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I Hate My Mother

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    So don't get me wrong,

    I love my mom, but she becomes a ***** a few times. This is one case. Since I'm a male, I hang out with my friends, play league of legends, and all that. I am becoming a Sophomore too. So in this game particularly, I play it with my friends and stuff. But the thing is that I've...
    zigar0987 zigar0987 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    Today my mother told me she doesnt care about

    me. Well what did i except? She has never really been nice to me. She doesnt know how to control herself when she is angry. Throughout my life, if something goes wrong constant verbal abuse is thrown at me. All i hear is "stupid b**ch" "**** off" "i dont care about you" "you're...
    courvill courvill 16-17, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    My mom needs to understand.

    If she's going to be a ***** to me, I'll be a ***** to her.
    Lemons2000 Lemons2000 18-21, F 5 Responses May 24

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    It's hard, and yet...

    NOT hard to write this. I love my mother, but only because she's my mother. Otherwise, I would have absolutely NOTHING to do with her. As far back as I can remember, she has no financial control or sense. She spends and spends, then whines that she has no money. As soon as...
    Sionna7910 Sionna7910 31-35, F 3 Responses May 15

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    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420 22-25, F 10 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    She is the most self centered mean spirited

    selfish person I I know. Her entire life has been about pleasing herself. She allowed all of us to be in situations that were unsafe, and as a result we were ALL molested and harmed. And she has the nerve to call herself a Christian. She is the main reason I do NOT go to church...
    Blackberri5 Blackberri5 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My mom yells at my dad all the time.

    I tried to defend him and she got so mad at me. Im nervous that my dad eventually wont be able to take it anymore and will fall into depression or just run away from us. Im nervous for his wellbeing
    ab524 ab524 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 79 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-17, F 48 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    I’m so relieved to have found this thread.

    There’s so much I want to write and I just don’t know where to begin, but here it goes… I come from a culture where mothers train their kids (especially boys) to love them above everything but God, and where Exodus 20:12 and Ephesians 6:2 were cited constantly as a way...
    latinamerican35 latinamerican35 31-35, M 2 Responses May 12

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    I don't know how to explain I just have

    so much hate towards my mother , she's not the same . I used to think I had the best mom , but not no more she threaten to hit me with the metal that holds my mirror up and I didn't know what to do Since she never has hurt me like that so I just said that she should hit me so I...
    jxsminnx jxsminnx 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    My mom is so mean to my dad.

    I feel so bad for him it makes me cry.
    ab524 ab524 18-21, F 2 Responses May 21

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    I feel like I need to get this off my chest,

    since I have held it in for as long as I could remember and it broke me in so many ways. I am from a first generation American Chinese family. I am 20 and chose to be as far away from my family as possible. I have always been a stubborn child, so growing up in a controlling...
    Jchen52m Jchen52m 18-21 4 Responses May 22

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    ineedhelp122 ineedhelp122 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    I hate my mother. I know many people say this

    but very few actually mean it with all their soul. I am the very few that do. I never tell anyone about this because I know how they'll judge me for it, especially since they all have perfect and happy families in which I don't and never will. These people will never understand...
    ihateher44 ihateher44 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 7 Responses May 31, 2007

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 77 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    I apologize in advance

    for how long this is but I just really need to vent all this out.. So here we go. Ever since I was little my mom would do extremely mean things to me and my dad. She would break us down with her words and and burn right through us with her cold eyes, but like I said, me and my...
    middleschool14 middleschool14 26-30, F 2 Responses May 11

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    My mom has driven me insane

    for the past 7-8 years of my life. It all really started spiraling down hill when my Grandpa died. My grades startes slipping. I didn't get all A+ anymore, I started getting A. My mom flipped out, she said that if my grades dropped anymore, she'll send me to an orphanage and...
    Starlightrose Starlightrose 18-21, F 2 Responses May 11

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    My mom always goes back on her word

    whenever I ask her to do something for me. Just today I asked her to take me to my friends house to pick up an ethernet cable I needed and she said yes. He said it was finished at around 7pm and I told my mom we could go now. She said no because, "It's too late." 7pm. Late...
    Denasu Denasu 22-25, M 3 Responses May 17

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    Hey, I'm 16 and Muslim.

    I really hate my mom.WHY? Because she loves my 14 years old sister more than me (and she's turning 15) only a year and some months between us. As I can remember, I started hating my mom from grd 6. As I recognized her love for my sister. And I used to ignore it, just ignore...
    16sara 16sara 16-17, F 3 Responses May 11

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    So I've just joined this site,

    and I joined it because I'm feeling some unhealthy feelings right now towards my mom, and I just have to vent. Usually my best friend is the one I talk to about this, but I think sometimes she may not want to hear it or get tired of it, and I can't actually come out with the...
    Mstootiredtocare Mstootiredtocare 18-21, F 3 Responses May 14

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 5

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    I hate my mother .. i felt like this

    since i was a child she always hit me and yelled at me out of nothing she never took care of me she always tilling my brothers to hit me and yell at me actually she till everyone that .. i grow up in hate so i feel nothing towards my family besides hate and anger i feel like i...
    happiness787 happiness787 18-21, F May 9

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I hate my mother so much!

    A few moments ago she told me that she wished I was dead and started hitting me with a wooden stool. She told a lot of hurtful things to me. I was so angry that i grabbed the only graduation that i have and i smashed it infront of her. She just walked out without saying anything...
    itachiuchiha07 itachiuchiha07 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 73 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 60 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    Today would be Mother's Day to most people

    but to me, it's just another average day.
    Roflcash4 Roflcash4 16-17, M 1 Response May 10

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    I always try to make her feel better

    but everytime I do, I get yelled at. So my mom put me in this stupid thing called "Kumon" and all it does is literally give you homework. My mom is forcing me to complete the program so that if I "fail" in life I could "work" there. Since school is almost ending, she thinks that...
    jungkookies4u jungkookies4u 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    She never listens to me.

    It's a huge problem because she takes it upon herself to make important decisions for me. It all started in junior high, i managed to get a very high score in my final exam and got accepted to a very good and reputable school. She stupidly rejected the school in favour of a...
    hatemymum hatemymum 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    my mother paid for the ex husband's divorce

    attorney... and then told me I murdered my still born daughter and therefore did not deserve custody of my son
    ggrmos ggrmos 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 6 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    No respect. She really doesn't have the

    slightest bit of human decency. It's honestly sad. I've been called awful names by her and been treated very horribly. She literally ONLY tolerates me. My parents are split up and live ( by car) about 19+ hours away from each other. Every single time I make a mistake or do...
    Oxne12 Oxne12 31-35, F 4 Responses May 19

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    She's always treated me like s***

    for as long as I can remember. She's childish and takes her husband's side even when he's wrong. She used to call me a b**** out of anger and used to tell me that she didn't know why I wanted to see my dad so much because he didn't give a s*** about me. It might have been true...
    FutureVet2014 FutureVet2014 18-21, F 2 Responses May 23

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