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I Hate My Roommate

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    Never Room With A Friend.

    You will start to hate them. You'll notice their little habits and some of them might disgust you are annoy the sh*t outta you. Before you know it you'll get into a argument with them and then **BOOM* the friendship is over. Most people are just better friends then they are...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 18-21, F 1 Response May 2, 2011

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    Not Finals Week!

    After reading some of the other roommate stories, this seems incredibly mild. But it's just one of those things I gotta complain about. So, yeah, last week of school; FINALS week.You know, the week where your social life all but disappears and you become intimate friends with...
    kolsz7 kolsz7 18-21, F 1 Response May 7, 2012

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    I Don't Hate Her, Just Her Attitude.

    My roommate has this passive aggressive, holier than thou, bullshit attitude. She does/says so many things that just **** me of with a total disregard for my feelings. We live in a two bedroom apartment and we have a years lease that is easy to get out of. She's younger than me...
    pinkspikes pinkspikes 22-25, F 4 Responses May 25, 2011

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    I don't hate her (my sister) she just never

    cleans up unless my mom literally makes her do it. She's so messy and never listen to me! :/
    cotygal123 cotygal123 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    She doesn't bathe often

    unless reminded, she does laundry like every other month, she doesn't clean up after herself. I constantly find glasses she's used for milk left on the counter to cement. Worst of all, she will complain about things but do nothing to resolve the situation on her own. She wants...
    Sopro Sopro 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I don't hate her- but she's bugging me.

    One of the things she does often (and I'm not sure why it bothers me so much) but she will ask me nosy questions and then when I answer her she literally won't say anything. Sometimes I even repeat my answer and she'll just walk away and do something else. I want to ask her or...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 18

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    She is NOT respectful!

    I'm in the dorms and she leaves the damn door wide open every time she leaves the room to go next door to our neighbors, and every time I have to climb down from my lofted bed and shut it! If it was closed when she came in, she should shut it when she leaves. It's just so rude...
    arigray arigray 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    Okay so my roommate is also my best friend.

    I own the three bedroom house and he has one of the bedrooms. A few weeks ago he was at his boss's house at a party. I was bored that night so I asked him if I could go over. His response was that "they aren't my type of people." He's been to several of those parties and I am...
    gabeveeh gabeveeh 26-30, M Dec 12, 2013

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    When I first met the roommate I am having

    problems with he seemed odd, weird even. When he started playing my Dragon Age game I found out exactly how weird. He turned into an ******* when you tried to give him tips and after that our relationship went down hill. He doesn't realize it but the only reason I am acting like...
    Nannernade Nannernade 22-25, M Oct 2

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    I'm Actually Praying My Roommate Doesn't Find A Job...

    Where to even begin? I made a move from PA to FL over the summer for school. I already knew I wouldn't be able to afford it on my own and I didn't want to get stuck with someone I didn't know since I wasn't familiar with the area. Anyway, I have this guy I've been good friends...
    alkeys alkeys 22-25, F Dec 8, 2011

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    I live in the dorms, meaning we share one room,

    and I seriously love it when she sleeps out at her boyfriend's place... honestly it's like a holiday!
    arigray arigray 18-21, F Nov 11

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    Mtv Casting Award Winning Series--roommates!?

     TRUE LIFE: I Have Roommate IssuesHas your living situation become a nightmare? Has your home - the one place that should be your sanctuary - become the last place you want to be? Do you hate the thought of coming home to find your roommate already there? Is your roommate a...
    MTVProducer MTVProducer 26-30, F Jan 19, 2010

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    Well she is actually my ex-roommate

    but she still comes around as often as when she lived with me. She did this online camera thing and as I am trying to sleep for my early morning classes I would keep hearing moaning and slapping in her room. Don't get me wrong it was really funny the first month, the next couple...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 26

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    She Is Everywere!annnnnnnoying!like Hell!

    i don't generally hate people i try n't to because i to would n't like someone bashing how much they hate me am only human,so i guess she is only human,she is a random roommate that i just got put with,i just want to remove all this bottle up bitterness i have,okay she is cooler...
    BeingRose BeingRose 18-21, F 2 Responses May 25, 2011

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    My roommate has been stealing my food.

    I was too embarrassed to talk about it so I started to keep my snacks in a storage box and put the whole box in my closet. But she didn't stop. I feel really uncomfortable about her opening my personal closet. I don't know why she enjoying taking others' snacks so much. Every...
    lilex lilex 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    What A Weekend: Think Your Roommate Is Terrible?

    Wow what a weekend. Think you had a bad roommate? Let’s compare notes. Where should I start? Well, let me fast forward through the entire year of her constantly bumming food and other items off of me (did I mention it was because of her running out of money on her food card...
    thoughtlessthoughts thoughtlessthoughts 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    I Don't Hate Her, I Just Hate What She Is Like

    Because I’m not in a good mood.. And I don’t know how long I can last.. But my college roommate is ******* me off. She is way too mature for my liking, and I’m not saying I’m immature, but she just never knows how to have fun, or be a little more open-minded. We come...
    WeArePilots WeArePilots 18-21, F Aug 26, 2012

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    I am a very shy and reserved person.

    I have trouble standing up for myself and am definitely not assertive. My roommate is messy and rude and horribly mean to me. When I Skype my older sister, she interjects in the conversation if I say something that is "not right". She is always right and I am always wrong...
    yellowdog222 yellowdog222 18-21 Jan 17

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    I live with 5 other girls.

    4 of them are ok, but the 5th one is so disrespectful. I'm in my room almost all the time just to avoid her. She acts like the common areas is hers. "Take your shoes off at the door, no shoes on the couch, blah blah blah!" I don't get it cause all the other girls like her...
    beautifulmystery00 beautifulmystery00 22-25, F Mar 3

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    My Roommate

    I hate my roommate. I just want to use this anonymous website to vent all sorts of nastiness about her. mua ha ha ha ha ha ha >:[ Ummm... she's a butthead... and I'm too nice... I don't have a backbone... omg, seee, I can't be mean!!!! :( I don't even curse. Even...
    minnie22mouse minnie22mouse 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    She's so annoying and

    so dirty! Why do they think they own the place if everything split 50/50 it's so stupid.
    MarineQueenB MarineQueenB 26-30, F Feb 6

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    So me and my roommate are good friends,

    but her brother moved in and he automatically took over in away. He left on some duty ops but took the damn mail key! I'm waiting on (maybe a letter or something special) from my marine whose deployed and I'm so annoyed! Idk when this guy comes home, & getting in contact with...
    MarineQueenB MarineQueenB 26-30, F Feb 9

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    So my roomate get's drunk on his day off the

    other day and makes a big mess, I get home from work and comment about it and he says, "yeah I'll clean up tomorrow." I go off to work, then I get home and see that he is not home, and the house is even messier than before. He messages me on FB saying that he's at his mom's...
    Wantsout01 Wantsout01 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    I have a psycho roommate.

    Going through my stuff, staring at me in my sleep, doing everything I do, and just being creepy. Any advice.
    katiemaestacey katiemaestacey 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    This f****** guy, stares with his blank *******

    face its like NOTHING gets through. I tell him to quit getting drunk, he gets drunk next weekend. He brings his gf over two days he says, its been a week, I say okay enough yesterday and the mother f***** brings his gf again to sleep like nothing happened!!!!! I hate these guys...
    jwseifed jwseifed 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    Lazy, Entitled Slob

    My roommate had a maid in high school, so she doesn't do ANYTHING. She leaves food out until it reeks, never cleans her sheets, and leaves huge plugs of hair in the shower drain, and when I say something she says "Well I don't mind it." Once, she started doing laundry and then...
    eatyourvegetables eatyourvegetables 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    Liar Lair Pants On Fire.

    I live in a house with 4 other college girls and my dog. We didn't all know each other before moving in (some new each other from past interactions but not all 5 knew each other). 1 girl in the house is constantly lying. She accidently dropped another roommates motorcyle on the...
    icant84 icant84 18-21, F Sep 27, 2013

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    I'm just gonna take the time to vent here.

    First of all, I hate hate HATE self righteous, uppity, rich people. Especially the ones my age. Not that I'm jealous, I know I don't have a lot of money, I'm fine with that. What makes me mad is how blind they are to a lot of things in life because they have had everything...
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    Mtv Casting Award Winning Series--roommates!?

     TRUE LIFE: I Have Roommate IssuesHas your living situation become a nightmare? Has your home - the one place that should be your sanctuary - become the last place you want to be? Do you hate the thought of coming home to find your roommate already there? Is your roommate a...
    MTVProducer MTVProducer 26-30, F Jan 19, 2010

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    Everything was fine and dandy at first,

    but isn't that with any roommate? First thing my, then fiance now husband, myself, and our roommate did was set general house rules. We thought it would be essential for a healthy roommate/friend relationship. Since there's two of us, my husband and I pay majority of rent, and...
    waiting4it2end waiting4it2end 18-21, F Oct 30

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    I Don't Know How To Handle This

    My best friend from high school got an apartment with her boyfriend awhile ago. Over the years, we had grown apart and weren't really close anymore, but we never fought or were not on speaking terms. So when he left her, she came to me and my girlfriend and told us that her...
    ThenLetItRain ThenLetItRain 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 12, 2012

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    Oh my, where to start,

    this could be a long one. Ask anyone she knows, or once knew and they would all say she's crazy, maybe excluding her mother...maybe. So I live in a quad on a university residence and most of my roommates are great. I've made so many great new friends and made so many new...
    ErikaAnn ErikaAnn 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    Shouting abuse at me through the door?

    You've got psychological issues.
    dannyjc93 dannyjc93 18-21, M Feb 15

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    I seriously dislike my roommate.

    We don't share a room (thank GOD!) but we do share a bathroom. She is just so weird a a freak of nature. She started to dislike me at the end of fall semester for no reason what so ever and then it just grew and grew inside of her or something. She just hates me for no reason...
    Strongandbrave Strongandbrave 18-21, F 1 Response May 18

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    My roommate finally moved out,

    I went to work on the night he moved out and when I came back him and his parents stole my other roommates trash can and just left all the trash in the corner. If I hadn't locked my door they probably would have taken my trashcan too, lol. Don't ask me why they are obsessed with...
    Nannernade Nannernade 22-25, M Oct 16

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    She's so terrible. She sets all these rules

    for me and my boyfriend and acts like we're the only one's who have to follow them. The only reason we have this apartment is because we're all supposed to be in school. My boyfriend and I are the only ones doing any sort of schooling. She keeps using our things without asking...
    BrittannyLynn BrittannyLynn 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    I Want To Smack Him

    My dorm roommate is going to get smacked one day. He is always taking or using my stuff without my permission. Like the other day he was using my i-pod which made me a bit angry. He uses my laptop and gets into the care packages my mom sends me from home. He invites his loud...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 29, 2012

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    Me and the two girls

    who live with him can't stand him. I can't wait to vent on this experience page.
    dannyjc93 dannyjc93 18-21, M Feb 14

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    I want to start off by saying I'm a laid back

    person most of the time, I don't create drama, and I take after my mother by trying to keep the peace. Although my roommate isn't the worst in the world, I am starting to hate her and she was my best friend. She is very self entitled and bossy, if I'm watching tv when she comes...
    HistoryMajor HistoryMajor 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    So it's a super long story

    but basically I just moved into my first apartment of my own back in Feb with my best friend who I've known since I was 6. I moved in with her and her boyfriend who I've also been friends with since I was 15. I've lived with her before and we were totally fine, she was a good...
    happiness31 happiness31 18-21, F 3 Responses May 3

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    The Messy, Antisocial, Depressed Roommate

    My college pairs roommates up freshman year, and the girl I was paired with seemed to be okay. As the year went on, we started to have some problems, but when the time came to select rooms and roommates, I was afraid that the only people left looking for roommates would have more...
    LiveIt28 LiveIt28 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    My Roommates Are Insane And Possessed

    I hate my 2 roommates. They were in this house long before me and will likely be here long after me. I see why there was an empty room. My roommates are older than me,  Joyce who's Polish who looks and acts and looks like a beast is in her 40's, Her companion Marilyn is Puerto...
    LovelyChris71 LovelyChris71 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    She's Crazy

    Okay... So I did a random roommate selection and we met and were talking and she seemed fine. Not someone I would choose to be friends with but nice enough. Then he true colors came out. She is literally creepy. She follows me everywhere like showers at the same time brushes her...
    Jsjdjeidndxhde Jsjdjeidndxhde 18-21 1 Response Nov 28, 2012

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    Seriously Though, You Two Need To Get A Life!

    My one roommate, "A" for short is always looking to pick a fight. A couple weeks ago she wanted to turn on the heat and I didn't so I compromised with "Lets wait a few days and if it still won't heat up then I'm fine with turning it on". We went through a heat snap then it got...
    sickofthesepeople sickofthesepeople 18-21, F Dec 1, 2013

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    Can't Stand My Room Mate!

    Ever since September 2008 I have lived in a privately-owned flat exclusive for students. It's not bad, as compared to living in halls I share a bathroom and kitchen with only two room mates. One is the best room mate you can hope for; very fair, funny and overall a great...
    SupaAFC SupaAFC 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 13, 2010

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    Can't Stand

    Shut up, Shut up, shut up, shut up is all I want to yell. She talks so much. she talks to herself, and in her sleep. She walks around like the room is her house in here bra and panties (gross). Her snoring can be heard way down the hallway. On top of that she's a real...
    TaurasiWade TaurasiWade 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    dannyjc93 dannyjc93 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 19

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    I Secretly Hate My Roommate

    I have been very diplomatic...but she really is getting into my nerves...a) She doesn't flush her pee!!!!b) She brings her bf home -- I once walked in to a half naked man (just wearing boxers) in my living room..c) She has a hard time understanding roommate economics.. I have a...
    reenfree reenfree 26-30 4 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    (sorry, this is a super long post. also I'm new to this website so I'm not sure if I did this right) I'm about to finish up my first quarter of college and I still feel as...
    drkelso drkelso 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    if she thinks about me like I do her. I hate not knowing if she was as serious as she claimed to be. I hate not knowing why I continue to let these questions consume me still after...
    idleheart idleheart 31-35, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Met this girls at the dog park and I told her that I just moved over here and I was having a big move in party. She kept saying how she wanted to come so I gave her my number and...
    wildcard64 wildcard64 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 7

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