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I Hate My Mother

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 39 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    I hate my mother ever

    since my dad left her. My dad abandoned us last 2006. I was 9 years old at that time. She left us for another woman in his workplace. I hated my father at first, but when I knew the reason why he did that, I now feel sorry and at the same time happy for my dad. Even before my...
    krstnfct krstnfct 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    babykiss12 babykiss12 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 107 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 73 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I hate my mother. She is a lazy so

    and so who does nothing for anyone else and bullies my dad to make herself feel better. I recently had my second child and it took her until I was 15 weeks pregnant to even bother to congratulate me - she had known since I was 5 weeks. I ended up in hospital with dehydration...
    Amelia2015 Amelia2015 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    I really hate my mum too.

    To her my bro is like a god and I am like a junk and burden. She chase me out of home before and no matter what I do will be wrong and a sore eye to her. Only scard to hurt my bro feelings but what about mine? And keep compare me to others. Den what if i compare her to other...
    lonerkitty lonerkitty 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 14 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    I don't even know where to start,

    my mom abused me and my brother (burning us, beating us, screaming at us as far back as I can remember, since I was at least 5 (I am now 40) my grandma threatened to take us away from her if she didn't straighten up, my mom slept with every flipping guy in our city and when I...
    Noname19744 Noname19744 36-40 Jun 5

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    God I fuucking hate her

    so much lately. I almost cry everytime I have to go see her. She's so selfish and lazy and never does anything to help around the house, the house that MY DAD BOUGHT HER after the divorce.. she makes me do chores and shiit all day which honestly wouldn't even be that big of a...
    wishdish wishdish 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 12

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    Yes I do.I know I shouldn't

    but I do.She is addicted to tablets so yeah.We can't have tavlets. in the house.I have a mom who's addicted to tablets and an alcoholic father.My life is a mess.
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    for awhile I've been hating my mom,

    I stop loving her when I turned 13. that is when I realized that she's been isolating me all of my life, she treats my older brother like he is a king and let's him go where ever he wants, when he wants. there are some things she did that I'll never forgive her for. it is not a...
    DeadGirlInTheInside DeadGirlInTheInside 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 4

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 78 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    My mom hits me, pinches me in the head,

    slaps me, pinches me, slaps me on my arm, lies about me to others, mocks me, makes fun of my skin tone and black people in general, says my hair looks like a rats nest, always points out my flaws anywhere/time she sees fit, belittles me, gossips about me, threatens me, controls...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 1

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    honestly what type of pos meets a man

    while the are both locked up in a psych ward and decides to procreate? the old hag should have been put down after popping me out. what a dumb cu next tues . the hag in question is a BPD mess. a dirty slobby hoarding emotionally dead inside freak. no one like her should be...
    DancesWithUnicorns DancesWithUnicorns 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 9

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    The Quote Project: Getting Through to a

    Narcissistic Mother My mother is the bane of my existence. She is narcissistic, selfish, bombastic, condescending, and an overall unpleasantry to have in my life. I have resented her for years, and sincerely hope that she soon leaves my family. But this does not mean that I...
    EmbracetheInfinite EmbracetheInfinite 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 15

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    Well, I love my mother,

    but I also hate her in some ways. She was a wonderful, even magical, mother until I was 10 and then she withdrew her affection and attention. I didn't understand it at the time, but now that I'm a mom and and grandmother myself, I see that she only really likes the little ones...
    terbug terbug 61-65, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 60 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    She did it again she ruined my special dinner i

    cooked for everyone for getting it in a good collage ,moreover took all the money and gift everyone gave me .She insulted me in front of my teachers and classmates saying that I'm the most worthless person living in the world. I'm worse than Hitler ,and slapped me across the...
    ben22able ben22able 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 14

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    I can do **** or do anything

    because she is afraid of every god damn thing. I can't do ******* anything . If she doesn't feel comfortable with it I can't do it god I hate her I don't even love her I want to get divorce from her so I can do my own thing. She is holding me back from a lot of stuff I just want...
    vertffy vertffy 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 10

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    She is so unfair. When it comes to me,

    she never had an effort to do something to me. She ask my siblings who wants to go to Europe with her and i tell her i want to go and she insists to bring me and said she needs to bring my younger sister. When i was younger i always got a good grade and always make her proud but...
    DolceeVita DolceeVita 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 7 Responses May 31, 2007

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    My mom needs to understand.

    If she's going to be a ***** to me, I'll be a ***** to her.
    Lemons2000 Lemons2000 18-21, F 5 Responses May 24

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    I can not stand her at times she is a bully

    and she ruin my life I have depression problems cause of her I am sick of her if I was not disable I should left long time and kick her out in my life I hate my self I hate my life
    nicegirl15 nicegirl15 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I really hate my mother,

    the only reason I talk to her is so I know how my little sisters are doing. And today reminded me why I hate her. She messages me saying we haven't talked in a long time, how have I been? Well I told her all the stuff, but mainly we got a date for our wedding. It's not going to...
    MissJessieGurl MissJessieGurl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I honestly do. I tried to be nice the other day

    and bought her home some cake from the bakery. She was too busy talking on the phone like always and ignored me and just ate it. Today, she asked me to read over an email she was writing so that i could edit it since she literally writes like a 7 year old. I started changing...
    courvill courvill 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    So I'm adopted since I was 13

    and now I'm 15 but I've known my adopted mom who we are going to call L, I've known her for till I was 9 she was awesome super cool but until she adopt me she got pregnant. She had a baby so I guess for pity she adopted me and my twin sister, also I had problems with my...
    QB21 QB21 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    She makes feel useless all the time .

    She even ruins my birthdays .My High school graduation was ruined by her . She uses mind tricks to make me miserable....... If i cook or bake anything she ruins it by messing with it .She makes everyone believe i am this most horrible ,worthless person on Earth . Even though i...
    ben22able ben22able 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 13

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    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420 22-25, F 10 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 5

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 80 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 6 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    lil2000 lil2000 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    This is my first post

    and I am just so mad that I had to post something somewhere. I am 21 years old and Asian roots, with classic stereotypical family. So I live in london and am currently attending university. Where does my mum come into this.. well she makes my life hell and has done so since i...
    muqu muqu 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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