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I Hate My Mother

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    My mother left us 14 years ago.

    That's when i'm 11. While my dad only know how to drunk. We were raised by our aunt where we're bullied and abused for years. Nobody can't imagine how my childhood was. I left home when i'm 18, looking for work and maybe freedom. After my dad died in 2009, we found our mom on...
    JuneJonas JuneJonas 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 7 Responses May 31, 2007

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    i hate my mother she is a *****.

    i don't believe she loves me , i don't love her. she doesnt understand me , she's not very supportive , she's a hypocrite , i hate the way she looks and dress its pathetic , she used to be loving and supportive but stopped when i went threw puberty and instead of helping me she...
    hiimmy hiimmy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 61 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    I think "hate" is a strong word.

    I have hated my mother in the past. In fact, when I was 13 I had dreams of physically assaulting her because she was such a phenomenal psycho. At 19 I ran screaming from my house in the middle of the night vowing never to return. Fast forward to my 40s. I don't "hate" her...
    DramaDiva DramaDiva 41-45 2 Responses Jul 18

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    My Mother doesn't care about me anymore,

    and she doesn't really care about the family. She only cares about her mother and her sister and her brother. She is mean to me a lot and she has only pushed me off a chair when she was angry once. She doesn't care about me and I don't think she loves me either. my dad also has...
    Villymo Villymo 70+ 2 days ago

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    when I told her I am bisexual she told me I was

    sick and took me to a psychologist. I told the psychologist I was struggling with self-harm and bulimia and she told me I am an egoist. I hate her because she never asked me how I was feeling, she only bought me nice things to shut me up and have more time to spend with her...
    hellrioter hellrioter 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    She's not my mother by birth she's actually my

    aunt but she adopted me and forces me to call her mom. I was born and raised in Jamaica, so I was taught to respect my elders, but I was also taught that respect is earned no given. My "mother" is one of the most ignorant disrespectful bums I've ever met. Every single thing I do...
    Cleversmiles Cleversmiles 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 78 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    This time next year I'll be 18,

    moving out, and never seeing my mother again. I will be living independently for my senior year of high school because I have more productive conversations with complete strangers asking for direction than I have with my family.
    carrotriot carrotriot 16-17, F Jul 17

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 115 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 39 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    I do not like the word hate

    because I practice love daily and do not have room for hate in my body and mind; however, I do not like my mother. I do not like using the word mother in describing her and I never have nor will I ever because of the situations she has put me and my brothers in. My older...
    Nichole1992 Nichole1992 22-25, F 22 hrs ago

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    It's hard. I know that no one will read this,

    but anyway..it's hard to live the life that I have sometimes because of my mother. I love this women to hell and back but she is just so bitter. It seems like she thinks no one loves her, but I'd put my life on the line for her. She wants me and my siblings to be responsible...
    WhisperingGrass WhisperingGrass 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    my mom is an infantile narcissist,

    with a victim mentality. All her life she pretended to be sick for other people to serve her and now she has successfully debilitated herself into a handicap and manipulates others to give her food, services and attention. While I get where this is coming from - her own...
    DianaLucky13 DianaLucky13 31-35 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    After reading some of these I hate my mother

    posts I want to smack some of yall. I would give a limb to have a mom with such small issues and failures. My mom has multiple personalities and until recently I realized that she did not have demons in her but that her other personality was simply extremely sadistic. My mom...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My mom needs to understand.

    If she's going to be a ***** to me, I'll be a ***** to her.
    Lemons2000 Lemons2000 18-21, F 5 Responses May 24

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    Me and my mom have never been close.

    I've never been able to go to her with my problems for some reason. She drinks a lot and I hate it and I lash out at her when she drinks and she lashes right back. I'm not a confrontational person so I always end up apologizing and believing that I'm the wrong/crazy one. She's...
    carafedderan carafedderan 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    My childhood was a really bad time

    because my mother pretty much was a bystander to what I went through and she had the opportunity throughout all of it to help me but she chose not to. What I went through was completely traumatic and heart breaking YET she didn't get me help. Why? I have no clue. Maybe it's...
    fk00 fk00 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My mom keeps having kids

    and needs to stop. She has ruined all her kids lives. Has three different baby daddys and has left each one with kids to raise on their own. I pray everyday for each of us who has to survive this world without a mom. I pray to and ask that her fertility be ******** from her. I...
    SeeksSerendipity SeeksSerendipity 22-25, F Jul 26

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    My mother is someone

    who simply never loved her children, myself included. and she made it clear since I was little. For her, giving life to us was already a hassle. My earliest memories are of sadness, she complaining about her life, about her children, blaming our father for everything that...
    tatyana16 tatyana16 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    When I was a kid, my mother was always finding

    ways to put me down. She would always tell me that she should have killed me right after she gave birth to me, so that she wouldn't have to look at my ugly face anymore. I remember one time, my brother and I was trying to explain how to play a board game to her. She couldn't...
    Ihatemymother1 Ihatemymother1 26-30, M Jul 24

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I'm 18 now but she does not treat me like an

    adult. My mother has been horrible to me ever since she found out (by snooping through my phone) that I'm gay. She clearly favors my sister over me and I feel like I am getting choked in this household. I constantly cry when I think about how much she controls me and wants me...
    tsurn tsurn 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Since I was little my mom always yelled at me

    whenever I did something bad, whether it was not doing things on time, listening to her, etc. My mother has beaten me a couple of times and I thought that I would never survive. I have been beaten very badly before where I had cuts and bruises everywhere (I was 2). I'm 15...
    kattom kattom 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-17, F 49 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    My mother wishes she never had me,

    even if she denies it. Ok, This is my story, hope is not too long, excuse my orthography. ...And how do I know that? She has told me several times. But then she is like, ''I never said that''. She has a really really bad temperament, seriously she has som bad anger issues she...
    Onixgurl Onixgurl 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 14 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    Well I'm finally moving away from this woman.

    I am 19! And getting an apartment with my sister! I'm so happy. I will be broke and struggle. But it is better than staying with her. Some days I came home and she is just mad at me for no reason. She just ignores my existence! When I did nothing. I'm moving out end of August...
    imstillbreathing7931 imstillbreathing7931 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    She is married to a homesexual

    who has no license and gets high everyday with his ugly ***.
    GBPOWDER31 GBPOWDER31 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I hate my mother She is the worst I always

    loved her I thought she loved me too but she don't She don't let me have a boyfriend, she don't let me post bad things on facebook, she makes fun of my weight, hair, behavior I wish I was an orphan Today they saw a post on my facebook Which contained adult language and they...
    collegegirl20 collegegirl20 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 24

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 13 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    Ive always loved my mom

    and have always stuck up for her. Now that I am a grown woman and we have been living together for the past 2 years I now see what kind of person she truly is and she has everyone fooled. She is emotionally and verbally abusive to my children and I. She wants us to run and...
    earthboundangel75 earthboundangel75 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    Th3Ch3shir3Kat Th3Ch3shir3Kat 13-15, M Jul 17

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    Me and my mother grew up together

    because shes had me at 13 and had my other sibling at 17. She spent the last years whoring around with alot of men while I watched my sibling. I sacrificed alot for her. I still do like tonight I ordered take out using the last of MY money and I tried to share and she blurted...
    Realmswithinme Realmswithinme 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 80 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 5

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