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I Hate My Mother

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    This is a true story.

    .... And I just can't feel the same about my mother for many reasons. To begin with my mother was admitted to multiple mental health institutions. For the past 4 years of my life as been hell. Fighting daily with her deranged way of thinking. Sometimes it has gotten to a point...
    ikilledmyselfinside ikilledmyselfinside 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Ugliest person I know.

    Inside and out !! Honestly hate her with my entire being.
    Grace1077 Grace1077 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 76 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 60 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    I dont know why but she yells at me about the

    things i do when she does the exact same all the time. i mean where in the hell does she think i learn it from thin air uggggggh
    unnoticed27 unnoticed27 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420 22-25, F 9 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I just hate my mum so much.

    She is always making me feel terrible and I find myself crying nearly everyday because of some of the things she says to me. She is pushing me to dance so much and constantly tells me I never try, although I always try my best just so she won't be angry at me. I honestly think...
    Hatingeveryone Hatingeveryone 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 73 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    She is a *****. She is an ******* she is an anus

    and an anus does not know anything
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    **** my mom! She has no social skills.

    She so untactful when telling me it my brother to do things. My happy place is when I arrive home and my mom isn't here.
    Lemons2000 Lemons2000 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    I'm completely fed up.

    I'm 22 and have been really ill recently i've been in and out of hospitalfor tests and scans and about a million procedures and I feel like i'm getting no emotional support. I'm living with my partner with my parents because i've been ill we can't afford rent on an apartment...
    bloodandfire91 bloodandfire91 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    that witch is ruining my life.

    she wont let me do anything with my life. im just about ready to shoot myself. she wont let me go to prom and my bf already paid for me.shes an ***
    BooBear99 BooBear99 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 26

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    She's selfish, but acts

    as if she's the most selfless person on Earth. If I get a bad grade on a test, she tells me I'm never going to college. If I suggest we go out to eat somewhere and she doesn't want to, she acts like a 12-year-old and pretends to gag. Everything bad that happens is my fault, and...
    AngelGirlSwims AngelGirlSwims 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 39 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    I'm f**kin tired of my mother!

    I don't want to call her mother anymore! She compares me to my sister a lot and she even calls me demon and monster! I don't love her anymore! I'm tired of arguing everyday! And when she's not right she just can't admit her mistakes! I try to help her and she tells me I'm...
    Sakuranishi Sakuranishi 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    My mom hits me, pinches me in the head,

    slaps me, pinches me, slaps me on my arm, lies about me to others, mocks me, makes fun of my skin tone and black people in general, says my hair looks like a rats nest, always points out my flaws anywhere/time she sees fit, belittles me, gossips about me, threatens me, controls...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 1

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 5

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 13 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    I used to work in geriatric health care in Ohio

    . I had just had my son and got my HHA cert.She shows up while I was completing my pre reqs and abducts my son while caring for her sick mother . So after tying up all my loose job stuff I move back to get my son .So she drags me through court and uses the court system to abduct...
    Swissparanormal Swissparanormal 31-35 1 Response Mar 17

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 6 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    I don't like her at all.

    She told me she's fair to all of us three siblings but she's not. She does many things to me that she doesn't do to my brothers. She always don't like what are the things I like, compare to my two siblings. She degrades my interests, hobbies and acts like those are very nonsense...
    lOvegOoOd lOvegOoOd 16-17, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I know I might sound like complaining

    but I just wanted to share my story. I wanted to kill myself ever since 7th grade because of my mom. I am a sensitive person who really takes things to the heart so when she talks down to me I feel really hurt. When I dont understand something, I'm the stupid one. When I close...
    purpleviolinist purpleviolinist 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    I hate my mom. She has ruined life.

    To be honest shes not my real mom...im adopted so I don't give a **** about her. Shes hurt me so many times.... I bet she has not regretted it. She makes me want to leave this earth. Her favorite is my brother and he will always be. I feel like I now have no one. Shes beat me...
    fishy0829 fishy0829 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 100 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    She called me rude for critisizing her

    for smoking when we spent about two weeks without money. I think taking food out of your kids mouths so you can smoke and drink is one of the worst things to do. She also made it very clear I could move out whenever I wanted the sooner the better. I just can't do this right...
    shootdownthestars shootdownthestars 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 60 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    I have never made any large posts on here about

    my mother, because my subconscious knows that if I did so, I would probably be making posts about her nearly every day. My general feelings toward my mother range from an overall dislike to a strong hate. I base my feelings on her character and her general disregard for me and...
    jahein137 jahein137 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 18

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 7 Responses May 31, 2007

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    I Have A Birthgiver Not A Mother

    "The most beautiful word on the lips of mankind is the word "Mother", and the most beautiful call is the call of "My mother.' It is a word full of hope and love, a sweet and kind word coming from the depths of the heart. - The mother is everything. - she is our consolation in...
    Virginia9999 Virginia9999 18-21, F 11 Responses May 12, 2013

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    Sometime i wonder if my mother made my life,

    the way i'm today, or simply broke it, what i could have been! She is completely control freak. now i wonder if i would ever be able to free myself from her.
    Kheya092 Kheya092 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My mother is so abusive

    and narcissistic but she denies being Narcissistic she does not like me being engaged and getting married she says his family is poor and his family smells and does not dress nice and that I could find someone better she also says he lives too far away
    Christiancountrygirl Christiancountrygirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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