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I Hate My Mother

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    Why does everyone keep telling me to be nice to

    my mom when they don't understand that secretly she's a real jerk? damn society for everyone persecuting me for not liking my mom! honestly I don't get it. Parents aren't Gods and children aren't their subjects. so why does everyone act that way?
    MattMcDank MattMcDank 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 27

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    I spoke to her, she is morally against LGBT,

    Also the rest of the government... *table flip*After about four hours of talking.. not progress...
    Lousiee Lousiee 18-21, T Nov 15

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    There are nails scars all over my body only

    becuse i didn't go to school because of sore throat.But,she doesn't understand..All she cares about is letting me down..I really hate her.
    wwerizan23 wwerizan23 16-17, M Nov 14

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    I was her miracle baby.

    I was her everything. But when my alcoholic father killed himself when I was ten her solution to her stress and grief was to beat me. Choke me. Take away everything I loved and break me from the inside out. She killed my 17 year old cat that I've had since I was a baby and she...
    Cranksta Cranksta 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 31

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    I am not going to start with "My mother is a

    *****!" or "I HATE MY MOM!!!", because everyone will say about how its not true and how she does everything out of "my best interest." Well I had some experiences as a very young child that has forced me to become more mature at a young age. I don't " Hate my mother," I simply...
    BleuSmith BleuSmith 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 73 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    I don't/ didn't always hate my mum its just she

    prances into my CLEAN room which she asked me to clean cause she called it a sh** hole then when i did just because i didn't do one little thing like hoover my carpet she f****** flips out and takes my xbox away i wasn't even on the ******* thing so she can fu** off if she...
    otakugamerwolf otakugamerwolf 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 29

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 88 Responses May 28, 2007

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 55 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    I'm 16, and have been living with my mother

    and my boyfriend and his dad for about a year and a half now.But, for the most part, just know I'm safe and okay besides all this. My mother and I have been together since birth, and she suffers from CIDP, a form that makes her nerves attack her own body, and leave her in a lot...
    Tarahkins Tarahkins 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 13 Responses Aug 6

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    Ive never even met my mother

    and i hate her. Sometimes i wish i could meet her just so i could yell at her. Don't know what i would say but im pretty sure i would figure it out
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 17

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    I thought I was the only one

    who could genuinely hate their mom but glad to know im not the only one. I don't call her that anymore she's just Laurie. She was married to my dad & had me at age 15 but would leave me at my dads parents for months at a time & they got tired of her doing that so went to court...
    kwhite0718 kwhite0718 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I genuinely hate my mother.

    I am one of three children and she treats me so different to the others to the point I question if she's actually my mother! She never acknowledges my birthday but she does the others, it's always one rule for them and a different for me. She constantly try's to blackmail me...
    blacksheep5 blacksheep5 46-50, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-18, F 45 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 8

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    Just found out she sabotaged my chances

    if being in the Christmas musical at my church. She told me auditions ended this week when really they ended last week. And when I called her on it she said she got the dates mixed up but I saw an email she received saying auditions were ending soon and she replied with "thank...
    Justanothergirl2000 Justanothergirl2000 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 10

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    Ever since I was a little girl my mother would

    always laugh at and make fun of me when I expressed my feelings so I decided that I wouldn't display them anymore.And I was always made fun of at school because I'm chunky and knowing that I couldn't even talk to my own mother about how much I was hurting just made me feel...
    aur532 aur532 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 8

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 24

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24

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    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    So I'm a 17yr old senior

    who really hates their mother. I understand my mom has a lot on her plate being a stay at home mom and dealing with my alcoholic father, but some of the **** she says is frankly inexcusable. I guess you can say I started hating her around 14-15. Ever since I turned about 13 she...
    NerdRock87 NerdRock87 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    Ever since the day I was born my mother has

    been the bane of my existence. She lied to me all of the time about how my family never cared about me and how they wouldn't talk to me and how they were doing it to hurt me. Unknown to me at the time my aunts were trying to gain custody of me so I would grow up in such a...
    LordZetroc2696 LordZetroc2696 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Gone

    My mother is not in my life...she's not a part of it...it's through choice. It is almost a year since we have spoken...it hurts but it's how it must be. We used to be so close, all my friends were jealous of our relationship. My mum let me do as I pleased growing up, if I wanted...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    It's been a little over three months

    now since I left home. I still look over my shoulders and fear that my mother is watching me. My email was hacked right when I left home so I know she can't reach me, but that's almost scarier. This silence is what's killing me. I don't know what she's doing or what she's...
    Cranksta Cranksta 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    This morning,I felt like its a great day.

    I was gonna tidy up and study. I saw her woke up and offer to buy her cough medicine since she was coughing. She said yes please buy for her. Then, suddenly she scolded me as if I have burned down the house. she said, YOU ARE SO LAZY! YOU NEVERTHELESS DO ANYTHING, YOU ONLY SIT...
    goldenPAW goldenPAW 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 17

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 78 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    I hate my mother. She woke me up today yelling

    at me to go on a jog with her Bc I'm the fattest one in the house. Who says that to someone? I was very tired and my feet hurt really bad from working. I work 8 hours a day and I'm always on my feet. She doesn't work. Her and my sister stopping for a second while running...
    gina1pg gina1pg 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    I don't like my mom at all.

    I hate being related to her in any type of way. She calls me worthless. A dumb ***. An animal. Like she always says **** to me for no reason just to start stuff. I won't say a word to her for days and she walk pass me and say like oh I can't wait until this girl is out of my...
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    She's told me over and over I'm not good enough.

    And that I'll never be good enough. And why can't I be more like my younger sister and that I'm turning into my older sister. Today she made me stand outside for an hour in nothing but jeans and a t-shirt. It was 40 frickin degrees outside. I eventually snapped and took a stick...
    Madis9957 Madis9957 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    I hate my mom she agonizes me she treats me

    like ****, i have no word in anything, she picks on me, she wants me to do everything like im god, and makes me do things out of nowhere i want to ******* bash her head in with a hammer, then cut het fingers off with a machete and burn her with gasoline.
    Jasonofwg Jasonofwg 18-21, M Oct 18

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 85 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    Never Was My Mother

    My parents were two of the most evil people I've ever encountered in my lifetime. My father was not involved in my life and didn't care if I lived or died. He didn't even know my name. My mother repeatedly abused me throughout my childhood and told me that I was nothing but trash...
    ashamedofmyfamily ashamedofmyfamily 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    I Have A Birthgiver Not A Mother

    "The most beautiful word on the lips of mankind is the word "Mother", and the most beautiful call is the call of "My mother.' It is a word full of hope and love, a sweet and kind word coming from the depths of the heart. - The mother is everything. - she is our consolation in...
    KKoala KKoala 18-21, F 11 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I hate my mother because she would tell me

    that my father hated me since i was in her body. I was beaten by my alcoholic father until i left home when i was 18. Last year, i asked my mother how she got married to him. He divorced her when I finished high school. She told me that she had someone else she was in love with...
    democracyloveAmerica democracyloveAmerica 36-40, F Oct 26

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    Mom:You never do anything

    for me. Me:I fake a smile, I hide my problems from you to avoid getting you stressed, I cover my scars, I dont talk to you so you dont have to put up with me,and i pretend to be mentally stable.
    SilentShadows SilentShadows 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    I haven't really had a heart to heart talk with

    my mother for four years since I was form4. It's getting worse, I try to talk and cheer her up everyday. I share new stuff with her and many times, she would response to me this way: You are so stupid and you have no future ! People is so smart while you are so stupid. You...
    goldenPAW goldenPAW 18-21, F Nov 16

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    My mother is generally a great person has many

    qualities that I value, I have learned so much from her. My childhood was mostly beautiful. I'm thankful to her for so much. BUT she also has that BAD side which I hate... She is manipulative – always makes everyone feel/do as she wishes. She criticises harshly (as a teenager...
    PasiklydusiMigloje PasiklydusiMigloje 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 12

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    I don't know if hate is the appropriate word.

    But she is very abusive verbally and screams and threatens to hit me.. I'm really scared honestly. Like she does a lot for me and it's serious tough love but sometimes I'm REALLY sick of her. She judges my friends, my life, how I dress, etc. But I understand cause she's under...
    AriannaMariee AriannaMariee 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    Ever since my mom starts babysit at a

    confinement home. She changed a lot. We had three dogs. Now she's calling my dog dirty almost everyday. Telling me their are small, dirty and scolds them a lot. I hate hearing that, I'm an only child these dogs are my life. Father abandon us when I was 2. Next year I'm going to...
    goldenPAW goldenPAW 18-21, F Nov 16

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 8 Responses May 12, 2013

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    the person that suppose to teach you things.

    or give you common ******* sense. this woman didnt teach me on ******* thing. that is why i have ****** up my life so badly.
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 26

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    Your Ex Daughter,You Can't Hurt Me Anymore(Open

    Letter to My So Called Mother)- It's me. The child that has been "missing" according to your lies for 13 years. That child is all grown up now but rest assured she remembers you and all that you did to her. That little girl remembers how you bellowed and cussed her like a dog...
    ZolotayaWurola ZolotayaWurola 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 14

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    So I talked to my mom about moving out

    because she lives really far from the city. I told her it's not personal but it's also because I have bad memories in that house that trigger panic attacks: my step dad broke my door down, I found out my boyfriend was sleeping with another girl, I attempted suicide... My mom...
    sarrmar sarrmar 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 14

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