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I Hate My Mother

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    My mother is an insecure *****

    who deserves nothing but death.
    PeachCreme PeachCreme 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    My mom hits me, pinches me in the head,

    slaps me, pinches me, slaps me on my arm, lies about me to others, mocks me, makes fun of my skin tone and black people in general, says my hair looks like a rats nest, always points out my flaws anywhere/time she sees fit, belittles me, gossips about me, threatens me, controls...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 1

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    I haven't always hated my mother.

    As a child I would hear my family talk bad about her and I would always defend her telling them they that are wrong. But as I got older I realized my mother was doing me wrong my whole life. My father when to prison when I was 4 years old and was in there for 13 years. When he...
    yuppitsme42 yuppitsme42 26-30, F Aug 22

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 61 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    I just realised recently

    that I hate my mother. Because she practiced favouritism, and was abusive with it. And from the time I was under 5 years old, she would constantly accuse me of being jealous of my sister. Her solution was to beat 'it out of me' while saying 'You want attention, here you have my...
    AngryPlum AngryPlum 31-35, F Aug 20

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    So I told my mom that my underarm stink.

    She asked me did I have hair under them (I hate shaving so much). I told her yes. Then she asked to see under my arms. And I'm just looking around, with this crazy look on my face. And she asked like 3 or 4 times, and I told her no. Because I thought that was crazy, why would...
    lovethybey lovethybey 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    My mom needs to understand.

    If she's going to be a ***** to me, I'll be a ***** to her.
    Lemons2000 Lemons2000 18-21, F 5 Responses May 24

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    So my Antimom is a meth addict.

    I've been finding her pipes since I was a teen, but I never thought about it until a family member told me what that white powder my Stepsister would always buy her was. It explains so much. So not only is my Antimom an abusive ******* who ruins everybodies life, she's a...
    Cranksta Cranksta 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I ABSOLUTELY HATE my mother.

    She criticizes absolutely everything I do and compares me to everyone else, yet I can't compare her to other moms cos Im 14 and might get beaten up. After everything, she denies things she said like calling me a failure, idiot, useless son. "I just find your actions stupid, I...
    HurtinHouse HurtinHouse 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    She is an evil person!

    I hated my childhood bc she was just so MEAN and always putting me down. I remember crying about something when I was about 6 years old and she put me in the closet and closed the door and told me to stay there till she said it was okay to get out. As a child growing up I have...
    Madimaria123 Madimaria123 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    Me and her just got in a giant fight then she

    comes to my house, wtf!!!!!!
    100BlackRoses 100BlackRoses 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    Well I don't no where too start I guess

    when my parents met my dad worked at a local bakery my mom was a young 20 yo woman my dad was 37 my mom went into the bakery for a summer position my dad hired her on the spot as he owned the bakery my mom was always very sex woman she'd dress in very short skirts and short top...
    rob2233 rob2233 36-40 5 days ago

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    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I Will Never Not Hate Her..

    My name is Ashley and Im 18 and I have never gotten along with my mother as long as I can remember. I've been arrested twice and both times were to do with her. When I was younger I wanted her to love me so badly I was always sad because it seems like she didn't my sadness became...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    I hate my mother because

    when I came to her and told her my step father was sexually abusing me at ten years old and had been for awhile. she made him apologize and then promise not to do it again. and that was it. and he continued to severely molest me until she went to jail and I begged her to tell so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 15

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    I go to help her and we start talking about the

    mess she started so I talk to her trying to lay out everything so we can move on and what was supposed to be a healing conversation ended up being another argument. MIND YOU she calls me on my cell phone at 7am saying she might have to go to be seen shes having a hard time...
    earthboundangel75 earthboundangel75 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Right now I hate her.

    She take my cigarette and money and make me sit in my room with no cigarettes.
    Yasm1ne2003 Yasm1ne2003 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 20

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    I started disliking her around the later part

    of elementary school. About time I got to 9th grade she disgusted me not only as a mother but a female and human in general. I resented her. I never got had a regular childhood instead of going to the park I spent my weekends in a psychiatrist office while she asked me about my...
    TC48 TC48 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I live in a small town in rural Illinois.

    I'm 18 just graduated high school I have a little brother who's ten and an older brother with special needs A couple years ago my mom decided that we weren't enough for her and ran off with another man. I have no idea where she is now. I haven't seen her since In highschool I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 42 Responses Jul 6

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    I hate my mother. She is self centered,

    lazy, childish, annoying and co-defendant. I am 39 years old and she is 68. She acts like I'm her mother. She thinks I am responsible for her happiness. She will never be happy. I hate her so much.
    elana13 elana13 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I honestly can't even look at her

    for more than a minute, without it completely ruining my mood. She's honestly so pathetic. I'm counting down the days until I move out. I'm just so tired of her being rude, demeaning, unsupportive and just plain horrible. She literally drains my happiness. I don't understand...
    SarahBerry1 SarahBerry1 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 14 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    Every time I go home to visit my parents,

    my mom makes me angry.She always tells me that I have a dead-end job and that I am not ambitious and that I should change it. She's never satisfied with anything I do. Before she wanted me to get a job, now that I have one, she doesn't like it.Annoying like hell.My parents have...
    velese velese 22-25, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 64 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    always living alone..

    just surviving...i am an only child..my mom always after my life taunting and humiliating me as if i have not even done a single correct thing in my life
    mohandasg mohandasg 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    Well as u guys no what has happened with my mom

    but I found out since she had me so young she hates me she's said she wished that she drank and did drugs while she was pregant with me she said she wishes I wasn't born that y now she's with my dad's brother and pregant with his child what do I do
    rob2233 rob2233 36-40 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 39 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 118 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    Hey guys it's me I'm back well

    as you all no what my mom has done but last night I found out that she been sleeping with my dad's brother and she also found out that she's pregant my dad is so hurt I don't no what too do and further more he also don't no that I've been sleeping with his cowroker for the past...
    rob2233 rob2233 36-40 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 13 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    So I'll give you guys an example of how ******

    my mom is. Today, she laid in the driveway screaming and crying hysterically and shouting "my babies!!" and my sister and I had to call the cops. She was in this state because my sister voiced her opinion (a calm, valid, rational opinion) which was in support of our father...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    I'm 18 now but she does not treat me like an

    adult. My mother has been horrible to me ever since she found out (by snooping through my phone) that I'm gay. She clearly favors my sister over me and I feel like I am getting choked in this household. I constantly cry when I think about how much she controls me and wants me...
    tsurn tsurn 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 6 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    I found condoms in her purse should I speak up

    or let it go???? I need advice please! she's 40 &' although she has problems with my dad they are still married.
    paolaaaa paolaaaa 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    I think next: once when I was little.

    The ********* that you defended and his kids along with you and me were traveling. As usual we had nowhere to live so we were "Being Gypsies" (cuz you're the cool mom, right?) Aaanywho, you or him got it into their mind that us kids,who had no actual home at the time should have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 15

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    she stubborn with a stone heart she believes

    that she i better than every one, she forces her opinion on others. we had a little argument earlier today "I try to avoid that as much as possible" and she were trying to make sure that i got her opinion, heard her opinion, understand her opinion and convinces me that her...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-17, F 49 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    A Mother's Love

      I beseech your pardon For being your burden You bear the right to extinguish my life As this is your divine right Do I remind you of past transgressions? Of that tumultuous night of unbridled passion You proclaim with pride you surpass in beauty manifolds than I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 21, 2007