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I Hate My Mother

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 108 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    nobody else ever makes me

    as angry and irritated as she does. And angry is even an understatement.
    Th3Ch3shir3Kat Th3Ch3shir3Kat 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    She did it again she ruined my special dinner i

    cooked for everyone for getting it in a good collage ,moreover took all the money and gift everyone gave me .She insulted me in front of my teachers and classmates saying that I'm the most worthless person living in the world. I'm worse than Hitler ,and slapped me across the...
    ben22able ben22able 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 14

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    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I hate my mother . She is

    so narrow minded about everything, and keeps holding me back from most things I want to do in life. A few months ago I decided I really wanted a lip peircing and she told me she'd consider it; she got my hopes up a lot and now she's saying “over my dead body”. She told me...
    sia085 sia085 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    I was watching The L Word on television,

    and cheered when Shane and Carmen got back together and had sex. My mom screamed at me "Do you get aroused watching this? Are you sick? It's disgusting!" I told her it's sick not to enjoy sex! She replied "No, it's sick to like two women together... it's disgusting!" I just...
    girlinwhite girlinwhite 18-21, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 7 Responses May 31, 2007

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    I don't know why but my mother likes to see me

    fail or suffer I was going to apply for a summer job and her reaction was "don't get too excited, you won't do anything worth doing. you will have to do mundane boring stuff". when i tell her about my plans instead of at least saying good luck she said " I...
    hatemymum hatemymum 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 39 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420 22-25, F 10 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    My mom needs to understand.

    If she's going to be a ***** to me, I'll be a ***** to her.
    Lemons2000 Lemons2000 18-21, F 5 Responses May 24

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    I had a dream couple nights ago,

    in my dream I was carrying a gun and i pointed it at my mom and i pulled the trigger i shot her straight to the head and i shot her again and again. I woke up little freaked but part of me enjoyed it and the other part was stilted freaked. Dreams are not random meaningless...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    God I fuucking hate her

    so much lately. I almost cry everytime I have to go see her. She's so selfish and lazy and never does anything to help around the house, the house that MY DAD BOUGHT HER after the divorce.. she makes me do chores and shiit all day which honestly wouldn't even be that big of a...
    wishdish wishdish 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 12

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 78 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    The Quote Project: Getting Through to a

    Narcissistic Mother My mother is the bane of my existence. She is narcissistic, selfish, bombastic, condescending, and an overall unpleasantry to have in my life. I have resented her for years, and sincerely hope that she soon leaves my family. But this does not mean that I...
    EmbracetheInfinite EmbracetheInfinite 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 15

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    So if you cant be a a fair parent.

    ..then don't have more than one child, because it sucks being overshadowed by someone who's younger than you.
    Mi5h Mi5h 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    I can not stand her at times she is a bully

    and she ruin my life I have depression problems cause of her I am sick of her if I was not disable I should left long time and kick her out in my life I hate my self I hate my life
    nicegirl15 nicegirl15 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 5

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 60 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    My mother is a cold hearted woman,

    Im adopted and she treats me like garbage, she fights with me over nothing, she will call me horrible names, tell me i have nothing to live for but she puts on an act for the whole world to so seem like she's a sweet kind woman, she controls my father which makes me sick. im not...
    AutumnDemons AutumnDemons 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    I honestly do. I tried to be nice the other day

    and bought her home some cake from the bakery. She was too busy talking on the phone like always and ignored me and just ate it. Today, she asked me to read over an email she was writing so that i could edit it since she literally writes like a 7 year old. I started changing...
    courvill courvill 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    Yes I do.I know I shouldn't

    but I do.She is addicted to tablets so yeah.We can't have tavlets. in the house.I have a mom who's addicted to tablets and an alcoholic father.My life is a mess.
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    Sometimes I don't know

    if it's me that's thinking, or if it's my mother's thinking. She affects my life this much. I seriously hate her so much. She flips out at the smallest of things and starts screaming at me. As if that's going to solve any of our problems. She always accuses of me of 'attitude...
    xparex xparex 16-17 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ever since I was young my mother has been a

    drinker. In recent years it has gotten worse and worse. She has hit me, neglected me, kicked me out, and treated me horrible. At thirteen, she sent me to live in a run down, mold filled, rodent infested, hoard house with no heat, no running water, in the dead of winter, with my...
    boozebaby boozebaby 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    babykiss12 babykiss12 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I live in a small town in rural Illinois.

    I'm 18 just graduated high school I have a little brother who's ten and an older brother with special needs A couple years ago my mom decided that we weren't enough for her and ran off with another man. I have no idea where she is now. I haven't seen her since In highschool I...
    JayNan51 JayNan51 18-21, M 44 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Well, I love my mother,

    but I also hate her in some ways. She was a wonderful, even magical, mother until I was 10 and then she withdrew her affection and attention. I didn't understand it at the time, but now that I'm a mom and and grandmother myself, I see that she only really likes the little ones...
    terbug terbug 61-65, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    My mother and I have NEVER had a good

    relationship. She is overbearing, stubborn and down right annoying. We as a family have been through a lot and it's made her very cold and ill mannered most of the time. I mind you am 24 going on 25. Just graduated college in May and looking to move asap. In the mean time I'm...
    Nicolelynrn Nicolelynrn 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My mother and I have NEVER had a good

    relationship. She is overbearing, stubborn and down right annoying. We as a family have been through a lot and it's made her very cold and ill mannered most of the time. I mind you am 24 going on 25. Just graduated college in May and looking to move asap. In the mean time I'm...
    Nicolelynrn Nicolelynrn 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    My mom hits me, pinches me in the head,

    slaps me, pinches me, slaps me on my arm, lies about me to others, mocks me, makes fun of my skin tone and black people in general, says my hair looks like a rats nest, always points out my flaws anywhere/time she sees fit, belittles me, gossips about me, threatens me, controls...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 1

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    I am writing on here

    because there is no where else I can speak my true feelings. And I hate it. Everyone comes from their mother, but I am so ashamed to come from my own mother. The reason why is because ever since I was a young girl, I knew that there was something wrong with our relationship...
    cdaught cdaught 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I really hate my mum too.

    To her my bro is like a god and I am like a junk and burden. She chase me out of home before and no matter what I do will be wrong and a sore eye to her. Only scard to hurt my bro feelings but what about mine? And keep compare me to others. Den what if i compare her to other...
    lonerkitty lonerkitty 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 62 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    My mother is nothing

    but a good for nothing, lazy, forceful, and nasty judgmental woman. Nothing I do is good enough for her and despite my problems she is FORCING me to go to therapy every week where I have to actually pretend to give a **** about my life and the ***** tries to make me cry. Then my...
    LilVixen17 LilVixen17 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 22

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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