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I Hate My Mother

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24

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    I guess something's are just hard wired,

    seriously it's my final days of my summer vacation. All I ask for is relaxation, nothing more. But no, my mother who promised to help me get through my problems, who promised to stop being the ***** she once was to me, one of the many people that hurt me and caused me to be this...
    MultipleRex MultipleRex 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 18

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 6 Responses May 31, 2007

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 18 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    Gone

    My mother is not in my life...she's not a part of it...it's through choice. It is almost a year since we have spoken...it hurts but it's how it must be. We used to be so close, all my friends were jealous of our relationship. My mum let me do as I pleased growing up, if I wanted...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    My mom told me i wad too fat to wear a dress to

    my cousins wedding and because my tattoos are screaming for attention. She begged me to wear a dress she had that fit her. I weigh 115, im not fat. I have a flower tattoo on my shoulder and a phoenix bird on my chest in memorium to september 11 victims that I knew. mom told me...
    antrevizo antrevizo 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 3

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    I always knew my father did not like me

    as much as my younger siblings, but I learned he hated me when I was 10. He damned near KILLED me and she chose him. My old man didn't like having a kid darker than him and for some reason I came out black hair to my siblings brown hair and cafe au lait skin to their olive hue...
    Eitan Eitan 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 7

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 70 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    It is a tough thing to admit,

    and for some years I thought of it as more of a love/hate - relationship. But there is little love left now. Only hate, frustration, anger and then finally guilt for hating her. All my life I have been treated like some trophy that she can brag about to all her high society...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    she is a saddist. and unfortunately she was

    ever in my presense in this life.
    basicallydead basicallydead 18-21, F Aug 15

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    Ever since my mom were together with his

    boyfriend she fcking changed, she became a fcking BIITCH. Yep a HUGE one, I'm ******* done with this so called 'family' bull shIit 😂
    Heissler Heissler 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 54 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 87 Responses May 28, 2007

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    She told me I was retarded

    and smiles smugly whenever she sees me starting to get upset
    jjrmsl jjrmsl 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    My mother is now in her 50s.

    She was growing up in the country where a woman should get married and have kids. If not, she is a loser. I was growing up under her control. She pressured me to housework, cooking and cleaning. I hate this all besides cooking. All her life she was only working and never had any...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    She never talks to me

    unless it is to tell me to do chores. I've never once heard her say "I love you". She told me I was retarded and told my oldest sister that she was her favorite. She's also a ***** 24/7 not only to us but to my dad too. She's not an overall bad person all the good parts of her...
    jjrmsl jjrmsl 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I hate my mother. She woke me up today yelling

    at me to go on a jog with her Bc I'm the fattest one in the house. Who says that to someone? I was very tired and my feet hurt really bad from working. I work 8 hours a day and I'm always on my feet. She doesn't work. Her and my sister stopping for a second while running...
    gina1pg gina1pg 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 7 Responses May 12, 2013

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    **Update on my last post about my mother** She

    finally let me go to my grandmothers house, and about 5 days later she called me at around 10 pm yelling at me that I had two hours to get home, my only ride would have been my sister in law with two small kids. (In order for me to get home, my sister in law would have to wake...
    wingedmadman wingedmadman 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 69 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    today she hit me so hard!

    5 of my bones broke today (litterally) She didnt take me to the hospital! Im bleeding and in my face i have a lot of scratches! Please help me!'
    oceanunique101 oceanunique101 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why did God curse me with this woman

    for a so called mother? Every damned day she gets harder to live with. Most days I find myself silently praying that when she leaves she doesn't come back! Nobody would miss her if she didn't except my *** sucking biitch of of a older brother.LA MALDITA NEGRA PUTA!!!!-My mother...
    SolomonSaul SolomonSaul 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I can't eat anything

    because I am a fat *****! I can't do anything because I am FAT and DUMB! That is what my mom calls me! My mom will never ever me proud of me ever! I am going to Middle School on September 4th! I just graduated elementary school! I have to admit, I am fat, but that does not mean...
    oceanunique123 oceanunique123 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate when she lies to me.

    I hate her! It makes me mad because i can't do anything about it as always! Every time i ask her to do me a favor and she says "yes" but it never really happened! I hate you mom! Why can't you promise me? Don't make an excuse that you are tired! don't ask me a favor if you don't...
    vinxgaza vinxgaza 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    She's to over protective I can't

    even go to the washroom in a public place I'm a smart a** but your a narcissistic a** hole and you don't give a damn about my ideas and I always try to help but I'm a selfish little brat apparently because you buy my things I never asked for learn to stop I don't love you
    Alyssaisthename Alyssaisthename 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 29

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    Everyday. I hate being near her I hate hearing

    her voice I hate having her talk to me she is disgusting. She never helps me and she knows I've got these issues these issues that need help and here she is bitching about every other thing in the whole ******* world I ******* hate her and she sick right now she has cancer...
    Kurpenter Kurpenter 13-15, T 1 Response Aug 3

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    So I'll give you guys an example of how ******

    my mom is. Today, she laid in the driveway screaming and crying hysterically and shouting "my babies!!" and my sister and I had to call the cops. She was in this state because my sister voiced her opinion (a calm, valid, rational opinion) which was in support of our father...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    I don't love her at all.

    She's just a ***** to me. Not my fault she got herself pregnant. I study very hard and she only sees the 'dirt' or 'mess' I make in my room. What the hell does she know? She doesn't even clean up after herself! She leaves beer bottles lying everywhere! The maids clean and when...
    blairlatanya blairlatanya 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    She can't watch me smile,

    it boils her blood. No wonder Dad gave up on her.
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M Aug 10

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Today, My mom wakes me up at 9:00 in the morning

    so we can go to my dentist appointment. when i get home, she says we are going grocery shopping. She goes to get 2 plants from home depot. she then goes back out and get lottery tickets. When my grandma says what are we having for dinner. she sends me to get food. My Mom says...
    Dwayne281 Dwayne281 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 58 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    I can't stand her.. Like everything she does

    just bugs the hell out of me. I need to hurry up and graduate and get the **** away from her.. FAR away..
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    UGH SHE TELLS ME THAT I'M ******* SELFISH

    REALLY?!?!?!? ARE YOU SERIOUS RIGHT NOW?!?!?HOW I'M I SELFISH; I AM LEGIT PERFECT CHILD, I NEVER GOT IN TROUBLE, HAVE PERFECT GRADES IN SCHOOL, DO COMMUNITY SERVICE AND ETC. YET I ASK YOU TO DO SOMETHING OR AT LEAST TRY AND YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH MY IDEA!!!!!! I NEVER...
    Xmidniteangel15X Xmidniteangel15X 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I remember being younger

    and writing on paper that I hate my mother and I would show her the paper. I use to like and love my mother. Now I no longer do. I don't trust her and her actions irk me. My mom is judgmental and likes to push her religious belief on others. She talks bad of gay people. She...
    Hannarose Hannarose 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    One day when I was about 4 my step brother

    who's 17 years old and I where going to cut a cake to see what gender was my moms and step dads baby (My step dad loves my step brother more than me) and my other "REAL" brother was at a friends house and he was 4. Anyways my step dad cut the cake I was hoping for it to be a...
    catlover031 catlover031 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    The key to getting along with your parents

    or improving your relationship with them is independence. Once you are out of their house and no longer depend on them for anything you will be able to take control of your own life. I have no problem letting go, hell I've wanted to for years, but what do you do when you have a...
    genuine94 genuine94 18-21, F Aug 6

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    U call me selfish coz I gt mad

    when my brother ate my bread today I need to finish the assignment this week, I used all my internet data yesterday Then he angry my brother not willing to share his data, u even help him explain that he need it and is LOGIC that he don't want to share Hey, I don't even want...
    GravityFall GravityFall 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    i hate that person who gave birth to me she is

    not fit to be called a mother she has not got a loving caring bone in her body,and i will shed no tears over her when she is dead she has three daughters and in her eyes the middle sister can do no wrong in every thing she says and does i am the eldest and i get on well with my...
    siac siac 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I just found out my mum has been arrested.

    It's weird, i feel like I should be angry at her or stressed out or upset, but I don't even care, in fact, I actually feel a bit relieved.
    holly2955 holly2955 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 71 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    I Have A Birthgiver Not A Mother

    "The most beautiful word on the lips of mankind is the word "Mother", and the most beautiful call is the call of "My mother.' It is a word full of hope and love, a sweet and kind word coming from the depths of the heart. - The mother is everything. - she is our consolation in...
    Virginia9999 Virginia9999 18-21, F 11 Responses May 12, 2013

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    Hate can be a strong word

    but in this case it's true because I cannot love my mum I can't cannot call her and say I need help, I can't ever call her my mum anymore as she has lost that title from me. She's hurt me and shouted and scared me and I know I can't go on living with a women who does act like my...
    AwkwardM AwkwardM 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 78 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 6

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