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I Hate My Parents

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    My father and I were going to go our earlier

    today, when he asked me I asked him if we could go later (around 5.) So at 4:45 I came down all ready to go and said "are you almost ready?" He responded by flipping out. It was because he had been drinking. My mother was sitting watching the whole thing and did nothing. I...
    kelsey0616 kelsey0616 16-17, F 7 Responses Jun 1, 2014

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    I would like to think

    that they worry for my future and that they love me for who I am regardless of grades and physique. But it's hard considering that my mom stands right next to me talking about the future house that I would buy them when I get my job. Since I was little, they criticized me. Fat...
    DreamFairy8 DreamFairy8 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    My parents suck at being parents.

    I believe that they shouldn't have had any kids. I love them but mostly because I have to, they're my parents. My mom didn't create a nursing relationship with me, she's more like an annoying friend. We get into fights a lot and I have no respect for her. She's a *****. My dad...
    Cascrass Cascrass 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 19

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    Firstly, I am not writing this to look

    for sympathy or pity from others, I am just at a point where I can not stand either of my parents anymore and I'm am not comfortable enough to tell anyone so I have resorted to an online forum. My parents were high school sweethearts who married shortly after college. My father...
    CKINKAID CKINKAID 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    my parents always make me do stuff I dont want

    to do! my older sister wants to go see an outdoor movie tonight and I have to go with them even though I dont want too! they let my older sister do whatever she wants and I'm not even aloud to stay home by myself for more than 45 minutes! its a dumb movie from the 80's that im...
    emagemaflema emagemaflema 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    My father Me and my father have an infamously

    poor relationship, well from my perspective anyway. To him it's...well, I'm not sure. And so begins the conundrum--I can't get a read on my father. Mainly because his vocabulary is so poor that it's difficult to discuss things in a precise and in depth manner. Secondly because...
    snowwhitejrm snowwhitejrm 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    My Story

    My parents are stupid in their way of thinking. They never approved of me having my boyfriend who was from another race. When I got pregnant that was that. They refused to accept me. First, because I was not married. Secondly, because I left University during my last year when I...
    MaryMary01 MaryMary01 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    My Mother doesn't care about me anymore,

    and she doesn't really care about the family. She only cares about her mother and her sister and her brother. She is mean to me a lot and she has only pushed me off a chair when she was angry once. She doesn't care about me and I don't think she loves me either. my dad also has...
    Villymo Villymo 70+ Aug 1

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    Five Valid Reasons: 1: I ask

    for help on my homework and they turn my project into theirs and when I tell them to stop they think I am rejecting them. 2: I do something wrong (because I am human) and they overreact and scold me, and when I try to tell them I did something wrong and that it's not right to...
    Anonymous12393 Anonymous12393 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I hate my dad. He yells at me

    for nothing. I killed my lil brothers animal on a game and my dad yelled at me mad took away my phone and electronics. My mom is a bi*** she was talking behind my back and said "We have to deal with her for the rest of our lives" They're a**holes. They hate me when I have done...
    xxDifferentxx xxDifferentxx 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Let Me Live

    i am so over my parents. them constantly taking away my rights and freedom and constantly ruining my life i just cant deal with it anymore.  i just want to live my life and not have to constantly have them on my back taking my phone and making it so i HAVE NO LIFE...
    brr617 brr617 16-17 88 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    Time for more rants about how bad my parents

    are woohoo. So basically my actions are with the best intentions but more often than not, my parents are able to freaking find a way to lecture me cause what I've done is undesirable? Like what the actual ****. Look here's an example: I tend to not tell them anything that is...
    Sorren Sorren 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I Want To Just Leave!

    My family is from India, we moved to Canada when i was 5. I have been brought up here, gone to school here. My parents want me to be the type of girl who cooks, cleans and does all the house work without saying a word. They expect that i should be as smart as my elder brother (he...
    CagedIn CagedIn 18-21, F 14 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    You complain because I never hang out with you,

    but you make no effort to hang out with me. You complain because I never talk to you, but when I try to talk to you, I get told to shut up... What am I supposed to do???
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    so theres me taking a 5 minute break from

    cleaning so i could check my EP messages, replies, etc... and my mum starts screaming at me calling me a "lazy piece if sh*t" so i reply with "i'm only taking a 5 minute break, so can you back of" to which she then has a go at me for being rude, so i walk out the room so as not...
    randomboy42 randomboy42 16-17, M 4 Responses Jun 18

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    So I blocked my mother on Twitter.

    .. I'm afraid something I say on there she will twist and make me sound like a horrible person. She messaged me mad that I had blocked her... I told her straight up why. I said that I I also want my Twitter to be private just for my good friends. She kinda freaked out when she...
    Chrissiwho1989 Chrissiwho1989 26-30 3 days ago

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    They don't feed me food.

    They abuse me with belts, slippers, and hard things like the remote. They told me to order food. I chose some things and they are telling me to get out of the kitchen because they don't want me to eat. I was putting my slippers on and then out of no where my mom hit me because I...
    DeniseGban DeniseGban 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Yeah this may sound like it's coming from some

    spoiled ungrateful person, but have you ever felt it from our side? Do you know what it's like living like this being suffocated. So the typical American family, yeah their kids are messed up and getting into things they shouldn't, but they teach their kids how to love and how...
    Lexlight555 Lexlight555 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    It is hard to talk to my family

    when we are going through a tough time. They do not try to understand. They think they can relate. They do not listen. They do not comfort. They yell back. They ask, "Why?!" They laugh and laugh. They doubt our feelings. They are afraid to let us (my sister and I) be open to...
    Yoyoko Yoyoko 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So much. No matter what Im judged by them.

    Everybody asks me why I have such a low self esteem and Im quite sure its because for my parents I was never good enought. Or they made fun of me for being bullied. ''You're such a **** up, no wonder, you barely have friends.'' - My father.
    nemelabychtubyt nemelabychtubyt 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    What I do not understand,

    is why it's okay to insult your f*cking child and then expect them to respect you, as if you treated them like they f*cking deserved to be. Hell no, I'm not going to admire you as a parent if you make me feel like ****. You're supposed to bring your kid's self esteem up not...
    NoF7cksSeven NoF7cksSeven 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 12

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    I hate my parents so much!

    I try so hard to be the poster child & no matter what I do they always judge me, they always blame everything on me, they never believe me, they never trust me & I just hate them so much.
    Jamee112 Jamee112 18-21, F Jul 31

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    My mom and I got into a fight

    and hadn't talked in almost 3 weeks. Sunday she busts into my room telling me how I was being disrespectful during the fight even though the fight was over her insulting me and belittling my depression. I apologized for how I reacted, but not for anything more than that. She...
    blackroses75 blackroses75 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I'm starting to lose my mind.

    I hate my mom. Since I've been a little kid that she embarasses me in front of the rest of the family, saying inappropriate things about me. She used to say that I used to compete with her for atention, and she plays the victim all the freaking time. She acts like a kid, sulking...
    Claudiassophia Claudiassophia 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    my parents have some fantasyes of what their

    perfect daughter would be and believe me to be her and she's opposite of me. they want to have a super attractive funny girl who spends her time on makeup and beauty and boyfriends and that girly stuff and prays to god for a perfect family she's going to have. i mean they even...
    MadCrafter MadCrafter 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    I'm sitting here being called a smartass

    when I'm simply continuing the conversation that they started. Am I not allowed to talk to you like you're an actual friend or something? ---- I want to punch my mom in the mouth every time I get in the car from school, she just doesn't know when to quit picking at someone. I...
    Mastixz Mastixz 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    I don't HATE them but how they expect me to do

    everything for them. Ever since I was young, they always made me translate calls on appointments, questions, services, bills and other financial issues, etc. Basically, adult stuff. They make me do this because they aren't fluent in English- I understand, but they don't...
    Yoyoko Yoyoko 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Dear Mother, Would you kindly take the stick

    out of your ***. Best Wishes, Everyone
    SvetlanaVDB SvetlanaVDB 16-17, T 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I have always been the good.

    I was first to graduate high school and the first to go to college but yet I'm the only one with a curfew. Apparently I can't go out unless the whole house is clean. Ever since I was a child I always had to clean the entire house and cook dinner and now I have two jobs and I...
    ae2467 ae2467 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 31

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    my mum makes me feel worthless

    and I hate myself for it. when I get in trouble and she's with my dad ranting about me, and she's knows I can hear from another room, she'll speak louder, starts insulting me and condemning everything I do. I can be quite rude to them and I had no idea why, they say I have no...
    Emerald98 Emerald98 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 7

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    Destructive

    My parents have always put me down. My father especially. Back in my middle school years, I became so depressed, I considered suicide. I considered just ending it all. I was called worthless, idiotic, stupid, and many other things. It hurt. I had zero self-confidence. I never...
    duClo duClo 18-21, T 5 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    Nutshell

    I had an epiphany, a sudden realization, that all of my emotional and physical flaws are due to my parents abuse and my insemination My mother has failed miserably as a parent failing to connect and nurse a trust between us and, and when i look back on how grossly inept she was...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M 8 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    There is a guy on here whose profile pic looks

    very similar to my father. It's not him but I had to look twice at his pic to confirm. I know it's irrational but I was filled with anger and hatred toward this guy I don't know.
    Kingshelman Kingshelman 31-35, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    sirdabsalot420 sirdabsalot420 18-21, M Nov 19, 2014

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    I Love Them For Only a Few Things

    I love my parents for only a few things, For taking care of me, for paying for my expenses and assetts, and for letting me stay in their house. Everything else about them I feel no love. I hate them. I feel like I was born to be different from them. The way that they think is...
    London182 London182 16-17, F 29 Responses Oct 19, 2007

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    I hate my parents sooooo much they don't have a

    clue what I am going through in school and to top it of they just have to be absolutely horrible to me when I get home, there is really no point anymore, they cause me more suffering then they actually love me. I really hate my mum at this point I want to move out and live by...
    Lotty15 Lotty15 16-17, F 7 Responses Jun 15

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    Dear Dad,

    You arent god.
    delusionsofglamour delusionsofglamour 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 9, 2010

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    just4u97 just4u97 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    My dad has two modes **** mode: the one he is

    to me Nice mode:the one he is to his girlfriend and my siblings. :(
    ReeceLG ReeceLG 18-21, M 16 hrs ago

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    My parents never tell me

    that something's gonna be okay. I hate them. They never teach me but they ask me to be the best at school. I hate to think that i hate them so much, but i just do. I wish that i could love them but i can't. I wish that i could have a better parents. A dad that can be my first...
    Lollitan Lollitan 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    If my parents gave a damn about me,

    if they were encouraging. I would have been a completely different person. I am here to get a friend. I want to someone to care for me. But why would anyone. I can't expect anything from anyone. Its just the parents. And I don't mean a thing to them. I am so tired, I am so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I'm so happy!! My sister is coming to live with

    me! Background: Our Father is in Jail for sexually abusing me. Our mother is psycho and has hit my sister. Our mother stopped me from seeing my sister for 2 years. I fought that and now we have a good relationship. She is moving in with me now and will no longer be with my...
    Chrissiwho1989 Chrissiwho1989 26-30 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I learned from an early age

    that my parents didn't love me, they hated me. Don't misunderstand my parents love her daughter, they just hate every characteristic that makes me... me. And they tell me that every day, every second that I’m with them. They hate the way i dress, all the thing i love they...
    SSLCO SSLCO 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I Can Finally Say That I Hate My Parents

    At this point, I can honestly say I don't love them anymore. I used to. I used to love them and wonder why they didn't love me like other parents loved their children. I used to think they were just so horrible because of me, that my very presence caused them to behave like that...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F 63 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    So I'm new to this app,

    so bare with me, but I really need to express the hurt I'm feeling right now. So back in January I was suffering from the worst depression in my life. I had to quit my job because of my panic attacks and life was becoming too much. After I quit I began meditation and yoga for my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I really hate my parents.

    Most of all my mom. She's the reason my whole life is a mess, I'm always trying to be optimistic about everything but as soon as my mom interferes she ruins it. She divorced my dad when she was obviously cheating ( he didn't know) and I had to adjust with living alone with her...
    Confiine Confiine 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 10