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I Hate My Relationship

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    It saddens me to admit,

    but it's true. I hate my relationship. I hate what it's turned into. It use to be this fun happy relationship, but now it only frustration and anger all the time. I try so hard to get back to where him and I were, but it isn't easy at all. I believe where are biggest fault...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    Yup. Me, Too.

    In a moment of frustration, I did google "I hate my relationship" simply because I didn't know where else to express this. I read a great book titled Coming Apart about how to see the signs of a relationship on its way out the door. I tried desperately on SEVERAL attempts to...
    thisiscrazy123 thisiscrazy123 31-35 3 Responses May 6, 2012

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    Too Worried And Lonely To Leave

    I hate my relationship. Let me give you some background story. I spent the last 3 years of my life locked in my room and wasting my life away on the computer. I decided to lose weight and reshape myself. I successfully lost 50 lbs, I traveled around the United States with friends...
    MarieMcCloud MarieMcCloud 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    All I can hear whenever he tells me he loves me

    is him screaming "you're ******* crazy" at me like he does whenever I feel any sort of emotion he doesn't like. I'm starting to believe I am. I don't know how to leave.
    caitlinisnifty caitlinisnifty 18-21, F Mar 22

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    After 6 months of distance he told me we

    couldn't be together unless I moved alway from my life to be with him. So I did. He gave me some time to get on my feet while we both lived with my dad, but always makes me feel guilty for whatever situation were in, and is always upset about work, or "the way I'm acting" and...
    caitlinisnifty caitlinisnifty 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I Can't Handle Her Drunk

    We've been engaged for just over a year now. I love her to death, but some things she does just make me wish there was a tangible reality check to show her how things are. I mostly chalk that up to issues that come along in every serious relationship. But tonight was too much...
    Hipshotdisaster Hipshotdisaster 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    It's Just Not There Anymore

    Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two years the love just isn't there anymore the things he does and say just makes me mad it's to the point to where i don't want to be around him anymore.I just want him to be a man grow up.He does have a job though and i don't want...
    kyleesmiley kyleesmiley 18-21, F Jul 10, 2013

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    We've been together just under 2 years

    and have a newborn baby together. I'm absolutely sick of being spoken to like a child and every tiny thing being criticised "oh you shouldn't do that" "what are you doing?" "Why?" I'm constantly being interrogated like he's TRYING to find something to moan about. And to top it...
    louisienna louisienna 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    My bfs really nice and takes care of me

    but he's so slow and blind (or is really good at acting it) he'll do things so inconsiderate like leave 3 hrs away with me locked out knowing I've been staying with him for over a year and force himself on me to cuddle. I do not like his demeanor whatsoever. I just like that he...
    Craazyy1994 Craazyy1994 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    Simply Tired

    Have you ever felt like not waking up in the morning to avoid your other half? This is my life and im so sick of living this way. He lies to me constantly and when I make him mad he goes and cheats on me. Some physical and just messaging women on craigslist. I feel trapped in my...
    Ashley103 Ashley103 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    Stuck

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now. I live with him rent free so I feel stuck because if I leave I have no place to go and no money saved up. I'm not happy with him anymore. He doesn't have a car and relies on his parents for everything. I'm 27 yrs old and I feel like...
    Lak1985 Lak1985 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    I hate being a wife and mother.

    I love my children but hate the mother role i play every ******* day. Im not even sure I'm in love with my husband any more.
    bummymummy bummymummy 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 18

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    9:25

    Tonight I laid in bed and I said to myself, "If he doesn't say 1 thing to me or at least touch me by 9:25 it's over."  HA....I don't know why I even do that to myself. I know the outcome. Of course he's not. Selfish people don't think about others. So I got up...
    taija taija 19-21, F 9 Responses Oct 4, 2007

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    Where Are We At Right Now

    We have been together for almost 3 years. Our relationship started very sweet. I thought I had the best relationship, a romantic, smart, and just perfect for me. First year, we cerebrated our special date ( the date he asked me out) every month. We fought sometimes about little...
    bjbkjbkcj bjbkjbkcj 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2013

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    I am thinking of leaving my marriage

    but I am scared. A couple of days ago my brother and husband got into an explosive fight over the phone. My brother is upset that my husband doesn't want him around our child. My brother drinks but is never out of control when around our son. My husband recently told me he is...
    li0906 li0906 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    Too Upset to Cry Anymore

    I have been dealing with a guy named Ronell for the past 3 years. At the beginning of the relationship, he was so attentive and understanding. Now he has turned into the worst person that I have ever knew. His abuse is mental. He is very arrogant and cocky and get this he has 3...
    need4desire need4desire 26-30, F Jan 5, 2008

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    Women are worthless in every aspect of a

    relationship except for the physical part... Think about it for sec. When you first start going out with a girl, YOU are the one expected to plan out the date, YOU are the one who is supposed to entertain her and show her a good time, YOU are the one who is supposed to win her...
    BloodyVampire BloodyVampire 41-45, M Jun 18

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    I wouldn't even call it a relationship anymore.

    Before we started dating we were friends for many years, I was always in a long term relationship so we never connected on a romantic level. Then one summer, three years ago, I was finally single, we were both at the same friend's BBQ . All it took was one look across the...
    Belle1014 Belle1014 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    I Hate My Relationship

    i ahte my relationship with my boyfriend we have been together for 4 1/2 yrs and it just seems like he is not gonna change he always wants to go out by himself he never answers the phone when he is gone he always comes up with excusses on why he is not answering we have a baby...
    mayragomez61 mayragomez61 26-30 3 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    I Wish Things Were Different.....

    Good morning world, On this November 21st day at 12:52 am; I'm all alone, up thinking about him and what took place yesterday. Honestly, I wish I was happy in my relationship. I wish he were the man I deserve, the man that promised to do right by me. He is so unfair in this...
    ashleyr1992 ashleyr1992 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2013

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    ...stuck...

    This is my first time coming out and venting about my life situations and I came to this site hoping to get some good feedback to how I'm feeling and whats going on. I don't have the money to see a shrink nor do I really want to and the people that are close to me in my life are...
    Casteel2210 Casteel2210 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 26, 2013

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    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 5

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    And So, It Is...

    I am not really sure what i am doing here. I have followed the link from digg.com and now find myself attracted to the anonymity of this website. This post is one about lack of courage. Nothing brave is written in this post, and stupidity will be sprinkled through out. My...
    NightInRustingArmor NightInRustingArmor 21-25, M 13 Responses Oct 3, 2006

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    Im Stuck...

    i have been dating my girlfriend for about 5 years now. we are both in college and we live together. i have no family living close by (not even in the same state). i have started to drift away from my girlfriend in the past few months. she is honestly everything that i don't want...
    helpimstuck helpimstuck 22-25 3 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    Waiting For The Perfect Jail Break

    When I first met him,he was shy so I thought he was a good guy. I have 2 kids by him now but he's verbally abusive. Every day I'm amofo r or a b. Im dumb & lazy. Hate being with him. He thinks just cause he's got the job & paying for everything he's the ****. I'm holding out for...
    mun3ca mun3ca 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    I been with this girl

    for four years.2 And lately, I'm starting to hate her. I'm not sure if there is love yet. She complains, about hugging mekissing me, cuddling, talking to me, what the ****.
    Unlovedface Unlovedface 16-17, T Mar 24

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    I Am a Wuss

      I hate my girlfriend. We have been together for three years. First two years were great. Third year I was deployed and wounded in Iraq. I lost over 60 lbs due to  my injuries but almost fully recovered. Our sex life pretty much stopped...Due to myself. I just needed...
    missintexas missintexas 21-25 6 Responses Feb 28, 2008

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    I Love You But Get Nothing Back, I Give Up....

    I fell for what I thought was a really nice, loving, caring man who had just come out of a 20 year marriage. I am younger than him and thought that would not matter if we both felt the same love for each other. He has turned into a controlling man, he isn't aggressive he...
    BlackCatBlackKitten BlackCatBlackKitten 22-25 2 Responses Aug 3, 2011

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    I Don't Know If I Love You Anymore

    My bf used to mean the world to me. Now I just am always annoys. He's immature and he doesn't look at me the way he used to. I think he's unhappy but he won't leave. I don't know if I wanna be with him anymore. I don't like being tied down. Especially with someone who is immature...
    13nikki0710 13nikki0710 18-21, F Jan 20, 2013

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    I Love My Boyfriend But I Hate Our Relationship...

    My boyfriend and I met when I was 16, he was 21. It was a one night stand turned in to a relationship. At first things were amazing. .. then about six months later things turned around. We were living in our apartment together, I will still in high school full time and my...
    sunflwr09 sunflwr09 18-21 3 Responses Oct 15, 2010

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    So I'm little confused.

    . There is a guy. We spent like a year and a half pretending that we are 'together'.. He never asked me out, but he introduced me to his parents and said I am his girl. I told him all the bad stuff that has happened to me and why I find it so hard to let someone in. The weird...
    azarr azarr 18-21, F Oct 10

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    Trouble In Brockville

    because I am a single dad of two, and I was looking for a partner when I found a wonderfull lady that I fell in love with. I moved in with her and her 3 children who I also came to love. Now I can't do a thing right in her eyes . Even if I do excatlywhat she says I still don't do...
    Woody Woody 36-40, M Jul 12, 2007

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    I've been in a relationship

    for 10 years with the premise that my boyfriend and I would get married, after a year he bought me a promise ring and had been accepted by my family... things were comfortable with us and got along. Half way into year 8 though my family (mom and sister) decided they wanted to...
    justagirl42 justagirl42 41-45, F Dec 14, 2013

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    I Love My Boyfriend But I Hate This Relationship

    We met a year and a half ago at work and at the time he was going through some financial problems so every date we went on I had to pay. I literally paid for everything he couldnt even leave the tip. I bought his kids their christmas gifts, I even paid for our entire Valentines...
    jlsmommy jlsmommy 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    Stupid situation now,

    ,, I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. Everything was really great for most of that time, she was a really amazing girlfriend. She helped me through some personal problems I had around the time we met, she used to spend every night with me, go to all my family events...
    alcool91 alcool91 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    I am A first time mom

    and I absolutely love my new son but my husband is so neglectful to both of us. I stay at home and he thinks I need to do everything for him. When he comes come he literally holds our son for 3 minutes at most. Then be saga he's tired a d worked hard. This even happens on the...
    li0906 li0906 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Is getting maried so important

    for people , they want me to get marry sooner as they could , i don't want to get maried , i still have lots of things to do , my mother said he is a good men , i'm not interrested , what should i do run away :(
    helarebah helarebah 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    Work On It Or Give It Space

    I am twenty this year and so is my boyfriend. We have been dating for almost 2 years now and living together practically the whole time (due to me being leaving a depressing home with no other family and money issues). I went to school with him and have known him for almost 10...
    younganddumb17 younganddumb17 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    Today, I wake up and first thing I want to do

    is smoke. I hate my life, hate myself and hate this relationship that I put myself into for the past 1.5 years. I started dating this guy whom I thought was funny, caring and loving. After six months of relationship he started making excuses that he didn't want to have sex...
    gimmins gimmins 36-40, M 2 Responses May 13

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    Maybe Not Hate, Exactly...

    I am frustrated with the constant negativity. He is an *******. Says he isn't anymore. He seems to find more faults with me than positives. I don't like the way he treats all 7 kids. He always thinks I am what I am not, and not what I am. he sais he loves me dearly. but why...
    MaliceMei MaliceMei 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2012

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