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I Hate My Mother

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    I hate my mother because she critize about

    everyone and everything. She never show affection and doesn't act like a motherly type. I just wish to be away from her and never see her again.
    mjrnmcv mjrnmcv 41-45, T Apr 14

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    I don't like my mom at all.

    I hate being related to her in any type of way. She calls me worthless. A dumb ***. An animal. Like she always says **** to me for no reason just to start stuff. I won't say a word to her for days and she walk pass me and say like oh I can't wait until this girl is out of my...
    iamj iamj 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Basically I don't class her

    as my mother just my birth giver, and I know it's harsh but I've reason, this woman's made me question weather my life is worth living called me ugly, dumb and said I'd never amount to anything, she's said on numerous occasions that she hates me, everyday when the last bell of...
    lillylexi lillylexi 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    She Drove Me Away With Her Jealousy-Technically

    I am her only child. Not the only one born,but the only one who lived with her. Her sons were raised by their grandmother on their father's side. She went to visit them,but my father(her husband) was not keen on having them come to our home. My mother thought my father was Greek...
    ZolotayaWurola ZolotayaWurola 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Gone

    My mother is not in my life...she's not a part of it...it's through choice. It is almost a year since we have spoken...it hurts but it's how it must be. We used to be so close, all my friends were jealous of our relationship. My mum let me do as I pleased growing up, if I wanted...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    It took me nearly 50 years to find out it

    wasn't me this whole time - it was her. She's been diagnosed as bi-polar and with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She's nearly 90, and she's made the lives of my entire family sheer hell the entire time, from birth to the present. I try to tell myself that everything she did...
    waitingandhating waitingandhating 51-55, F 4 Responses Apr 15

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 68 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    I Have A Birthgiver Not A Mother

    "The most beautiful word on the lips of mankind is the word "Mother", and the most beautiful call is the call of "My mother.' It is a word full of hope and love, a sweet and kind word coming from the depths of the heart. - The mother is everything. - she is our consolation in...
    Koala9999 Koala9999 18-21, F 12 Responses May 12, 2013

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 54 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    She always makes me things I don't want to do.

    That she knows I don't want to do. And I am the only one who is ever rational. I provide logical well-thought-out arguments to try to persuade her to see certain things my way, but she ignores me and does what she wants me to do, knowing I hate her choices for me. Whenever I...
    ALollie ALollie 16-17, F a week ago

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    Simple four word, 'I hate my mother'.

    I am really annoyed by her attitude. She said and I quote, 'You are made out of my blood, so you are me in a way. Curse my death and you will die yourself. And I can control you, you will do anything I want you to. If I want you to cut your hair, don't ask question. If I want...
    Neunte Neunte 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    She's pregnant and all of a sudden every stupid

    thing she does is ok. I really can't stand her much longer. i don't even know how far long her is or what gender the baby is because since I found out she was pregnant everything went down hill. I don't understand how people who can barely take care of themselves or their two...
    sitney98 sitney98 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 17 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 48 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 6 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I really hate my mom.

    I dont want to use that word but shes ruining my life, Sorry its so long but i cant keep it inside anymore . She went hanging out with her friends and told me to hoover the house, do the laundry and the dishes, i feel pretty much like her slave because she barely does anything...
    vikquinn6 vikquinn6 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    CahillGirl CahillGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    What the **** is wrong with my mom.

    . She keeps and nagging about my grades when I already got into a good college. Then she yells at me for sitting in front of the computer and hits calling for the demons inside of me out.. I think my moms is going crazy.. How can I fix this..
    lonelyshyguy1995 lonelyshyguy1995 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 69 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    She Doesn'T Care

    I asked my mom if she cares how I feel and she just ignored me and didn't respond. She thinks everything is a joke and its not. I hate her so much. She is forcing me to put on a an act tomorrow in front of the family members and I don't think I can. It hurts to much and why...
    tornapart123 tornapart123 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    My mother said if i keep being myself i will

    end up being alone. She said not to run for a school office because she doesn't want to deal with me not winning. She thinks i don't have any friends. I told her that i want to her to be the kind of mom i can tell anything to and be really close. Her response was mothers are not...
    elinorkaye elinorkaye 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    We got into a fight over how she's mean

    and is a ***** to me even though she's pregnant and i take care of her. i mean she hardly does any house work except for sweep(which i practically do too) and cook. then i clean the bathrooms,do the laundry, bring the groceries up a the house which has stairs ,wash the dishes...
    zareeka zareeka 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    i'm never really that bad,

    but my mom finds some kind of way to diss me. I was just reading a shakespeare book for a homework assignment, and my mom told me to get off of my lazy *** and do something useful for once. when i told her that i was doing homework, she said that i always find some way to make...
    orange212 orange212 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    A Reminder Every Damn Day

    Every day...EVERY DAMN DAY is a reminder as to why I hate her and her evil guts. Not a day goes by that she doesnt yell, scream, curse, complain, or nag. I cant go about my daily life without her yelling at me for the most mundane things. Heck, for example, today I got a package...
    wishiwasabrady wishiwasabrady 41-45, M 5 Responses May 14, 2013

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    I dont know how to cope anymore.

    All you ever do is point out how much of a bad person I am all the time. You were supposed to help me, guide me, lift me up when I was down. But all you did was point and laugh. I wanted a mother that would be my friend. But I never got that. You would throw everything in my...
    lauraxxful lauraxxful 16-17, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 78 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    I really want to runaway.

    I hate my mom's stupid rules and that keep me in this little box. She tells me what to do, what to buy and what not to buy, what to eat, and who to hangout with. She controls my life. She controls me. I hate it. I want to be free of her, but I also need her and I loathe needing...
    shdavis42 shdavis42 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    My mother was my best friend up

    until June 2013. She went on a dating site behind my fathers back.. Then lied to me and my siblings faces. My father then forgave her as it was apparently just a 'cry for attention' from my mother. 5 days later, she then approached my father with 'There is someone else'. Of...
    GeorgiaENVillham GeorgiaENVillham 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Never Was My Mother

    My parents were two of the most evil people I've ever encountered in my lifetime. My father was not involved in my life and didn't care if I lived or died. He didn't even know my name. My mother repeatedly abused me throughout my childhood and told me that I was nothing but trash...
    ashamedofmyfamily ashamedofmyfamily 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    **** my mom. She's the one

    who started to abused me when I was still a little. She always compared me to my older brother who she thought way clever than me. I tried to study hard to make her happy, but then she just told me that she regret giving birth to me. I have anger issues cuz of her and now I...
    featherofhope featherofhope 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Always have always will.

    I can honestly say I don't love her. I hate her. She pushed me so far to hating her. But I can't tell that to her face cause I'll get the crap beaten out of me like any other day. She makes me life a living ******* hell. I can never have a smile on my face around her. She makes...
    TwdFireflyy TwdFireflyy 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    If i share bad news its my fault

    and I'm a negative person … SHEs never apologized.. My mother has actually waited a month before she would talk to me just because she didn't want to apologize because she just knew nothing was her fault ….. what an *** hole .my mother is such a B****! I HATE HER.. i want my...
    elinorkaye elinorkaye 13-15, F Apr 11

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 86 Responses May 28, 2007

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    I'm a 47 female, and the hatred I have toward

    my mother is so strong, and it's still going, you'd think by this age it would be better, but it's not. There are outside forces that are making us stay in touch. I was molested at 6 yr old by her boyfriend that was also my fathers best friend, my father found out about the...
    nillabean67 nillabean67 46-50, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So my mother is just beyond making me upset

    and I just can't take it anymore and I don't know what to do I think I love my aunt more than her and I just want to move with her but I just dislike my mom so much right now and I just need advice
    lovelygirl28 lovelygirl28 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My Mom Is a Cheating *****!

    My mom has always been the most loving person until now; midlife crisis. Within the last year my mom starting cheating on my dad with guys 20 years younger than her; guys my age. She lied to our faces about it for a year until we finally caught her red handed. When  my dad...
    emilykaiser emilykaiser 18-21 10 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    Random Tidbits and Further Proof

    all literary skill aside ... this is purely a request for advice rather than much of a "story" ... HELP!  lol right before i was injured (2 weeks prior to) i purchased a home.  it was just a small fixer upper and was to be the first of five that year.  i...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 14, 2007

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    My mother has never been the go to person

    who I can talk to about anything, she is always criticizing me like I'm sort of mistake & like I'm a burden on her. She never tells me she loves me or say any loving words to me, all she does is order me to do stuff and expect them to be perfect because I'm the biggest child. If...
    kevinheyloun kevinheyloun 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    some times she's bad some times she's

    good today was the worst day of my life, she told to buy her soda from the market and i did. exactly when i got home wiz the soda i DROP it. and then it pop. after that i went back home to get my own money to buy her another, when i was about to get out she yield at me and said...
    abelbeyene abelbeyene 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    I'm sorry I am not perfect.

    I'm sorry my grades weren't the best. I'm sorry for staying in my room, and not coming out for days because I was deciding whether I should end it or not. I'm sorry I was born. She expects so much from me and I can't do half of the tasks she asks for. Do good at the concert...
    justalittledifferent justalittledifferent 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I started to write an upset email to bf not to

    break up but to share with him later and discuss my feelings. I am 17 he is 18 and lives with his family. He's going to college in 4 months. I think we have a problem. I want to hang out in person and talk. I'm getting that really worked up/upset mindset that's always happens...
    carebare124 carebare124 18-21 5 days ago

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    It seems that all she does is insult me.

    She stays out all night and comes home at around 4 am, she smokes even though she knows I have asthma, and she's always calling me names and yelling at me. I can't count on her to help me with anything, and she's never there for me like normal mothers should be. She doesn't...
    karenoohhh karenoohhh 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 50 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    I hate my mother because she's always messing

    up my life. I'm not saying this in an angsty teenage way, I'm saying the truth and it's not just my life she's messed up. We're a family of five, my mom, my dad, my two elder brothers and me. She's practically labelled her children, my eldest brother at 21 is The Artist and 3D...
    ChocolateCoveredKFC ChocolateCoveredKFC 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I legit HATE my mother!

    ! She basically left me at age 14 to fend for myself. She saw nothing wrong with me living with my 20 yr old bf at the time. I would never let my kids Behave like that. She is an idiot! I have no respect for her, simply because she has none for me or herself!! It's so frustrating...
    Kbubblez Kbubblez 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    so yesterday I overslept

    and my bf picked me up to take me to school at 6:50 and the traffic was bad so i made it to class a few minutes after 7. i had a substitute so i was considered absent but today i went to fix my abscense. it was fixed. when i get home my mother ******* at me bc my dad recieved a...
    Mich124132 Mich124132 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 7 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    I have the worst mother in the history of

    mothers. She's slept with 20 diffrent guys and is dating them and they're all around the world! I heard my mom say to one of her boyfriends "I love you and I never say that to anyone" Bull**** you f***ing lying b***h you say that to all the guys that kiss you every. F****ing...
    purplecupcakesx3 purplecupcakesx3 13-15, F Apr 13

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 7 Responses May 31, 2007

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 59 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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