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I Hate My Mother

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    It is a tough thing to admit,

    and for some years I thought of it as more of a love/hate - relationship. But there is little love left now. Only hate, frustration, anger and then finally guilt for hating her. All my life I have been treated like some trophy that she can brag about to all her high society...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 73 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    There is too much negativity in this house

    and I can't stand it anymore!
    BrieezyMusselwhite BrieezyMusselwhite 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    My mother makes me want to scream

    and cry and die all at the same time. I always question how I'm related to her. She is a mean, fake, annoying, overall horrible person to be around. She has no consideration for other people, and she yells and screams at my entire family (my brothers and even my dad) constantly...
    angryannoyedteen angryannoyedteen 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    My mom stayed with the man

    who she knew molested me . She always used to tell me I need to find God to forgive but I cant. She should focus on getting him to go to God , not me.
    Mich124132 Mich124132 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 31

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    today she hit me so hard!

    5 of my bones broke today (litterally) She didnt take me to the hospital! Im bleeding and in my face i have a lot of scratches! Please help me!'
    oceanunique101 oceanunique101 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 26

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    I can't eat anything

    because I am a fat *****! I can't do anything because I am FAT and DUMB! That is what my mom calls me! My mom will never ever me proud of me ever! I am going to Middle School on September 4th! I just graduated elementary school! I have to admit, I am fat, but that does not mean...
    oceanunique123 oceanunique123 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-18, F 44 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 69 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    Gone

    My mother is not in my life...she's not a part of it...it's through choice. It is almost a year since we have spoken...it hurts but it's how it must be. We used to be so close, all my friends were jealous of our relationship. My mum let me do as I pleased growing up, if I wanted...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 24, 2007

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 18 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 58 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    U call me selfish coz I gt mad

    when my brother ate my bread today I need to finish the assignment this week, I used all my internet data yesterday Then he angry my brother not willing to share his data, u even help him explain that he need it and is LOGIC that he don't want to share Hey, I don't even want...
    GravityFall GravityFall 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    she is a saddist. and unfortunately she was

    ever in my presense in this life.
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F Aug 15

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    I guess something's are just hard wired,

    seriously it's my final days of my summer vacation. All I ask for is relaxation, nothing more. But no, my mother who promised to help me get through my problems, who promised to stop being the ***** she once was to me, one of the many people that hurt me and caused me to be this...
    MultipleRex MultipleRex 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    My mother lies to create conflict between me,

    my sister and our dad. Her and my dad are separated but she still does it. Her family blame my dad but it has become obvious to me in recent years that it's her. My children go to her house and come back jealous of each other, arguing, ignoring me and saying I do nothing for...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    No contact with my mother

    for a week now. I prefer when there is no contact. She only contacts me when she wants to take one of my children out. I am considering stopping this, although it breaks my heart. I want my children to have a grandmother. My daughter stayed with her over night a week ago and...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24

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    My mom told me i wad too fat to wear a dress to

    my cousins wedding and because my tattoos are screaming for attention. She begged me to wear a dress she had that fit her. I weigh 115, im not fat. I have a flower tattoo on my shoulder and a phoenix bird on my chest in memorium to september 11 victims that I knew. mom told me...
    antrevizo antrevizo 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 3

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    She never talks to me

    unless it is to tell me to do chores. I've never once heard her say "I love you". She told me I was retarded and told my oldest sister that she was her favorite. She's also a ***** 24/7 not only to us but to my dad too. She's not an overall bad person all the good parts of her...
    jjrmsl jjrmsl 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Never Was My Mother

    My parents were two of the most evil people I've ever encountered in my lifetime. My father was not involved in my life and didn't care if I lived or died. He didn't even know my name. My mother repeatedly abused me throughout my childhood and told me that I was nothing but trash...
    ashamedofmyfamily ashamedofmyfamily 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    I truly do- and I am ashamed to admit this-

    but I can't listen to her anymore, can't stand her bullying. She's totally taken over our house and my dad, used my Bestemor (Grandma), favorites kids... She bullies my stepsister and stepbrother Shelby And Rory, so badly, and yells all the time. She is so temperamental and...
    dogsandwolves dogsandwolves 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    **Update on my last post about my mother** She

    finally let me go to my grandmothers house, and about 5 days later she called me at around 10 pm yelling at me that I had two hours to get home, my only ride would have been my sister in law with two small kids. (In order for me to get home, my sister in law would have to wake...
    wingedmadman wingedmadman 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    I don't like my mom at all.

    I hate being related to her in any type of way. She calls me worthless. A dumb ***. An animal. Like she always says **** to me for no reason just to start stuff. I won't say a word to her for days and she walk pass me and say like oh I can't wait until this girl is out of my...
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 7 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    I always knew my father did not like me

    as much as my younger siblings, but I learned he hated me when I was 10. He damned near KILLED me and she chose him. My old man didn't like having a kid darker than him and for some reason I came out black hair to my siblings brown hair and cafe au lait skin to their olive hue...
    Eitan Eitan 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 7

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 78 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    My mother went out last night with friends

    and wound up hitting on a bunch of guys. She winds up with her hand in a pair of pants and the owner of said pants happens to be my father's best friend, and he told dad what happened and how he didn't want to be some with my mother again. Mother came to me and tried to say it...
    TheWomanYouHate TheWomanYouHate 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I hate when she lies to me.

    I hate her! It makes me mad because i can't do anything about it as always! Every time i ask her to do me a favor and she says "yes" but it never really happened! I hate you mom! Why can't you promise me? Don't make an excuse that you are tired! don't ask me a favor if you don't...
    vinxgaza vinxgaza 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    At the moment, I hate my mom.

    She knows I'm terrified of spiders. She knows I'm practically useless until it dies, because I'm terrified of them. And right now, there is a huge black spider in my room, and I left to go to the bathroom, and then my parents came home, but none of them killed it. And now I don...
    PercyJacksonisAWESOME PercyJacksonisAWESOME 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    She loves to talk negatively about me to my

    family that lives in the Dominican Republic about me apparently being such a bad son and person and talking about how she's waiting for the day I turn 18 so I can leave the house. Then when I confront her on that, she always says that she's not talking about me when I CLEARLY...
    SgtRecker06 SgtRecker06 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    brokenlives92002 brokenlives92002 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    One day when I was about 4 my step brother

    who's 17 years old and I where going to cut a cake to see what gender was my moms and step dads baby (My step dad loves my step brother more than me) and my other "REAL" brother was at a friends house and he was 4. Anyways my step dad cut the cake I was hoping for it to be a...
    catlover031 catlover031 13-15, F Aug 24

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 70 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    My mum is my best friend :) My mother gave

    birth to me . She cared for me . Loved me . Please don't think that I could ever hate her . That I couldn't ever forgive her . Hate is the worse kind of emotion and in my case I don't ever recall ever feeling that for her.
    interlink2 interlink2 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 18

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    I just found out my mum has been arrested.

    It's weird, i feel like I should be angry at her or stressed out or upset, but I don't even care, in fact, I actually feel a bit relieved.
    holly2955 holly2955 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I Have A Birthgiver Not A Mother

    "The most beautiful word on the lips of mankind is the word "Mother", and the most beautiful call is the call of "My mother.' It is a word full of hope and love, a sweet and kind word coming from the depths of the heart. - The mother is everything. - she is our consolation in...
    Virginia9999 Virginia9999 18-21, F 11 Responses May 12, 2013

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    My mom is a extremely judgemental,

    emotionally disturbed, controlling person. For about the past five years I have been away from her as much as possible. It never seems to be too far away though. She calls me immature and loves to get under my skin, she has gotten the cops called on me twice in five years...
    jemech jemech 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 7 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I think the reason I cry

    so much when my mum says horrible and filthy things to me is because I love her so much. She will verbally abuse me daily and it will effect me because I am her child and no matter how much bad stuff she says to me I'll always love her but that's what makes it so painful...
    Aishcc Aishcc 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 2

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    I hate my mother. She woke me up today yelling

    at me to go on a jog with her Bc I'm the fattest one in the house. Who says that to someone? I was very tired and my feet hurt really bad from working. I work 8 hours a day and I'm always on my feet. She doesn't work. Her and my sister stopping for a second while running...
    gina1pg gina1pg 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    So I'll give you guys an example of how ******

    my mom is. Today, she laid in the driveway screaming and crying hysterically and shouting "my babies!!" and my sister and I had to call the cops. She was in this state because my sister voiced her opinion (a calm, valid, rational opinion) which was in support of our father...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    She told me I was retarded

    and smiles smugly whenever she sees me starting to get upset
    jjrmsl jjrmsl 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    She yells at me every single day.

    She used to seperate me from my girlfriend, she says all bad things about me. I try to get a scholarship to study abroad, just to stay away from her but i need a good place to study, not this hole of hell
    ddaibangden ddaibangden 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 87 Responses May 28, 2007

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 6 Responses May 31, 2007

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    I need glasses for school,

    I can't see well if I'm further than about 4-5 meters from the board. My mother says I deserve it and that I should be blind...I wondering if I should tear my eyes out and bleed to death.
    Izuka Izuka 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 2

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