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I Hate My Mother

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 78 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 59 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    I hate my mother because she's always messing

    up my life. I'm not saying this in an angsty teenage way, I'm saying the truth and it's not just my life she's messed up. We're a family of five, my mom, my dad, my two elder brothers and me. She's practically labelled her children, my eldest brother at 21 is The Artist and 3D...
    ChocolateCoveredKFC ChocolateCoveredKFC 13-15, F 15 hrs ago

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    My Horrible Mother!!!

    I hate my mother too. She was and is a awful person... she tried to drownd me when i was 8.
    furiousangel furiousangel 26-30, F 68 Responses Mar 9, 2007

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    My mother has never been the go to person

    who I can talk to about anything, she is always criticizing me like I'm sort of mistake & like I'm a burden on her. She never tells me she loves me or say any loving words to me, all she does is order me to do stuff and expect them to be perfect because I'm the biggest child. If...
    kevinheyloun kevinheyloun 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 6 Responses May 12, 2013

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    so yesterday I overslept

    and my bf picked me up to take me to school at 6:50 and the traffic was bad so i made it to class a few minutes after 7. i had a substitute so i was considered absent but today i went to fix my abscense. it was fixed. when i get home my mother ******* at me bc my dad recieved a...
    Mich124132 Mich124132 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    My Mom Is a Cheating *****!

    My mom has always been the most loving person until now; midlife crisis. Within the last year my mom starting cheating on my dad with guys 20 years younger than her; guys my age. She lied to our faces about it for a year until we finally caught her red handed. When  my dad...
    emilykaiser emilykaiser 18-21 9 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    CahillGirl CahillGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 86 Responses May 28, 2007

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 54 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 49 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    I know this one doesn't count

    as abuse, but it sure as Hell sticks out in my young mind. I was about 12 I think. We were on the way to Target. Me,my sister,Papa, and Mama. Papa drove a Range Rover which means there was exactly enough room for the 4 of us yet nowhere to escape if need be. Everything seemed to...
    UnwantedMutt UnwantedMutt 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 5

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    i'm never really that bad,

    but my mom finds some kind of way to diss me. I was just reading a shakespeare book for a homework assignment, and my mom told me to get off of my lazy *** and do something useful for once. when i told her that i was doing homework, she said that i always find some way to make...
    orange212 orange212 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My Mother, My Blood, My Pain.

    I'm sick. Some days my mind can't take it. My body collapses. I feel my arteries will explode any minute. All I asked was for one simple favor. For you to show your love. Instead you showed me a hollow path Towards pain and suffering. For many years this has been my home...
    rockycenteno rockycenteno 26-30 1 Response May 23, 2013

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    Random Tidbits and Further Proof

    all literary skill aside ... this is purely a request for advice rather than much of a "story" ... HELP!  lol right before i was injured (2 weeks prior to) i purchased a home.  it was just a small fixer upper and was to be the first of five that year.  i...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 14, 2007

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    Never Was My Mother

    My parents were two of the most evil people I've ever encountered in my lifetime. My father was not involved in my life and didn't care if I lived or died. He didn't even know my name. My mother repeatedly abused me throughout my childhood and told me that I was nothing but trash...
    ashamedofmyfamily ashamedofmyfamily 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Always have always will.

    I can honestly say I don't love her. I hate her. She pushed me so far to hating her. But I can't tell that to her face cause I'll get the crap beaten out of me like any other day. She makes me life a living ******* hell. I can never have a smile on my face around her. She makes...
    TwdFireflyy TwdFireflyy 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I legit HATE my mother!

    ! She basically left me at age 14 to fend for myself. She saw nothing wrong with me living with my 20 yr old bf at the time. I would never let my kids Behave like that. She is an idiot! I have no respect for her, simply because she has none for me or herself!! It's so frustrating...
    Kbubblez Kbubblez 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    my stupid mom thinks

    that I still have to wear diapers to bed and i'm 14!!! seriously my brother did the hand in water prank on me and I wet the bed and now my mom wants me to wear them to bed! I am not talking to my brother for a while and I haven't looked at my mother since yesterday
    lynetteTheChic lynetteTheChic 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    I have the worst mother in the history of

    mothers. She's slept with 20 diffrent guys and is dating them and they're all around the world! I heard my mom say to one of her boyfriends "I love you and I never say that to anyone" Bull**** you f***ing lying b***h you say that to all the guys that kiss you every. F****ing...
    purplecupcakesx3 purplecupcakesx3 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 17 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    I Have A Birthgiver Not A Mother

    "The most beautiful word on the lips of mankind is the word "Mother", and the most beautiful call is the call of "My mother.' It is a word full of hope and love, a sweet and kind word coming from the depths of the heart. - The mother is everything. - she is our consolation in...
    Koala9999 Koala9999 18-21, F 12 Responses May 12, 2013

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    My mom knows that she raised me

    and my sister well. But it is hard when she has 2 more twins that are 4 and don't know how to behave. They run up and down the hallways yelling while I'm trying to sleep for school. I try to help her out by telling what is bad and what is good. But all that happens my Facebook...
    KimberlyChavez KimberlyChavez 13-15, M Apr 10

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    We got into a fight over how she's mean

    and is a ***** to me even though she's pregnant and i take care of her. i mean she hardly does any house work except for sweep(which i practically do too) and cook. then i clean the bathrooms,do the laundry, bring the groceries up a the house which has stairs ,wash the dishes...
    zareeka zareeka 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It took me nearly 50 years to find out it

    wasn't me this whole time - it was her. She's been diagnosed as bi-polar and with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She's nearly 90, and she's made the lives of my entire family sheer hell the entire time, from birth to the present. I try to tell myself that everything she did...
    waitingandhating waitingandhating 51-55, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    If i share bad news its my fault

    and I'm a negative person … SHEs never apologized.. My mother has actually waited a month before she would talk to me just because she didn't want to apologize because she just knew nothing was her fault ….. what an *** hole .my mother is such a B****! I HATE HER.. i want my...
    elinorkaye elinorkaye 13-15, F Apr 11

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    I miss my dad so much.

    Now I am only with my mother and she hates me and I hate her. She is rarely at home and when she is she is screaming at me and hitting me. My aunt and uncle look after me but its worse cos they hate me and treat me like ****. Yeah I know go to the police or tell the teachers but...
    SabrinaInTears SabrinaInTears 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I dont know how to cope anymore.

    All you ever do is point out how much of a bad person I am all the time. You were supposed to help me, guide me, lift me up when I was down. But all you did was point and laugh. I wanted a mother that would be my friend. But I never got that. You would throw everything in my...
    lauraxxful lauraxxful 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate my mother because she critize about

    everyone and everything. She never show affection and doesn't act like a motherly type. I just wish to be away from her and never see her again.
    mjrnmcv mjrnmcv 41-45, T 5 days ago

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 48 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    some times she's bad some times she's

    good today was the worst day of my life, she told to buy her soda from the market and i did. exactly when i got home wiz the soda i DROP it. and then it pop. after that i went back home to get my own money to buy her another, when i was about to get out she yield at me and said...
    abelbeyene abelbeyene 18-21, M a week ago

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    I loathe her ... I tell her I love her

    but in my mind I'm cursing her out. I hate the women who gave me life. I hate the women who took care of me for 16 years. I hate the women who probably loves me more than I know. I know I sound cruel but with all this I still hate her. She is abusive emotionally and mentally...
    SimplyyySecrett SimplyyySecrett 16-17, F Apr 9

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    She Doesn'T Care

    I asked my mom if she cares how I feel and she just ignored me and didn't respond. She thinks everything is a joke and its not. I hate her so much. She is forcing me to put on a an act tomorrow in front of the family members and I don't think I can. It hurts to much and why...
    tornapart123 tornapart123 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    What the **** is wrong with my mom.

    . She keeps and nagging about my grades when I already got into a good college. Then she yells at me for sitting in front of the computer and hits calling for the demons inside of me out.. I think my moms is going crazy.. How can I fix this..
    lonelyshyguy1995 lonelyshyguy1995 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I grew up thinking my mom was amazing,

    Like until I was 11. But now?... No. It started when my parents got a divorce. She told me what to say to get what she wanted and she told me my dad had cheated on her and stole money because she wanted to move to Georgia. So we did and then a few months in like 2 she meets this...
    IHateSoManyThingsLikeWow IHateSoManyThingsLikeWow 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    So my mother is just beyond making me upset

    and I just can't take it anymore and I don't know what to do I think I love my aunt more than her and I just want to move with her but I just dislike my mom so much right now and I just need advice
    lovelygirl28 lovelygirl28 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 7 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    I started to write an upset email to bf not to

    break up but to share with him later and discuss my feelings. I am 17 he is 18 and lives with his family. He's going to college in 4 months. I think we have a problem. I want to hang out in person and talk. I'm getting that really worked up/upset mindset that's always happens...
    carebare124 carebare124 18-21 1 day ago

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    **** my mom. She's the one

    who started to abused me when I was still a little. She always compared me to my older brother who she thought way clever than me. I tried to study hard to make her happy, but then she just told me that she regret giving birth to me. I have anger issues cuz of her and now I...
    featherofhope featherofhope 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-18, F 42 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    Why Mom?

    i've had few good memories of a family .My dad was a crazy *** drunk and my mom let him get away with things that I won't even discuss yet  As a child  I was the youngest and had to older brothers that beat the hell out of me  and she always allowed me to be the...
    rcrisp rcrisp 36-40, F 7 Responses May 31, 2007

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    I think it is ok to cut your mother off

    if she is abusive or nasty. Even if you are of her blood, it only makes her meanness or abuse toward you even more awful. I think a lot of bad mothers choose to treat their children badly because it is a convenient and easy way for them to express their negative personality...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Simple four word, 'I hate my mother'.

    I am really annoyed by her attitude. She said and I quote, 'You are made out of my blood, so you are me in a way. Curse my death and you will die yourself. And I can control you, you will do anything I want you to. If I want you to cut your hair, don't ask question. If I want...
    Neunte Neunte 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My mother said if i keep being myself i will

    end up being alone. She said not to run for a school office because she doesn't want to deal with me not winning. She thinks i don't have any friends. I told her that i want to her to be the kind of mom i can tell anything to and be really close. Her response was mothers are not...
    elinorkaye elinorkaye 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 69 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    She drank and used drugs

    while I was in her womb, she then abandoned me, left me in care an got herself murdered when i was 6. Now I never use to hate her, I use to say she tried her best. Now that I have kids of my own, I just dont understand. Now that I am older and I struggle with things that I just...
    sweetwine49 sweetwine49 26-30, F 1 Response 56 mins ago

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    I don't like my mom at all.

    I hate being related to her in any type of way. She calls me worthless. A dumb ***. An animal. Like she always says **** to me for no reason just to start stuff. I won't say a word to her for days and she walk pass me and say like oh I can't wait until this girl is out of my...
    iamj iamj 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    My mother was my best friend up

    until June 2013. She went on a dating site behind my fathers back.. Then lied to me and my siblings faces. My father then forgave her as it was apparently just a 'cry for attention' from my mother. 5 days later, she then approached my father with 'There is someone else'. Of...
    GeorgiaENVillham GeorgiaENVillham 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    My mother for years has let my brother run over

    her, steal her stuff and sell it for drug money or break and never makes up for it. She doesn't mind him making his girlfriend jump our fence in the middle of the night and climb through our winfdow. doesnt mind when he hits and threatens said girlfriend, doesnt mind when the...
    UnknownPerson3 UnknownPerson3 18-21, F Apr 6

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    A Reminder Every Damn Day

    Every day...EVERY DAMN DAY is a reminder as to why I hate her and her evil guts. Not a day goes by that she doesnt yell, scream, curse, complain, or nag. I cant go about my daily life without her yelling at me for the most mundane things. Heck, for example, today I got a package...
    wishiwasabrady wishiwasabrady 41-45, M 5 Responses May 14, 2013

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