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    i hate my mother she is a *****.

    i don't believe she loves me , i don't love her. she doesnt understand me , she's not very supportive , she's a hypocrite , i hate the way she looks and dress its pathetic , she used to be loving and supportive but stopped when i went threw puberty and instead of helping me she...
    hiimmy hiimmy 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    My whole life my mom has been constantly

    working. I truly believe she wasn't meant to be a mother. I'm the youngest of three girls. My middle sister mostly raised me when she was 16. My mom has never been there for me at all. My two older sisters moved in with their dad so I didn't see them that much. She tries to make...
    WhatisLife9198 WhatisLife9198 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 78 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    My mom needs to understand.

    If she's going to be a ***** to me, I'll be a ***** to her.
    Lemons2000 Lemons2000 18-21, F 5 Responses May 24

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    I swear that women makes my blood boil !

    I can't even be around her for more than 10 minutes; without fighting the urge to scream my head off and punch her in the face. At 14 I told her I was depressed and suicidal, she told me I was just trying to make her look like a bad parent. The list goes on into infinity on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 14

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    My mother is someone

    who simply never loved her children, myself included. and she made it clear since I was little. For her, giving life to us was already a hassle. My earliest memories are of sadness, she complaining about her life, about her children, blaming our father for everything that...
    tatyana16 tatyana16 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    Me and my mom have never been close.

    I've never been able to go to her with my problems for some reason. She drinks a lot and I hate it and I lash out at her when she drinks and she lashes right back. I'm not a confrontational person so I always end up apologizing and believing that I'm the wrong/crazy one. She's...
    carafedderan carafedderan 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    It just came out of nowhere.

    I suddenly got annoyed and angry with her. Whenever she says something, I will always have a rude comeback for it. I can't control myself. She always thinks she's right, and she won't take no as an answer. Her actions are the worst, her chewing, her walking, her thinking out...
    reivven reivven 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 13 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    My story is too long.

    However I have come to the conclusion that I just really need her to apologize to me. And to stop making up more stories that make me look like some horrible person. An apology for me – validates that I am a person with feelings. Please note* that my Mother has been...
    Raregolds Raregolds 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    My mother is so irritating!

    !! I can't stand being around her for very long. It seems like most things about her personality makes me roll my eyes. As a child I used to think she was the best and knew everything. Now that I'm an adult with my own mind and not so heavily influenced by her craziness I...
    lovehate25 lovehate25 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 7 Responses May 31, 2007

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 60 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    I am a 42year old single woman

    that had come back to my country of origin for 5 weeks to care for my mom that had a stroke.she is paralyzed on the right side but moves a little bit and talks just fine.I cannot get over my rage toward her.Every single day I go to the nursing home with good intentions but I can...
    Lauralidia Lauralidia 41-45, F Jul 13

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    I'm done with my mother.

    **** her. She's such a *****.
    sophiesg sophiesg 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 115 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    I live in a small town in rural Illinois.

    I'm 18 just graduated high school I have a little brother who's ten and an older brother with special needs A couple years ago my mom decided that we weren't enough for her and ran off with another man. I have no idea where she is now. I haven't seen her since In highschool I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 47 Responses Jul 6

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    Th3Ch3shir3Kat Th3Ch3shir3Kat 13-15, M Jul 17

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    Ive always loved my mom

    and have always stuck up for her. Now that I am a grown woman and we have been living together for the past 2 years I now see what kind of person she truly is and she has everyone fooled. She is emotionally and verbally abusive to my children and I. She wants us to run and...
    earthboundangel75 earthboundangel75 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My mother left us 14 years ago.

    That's when i'm 11. While my dad only know how to drunk. We were raised by our aunt where we're bullied and abused for years. Nobody can't imagine how my childhood was. I left home when i'm 18, looking for work and maybe freedom. After my dad died in 2009, we found our mom on...
    JuneJonas JuneJonas 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Since I was little my mom always yelled at me

    whenever I did something bad, whether it was not doing things on time, listening to her, etc. My mother has beaten me a couple of times and I thought that I would never survive. I have been beaten very badly before where I had cuts and bruises everywhere (I was 2). I'm 15...
    kattom kattom 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 39 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    So today i try and go treat my family to dinner

    (ofc no one wants to go out, so i offere to bring home something from the mall), long story short, i go and i find out i dont have enough money in my bank account till next pay to buy anything i must save the other $ for bills, so i explain to my mom what happened && she flips...
    imdesolated imdesolated 18-21, F Jul 9

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    My mom keeps having kids

    and needs to stop. She has ruined all her kids lives. Has three different baby daddys and has left each one with kids to raise on their own. I pray everyday for each of us who has to survive this world without a mom. I pray to and ask that her fertility be ******** from her. I...
    SeeksSerendipity SeeksSerendipity 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 80 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    This time next year I'll be 18,

    moving out, and never seeing my mother again. I will be living independently for my senior year of high school because I have more productive conversations with complete strangers asking for direction than I have with my family.
    carrotriot carrotriot 16-17, F Jul 17

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    She's not my mother by birth she's actually my

    aunt but she adopted me and forces me to call her mom. I was born and raised in Jamaica, so I was taught to respect my elders, but I was also taught that respect is earned no given. My "mother" is one of the most ignorant disrespectful bums I've ever met. Every single thing I do...
    Cleversmiles Cleversmiles 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    So I'll give you guys an example of how ******

    my mom is. Today, she laid in the driveway screaming and crying hysterically and shouting "my babies!!" and my sister and I had to call the cops. She was in this state because my sister voiced her opinion (a calm, valid, rational opinion) which was in support of our father...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 14 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    I think "hate" is a strong word.

    I have hated my mother in the past. In fact, when I was 13 I had dreams of physically assaulting her because she was such a phenomenal psycho. At 19 I ran screaming from my house in the middle of the night vowing never to return. Fast forward to my 40s. I don't "hate" her...
    DramaDiva DramaDiva 41-45 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I hate my mother She is the worst I always

    loved her I thought she loved me too but she don't She don't let me have a boyfriend, she don't let me post bad things on facebook, she makes fun of my weight, hair, behavior I wish I was an orphan Today they saw a post on my facebook Which contained adult language and they...
    collegegirl20 collegegirl20 22-25, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's hard. I know that no one will read this,

    but anyway..it's hard to live the life that I have sometimes because of my mother. I love this women to hell and back but she is just so bitter. It seems like she thinks no one loves her, but I'd put my life on the line for her. She wants me and my siblings to be responsible...
    WhisperingGrass WhisperingGrass 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    When I was a kid, my mother was always finding

    ways to put me down. She would always tell me that she should have killed me right after she gave birth to me, so that she wouldn't have to look at my ugly face anymore. I remember one time, my brother and I was trying to explain how to play a board game to her. She couldn't...
    Ihatemymother1 Ihatemymother1 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I used to feel guilty about this,

    she's the person who's supposed to love you unconditionally and be there for you no matter what, that was never how she was with me. My parents divorced when I was a baby and she refused to let me get to know my father until I was old enough to consciously make that decision- I...
    lolllaa lolllaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    My mother wishes she never had me,

    even if she denies it. Ok, This is my story, hope is not too long, excuse my orthography. ...And how do I know that? She has told me several times. But then she is like, ''I never said that''. She has a really really bad temperament, seriously she has som bad anger issues she...
    Onixgurl Onixgurl 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 74 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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