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I Hate My Mother

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    i feel like my mom is very unfair no matter how

    hard i try to deny it. its just the truth. i have so many evidences that she treats me unfairly compared to how she treats my sister. like for example when i was younger getting a 70 on tests,i would be scolded and abused and hit by her. now my sister who gets a very low score...
    thebrokenanon thebrokenanon 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 36 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    i really hate my mom.

    don't get me wrong. i love her but she has zero respect for me. the fact that she throws a fuckibg tantrum everytime when notning goes her way annoys the **** out of me. she wants to break my phone into pieces. what the ****. leave my phone alone. i did housework and i went...
    RinaSerina RinaSerina 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 10

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    As a lot of you know I'm in my school play

    and I play a goth character. The first words that came out of my mothers mouth when she saw me in costume: What did you do to your face? You look like a hooker. Although its an improvement. She didn't even bother coming tonight. Not like I wanted her there anyway.
    Justanothergirl2000 Justanothergirl2000 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 18 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 88 Responses May 28, 2007

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    Why oh why was I cursed with a mother like mine.

    Hating her is an understatement, I have wished death on her more times than I can remember. She vents all her frustrations on me and somehow everything is my fault...literally everything. I have a younger brother who is horrendously misbehaved and she regards him as her only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 5

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 55 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 72 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 8 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I know she just want's to be a good mother.

    So when she 'jokes' around, and insults me, I take the hit. But then it doesn't stop. And then my older sister joins in. And they don't seem to understand when enough is enough. I feel like I'm not really part of the family. What doesn't help, is that I'm adopted, so not only...
    Haleystorm Haleystorm 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Okay so I am really pissed off at her.

    I had nothing but love for her but she has been so cold to me! I tried to forget about when she has let me down more times then I could count, forced her Christianity onto me, and when she picked a woman (Who had been blatantly rude to me) over me. I can't even talk to her...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F Dec 8

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    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420 22-25, F 8 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I have to live with her

    until I graduate from college. I really want to take to the mental therapy. Many it will help things to get better. She a really hard time accepting her faults. She think she's always right. Maybe, in her kind of world. But I am the most different person from her. We are the...
    apopril apopril 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 13 Responses Aug 6

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    She always criticized me in any way she can.

    From what I wear, what I do, how I speak... whenever I expressed my discontent such as by slamming stuff down, she either a) ignore me, b) tell me to shut up, c) talk in a voice like "ok! Fine! Whatever! I don't Care" and I tell her to calm down but she's like "I am calm OK?" I...
    WinH WinH 16-17, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    My mother has hit me,

    chased me out of the house and locked the door in the middle of the night, pushed me up against a wall by my neck, body slammed her disgusting fat little body into me, chased me out of the house with my sister to"help herd her out of the house" called the police to make it look...
    Fighter84 Fighter84 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    I was sort of guilted Into sending my mom

    and step da a holiday card. I don't like hurting people and people they know got them...my sis was like well it would be nice and you know ER birthday is coming up. She even offered to send a card for me as I was like what is the point of that....I hate her she has done many...
    searchingfar searchingfar 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Gone

    My mother is not in my life...she's not a part of it...it's through choice. It is almost a year since we have spoken...it hurts but it's how it must be. We used to be so close, all my friends were jealous of our relationship. My mum let me do as I pleased growing up, if I wanted...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    She says she does all the work.

    She says she cleans the whole house while I only sit ,eat and sleep. I kept silence, I don't wanna explain or talk back because I know I'd hurt her feelings.because she knows it's actually her fault. She never mops or sweeps the floor.but when she do, she will scold the hell...
    goldenPAW goldenPAW 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    After today, I've lost faith.

    Lost faith in my mom, my dreams and my life. Suicide is getting more and more appealing,I know I won't do it, but it's so appealing. By just imagining cutting my hand makes my pain goes off a little bit. I have no father no bros or sis. I only have my mom. What did I do to...
    goldenPAW goldenPAW 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    Never Was My Mother

    My parents were two of the most evil people I've ever encountered in my lifetime. My father was not involved in my life and didn't care if I lived or died. He didn't even know my name. My mother repeatedly abused me throughout my childhood and told me that I was nothing but trash...
    ashamedofmyfamily ashamedofmyfamily 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    I absolutely hate my mother anymore.

    I can remember all of the horrible things she did to my as a young child from physically abuse, having me live in a filthy horrible environment, engaging in sexual activity around me, overdosing on alcohol and drugs at least once a month. I know its crazy right? but true. Well i...
    blmf1994 blmf1994 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate you so much!! I really do!

    I hope in the end you regret everything you did to me!!! Screw you *****!!!
    defiantheart defiantheart 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 59 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    She gets even worse around holidays.

    I've had enough of her verbal and emotional abuse. I finally stopped biting my tongue and told her that I'm no longer going to take her ****. It ended with me sleeping at my cousins dorm with a black eye and busted up bleeding lip. I have so many bruises all over my body. They...
    Madis9957 Madis9957 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    when i told her my brother molested my she said

    " oh poor *****" she was sad for my brother. she told me kill myself on another occasion. she gave me 50 dollars and dropped me off at a bus station and told me to never come back. i never said one mean word to her or raised my voice in return. now i have no family because she...
    BMXGRL BMXGRL 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 9

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 79 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    I got to the point where I decided to just

    accept that my mother will never be the mother I needed and want. She will always be the victim taking no responsibility for her actions, even if I confront her with proof she will get angry and "how could you ever think I will do.....everyone expects me to be there sometimes...
    valprewater valprewater 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    she not even a bad mother.

    just to me. she just feels like she can control me because im skinny and lanky. she is so nice to my sisters because they look like women they have curves im the odd one out. they all bully me and treat me like ****. i dont even consider her as my mom. she has never in my life...
    msworstlife msworstlife 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    she makes me miserable,

    ever since I was about 8 years old. She told me that the way to show her I love her was to clean the house, while my dad and my brothers sat and did whatever they want and my sister ran around making major messes right after i clean it up then i get in trouble for not cleaning...
    warriorwolf1818 warriorwolf1818 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 9

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    Why? Why should i make an effort to appease you?

    Haven't i been a good daughter to you? I never gave you any problems. In fact, most mothers would be glad to have me as their daughter. I've never done anything to shame you. And yet, when i decide something for my life, you degrade me, you scream at me, you call me names. And...
    defiantheart defiantheart 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    Moved in two months ago

    and I swear to god even if i were to raise the tone of my voice talking to her in a casual conversation she full on goes assault mode with her mouth, Really cant stand this ****, my father has totally given up on her, I am slowly giving up on her, In all seriousness she asks the...
    Arizv11 Arizv11 22-25, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24

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    She Walked Away Whether She Admits Or Not- It

    is a complicated matter but my father traveled with my sibling and myself back to his homeland very young. To our mother he said it was only a holiday. He arrived back to the country without his children a month later. Two years later our father returned for good to the homeland...
    Izaakhs Izaakhs 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 24

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Just had another go with my mother !

    ! She was beating the living **** out of my little sister because of their verbal judo they just had and she was screaming for help untill i came out and took her away inside my bedroom !! Then the monster in disguise came in and pushed me away then slapped me on my face and went...
    rayooda rayooda 16-17, M 3 Responses Dec 9

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    I doubt I'll cry when my mother dies.

    The only thing she has ever done for me is bring me into this world. The only important person I remember from my childhood is my dad. To me it felt like I had only one parent. I had to grow up with the thought that my mother never liked me. I tried to built a relationship...
    BITTERandNAIVE BITTERandNAIVE 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 86 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 6 Responses May 31, 2007

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    I hate my mother. She woke me up today yelling

    at me to go on a jog with her Bc I'm the fattest one in the house. Who says that to someone? I was very tired and my feet hurt really bad from working. I work 8 hours a day and I'm always on my feet. She doesn't work. Her and my sister stopping for a second while running...
    gina1pg gina1pg 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    msworstlife msworstlife 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    I wouldn't say hate but a strong dislike

    for her. She cheats on my father alot. Considering I look nothing like my father in pretty sure he probably isn't my real father. I remember her telling me when I was little to call them uncle. It was horrible.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 8

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