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I Hate My Mother

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    It's rather hard for me to explain my feelings

    for my mother. She's very, well abusive that's true. But I still set out to get her approval, I always tell her I love her, and I always check up on her... When I was young she did pills which left her rather dopey and mean. I didn't really understand at the time what caused...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 10

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    My mother treated me like property

    rather than her child. She hasn't spoken to me in more than a week and has never said that she loves me.
    hreinn hreinn 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 14

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    my mother has always disliked me

    but hid it a lot better when I was younger and its only as ive got older ive realised it, she has always loved my sister and wanted to spend time with her so when they was in a room together they would laugh and joke and when I go into the room they stop and just look at me...
    ymasxatl ymasxatl 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    I am so afraid of my mom.

    She puts so much pressure on me and is so pessimistic. She told me to get a job, so i did. Now she isn't happy with the job i got. She talks to my dad like he's nothing and he just takes it, and it breaks my heart. I hate coming home from college because of her, but i want to...
    ab524 ab524 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    This is a true story.

    .... And I just can't feel the same about my mother for many reasons. To begin with my mother was admitted to multiple mental health institutions. For the past 4 years of my life as been hell. Fighting daily with her deranged way of thinking. Sometimes it has gotten to a point...
    ikilledmyselfinside ikilledmyselfinside 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 79 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    I hate my mother. I hate her.

    I hate her. I hate her. I HATE her! I can't say it enough. Just saying this alone is not enough to express my hatred for her. I gave up everything for her! I did anything she wanted! I tried to be everything she wanted me to be! And I'm sick of it... I'm exhausted for living...
    BITTERandNAIVE BITTERandNAIVE 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    My relationship with my mother got way worse

    when I moved back in with her last year. When she lost her job this last spring she took it out on me. Almost every time she had a moment alone she would berate me about how I was selfish and awful, because I didn't clean the house or didn't do this-or-that. I work full time...
    moranne moranne 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 37 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    I used to work in geriatric health care in Ohio

    . I had just had my son and got my HHA cert.She shows up while I was completing my pre reqs and abducts my son while caring for her sick mother . So after tying up all my loose job stuff I move back to get my son .So she drags me through court and uses the court system to abduct...
    Swissparanormal Swissparanormal 31-35 1 Response Mar 17

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    Well I hate my mom. At first

    when I did I tried to love her again but I just can't. She does nothing but criticize me 24/7. I'm a very emotional person and she just loves for her to be the reason for why I'm crying and then when I start crying she hits me and yells at me. I'm also a quiet person so she...
    niah0510 niah0510 13-15, F Mar 7

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    "A mother's love is forever" "Mother is the

    mist beautiful word"..... All b*******. Most parents nowadays don't love their child. The children that seem to have a perfect family are the ones who are freakishly smart. Those "parents" don't love the child they raised, they love the puppet they created. I didn't obey my...
    Fubukiori Fubukiori 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 12

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 7 Responses May 31, 2007

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    I hate my mother! And

    even more I hate myself for everything I am. I believe that, no, I know that our environment, our parents shape our personalities in our childhood. I was born and grew up in Russia. My parents divorced when I was 6. My father was an alcoholic and a very aggressive one when he...
    OlgaTs OlgaTs 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    I hate my mother. She woke me up today yelling

    at me to go on a jog with her Bc I'm the fattest one in the house. Who says that to someone? I was very tired and my feet hurt really bad from working. I work 8 hours a day and I'm always on my feet. She doesn't work. Her and my sister stopping for a second while running...
    gina1pg gina1pg 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    My mom is just straight up a b***.

    I once went to bed on a vacation day while my mom had to go to work. After I had showered and exited the bathroom it was like 23:00. She was immediately in front of me and she immediately started screaming at me that I am a sh** person and that I have to go to bed before 22:00...
    anqi12345 anqi12345 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 72 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 58 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    It's true, Beyond the fact

    that she's my mother and she gave birth to me, I really hate her as a human being. Her personality is ugly and she needs to move one with her life.
    CDtime CDtime 31-35, T 2 Responses Feb 24

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 96 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 75 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    I'm completely fed up.

    I'm 22 and have been really ill recently i've been in and out of hospitalfor tests and scans and about a million procedures and I feel like i'm getting no emotional support. I'm living with my partner with my parents because i've been ill we can't afford rent on an apartment...
    bloodandfire91 bloodandfire91 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-17, F 47 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    My mother is someone I truly hate.

    We never got along and she would make me feel so ****** about myself on a daily basis. She thinks she has done nothing wrong and pretends like everything is fine. I haven't talked to her since I left for college in August. She tries to call me but I never answer. People think...
    tornapart123 tornapart123 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    I have never made any large posts on here about

    my mother, because my subconscious knows that if I did so, I would probably be making posts about her nearly every day. My general feelings toward my mother range from an overall dislike to a strong hate. I base my feelings on her character and her general disregard for me and...
    jahein137 jahein137 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    So my mom isn't a bad person,

    just it seems like she's always taking everything out on me. Every single thing i say, if dont say it in the nicest voice possible, she starts screaming at me about having an "attitude problem." And I'm not in denial because at times I know I do and I always apologize for that...
    lonelyshark lonelyshark 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    I hate my mom. She has ruined life.

    To be honest shes not my real mom...im adopted so I don't give a **** about her. Shes hurt me so many times.... I bet she has not regretted it. She makes me want to leave this earth. Her favorite is my brother and he will always be. I feel like I now have no one. Shes beat me...
    fishy0829 fishy0829 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 5

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    My mother is my bully.

    She is the most over critical and cruel person I've ever met. It doesn't matter if it's a someone in her life or someone on the television, she'll find something wrong with their appearance. The only condition? She only insults and criticizes women. I remember being self...
    YourMayaBear YourMayaBear 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420 22-25, F 8 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Victim Of Tyranny-No I was NOT "stolen" from

    you by "nosy *** White folks in your business believing my damn lies". I was RESCUED from you after 9 1/2 years under your mediocre custody suffering isolation,beatings with slaps fists belts extension cords, psychological abuse, and casual neglect because my 4th grade teacher...
    Selah94 Selah94 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 59 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    My mom hits me, pinches me in the head,

    slaps me, pinches me, slaps me on my arm, lies about me to others, mocks me, makes fun of my skin tone and black people in general, says my hair looks like a rats nest, always points out my flaws anywhere/time she sees fit, belittles me, gossips about me, threatens me, controls...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 1

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    Since young no one has hurt my feelings

    as much as my mum has. She calls me a "female dog" , a burden, a shame, etc and many other words that I cannot translate to English. She beat me for mischief, which I think would have been ok if it was light, but it always ended up in me rolling on the floor begging her to stop...
    ashleycharlie28 ashleycharlie28 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 13 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...