I Hate My Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 286 People

    Too Worried And Lonely To Leave

    I hate my relationship. Let me give you some background story. I spent the last 3 years of my life locked in my room and wasting my life away on the computer. I decided to lose weight and reshape myself. I successfully lost 50 lbs, I traveled around the United States with friends...
    MarieMcCloud MarieMcCloud
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 20, 2013

    I've been with my boyfriend

    for more than 3 years and we've lived together for almost 2 and I guess I should just say that I ******* hate my relationship, actually I hate HIM. He's given me absolutely no reason to trust him again, he's such a ******* liar and does not care about my feelings. I wish I could...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 2, 2015

    okay, so I have a boyfriend

    who I'm not happy with. We live together and I know that I don't love him. He is beautiful and people tell me I am so lucky to have such a great, good looking boyfriend. I know he truly loves me. I feel horrible but I think that the problem. lies much deeper than that. I feel...
    anonymous0830 anonymous0830
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Dec 29, 2014

    I been with this girl

    for four years.2 And lately, I'm starting to hate her. I'm not sure if there is love yet. She complains, about hugging mekissing me, cuddling, talking to me, what the ****.
    Unlovedface Unlovedface
    18-21, T
    Mar 24, 2014

    My bfs really nice and takes care of me

    but he's so slow and blind (or is really good at acting it) he'll do things so inconsiderate like leave 3 hrs away with me locked out knowing I've been staying with him for over a year and force himself on me to cuddle. I do not like his demeanor whatsoever. I just like that he...
    Craazyy1994 Craazyy1994
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2014

    Maybe Not Hate, Exactly...

    I am frustrated with the constant negativity. He is an *******. Says he isn't anymore. He seems to find more faults with me than positives. I don't like the way he treats all 7 kids. He always thinks I am what I am not, and not what I am. he sais he loves me dearly. but why...
    MaliceMei MaliceMei
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 21, 2012

    I've been in a relationship

    for 10 years with the premise that my boyfriend and I would get married, after a year he bought me a promise ring and had been accepted by my family... things were comfortable with us and got along. Half way into year 8 though my family (mom and sister) decided they wanted to...
    justagirl42 justagirl42
    41-45, F
    Dec 14, 2013

    Stupid situation now,

    ,, I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. Everything was really great for most of that time, she was a really amazing girlfriend. She helped me through some personal problems I had around the time we met, she used to spend every night with me, go to all my family events...
    alcool91 alcool91
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    amelcc11 amelcc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 3, 2015

    Women are worthless in every aspect of a

    relationship except for the physical part... Think about it for sec. When you first start going out with a girl, YOU are the one expected to plan out the date, YOU are the one who is supposed to entertain her and show her a good time, YOU are the one who is supposed to win her...
    BloodyVampire BloodyVampire
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Jun 18, 2014

    I wouldn't even call it a relationship anymore.

    Before we started dating we were friends for many years, I was always in a long term relationship so we never connected on a romantic level. Then one summer, three years ago, I was finally single, we were both at the same friend's BBQ . All it took was one look across the...
    Belle1014 Belle1014
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 28, 2014

    ...stuck...

    This is my first time coming out and venting about my life situations and I came to this site hoping to get some good feedback to how I'm feeling and whats going on. I don't have the money to see a shrink nor do I really want to and the people that are close to me in my life are...
    Casteel2210 Casteel2210
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 26, 2013

    9:25

    Tonight I laid in bed and I said to myself, "If he doesn't say 1 thing to me or at least touch me by 9:25 it's over."  HA....I don't know why I even do that to myself. I know the outcome. Of course he's not. Selfish people don't think about others. So I got up...
    taija taija
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Oct 4, 2007

    I am thinking of leaving my marriage

    but I am scared. A couple of days ago my brother and husband got into an explosive fight over the phone. My brother is upset that my husband doesn't want him around our child. My brother drinks but is never out of control when around our son. My husband recently told me he is...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 18, 2014

    And So, It Is...

    I am not really sure what i am doing here. I have followed the link from digg.com and now find myself attracted to the anonymity of this website. This post is one about lack of courage. Nothing brave is written in this post, and stupidity will be sprinkled through out. My...
    NightInRustingArmor NightInRustingArmor
    22-25, M
    13 Responses Oct 3, 2006

    I Wish Things Were Different.....

    Good morning world, On this November 21st day at 12:52 am; I'm all alone, up thinking about him and what took place yesterday. Honestly, I wish I was happy in my relationship. I wish he were the man I deserve, the man that promised to do right by me. He is so unfair in this...
    ashleyr1992 ashleyr1992
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 21, 2013

    The worst it's ever been right now

    and sometimes I really wonder why I'm staying? Am I too locked into love or have I developed the fear of being alone...?
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2015

    I hate being a wife and mother.

    I love my children but hate the mother role i play every ******* day. Im not even sure I'm in love with my husband any more.
    bummymummy bummymummy
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 18, 2014

    We've been together just under 2 years

    and have a newborn baby together. I'm absolutely sick of being spoken to like a child and every tiny thing being criticised "oh you shouldn't do that" "what are you doing?" "Why?" I'm constantly being interrogated like he's TRYING to find something to moan about. And to top it...
    louisienna louisienna
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 28, 2014

    I am A first time mom

    and I absolutely love my new son but my husband is so neglectful to both of us. I stay at home and he thinks I need to do everything for him. When he comes come he literally holds our son for 3 minutes at most. Then be saga he's tired a d worked hard. This even happens on the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 16, 2014

    ok so I was at my boyfriends house

    and it's my birthday and I told him that Parker (my cousin but he didn't know that) bought me a present and he freaked out and told his grandparents that I had a new boyfriend named Parker that I was cheating on him and no one listened when I said it was my cousin and the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2015

    It saddens me to admit,

    but it's true. I hate my relationship. I hate what it's turned into. It use to be this fun happy relationship, but now it only frustration and anger all the time. I try so hard to get back to where him and I were, but it isn't easy at all. I believe where are biggest fault...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2014

    I Don't Know If I Love You Anymore

    My bf used to mean the world to me. Now I just am always annoys. He's immature and he doesn't look at me the way he used to. I think he's unhappy but he won't leave. I don't know if I wanna be with him anymore. I don't like being tied down. Especially with someone who is immature...
    13nikki0710 13nikki0710
    18-21, F
    Jan 20, 2013
    Differentisgood Differentisgood
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 5, 2014

    Where Are We At Right Now

    We have been together for almost 3 years. Our relationship started very sweet. I thought I had the best relationship, a romantic, smart, and just perfect for me. First year, we cerebrated our special date ( the date he asked me out) every month. We fought sometimes about little...
    bjbkjbkcj bjbkjbkcj
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2013

    Today, I wake up and first thing I want to do

    is smoke. I hate my life, hate myself and hate this relationship that I put myself into for the past 1.5 years. I started dating this guy whom I thought was funny, caring and loving. After six months of relationship he started making excuses that he didn't want to have sex...
    gimmins gimmins
    36-40, M
    2 Responses May 13, 2014

    My marriage is a horror story.

    My husband is lucky to even call me his wife. I'm beautiful, intelligent, & loyal. We also have a gorgeous son. To start off with, I met my husband when I got out of a rocky relationship. I needed a "friend" so I took up an offer to meet with him. I was in a vulnerable position...
    dbdz dbdz
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 7, 2015

    After 6 months of distance he told me we

    couldn't be together unless I moved alway from my life to be with him. So I did. He gave me some time to get on my feet while we both lived with my dad, but always makes me feel guilty for whatever situation were in, and is always upset about work, or "the way I'm acting" and...
    caitlinisnifty caitlinisnifty
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 20, 2014

    I am 27 years old. I've been with my girlfriend

    since my senior year of high school, through college, and over 10 years total. We started off so in love--to the point that each of us sacrificed friends, hobbies, etc to spend more time together. We moved in together in college, earlier than almost anyone else and we've lived...
    RyanKellogg RyanKellogg
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Apr 9, 2015

    Work On It Or Give It Space

    I am twenty this year and so is my boyfriend. We have been dating for almost 2 years now and living together practically the whole time (due to me being leaving a depressing home with no other family and money issues). I went to school with him and have known him for almost 10...
    younganddumb17 younganddumb17
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 27, 2013

    I've never been good at relationships sometimes

    I think I am just not meant to have one. I'm always depressed and angry at myself. Every time I look in the mirror I fe disgusted with my appearance and it hurts because there is nothing I can do about it and it makes it hard for me to love someone else... I don't even think I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 17, 2015

    Waiting For The Perfect Jail Break

    When I first met him,he was shy so I thought he was a good guy. I have 2 kids by him now but he's verbally abusive. Every day I'm amofo r or a b. Im dumb & lazy. Hate being with him. He thinks just cause he's got the job & paying for everything he's the ****. I'm holding out for...
    mun3ca mun3ca
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2013

    Simply Tired

    Have you ever felt like not waking up in the morning to avoid your other half? This is my life and im so sick of living this way. He lies to me constantly and when I make him mad he goes and cheats on me. Some physical and just messaging women on craigslist. I feel trapped in my...
    Ashley103 Ashley103
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 27, 2013

    December 28th of this year will mark 3 years

    for me and my boyfriend/father of my daughter... It's been ALONG 3 years too. Our relationship as any started off perfect, we were in love, we were inseparable...we could finish each others thoughts and ect. When we met, I had a son from a previous relationship, by which he...
    trustgod0713 trustgod0713
    26-30
    Oct 29, 2014

    I Love My Boyfriend But I Hate This Relationship

    We met a year and a half ago at work and at the time he was going through some financial problems so every date we went on I had to pay. I literally paid for everything he couldnt even leave the tip. I bought his kids their christmas gifts, I even paid for our entire Valentines...
    jlsmommy jlsmommy
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 23, 2013

    All I can hear whenever he tells me he loves me

    is him screaming "you're ******* crazy" at me like he does whenever I feel any sort of emotion he doesn't like. I'm starting to believe I am. I don't know how to leave.
    caitlinisnifty caitlinisnifty
    18-21, F
    Mar 22, 2014

    Is getting maried so important

    for people , they want me to get marry sooner as they could , i don't want to get maried , i still have lots of things to do , my mother said he is a good men , i'm not interrested , what should i do run away :(
    helarebah helarebah
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 6, 2014

    Yup. Me, Too.

    In a moment of frustration, I did google "I hate my relationship" simply because I didn't know where else to express this. I read a great book titled Coming Apart about how to see the signs of a relationship on its way out the door. I tried desperately on SEVERAL attempts to...
    thisiscrazy123 thisiscrazy123
    31-35
    3 Responses May 6, 2012
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

    When u hate the man who is the father of our

    child and u pray to god every night that the baby won't grow up n be a jerk like his father
    lil1ontheway lil1ontheway
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2015
    sometimespresent sometimespresent
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 29, 2015
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