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I Hate My Mother

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 5

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    She is so unfair. When it comes to me,

    she never had an effort to do something to me. She ask my siblings who wants to go to Europe with her and i tell her i want to go and she insists to bring me and said she needs to bring my younger sister. When i was younger i always got a good grade and always make her proud but...
    DolceeVita DolceeVita 18-21, F a week ago

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 80 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    My mother is a codependent person of low

    intelligence and many bad habits (lying, transference, denial, not taking care of her health). As a child she would embarrass me in front of others by divulging personal information. She didn't parent properly and I received virtually no socialization with other people and...
    dharmafox dharmafox 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I can do **** or do anything

    because she is afraid of every god damn thing. I can't do ******* anything . If she doesn't feel comfortable with it I can't do it god I hate her I don't even love her I want to get divorce from her so I can do my own thing. She is holding me back from a lot of stuff I just want...
    vertffy vertffy 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 10

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 74 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 62 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    I hate my mother. She is a lazy so

    and so who does nothing for anyone else and bullies my dad to make herself feel better. I recently had my second child and it took her until I was 15 weeks pregnant to even bother to congratulate me - she had known since I was 5 weeks. I ended up in hospital with dehydration...
    Amelia2015 Amelia2015 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420 22-25, F 10 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I don't know why but my mother likes to see me

    fail or suffer I was going to apply for a summer job and her reaction was "don't get too excited, you won't do anything worth doing. you will have to do mundane boring stuff". when i tell her about my plans instead of at least saying good luck she said " I...
    hatemymum hatemymum 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    God I fuucking hate her

    so much lately. I almost cry everytime I have to go see her. She's so selfish and lazy and never does anything to help around the house, the house that MY DAD BOUGHT HER after the divorce.. she makes me do chores and shiit all day which honestly wouldn't even be that big of a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 12

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    My mom hits me, pinches me in the head,

    slaps me, pinches me, slaps me on my arm, lies about me to others, mocks me, makes fun of my skin tone and black people in general, says my hair looks like a rats nest, always points out my flaws anywhere/time she sees fit, belittles me, gossips about me, threatens me, controls...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 1

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    The Quote Project: Getting Through to a

    Narcissistic Mother My mother is the bane of my existence. She is narcissistic, selfish, bombastic, condescending, and an overall unpleasantry to have in my life. I have resented her for years, and sincerely hope that she soon leaves my family. But this does not mean that I...
    EmbracetheInfinite EmbracetheInfinite 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 15

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    I hate my mother . She is

    so narrow minded about everything, and keeps holding me back from most things I want to do in life. A few months ago I decided I really wanted a lip peircing and she told me she'd consider it; she got my hopes up a lot and now she's saying “over my dead body”. She told me...
    sia085 sia085 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    I live in a small town in rural Illinois.

    I'm 18 just graduated high school I have a little brother who's ten and an older brother with special needs A couple years ago my mom decided that we weren't enough for her and ran off with another man. I have no idea where she is now. I haven't seen her since In highschool I...
    JayNan51 JayNan51 18-21, M 53 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I can not stand her at times she is a bully

    and she ruin my life I have depression problems cause of her I am sick of her if I was not disable I should left long time and kick her out in my life I hate my self I hate my life
    nicegirl15 nicegirl15 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 60 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    lil2000 lil2000 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I honestly do. I tried to be nice the other day

    and bought her home some cake from the bakery. She was too busy talking on the phone like always and ignored me and just ate it. Today, she asked me to read over an email she was writing so that i could edit it since she literally writes like a 7 year old. I started changing...
    courvill courvill 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    Yes I do.I know I shouldn't

    but I do.She is addicted to tablets so yeah.We can't have tavlets. in the house.I have a mom who's addicted to tablets and an alcoholic father.My life is a mess.
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    My mom needs to understand.

    If she's going to be a ***** to me, I'll be a ***** to her.
    Lemons2000 Lemons2000 18-21, F 5 Responses May 24

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    I am writing on here

    because there is no where else I can speak my true feelings. And I hate it. Everyone comes from their mother, but I am so ashamed to come from my own mother. The reason why is because ever since I was a young girl, I knew that there was something wrong with our relationship...
    cdaught cdaught 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    This is my first post

    and I am just so mad that I had to post something somewhere. I am 21 years old and Asian roots, with classic stereotypical family. So I live in london and am currently attending university. Where does my mum come into this.. well she makes my life hell and has done so since i...
    muqu muqu 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 78 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    nobody else ever makes me

    as angry and irritated as she does. And angry is even an understatement.
    Th3Ch3shir3Kat Th3Ch3shir3Kat 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 108 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-17, F 49 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 14 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    I had a dream couple nights ago,

    in my dream I was carrying a gun and i pointed it at my mom and i pulled the trigger i shot her straight to the head and i shot her again and again. I woke up little freaked but part of me enjoyed it and the other part was stilted freaked. Dreams are not random meaningless...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    My mother is nothing

    but a good for nothing, lazy, forceful, and nasty judgmental woman. Nothing I do is good enough for her and despite my problems she is FORCING me to go to therapy every week where I have to actually pretend to give a **** about my life and the ***** tries to make me cry. Then my...
    LilVixen17 LilVixen17 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 22

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    She makes feel useless all the time .

    She even ruins my birthdays .My High school graduation was ruined by her . She uses mind tricks to make me miserable....... If i cook or bake anything she ruins it by messing with it .She makes everyone believe i am this most horrible ,worthless person on Earth . Even though i...
    ben22able ben22able 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 13

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    So I'm adopted since I was 13

    and now I'm 15 but I've known my adopted mom who we are going to call L, I've known her for till I was 9 she was awesome super cool but until she adopt me she got pregnant. She had a baby so I guess for pity she adopted me and my twin sister, also I had problems with my...
    QB21 QB21 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    So if you cant be a a fair parent.

    ..then don't have more than one child, because it sucks being overshadowed by someone who's younger than you.
    Mi5h Mi5h 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 39 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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