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I Hate My Mother

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    TheDevilHerself TheDevilHerself 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-17, F 50 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    there is always two options

    either she does it her way or she forces to do it her way.
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M Jan 30

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 5, 2015

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    I spent my whole life feeling ugly

    and hated, even though I wasn't bad looking, my mother made me like that, she would insult me, humiliate me, telling me I'm not good enough, that I'm ugly and that they know which kid they believe in and in which one they don't, it has crushed me, and I can't move on from it...
    curiousdweller curiousdweller 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    My experience is so bad.

    I'm 17 my mom always reminds me that i'm a mistake and she always says she hates me... I tried to fix our relationship many time I couldn't she don't like me at all I had health problems because of her ...I smoked I did drugs to forget nothing works she just hate me why??!!
    Yasmine09 Yasmine09 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    My mom hits me, pinches me in the head,

    slaps me, pinches me, slaps me on my arm, lies about me to others, mocks me, makes fun of my skin tone and black people in general, says my hair looks like a rats nest, always points out my flaws anywhere/time she sees fit, belittles me, gossips about me, threatens me, controls...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 1, 2015

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 66 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 76 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    Today my mom started screaming at my harmless

    dad for wanting to talk to a girl that was his friend and he didn't talk to her since 4th grade. She curses him out. This is the 1st time I've seen my dad cry. I'm constantly on alert because my mom hits me a lot (don't call police PLEASE) and I think she hits my dad...1st I...
    soccergamerbv soccergamerbv 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 4, 2015

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    I decided to Bury The Hatchet

    and start over and i'll talk to her about the things i don't like and maybe just maybe she will consider my thoughts and feelings but it's hopeless it's like talking to a wall, walls don't listen walls don't change walls don't care about anything. this woman is unbelievable
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M Jan 30

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    I honestly can't even look at her

    for more than a minute, without it completely ruining my mood. She's honestly so pathetic. I'm counting down the days until I move out. I'm just so tired of her being rude, demeaning, unsupportive and just plain horrible. She literally drains my happiness. I don't understand...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 26, 2015

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    From the mean words to meaningless

    arguments From the hurtful words to her swear words That's who she is Her regrets and her jealousy She wished she never had me Those regrets give rise to frustration How can a mother be so inhumane? What did i do? Why does she hate me so much? Those mean words Those hurtful...
    siana2 siana2 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    i dont know how to feel.

    i have this deep running hatred for my mother. and it stems from reasons that alot of people find stupid. but its there. i feel physically sick in her presence. lately she has been quite good though. she even bought me flowers and i just dont know how to react. i know the right...
    butterflykisses11 butterflykisses11 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate how people glorify mothers,

    just because someone gave birth to you, doesn't automatically make them angels, mothers can be very twisted, and since rarely anyone wants to support that, you get pushed in the corner, like some delusional bit**
    curiousdweller curiousdweller 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    I have a festering hatred

    for my mother. I just find it so petty and shallow that she finds the need to validate herself as a person by talking **** on me to relatives, friends, and others. How insecure. She victimizes herself, but she's always the one who picks the fights, because honestly I wouldn't...
    hyeonsil hyeonsil 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    I don't know where to start,

    She is a horrible EVIL person. She is mentally sick I think but she would never admit to that. She NEVER admits to any of her faults, bullies, talks behind my back to her churchy friends, betrays, lies, believes strangers over her own children. And then has the audacity to...
    newbeginnings2016 newbeginnings2016 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    My mother always says

    that I was her pride and joy. However, for someone you say you love so much you sure as hell treat me like ****. I am never enough for you no matter what I do it is wrong, but if my brother did the same you would praise him I know he is the favorite no matter how much you say...
    hitomisnow1 hitomisnow1 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 1

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 14 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    I was quite misfortuned

    for the fact that I was brought around a mother who was very hateful and racist towards me ..I'm very dark skinned ugly and scruffy tiny lady ..my mother is quite light skinned and her mother was even a lot whiter and two of her grandparents were blond with blue eyes ...I think...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 80 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    So I'll give you guys an example of how ******

    my mom is. Today, she laid in the driveway screaming and crying hysterically and shouting "my babies!!" and my sister and I had to call the cops. She was in this state because my sister voiced her opinion (a calm, valid, rational opinion) which was in support of our father...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    My mom needs to understand.

    If she's going to be a ***** to me, I'll be a ***** to her.
    Lemons2000 Lemons2000 18-21, F 4 Responses May 24, 2015

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    I hate my mother because

    though she gets me **** only on christmas or bday but idc about that i just wish she would treat me nice like all she would be is passive aggressive and push my anxiety buttons and is so judgmental so abusive and mentally breaking me down ****
    shawnee54 shawnee54 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 39 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    Last night was a long night.

    Long story short it ended with my mom calling me a selfish and blaming me for all the problems in my parents marriage. And then she wonders why im such a mess
    jess965 jess965 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    I looked in the mirror today

    and I realised that I'm just a little **** ...I'm just a little **** and that's all I'm ..from looking at my reflection in the mirror I get the answers to why I'm isolated and abandoned by the whole world ..I do not look like a woman or either a man ..I'm just a little devilish...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    I hate my mom and i always will.

    I have the worst friendship or whatever you wanna call it with my my mom. My mom is always judging me and wants to change me. Im a little me, she hates it when i wear black , no gonna lie black is my favorite color. Im so sporty and a lil girly and she doesn't appreciates that...
    babyyyelisa babyyyelisa 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    I hate her, the ***** doesn't let me live in

    peace, first she asks for my help, then shouts back at me, tells me I'm no good, ******* socio *****!!!
    curiousdweller curiousdweller 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 6

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    darklotus01 darklotus01 13-15, T 3 days ago

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 31-35, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 26-30, M 6 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    my mom always lets the dog outside of our house,

    into our backyard. our yard only has fences on one side and the dog runs around, and ventures around everywhere. she can even get onto the road, (a very busy road) and has almost gotten hit by a car twice. now every time she lets her out i run after the dog, and yell at her...
    mayamanoharan mayamanoharan 22-25, F Jan 2

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    My mom texted me at 1am,

    6am & then called me at 6:05am asking to borrow $60, talking about she wanted it to be fresh on my mind. I told her no but felt bad about it because I know I have $60. She called me later in the day while I was at work. She said she needed it for her rent & that she would be...
    Rchlwds Rchlwds 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I'm sorry, but I need to get these feelings of

    resentment and hatred out of me before I end up doing something very foolish. I hate my mother. I just hate her. I cant stand to be around her. I am 22 and still living at home, and she never lets me forget it. I help her in every possible way that I can; although have a part...
    aaron812 aaron812 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    Im so pissed off with her!

    I knew I was never hugely important to her but now i know I'm worth less then a caravan holiday to Wales ( which she's on atm) I rang her up to tell her about this open evening at college where she gets to meet my Guidance support tutor who will help me with everything this year...
    Ridingtonewyork Ridingtonewyork 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2015

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    So basically my mum is a "clean freak".

    She hates anyone touching the bed that she sleeps on but her room is definitely a pig's sty. And our washing machine is located in the garden where she once saw a rat climbing on a tree and so she never dared to wash her clothing outside anymore. Thus, the rest of the family (my...
    playfulpotato playfulpotato 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I really LOATHE my mom.

    I don't even think loathe is the right word. She wants everything her way, she always says it's never her way so we all have to do it her way. She has said that at least once a week for that past hmmm I dunno maybe TWO YEARS. I'm in the car and I asked my mom for a birthday...
    soccergamerbv soccergamerbv 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 20 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    dyingsnowangel dyingsnowangel 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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