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    43 And Still Ganged Up On By My Parents (single Female)

    I am an only child, who has always been ganged up on, by my parents. (I was smacked and ignored as a child too). Now I am 43 and moved back in with them as their carer, and the emotional abuse continues. They take sides over me on everything, and if I have an opinion on...
    lonelyonlychild lonelyonlychild 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    They are the most greedy,

    materialistic, selfish, negative, self-pitying, cold and callous people. My father abused me in all sorts of waysng (including sexual) but my mother doesn't care, keeps talking him about him like he's a saint. I only think he didn't go as far as he wanted to because I...
    jewelle1245 jewelle1245 26-30, T 1 Response Jan 5

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    I've always hated my parents.

    They're being mean most of the time. They will do anything to put me down, to make me feel depressed, to annoy me, and to control everything in my life. They have never tried to understand me or to accept my choices and ideas. I do everything they ask me to and I never say "no...
    Hassie2090 Hassie2090 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I Love Them For Only a Few Things

    I love my parents for only a few things, For taking care of me, for paying for my expenses and assetts, and for letting me stay in their house. Everything else about them I feel no love. I hate them. I feel like I was born to be different from them. The way that they think is...
    London182 London182 16-18, F 28 Responses Oct 19, 2007

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    My mother is always watching me like the Big

    Brother, like The Eyes of God. And she is always judging my friends because they are drunkards, gays, fat, and she doesn't even know them well! I hate this and I hate how she sees the world divided between good and bad people. I'm sock of this judgments and her trying to rule...
    monaxi monaxi 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    Just right now when I got home I forgot to

    close the garage door, my step mom came in and said, "why is the garage door open?" My dad came storming up to me saying, "Did you forget to close the garage door?" in a mean tone. Me not wanting to make eye contact to my dad look away and meakly said, "sorry." He pounds his...
    OtakuPanda OtakuPanda 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    I hate my mom so ******* much.

    She made me stop doing what I love, and she made me do things that I never liked since Im 3 years old. Since 3 years old, she made me do Drawing Lessons, Piano Lessons, Math Lessons, Singing Lessons, Mandarin Lessons, English Lessons, Swimming Lessons, Guitar Lessons and other...
    annaambrose annaambrose 16-17 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I grew up listening to other people describe my

    mother as a good mom. Likewise my father was always thought of as a warmhearted and friendly dad. No one knew the truth of what my family life was really like. As as child and teen my parents either ignored me or were overly critical of me. Due to their behavior towards me I...
    Isagoodmom Isagoodmom 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    People I Live With. Nothing More

    Some say it's a phase. That I'll get over it. "You're merely a teenager" they say. But I know better. I know better because I've had to live with the devils I call my parents. I try my damn hardest to be the best daughter they can ever have. I am in all AP classes, gets...
    smileyface1625 smileyface1625 16-17 14 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    Argh

    i cant bear living with them anymor. i hate them soo much, i could be told my mum had died in a car accident and i would smile. i hav day dreams about being told they died! its prob not very healthy but i dont care. they completly ignor me. i haf2 do my own washing, cook my own...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Oct 8, 2007

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    Mother:Loud as Hell,annoyingly naive,

    unattractive(tall,overweight,&black) yet thinks she is the cat's meow,undereducated,irresponsible with money. Father: Harsh spoken,too high expectations,workaholic,partyer,expensive tastes,refuses to learn English well and lose his accent,physically imposing,prone to demanding...
    Orionthelesser Orionthelesser 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2014

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    so I don't know if this is just me

    but anyways, my parents are good people, they give me everything I want and love me. But I don't. I once made a terrible mistake ages ago, I now put all my effort into school and even get pretty good grades but god forbid if i want to go out with my friends. My parents will say...
    devi99 devi99 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 26, 2014

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    My Parents Don't Care About Me

    I honestly believe, after 18 years of experiencing pure hell, that my parents just simply do not care about me. I've always tried so hard to please them, but nothing works. Anything I do or say is turned around onto me. If my mother and I have a disagreement and I try to talk...
    ari190 ari190 18-21 30 Responses May 28, 2011

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    they act like i am the only person

    who lives in the house, do this, do that all day long. we are all adults yet i somehow have to clean up after grown *** people? is it so hard to clean up the mess that you made, why the hell do i have to clean it up. the kitchen is bad enough i have to clean up the mess people...
    anneloves anneloves 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    To the eyes of the outside world,

    i blend in perfectly as a senior high school student, i suffer from the ever increasing turmoil and lack trust in my mother. Honestly, i can’t tell you my personality, attitude and what not, it’s because i’m not the one who decides how i’m looked at, that role will be...
    ManchuYouth ManchuYouth 13-15, M Jan 22

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    Narcistic abuse homeless at 15 to be blinded

    into thinking 2002 was any different the struggle of returning to base a year of exscuse on their behalf for being homeless to a fake restraining order over split briches,Into a lovely narcsistic dysfunctional relationship with a soon to find out meth addict my sons mother 2010...
    doubthomas doubthomas 31-35, M Dec 16, 2014

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    I don't exactly absolutely hate them.

    They just have to realise that I'm not going to spend just f*cking £20 on my brthday (which is two weeks pocket money). What the ****?!
    BlockedNotice BlockedNotice 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    My mom makes fun of me

    for my eyebrows... my. eyebrows. She is such a witch.
    hrmo hrmo 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Why I Hate My Parents

    My dad drank and physically and sexually abused me. My mom ignored it and my cries for help..now they are in their 80's and still only think about themselves..they are ill and my mom complains all the time...god I hate their selfishness
    debigee debigee 46-50 6 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    Dear Dad,

    You arent god.
    delusionsofglamour delusionsofglamour 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9, 2010

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    I hate them so much. They're ignorant

    as ****. They give no single damn. I still cut, for your information. And yeah I was crying. And yeah, I hate your guts and I wish I wasn't your daughter, if you ever had any doubt. They have no idea, how much I'm affected. They think I'm fine with everything. I'm not.
    simmerdame simmerdame 16-17, F Jan 21

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    Omg I hate my parents they're

    such jerks they just took my favorite possessions so yeah and my mom and dad are f.ucking gay as f.uck
    Nick232 Nick232 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 16

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    So my parents got into a fight with me

    and my brother and sister. My mom is mad because my sister didn't pick up the phone when she called. My sister didn't pick up the phone because she left her phone at her apartment. Now my parents aren't coming down for christmas and it makes me mad because my parents won't...
    undeadblackhawk undeadblackhawk 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    I yearn for the day they're divorced,

    so all the bull ******* **** would stop.
    simmerdame simmerdame 16-17, F Dec 22, 2014

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    Destructive

    My parents have always put me down. My father especially. Back in my middle school years, I became so depressed, I considered suicide. I considered just ending it all. I was called worthless, idiotic, stupid, and many other things. It hurt. I had zero self-confidence. I never...
    duClo duClo 18-21, T 5 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    7531yo 7531yo 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    So I'm in the 11th grade

    and I'm starting to seriously worry about my future. My parents are very iresponsable, they didn't save money or anything for my university, and now they are broke. My dad has remaried after the divorce and now has two children. He recently got a new job that pays well, but when...
    DarkOne11 DarkOne11 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2014

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    Nutshell

    I had an epiphany, a sudden realization, that all of my emotional and physical flaws are due to my parents abuse and my insemination My mother has failed miserably as a parent failing to connect and nurse a trust between us and, and when i look back on how grossly inept she was...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M 5 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    I learned from an early age

    that my parents didn't love me, they hated me. Don't misunderstand my parents love her daughter, they just hate every characteristic that makes me... me. And they tell me that every day, every second that I’m with them. They hate the way i dress, all the thing i love they...
    SSLCO SSLCO 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    They call me spoiled,

    anti-social, and lazy; but those annoying ******* don't get that depression drains my energy, changes how I think. Watching you tubers and playing games makes me happy which is the best thing when I'm alone. As broken as I am and at such a young age, my parents should use me as...
    DepressedTeensRus DepressedTeensRus 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    Firstly, I am not writing this to look

    for sympathy or pity from others, I am just at a point where I can not stand either of my parents anymore and I'm am not comfortable enough to tell anyone so I have resorted to an online forum. My parents were high school sweethearts who married shortly after college. My father...
    CKINKAID CKINKAID 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2014

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    so I'm a freshman and my parents think it's not

    normal to hang out with seniors but then they tell me I need to make more friends
    haleykonopka haleykonopka 13-15, M Jan 18

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    For The Love Of A Daughter

    I grew up as a different child from among the rest. I was loved in the beginning, but now as a teen- I'm the bit scum to the earth to my parents. I wanna leave, I wanna run to the arms of someone who will care for me, what I hate the most is I've suffered as a baby and they never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    I Can Finally Say That I Hate My Parents

    At this point, I can honestly say I don't love them anymore. I used to. I used to love them and wonder why they didn't love me like other parents loved their children. I used to think they were just so horrible because of me, that my very presence caused them to behave like that...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F 63 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    I know that sounds awful coming from a 17 year

    old, but it's true. They're emotionally and mentally abusive. I have a fraternal twin sister, and she and I are as different as night and day. She's the "perfect child", always behaving, always working hard, always getting straight A's, never missing school (even if she's sick...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 12, 2014

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    Parents and Stupid Justifications!

    I cant stand my parents. I have spent years pushed in the shadows of the anger trying my best to compare to my siblings that got it all, including the ones of no blood relation. I never did anything wrong but be born with a mouth of honesty, to much for my parents to handle. I...
    strz79 strz79 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 24, 2007

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    I haven't lived up to what my parents wanted to

    be, and they torment me with that fact. I feel like I've failed them. I don't think I have. I'm being who I am. I'm sorry that I couldn't be who they wanted me to be, but I have to be my own person. That's the best thing I can be. I know they don't like it, but there's nothing I...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    I am born in an Indian middle class family.

    They have very high expectations from me. They want me to explore but not to try new things (strange!!! isn't it?) , I always scored very good marks in school, n joined an engineering college after school, but I never wanted it. They always scold me when I am with my friends...
    gizmodeek gizmodeek 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 3

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    My parents seem uncaring of my own wants

    and dreams. Almost as if I'm just a robot to be programmed. They expect high grades in maths and science subjects yet none of them are my passion. My passion is to be a gamer, sure it's not a great passion but doing something I want to do for once is all I can ask for. Since I...
    Kiyomizu Kiyomizu 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    My Story

    My parents are stupid in their way of thinking. They never approved of me having my boyfriend who was from another race. When I got pregnant that was that. They refused to accept me. First, because I was not married. Secondly, because I left University during my last year when I...
    MaryMary01 MaryMary01 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    I can't stand my dad it's like he goes out of

    his way to make me feel horrible he is very cruel he knows just what to say that will hurt you the most and then 5 minutes later he'll say how sorry he is and I'm sick of it there's been times where I thought I should just die but I wouldn't do that because that would mean I...
    anneloves anneloves 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    I hate my parents. I started bowling

    when I was 10. I am 17 and lost interests but they physically won't let me stop. I don't think they realize how depressed I am. Everytime I get upset my mom just said "stop pouting". I hate how my parents tell me to stop expressing my emotions and to stop being ungrateful. They...
    kaylar626 kaylar626 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 17

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    Parents want control,

    all your life long , that's what gets them excited. Otherwise who cares for a bunch of old farts who are more interested in power than nurturing.
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M Oct 29, 2014

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    My parents r bad shltty people.

    They have destroyed my adult life and caused me to be a victim to others. They've paid my rent too but it's not free. I suffer every min of my life due to their abuse. Now my worthless ugly piece of **** father is retiring. And he's depressed so he suddenly wants to dump charges...
    john922 john922 22-25, M Jan 20

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    The experience seems immature,

    but it isn't. It's Christmas Day! My parents brought somebody home today, I don't know why. I got basically no presents, but that's expected because 1. We're Indian and don't properly celebrate it. And 2. I get stuff all the time apparently. The only presents I got were a few...
    LifeIsFandoms LifeIsFandoms 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    I hate saying it but ive given up on trying to

    reach out to them, they will never change, and there the type that put material things first. It makes me laugh that these two got a motor home they never use, a boat and pontune they never use cause there both self contious obviously, motor cycles,quads, and what they don't get...
    sace1375 sace1375 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    Literally all they do is yell at me,

    they try to find faults in everything that I do and everything that I am.
    smurfinaround smurfinaround 18-21, F Dec 19, 2014

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    Let Me Live

    i am so over my parents. them constantly taking away my rights and freedom and constantly ruining my life i just cant deal with it anymore.  i just want to live my life and not have to constantly have them on my back taking my phone and making it so i HAVE NO LIFE...
    brr617 brr617 16-17 85 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    My father and I were going to go our earlier

    today, when he asked me I asked him if we could go later (around 5.) So at 4:45 I came down all ready to go and said "are you almost ready?" He responded by flipping out. It was because he had been drinking. My mother was sitting watching the whole thing and did nothing. I...
    kelsey0616 kelsey0616 13-15, F 7 Responses Jun 1, 2014

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    I hate my parents. I hate the

    so much. They will never understand me and they want to write my life out for me and make me live it. I hate it i wish i can have some freedom. I hate them so much that I just want to die
    truthtobetold truthtobetold 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2014

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    I can't even put into words how much I deeply

    hate my parents. Almost 17 years old and having to live through 14 years of nothing but total abuse from them. Always being insulted and put down because my parents possess the intelligence of a goldfish. Hell, that's an insult to goldfish considering that goldfish possess a...
    SgtRecker97 SgtRecker97 16-17, M 8 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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