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I Hate My Mother

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    I really LOATHE my mom.

    I don't even think loathe is the right word. She wants everything her way, she always says it's never her way so we all have to do it her way. She has said that at least once a week for that past hmmm I dunno maybe TWO YEARS. I'm in the car and I asked my mom for a birthday...
    soccergamerbv soccergamerbv 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    I have a festering hatred

    for my mother. I just find it so petty and shallow that she finds the need to validate herself as a person by talking **** on me to relatives, friends, and others. How insecure. She victimizes herself, but she's always the one who picks the fights, because honestly I wouldn't...
    hyeonsil hyeonsil 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    So basically my mum is a "clean freak".

    She hates anyone touching the bed that she sleeps on but her room is definitely a pig's sty. And our washing machine is located in the garden where she once saw a rat climbing on a tree and so she never dared to wash her clothing outside anymore. Thus, the rest of the family (my...
    playfulpotato playfulpotato 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 20 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    I'm 15 and I honestly do not like my mom,

    literally she just cursed me out like 5-7 minutes ago. She always talks about how I don't do my work and **** like that, our generation is ****** up I would like to see her be in my shoes for one whole day. Even when she comes home from work I don't wanna see her
    kyle215 kyle215 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    Today my mom started screaming at my harmless

    dad for wanting to talk to a girl that was his friend and he didn't talk to her since 4th grade. She curses him out. This is the 1st time I've seen my dad cry. I'm constantly on alert because my mom hits me a lot (don't call police PLEASE) and I think she hits my dad...1st I...
    soccergamerbv soccergamerbv 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    I hate her, the ***** doesn't let me live in

    peace, first she asks for my help, then shouts back at me, tells me I'm no good, ******* socio *****!!!
    curiousdweller curiousdweller 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 6

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    I was quite misfortuned

    for the fact that I was brought around a mother who was very hateful and racist towards me ..I'm very dark skinned ugly and scruffy tiny lady ..my mother is quite light skinned and her mother was even a lot whiter and two of her grandparents were blond with blue eyes ...I think...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Every single time I tell someone

    that I don't like my mom, they say something along the lines of: "You don't really hate your mom." "She does everything for a reason." "Your mother gave birth to you! You can't hate her!" "You just think that she's mean." "She's not mean, she just cares about you." I...
    jennyghosh jennyghosh 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    My Mom always says that she loves me,

    RIGHT! How am I supposed to believe that you love me when you call me stupid and a B**** and tell me that I'm a horrible daughter and that I'm so dumb? And my Dad is like her little puppet, what ever she says he does and he always takes her side. When my Mother is yelling at me...
    CGA09 CGA09 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 66 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    How do I cope up with my angry mother My

    mother is emotional abuser , everyday she takes her anger out on me , bc I'm the youngest and I can't speak up about it . It's like her job is to damage me , all she does is yell at me , tell me how bad I'm . I don't do anything bad at all , if I broke a glass it's the end of...
    scincewewere18 scincewewere18 13-15 5 Responses Jan 3

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-17, F 50 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    To all the people who stood against me,

    to my backstabbing friends, to my “family” who always treated me like **** and belittled me, to my mum who is always bullying me, calling me names because of my face and treating me like trash. One day I’m going to be strong enough and powerful enough to be 100...
    Valencia Valencia 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 28

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    I decided to Bury The Hatchet

    and start over and i'll talk to her about the things i don't like and maybe just maybe she will consider my thoughts and feelings but it's hopeless it's like talking to a wall, walls don't listen walls don't change walls don't care about anything. this woman is unbelievable
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M Jan 30

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    I'm sorry, but I need to get these feelings of

    resentment and hatred out of me before I end up doing something very foolish. I hate my mother. I just hate her. I cant stand to be around her. I am 22 and still living at home, and she never lets me forget it. I help her in every possible way that I can; although have a part...
    aaron812 aaron812 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    my mom always lets the dog outside of our house,

    into our backyard. our yard only has fences on one side and the dog runs around, and ventures around everywhere. she can even get onto the road, (a very busy road) and has almost gotten hit by a car twice. now every time she lets her out i run after the dog, and yell at her...
    mayamanoharan mayamanoharan 22-25, F Jan 2

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    I don't know where to start,

    She is a horrible EVIL person. She is mentally sick I think but she would never admit to that. She NEVER admits to any of her faults, bullies, talks behind my back to her churchy friends, betrays, lies, believes strangers over her own children. And then has the audacity to...
    newbeginnings2016 newbeginnings2016 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 81 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 5, 2015

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    I hate how people glorify mothers,

    just because someone gave birth to you, doesn't automatically make them angels, mothers can be very twisted, and since rarely anyone wants to support that, you get pushed in the corner, like some delusional bit**
    curiousdweller curiousdweller 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    I hate my mother because

    though she gets me **** only on christmas or bday but idc about that i just wish she would treat me nice like all she would be is passive aggressive and push my anxiety buttons and is so judgmental so abusive and mentally breaking me down ****
    shawnee54 shawnee54 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    So I'll give you guys an example of how ******

    my mom is. Today, she laid in the driveway screaming and crying hysterically and shouting "my babies!!" and my sister and I had to call the cops. She was in this state because my sister voiced her opinion (a calm, valid, rational opinion) which was in support of our father...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    TheDevilHerself TheDevilHerself 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    My mom texted me at 1am,

    6am & then called me at 6:05am asking to borrow $60, talking about she wanted it to be fresh on my mind. I told her no but felt bad about it because I know I have $60. She called me later in the day while I was at work. She said she needed it for her rent & that she would be...
    Rchlwds Rchlwds 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    i dont know how to feel.

    i have this deep running hatred for my mother. and it stems from reasons that alot of people find stupid. but its there. i feel physically sick in her presence. lately she has been quite good though. she even bought me flowers and i just dont know how to react. i know the right...
    butterflykisses11 butterflykisses11 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Im so pissed off with her!

    I knew I was never hugely important to her but now i know I'm worth less then a caravan holiday to Wales ( which she's on atm) I rang her up to tell her about this open evening at college where she gets to meet my Guidance support tutor who will help me with everything this year...
    Ridingtonewyork Ridingtonewyork 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2015

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 66 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    Last night was a long night.

    Long story short it ended with my mom calling me a selfish and blaming me for all the problems in my parents marriage. And then she wonders why im such a mess
    jess965 jess965 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    It's unbelievable, I'm 16

    and she's that typical Asian parent but worse. All she does is try to control my life, manipulate me, it's getting ridiculous. Since I was 12 it was all about "Oh, you'll have to be a doctor or lawyer when you grow up! If you fail your exams and don't get all A's I'll kick you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 62 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 80 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    Whenever she needs something,

    she starts crying, like the world is ending, sucking all the sympathy, then acting weak all day, next day or so, she's back to her genuine look, bit**!
    curiousdweller curiousdweller 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 29

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 31-35, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    My mom needs to understand.

    If she's going to be a ***** to me, I'll be a ***** to her.
    Lemons2000 Lemons2000 18-21, F 4 Responses May 24, 2015

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    I spent my whole life feeling ugly

    and hated, even though I wasn't bad looking, my mother made me like that, she would insult me, humiliate me, telling me I'm not good enough, that I'm ugly and that they know which kid they believe in and in which one they don't, it has crushed me, and I can't move on from it...
    curiousdweller curiousdweller 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate my mom and i always will.

    I have the worst friendship or whatever you wanna call it with my my mom. My mom is always judging me and wants to change me. Im a little me, she hates it when i wear black , no gonna lie black is my favorite color. Im so sporty and a lil girly and she doesn't appreciates that...
    babyyyelisa babyyyelisa 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 39 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 76 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    darklotus01 darklotus01 13-15, T 2 days ago

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