good son and so tolerates her constant vitriol and abuse. It makes him physically...
    alwaysabitch alwaysabitch 56-60 8 Responses Jul 11, 2013

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    My husband has finally seen the light!

    He has agreed to move out of there house and totally cut them off. After us fighting the past two weeks he agrees that his whole family is the problem. We are moving back in with my grandmother. We'll finally have money again because we won't be paying other peoples bills. I...
    MoonLightwolf18 MoonLightwolf18 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2015

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    She is making my relationship

    and life so difficult. Where do I start with her.. Was it when I was in labour and they were asked to stay home until we were ready for visitors, but no she stood waiting in the cafeteria and became irate that my husband stopped texting her the two hours I was pushing! After...
    seriouslyfedup seriouslyfedup 31-35, F 9 Responses Jan 18

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    The Day My Mother In Law Cut My Daughters Hair

    My dghter had a beautiful head of blond curls.  But while I was at work my monster in law cut my 3 year olds hair for no apparent reason.  She cut her hair without asking anyone.  And to be more mean she waited till my father in law was out with my son where he...
    curls curls 26-30, F 84 Responses Jun 9, 2007

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    It's been a long time

    since I posted in here. I'll do my best to keep it under a gazillion characters but there's a lot to catch up on... We moved a few months ago across the seas to be closer to DH's family. Yeah, I know. What were we thinking? Actually, we also had some serious financial reasons...
    FarAway FarAway 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 17, 2015

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    hi everyone its been

    so long i have posted something. as previously i told you i was living with my in laws but we moved out 3 months back about 5 hours distance from them. now i dont know what is happening to my hubby...he is forcing me to spend weekend with my inlaws.... he was changed and saw...
    mimid12 mimid12 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 23, 2015

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    No words to DESCRIBE HER..

    Straight off the bat, SHE'S EVIL -  Vendictive, selfish, self centered, child-ish control freak that she is!! She is a 61 year old woman, who throw's TEMPERTANTRUMS when she doesn't get her way, or things ARE NOT ABOUT HER I've been with her son for almost 4 1/2 years now...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Oct 19, 2007

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    I Hate My Dil Page...

    So I saw this, and was curious of the opinions from the other side. What I saw made my pulse jump, palms twitch, and made me just down right angry. I clicked on a few of the stories about how much these women hated their DILs. I read them, trying to keep in mind, we have a...
    steamed27 steamed27 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    An Update: So, a bit of time not living under

    my in-laws' roof is finally bringing me some peace, although I do have to endure my MIL visiting every other week. I am trying to make peace with that, especially now that DH and I have agreed that in 5 years we'll be moving far away from them again. We have a good plan - he...
    FarAway FarAway 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    We are planning a family trip to disney world

    with her. I don't want her to go to disney world with us but husband does. She complains about everything that my husband and I do he drives to fast, we smoke, we aren't strict Baptist, we listen to music other than Christian music, we aren't legally married, I'm not ready to...
    Samllang Samllang 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    Not technically my mother in law.

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 yrs and will most likely marry. But his mom is so catty and gossipy! She's openly rude and doesn't say hi to me when I walk in the house. I have no idea what I did wrong, but of course I can't tell him!!!! Ugh
    helpmeplease10 helpmeplease10 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2015

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    I hate my mother in law.

    If she was on fire and I had a glass of water I would drink it. I would rather poop in both of my hands and clap, before I lift a finger to help you do anything else Ever!! You are a miserable pos and need to find a freaking hobby. I can't wait until you're old and shaking so I...
    Xmasbaby78 Xmasbaby78 36-40 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Anyone else have a mil

    that just does what they want even when you specifically tell them something. Like we want the kids to exclusively drink water so that way they get a taste for water and not other drinks they don't need. Seems simple enough but this woman simply refuses to just give the kids...
    Jessicadooley Jessicadooley 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 15, 2015

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    I have been dating my fiance

    for 9 months and were about to get married in May (I'm 19 she's 21 if that makes a difference with the story)..... but I ******* hate her mom. Oh my god, I can't stand this woman. feels like she is obligated to do whatever the **** her mom wants her to do. First off my fiancés...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 31

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    Not All of Us Hate Our Mother-in-laws

    Not all of us hate our mother-in-laws.  Here is tribute I wrote and read at a mother's day service. To be honest I'm tired of the hated mother-in-law syndrome. From what I've seen the blame for bad relationships cannot be placed on just the mother-in-law.  If you hate...
    tearsfallen19 tearsfallen19 18-21, F 68 Responses May 4, 2007

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    My mother in law has turned her whole family

    against me. She told her family that I have psychologically abused her. In her twisted head, she can say and act however she likes towards me , but the second I stand up for myself, apprently I'm 'abusing' her. My Sil is a nightmare too, always provoking and antagonising me...
    Lilyrose456 Lilyrose456 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 28

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    OK folks, we're nearly through the most

    stressful time of the year when there is conflict in the family with the in-laws. How are your holidays going?
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 5 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    My mother-in-law would often brag she was the

    best cook ever. The women never used spices at all when cooking. There were 4 of us daughter-in-laws gathered in her kitchen for a Thanksgiving meal. My mother-in-law was in "Big Brag" mode and was tooting her own horn. She put something in the microwave and was bragging away...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 6 Responses May 16, 2015

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    Mil From H-e- Double Hockey sticks.

    here is the shortest breakdown humanly possible with out me having to go buy some eggs and pull an easter drive by to make myself feel better... lol mil, controlling, manipulative, evil, knifing, sinister, contradicting, condescending, wretched woman. the worst thing in my...
    lostcancerian lostcancerian 31-35, F 23 Responses Apr 5, 2007

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    After dealing with this situation

    for a few years now. I'm completely convinced that if the mother-in-law or parents-in-law are causing problems in your marriage, it is because your spouse isn't dealing with it properly, and until they do - there will forever be a dark cloud over your life. There may be days...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 6 Responses Jan 16

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    I feel so bad about my first post being

    so negative. I absolutely loathe my MIL. She was against our wedding in the first place. Seemed like a timid old woman and I thought she would be harmless. The first thing she said to me after I got married was "We had almost said no to this wedding,etc etc". I was almost at the...
    monalisa1986 monalisa1986 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 21

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    It is bad enough that she lives with us,

    but posting crap like this on Facebook, because we choose to not spank our boys. REALLY???????
    mafalu mafalu 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 16

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    God I Hate Her..

    I know this is horrible but I do hate her so. She has caused me so much pain and misery in my life. She almost cost me my child. She still chooses to this day my husbands EXWIFE over me. She still sees her children (none are my husbands) over my 2 year old. She hasn't seen him...
    FolsomOrchid FolsomOrchid 26-30, F 64 Responses Mar 10, 2007

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    So I have written on here before.

    . I think like most, I do it to vent because the crap that is pulled is just insane.. Before I decided to write, I read a lot of post on here, some old some new.. Ladies, we have a lot of needy, sociopathic women out there that we have to call our MIL's. My word. I will always be...
    bekah930 bekah930 46-50 5 Responses May 10, 2015

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    Affirmations For Every Troubled Daughter In Law, With Love!

    I believe what we think, we become. The last thing I want to become is a grumpy old lady (like some people we know right??) Repeat after me: I spend my time with people who love and respect me. I lovingly release anyone who doesn't have my best interests at heart, with a...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 3 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    MIL Is a Narcissist

    Here are the criteria for diagnosing nacissistic personality disorder: has a grandiose sense of self-importance is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love believes that he or she is "special" and...
    ValKreed74 ValKreed74 31-35, F 16 Responses Oct 2, 2007

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    Deal with It...

    Have you ever noticed that people who blantantly disregard boundaries and disrespect you never seem to acknowledge their role and/or behavior?  It is almost like a person never knows they stink or have bad breath, one of nature's jokes I suppose.  The same holds true...
    bonobabe bonobabe 31-35, F 21 Responses May 6, 2007

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    My mother in law gossips

    and assumes things. (example - she's a Facebook stalker, and she asked at my husband's birthday party in front of everyone if I log onto my husband's Facebook when he's at work. My husband being the sweet and stern man he is, told his mother it's non of her business, and next we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 26, 2015

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 6 years. He has custody of his 2 children, and his step child from a previous marriage. I raise them with my 2 children as my own. Mom is not around. For years MIL makes comments about my children to her son that they are ungrateful or brats. now keep in mind, mine are...
    taintedalyce taintedalyce 36-40, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    The Devil Herself...

    I will be honest in everything I say here and all is true I have no reason to lie about what I say here today. My mother in law was great when me and my husband were dating. Even though my husband warned me about her craziness I never saw it. so ok when he and I met we were...
    pzdmom pzdmom 26-30, F 8 Responses Oct 1, 2007

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    My evil MIL once asked me,

    "If my son and I were drowning, and you can only save one person, who would it be?" I responded, "I can't swim, so you're both screwed." Fake laughter ensued, "But seriously, who would you save if you COULD swim?" Without a skipping a beat, I responded, "My husband" She...
    NoMorePainNoMoreGuilt NoMorePainNoMoreGuilt 31-35, F 2 Responses May 25, 2015

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    New Insight

    It’s so easy to blame. I can now connect the dots between the aggravating passive aggressive behaviour I see in my partner, and his mom. While his mom was here I was packed up ready to split. But now I have had some space and time to reflect - this is where I have come out: #1...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    So what makes her think that

    after disrespecting the boundaries set by us parents and disregarding our words over and over again, that she still have 100% access to the grandson?! She really think she's the fking Queen?? How dare she pulled a ****** face on, of all days, Christmas! No one was forcing her...
    Statice Statice 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    Recent events demand a new perspective to my

    experience with my mil. Everything we lived through with her somehow settled into familiar reactions from her, but with our changed approach, which was needed to remain sane. Still, it seems that a final drop was needed. This final drop fell on my husband. Being happy that I do...
    stellera stellera 51-55, F 7 Responses Jan 25, 2015

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    It seems like she hates me,

    when i open my mouth and standup to her.My anniversary is tomorrow,on FB she posted all the reject pix from my wedding.My family called and told me ,i saw them and was so embarrassed .I asked her to plz take them down,now she is ,"offended "doesn't want to talk to me,GOOD!
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 25, 2015

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 2 and a half years , I am currently in school for my doctoral degree , and you would think that your boyfriend's/husband's mom would be glad hes not settling for a prostitute. But no. She absolutely HATES me and she does anything to throw shade at me whether I am there or...
    alysssaaam alysssaaam 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    I've been watching my MIL through the pics on

    her retirement community page. It has really helped me move on emotionally. I can feel her energy shifting towards a new focus. She was featured in one article saying 'this is my time, I can do whatever I want now' - three cheers!! What she doesn't realize is all we've EVER...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    She is a hideous person whom I'm stuck with

    forever. Thank God her son is nothing like her!
    cheekyhannah36 cheekyhannah36 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 5, 2015

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