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I Hate My Mother

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 64 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 6 Responses May 31, 2007

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    I never hated someone

    so much in my life !
    misunderstoodQueen misunderstoodQueen 16-17, F 16 hrs ago

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    She just spat in my face.

    Lovely woman, that one!
    holly2955 holly2955 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    How could a mother want to give up

    and want to "kill" her own child jut because said child doesn't do what she says? I'm so disgusted.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Why? Why? Doesn't she know why?

    I'm struggling, hurting yet she doesn't understand, I've been sexually abused, bullied, and torn. Yet I keep smiling, keep trying to live and be happy. Yet I'm sad. And lonely. I've been sexually abused by my mothers father, I know she can't live it down, so I only told her, I...
    Annoymous2 Annoymous2 16-17 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I realized this today

    when I heard her screaming at my dad, "what you're gonna kill yourself!? At least do it right and get insurance money for it yeah go kill yourself" it basically went on like that. It made me realize the only person she cares about is herself. She went on going on about how she...
    shootdownthestars shootdownthestars 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I can't stand my mum.

    I honestly don't know what to do anymore, I hate her so much and I cannot wait until the day I move out. Every time she is around I just feel completely uneasy. I am the only girl and nothing I ever do is ever good enough for her, there is always something I have done wrong no...
    emilyyyy1997 emilyyyy1997 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    My mom has constantly called me names

    and she always puts me down. One time I heard her day she wishes she never had me. She's the reason why I have my very severe depression and why I've starved and cut myself. This has been going on for over 2 years and I just want this hell to end.
    XXHATEXX XXHATEXX 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 23

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    Me and mom have this love hate relationship,

    it basically all started when I was young; she was a workaholic and my great-grandma for 19 years, has been my mom for me and my best-friend ( I miss her daily). When people see me and my mom relationship they think it's all lovey dovey and that were best-friends and that she's...
    Xmidniteangel15X Xmidniteangel15X 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Never Was My Mother

    My parents were two of the most evil people I've ever encountered in my lifetime. My father was not involved in my life and didn't care if I lived or died. He didn't even know my name. My mother repeatedly abused me throughout my childhood and told me that I was nothing but trash...
    ashamedofmyfamily ashamedofmyfamily 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    i will always hate my mother she made my cry on

    my birthday......i am sobbing and im writing this i really wish i was born to another family cause she always tells me why my grandfather doesn't love me because he she says he said that i wasn't pretty!
    hateherforever hateherforever 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    My mother plays with my familys emotions.

    I have compulsive ocd and my dad has been accepting but my mom will abuse it in any way to **** me off. When we get into fights it feels like she needs things to be her way and when my dad defends me she will cry play victim and she will blame 1 of 2 things Myself, Or the...
    angeloreos angeloreos 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    I hate my mother. She woke me up today yelling

    at me to go on a jog with her Bc I'm the fattest one in the house. Who says that to someone? I was very tired and my feet hurt really bad from working. I work 8 hours a day and I'm always on my feet. She doesn't work. Her and my sister stopping for a second while running...
    gina1pg gina1pg 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    Hate is a strong word.

    But I can't think of another word that better describes my feelings towards this woman. She is emotionally abusive and has been physically abusive before. She often does it in the name of religion. I'm still not financially independent and that's the only reason I still stay...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Jul 9

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 70 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 7 Responses May 12, 2013

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    My mother was my best friend up

    until June 2013. She went on a dating site behind my fathers back.. Then lied to me and my siblings faces. My father then forgave her as it was apparently just a 'cry for attention' from my mother. 5 days later, she then approached my father with 'There is someone else'. Of...
    GeorgiaENVillham GeorgiaENVillham 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 78 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    My parents are divorced.

    I was still very little so I've always remembered my parents being separated. I loved my father very very much. (I'm speaking in past tense because he passed away when I was 11. I'm 18 now.) Sadly, I only got to see my father on Saturdays because my mother got full custody. He...
    Riarza Riarza 18-21, F Jul 18

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    I don't know how to start this,

    i know she is mentally stable but these words are to describe her; cunning, vulgar, inadequate, shameful and obnoxious...... She is the reason I don't want to have kids, the way she stood over me and my father, she would beat me black and blue for no reason at all and if my dad...
    Arizv11 Arizv11 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 87 Responses May 28, 2007

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    She's to over protective I can't

    even go to the washroom in a public place I'm a smart a** but your a narcissistic a** hole and you don't give a damn about my ideas and I always try to help but I'm a selfish little brat apparently because you buy my things I never asked for learn to stop I don't love you
    Alyssaisthename Alyssaisthename 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    A lot happened but I'll just tell you what

    happened last night. It was around 12 am and I was texting my friend happy birthday and chatting with her because for my birthday she did that. Also on my birthday when my mom saw me on the iPod and told me why I'm on so late I said it was because my friend was telling me happy...
    Emma1599 Emma1599 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 18

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Today, My mom wakes me up at 9:00 in the morning

    so we can go to my dentist appointment. when i get home, she says we are going grocery shopping. She goes to get 2 plants from home depot. she then goes back out and get lottery tickets. When my grandma says what are we having for dinner. she sends me to get food. My Mom says...
    Dwayne281 Dwayne281 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 69 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    have briefly read some of the stories around

    this topic and I feel only some have merit as some are clearly petty and a joke! However I will tell all why I hate this f#cking c#nt and maybe some people will agree and some just might simply not get it! but hey hoe well see.. It starts like this, am small and getting to know...
    sayitlikeitis101 sayitlikeitis101 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Gone

    My mother is not in my life...she's not a part of it...it's through choice. It is almost a year since we have spoken...it hurts but it's how it must be. We used to be so close, all my friends were jealous of our relationship. My mum let me do as I pleased growing up, if I wanted...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    I can't stand her.. Like everything she does

    just bugs the hell out of me. I need to hurry up and graduate and get the **** away from her.. FAR away..
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 58 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    I Have A Birthgiver Not A Mother

    "The most beautiful word on the lips of mankind is the word "Mother", and the most beautiful call is the call of "My mother.' It is a word full of hope and love, a sweet and kind word coming from the depths of the heart. - The mother is everything. - she is our consolation in...
    Virginia9999 Virginia9999 18-21, F 12 Responses May 12, 2013

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    My mom and father both smoke.

    Dad had quit for a long time and then a family friend got him back on it. I resent her for it. My mom hadn't smoked in years. Then one day when we were visiting Illinois for a wedding. We were waiting to leave because there was a fight between my father and his mother, so he...
    jcylee99 jcylee99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 18 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    I wish my dad would put this narcissistic

    bi*tch in her place and beat the sh8t out of her too..if anyone deserves to be f8cking slapped it's her..i don't know what the hell he sees in her..yuck..I have such mixed emotions,part of me is saddened and just sees her as a sick woman who needs some serious help..but than...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I've been babysitting my almost 8 year old

    sister since she basi ally was born. I have been my mothers biggest and best help with her. I am now 17 and think about how when I look back....I won't see teenage years I'll see myself babysitting. If she is off.work and at home I'm still babysitting. I guess I can't get paid...
    lenabroyal lenabroyal 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Do you ever hate someone

    so much to where every single thing this person does annoys the hell out of you? Even the simplest thing like how this person breathes and how this person speaks, and how this person eats. My mother is one of the most disgusting, putrid, and terrible person I know. She beats me...
    svrrows svrrows 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I will not rant or moan

    and I no longer hate my mother as much as I use to,but I hope I NEVER see her again and haven't since the last time I went before a judge aged 10 and her parental rights were terminated. That was in April 2005 and a little over a year after I was removed by CPS to a children's...
    Selah94 Selah94 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 53 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    I don't like my mom at all.

    I hate being related to her in any type of way. She calls me worthless. A dumb ***. An animal. Like she always says **** to me for no reason just to start stuff. I won't say a word to her for days and she walk pass me and say like oh I can't wait until this girl is out of my...
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 4 Responses May 24

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    I hate my mom. I am a worthless daughter.

    I hate what has given me life, yet for so long I had only her in mind, in focus. But so it is. Since I have been a child she has instilled a huge amount of guilt, fear, emotionally abused me, and I tore myself away from her mind-breaking ways. I have been trying to lead my own...
    unknownfamiliar unknownfamiliar 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 13

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    Have you ever just sat

    and started to cry?. Because you know that no her you do will ever take away the pain. So it all started at the age of 14 I was a bit bigger than the other kids at my school and of course I was bullied and picked on but I kept thinking that when. I got home it was all gonna get...
    anonymousgirl1010 anonymousgirl1010 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    UGH SHE TELLS ME THAT I'M ******* SELFISH

    REALLY?!?!?!? ARE YOU SERIOUS RIGHT NOW?!?!?HOW I'M I SELFISH; I AM LEGIT PERFECT CHILD, I NEVER GOT IN TROUBLE, HAVE PERFECT GRADES IN SCHOOL, DO COMMUNITY SERVICE AND ETC. YET I ASK YOU TO DO SOMETHING OR AT LEAST TRY AND YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH MY IDEA!!!!!! I NEVER...
    Xmidniteangel15X Xmidniteangel15X 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My Mom Is a Cheating *****!

    My mom has always been the most loving person until now; midlife crisis. Within the last year my mom starting cheating on my dad with guys 20 years younger than her; guys my age. She lied to our faces about it for a year until we finally caught her red handed. When  my dad...
    emilykaiser emilykaiser 18-21 10 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    So I'll give you guys an example of how ******

    my mom is. Today, she laid in the driveway screaming and crying hysterically and shouting "my babies!!" and my sister and I had to call the cops. She was in this state because my sister voiced her opinion (a calm, valid, rational opinion) which was in support of our father...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 6

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    how I feel about my mother makes me afraid to

    ever have a child... I don't resent her for the things she's done to me because I know she is mentally unstable... but I still hate her. she put me through things that a child should never go through. She isn't fit to have children. I am her fourth child... we are all screwed up...
    MarZipansStory MarZipansStory 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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