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I Hate My Mother

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 71 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    No contact with my mother

    for a week now. I prefer when there is no contact. She only contacts me when she wants to take one of my children out. I am considering stopping this, although it breaks my heart. I want my children to have a grandmother. My daughter stayed with her over night a week ago and...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    I wanted to go play tennis with my older sister

    (I'm 16 and she's 20) around 8:30pm and my moms like "no it's too late" wtf? She would literally send us both out to go do something if she needed or wanted it but it's for us and now it's a problem. Like that irritated to hell outta me.
    elanordee elanordee 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    ThePumpkinQueen ThePumpkinQueen 13-15, F 6 Responses Sep 1

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-18, F 45 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24

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    I'm a 39 yo man, and like the title says I hate

    my mother. I was unfortunate enough to be born to a woman who would be the poster child for parent licenses. She was mentally ill, I think bi-polar and never treated. She had wild violent tendencies and would assault and beat on me and my siblings even when we were adults...
    wonderweirdo wonderweirdo 36-40, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    You know, we respect our mother

    if she respect us. We help her out with things, we show her love and happiness but when you say jokes things to her she'll get so bitchy with you. Like my mother...well she call her self a one when she doesn't do properly. I'm her daughter and I have three brothers and two...
    TheMoonShadow12 TheMoonShadow12 16-17, F Sep 16

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    I can't take it her anymore.

    This morning she called me a little ***** and a selfish brat while kicking me over and over again. I can't take it anymore!!!!
    Madis9957 Madis9957 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 18 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    My mom stayed with the man

    who she knew molested me . She always used to tell me I need to find God to forgive but I cant. She should focus on getting him to go to God , not me.
    Mich124132 Mich124132 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 31

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    Never Was My Mother

    My parents were two of the most evil people I've ever encountered in my lifetime. My father was not involved in my life and didn't care if I lived or died. He didn't even know my name. My mother repeatedly abused me throughout my childhood and told me that I was nothing but trash...
    ashamedofmyfamily ashamedofmyfamily 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    I know most of you would probably say "How the

    hell could you hate your own mother? She's been taking care of you since you were an unborn bla bla bla." I'm very aware of what she did for me and I'm grateful of that. Unfortunately, I hate her. She hit me, she yelled at me, she called me names, she did things that I don't...
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    i swear i wish she would die.

    she is the reason for all my problems. she is a wicked witch and i hate her so much. she treates me like in a slave and i have to do all the chores while my evil sisters just stay in their rooms and do nothing. she stresses me, gives me anxiety and bullies me. she judges me for...
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F Sep 21

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 75 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    I don't like my mom at all.

    I hate being related to her in any type of way. She calls me worthless. A dumb ***. An animal. Like she always says **** to me for no reason just to start stuff. I won't say a word to her for days and she walk pass me and say like oh I can't wait until this girl is out of my...
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    My mom has made me in charge of all the cleaning

    and jobs around the house since i was 8 years old. This includes everything in the house, not just my own stuff. She has yelled at me until i cried and then yelled at me to stop crying. I was sick with a fever of 102 and she made me plant 15 trees. It took 6 and a half hours...
    agsenger agsenger 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I'll give you guys an example of how ******

    my mom is. Today, she laid in the driveway screaming and crying hysterically and shouting "my babies!!" and my sister and I had to call the cops. She was in this state because my sister voiced her opinion (a calm, valid, rational opinion) which was in support of our father...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    Gone

    My mother is not in my life...she's not a part of it...it's through choice. It is almost a year since we have spoken...it hurts but it's how it must be. We used to be so close, all my friends were jealous of our relationship. My mum let me do as I pleased growing up, if I wanted...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    At a very young age, I remember being

    confronted by my drunk mother. She told me that she never liked me and how I turned out. That the only reason why I existed was because my dad wanted to have children. I came to accept this in my childhood and up to my teen years. The way I saw it was, 'she is my mom.' I...
    BITTERandNAIVE BITTERandNAIVE 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    She ****** me off to the extreme.

    It's always about her, she always brags about 'how perfect her family is' but behind closed doors she is an absolute *****. Ever since I was a little girl she has always been so mean to me, when I was little I cut my finger with a knife and she told me that 'i deserved it'. She...
    nebulla123 nebulla123 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I think the reason I cry

    so much when my mum says horrible and filthy things to me is because I love her so much. She will verbally abuse me daily and it will effect me because I am her child and no matter how much bad stuff she says to me I'll always love her but that's what makes it so painful...
    Aishcc Aishcc 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 2

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 7 Responses May 12, 2013

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    At the moment, I hate my mom.

    She knows I'm terrified of spiders. She knows I'm practically useless until it dies, because I'm terrified of them. And right now, there is a huge black spider in my room, and I left to go to the bathroom, and then my parents came home, but none of them killed it. And now I don...
    PercyJacksonisAWESOME PercyJacksonisAWESOME 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I always knew my father did not like me

    as much as my younger siblings, but I learned he hated me when I was 10. He damned near KILLED me and she chose him. My old man didn't like having a kid darker than him and for some reason I came out black hair to my siblings brown hair and cafe au lait skin to their olive hue...
    Eitan Eitan 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 7

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    She yells at me every single day.

    She used to seperate me from my girlfriend, she says all bad things about me. I try to get a scholarship to study abroad, just to stay away from her but i need a good place to study, not this hole of hell
    ddaibangden ddaibangden 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 8

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    Thats it, i am done. Always my mom came back

    from work and always be so angry, i cant put a little word out and she starts a fight. Im only 13 but i am mature and i am absolutely sick of it. Today was the worse, she just made a fight from nothing! Anyway im here to ask u something. I tolled her i dont like.this.house...
    En3rgyShotz En3rgyShotz 13-15, M 4 Responses Sep 15

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    She loves to talk negatively about me to my

    family that lives in the Dominican Republic about me apparently being such a bad son and person and talking about how she's waiting for the day I turn 18 so I can leave the house. Then when I confront her on that, she always says that she's not talking about me when I CLEARLY...
    SgtRecker06 SgtRecker06 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I need glasses for school,

    I can't see well if I'm further than about 4-5 meters from the board. My mother says I deserve it and that I should be blind...I wondering if I should tear my eyes out and bleed to death.
    Izuka Izuka 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 2

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    My mother is a terrible person.

    She is fake, racist, annoying, homophobic, rude and immature. I know it's bad to call people names but she does it to me all the time. She thinks being a good mum is yelling at me everyday to do stuff. Which I do already without the yelling. Having a normal interesting...
    rriicchheelllle rriicchheelllle 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    I Have A Birthgiver Not A Mother

    "The most beautiful word on the lips of mankind is the word "Mother", and the most beautiful call is the call of "My mother.' It is a word full of hope and love, a sweet and kind word coming from the depths of the heart. - The mother is everything. - she is our consolation in...
    Virginia9999 Virginia9999 18-21, F 11 Responses May 12, 2013

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    My mum is my best friend :) My mother gave

    birth to me . She cared for me . Loved me . Please don't think that I could ever hate her . That I couldn't ever forgive her . Hate is the worse kind of emotion and in my case I don't ever recall ever feeling that for her.
    interlink2 interlink2 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    There is too much negativity in this house

    and I can't stand it anymore!
    BrieezyMusselwhite BrieezyMusselwhite 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    My mother went out last night with friends

    and wound up hitting on a bunch of guys. She winds up with her hand in a pair of pants and the owner of said pants happens to be my father's best friend, and he told dad what happened and how he didn't want to be some with my mother again. Mother came to me and tried to say it...
    TheWomanYouHate TheWomanYouHate 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 54 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    Sadly last nights sleep did not come naturally,

    my mom's on some new drug and she went crazy and beat me till I passed out. Guess I get to wear jeans and a sweater again today.
    Madis9957 Madis9957 13-15, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 88 Responses May 28, 2007

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    I hate my mother. She woke me up today yelling

    at me to go on a jog with her Bc I'm the fattest one in the house. Who says that to someone? I was very tired and my feet hurt really bad from working. I work 8 hours a day and I'm always on my feet. She doesn't work. Her and my sister stopping for a second while running...
    gina1pg gina1pg 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 12 Responses Aug 6

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 18

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 78 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 6 Responses May 31, 2007

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    It's an odd situation

    that I really don't know how to handle fully. My Amish side of my family is opening back up a bit and I've been able to have some contact lately,a thing I've been praying over for a while. But my birth mother found out by listening in on a phone conversation one day and she's...
    TheWomanYouHate TheWomanYouHate 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 16

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    My mother makes me want to scream

    and cry and die all at the same time. I always question how I'm related to her. She is a mean, fake, annoying, overall horrible person to be around. She has no consideration for other people, and she yells and screams at my entire family (my brothers and even my dad) constantly...
    angryannoyedteen angryannoyedteen 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 69 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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