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I Hate My Sister In Law

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    She's So Much Better Than Everyone

    Ok sooo. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and together for 11 years. I'm not new to the family but his sister treats me(and all of her brothers girlfriends/spouses) like we are less than human. To me, she is just a stuck up, stuffy , unhappy individual that thinks...
    Ldhaynes717 Ldhaynes717 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    We just celebrated my husband's birthday,

    he wanted to have a family dinner for his birthday. I sent a group message to his family & my side of family, my family replied & confirmed that they will be there, but didn't get any reply from my husband's family. I wanted to make sure that my husband will feel so special on...
    brigitte2012 brigitte2012 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 26

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    Stolen Newlywed Holidays

    My sister-in-law convinced everyone she has bi-polar to get what she wants. I know it is all manipulation because the second she gets her way she is all smiles. My first married holidays she demanded a "family" Christmas where she lives, which is across the country from our house...
    Kalison Kalison 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Hate is a strong word,

    she's just such a selfish brat. We are her family too! I don't get what she doesn't understand. She's been in the family for like 6 or 7 years now and has been married to my brother for 1 year and has my 5 month old nephew. We've always included her in everything even when my...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Wow and you think that you have seen it all.

    It is apparent to me that my SIL and BIL are actually certifiable lunatics! I know that they are going through some bad times financially and what not, not to mention the rapid downward spiral of mental stability, statutory rape charges for the SIL. But ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. 1...
    anonsmom anonsmom 36-40 1 Response Feb 8

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    Sil Is Hell On Earth

    My Husband’s older sister called to ask if she could come to visit us for a week in Feb. I agreed to have her come because of my husband’s 2 strokes. I understood her need to see her brother.  I thought that under these circumstances she would be compassionate towards me...
    DisowningSIL DisowningSIL 51-55 24 Responses Oct 13, 2011

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    Seriously! What Are We Five?

    My sister in law drives me crazy! She can say and do any thing however she wants and we are supposed to just be ok with it. But if you offend her watch out! I was talking with her about an event that was coming up and she said that she and my brother really wanted to do something...
    WhatAPest WhatAPest 26-30 6 Responses Apr 9, 2011

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    Help?! Shes a *****!

    Okay so 2 years ago my brother was dating this girl and at first she was really nice to me and my family. We never really talked much before then. Then about a year ago she got pregnant and her and my brother got married but not a traditional wedding because she already had a...
    xxlindsey1990xx xxlindsey1990xx 18-21, F 23 Responses Jan 30, 2009

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    Cruel And Cunning Sister In Law(my Brothers Wife)

    My sister in law hates me but she acts she is caring me. She used to say lot of lies and i hate telling lies. She wont do any work at home, but when her husband(my brother) comes she acts as she alone is doing work and getting too tired and back pain. Every holiday of my brother...
    Vinicool Vinicool 31-35 3 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    My Sil Is the Devil Recarnated

    My sis-in-law sucessfully managed to marry my brother .  My brother is totally whipped and smitten by her petite figure and big breast.  She is book smart and have a good paying job.  Both my parents and I did not like her and we fought hard with my brother...
    dclady dclady 31-35 7 Responses Feb 10, 2009

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    My Husband And Sil Had An Emotional Affair

    The emotional affair began in June this year.  My brother and  SIL separated three years ago.  My son and nephew are close and there is only a three months age gap between them. During the summer my husband spent most of his free time at the park with our son - whilst i was...
    jetson123 jetson123 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2010

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    Sister In Law Problems

    I needed a safe place to vent my problems  and I found this sight.  My brother has been married for 3 years and now has an 8 month son.  Since before their wedding, our friends and relatives, my family and I have already had problems with my sister in law and her family. My...
    dnahubs dnahubs 26-30 2 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    My Future Sister-in-law Is Killing My Confidence

    Hello all I found this site and decided to tell my story because I've decided I need the advice and help of others because I feel like I'm going loopy. Basically the story is that I used to have a good relationship with my husband's brother's girlfriend. I thought she was nice...
    timtamlove timtamlove 26-30 5 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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    she is such a ***** I called her a big mouth

    cause the ***** can not keep her mouth shut about anything so she gets mad at me makes up this story that my 16 yr old niece is pregnant to see if I can keep my mouth shut and my ******* husband was in on this **** first of all I think for my husband lying to me and taking his...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Dec 22, 2013

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    Self-centered Witch

    I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 years now. I have never been happier. I never had a problem with his family until this past August for my boyfriend's birthday. Everyone in the family had gotten a surpise birthday party, so when my boyfriend's birthday came along I had...
    ihatemyinlaws292 ihatemyinlaws292 22-25 3 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    My sister in law has hated me from day one.

    She has been jealous of the relationship that I have with her brother and the fact that her mom and I are really close. She has done everything from bad mouthing me to my friends to calling my phone and cursing me out. She's even told her brother she will never like me, she won...
    Nolegirl23 Nolegirl23 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I too feel obsessed with my sister in law.

    What consumes my thoughts is how to deal with her during our next interaction. The last one we had was uncomfortable and bad. I have always bit my tongue and played dumb to her manipulation but over Turkey Day she found out that my husband got a call for an interview near my...
    nsh5135 nsh5135 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I really hate my sister in law.

    It all started a few months ago. At first I didn't hate her but everything changed when I moved in with my boyfriend. She always thinks she's smarter than me but she's not. Every time when we're eating diner she is talking, talking, talking... . No one else is able to say...
    Sisyoureabitch Sisyoureabitch 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    Husband's Sister, the Little Witch

    My sil is a very selfish, spoiled girl, even though she is in her 20's.  Even though my husband and I have been married for over two years sil and her mother remain very close friends with my husband's ex fiancee.  (The ex is an ex because she decided to sleep with...
    browngreen browngreen 26-30 4 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    Sister-in-law Is An Attention Seeker With Fake Behaviour

    I am 28 yr old Indian girl and got married 6 months ago. We had a love marriage and belong to different religious backgrounds- but this was never an issue..in fact my husband (32 yrs old) is very supportive and I practice my own religion as well as his (to the extent i Know and...
    siakhanmalhotra siakhanmalhotra 26-30 3 Responses Aug 14, 2010

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    my sister in law has never visited us oor our

    daughter with autism she lives in pa in the past 10 years has become ill with cancer my huhim in the past 3 yearssband and I have always gone out there to see her every few months by bus we do not have a car her husband has ms and she has needed to take care of she is having...
    sallam sallam 46-50 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Hi, I'm visiting to India

    after 7 years. My side family is happy but my husband's side family is making excuses not me to visit India . My sister in law said that if you stay at my parents house, then they are going to hit me. My mother in law treating me bad way. She has 3 kids, 2 sisters and 1 son. She...
    pakkman pakkman 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    Let's start with she lied to her mom to get my

    husband in trouble? She decided she would make a up a lie that I was pregnant but had an abortion. Let's continue with she gets everything handed to her but acts like she's better than people. (it's your parents money not yours.) Don't worry she's a great person though. Oh wait...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 17, 2013

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    You Chose Her Over Me

    I am brand new to this site, and needless to say I think this is the exact outlet I needed to just be able to get this off my chest finally... I HATE MY 'SISTER IN LAW' more then I ever thought I possibly could! To begin, let me give some background information to help better...
    msB16 msB16 26-30 4 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    My SIL is a lying crazy *****

    that has come between my husband and I too many times. Yes I even once returned the wedding ring because she is crazy and he allows it. I have never in my life told off another person so many times as I have my SIL. I quit talking to her a few years ago when she called screaming...
    sweetie383 sweetie383 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I feel like I am obsessed with my hatred

    for my sister in law. A few years ago, it was determined that my husband's aunt needed help. She and my mother in law never got along, but I got along fine with my husband's aunt. My mother in law asked me if I would help her (my sister in law -who lives 10 minutes away-couldn't...
    maryjane10000 maryjane10000 70+, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    Be The Bigger Person?

    When my husband and I met I was thrilled to find out he had two sisters.  I myself have no sisters and I was very hopeful I would become good friends with these girls.  We are all three close in age.  The two of them and their mom (my mother in law) are all best...
    italia815 italia815 26-30, F 17 Responses May 5, 2010

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    My husband and I started dating 10 days

    after his dad died, he was 18 and his sister was 16. I did not meet his family until we had been together for a year, and my SIL has been trouble since day one. When I came over the first time she did not talk to me at all, she simply threw a fit that I was not thrown out...
    Ermandgard Ermandgard 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    I swear, I married into the Mason Family.

    It's gotta be that, because the events that came after my last update: The weird text early in the morning in Oct, just blew into a situation that Jerry Springer wouldn't even take on people. Okay, first things first, I found out the 'real' reason behind the 'text' about...
    anonsmom anonsmom 36-40 3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    Where do i start. Ok

    so my future sister is law is ruining my Life, we are currently living with my boyfriends family and they are all driving me insane they all just have no respect for anyone and the mother is satan herself, always stairing at me and so does her daughter and they swear like sailor...
    izzyjane283 izzyjane283 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    ne118 ne118 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    She's so mean she's a photographer n makes bows

    won't do either one for my baby I hate her soooooooooooooo much
    Redgirljanine Redgirljanine 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 20

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    Miserable By Sister In Law

    Hello, My brother married the most evil witch I have ever met.  When they first started dating, I really liked her a lot.  I soon found out with my very own ears that she was cheating on my brother.  I struggled with this for a while because I didn't want to cause...
    BeckySue BeckySue 31-35, F 40 Responses Aug 13, 2008

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    SIL Still Copies..

    If you have read my previous experience, she is still copying. If I show you photos of us 2, you will be able to totally see it, I recently asked her why she does that and she simply said it was because we have similar interests. She seems to talk badly of me to people or members...
    lalaspud lalaspud 18-21 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    To people that don't really know her--my SIL is

    an absolute delight! That's probably why she doesn't have very many friends...beside the point. My hubs and I have been married for almost 3 years. He feels that he and his sister have a "normal" relationship which means she gets to be the constant center of attention at all...
    karmacatcher87 karmacatcher87 26-30, F Apr 1

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    Wow sister in law paid a friend to hit on my

    husband then tried to get girls to get with him at his work started spreading rumors about me he told me no way we would have to get a divorce before I would ever talk to any girls he said its imbarrassing
    Redgirljanine Redgirljanine 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 16

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    shes is the most minuplaitive horrible person i

    have ever had the unfortunate-ness of knowing. I have seen her blowing weed smoke into her then 3yr olds face, she has stolen jewlery and other things frm our house whn we let her stay cuz she had no where, she always trys to interfere in her brother & mines releationship...
    wereallcrazyhere wereallcrazyhere 22-25, F Dec 8, 2013

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    Why Does She Have to Behave This Way??

    I don't understand why she thinks she is still 16. She is 38 and has two kids. As a mother you should set an example on how to conduct yourself. She talks about me to every one on how I am trailer trash even though I have never lived in a trailer park. But she describes me as if...
    IHateWendy IHateWendy 31-35, F 11 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I need to rant or I'm going to beat the s**t

    out of this women!! It's a complete and total mystery to me how someone can be so fake and two faced. Honestly, she knows I hate her and she knows I know that she hates me yet she continues to act like my "friend" to my face! I've chosen to distance myself from her as much as...
    Karinamichele Karinamichele 18-21, F Apr 8

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    Sister In Law Turn The Family Againts Me

    So at the age 16 I moved in with my boyfriend now my husband. His dad and one sister lived there too she was cool at first then she started to show the real her.shes loud and whants my hubbys attention all the time she ignors me.i could deal with that so it was whatever.then his...
    marymari marymari 18-21, F Jun 30, 2013

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    Do I Love Him More Than I Hate Her?

    I have been married for over ten years, most of them good. My husband, Dave, is a kind, loving, compassionate man. He has never said a cruel thing to me and truly is my best friend. My problem is his sister. She has never liked me. Why? I can only assume it is because.....1) I...
    rockerwife rockerwife 31-35, F 9 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    Help Crazy Ex Sister In Law Trouble

    It started back when my husbands brother started to date this older woman who made friends with my mother in law. She would call and complain to my husband of all the bad things that his brother was doing to her. I was annoyed about thst but what really pissed me off is when one...
    djsmith1969 djsmith1969 41-45, F Nov 29, 2013

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    Can't Stand My Sister In Law..at All!!!

    Well my sister in law has to be the most annoying, bitchy, fake, pathetic person ever!! i have been with my husband for nearly 3 years and to be honest i have never really like this girl at all..its my husbands siter and she is just sooo erghh. i had  live in the same house...
    pinky88 pinky88 18-21 13 Responses Sep 1, 2008

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    i know that it all seems very petty,

    but i truly do not like my SIL. she comes from an affluent family where she got whatever she wanted to excess. i come from an average family and had the luxury of never having to go without necessities, and got a lot of the things i wanted. our husbands, who obviously are...
    ehknowkneemouse ehknowkneemouse 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2013

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    Fat, Lazy, Pathetic Slob of a Sil

    I am really starting to want to choke her out every time i see her face (which is often since she lives next door)! My husbands sister is over 30 and her and her 2 kids (with different dads) live with her parents. This blob works 2 days a week and collects food stamps...
    skw021 skw021 22-25 7 Responses Apr 2, 2009

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    I have three sisters!

    ! THREEE!! but this one in particular ****** my brain off!!! she always has suggestions to make... opinions to make and lectures to give!! (why!!) she thinks.. 1) she is the best problem solver 2)whatever she does is right just because she can argue and make people shut up.. but...
    theyoungerone theyoungerone 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    I have not written in a long time.

    I am not bothered by my SIL as much as I use to be. I still have dislike. First of all the woman is mentally ill. She lives alone in a small house with many cats and 2 dogs. She does some crazy things. She has had to live hand to mouth for a while now. She cannot afford the...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    His Ex-wife Abandoned Her Babies

    My brother married Avery when he was 19. They were in love, as much as any 19 year old is. They were high school sweethearts, started dating each other when they were 16. Even though she was very different from our family, we accepted her as she was and that Langdon liked her...
    adventureolive adventureolive 22-25, F May 6, 2012

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    My sister in law doesn't like me

    Before you read this, I know the group name is "I Hate My Sister in Law" but I do not hate her at all, this is about how she hates me. My sister in law hates me because I am a nice and happy person!  She also doesn't like that I talk too much.  I have known for a...
    nicefriendly nicefriendly 22-25, F 77 Responses Mar 16, 2010

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    I Hate Being So Hateful!

    Hi, I have been married to my husband for 6 years...We dated for 4 years before we got married. So I have known his sister, (my sister-in-law), as well as his entire extended family for over 10 years now. The more I get to know my SIL, the more I can't stand her! She is the most...
    ducknugget99 ducknugget99 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    I completely agree with EVERYONE about the SIL

    situation. My sister in law has hated me from day one! The very first day I ever met her she called the neighbor who her family is close with and talked about how I was a "bigger girl" and "super ugly". After three months of dating her brother and I moved in together. That...
    ADarBugh ADarBugh 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    I hate my sister in law because

    as long as I've been with my boyfriend, she is sick and sits at home. At first, she had some rare tropical disease and for 2 years she sat at home because of this, receiving money from health care (and always complaining about how awful she felt). Then she got a very good job...
    PancakesLover PancakesLover 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    Satan's Spawn Is My Sil

    where to begin?!.... on some level, I think everyone dislikes the person their brother marries or dates at first, but eventually you get past the fact that there is someone else in your brother's life, learn to see the greatness in that person and move on. the relationship...
    busybee012 busybee012 26-30 6 Responses Feb 3, 2009

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    Glad to know that I am not the only one

    that doesn't really like their sil...sometimes, or most of the time. Well, at first I was okay with them, we were always having a good time. My husband has two sisters. Sil #1, the oldest & Sil #2, the step sister and the youngest. I don't really know what happened, but the way...
    brigitte2012 brigitte2012 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    Hey everyone! So I need someone to talk to.

    Here we go..... I can't stand my good for nothing sister in law. My husband is away in Afghanistan and I moved in with his family because they have a huge yard for my dogs. At first I really tried to get along with her. She would take me out all the time but then I realized that...
    mariekassie12 mariekassie12 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My Sister In Law Hates Me

    It all started when my husband and I first started dating. His sister was very verbal about her feelings for me, and how she thought I was incredibly wrong for her brother, and had preferred his previous girlfriend (who she had become very good friends with). She would tell these...
    vandea9 vandea9 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    Trying to let go of the hurt my future SIL has

    caused me. Things are civil now, but just looking at her still makes me sick to my stomach. How can I let go of the hurt and tolerate being around her at family gatherings? It's so hard at Christmas time. Three years ago now my future sister in law and I got in a major blowup...
    overwhelmed2014 overwhelmed2014 22-25 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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