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I Hate My Mother

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    My guilt tears me apart

    for saying this. Now, as I'm approaching adulthood and is a full time student in college, my mother can't seem to comprehend what is happening to me. She still thinks I'm a child who can put off homework and studying until the last minute and still manage straight A's. She...
    LoveSoLife LoveSoLife 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    I remember last night I had a fever

    and suddenly I started to hallucinate very bad. I hallucinate like there are two people who want to kill me, and my f*** mother instead of helping me, she started to shout: what are you doing??? After my hallucinations finished, she came in my room shouting. "Is your clowny...
    Alirezatm Alirezatm 13-15 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 76 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420 22-25, F 10 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 60 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    She always makes fun of my weight.

    ... When she's not yelling at me she is usually talking bad about me to my step father. She always sides with him on everything....
    caitwebb1221 caitwebb1221 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 5

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    My mother is a pure suburban house wife

    who thrives in maintaining her reputation in the neighbourhood. She always likes to put herself first, and when she gives me advice she always ends it with "Yeah, you can't do that. Can you imagine what everyone would be saying about me if you did something like that? God forbid...
    katida katida 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    Sometime i wonder if my mother made my life,

    the way i'm today, or simply broke it, what i could have been! She is completely control freak. now i wonder if i would ever be able to free myself from her.
    Kheya092 Kheya092 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 18

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    My mother was the smartest of her class,

    and she is a successful CEO. My parents got divorced when I was 5 and my mom raised me and my brother. I am intelligent too, but she never says she is proud of me or even listens to what I have to say. I got a scholarship 2 years ago in a pricey school, where all students have...
    Isampr Isampr 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    Victim Of Tyranny-No I was NOT "stolen" from

    you by "nosy *** White folks in your business believing my damn lies". I was RESCUED from you after 9 1/2 years under your mediocre custody suffering isolation,beatings with slaps fists belts extension cords, psychological abuse, and casual neglect because my 4th grade teacher...
    Selah94 Selah94 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I know that many people say this especially

    teens but I'm wayyy older than this. See I'm a mother myself I know what it is to be a parent and it will hurt a lot if one day my son tell me this. My mom ruined my life and the way I see the world. My father always has been her puppy acting off her commands, she thinks the is...
    pookiebear3 pookiebear3 26-30 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Thank GOD I found this forum!

    My Mom and I were close back then but after I reliazed her true attitude, that's when my hatred started. She likes nagging people, she's very manipulative, she's mean to many people, she's PLASTIC, she's very conceited, she feels like she knows everything (as if), she doesn't...
    simonrivera simonrivera 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 14

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 73 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    Dear Mother, The more you yell at me,

    the more I'm pulling away. I have 4 more years and I'm gone. You will regret pushing me and my brothers away. Even when I do something right it is always wrong. How I can't hang with my friends because they're "bad influences." You were supposed to build me up not shatter me...
    caitwebb1221 caitwebb1221 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 19

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    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Mother doesn't exist in my vocabulary within

    this family. She degrades me and my hobbies. She degrades my achievements and my interests. She degrades me to the point I am the bad guy in my family. My extended family seems to agree too. It's gone to the point where suicide is the only solution.
    thisisathrowawaysoyeah thisisathrowawaysoyeah 16-17, M 5 Responses Apr 7

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    I'm the 2nd born and the only girl.

    I was born to a woman who was convinced that it was impossible for her to birth a female. I was nameless for the first 3 weeks of my life. I have an older brother who is two and a half years older than me. I got along with him fairly well until our teenage years when his...
    SheepishlyMe SheepishlyMe 26-30 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    She is a *****. She is an ******* she is an anus

    and an anus does not know anything
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Ugh.. I have a split house,

    and I'm adopted. My mom always sides with my brother and she always lets him do things(back talk, stay out late, date) that if I do them I would probably get yelled at, or have ALL MY F*KING tech taken away. I wanted to go shopping, and I told her that but she didn't say...
    girlwithbigdreams1922 girlwithbigdreams1922 13-15 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I just hate my mum so much.

    She is always making me feel terrible and I find myself crying nearly everyday because of some of the things she says to me. She is pushing me to dance so much and constantly tells me I never try, although I always try my best just so she won't be angry at me. I honestly think...
    Hatingeveryone Hatingeveryone 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 79 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    I separeted from my parents

    for ten years. I separeted from them when I was only 3 months old. Now I have been living with them for almost 7 years. I just can't get close to them. Especially my mom! I kind of hate her. I try my best at everything , I work extremely hard at school just to show them I am...
    Kristen5440 Kristen5440 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    My mum messaged other man.

    And i hate that. Then my mum was didnt care with me since a year ago. I hate you even if you are raising me.!
    Revinadwipa Revinadwipa 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Ugliest person I know.

    Inside and out !! Honestly hate her with my entire being.
    Grace1077 Grace1077 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 102 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 7 Responses May 31, 2007

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    I feel so sad when I admit this

    but I hate my mother. She is as stubborn and pigheaded as me and that says a lot. She and I have been fighting for as long as can remember. At times she can be such a ***** living at my college doesn't sound so bad ( and that is an option that I do not have). She says she loves...
    Sithsister101 Sithsister101 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My mom hits me, pinches me in the head,

    slaps me, pinches me, slaps me on my arm, lies about me to others, mocks me, makes fun of my skin tone and black people in general, says my hair looks like a rats nest, always points out my flaws anywhere/time she sees fit, belittles me, gossips about me, threatens me, controls...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 1

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    She went behind my back

    and killed my cat of 9 years. What a *****
    Paranoidbeyondbelief Paranoidbeyondbelief 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    So Mother's Day is around the corner

    and I am going to take this time to vent. Ever since I was 12 years old I knew I didn't have a mother. The woman I was forced to live with was nothing but a monster. She brought pain and sorrow to everyone she met just because she could. She gained pleasure from watching a...
    Cranksta Cranksta 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    As I sit here desperately taking in a breath,

    my heart aches with sorrow. It's been two days since I spoke with my mother. I still hear her hateful tone echoing through the phone. It's never going to change. I'm a middle aged woman now with children of my own. Nonetheless she still treats me like an idiot. I have...
    Cindysheart Cindysheart 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I dont know why but she yells at me about the

    things i do when she does the exact same all the time. i mean where in the hell does she think i learn it from thin air uggggggh
    unnoticed27 unnoticed27 18-21, F Apr 18

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    She called me rude for critisizing her

    for smoking when we spent about two weeks without money. I think taking food out of your kids mouths so you can smoke and drink is one of the worst things to do. She also made it very clear I could move out whenever I wanted the sooner the better. I just can't do this right...
    shootdownthestars shootdownthestars 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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