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I Hate My Sister In Law

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    I Hate Being So Hateful!

    Hi, I have been married to my husband for 6 years...We dated for 4 years before we got married. So I have known his sister, (my sister-in-law), as well as his entire extended family for over 10 years now. The more I get to know my SIL, the more I can't stand her! She is the most...
    ducknugget99 ducknugget99 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    At first my brother's wife hated ME,

    but the feeling wasn't mutual. I liked her - I like most people when I don't know them well. I can guess why she disliked me though. I'm very quiet. Very outdoorsy. And she's just about the opposite. She's got a lot of talent w/makeup and hair and dressing up. She looks...
    harperlim harperlim 22-25 3 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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    She's So Much Better Than Everyone

    Ok sooo. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and together for 11 years. I'm not new to the family but his sister treats me(and all of her brothers girlfriends/spouses) like we are less than human. To me, she is just a stuck up, stuffy , unhappy individual that thinks...
    Ldhaynes717 Ldhaynes717 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    It turns out that I am a target of my sil's

    hatred. I decided to animate her emails that she wrote to my husband (her brother) about me. They're pretty amusing...https://www.youtube.com/user/SILfromHELL
    SilFromHell88 SilFromHell88 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    I cant stand this ***** she has been nothing to

    me except a horrible mean person noone likes her or her ugly husband the only thing this jerk has taught me is the true meaning of the word ******* she has harrassed me came over and opened my backyard gate where my dog was, she was hoping that he would of got hit by a car that...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    Before getting married I heard the rumors about

    sister-in-laws and I have experienced it. My husband and I got married 8 months ago. So my husband donated a kidney to his sister and you would think she would be grateful right ? Well you are wrong, she doesn't call to check on him and he is struggling to pay for college and...
    JustBubbles JustBubbles 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    ugh! i have to live with her!

    !! i can't stand her. she is dumb and she is completely useless and always tries to point out my flaws to my husband. i hate living with her. if i have to continue living with her, i'll probably kill myself.
    paloma21 paloma21 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    His Ex-wife Abandoned Her Babies

    My brother married Avery when he was 19. They were in love, as much as any 19 year old is. They were high school sweethearts, started dating each other when they were 16. Even though she was very different from our family, we accepted her as she was and that Langdon liked her...
    adventureolive adventureolive 22-25, F May 6, 2012

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    Seriously! What Are We Five?

    My sister in law drives me crazy! She can say and do any thing however she wants and we are supposed to just be ok with it. But if you offend her watch out! I was talking with her about an event that was coming up and she said that she and my brother really wanted to do something...
    WhatAPest WhatAPest 26-30 8 Responses Apr 9, 2011

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    My Sister In Law Hates Me

    It all started when my husband and I first started dating. His sister was very verbal about her feelings for me, and how she thought I was incredibly wrong for her brother, and had preferred his previous girlfriend (who she had become very good friends with). She would tell these...
    vandea9 vandea9 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    i hate my sister in law

    and loser brother , both who expect my parents to pay for everything. For a while, my parents were helping them our financially. My loser brother never pays for meals. i would find that embarassing if i were his wife.he obviously cant take care of his family. my sister in law...
    blue951 blue951 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 22, 2014

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    Recently my mother in law moved in with me.

    It was not a planned move. She has mental problems, and other health issues, and my husband and I knew that she could not live alone. Unfortunately after my husband's father passed away my sister in law convinced her mother she could live on her own, and it did not go well. She...
    CCM13 CCM13 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    Well she's my ex sister in law now.

    She's a psychotic ***** and she's honestly the worst person I know, she's crazy, ugly, and I swear to god. She never showers.. Ever. When her and my brother were together, she was kind okay, but then they got married and had kids, and she started lying, and spreading rumors...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 12

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    Hate is too strong of a word.

    . I really dislike my sister in law's behavior. I have not seen her for years. Right from the first meeting I felt this hiss of anger. Her dog was jumping up almost biting my child and I picked her up and asked my sister in law if she could put her dog outside. She did and I...
    Sophiame Sophiame 61-65, F Nov 19, 2014

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    My ******* sister in law is

    so annoying. She lives with me, and she's constantly using my things. I got home from work today and she's wearing my brand new nike running shoes. I hate her!!!!
    tuscanysummer tuscanysummer 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    Be The Bigger Person?

    When my husband and I met I was thrilled to find out he had two sisters.  I myself have no sisters and I was very hopeful I would become good friends with these girls.  We are all three close in age.  The two of them and their mom (my mother in law) are all best...
    italia815 italia815 26-30, F 17 Responses May 5, 2010

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    Fat, Lazy, Pathetic Slob of a Sil

    I am really starting to want to choke her out every time i see her face (which is often since she lives next door)! My husbands sister is over 30 and her and her 2 kids (with different dads) live with her parents. This blob works 2 days a week and collects food stamps...
    skw021 skw021 22-25 7 Responses Apr 2, 2009

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    Self-centered Witch

    I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 years now. I have never been happier. I never had a problem with his family until this past August for my boyfriend's birthday. Everyone in the family had gotten a surpise birthday party, so when my boyfriend's birthday came along I had...
    ihatemyinlaws292 ihatemyinlaws292 22-25 3 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    Sometimes I believe my sister in law is a

    fictional character because some of the stuff she says is totally unreal...oh and she also thinks we should of talked to her before we bought the house so now it's going to take a whole 10 minutes more to see her kids...*rolls eyes*
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    My Future Sister-in-law Is Killing My Confidence

    Hello all I found this site and decided to tell my story because I've decided I need the advice and help of others because I feel like I'm going loopy. Basically the story is that I used to have a good relationship with my husband's brother's girlfriend. I thought she was nice...
    timtamlove timtamlove 26-30 5 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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    when i first met her,

    i was friendly to her. i hoped and thought that we would be friends. that was clearly not the case. for some reason, i guess she doenst like me. she never says hi to me unless i say hi first. and u know what? after a while, i get really tired of being the first to initiate it...
    blahblah2789 blahblah2789 36-40, F Nov 27, 2014

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    I am engaged to my fiancé,

    he is in the army and we met on line when he was deployed in Afghanistan. We are two different races, he is filipino and I am Hispanic so we have a difference on our background a culture. When I first met his sister she was nice we got along, then the second time I saw her she...
    mandaxo26 mandaxo26 22-25, F Jan 22

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    Hate is too strong of a word.

    . I really dislike my sister in law's behavior. I have not seen her for years. Right from the first meeting I felt this hiss of anger. Her dog was jumping up almost biting my child and I picked her up and asked my sister in law if she could put her dog outside. She did and I...
    Sophiame Sophiame 61-65, F Nov 19, 2014

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    She's Such a Victim!

    i hate my sil - she's SUCH a total piece of sh*t.  she's the most manipulative piece of trash you will ever meet!  she gets her kicks from hurting other ppl, she makes them hate her with all of her disgusting ugliness just so she can go running to someone else w/her big...
    meyeluv meyeluv 26-30, F 23 Responses May 21, 2008

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    have been with my then boyfriend

    for 8 years before we got married, so I have been introduced to his family and spent a lot of time with them. She has been a piece of work for everyone, and I mean even including her parents! Anyway, she was invited to my bachelorette's party by my maid of honor. She texts me...
    pinkhime pinkhime 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    right now i was in a deep negative thought,

    thinking about how terrible of a person my sister in law is. she has made my brother into a sissy, i dont even know what my brother sees in her. she's always gossiping, cursing, and she gets into fights in public whenever she feels intimidated by that person (usually that person...
    littlemac64 littlemac64 22-25, M Nov 18, 2014

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    I have been with my now husband

    for 16 yrs. In the beginning of our relationship about a month after meeting my husband's sister she came to my house with him so that she could deliver a negative message that his ex told her to tell me, she smiled as she said name of the this person said don't get to...
    sjsmith38 sjsmith38 36-40, M Jan 23

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    Sister-in-law Is An Attention Seeker With Fake Behaviour

    I am 28 yr old Indian girl and got married 6 months ago. We had a love marriage and belong to different religious backgrounds- but this was never an issue..in fact my husband (32 yrs old) is very supportive and I practice my own religion as well as his (to the extent i Know and...
    siakhanmalhotra siakhanmalhotra 26-30 2 Responses Aug 14, 2010

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    My sister in law doesn't like me

    Before you read this, I know the group name is "I Hate My Sister in Law" but I do not hate her at all, this is about how she hates me. My sister in law hates me because I am a nice and happy person!  She also doesn't like that I talk too much.  I have known for a...
    nicefriendly nicefriendly 22-25, F 96 Responses Mar 16, 2010

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    SIL Still Copies..

    If you have read my previous experience, she is still copying. If I show you photos of us 2, you will be able to totally see it, I recently asked her why she does that and she simply said it was because we have similar interests. She seems to talk badly of me to people or members...
    lalaspud lalaspud 18-21 2 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    And when I think that there has been nothing

    but peace since the crazy lunatic SIL and her husband called me in March, the passive aggressive BS just is never ending. So, SIL got pregnant. Good for her. Now it's become this weird, convoluted 'hinting' thing from her to my MIL to me. No, I will not crochet baby items, I...
    anonsmom anonsmom 36-40 2 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    You Chose Her Over Me

    I am brand new to this site, and needless to say I think this is the exact outlet I needed to just be able to get this off my chest finally... I HATE MY 'SISTER IN LAW' more then I ever thought I possibly could! To begin, let me give some background information to help better...
    msB16 msB16 26-30 5 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    Hate is a pretty strong word,

    but when it comes to my stuck up SIL, this wench takes the hate cake. Been married to my husband for 6 years. At first she seemed ok. We were married within the year of us dating and not knowing her very well, I put her in our wedding out of respect and the fact, hey we are...
    foreverholding foreverholding 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    Today, 5 years ago was the day

    that my sister in law showed her true colors when she walked into the hospital room and announced her self to everyone as" THE SISTER!" ( side note my husband has 2 sisters). My husband had been in the hospital non stop for over a month after suffering for 2 severe strokes that...
    DisowningSIL DisowningSIL 51-55 2 Responses Feb 17

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    Sister In Law Turn The Family Againts Me

    So at the age 16 I moved in with my boyfriend now my husband. His dad and one sister lived there too she was cool at first then she started to show the real her.shes loud and whants my hubbys attention all the time she ignors me.i could deal with that so it was whatever.then his...
    marymari marymari 18-21, F Jun 30, 2013

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    Can't Stand My Sister In Law..at All!!!

    Well my sister in law has to be the most annoying, bitchy, fake, pathetic person ever!! i have been with my husband for nearly 3 years and to be honest i have never really like this girl at all..its my husbands siter and she is just sooo erghh. i had  live in the same house...
    pinky88 pinky88 18-21 16 Responses Sep 1, 2008

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    I truly hate my SIL! I do not say

    that lightly. I have been able to get along with her for years, then all of a sudden she started to belittle me and my existence as a mother. Even today, she had the nerve to ask my mom if my daughter stay the night over at their house. She did this in front me, and it wasn't...
    Jennforr Jennforr 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    What Do You Do When Your Hubby Won't Support You?

    My sil is the source of my problems. We have been married 20 years and she STILL has been a thorn in my side - she takes a dig at me whenever she can and just makes my life hell. She's 8 years younger and the baby of the family. Problem is, my husband ALWAYS takes her side and...
    needafriend1 needafriend1 46-50, F 7 Responses Nov 24, 2012

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    My bro and wife are high school sweethearts.

    they're 6 years older than me and I live with them while I attend university. it sucks. I have no where else to live for such an affordability. anyways, she is the true definition of a sour patch kid but for the majority time she's super sour. my dad passed away at a young age...
    opethdude23 opethdude23 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 8

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    I decided to sign up

    for this because I just don't know what to do. Is it me or Is it them? I have been married to my husband for years and have disliked his sister since the day I met her. First off we have completely opposite personalities, she is nuts she has all sorts of mental health problems...
    peachrose202005 peachrose202005 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    Help?! Shes a *****!

    Okay so 2 years ago my brother was dating this girl and at first she was really nice to me and my family. We never really talked much before then. Then about a year ago she got pregnant and her and my brother got married but not a traditional wedding because she already had a...
    xxlindsey1990xx xxlindsey1990xx 18-21, F 27 Responses Jan 30, 2009

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    I too feel obsessed with my sister in law.

    What consumes my thoughts is how to deal with her during our next interaction. The last one we had was uncomfortable and bad. I have always bit my tongue and played dumb to her manipulation but over Turkey Day she found out that my husband got a call for an interview near my...
    nsh5135 nsh5135 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I did try so hard with her.

    I was polite and nice and only wanted us to be friends. It just didn't turn out that way. So far this scum of the earth has tried to hit me (I have since been diagnosed and still suffering from PTSD several months on because of that), called me multiple names, bitched about me...
    Thisconfusinglife Thisconfusinglife 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    I have not written in a long time.

    I am not bothered by my SIL as much as I use to be. I still have dislike. First of all the woman is mentally ill. She lives alone in a small house with many cats and 2 dogs. She does some crazy things. She has had to live hand to mouth for a while now. She cannot afford the...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    so my sister in law texted me,

    " get the hell out of my moms house and do your wifey duties. moving into my moms house is not the way to do it." my husband has some health issues and cannot go up to the third floor and mother in law had warned her before. and when it happened she got all mad...
    AngelicInnocence92 AngelicInnocence92 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Do I Love Him More Than I Hate Her?

    I have been married for over ten years, most of them good. My husband, Dave, is a kind, loving, compassionate man. He has never said a cruel thing to me and truly is my best friend. My problem is his sister. She has never liked me. Why? I can only assume it is because.....1) I...
    rockerwife rockerwife 31-35, F 9 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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