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I Hate My Mother

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    I used to feel guilty about this,

    she's the person who's supposed to love you unconditionally and be there for you no matter what, that was never how she was with me. My parents divorced when I was a baby and she refused to let me get to know my father until I was old enough to consciously make that decision- I...
    lolllaa lolllaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    My mother is someone

    who simply never loved her children, myself included. and she made it clear since I was little. For her, giving life to us was already a hassle. My earliest memories are of sadness, she complaining about her life, about her children, blaming our father for everything that...
    tatyana16 tatyana16 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-17, F 49 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    I'm done with my mother.

    **** her. She's such a *****.
    sophiesg sophiesg 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 14 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 78 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    She's not my mother by birth she's actually my

    aunt but she adopted me and forces me to call her mom. I was born and raised in Jamaica, so I was taught to respect my elders, but I was also taught that respect is earned no given. My "mother" is one of the most ignorant disrespectful bums I've ever met. Every single thing I do...
    Cleversmiles Cleversmiles 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Th3Ch3shir3Kat Th3Ch3shir3Kat 13-15, M Jul 17

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    She is married to a homesexual

    who has no license and gets high everyday with his ugly ***.
    GBPOWDER31 GBPOWDER31 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    My mother wishes she never had me,

    even if she denies it. Ok, This is my story, hope is not too long, excuse my orthography. ...And how do I know that? She has told me several times. But then she is like, ''I never said that''. She has a really really bad temperament, seriously she has som bad anger issues she...
    Onixgurl Onixgurl 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    After reading some of these I hate my mother

    posts I want to smack some of yall. I would give a limb to have a mom with such small issues and failures. My mom has multiple personalities and until recently I realized that she did not have demons in her but that her other personality was simply extremely sadistic. My mom...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    This time next year I'll be 18,

    moving out, and never seeing my mother again. I will be living independently for my senior year of high school because I have more productive conversations with complete strangers asking for direction than I have with my family.
    carrotriot carrotriot 16-17, F Jul 17

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    i hate my mother she is a *****.

    i don't believe she loves me , i don't love her. she doesnt understand me , she's not very supportive , she's a hypocrite , i hate the way she looks and dress its pathetic , she used to be loving and supportive but stopped when i went threw puberty and instead of helping me she...
    hiimmy hiimmy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    My mother left us 14 years ago.

    That's when i'm 11. While my dad only know how to drunk. We were raised by our aunt where we're bullied and abused for years. Nobody can't imagine how my childhood was. I left home when i'm 18, looking for work and maybe freedom. After my dad died in 2009, we found our mom on...
    JuneJonas JuneJonas 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    My mom needs to understand.

    If she's going to be a ***** to me, I'll be a ***** to her.
    Lemons2000 Lemons2000 18-21, F 5 Responses May 24

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Well I'm finally moving away from this woman.

    I am 19! And getting an apartment with my sister! I'm so happy. I will be broke and struggle. But it is better than staying with her. Some days I came home and she is just mad at me for no reason. She just ignores my existence! When I did nothing. I'm moving out end of August...
    imstillbreathing7931 imstillbreathing7931 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    It just came out of nowhere.

    I suddenly got annoyed and angry with her. Whenever she says something, I will always have a rude comeback for it. I can't control myself. She always thinks she's right, and she won't take no as an answer. Her actions are the worst, her chewing, her walking, her thinking out...
    reivven reivven 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    when I told her I am bisexual she told me I was

    sick and took me to a psychologist. I told the psychologist I was struggling with self-harm and bulimia and she told me I am an egoist. I hate her because she never asked me how I was feeling, she only bought me nice things to shut me up and have more time to spend with her...
    hellrioter hellrioter 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 6 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 115 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    My Mother doesn't care about me anymore,

    and she doesn't really care about the family. She only cares about her mother and her sister and her brother. She is mean to me a lot and she has only pushed me off a chair when she was angry once. She doesn't care about me and I don't think she loves me either. my dad also has...
    Villymo Villymo 70+ 1 hr ago

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    Ever since I was young I hated my mother.

    She constantly yelled, i disrespected, and then she hit me. Really hard. As I got older, I remember moving to another city my sixth grade year and she got mad over something stupid, but I misbehaved, and then took me into the garage and dragged me by my hair all over and hit me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I live in a small town in rural Illinois.

    I'm 18 just graduated high school I have a little brother who's ten and an older brother with special needs A couple years ago my mom decided that we weren't enough for her and ran off with another man. I have no idea where she is now. I haven't seen her since In highschool I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 47 Responses Jul 6

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    UnlovingAlex UnlovingAlex 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    It's hard. I know that no one will read this,

    but anyway..it's hard to live the life that I have sometimes because of my mother. I love this women to hell and back but she is just so bitter. It seems like she thinks no one loves her, but I'd put my life on the line for her. She wants me and my siblings to be responsible...
    WhisperingGrass WhisperingGrass 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 39 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    Since I was little my mom always yelled at me

    whenever I did something bad, whether it was not doing things on time, listening to her, etc. My mother has beaten me a couple of times and I thought that I would never survive. I have been beaten very badly before where I had cuts and bruises everywhere (I was 2). I'm 15...
    kattom kattom 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 7 Responses May 31, 2007

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 80 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    I hate my mother She is the worst I always

    loved her I thought she loved me too but she don't She don't let me have a boyfriend, she don't let me post bad things on facebook, she makes fun of my weight, hair, behavior I wish I was an orphan Today they saw a post on my facebook Which contained adult language and they...
    collegegirl20 collegegirl20 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 24

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    I am a 42year old single woman

    that had come back to my country of origin for 5 weeks to care for my mom that had a stroke.she is paralyzed on the right side but moves a little bit and talks just fine.I cannot get over my rage toward her.Every single day I go to the nursing home with good intentions but I can...
    Lauralidia Lauralidia 41-45, F Jul 13

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    My whole life my mom has been constantly

    working. I truly believe she wasn't meant to be a mother. I'm the youngest of three girls. My middle sister mostly raised me when she was 16. My mom has never been there for me at all. My two older sisters moved in with their dad so I didn't see them that much. She tries to make...
    WhatisLife9198 WhatisLife9198 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 5

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 60 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    My mother. what can i say?

    she is the typical indian woman in all the wrong ways. If there is one thing I can't relate to is when kids complain that their parents care to much and are to overprotective. My life has revolved around my sister, who was seemingly the only one who took care of me and genuinely...
    Grasshopper98 Grasshopper98 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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