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I Hate My Parents

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    I'm Done

    I sometimes feel a little immature about hating my parents. Its so cliched, so ordinary, so.... adolescent. But there is no other way to word it. I've never been an affectionate person and my family is not affectionate to one another, but I never hated them growing up. It was...
    AmbivalentMystery AmbivalentMystery 16-17 2 Responses Jul 8, 2011

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    OMG!!! I just deleted like 2 hours of typeing!

    !! :( ill re post eventually
    SarahBoyer1 SarahBoyer1 22-25, F Apr 8

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    I found out during my parents 18 years of

    marriage that at some point near the end my father got chlamydia and gave it to my mother.... That's baaaaad....
    Jessicaliners Jessicaliners 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    Dear Dad,

    You arent god.
    delusionsofglamour delusionsofglamour 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9, 2010

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    My father and I were going to go our earlier

    today, when he asked me I asked him if we could go later (around 5.) So at 4:45 I came down all ready to go and said "are you almost ready?" He responded by flipping out. It was because he had been drinking. My mother was sitting watching the whole thing and did nothing. I...
    kelsey0616 kelsey0616 13-15, F 7 Responses Jun 1, 2014

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    my parents are just noobs

    and idiots, almost sums it all
    Mustafaevanescence Mustafaevanescence 22-25 Feb 16

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    But do I? Should I? My dad shoved me around a

    bit when I was a kid, as I may have already mentioned. He had awful anger issues. While now, being hit doesn't happen as often, I get emotionally abused... I think. I doubt myself. I TRY not to believe that I am stupid, lazy, selfish, and fat. I TRY to believe that I am not...
    RedDawn19 RedDawn19 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    Freaking hate em their homophobic

    and they wont let my dye my hair
    SpiritOfIzanagi SpiritOfIzanagi 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 15

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    Argh

    i cant bear living with them anymor. i hate them soo much, i could be told my mum had died in a car accident and i would smile. i hav day dreams about being told they died! its prob not very healthy but i dont care. they completly ignor me. i haf2 do my own washing, cook my own...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Oct 8, 2007

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    43 And Still Ganged Up On By My Parents (single Female)

    I am an only child, who has always been ganged up on, by my parents. (I was smacked and ignored as a child too). Now I am 43 and moved back in with them as their carer, and the emotional abuse continues. They take sides over me on everything, and if I have an opinion on...
    lonelyonlychild lonelyonlychild 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    I don't hate my parents.

    I'm just making this post to ask a question to those who say this. How could you say you hate your parents? I understand if they abused you and you have a broken family, but I'm talking about in other situations- the average situation. They gave birth to you, raised you, the put...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    My parents are the type of parents

    that say "if you do that, you'll be exactly like a ***** just like the rest of your friends." Or in my words they are hypocritical, narcissistic bastards that believe that the only way to get through life is to ditch the friends that you love (that are more family to me then...
    carlaak carlaak 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    My Parents Don't Care About Me

    I honestly believe, after 18 years of experiencing pure hell, that my parents just simply do not care about me. I've always tried so hard to please them, but nothing works. Anything I do or say is turned around onto me. If my mother and I have a disagreement and I try to talk...
    ari190 ari190 18-21 31 Responses May 28, 2011

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    For The Love Of A Daughter

    I grew up as a different child from among the rest. I was loved in the beginning, but now as a teen- I'm the bit scum to the earth to my parents. I wanna leave, I wanna run to the arms of someone who will care for me, what I hate the most is I've suffered as a baby and they never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    Nutshell

    I had an epiphany, a sudden realization, that all of my emotional and physical flaws are due to my parents abuse and my insemination My mother has failed miserably as a parent failing to connect and nurse a trust between us and, and when i look back on how grossly inept she was...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M 7 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    so sonce I was adopted at the age of 12

    so in 6th grade I used to live with 2 parents that would make me laugh and happy. Sadly they were invloved in a drug bust in california and I got put up for adoption and my grandma adopted me so I grew up from their with my step parents and no I have severe depression. I dont...
    shadow4483 shadow4483 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 5

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    I'm young. I understand

    and have understood that I need someone to let me make the right decisions and set me straight. My parents give me freedom and give me what I need in life. I get food on the table, a roof over my head, an amazing education, and clothes to wear. I have an iPhone, brand name...
    carlaak carlaak 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    You complain because I never hang out with you,

    but you make no effort to hang out with me. You complain because I never talk to you, but when I try to talk to you, I get told to shut up... What am I supposed to do???
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    I Can Finally Say That I Hate My Parents

    At this point, I can honestly say I don't love them anymore. I used to. I used to love them and wonder why they didn't love me like other parents loved their children. I used to think they were just so horrible because of me, that my very presence caused them to behave like that...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F 63 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    I had the worst day. it's not just one of those

    off days when you forget your homework at home, or miss the bus. it was first hour and my classmate behind me just collapsed. I thought he just tripped when he was getting up, but then he starting making these weird moaning noises and wasn't moving. I looked at the teacher and...
    jadaenderson22 jadaenderson22 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    they act like i am the only person

    who lives in the house, do this, do that all day long. we are all adults yet i somehow have to clean up after grown *** people? is it so hard to clean up the mess that you made, why the hell do i have to clean it up. the kitchen is bad enough i have to clean up the mess people...
    anneloves anneloves 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 14

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    I asked my mum if I could have some money

    for my birthday and she said no. She suggested that she get me a $14 meal at the pub for my birthday...a $14 meal for my 30th Birthday!!!! WTF ??? Seriously??? What a cheapskate!!!!
    sarahk85 sarahk85 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Why I Hate My Parents

    My dad drank and physically and sexually abused me. My mom ignored it and my cries for help..now they are in their 80's and still only think about themselves..they are ill and my mom complains all the time...god I hate their selfishness
    debigee debigee 46-50 6 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    Sometimes, I think about killing my self

    so I can just get away from the sound of their voices. Wonder if they would fake being sad at my funeral. Please, don't criticize.
    carryworks carryworks 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I learned from an early age

    that my parents didn't love me, they hated me. Don't misunderstand my parents love her daughter, they just hate every characteristic that makes me... me. And they tell me that every day, every second that I’m with them. They hate the way i dress, all the thing i love they...
    SSLCO SSLCO 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I'm Absolutely fed up with my parents.

    ever since i started living with my parents at the age of 6 i noticed they dint care for me,but what was a 6 year old can to do besides try making your own birth parents you. Im 17 now and started to go to college. I work 2 jobs just to put myself through college with all my...
    LilApple456 LilApple456 18-21, F Mar 9

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    Dear Mother, Would you kindly take the stick

    out of your ***. Best Wishes, Everyone
    SvetlanaVDB SvetlanaVDB 16-17, T 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I hate my parents so much.

    My dad mentally and physically abused my sister and I growing up. He would yell and scream at me if I didn't do something fast enough. Sometimes he would get really drunk and pick fights with me.(keep in mind at this point I was in the 6th grade) he would make things up, and...
    EvilAngels EvilAngels 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 12

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    People I Live With. Nothing More

    Some say it's a phase. That I'll get over it. "You're merely a teenager" they say. But I know better. I know better because I've had to live with the devils I call my parents. I try my damn hardest to be the best daughter they can ever have. I am in all AP classes, gets...
    smileyface1625 smileyface1625 16-17 14 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    Firstly, I am not writing this to look

    for sympathy or pity from others, I am just at a point where I can not stand either of my parents anymore and I'm am not comfortable enough to tell anyone so I have resorted to an online forum. My parents were high school sweethearts who married shortly after college. My father...
    CKINKAID CKINKAID 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    My mom is a ****, sadistic,

    hypocrite, and hasn't said a nice thing to me for god knows how much. She expects me to tell her I love her, but I don't think I can do it anymore. My dad is controlling, a jerk, rude, self-centered, and has an ego the size of Texas. Ironically, he also lives in Texas, and I...
    SurprisedWalnut SurprisedWalnut 26-30, M Feb 17

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    I Love Them For Only a Few Things

    I love my parents for only a few things, For taking care of me, for paying for my expenses and assetts, and for letting me stay in their house. Everything else about them I feel no love. I hate them. I feel like I was born to be different from them. The way that they think is...
    London182 London182 16-17, F 29 Responses Oct 19, 2007

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    Parents want control,

    all your life long , that's what gets them excited. Otherwise who cares for a bunch of old farts who are more interested in power than nurturing.
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M Oct 29, 2014

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    Let Me Live

    i am so over my parents. them constantly taking away my rights and freedom and constantly ruining my life i just cant deal with it anymore.  i just want to live my life and not have to constantly have them on my back taking my phone and making it so i HAVE NO LIFE...
    brr617 brr617 16-17 85 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    I'm in college and the students in this college

    are allowed to wear anything. So I wear shorts some days and I wear jeans on days I have lab sessions. Isn't it okay? Other girls wear shorts with crop tops revealing their stomach. I don't even wear crop tops. Other girls dyed their hair with crazy colours. I just did...
    CloeSmile CloeSmile 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    **** you dad, and you to mom,

    go DIE IN A FIRE SEE IF I CARE YOU WORTHLESS *************!!!! I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU
    GayBoyyyy13 GayBoyyyy13 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 1

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    So I'm new to this app,

    so bare with me, but I really need to express the hurt I'm feeling right now. So back in January I was suffering from the worst depression in my life. I had to quit my job because of my panic attacks and life was becoming too much. After I quit I began meditation and yoga for my...
    HazzaBoo HazzaBoo 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    once my mom kicked me out of the house

    when i was 11 and said shee hated me and hoped i got hit by a car. i asked her why she hated me and she said she was beyond hate
    jonfrench jonfrench 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    I am seriously considering cutting off all

    contact with my parents, they are both emotionally abusive drunks who have nothing better to do with their time than berate me on weekly basis. I don't know why I bother. they pry into every aspect of my life and only have negative things to say. a bank statement of mine came to...
    Kwreka89 Kwreka89 22-25, M Feb 15

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    My Story

    My parents are stupid in their way of thinking. They never approved of me having my boyfriend who was from another race. When I got pregnant that was that. They refused to accept me. First, because I was not married. Secondly, because I left University during my last year when I...
    MaryMary01 MaryMary01 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Do you ever ask them

    for something and they keep telling you that they're gonna get it for you but they keep on lying and eventually they give to one of your siblings and never mind what would you feel about that but they obviously showing you that they don't care about you and can't wait to get red...
    flife flife 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    sirdabsalot420 sirdabsalot420 18-21, M Nov 19, 2014

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    Parents and Stupid Justifications!

    I cant stand my parents. I have spent years pushed in the shadows of the anger trying my best to compare to my siblings that got it all, including the ones of no blood relation. I never did anything wrong but be born with a mouth of honesty, to much for my parents to handle. I...
    strz79 strz79 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 24, 2007

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    My dad: he comes home,

    doesn't even say hi, and instantly starts screaming at me for no reason. What the genuine ****, really. Every day I wake up to him screaming at me or my mom. I remember the good old days when we would go throw a baseball, or go to the park. He doesn't hit me but I'm scared he...
    GayBoyyyy13 GayBoyyyy13 13-15, M Mar 2

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    Really don't know if you could call them

    "parents". More like the guy who got the woman pregnant who gave birth to me. Both were and still are drug users and were arrested several times. My "father" was in jail for robbery when I was born. My "mother" is currently in prison for assault on a police officer. Haven't seen...
    gotzddem gotzddem 22-25, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    aha i thought you were my care givers.

    the people who were supposed to show love and affection to me. not this bs you call 'caring.'
    carlaak carlaak 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 18

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