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I Hate My Mother

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    I dont know why I am writing this,

    I just need to get things off my chest. I don't hate my mother. And that's the worst part because I despise the person she is, yet I feel helpless giving way to my feelings when she manipulates me. My mother left my father when I was 2 and a half. We lived with out maternal...
    Bizarree Bizarree 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 7

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    i jus feel i wanna end up.

    . m an introvert n ppl treat me as if i have an disorder or somethin.. frenz hate me! my dads nt vit us.. my mom thnks im a loser! i js wanna prove dem wrong bt im js fed up of tryin.. y i js cnt b lyk others?? y cnt i do thngs vit ease lyk othas do?? mayb i am a loser...i js...
    madsmiffy madsmiffy 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 90 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    My mother I realise suffers from NPD

    Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I have thrown myself at Narcissistic psychopathic men to simply be free of her. I have got over these traumatic relationships despite her. Managed to get a Ph.D but she still calls me an idiot and tries to undermine me at every juncture! I...
    BrigdBee BrigdBee 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    I am so done. I am just done.

    She loves making fun of me and talking **** about me to other family members. She never listens, either. All she ever does is use her phone and go on Facebook. She thinks that just because I ask her to not be so smothering, she takes it as an insult and overreacts. Whenever I...
    ihatecheese12 ihatecheese12 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    I hate my mother. She woke me up today yelling

    at me to go on a jog with her Bc I'm the fattest one in the house. Who says that to someone? I was very tired and my feet hurt really bad from working. I work 8 hours a day and I'm always on my feet. She doesn't work. Her and my sister stopping for a second while running...
    gina1pg gina1pg 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

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    My relationship with my mother got way worse

    when I moved back in with her last year. When she lost her job this last spring she took it out on me. Almost every time she had a moment alone she would berate me about how I was selfish and awful, because I didn't clean the house or didn't do this-or-that. I work full time...
    moranne moranne 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    I Have A Birthgiver Not A Mother

    "The most beautiful word on the lips of mankind is the word "Mother", and the most beautiful call is the call of "My mother.' It is a word full of hope and love, a sweet and kind word coming from the depths of the heart. - The mother is everything. - she is our consolation in...
    Virginia9999 Virginia9999 18-21, F 11 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I make straight A's and do whatever I have to

    do to make my mother proud by she never is . My brother does some bad things and she knows and still loves him and does nice things for him but for me she yells at me and sends off negative energy and I'm so done. it has gotten to the point that I don't even care if she died. i...
    xoxoxotatianaa xoxoxotatianaa 18-21, F Jan 29

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    Today I was sick so I wanted go stay home cause

    I didn't want to go to school sick my mom yelled at me. She said that I have to go I missed like last Monday but I didn't want to go when I'm sick she told me to get out of the car and go inside I hate my mom
    summrbabe summrbabe 22-25, F Feb 3

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 74 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 73 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    I really dont know what to do.

    I am almost having emotional breakdown because of my mum. I am afraid eventually I would become crazy, or I would kill myself because of the emotional stress. Again and again I told myself I shall be grateful of her for giving me life. But everyday she is poisoning my soul...
    phoebesoo phoebesoo 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    I was always jealous of all those people

    who said they loved their mom's and embarrassed that I despised mine. she is an inconsiderate b.... she only cares about herself and No one else. she believes only her can feel pain or be tired. I'm 18 Years old and im not even allowed to go to the store without her permission...
    jetaime96 jetaime96 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 18

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    So today I asked my mom

    if we can go to the mall for dinner and to check out Claire's. I've been considering getting pierced ears and my mom wanted to know more about ear-piercing there. She said I could as long as I finish my homework before 6. It was about 5:45 when my mom came in and asked me about...
    nikolechen nikolechen 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    That woman drive over 400 miles with half her

    family just to come to our house and start a fight with me and see how bad she could hurt me. Lucky for me, dad came home and when he saw what they were doing, threw them out. I've never ever ever been a hateful person, but I really hate her. I don't believe in hitting...
    thumper15 thumper15 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 16 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    my mother has always disliked me

    but hid it a lot better when I was younger and its only as ive got older ive realised it, she has always loved my sister and wanted to spend time with her so when they was in a room together they would laugh and joke and when I go into the room they stop and just look at me...
    ymasxatl ymasxatl 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    I hate close-minded people.

    My mother is the most closed-minded, opinionated, insulting person I have ever met. She judges everyone who isn't like her or who doesn't meet ther standards of what she thinks is right. She finds it necessary to comment on everyone's weight, features (as if she's perfect...
    Arija18 Arija18 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 59 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 89 Responses May 28, 2007

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    Well I would write down everything

    but I think that it'll be too long to write so I'll just stick to what recently happened. Well first let me just say that my mother is really strict about my grades. I mean REALLY strict. Like if I were to drop down one point in my overall average compared to the precious...
    dcisneros1117 dcisneros1117 16-17, M 4 Responses Feb 2

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    She is never a compassionate

    nor loving mother figure. She is a toxic manipulater in our family. I fail to ease my anger towards her. She insults others and always putting her needs in priority. She is a bad role model. She yelled and bullied my grandma. She gossips and does not have integrity...
    phoebesoo phoebesoo 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-18, F 47 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    Yesterday I was watching TV at night,

    and the show was going to an end. So I prepared to go to sleep, I was afraid sleeping alone and I will fish my dog with his food to get into my room. But when I walk to his food container, he was about to attack me. I know he would bite me if I move so I just stand there, and...
    killbillhell007 killbillhell007 18-21, F Jan 30

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    Mongyy Mongyy 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    My mother was never around

    when I was a child. When my dad got sick she threw herself into her work and forgot that I even existed. She left me alone to fend for myself, her work and taking care of my dad, who was terminally ill at the time, took first priority over her children. Recently she decided that...
    margotcarter margotcarter 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    I hate it when my mom always blames me

    for everything even it wasn't me who had done it. It's so convenient for her to just pass everything to me and would sometimes call me worthless and a burden. She said that I'm a jinx and I'm the one who makes her life miserable. She's also so controlling like she makes...
    fleurry13 fleurry13 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 11

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    My mother has never really been a mother.

    She had me when she was 17 and i was pretty much raised by my grandparents. We act like friends most of the time and joke around. It's fun sometimes and my friends are pretty jealous of me for having such a "chill" mum. I don't think my friends have any idea of how much I envy...
    littlebird88 littlebird88 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 57 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 79 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    So my mom isn't a bad person,

    just it seems like she's always taking everything out on me. Every single thing i say, if dont say it in the nicest voice possible, she starts screaming at me about having an "attitude problem." And I'm not in denial because at times I know I do and I always apologize for that...
    lonelyshark lonelyshark 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 37 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    My mom is a bi***. I'm Pregnant with unwanted

    child just coz she forcefully got me married. Now she wants me to divorce my husband coz her niece loves him.
    Velika8899 Velika8899 22-25 1 Response Feb 19

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 7 Responses May 31, 2007

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    As I've said in my first post,

    check my profile for the story just five months ago. I still hate her, even after a small patch of being happy. because no matter what I try she still goes back to being her old self. The trip to where she wanted to go, it did happen. But my life did get worse, we're poorer than...
    Tarahkins Tarahkins 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    My mom punched me so hard she broke her fist.

    Everyone close to me says its my fault and I should feel bad for "making" that happen. when the real story is totally different. her abusive bf was smacking her around and I told him to stop and he said "or what?" and smacked my little brother in the mouth to idk show his...
    MattMcDank MattMcDank 16-17, M 4 Responses Feb 15

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    I suppose I'm just venting here

    because it's so hard to find anyone else who understands. I hate when people judge me for hating my mother (I've been called immature and ungrateful). I'm 35, and my mother has always been my adversary. She has always put me down, called me names, made me feel terrible about...
    dinamarie111 dinamarie111 31-35, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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