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    I hate my mother. I hate her.

    I hate her. I hate her. I HATE her! I can't say it enough. Just saying this alone is not enough to express my hatred for her. I gave up everything for her! I did anything she wanted! I tried to be everything she wanted me to be! And I'm sick of it... I'm exhausted for living...
    BITTERandNAIVE BITTERandNAIVE 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    Since young no one has hurt my feelings

    as much as my mum has. She calls me a "female dog" , a burden, a shame, etc and many other words that I cannot translate to English. She beat me for mischief, which I think would have been ok if it was light, but it always ended up in me rolling on the floor begging her to stop...
    ashleycharlie28 ashleycharlie28 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 5

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 79 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    This is a true story.

    .... And I just can't feel the same about my mother for many reasons. To begin with my mother was admitted to multiple mental health institutions. For the past 4 years of my life as been hell. Fighting daily with her deranged way of thinking. Sometimes it has gotten to a point...
    ikilledmyselfinside ikilledmyselfinside 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    I Have A Birthgiver Not A Mother

    "The most beautiful word on the lips of mankind is the word "Mother", and the most beautiful call is the call of "My mother.' It is a word full of hope and love, a sweet and kind word coming from the depths of the heart. - The mother is everything. - she is our consolation in...
    Virginia9999 Virginia9999 18-21, F 11 Responses May 12, 2013

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    My mom hits me, pinches me in the head,

    slaps me, pinches me, slaps me on my arm, lies about me to others, mocks me, makes fun of my skin tone and black people in general, says my hair looks like a rats nest, always points out my flaws anywhere/time she sees fit, belittles me, gossips about me, threatens me, controls...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 1

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 6 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    "A mother's love is forever" "Mother is the

    mist beautiful word"..... All b*******. Most parents nowadays don't love their child. The children that seem to have a perfect family are the ones who are freakishly smart. Those "parents" don't love the child they raised, they love the puppet they created. I didn't obey my...
    Fubukiori Fubukiori 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 12

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 58 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 72 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    I hate my mom. She has ruined life.

    To be honest shes not my real mom...im adopted so I don't give a **** about her. Shes hurt me so many times.... I bet she has not regretted it. She makes me want to leave this earth. Her favorite is my brother and he will always be. I feel like I now have no one. Shes beat me...
    fishy0829 fishy0829 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My mother treated me like property

    rather than her child. She hasn't spoken to me in more than a week and has never said that she loves me.
    hreinn hreinn 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 14

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    My mom is just straight up a b***.

    I once went to bed on a vacation day while my mom had to go to work. After I had showered and exited the bathroom it was like 23:00. She was immediately in front of me and she immediately started screaming at me that I am a sh** person and that I have to go to bed before 22:00...
    anqi12345 anqi12345 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    that witch is ruining my life.

    she wont let me do anything with my life. im just about ready to shoot myself. she wont let me go to prom and my bf already paid for me.shes an ***
    BooBear99 BooBear99 16-17, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    my mother has always disliked me

    but hid it a lot better when I was younger and its only as ive got older ive realised it, she has always loved my sister and wanted to spend time with her so when they was in a room together they would laugh and joke and when I go into the room they stop and just look at me...
    ymasxatl ymasxatl 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    I know I might sound like complaining

    but I just wanted to share my story. I wanted to kill myself ever since 7th grade because of my mom. I am a sensitive person who really takes things to the heart so when she talks down to me I feel really hurt. When I dont understand something, I'm the stupid one. When I close...
    purpleviolinist purpleviolinist 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    My relationship with my mother got way worse

    when I moved back in with her last year. When she lost her job this last spring she took it out on me. Almost every time she had a moment alone she would berate me about how I was selfish and awful, because I didn't clean the house or didn't do this-or-that. I work full time...
    moranne moranne 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 7 Responses May 31, 2007

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 75 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    It's true, Beyond the fact

    that she's my mother and she gave birth to me, I really hate her as a human being. Her personality is ugly and she needs to move one with her life.
    CDtime CDtime 31-35, T 2 Responses Feb 24

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    So my mom isn't a bad person,

    just it seems like she's always taking everything out on me. Every single thing i say, if dont say it in the nicest voice possible, she starts screaming at me about having an "attitude problem." And I'm not in denial because at times I know I do and I always apologize for that...
    lonelyshark lonelyshark 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Well I hate my mom. At first

    when I did I tried to love her again but I just can't. She does nothing but criticize me 24/7. I'm a very emotional person and she just loves for her to be the reason for why I'm crying and then when I start crying she hits me and yells at me. I'm also a quiet person so she...
    niah0510 niah0510 13-15, F Mar 7

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    I'm completely fed up.

    I'm 22 and have been really ill recently i've been in and out of hospitalfor tests and scans and about a million procedures and I feel like i'm getting no emotional support. I'm living with my partner with my parents because i've been ill we can't afford rent on an apartment...
    bloodandfire91 bloodandfire91 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 59 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    I have never made any large posts on here about

    my mother, because my subconscious knows that if I did so, I would probably be making posts about her nearly every day. My general feelings toward my mother range from an overall dislike to a strong hate. I base my feelings on her character and her general disregard for me and...
    jahein137 jahein137 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    It's been two years now

    that I've hated my mother. We were never really close to begin with but it also hasn't been like this before. Now I avoid interacting with her as much as possible, but this is difficult to do because I live with her. We don't have anything in common. I'm 26 years old and I...
    jkc0 jkc0 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Victim Of Tyranny-No I was NOT "stolen" from

    you by "nosy *** White folks in your business believing my damn lies". I was RESCUED from you after 9 1/2 years under your mediocre custody suffering isolation,beatings with slaps fists belts extension cords, psychological abuse, and casual neglect because my 4th grade teacher...
    Selah94 Selah94 18-21, F 1 Response 42 mins ago

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    No mother should say ,

    "As long as you're my child, you are under my feet!" If you want someone who never argues with you, get a statue or virtual kid, perpetually cute, obedient, and undemanding. Parents really never took their own advices (rantings, whatever came out of their mouth) and apply it to...
    Felicity3110 Felicity3110 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    My mother is someone I truly hate.

    We never got along and she would make me feel so ****** about myself on a daily basis. She thinks she has done nothing wrong and pretends like everything is fine. I haven't talked to her since I left for college in August. She tries to call me but I never answer. People think...
    tornapart123 tornapart123 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 13 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    My mother is my bully.

    She is the most over critical and cruel person I've ever met. It doesn't matter if it's a someone in her life or someone on the television, she'll find something wrong with their appearance. The only condition? She only insults and criticizes women. I remember being self...
    YourMayaBear YourMayaBear 16-17, F 2 Responses