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I Hate My Mother

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    I wouldn't say hate but a strong dislike

    for her. She cheats on my father alot. Considering I look nothing like my father in pretty sure he probably isn't my real father. I remember her telling me when I was little to call them uncle. It was horrible.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 8

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    She always criticized me in any way she can.

    From what I wear, what I do, how I speak... whenever I expressed my discontent such as by slamming stuff down, she either a) ignore me, b) tell me to shut up, c) talk in a voice like "ok! Fine! Whatever! I don't Care" and I tell her to calm down but she's like "I am calm OK?" I...
    WinH WinH 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 11

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    She Walked Away Whether She Admits Or Not- It

    is a complicated matter but my father traveled with my sibling and myself back to his homeland very young. To our mother he said it was only a holiday. He arrived back to the country without his children a month later. Two years later our father returned for good to the homeland...
    Izaakhs Izaakhs 22-25, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Questions For My Late Mother-What the Hell was

    you thinking about getting involved with and having a baby by a man from a place where there aren't even 5 Black people?! Black and White make Brown and did you ever give any thought to the life I would have in such a place or notice his own prejudices? Ok so I admit that you...
    TenThousandSorrows TenThousandSorrows 22-25, F Dec 10

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 13 Responses Aug 6

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    I got to the point where I decided to just

    accept that my mother will never be the mother I needed and want. She will always be the victim taking no responsibility for her actions, even if I confront her with proof she will get angry and "how could you ever think I will do.....everyone expects me to be there sometimes...
    valprewater valprewater 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I doubt I'll cry when my mother dies.

    The only thing she has ever done for me is bring me into this world. The only important person I remember from my childhood is my dad. To me it felt like I had only one parent. I had to grow up with the thought that my mother never liked me. I tried to built a relationship...
    BITTERandNAIVE BITTERandNAIVE 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    As a lot of you know I'm in my school play

    and I play a goth character. The first words that came out of my mothers mouth when she saw me in costume: What did you do to your face? You look like a hooker. Although its an improvement. She didn't even bother coming tonight. Not like I wanted her there anyway.
    Justanothergirl2000 Justanothergirl2000 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 12

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    Just had another go with my mother !

    ! She was beating the living **** out of my little sister because of their verbal judo they just had and she was screaming for help untill i came out and took her away inside my bedroom !! Then the monster in disguise came in and pushed me away then slapped me on my face and went...
    rayooda rayooda 16-17, M 3 Responses Dec 9

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 86 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Moved in two months ago

    and I swear to god even if i were to raise the tone of my voice talking to her in a casual conversation she full on goes assault mode with her mouth, Really cant stand this ****, my father has totally given up on her, I am slowly giving up on her, In all seriousness she asks the...
    Arizv11 Arizv11 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 14

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    Suicide seems so appealing every time her mean

    words cut through the love I have for her. I swear if I had another brother or sister, I'm definitely going to suicide. I'm an only child, dad ran away when I was 1. I'm constantly having the fear of losing my mom, she's my whole world. I don't have no daddy or grandma to give...
    goldenPAW goldenPAW 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 36 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 88 Responses May 28, 2007

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    She'S Crazy

    my mother is crazy. She spends her life telling me how i'm such a disappointment, and that I don't try enough and how fat I am. She's a hypocrite who I swear enjoys hurting people and bullying them.
    Secretlynaughty93 Secretlynaughty93 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 18 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 79 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    msworstlife msworstlife 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    i feel like my mom is very unfair no matter how

    hard i try to deny it. its just the truth. i have so many evidences that she treats me unfairly compared to how she treats my sister. like for example when i was younger getting a 70 on tests,i would be scolded and abused and hit by her. now my sister who gets a very low score...
    thebrokenanon thebrokenanon 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I know she just want's to be a good mother.

    So when she 'jokes' around, and insults me, I take the hit. But then it doesn't stop. And then my older sister joins in. And they don't seem to understand when enough is enough. I feel like I'm not really part of the family. What doesn't help, is that I'm adopted, so not only...
    Haleystorm Haleystorm 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 13

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    she not even a bad mother.

    just to me. she just feels like she can control me because im skinny and lanky. she is so nice to my sisters because they look like women they have curves im the odd one out. they all bully me and treat me like ****. i dont even consider her as my mom. she has never in my life...
    msworstlife msworstlife 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    when i told her my brother molested my she said

    " oh poor *****" she was sad for my brother. she told me kill myself on another occasion. she gave me 50 dollars and dropped me off at a bus station and told me to never come back. i never said one mean word to her or raised my voice in return. now i have no family because she...
    BMXGRL BMXGRL 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 9

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 24

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 55 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    I absolutely hate my mother anymore.

    I can remember all of the horrible things she did to my as a young child from physically abuse, having me live in a filthy horrible environment, engaging in sexual activity around me, overdosing on alcohol and drugs at least once a month. I know its crazy right? but true. Well i...
    blmf1994 blmf1994 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 14

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    Okay so I am really pissed off at her.

    I had nothing but love for her but she has been so cold to me! I tried to forget about when she has let me down more times then I could count, forced her Christianity onto me, and when she picked a woman (Who had been blatantly rude to me) over me. I can't even talk to her...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F Dec 8

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 74 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420 22-25, F 8 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Hey Mom. It's been a while

    since we had a serious talk, you know? A serious, mother-daughter talk. But...I don't need you to talk. I just need you to listen. Can you do that? Can you swallow your selfish pride long enough for me to open up? You're taking too many pills, Mom. And it's killing you. One...
    AnxiousAlibi AnxiousAlibi 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 6 Responses May 31, 2007

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    She says she does all the work.

    She says she cleans the whole house while I only sit ,eat and sleep. I kept silence, I don't wanna explain or talk back because I know I'd hurt her feelings.because she knows it's actually her fault. She never mops or sweeps the floor.but when she do, she will scold the hell...
    goldenPAW goldenPAW 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    My mother hits me a lot

    and quite frequently, this one time she made me get out of a moving car and just left me on the road and drove off, she didn't come back till the next day and she took my phone, so i couldn't call my friends for help. She gone completely nuts, sometimes when she's mad at me for...
    damnlife00 damnlife00 13-15 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 8 Responses May 12, 2013

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    After today, I've lost faith.

    Lost faith in my mom, my dreams and my life. Suicide is getting more and more appealing,I know I won't do it, but it's so appealing. By just imagining cutting my hand makes my pain goes off a little bit. I have no father no bros or sis. I only have my mom. What did I do to...
    goldenPAW goldenPAW 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 59 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    she makes me miserable,

    ever since I was about 8 years old. She told me that the way to show her I love her was to clean the house, while my dad and my brothers sat and did whatever they want and my sister ran around making major messes right after i clean it up then i get in trouble for not cleaning...
    warriorwolf1818 warriorwolf1818 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 9

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    my mother is the devil.

    how can i move out? i dont care how
    msworstlife msworstlife 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    She gets even worse around holidays.

    I've had enough of her verbal and emotional abuse. I finally stopped biting my tongue and told her that I'm no longer going to take her ****. It ended with me sleeping at my cousins dorm with a black eye and busted up bleeding lip. I have so many bruises all over my body. They...
    Madis9957 Madis9957 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 11

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    I can handle pretty much everything she throws

    at me, I try so hard not to cry. I shrug it off when she calls me dumb, c**t, b***c, etc. However, I can't handle it when he tells me I'm fat and I can't handle it when she tells me that she doesn't want to be my mother anymore. I don't know why she treats me like this, she is...
    smurfinaround smurfinaround 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Gone

    My mother is not in my life...she's not a part of it...it's through choice. It is almost a year since we have spoken...it hurts but it's how it must be. We used to be so close, all my friends were jealous of our relationship. My mum let me do as I pleased growing up, if I wanted...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 72 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    I Have A Birthgiver Not A Mother

    "The most beautiful word on the lips of mankind is the word "Mother", and the most beautiful call is the call of "My mother.' It is a word full of hope and love, a sweet and kind word coming from the depths of the heart. - The mother is everything. - she is our consolation in...
    Virginia9999 Virginia9999 18-21, F 11 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24

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