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I Hate My Parents

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    My family is small.Its just my bro mom dad

    and me.I have no relatives except my grandmother as both parents are only kids.It is clear that my family hates me.I know they have their reasons as I am selfish,bipolar and sometimes abusive(mostly verbal but i can throw things or hit if they do it to me).But they dont know why...
    dykie0810 dykie0810 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    My dad sold drugs since he was my age

    and has gotten put into jail about 3 times since I've been born. He met my mom where she worked at a ***** club and they had me about a year later. He went to jail around the time I was born, he went back when I was 3 (my mom had a mental breakdown the first time so I went to...
    slater666 slater666 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I hate my parents. I hate the

    so much. They will never understand me and they want to write my life out for me and make me live it. I hate it i wish i can have some freedom. I hate them so much that I just want to die
    truthtobetold truthtobetold 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    there's nothing scarier to me

    than the thought of living til i'm 40, unsuccessfully, with children who will despise me. i can't imagine being a mother to kids that hate me as much as i hate my parents.. although i would never treat my kids with so much disrepsect and loathing. as ****** as it sounds that i...
    lizshiv lizshiv 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I know that sounds awful coming from a 17 year

    old, but it's true. They're emotionally and mentally abusive. I have a fraternal twin sister, and she and I are as different as night and day. She's the "perfect child", always behaving, always working hard, always getting straight A's, never missing school (even if she's sick...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    The don't give a **** about anything.

    Great patenting style. *sarcasm*
    ciciyoshi ciciyoshi 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    But do I? Should I? My dad shoved me around a

    bit when I was a kid, as I may have already mentioned. He had awful anger issues. While now, being hit doesn't happen as often, I get emotionally abused... I think. I doubt myself. I TRY not to believe that I am stupid, lazy, selfish, and fat. I TRY to believe that I am not...
    RedDawn19 RedDawn19 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 6

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    Argh

    i cant bear living with them anymor. i hate them soo much, i could be told my mum had died in a car accident and i would smile. i hav day dreams about being told they died! its prob not very healthy but i dont care. they completly ignor me. i haf2 do my own washing, cook my own...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Oct 8, 2007

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    I only hate one;my dad.

    He is selfish and pompous and always has to be right. He gets violent when his authority is threatened which is anytime i question him. We get into heated arguments all the time. I hate myself for how much like him i am. I recognize my flaws, he does not. My mom and sister tell...
    detestme detestme 13-15 3 Responses Jul 29

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    why do some people think its childish,

    and selfish to hate your parents? THEY'RE JUST HUMANS'., and just because they "put a roof over your head", fed you, take care of you don't excuse their behaviour if they are abusive. mine were emotionally abusive, and seemed to enjoy hurting my feelings, breaking my spirits...
    starlitestarbrite starlitestarbrite 26-30, F 9 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    For The Love Of A Daughter

    I grew up as a different child from among the rest. I was loved in the beginning, but now as a teen- I'm the bit scum to the earth to my parents. I wanna leave, I wanna run to the arms of someone who will care for me, what I hate the most is I've suffered as a baby and they never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    SkinnyJenny420 SkinnyJenny420 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I know how you feel my mom

    and dad divorced when I was like 2 or 3 and my mom struggled for a little while and he would visit every once in a while and then when I was about 7 or 8 he would take me for long periods of time and I wouldn`t see my mom for a long time so I would spend alot of time with my...
    forgettablyunwanted forgettablyunwanted 16-17 Aug 10

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    I Can Finally Say That I Hate My Parents

    At this point, I can honestly say I don't love them anymore. I used to. I used to love them and wonder why they didn't love me like other parents loved their children. I used to think they were just so horrible because of me, that my very presence caused them to behave like that...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F 61 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    My mom beat me every day in elementary school

    and all my dad did was go outside the house and come back in when he heard it was done. My mother verbally abuses me and i just want to die because of it I resent them both for it and hope to never have to see them ever again.
    J4ckie123 J4ckie123 13-15, F 7 Responses Jul 29

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    Well of course I do!!

    !! My father left when I was born and my mother is never around to take care of me. She couldn't care less. I think she just uses me to get money.
    Helloblah17 Helloblah17 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    My parents tend to do drugs

    and I lose respect for them.
    WVMBO WVMBO 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 3

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    I hate my parents,I wish I can run away

    but then I wouldn't have a place to go.I hate this ****, its like a jail that I can't escape.
    maryamtssn24 maryamtssn24 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    My father and I were going to go our earlier

    today, when he asked me I asked him if we could go later (around 5.) So at 4:45 I came down all ready to go and said "are you almost ready?" He responded by flipping out. It was because he had been drinking. My mother was sitting watching the whole thing and did nothing. I...
    kelsey0616 kelsey0616 13-15, F 8 Responses Jun 1

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    43 And Still Ganged Up On By My Parents (single Female)

    I am an only child, who has always been ganged up on, by my parents. (I was smacked and ignored as a child too). Now I am 43 and moved back in with them as their carer, and the emotional abuse continues. They take sides over me on everything, and if I have an opinion on...
    lonelyonlychild lonelyonlychild 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    Ep said that what I wrote violates their policy

    so I've posted it in the comments below. PLZ READ....
    QueenBetcy QueenBetcy 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Why I Hate My Parents

    My dad drank and physically and sexually abused me. My mom ignored it and my cries for help..now they are in their 80's and still only think about themselves..they are ill and my mom complains all the time...god I hate their selfishness
    debigee debigee 46-50 6 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    , is it so hard to just say yes to your child's

    dreams, ain't my dreams important too. All i want them to be supportive and respectful about it. they never said " I AM PROUD OF YOU SON" but never shied on telling me what an embarrassment i am.
    samarth14 samarth14 18-21, M 3 Responses May 31

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    I'm so angry right now.

    So I'm a senior this year and I just came back from band camp about 1 day ago and all I'm getting is yelled at. I haven't seen them for like 5 days and just hours later I'm getting yelled at about the stupidest things. I mean I'm sorry that I couldn't help you at the same moment...
    anger101 anger101 16-17, F Aug 3

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    I think saying I hate my parents is a bit over

    exaggerated. I feel like my parents are strangers is a more accurate statement. While I have never been in the horrible situation of having ones parents die, if mine were too, it feels as if I would not be affected. I'm a closeted atheist (Is it appropriate to say closeted...
    SoYeah123 SoYeah123 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    So, my parents are really overprotective.

    My father hates social media and thinks I'll get spoiled. I have to block him everywhere. My mom thinks I'm already spoiled and won't let me do anything. She mocks me about everything, Like when I'm listening to music or watching movies, she'll act like a real overprotective...
    SomeoneHated SomeoneHated 13-15, F Jul 29

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    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    People I Live With. Nothing More

    Some say it's a phase. That I'll get over it. "You're merely a teenager" they say. But I know better. I know better because I've had to live with the devils I call my parents. I try my damn hardest to be the best daughter they can ever have. I am in all AP classes, gets...
    smileyface1625 smileyface1625 16-17 14 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    I Just Wanna Be Left The Hell Alone

    So seriously I can't take it anymore, I am 25 years old and i get treated like a 15 year old. My dad actually told me that I am not allowed to sleep over my girlfriend of 5 years house unless were engaged. and my mom is always just bothering me and gets upset if I dont talk at...
    parisit85 parisit85 22-25 7 Responses Jul 31, 2010

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    My mum has called me fat

    so many times I feel uncomfortable with showing any amount of skin at all. Whenever I or anyone tries hard for something, whenever they fail she always says that "obviously they weren't trying hard enough". It's not like I hate her, just her personality, but as my mother I have...
    EgoWoman EgoWoman 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Parents and Stupid Justifications!

    I cant stand my parents. I have spent years pushed in the shadows of the anger trying my best to compare to my siblings that got it all, including the ones of no blood relation. I never did anything wrong but be born with a mouth of honesty, to much for my parents to handle. I...
    strz79 strz79 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 24, 2007

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    Thee f! Watching "Lone Soldier" With my family

    and they be talkin shiz about the soldiers! Like f! You try being in the army! See how hard it is! -___- NEVER watch movies with ur family, ESPECIALLY parents. They ask and talk too much during the movie! t -.- t
    Dawb183 Dawb183 13-15, F Aug 3

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    Dear Dad,

    You arent god.
    delusionsofglamour delusionsofglamour 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9, 2010

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    Just today, my parents were in an argument

    and they are planning to get divorce now, im feeling sad and loneliness and insecure, idk what to do, just couldn't help myself from feeling depressed and tears fell out of my eyes without my control.. Help
    JessWinter JessWinter 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Letting Go.

    Do you ever feel obligated to love someone when you really don't? Sometimes I do and I don't know why. Maybe because I feel guilty that a child would feel so much hatred for their own parents. Perhaps one day things will magically change and I'll wake up to have the family I've...
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    They are the worst sometimes.

    :( They always punish me for no reason. I wish I could just run away and find a new family.
    MyDimension MyDimension 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    emotionalyana emotionalyana 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I've spent my entire life pretending to be

    somebody else, I've always played all my roles to perfection never saying or doing anything that my parents doesn't approve of. I'm 21 years old and have spent most of these years trying to fit in to my family, because I know they will never let me be my own person. When I...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Let Me Live

    i am so over my parents. them constantly taking away my rights and freedom and constantly ruining my life i just cant deal with it anymore.  i just want to live my life and not have to constantly have them on my back taking my phone and making it so i HAVE NO LIFE...
    brr617 brr617 16-17 83 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    I learned from an early age

    that my parents didn't love me, they hated me. Don't misunderstand my parents love her daughter, they just hate every characteristic that makes me... me. And they tell me that every day, every second that I’m with them. They hate the way i dress, all the thing i love they...
    SSLCO SSLCO 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    Ugh I can't stand them.

    They understand nothing about me and when I try to tell them they say how wrong it is. My mother doesn't seem to understand that I'm pansexual with a preference for girls and I get in the **** every time something about me being gay comes up; ITS NOT MY FAULT. It's also gross...
    FullHotel FullHotel 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I don't know how long I will be able to live

    with my parents. My dad took my laptop cause he tought that I played too much video games but a) I used my computer 2h a day and b) I didn't even play video games. I was working with blender and CryEngine 3. After i replied and won all the arguments againts my dad and mom they...
    Draconem Draconem 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 1

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    It didn't start out this way.

    I actually used to like my parents more than anyone. But, that was when I was a little kid. As I got older and stopped being just a miniature version of them, that's when the problems began. Both my parents, although my mother especially, are extremely religious and seem to be...
    Konata57 Konata57 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    My Story

    My parents are stupid in their way of thinking. They never approved of me having my boyfriend who was from another race. When I got pregnant that was that. They refused to accept me. First, because I was not married. Secondly, because I left University during my last year when I...
    MaryMary01 MaryMary01 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    I hate my parents so much its like everything I

    ask from them or whenever I ask them for permission to hang out with my friends they say no. Why do I have to live in this **** I am so tired of this. I literally am thinking of killing one of them or myself.
    maryamtssn maryamtssn 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    My mother is always watching me like the Big

    Brother, like The Eyes of God. And she is always judging my friends because they are drunkards, gays, fat, and she doesn't even know them well! I hate this and I hate how she sees the world divided between good and bad people. I'm sock of this judgments and her trying to rule...
    monaxi monaxi 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 21

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    I Feel Nothing For Them

    Ok, here's the thing: I'm usually in a good mood when alone, but every day my parents start this kind of conversation: - Look at all this acne in your face, it's horrible! don't worry son, it's gonna pass; maybe you will not have scars... - Your hair is horrible, you should...
    NemoNobody NemoNobody 16-17, M 4 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    I've always hated my parents.

    They're being mean most of the time. They will do anything to put me down, to make me feel depressed, to annoy me, and to control everything in my life. They have never tried to understand me or to accept my choices and ideas. I do everything they ask me to and I never say "no...
    Hassie2090 Hassie2090 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I ******* hate my parent in every way they love

    me? No. They care about me? No. They ******* used me as a slave WTF? is wrong with them i try to tell them but they are NOT accept it WTF? is wrong with them seriously
    NightOfSomeStar NightOfSomeStar 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I mostly have homework

    that I have to use computer or like to listen to music while doing homework and my dad thinks I play games while I do it. Sure I did once long ago, I mean years ago and my dad and MUM is still thinking I am and I'm not trusted. Every time my parents says I have to get rid of...
    LonelyHatedChild LonelyHatedChild 13-15, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I hate how at night, my parents talk about me.

    They think I can't hear but the walls here are thin. I love knowing that you want to punch me in the face, that I'm a huge let down, that you think I'm pathetic for having depression. Way to go mum! you've made me feel so good and my dissociative so much better... gold star!
    FullHotel FullHotel 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Destructive

    My parents have always put me down. My father especially. Back in my middle school years, I became so depressed, I considered suicide. I considered just ending it all. I was called worthless, idiotic, stupid, and many other things. It hurt. I had zero self-confidence. I never...
    duClo duClo 18-21, T 3 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    My mom thinks it is ok

    that I put my self out there. Literally. And she calls me fat. Then she wonders why I'm depressed.
    Roseoverboard Roseoverboard 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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