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I Hate My Mother

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    So I'll give you guys an example of how ******

    my mom is. Today, she laid in the driveway screaming and crying hysterically and shouting "my babies!!" and my sister and I had to call the cops. She was in this state because my sister voiced her opinion (a calm, valid, rational opinion) which was in support of our father...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    I'm done with my mother.

    **** her. She's such a *****.
    sophiesg sophiesg 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I swear that women makes my blood boil !

    I can't even be around her for more than 10 minutes; without fighting the urge to scream my head off and punch her in the face. At 14 I told her I was depressed and suicidal, she told me I was just trying to make her look like a bad parent. The list goes on into infinity on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 14

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    My mom hits me, pinches me in the head,

    slaps me, pinches me, slaps me on my arm, lies about me to others, mocks me, makes fun of my skin tone and black people in general, says my hair looks like a rats nest, always points out my flaws anywhere/time she sees fit, belittles me, gossips about me, threatens me, controls...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 1

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    I hate my mother She is the worst I always

    loved her I thought she loved me too but she don't She don't let me have a boyfriend, she don't let me post bad things on facebook, she makes fun of my weight, hair, behavior I wish I was an orphan Today they saw a post on my facebook Which contained adult language and they...
    collegegirl20 collegegirl20 22-25, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    When I was a kid, my mother was always finding

    ways to put me down. She would always tell me that she should have killed me right after she gave birth to me, so that she wouldn't have to look at my ugly face anymore. I remember one time, my brother and I was trying to explain how to play a board game to her. She couldn't...
    Ihatemymother1 Ihatemymother1 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 5

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    My mom keeps having kids

    and needs to stop. She has ruined all her kids lives. Has three different baby daddys and has left each one with kids to raise on their own. I pray everyday for each of us who has to survive this world without a mom. I pray to and ask that her fertility be ******** from her. I...
    SeeksSerendipity SeeksSerendipity 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    My mother wishes she never had me,

    even if she denies it. Ok, This is my story, hope is not too long, excuse my orthography. ...And how do I know that? She has told me several times. But then she is like, ''I never said that''. She has a really really bad temperament, seriously she has som bad anger issues she...
    Onixgurl Onixgurl 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Ive always loved my mom

    and have always stuck up for her. Now that I am a grown woman and we have been living together for the past 2 years I now see what kind of person she truly is and she has everyone fooled. She is emotionally and verbally abusive to my children and I. She wants us to run and...
    earthboundangel75 earthboundangel75 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    AlexTheHun AlexTheHun 16-17, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My mother. what can i say?

    she is the typical indian woman in all the wrong ways. If there is one thing I can't relate to is when kids complain that their parents care to much and are to overprotective. My life has revolved around my sister, who was seemingly the only one who took care of me and genuinely...
    Grasshopper98 Grasshopper98 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 39 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    Well I'm finally moving away from this woman.

    I am 19! And getting an apartment with my sister! I'm so happy. I will be broke and struggle. But it is better than staying with her. Some days I came home and she is just mad at me for no reason. She just ignores my existence! When I did nothing. I'm moving out end of August...
    imstillbreathing7931 imstillbreathing7931 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 115 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Me and my mom have never been close.

    I've never been able to go to her with my problems for some reason. She drinks a lot and I hate it and I lash out at her when she drinks and she lashes right back. I'm not a confrontational person so I always end up apologizing and believing that I'm the wrong/crazy one. She's...
    carafedderan carafedderan 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    i hate my mother she is a *****.

    i don't believe she loves me , i don't love her. she doesnt understand me , she's not very supportive , she's a hypocrite , i hate the way she looks and dress its pathetic , she used to be loving and supportive but stopped when i went threw puberty and instead of helping me she...
    hiimmy hiimmy 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 80 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    I am a 42year old single woman

    that had come back to my country of origin for 5 weeks to care for my mom that had a stroke.she is paralyzed on the right side but moves a little bit and talks just fine.I cannot get over my rage toward her.Every single day I go to the nursing home with good intentions but I can...
    Lauralidia Lauralidia 41-45, F Jul 13

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    I used to feel guilty about this,

    she's the person who's supposed to love you unconditionally and be there for you no matter what, that was never how she was with me. My parents divorced when I was a baby and she refused to let me get to know my father until I was old enough to consciously make that decision- I...
    lolllaa lolllaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 60 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    I live in a small town in rural Illinois.

    I'm 18 just graduated high school I have a little brother who's ten and an older brother with special needs A couple years ago my mom decided that we weren't enough for her and ran off with another man. I have no idea where she is now. I haven't seen her since In highschool I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 47 Responses Jul 6

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 14 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 63 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    Since I was little my mom always yelled at me

    whenever I did something bad, whether it was not doing things on time, listening to her, etc. My mother has beaten me a couple of times and I thought that I would never survive. I have been beaten very badly before where I had cuts and bruises everywhere (I was 2). I'm 15...
    kattom kattom 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 6 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    My story is too long.

    However I have come to the conclusion that I just really need her to apologize to me. And to stop making up more stories that make me look like some horrible person. An apology for me – validates that I am a person with feelings. Please note* that my Mother has been...
    Raregolds Raregolds 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Th3Ch3shir3Kat Th3Ch3shir3Kat 13-15, M Jul 17

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    My mother left us 14 years ago.

    That's when i'm 11. While my dad only know how to drunk. We were raised by our aunt where we're bullied and abused for years. Nobody can't imagine how my childhood was. I left home when i'm 18, looking for work and maybe freedom. After my dad died in 2009, we found our mom on...
    JuneJonas JuneJonas 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    It just came out of nowhere.

    I suddenly got annoyed and angry with her. Whenever she says something, I will always have a rude comeback for it. I can't control myself. She always thinks she's right, and she won't take no as an answer. Her actions are the worst, her chewing, her walking, her thinking out...
    reivven reivven 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-17, F 49 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    when I told her I am bisexual she told me I was

    sick and took me to a psychologist. I told the psychologist I was struggling with self-harm and bulimia and she told me I am an egoist. I hate her because she never asked me how I was feeling, she only bought me nice things to shut me up and have more time to spend with her...
    hellrioter hellrioter 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I started hating my mother

    since I was in middle school. I blamed her for letting my father leave us. Since then, I stopped talking to her. I don't even acknowledge her existence. I hate her even more now because she tries to control others by manipulating their emotions. I can't stand it any longer. I'm...
    skyflower627 skyflower627 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    So today i try and go treat my family to dinner

    (ofc no one wants to go out, so i offere to bring home something from the mall), long story short, i go and i find out i dont have enough money in my bank account till next pay to buy anything i must save the other $ for bills, so i explain to my mom what happened && she flips...
    imdesolated imdesolated 18-21, F Jul 9

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    My mom calls me a *****.

    She calls me stupid. She tells me she hates me. She tells me I'm useless and will never go to college. She says she likes my sister more. She says she wishes she never had me. When she tells me these things I pretend not to care but when I'm at night in my bed I cry.
    SoKawaiiii SoKawaiiii 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    She's not my mother by birth she's actually my

    aunt but she adopted me and forces me to call her mom. I was born and raised in Jamaica, so I was taught to respect my elders, but I was also taught that respect is earned no given. My "mother" is one of the most ignorant disrespectful bums I've ever met. Every single thing I do...
    Cleversmiles Cleversmiles 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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