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I Hate My Parents

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    I am starting to really hate my parents,

    for many for many reasons firstly because all they ******* do is nag nag nag nag secondly they blame me for other peoples **** which is so annoying even if I am not even near the thing that happened I still get blamed I mean wtf is wrong with them. Emma
    blondie1998 blondie1998 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Lately I haven't been on the best terms with my

    parents. I've been slipping in school work, sleeping in, and I'll admit I've been a little crude towards my mother and farther. They didn't like that, but who would right? The defiant teen rebelling against their parents who just want to help. We're only human. I don't want to...
    Lieliarlie Lieliarlie 16-17 2 Responses Apr 9

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    My mom thinks it is ok

    that I put my self out there. Literally. And she calls me fat. Then she wonders why I'm depressed.
    Roseoverboard Roseoverboard 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I Can Finally Say That I Hate My Parents

    At this point, I can honestly say I don't love them anymore. I used to. I used to love them and wonder why they didn't love me like other parents loved their children. I used to think they were just so horrible because of me, that my very presence caused them to behave like that...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F 61 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    43 And Still Ganged Up On By My Parents (single Female)

    I am an only child, who has always been ganged up on, by my parents. (I was smacked and ignored as a child too). Now I am 43 and moved back in with them as their carer, and the emotional abuse continues. They take sides over me on everything, and if I have an opinion on...
    lonelyonlychild lonelyonlychild 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    I have so many things going on in my life,

    boyfriend, friends, school, studying cycling, skating and I have just recovered from anorexia. My dad doesn't understand what I'm going through and says he is going to sell my bike because I haven't been on it in a long time (due to illness mainly). He called me a selfish cow...
    kathllleenn kathllleenn 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    My parents make my skin crawl.

    They are both selfish, heartless cruel people who used me as a pawn their divorce. I feel they screwed me up and I hate them for that. Their arrogance and pride makes me sick. They both think they are always right and are happy to agressivly tear me down. There is no love in...
    billyrubino billyrubino 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    They don't love me. Its simple like that,

    but still, it can hurt you too. And I have just REALIZED how LITTLE they have EVER cared for me. When I'm sick, they tell me to stop complaining and get my work done. When I'm sad, they yell at me. When I tried to TALK to them tell them about being bullied, my depression, the...
    RedDawn19 RedDawn19 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    My Parents Don't Care About Me

    I honestly believe, after 18 years of experiencing pure hell, that my parents just simply do not care about me. I've always tried so hard to please them, but nothing works. Anything I do or say is turned around onto me. If my mother and I have a disagreement and I try to talk...
    ari190 ari190 18-21 25 Responses May 28, 2011

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    my parent always compare me to my sister

    who is way smarter than me and say im nothing special and that they dont want me cause im average. they always yell at me and never let me hang out with any friends because they think i am stupid and i need to study. my parents consantly tell me im not good enough and i hate...
    chki098 chki098 16-17, M Apr 8

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    My Story

    My parents are stupid in their way of thinking. They never approved of me having my boyfriend who was from another race. When I got pregnant that was that. They refused to accept me. First, because I was not married. Secondly, because I left University during my last year when I...
    MaryMary01 MaryMary01 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    I hate my parents. I feel like part of it is

    kind of a passive-aggressive anger because they were never there for me when I was younger. I was bullied, and beaten, and molested. I feel like they didn't even try to do their parental job to protect me, and I resent them so much for that. Currently their relationship with...
    katie0123 katie0123 13-15, F Mar 20

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    I can't stand to be with them,

    they argue constantly and y dad always has to out do me instead of being proud of my accomplishments, and it just smothers my creativity and ability.
    Jannil Jannil 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Last time, I did not exactly say

    why I hate my parents, so I will proceed to clarify that now. I had a stroke when I was eleven years old. After a stroke, people usually need to see a psychologist because they are more prompt to get depress, which happened when I was in high school. Basically, I wanted to die...
    ValeServigna ValeServigna 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Especially my mum when ever i do something she

    always yells at me .Every time i come home from school my life changes,my mum yells at me all the time and i didn't do anything wrong . one day i came back from school and show her my math test result and it wasn't that bad like i mean i got a high score and there was just a...
    jenny24903 jenny24903 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 13

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    i actually wish i never lived with my parents.

    then all i owe them would be a body.
    trancecr33p trancecr33p 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    They are horrible, both of them are.

    I have a past I am never willing to talk about, only my closest friends know. My father is a drunken idiot that thinks women are nothing more than objects, he is truly sickening. My mum is just as bad, she is a *****. I look after Winter, my little sister because they can't be...
    CursedEmo CursedEmo 16-17, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Why I Hate My Parents

    My dad drank and physically and sexually abused me. My mom ignored it and my cries for help..now they are in their 80's and still only think about themselves..they are ill and my mom complains all the time...god I hate their selfishness
    debigee debigee 46-50 5 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    Nutshell

    I had an epiphany, a sudden realization, that all of my emotional and physical flaws are due to my parents abuse and my insemination My mother has failed miserably as a parent failing to connect and nurse a trust between us and, and when i look back on how grossly inept she was...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M 6 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    I don't understand why my parent always want me

    to be to be like what they wants . Sometimes they look at me with a weird eyes and ironic me with a bad image like I am addiction with Cocain or have HIV something ( cause my parent and me original from VietNam and there they don't like addiction people) They always think they...
    Poundps Poundps 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    All I ever wanted was a loving mom

    and a fun dad but what did I get I got a mom who's doesn't give a **** about me and a dad who's an alcoholic. I just really don't understand my life sometimes nobody knows what I go through because of them ,I tried so hard to just be happy white them but I can't , when my mom...
    Kirakat13 Kirakat13 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    why do some people think its childish,

    and selfish to hate your parents? THEY'RE JUST HUMANS'., and just because they "put a roof over your head", fed you, take care of you don't excuse their behaviour if they are abusive. mine were emotionally abusive, and seemed to enjoy hurting my feelings, breaking my spirits...
    starlitestarbrite starlitestarbrite 26-30, F 9 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    I feel like The lonely jellyfish.

    So I hate my parents. Nothing I ever do is ever good enough for them. They treat my younger sister better than they treat me. My mum always belittles me and makes me feel worthless. I try so hard to please them but nothing ever works. I swear to death it is my mums personal...
    Emmsly Emmsly 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My mom never listens to me

    when I say something's wrong. Wether I'm sick, or if I'm emotionally distraught. When I was younger I saw a therapist for domestic violence and since then my mom refuses to believe that there could ever be anything wrong with me. Even when I scream and throw things and try...
    giib giib 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Let Me Live

    i am so over my parents. them constantly taking away my rights and freedom and constantly ruining my life i just cant deal with it anymore.  i just want to live my life and not have to constantly have them on my back taking my phone and making it so i HAVE NO LIFE...
    brr617 brr617 16-17 81 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    I Love Them For Only a Few Things

    I love my parents for only a few things, For taking care of me, for paying for my expenses and assetts, and for letting me stay in their house. Everything else about them I feel no love. I hate them. I feel like I was born to be different from them. The way that they think is...
    London182 London182 16-18, F 25 Responses Oct 19, 2007

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    I hate my parents. I hate the

    so much. They will never understand me and they want to write my life out for me and make me live it. I hate it i wish i can have some freedom. I hate them so much that I just want to die
    truthtobetold truthtobetold 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    People I Live With. Nothing More

    Some say it's a phase. That I'll get over it. "You're merely a teenager" they say. But I know better. I know better because I've had to live with the devils I call my parents. I try my damn hardest to be the best daughter they can ever have. I am in all AP classes, gets...
    smileyface1625 smileyface1625 16-17 14 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    But do I? Should I? My dad shoved me around a

    bit when I was a kid, as I may have already mentioned. He had awful anger issues. While now, being hit doesn't happen as often, I get emotionally abused... I think. I doubt myself. I TRY not to believe that I am stupid, lazy, selfish, and fat. I TRY to believe that I am not...
    RedDawn19 RedDawn19 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 6

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    Guess who just got told

    that when she grows up she will be the work psychologist ever by her father? That's right me. Why? Because I told my sister I had anger issues. Thanks for the support dad!
    xXsmilesKillmeXx xXsmilesKillmeXx 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Dear Dad,

    You arent god.
    delusionsofglamour delusionsofglamour 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 9, 2010

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    Destructive

    My parents have always put me down. My father especially. Back in my middle school years, I became so depressed, I considered suicide. I considered just ending it all. I was called worthless, idiotic, stupid, and many other things. It hurt. I had zero self-confidence. I never...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    Argh

    i cant bear living with them anymor. i hate them soo much, i could be told my mum had died in a car accident and i would smile. i hav day dreams about being told they died! its prob not very healthy but i dont care. they completly ignor me. i haf2 do my own washing, cook my own...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Oct 8, 2007

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    For The Love Of A Daughter

    I grew up as a different child from among the rest. I was loved in the beginning, but now as a teen- I'm the bit scum to the earth to my parents. I wanna leave, I wanna run to the arms of someone who will care for me, what I hate the most is I've suffered as a baby and they never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    I feel as though I should not hate my parents,

    but the more I try not to... the more I do. I am 20. My parents have been apart since I was 4. They has an over 10 year divorce process. We were the pawns in their battle. My mother has chosen herself and men over her children...and when things don't go to plan...her children...
    AnimalsAreLife AnimalsAreLife 18-21, F Mar 20

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    I don't hate them it's just my relationship

    with them isn't going so well. In fact not good at all. I feel like they don't understand me and they don't understand a lot but they think they do. They even admitted they don't understand what I'm going through. It's hard but hey I got three more years and I'm out...
    allytoledodiaz allytoledodiaz 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I Look A Lot Younger Than I Really Am

    I am 17 years old and most people would guess that I am along the lines of 12-13. If I go somewhere I am automatically given a children's ticket and I feel intimidated by people my age because of how young I look. I feel like there aren't any guys who would see me and be...
    melisa1211 melisa1211 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    I honestly hate my parents.

    Sometimes I imagine I punch my mother on the face until she faints. It is not like I enjoy it, or I want to encourage this behavior, but I am just so damn tired of them insulting me and manipulating every aspect of my life. They make me feel miserable, and I have been unhappy...
    ValeServigna ValeServigna 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I Just Wanna Be Left The Hell Alone

    So seriously I can't take it anymore, I am 25 years old and i get treated like a 15 year old. My dad actually told me that I am not allowed to sleep over my girlfriend of 5 years house unless were engaged. and my mom is always just bothering me and gets upset if I dont talk at...
    parisit85 parisit85 22-25 7 Responses Jul 31, 2010

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    I feel like puppet. Sure they care

    for me but every time I fail, they always dig my hole deeper. They don't lift me up when I fail, instead they yell and make me feel more worse. There has never been words of encouragements, but instead words of doubt. If I go below standards sometimes, they will doubt me and...
    yanga20 yanga20 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    My dad cheated on my mom with my best friend.

    I had just made friends with this girl and her husband and children. In the short time I've gotten to know them, I became attached to them. I never, ever, form deep attachments, and when I do, it's very rare. So these people were an important part of my life. I hung out with...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I know that sounds awful coming from a 17 year

    old, but it's true. They're emotionally and mentally abusive. I have a fraternal twin sister, and she and I are as different as night and day. She's the "perfect child", always behaving, always working hard, always getting straight A's, never missing school (even if she's sick...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 12

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    Why Is It i hate my parents cause my dad

    raped me when I was a child and mum didn't believe me. And my mum called me a ****. That why I hate them for. And I can't wait for them to die.
    slivereyes slivereyes 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I've been with my mom

    and dad for 15 years. I hate them because I know they don't care about me. My life is hard. I'm cranky alot because it is hard to sleep. Especially because I have insomnia. I took a risky test to see if they cared. My mom always told me that never go outside when its cold...
    savadavid savadavid 13-15, M Mar 18

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    Yesterday i skipped school

    so i could just hang around the house naked. But my dad came home from work early and caught me now im grounded for a week.
    tessaq tessaq 18-21, F 16 Responses Feb 12

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    My brothers girlfriend has four kids.

    Knowingly my mother let her and my brother moved in. Then they say "oh, the kids can stay here and there" so tge kids do. Now! Its a problem! **** you guys. Its all my step dads fault
    7Bird 7Bird 16-17, F Apr 6

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    I hate my parents they don't have time

    for me or they don't care Well I don't hate them but I just don't like how they act I love them but they don't understand I ask them to go somewhere n they r no No no I am like but I always get dragged to my brothers stuff My brother has Down syndrome I love him n IK it's...
    Weirdgirl218 Weirdgirl218 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I hate my father being distant

    and pretending not to. I hate my mother being a big-brother style watcher and a fanatic. I hate them judging me because I love my best friend more than anybody and I'm sick of them not letting me drink, go out or even take protein shakes. I have to do these things in secret...
    monaxi monaxi 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Parents and Stupid Justifications!

    I cant stand my parents. I have spent years pushed in the shadows of the anger trying my best to compare to my siblings that got it all, including the ones of no blood relation. I never did anything wrong but be born with a mouth of honesty, to much for my parents to handle. I...
    strz79 strz79 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 24, 2007

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    I Feel Nothing For Them

    Ok, here's the thing: I'm usually in a good mood when alone, but every day my parents start this kind of conversation: - Look at all this acne in your face, it's horrible! don't worry son, it's gonna pass; maybe you will not have scars... - Your hair is horrible, you should...
    NemoNobody NemoNobody 16-17, M 4 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Well of course I do!!

    !! My father left when I was born and my mother is never around to take care of me. She couldn't care less. I think she just uses me to get money.
    silentlyhurtingeveryday silentlyhurtingeveryday 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I dont know where to start.

    Im not a bad child, i dont fight with other children, i dont smoke i dont drink i never saw a diler and im not a bad student. Today i came from school, had lunch did all my chors and did my school stuff. My mother comes home and asks me how was my day and i said i got an F. I...
    paolo0174 paolo0174 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    I've always hated my parents.

    They're being mean most of the time. They will do anything to put me down, to make me feel depressed, to annoy me, and to control everything in my life. They have never tried to understand me or to accept my choices and ideas. I do everything they ask me to and I never say "no...
    Hassie2090 Hassie2090 18-21, M 6 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    My parents said I dress like trash

    and they always insult me and now I've come to hate them.
    anyomunos anyomunos 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm Done

    I sometimes feel a little immature about hating my parents. Its so cliched, so ordinary, so.... adolescent. But there is no other way to word it. I've never been an affectionate person and my family is not affectionate to one another, but I never hated them growing up. It was...
    AmbivalentMystery AmbivalentMystery 16-17 1 Response Jul 8, 2011

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    So I was brought up kinda badly

    and my mum is an alcoholic and my dad is never around anymore. I have always had troubles with dealing with my emotions and my mum is so horrible to me it makes me so angry. Recently my younger brother has started to understand why my parents are how they are and he hasn't been...
    completedisgrace completedisgrace 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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