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I Hate My Mother

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    I do not know where to begin.

    She always talks sh*t about me regardless if I'm in the room or not. She ridicules me and blatantly hurts me with no feelings of guilt or regret. She'll go insane and bad mouth me or scream at me or go on and on for hours while I boil and build up anger- then leave and return...
    finex finex 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    I'm 29 years old now.

    A closet should never be a place to punish children. When I was young I remember loving my mom, but a majority of my memories of her was always with a stick in her hand or watching her from the cracks of closet door. When she became angry at me she would grab the closet stick...
    GodsExperiment GodsExperiment 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    I'm the 2nd born and the only girl.

    I was born to a woman who was convinced that it was impossible for her to birth a female. I was nameless for the first 3 weeks of my life. I have an older brother who is two and a half years older than me. I got along with him fairly well until our teenage years when his...
    SheepishlyMe SheepishlyMe 26-30 5 Responses Apr 26

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    Hey, I'm 16 and Muslim.

    I really hate my mom.WHY? Because she loves my 14 years old sister more than me (and she's turning 15) only a year and some months between us. As I can remember, I started hating my mom from grd 6. As I recognized her love for my sister. And I used to ignore it, just ignore...
    16sara 16sara 16-17, F 3 Responses May 11

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    I don't like my mom at all.

    I hate being related to her in any type of way. She calls me worthless. A dumb ***. An animal. Like she always says **** to me for no reason just to start stuff. I won't say a word to her for days and she walk pass me and say like oh I can't wait until this girl is out of my...
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    For as long as I can remember I have been

    having problems with anxiety and depression and lately these problems have been getting worse. I have a bad relationship with my family, particularly my mother, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We fight and argue all the time, usually over something petty which she...
    tobasco tobasco 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    My Mother Had a Daughter

    And that daughter was me...  I often sit and wonder, now that I'm an adult and have my own 2 beautiful daughers, how could she have done those awful things to me?  I vowed when I became pregnant with my first child, that I would be the one to break the chain... they...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 61 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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    Finally I got some pay back.

    Seduced her latest bf. Thats what she gets fot running dad off
    teena4u269 teena4u269 13-15, F 14 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    my mother paid for the ex husband's divorce

    attorney... and then told me I murdered my still born daughter and therefore did not deserve custody of my son
    ggrmos ggrmos 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8

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    I used to be fine with my mom,

    but then I realized how I really hated her. Every little thing about her is annoying. The way she nags me for "not eating enough", or "not going outside enough", "never being home enough", there is always something wrong. How on earth am I supposed to spend another few years...
    decimatedxdreams decimatedxdreams 18-21, F 1 Response May 7

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    I feel so sad when I admit this

    but I hate my mother. She is as stubborn and pigheaded as me and that says a lot. She and I have been fighting for as long as can remember. At times she can be such a ***** living at my college doesn't sound so bad ( and that is an option that I do not have). She says she loves...
    Sithsister101 Sithsister101 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    Every time something bad happens it all comes

    down to what a complete **** up I am. Everything will always be my fault. Car keys being lost means I'm immature and useless. A dish breaking means I have no respect for authority. A messy kitchen means I'm a sociopathic freeloader. If I stand there and take the lecture but I'm...
    mandi420 mandi420 22-25, F 10 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    i hate my mom,for giving away every thing to

    some ****** guy,including what my dad left to me and my siblings before he died,she also gave to her man what i have contributed to the business until it closes due to bankruptcy because of her stupidity.i hate her so much i want her to die asap.
    BreakOut88 BreakOut88 41-45, M 3 Responses May 2

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    My mom always goes back on her word

    whenever I ask her to do something for me. Just today I asked her to take me to my friends house to pick up an ethernet cable I needed and she said yes. He said it was finished at around 7pm and I told my mom we could go now. She said no because, "It's too late." 7pm. Late...
    Denasu Denasu 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My Mom Is a Huge *****

    alright, listen. my mom cooks for me, cleans and ****. yeah, thats good, i like it. but that does not give her an excuse for being a SUPER MEGA HUGE *****. heres the deal. my sister wanted to dye her hair blonde. i knew my mom didn't want her to, but being the nice sister i am, i...
    xcaramichele xcaramichele 16-17 105 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    I remember last night I had a fever

    and suddenly I started to hallucinate very bad. I hallucinate like there are two people who want to kill me, and my f*** mother instead of helping me, she started to shout: what are you doing??? After my hallucinations finished, she came in my room shouting. "Is your clowny...
    Alirezatm Alirezatm 13-15 1 Response Apr 25

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    WHAT Is Wrong With Her?

    i don't HATE her ... but ... i really dislike her and that is embarrassing ... i'm ashamed not only of her but how i feel about her. she's a victim.  she's always played the victim.  she's good at it. she's an emotional vampire. she takes advantage of people and then...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 90 Responses May 28, 2007

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    My Mom = Selfish Cow

    I have hated my mother since I was in grade three. I know it sounds a little harsh for someone to hate their mother when since they were eight but I did and I do. I started hating her when I took home an extra credit english worksheet. I was to find the noun. Now...
    FluffyMuphin111 FluffyMuphin111 16-17, F 60 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    My mom is so mean to my dad.

    I feel so bad for him it makes me cry.
    ab524 ab524 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Confused

    I'm 16. I know it's the time of age where you want to be away from your parents and be with your frnds. My mom is rude, abusive and unconcerned about my thought and feelings .  She calls me a prostitute, *****, useless. ( Of course this was all in Chinese cause we're asain...
    aliciax aliciax 16-17, F 48 Responses Dec 14, 2007

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    I am going to vent so much right now.

    .. My mom is so ungrateful and miserable with her life and she takes it out on me. I'm currently in a relationship and let's say her and my significant other haven't started on the right foot a couple of times. However, he's made a conscious effort to make things better but still...
    ypxo ypxo 22-25, F 1 Response May 8

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    I Finally Did It

    After YEARS of torment my "mom" putting me through hell its over. I would obey her and not even look into her eyes, cover my face in case she would hit me, but its all over. She told me to step away from her or else she would beat the crap out of me, and I told her to do it, hit...
    killjoy8 killjoy8 13-15 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    Living With A Bully Mother

    My mother didn't want me.  She and my older sister bullied me and made fun of me.  They had a little song they originated and sang:  "WITCH way? who NOSE?" which they used to taunt me about my nose which was broken when I was three and fell out of a second story window.  They...
    oogler oogler 51-55 60 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    Sad Fact

    I will always respect her as a mother but I will never like her as a person .
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    I feel like I need to get this off my chest,

    since I have held it in for as long as I could remember and it broke me in so many ways. I am from a first generation American Chinese family. I am 20 and chose to be as far away from my family as possible. I have always been a stubborn child, so growing up in a controlling...
    Jchen52m Jchen52m 18-21 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Why Don't Mothers Have to Earn Respect Like Everyone Else?

    So refreshing to see such honesty. I too feel the same way when I hear "no matter what, she is still your mother." I'm sorry, but why should friends and acquaintances have to earn respect and blood relatives should just receive it unconditionally? When I was 11, my...
    rdsl rdsl 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    It's Getting Worse!

    My mother and I have never been close although she would dissagree. She has been that constant pain all my life and now I'm 41 and she is still making me feel terrible. My parents divorced when I was 4 and although I saw my Dad regularly we never were close, but since he died I...
    loveyourchildren loveyourchildren 41-45 39 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    Anyone else find picking out a mother's day

    card the most annoying things you have to do all year. I have to find the most generic card with no meaningful details to it. It makes me a little sad that I don't have someone who deserves one of those nice cards...
    jncmrpk jncmrpk 31-35, F 7 Responses May 2

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    I know that many people say this especially

    teens but I'm wayyy older than this. See I'm a mother myself I know what it is to be a parent and it will hurt a lot if one day my son tell me this. My mom ruined my life and the way I see the world. My father always has been her puppy acting off her commands, she thinks the is...
    pookiebear3 pookiebear3 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her

    depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy anymore. I think she's weak and mean and horrible. she deserves the life she has.
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I don't think I've hated her

    as much as I do at this point. She's NEVER shown me any sort of affection or love. She always judges me for every little thing I do. She's been abusing me(physically, emotionally, mentally) since I can remember. My dad passed away when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) and he and my mom...
    nicki08 nicki08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 5

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    I'm only 14, but I already hate my life.

    I would much rather die or live on the streets than be with my mom. She calls me useless, stupid, ugly, fat, pizza face (because of my pimples) and a whole crapload of other names. She'll even do this in public. And it's hard for me because I'm the person who would seem laid...
    desireesun desireesun 13-15 6 Responses Apr 27

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    The word "mother" does not exist in my

    vocabulary. The agonizing pain and heart break I endured from living with this creature; I dare not give the privilege of calling her my mother. Thinking about how much pain your words seeped through my thick layer of skin is unbearable. You never taught me to love for I was...
    emoneyp emoneyp 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Dear Mom

    It is that time of year again. The snow has melted, the birds are chirping, the pretty flowers are in full bloom, and the sun embraces us with the kind of warmth that for many must feel like a mother's love. My friends will buzz about the happy childhood memories that come to...
    LoneGhost LoneGhost 26-30, F 9 Responses May 12, 2013

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    No respect. She really doesn't have the

    slightest bit of human decency. It's honestly sad. I've been called awful names by her and been treated very horribly. She literally ONLY tolerates me. My parents are split up and live ( by car) about 19+ hours away from each other. Every single time I make a mistake or do...
    Oxne12 Oxne12 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Punch Her In The Throat!

    She has made every happy moment of my life miserable. As soon as I start to smile she smacks it off my face then yells at me for not being happy. She's kept me away from the only people I care about, trapped my in my little box, told my my bullies were right, and brought back the...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 6 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    I hate my mother .. i felt like this

    since i was a child she always hit me and yelled at me out of nothing she never took care of me she always tilling my brothers to hit me and yell at me actually she till everyone that .. i grow up in hate so i feel nothing towards my family besides hate and anger i feel like i...
    happiness787 happiness787 18-21, F May 9

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    I'm new on here and don't want to cause a big

    seen but I don't get along with my mom and its been this way for 3 years until I realized I don't love her anymore the attitude she pulls, the way she can say or do whatever she wants but I'm still a child and doesn't know anything, I'm not supposed to do something but you do it...
    Niawuzhere Niawuzhere 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Ready To Accept She Will Never Change.....

    I am over 50 and I must accept that I feel hatred toward my Mom and she will never change. My story is complicated, but in short, she was and is an emotionally abusive person. I don't know how I survived being a child, a teen and young adult without killing myself. I tried many...
    Aerin Aerin 51-55, F 76 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    38 Years of Bull Sh*t

    Hate is probably too strong of a word, but it's pretty freakin close. Long story short; my mother had me at 19. Somehow this is my fault and I have never heard the end about what she had to sacrifice for me. I have frequently been told by her that I "didn't like to be held. So...
    court111 court111 36-40, F 79 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    I apologize in advance

    for how long this is but I just really need to vent all this out.. So here we go. Ever since I was little my mom would do extremely mean things to me and my dad. She would break us down with her words and and burn right through us with her cold eyes, but like I said, me and my...
    middleschool14 middleschool14 26-30, F 2 Responses May 11

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    ineedhelp122 ineedhelp122 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    So obsessed wit stupid things

    that don't even matter. Nags and nags about things that are not even necessary. Just her car pulling in the house ****** me off beyond words
    ryancashh ryancashh 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I’m so relieved to have found this thread.

    There’s so much I want to write and I just don’t know where to begin, but here it goes… I come from a culture where mothers train their kids (especially boys) to love them above everything but God, and where Exodus 20:12 and Ephesians 6:2 were cited constantly as a way...
    latinamerican35 latinamerican35 31-35, M 2 Responses May 12

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    It's hard, and yet...

    NOT hard to write this. I love my mother, but only because she's my mother. Otherwise, I would have absolutely NOTHING to do with her. As far back as I can remember, she has no financial control or sense. She spends and spends, then whines that she has no money. As soon as...
    Sionna7910 Sionna7910 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Today would be Mother's Day to most people

    but to me, it's just another average day.
    Roflcash4 Roflcash4 16-17, M 1 Response May 10

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