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I Hate My Parents

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    I learned from an early age

    that my parents didn't love me, they hated me. Don't misunderstand my parents love her daughter, they just hate every characteristic that makes me... me. And they tell me that every day, every second that I’m with them. They hate the way i dress, all the thing i love they...
    SSLCO SSLCO 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    Today i had a fight with my mom story is she

    tell me to do stuff all the time (and my father too) if u dont Have idea how much think about this i watch video on youtube it about 30 min long but she (and he) order me stuff so take almost 1 hour and a half to watch that video and then today i cant hold it anymore so i...
    NightOfSomeStar NightOfSomeStar 18-21, M Aug 9

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    I cannot stand my parents.

    My biological parents , anyway. But I suppose I should start with my background. My mom got pregnant with me when she was 16, had me right after she turned 17. My dad was 20 when I was born . They were never a "thing" . My dad had 3 kids before me. My closest brother in age is a...
    Jadedstar Jadedstar 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dear Dad,

    You arent god.
    delusionsofglamour delusionsofglamour 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9, 2010

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    I Feel Nothing For Them

    Ok, here's the thing: I'm usually in a good mood when alone, but every day my parents start this kind of conversation: - Look at all this acne in your face, it's horrible! don't worry son, it's gonna pass; maybe you will not have scars... - Your hair is horrible, you should...
    NemoNobody NemoNobody 16-17, M 4 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Let Me Live

    i am so over my parents. them constantly taking away my rights and freedom and constantly ruining my life i just cant deal with it anymore.  i just want to live my life and not have to constantly have them on my back taking my phone and making it so i HAVE NO LIFE...
    brr617 brr617 16-17 83 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    It didn't start out this way.

    I actually used to like my parents more than anyone. But, that was when I was a little kid. As I got older and stopped being just a miniature version of them, that's when the problems began. Both my parents, although my mother especially, are extremely religious and seem to be...
    Konata57 Konata57 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    But do I? Should I? My dad shoved me around a

    bit when I was a kid, as I may have already mentioned. He had awful anger issues. While now, being hit doesn't happen as often, I get emotionally abused... I think. I doubt myself. I TRY not to believe that I am stupid, lazy, selfish, and fat. I TRY to believe that I am not...
    RedDawn19 RedDawn19 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 6

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    It all started, when I was born into a world

    dominated by two people. Two strong forces in my life that continue to hold on to me without compassion. My suffering has always been psychological and slowly begins to spread contaminating my physical being. My demons continue to grow and I begin to weaken. I don’t know how...
    beuxarts beuxarts 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    People I Live With. Nothing More

    Some say it's a phase. That I'll get over it. "You're merely a teenager" they say. But I know better. I know better because I've had to live with the devils I call my parents. I try my damn hardest to be the best daughter they can ever have. I am in all AP classes, gets...
    smileyface1625 smileyface1625 16-17 14 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    43 And Still Ganged Up On By My Parents (single Female)

    I am an only child, who has always been ganged up on, by my parents. (I was smacked and ignored as a child too). Now I am 43 and moved back in with them as their carer, and the emotional abuse continues. They take sides over me on everything, and if I have an opinion on...
    lonelyonlychild lonelyonlychild 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    Firstly, I am not writing this to look

    for sympathy or pity from others, I am just at a point where I can not stand either of my parents anymore and I'm am not comfortable enough to tell anyone so I have resorted to an online forum. My parents were high school sweethearts who married shortly after college. My father...
    CKINKAID CKINKAID 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I hate how at night, my parents talk about me.

    They think I can't hear but the walls here are thin. I love knowing that you want to punch me in the face, that I'm a huge let down, that you think I'm pathetic for having depression. Way to go mum! you've made me feel so good and my dissociative so much better... gold star!
    FullHotel FullHotel 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I've spent my entire life pretending to be

    somebody else, I've always played all my roles to perfection never saying or doing anything that my parents doesn't approve of. I'm 21 years old and have spent most of these years trying to fit in to my family, because I know they will never let me be my own person. When I...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    Okay im gunna tell you

    why I hate my parents (my dad and mom) so the other day I was sitting in the suv waiting for my dad to finish washing the windows with the windex and I saw the keys beside me. Now im usally the one who starts the car and so I did and my dad comes around a yells at me saying...
    Moonlightxangel Moonlightxangel 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    The don't give a **** about anything.

    Great patenting style. *sarcasm*
    ciciyoshi ciciyoshi 13-15, F Aug 18

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    Why I Hate My Parents

    My dad drank and physically and sexually abused me. My mom ignored it and my cries for help..now they are in their 80's and still only think about themselves..they are ill and my mom complains all the time...god I hate their selfishness
    debigee debigee 46-50 6 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    SkinnyJenny420 SkinnyJenny420 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    Nutshell

    I had an epiphany, a sudden realization, that all of my emotional and physical flaws are due to my parents abuse and my insemination My mother has failed miserably as a parent failing to connect and nurse a trust between us and, and when i look back on how grossly inept she was...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M 5 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    why do some people think its childish,

    and selfish to hate your parents? THEY'RE JUST HUMANS'., and just because they "put a roof over your head", fed you, take care of you don't excuse their behaviour if they are abusive. mine were emotionally abusive, and seemed to enjoy hurting my feelings, breaking my spirits...
    starlitestarbrite starlitestarbrite 26-30, F 10 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    Parents and Stupid Justifications!

    I cant stand my parents. I have spent years pushed in the shadows of the anger trying my best to compare to my siblings that got it all, including the ones of no blood relation. I never did anything wrong but be born with a mouth of honesty, to much for my parents to handle. I...
    strz79 strz79 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 24, 2007

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    I hate my parents. I hate the

    so much. They will never understand me and they want to write my life out for me and make me live it. I hate it i wish i can have some freedom. I hate them so much that I just want to die
    truthtobetold truthtobetold 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Ugh I can't stand them.

    They understand nothing about me and when I try to tell them they say how wrong it is. My mother doesn't seem to understand that I'm pansexual with a preference for girls and I get in the **** every time something about me being gay comes up; ITS NOT MY FAULT. It's also gross...
    FullHotel FullHotel 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I live with a mom who has a mental illness.

    I truly do love my mom, but coming home after a day at school you never know what is gonna happen. And I am so sick of it. The littlest things tick my mom off. She starts a fight or an argument over anything. Brings up the past, gets angry at the present. Anything. She has...
    hrmo hrmo 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    My mother is always watching me like the Big

    Brother, like The Eyes of God. And she is always judging my friends because they are drunkards, gays, fat, and she doesn't even know them well! I hate this and I hate how she sees the world divided between good and bad people. I'm sock of this judgments and her trying to rule...
    monaxi monaxi 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 21

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    there's nothing scarier to me

    than the thought of living til i'm 40, unsuccessfully, with children who will despise me. i can't imagine being a mother to kids that hate me as much as i hate my parents.. although i would never treat my kids with so much disrepsect and loathing. as ****** as it sounds that i...
    lizshiv lizshiv 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I hate my parents and they hate me.

    . It's the end of the year and I've been outside more and my grades have slipped a little usually my grades are better then by sisters (twin) but these few weeks her interim report hers have been better than mine and mine right now are 80-84 and 95-100 and hers are 85-89 and 95...
    biebbrauhll biebbrauhll 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 7

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    Just today, my parents were in an argument

    and they are planning to get divorce now, im feeling sad and loneliness and insecure, idk what to do, just couldn't help myself from feeling depressed and tears fell out of my eyes without my control.. Help
    JessWinter JessWinter 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I mostly have homework

    that I have to use computer or like to listen to music while doing homework and my dad thinks I play games while I do it. Sure I did once long ago, I mean years ago and my dad and MUM is still thinking I am and I'm not trusted. Every time my parents says I have to get rid of...
    LonelyHatedChild LonelyHatedChild 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    See I was suppose to go shooting with my in laws

    but my parents was like nope u can't go I was like are you ******* kidding me this is one of the reasons I hate you Bc even when I was a child I didn't have a childhood I couldn't have toys i had to stay in my room till dinner then I had to go straight back to my room it's...
    Vlad6666 Vlad6666 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    My dad left when I was 3,

    and our mother is so sick in the head that she tells us to this day that our dad left because he didn't want children. That he had wanted her to abort both of my brothers. My dad hated mom so much, and was such a selfish lost that we maybe saw him 2x a year while we grew up with...
    Ilovehavingbraces Ilovehavingbraces 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Argh

    i cant bear living with them anymor. i hate them soo much, i could be told my mum had died in a car accident and i would smile. i hav day dreams about being told they died! its prob not very healthy but i dont care. they completly ignor me. i haf2 do my own washing, cook my own...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Oct 8, 2007

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    I know that sounds awful coming from a 17 year

    old, but it's true. They're emotionally and mentally abusive. I have a fraternal twin sister, and she and I are as different as night and day. She's the "perfect child", always behaving, always working hard, always getting straight A's, never missing school (even if she's sick...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    I Can Finally Say That I Hate My Parents

    At this point, I can honestly say I don't love them anymore. I used to. I used to love them and wonder why they didn't love me like other parents loved their children. I used to think they were just so horrible because of me, that my very presence caused them to behave like that...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F 61 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    Okay im gunna tell you

    why I hate my parents (my dad and mom) so the other day I was sitting in the suv waiting for my dad to finish washing the windows with the windex and I saw the keys beside me. Now im usally the one who starts the car and so I did and my dad comes around a yells at me saying...
    Moonlightxangel Moonlightxangel 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Omfg. I hate my dad so much.

    He hates that I go out and looks at me in a very obnoxious manner every time. I really hate it. In this time and age, it's better that we hang out outside. Also I'm a teen and being out is my best way of figuring out about myself. He's such a thwart.
    KaiWong KaiWong 18-21, M Aug 30

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    My Story

    My parents are stupid in their way of thinking. They never approved of me having my boyfriend who was from another race. When I got pregnant that was that. They refused to accept me. First, because I was not married. Secondly, because I left University during my last year when I...
    MaryMary01 MaryMary01 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    I ******* hate my parent in every way they love

    me? No. They care about me? No. They ******* used me as a slave WTF? is wrong with them i try to tell them but they are NOT accept it WTF? is wrong with them seriously
    NightOfSomeStar NightOfSomeStar 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    My Parents Don't Care About Me

    I honestly believe, after 18 years of experiencing pure hell, that my parents just simply do not care about me. I've always tried so hard to please them, but nothing works. Anything I do or say is turned around onto me. If my mother and I have a disagreement and I try to talk...
    ari190 ari190 18-21 28 Responses May 28, 2011

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    My dad sold drugs since he was my age

    and has gotten put into jail about 3 times since I've been born. He met my mom where she worked at a ***** club and they had me about a year later. He went to jail around the time I was born, he went back when I was 3 (my mom had a mental breakdown the first time so I went to...
    slater666 slater666 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I'm Done

    I sometimes feel a little immature about hating my parents. Its so cliched, so ordinary, so.... adolescent. But there is no other way to word it. I've never been an affectionate person and my family is not affectionate to one another, but I never hated them growing up. It was...
    AmbivalentMystery AmbivalentMystery 16-17 1 Response Jul 8, 2011

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    I hate my parents,I wish I can run away

    but then I wouldn't have a place to go.I hate this ****, its like a jail that I can't escape.
    maryamtssn24 maryamtssn24 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    My mom thinks it is ok

    that I put my self out there. Literally. And she calls me fat. Then she wonders why I'm depressed.
    Roseoverboard Roseoverboard 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    My father and I were going to go our earlier

    today, when he asked me I asked him if we could go later (around 5.) So at 4:45 I came down all ready to go and said "are you almost ready?" He responded by flipping out. It was because he had been drinking. My mother was sitting watching the whole thing and did nothing. I...
    kelsey0616 kelsey0616 13-15, F 8 Responses Jun 1

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    Hey guys how are u I want to tell u something I

    am having a samsung grand 2 and an ipad 2.I got my grand 2 one year ago and ipad something 2 and half years ago.I really played a lot with my ipad in these years but now i dont like to play games so i use it very less time and sometimes not.I use my phone a lot now but it hangs...
    anshsachdeva anshsachdeva 13-15, M Aug 26

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    , is it so hard to just say yes to your child's

    dreams, ain't my dreams important too. All i want them to be supportive and respectful about it. they never said " I AM PROUD OF YOU SON" but never shied on telling me what an embarrassment i am.
    samarth14 samarth14 18-21, M 3 Responses May 31

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    kayeEL kayeEL 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I hate my parents so much its like everything I

    ask from them or whenever I ask them for permission to hang out with my friends they say no. Why do I have to live in this **** I am so tired of this. I literally am thinking of killing one of them or myself.
    maryamtssn maryamtssn 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    Tatersonkale Tatersonkale 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    For The Love Of A Daughter

    I grew up as a different child from among the rest. I was loved in the beginning, but now as a teen- I'm the bit scum to the earth to my parents. I wanna leave, I wanna run to the arms of someone who will care for me, what I hate the most is I've suffered as a baby and they never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    My family is small.Its just my bro mom dad

    and me.I have no relatives except my grandmother as both parents are only kids.It is clear that my family hates me.I know they have their reasons as I am selfish,bipolar and sometimes abusive(mostly verbal but i can throw things or hit if they do it to me).But they dont know why...
    dykie0810 dykie0810 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I've always hated my parents.

    They're being mean most of the time. They will do anything to put me down, to make me feel depressed, to annoy me, and to control everything in my life. They have never tried to understand me or to accept my choices and ideas. I do everything they ask me to and I never say "no...
    Hassie2090 Hassie2090 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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