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I Hate My Mother

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 13 Responses Aug 6

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    I was born in South Korea to a Black mother in

    the US Army and a "local" [Korean Mother/White Father] father. When I was 1 my mother left Korea with me claiming sudden assignment change. When I was 4 after my mother demanded Child Support revealing our whereabouts my father came and took me from Virginia back to Korea. Fair...
    DiemLibre07 DiemLibre07 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I never liked her in the first place.

    Ever since I was born, she has always been the way she is and that's why I don't like her. She was never there for me. She always make the same excuse saying that my dad said that she couldn't be hard on me so that's why she does what she does. my dad isn't even here and she...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I work 12.5 hours shifts 3-4 days a week

    and come home exhausted....but sometimes actually most of the times when I'm home I wish I could do 24hrs shifts, just so I can avoid her.
    Aishcc Aishcc 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 54 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    Our relationship had finally mended slightly.

    Then her next boyfriend and his daughter just had to come into the picture. Well, she was nice to them. But she is neglecting me, she is obsessed over her boyfriend. She did not care about me. She loves his boyfriend's daughter more than me. Am I supposed to feel jealous? But...
    Neunte Neunte 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    The really sad thing is

    that i have 2 moms, and neither give a ****. The mom that i live with seems to be always drunk and yells at me for no reason. She also finds a way to ruin every hope of happiness for me. That is a reason why I've attempted suicide five times this year; to be six very soon. My...
    Experiencevisionary Experiencevisionary 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 14

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    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 80 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    I just wanted to rant about how much I don't

    like my mother. First off, I don't get how she gets so pissed off when I do something wrong (they're always the littlest things) she just goes off on me but when my brother does something way worse than me (ie when he ******* vandalized 2 schools like 4 times she gets mad but...
    MisunderstoodCat MisunderstoodCat 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    She ****** me off to the extreme.

    It's always about her, she always brags about 'how perfect her family is' but behind closed doors she is an absolute *****. Ever since I was a little girl she has always been so mean to me, when I was little I cut my finger with a knife and she told me that 'i deserved it'. She...
    nebulla123 nebulla123 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    okred okred 16-17, F Oct 11

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    I hate her when i need something from her she

    would be like no.For Example every time we go to the mall she always spends her money on her and my sister and never me.When we are home i ask her can i buy something online using her credit card and she says she used it all and i should have asked sooner T F?! I had asked her 3...
    TherealCristal111 TherealCristal111 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    At a very young age, I remember being

    confronted by my drunk mother. She told me that she never liked me and how I turned out. That the only reason why I existed was because my dad wanted to have children. I came to accept this in my childhood and up into my teen years. The way I saw it was, 'she's my mom.' I...
    BITTERandNAIVE BITTERandNAIVE 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 28

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    Gone

    My mother is not in my life...she's not a part of it...it's through choice. It is almost a year since we have spoken...it hurts but it's how it must be. We used to be so close, all my friends were jealous of our relationship. My mum let me do as I pleased growing up, if I wanted...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    I hate my mother. She woke me up today yelling

    at me to go on a jog with her Bc I'm the fattest one in the house. Who says that to someone? I was very tired and my feet hurt really bad from working. I work 8 hours a day and I'm always on my feet. She doesn't work. Her and my sister stopping for a second while running...
    gina1pg gina1pg 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    My mom thinks she is accepting

    and understanding. She believes that she is the best mom out there who doesn't scold her kids and is always nice, but she is far from it. She has a horrible temper (when she's mad she can talk about how she wants to commit suicide in order for me and my sister to learn how to be...
    adrianaelton adrianaelton 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 69 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 7 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    My mom goes on a trip

    for the weekend and leaves me $50 and half that money for my own groceries. I take majority of the money and buy food. I have $10 left. Then I took the $10 and went to the movies with my best friend. She comes back while I'm doing my homework and says "where's the money" I say...
    Clout00 Clout00 18-21 Oct 13

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 18

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    i swear i wish she would die.

    she is the reason for all my problems. she is a wicked witch and i hate her so much. she treates me like in a slave and i have to do all the chores while my evil sisters just stay in their rooms and do nothing. she stresses me, gives me anxiety and bullies me. she judges me for...
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F Sep 21

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 36 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    I hate my mom she agonizes me she treats me

    like ****, i have no word in anything, she picks on me, she wants me to do everything like im god, and makes me do things out of nowhere i want to ******* bash her head in with a hammer, then cut het fingers off with a machete and burn her with gasoline.
    Jasonofwg Jasonofwg 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I know most of you would probably say "How the

    hell could you hate your own mother? She's been taking care of you since you were an unborn bla bla bla." I'm very aware of what she did for me and I'm grateful of that. Unfortunately, I hate her. She hit me, she yelled at me, she called me names, she did things that I don't...
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 29

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 6 Responses May 31, 2007

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 88 Responses May 28, 2007

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    So I'll give you guys an example of how ******

    my mom is. Today, she laid in the driveway screaming and crying hysterically and shouting "my babies!!" and my sister and I had to call the cops. She was in this state because my sister voiced her opinion (a calm, valid, rational opinion) which was in support of our father...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    I don't like my mom at all.

    I hate being related to her in any type of way. She calls me worthless. A dumb ***. An animal. Like she always says **** to me for no reason just to start stuff. I won't say a word to her for days and she walk pass me and say like oh I can't wait until this girl is out of my...
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    TheGirlYouNeverKnew TheGirlYouNeverKnew 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 16

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    I can't take it her anymore.

    This morning she called me a little ***** and a selfish brat while kicking me over and over again. I can't take it anymore!!!!
    Madis9957 Madis9957 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 78 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 18 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    I dont hate her, but she can go to **** herself.

    the problem with her, is that she doesnt let me live. and i ******* hate her for that. she hurt me, emotionally and physically. She is an absent parent (so as my dad), she is never home, and when she is, she is too tired to be with her daughters. Still, she thinks she have...
    movinx movinx 18-21 1 Response Oct 13

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-18, F 45 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 24

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    Why? Why should i make an effort to appease you?

    Haven't i been a good daughter to you? I never gave you any problems. In fact, most mothers would be glad to have me as their daughter. I've never done anything to shame you. And yet, when i decide something for my life, you degrade me, you scream at me, you call me names. And...
    defiantheart defiantheart 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    I'm a 39 yo man, and like the title says I hate

    my mother. I was unfortunate enough to be born to a woman who would be the poster child for parent licenses. She was mentally ill, I think bi-polar and never treated. She had wild violent tendencies and would assault and beat on me and my siblings even when we were adults...
    wonderweirdo wonderweirdo 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 26

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    Never Was My Mother

    My parents were two of the most evil people I've ever encountered in my lifetime. My father was not involved in my life and didn't care if I lived or died. He didn't even know my name. My mother repeatedly abused me throughout my childhood and told me that I was nothing but trash...
    ashamedofmyfamily ashamedofmyfamily 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    My mom has made me in charge of all the cleaning

    and jobs around the house since i was 8 years old. This includes everything in the house, not just my own stuff. She has yelled at me until i cried and then yelled at me to stop crying. I was sick with a fever of 102 and she made me plant 15 trees. It took 6 and a half hours...
    agsenger agsenger 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 28

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    My mother is my biggest disappointment in life.

    She is schizophrenic and has been throughout her adult life . It's as if she wants me dead. She rids me of my privacy, doesn't do any work properly and moves as though I'm not even there. She has certainly ruined my life, and makes it hard to be happy on your own. She is a...
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 14

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    Background info: jr. In high school,

    my mom sits at a desk all day long then commutes 1-2 hrs per trip ( 4 hrs a day) to come home and complain about how bad the office is and get stressed over work and most importantly to sleep. my mom keeps pestering me for a list of what my goals are. Today I handed her a...
    SacredLoaf SacredLoaf 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 20

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    #rant My mother is an *******.

    I live with my grandmother to help her around the house and to make sure that she doesn't fall and/or hurt herself with nobody there to help her, and I have left some (a lot) of my stuff at my mother's house, where I lived previously. I've asked my mother just to left my stuff...
    thefaeuniverse thefaeuniverse 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    My mother has this idea

    that you can live life without doing anything wrong, living like a saint, and still feel fulfilled. I don't like her, not just as a mother, but as a person. If I were her age and met her I would think 'God, that woman is crazy, obnoxious, weird, and pathetic.' If I even said to...
    unknown5141 unknown5141 18-21, F Oct 10

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