I Hate My Mother

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    I don't know how I'm feeling anymore.

    I'm tired and all I do is sit in this room watching Netflix hoping my mother will leave again. I grew up with a mother on drugs, when I was little she was so happy. so jumpy, so.. Not her, like I actually know her. I grew up seeing her like that, so I expected her to stay like...
    Ajurai Ajurai
    70+, F
    1 Response Mar 26

    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne
    66-70, F
    62 Responses Jul 27, 2007

    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment
    31-35, M
    3 Responses May 24, 2014

    My mom says that I am the wrong child

    that she kicked up from the hospital, and that I'm not her child and therefore don't belong to her. She also told me several times that if I died she wouldn't be sad, but she'd be happy. I have an older sister who is never told these kind of thing, but is treated like a normal...
    animalhuggerLOL animalhuggerLOL
    1 Response Mar 11

    The logic of my mother : If I spend my entire

    salary on a Prada Bag, she'd gush over the bag and let it slide. However if I spend 15 dollars on e-books in appstore, I get yelled profanities and get called a waster. You know, due to the fact that I earn my own money, I think I'm allowed to take 15 dollars out of my yearly...
    Felicity3110 Felicity3110
    22-25, F
    Apr 14

    So I'll give you guys an example of how ******

    my mom is. Today, she laid in the driveway screaming and crying hysterically and shouting "my babies!!" and my sister and I had to call the cops. She was in this state because my sister voiced her opinion (a calm, valid, rational opinion) which was in support of our father...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Jul 6, 2014

    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111
    36-40, F
    79 Responses Aug 27, 2007

    It finally happened and Im glad

    but bittersweet at the same time. Mom called my auntie to tell her that it'd attacked her physically and that she has to call the cops, that she's pressing charges and I'm inn jail.....just a whole huge fairytale. So the last few days I've gotten horribly angry messages on my...
    CherrybombBetty CherrybombBetty
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 11

    She is completely crazy

    and emotionally abusive. She forces me to go to weekly therapy, even though I've told her I hate it, because she says she doesn't know how to "fix me". She put6 bolts on my window to keep me in, and had as of today told everything I asked her to keep confidential about my life...
    lash100 lash100
    22-25, F
    Apr 17

    So, my birthday is coming up on the 31st,

    and I'm going to ask you, is it alright if I can get a present? Well, according to my retard mom, she starts yelling "why would you want one when you're 16" and basically makes a big fuss over it. She always says this because she wants to "save." I put in the quotes because you...
    Matthewdohyunkim Matthewdohyunkim
    3 Responses Mar 16

    She's just an unfathomable mess.

    Don't mistake that for being complex. She just obfuscates her intent and motivations and uses emotional blackmail to make others (namely me) feel indebted to her pent up ambitions and unworthy goals. She can pick and naw at you until you have nothing left. She abuses my...
    Obliterati Obliterati
    22-25, F
    Apr 15

    I'll never forgive my mom

    for cheating on my dad with my ex .She did it when my dad was not home in our house .Once the damage is done there nothing you can do about it .I try have a realtionship with her but she act like she don't want to .
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Mar 27

    My mom has always been a shell to me.

    I have an older and younger sister. My wife and I gave birth to a daughter. She was a part of her life until my younger sister had a daughter. She covets my two sisters and always takes their sides. I have had my sister's husband steal money from me and my mom took their side...
    sadsoulx sadsoulx
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Mar 11

    My mom needs to understand.

    If she's going to be a ***** to me, I'll be a ***** to her.
    Lemons2000 Lemons2000
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 24, 2015

    so every year apple releases a new model of the

    iPhone and this past Saturday my dad bought me the iPhone 6s plus. today is monday. spring break is over and now its time for school. she asked me if i felt like going to school and i said no so she let me and my younger sister stay home. the entire day she made us clean the...
    heyjessie1 heyjessie1
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 21

    My mother insulted me,

    she always insults me but this time I talked back because I could not take the insult anymore. We had a heated exchange of argument. When she could not make me shut up, she took a step closer to me, pulled my hair and scratched my face. I was trying to pull her arms away from me...
    loveiswhatineed123 loveiswhatineed123
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 23

    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 20, 2008

    I honestly can't even look at her

    for more than a minute, without it completely ruining my mood. She's honestly so pathetic. I'm counting down the days until I move out. I'm just so tired of her being rude, demeaning, unsupportive and just plain horrible. She literally drains my happiness. I don't understand...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Aug 26, 2015

    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

    Every since I was five,

    all I've ever come out of my mom's mouth was "you're too fat". I've been on diets on and off for years, but nothing I do pleases her. I am now 21, and I still live at home. She continues to force me to eat healthy and work-out to the point of passing out. I have never heard a...
    sunshineandrocks sunshineandrocks
    22-25, F
    Apr 17

    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Oct 30, 2013

    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted
    14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

    I think I'm gonna love this spot.

    OMG ! MY life has been a living nightmare with her for a mother. I'm 58 and since I was a baby this woman has abandoned, abused, critized, lied, tricked, oh crap you get the idea. Religion shoved down my throat, beat for not learning bible verses or whatever. beatings, not...
    msrbull msrbull
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Mar 9

    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111
    16-17, F
    66 Responses Feb 26, 2010

    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin
    51-55, F
    82 Responses Oct 28, 2010

    Whenever I make a choice,

    she makes me not want it anymore. I feel confident about my choice and then she points out every bad thing. For example, I want to get a pixie cut. I chose a style, and I loved it. She comes over and points out that I'll look too much like my sister, or I'm too lazy to style it...
    oswinpond oswinpond
    16-17, F
    Mar 6

    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal
    31-35, F
    90 Responses May 28, 2007

    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269
    13-15, F
    13 Responses Aug 6, 2014

    My mom hits me, pinches me in the head,

    slaps me, pinches me, slaps me on my arm, lies about me to others, mocks me, makes fun of my skin tone and black people in general, says my hair looks like a rats nest, always points out my flaws anywhere/time she sees fit, belittles me, gossips about me, threatens me, controls...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Mar 1, 2015

    My mother's arrogance is

    rather amusing sometimes. Like today. She always claims that she can hear everything, and that she knows exactly what my brother and I do in our rooms with shut doors. But today has proved that she does not know what goes on in our house. She doesn't know how I hurt myself, she...
    Zamboo Zamboo
    1 Response Mar 12

    I live in a small town in rural Illinois.

    I'm 18 just graduated high school I have a little brother who's ten and an older brother with special needs A couple years ago my mom decided that we weren't enough for her and ran off with another man. I have no idea where she is now. I haven't seen her since In highschool I...
    deleted deleted
    34 Responses Jul 6, 2015

    Oh my god I hate her!

    My moms soo rude!She screams,shouts and brings up things from the past when she's angry! She's like a bully and when I get money from my family she's nice to me cause she wants me to spoil her like wtf!She rejects me so that she can spend time with her stupid big *** headed...
    ashleyLee45 ashleyLee45
    18-21, F
    Apr 3

    My mother, who I honestly say I hate,

    can be out of my life forever. I've disliked her since I was in 6th grade. The only reason why I hate her is because she cheated on my dad for 5 YEARS!! I knew she was cheating because I came across one of her chat rooms that asked, " are you naked?" I didn't really mind that...
    chelliebean01 chelliebean01
    18-21, F
    Apr 9

    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Aug 8, 2014

    I was always good in everything.

    I was always an enthusiastic person with high range of positivity. On the other hand my mom is a sick manipulator and an abusive person. All through my life the only thing she tried to do is making me lose everything. She destroyed everything I was good in. She poisoned every...
    hatemom12 hatemom12
    16-17, F
    Apr 11

    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel
    26-30, F
    74 Responses Mar 9, 2007

    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    I always feel ashamed of hating my mom,

    but I just can't help it no matter how much I try to be patient and understanding towards her behavior. She's emotionally abusive to everyone in my family. She's lazy, bipolar, and mentally unstable. My relationship with my mother is almost nonexistent. People will never...
    alex0995 alex0995
    18-21, F
    Apr 18

    Im so pissed off with her!

    I knew I was never hugely important to her but now i know I'm worth less then a caravan holiday to Wales ( which she's on atm) I rang her up to tell her about this open evening at college where she gets to meet my Guidance support tutor who will help me with everything this year...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 10, 2015

    I really hate my mother at the moment.

    I'm 20 years old, i have a part time job and I live with my mother, her husband and one of my younger brothers. I've had a lot of horrible experiences in my life, of course all people have. I've had a lot of rough patches, so has my mom. But we've been able to pull through them...
    st0oie st0oie
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 5

    I am turning 16 soon,

    I know people may say that I hate my mom because I'm a teen. Most people have no idea that my mother emotionally DESTROYS me. She ignores me when I'm talking about something I get exited by. She doesn't accept the fact that I'm bisexual, nor does she like any of my friends or...
    Amaya242 Amaya242
    16-17, F
    Apr 1

    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren
    38 Responses Sep 26, 2011

    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8
    8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Dec 16, 2013

    i try to tell my mom how i feel

    but it seems that everything i say goes in one ear and comes out the other
    edennnn edennnn
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 21

    I hate my mom. She does not physicaly abuse me,

    she verbally abuses me. She once threatened to kill me. She calls me stupid, worthless, dumb and she compares me to my older brother. She blames every problem she has on other people. And she complains and yells all the time. She is horrible to my dad. Currently, my brother is...
    depressed110 depressed110
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 12

    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Dec 17, 2014


    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax
    16-17, F
    50 Responses Dec 14, 2007

    I hate my mom so much!

    today I was supposed to go to therapy, but noooo. my mom wanted to not take me to therapy just so she could go to her stupid karate class. she gets to go to this class 4 times a week. I had gotten all ready to go when all of the sudden my mom calls me into her room dressed in...
    AlwaysForeverAlone AlwaysForeverAlone
    16-17, T
    1 Response Mar 30

    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele
    145 Responses Jul 13, 2008

    I worked a ten hour shift yesterday

    and was very sore. I had trouble sleeping and couldn't fall asleep until 4 a.m. Looking forward to an uneventful day where I could enjoy my leisure time, I saw my mom as I was about to walk out the door. She asked me if I could come home after work to help her. I asked her...
    SertraOD SertraOD
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 12

    She was mad I wouldn't skip a church function

    yesterday when she wanted to go shopping. So she drove almost 45 miles just you show up at my church and yell at me. literally, she pulled up and burst through the door to scream and cuss at me, right in front of my kinda new church and all the children. we've only been going...
    CherrybombBetty CherrybombBetty
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Apr 5

    a few minutes ago my mother accused me of

    smoking and having sex whats next im just soooo excited to find out
    edennnn edennnn
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 21

    My mom is ****** up, I came home late

    after 10 I got home, because my friend was feeling suicidal and was about to cut. I stopped him and she is still mad. I'm gonna show my suicidal side to her and see how I feel when my friend cuts. She'll try to send me the a mental hospital like my sister, but **** my mom. I'm...
    SamuelPrescott SamuelPrescott
    13-15, M
    Apr 17

    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena
    18-21, F
    19 Responses Apr 21, 2007

    No Kind Of Mother-Why are you still married

    your child's murderer after all of these years have passed? You said you loved us, you loved baby sister, yet you're still with the man who ended her life before it had even really began. Most would find a man so soulless and violent that he beat his own little child to death to...
    Zima94 Zima94
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 3

    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf
    26-30, M
    7 Responses Jun 18, 2013

    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler
    67 Responses Mar 6, 2011

    Long story, short story.

    I hate my mother and she hates me. Whenever I'm around her she starts to critizise me and she blames me for the stupidest things I haven't even done. Just recently she bought some very cheap towels, that did not survive the washing machine. But instead of just letting it go, she...
    why09me why09me
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 21

    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost
    31-35, F
    9 Responses May 12, 2013
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