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I Hate My Sister In Law

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    She's So Much Better Than Everyone

    Ok sooo. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and together for 11 years. I'm not new to the family but his sister treats me(and all of her brothers girlfriends/spouses) like we are less than human. To me, she is just a stuck up, stuffy , unhappy individual that thinks...
    Ldhaynes717 Ldhaynes717 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    At first my brother's wife hated ME,

    but the feeling wasn't mutual. I liked her - I like most people when I don't know them well. I can guess why she disliked me though. I'm very quiet. Very outdoorsy. And she's just about the opposite. She's got a lot of talent w/makeup and hair and dressing up. She looks...
    harperlim harperlim 22-25 2 Responses Jun 25

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    my sister in law has never visited us oor our

    daughter with autism she lives in pa in the past 10 years has become ill with cancer my huhim in the past 3 yearssband and I have always gone out there to see her every few months by bus we do not have a car her husband has ms and she has needed to take care of she is having...
    sallam sallam 46-50 1 Response Apr 7

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    I too feel obsessed with my sister in law.

    What consumes my thoughts is how to deal with her during our next interaction. The last one we had was uncomfortable and bad. I have always bit my tongue and played dumb to her manipulation but over Turkey Day she found out that my husband got a call for an interview near my...
    nsh5135 nsh5135 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Can't Stand My Sister In Law..at All!!!

    Well my sister in law has to be the most annoying, bitchy, fake, pathetic person ever!! i have been with my husband for nearly 3 years and to be honest i have never really like this girl at all..its my husbands siter and she is just sooo erghh. i had  live in the same house...
    pinky88 pinky88 18-21 14 Responses Sep 1, 2008

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    My sister in law(husbands sister) is enabled by

    my mother and father in laws. She got divorced 7 years ago(with a 1 year old in tow) and moved back in with her parents. She has lived with them for 7 years, My in laws went to visit my husband's brother in NE and we live one town over....we came to their town to attend a BBQ...
    farmgirl79 farmgirl79 31-35, F Apr 25

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    I have three sisters!

    ! THREEE!! but this one in particular ****** my brain off!!! she always has suggestions to make... opinions to make and lectures to give!! (why!!) she thinks.. 1) she is the best problem solver 2)whatever she does is right just because she can argue and make people shut up.. but...
    theyoungerone theyoungerone 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Satan's Spawn Is My Sil

    where to begin?!.... on some level, I think everyone dislikes the person their brother marries or dates at first, but eventually you get past the fact that there is someone else in your brother's life, learn to see the greatness in that person and move on. the relationship...
    busybee012 busybee012 26-30 7 Responses Feb 3, 2009

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    His Ex-wife Abandoned Her Babies

    My brother married Avery when he was 19. They were in love, as much as any 19 year old is. They were high school sweethearts, started dating each other when they were 16. Even though she was very different from our family, we accepted her as she was and that Langdon liked her...
    adventureolive adventureolive 22-25, F May 6, 2012

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    SIL Still Copies..

    If you have read my previous experience, she is still copying. If I show you photos of us 2, you will be able to totally see it, I recently asked her why she does that and she simply said it was because we have similar interests. She seems to talk badly of me to people or members...
    lalaspud lalaspud 18-21 2 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    Self-centered Witch

    I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 years now. I have never been happier. I never had a problem with his family until this past August for my boyfriend's birthday. Everyone in the family had gotten a surpise birthday party, so when my boyfriend's birthday came along I had...
    ihatemyinlaws292 ihatemyinlaws292 22-25 3 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    Fat, Lazy, Pathetic Slob of a Sil

    I am really starting to want to choke her out every time i see her face (which is often since she lives next door)! My husbands sister is over 30 and her and her 2 kids (with different dads) live with her parents. This blob works 2 days a week and collects food stamps...
    skw021 skw021 22-25 7 Responses Apr 2, 2009

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    My sister in law doesn't like me

    Before you read this, I know the group name is "I Hate My Sister in Law" but I do not hate her at all, this is about how she hates me. My sister in law hates me because I am a nice and happy person!  She also doesn't like that I talk too much.  I have known for a...
    nicefriendly nicefriendly 22-25, F 88 Responses Mar 16, 2010

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    I Hate Being So Hateful!

    Hi, I have been married to my husband for 6 years...We dated for 4 years before we got married. So I have known his sister, (my sister-in-law), as well as his entire extended family for over 10 years now. The more I get to know my SIL, the more I can't stand her! She is the most...
    ducknugget99 ducknugget99 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Such hatred for her. Her name makes my want to

    vomit. The good news is my husband has agreed I don't have to attend his family events although its for the kids sake and not mine I will take it never the less.
    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F Sep 13

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    I hate my sister in law because

    as long as I've been with my boyfriend, she is sick and sits at home. At first, she had some rare tropical disease and for 2 years she sat at home because of this, receiving money from health care (and always complaining about how awful she felt). Then she got a very good job...
    PancakesLover PancakesLover 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    My sister I law is trying to destroy my

    brothers relationship with my family because of her own insecurity. She needs to have his full attention all the time. It is really sad as our parents are getting old and my father is nearly 80 and who knows how much longer he will be on this earth. I am new to EP and I don't...
    Darkanddeep Darkanddeep 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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    You Chose Her Over Me

    I am brand new to this site, and needless to say I think this is the exact outlet I needed to just be able to get this off my chest finally... I HATE MY 'SISTER IN LAW' more then I ever thought I possibly could! To begin, let me give some background information to help better...
    msB16 msB16 26-30 5 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    Anyone With Kids And A Sister In Law

    Wow...where do I start. I don't know why but my blood is boiling, and I do not know why. Well I do know why, holidays are coming up and that is the time that we normally cross paths. We do not talk to my mother in law anymore or my sister in law. Thankfully we do not have a lot...
    northernlightsalaska333 northernlightsalaska333 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    Hate is a strong word,

    she's just such a selfish brat. We are her family too! I don't get what she doesn't understand. She's been in the family for like 6 or 7 years now and has been married to my brother for 1 year and has my 5 month old nephew. We've always included her in everything even when my...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Apr 22

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    My Future Sister-in-law Is Killing My Confidence

    Hello all I found this site and decided to tell my story because I've decided I need the advice and help of others because I feel like I'm going loopy. Basically the story is that I used to have a good relationship with my husband's brother's girlfriend. I thought she was nice...
    timtamlove timtamlove 26-30 5 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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    Cruel And Cunning Sister In Law(my Brothers Wife)

    My sister in law hates me but she acts she is caring me. She used to say lot of lies and i hate telling lies. She wont do any work at home, but when her husband(my brother) comes she acts as she alone is doing work and getting too tired and back pain. Every holiday of my brother...
    Vinicool Vinicool 31-35 3 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    It's been a little more

    than a year since I married my husband and I am fed up with his family, especially his sister. I live with my in laws, my sister in law, her husband, and two ill-mannered kids. Since the day they found out their son is marrying me, they have been downright nasty to my family and...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Do I Love Him More Than I Hate Her?

    I have been married for over ten years, most of them good. My husband, Dave, is a kind, loving, compassionate man. He has never said a cruel thing to me and truly is my best friend. My problem is his sister. She has never liked me. Why? I can only assume it is because.....1) I...
    rockerwife rockerwife 31-35, F 9 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    Seriously! What Are We Five?

    My sister in law drives me crazy! She can say and do any thing however she wants and we are supposed to just be ok with it. But if you offend her watch out! I was talking with her about an event that was coming up and she said that she and my brother really wanted to do something...
    WhatAPest WhatAPest 26-30 7 Responses Apr 9, 2011

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    She's Such a Victim!

    i hate my sil - she's SUCH a total piece of sh*t.  she's the most manipulative piece of trash you will ever meet!  she gets her kicks from hurting other ppl, she makes them hate her with all of her disgusting ugliness just so she can go running to someone else w/her big...
    meyeluv meyeluv 26-30, F 23 Responses May 21, 2008

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    I need to rant or I'm going to beat the s**t

    out of this women!! It's a complete and total mystery to me how someone can be so fake and two faced. Honestly, she knows I hate her and she knows I know that she hates me yet she continues to act like my "friend" to my face! I've chosen to distance myself from her as much as...
    Karinamichele Karinamichele 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I have been with my husband

    for six years now. We got married last year in August. His sister has never ever liked me. She hasn't said it in so many words, but she is very cold towards me. When we are in the same room, it is very awkward. When I try to start a friendly conversation, she answers me very...
    whishing whishing 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    I have not written in a long time.

    I am not bothered by my SIL as much as I use to be. I still have dislike. First of all the woman is mentally ill. She lives alone in a small house with many cats and 2 dogs. She does some crazy things. She has had to live hand to mouth for a while now. She cannot afford the...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    She's so mean she's a photographer n makes bows

    won't do either one for my baby I hate her soooooooooooooo much
    Redgirljanine Redgirljanine 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 20

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    Hey everyone! So I need someone to talk to.

    Here we go..... I can't stand my good for nothing sister in law. My husband is away in Afghanistan and I moved in with his family because they have a huge yard for my dogs. At first I really tried to get along with her. She would take me out all the time but then I realized that...
    mariekassie12 mariekassie12 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    Stolen Newlywed Holidays

    My sister-in-law convinced everyone she has bi-polar to get what she wants. I know it is all manipulation because the second she gets her way she is all smiles. My first married holidays she demanded a "family" Christmas where she lives, which is across the country from our house...
    Kalison Kalison 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    i want her to get out of our house & live on

    her own. she's 34 & still stays with us :( whatta a bum
    unhappymaria unhappymaria 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    My ******* sister in law is

    so annoying. She lives with me, and she's constantly using my things. I got home from work today and she's wearing my brand new nike running shoes. I hate her!!!!
    tuscanysummer tuscanysummer 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    Well, I had thought the last few years my

    sister in law was great. My husband and I were married within one year of dating. During that time, two of his family members warned me to keep my distance from his sister- because they said she was a chronic liar and very manipulative. Mind you, we live in different states so...
    terabeth terabeth 36-40 1 Response Jun 11

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    My husbands family hated me from day one

    because I didn't come from money and they thought I wasn't good enough or sophisticated enough for them. Recently my husband (father of my three children) passed away. We were separated at the time due to poor choices he was making, including moving his sister into our home for...
    mcampbell0003 mcampbell0003 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    To people that don't really know her--my SIL is

    an absolute delight! That's probably why she doesn't have very many friends...beside the point. My hubs and I have been married for almost 3 years. He feels that he and his sister have a "normal" relationship which means she gets to be the constant center of attention at all...
    karmacatcher87 karmacatcher87 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Wow sister in law paid a friend to hit on my

    husband then tried to get girls to get with him at his work started spreading rumors about me he told me no way we would have to get a divorce before I would ever talk to any girls he said its imbarrassing
    Redgirljanine Redgirljanine 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 16

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    Hi, I'm visiting to India

    after 7 years. My side family is happy but my husband's side family is making excuses not me to visit India . My sister in law said that if you stay at my parents house, then they are going to hit me. My mother in law treating me bad way. She has 3 kids, 2 sisters and 1 son. She...
    pakkman pakkman 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 15

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    Where do i start. Ok

    so my future sister is law is ruining my Life, we are currently living with my boyfriends family and they are all driving me insane they all just have no respect for anyone and the mother is satan herself, always stairing at me and so does her daughter and they swear like sailor...
    izzyjane283 izzyjane283 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 21

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    We just celebrated my husband's birthday,

    he wanted to have a family dinner for his birthday. I sent a group message to his family & my side of family, my family replied & confirmed that they will be there, but didn't get any reply from my husband's family. I wanted to make sure that my husband will feel so special on...
    brigitte2012 brigitte2012 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 26

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    I ******* hate my sister in law

    so much I try to get along with her but it's like all she wants to do is make me feel bad for example today I told her I'm pregnant and her response was ''**** I feel bad for my brother you're gonna make him feed another mouth and he haves to put up with all your **** now'' like...
    armywife42 armywife42 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Okay, so This will be a bit long

    and I apologize. I cannot stand my sil. I want to say that she really is not a terrible person, our personalities just do no mesh well. My SIL, lets call her A is used to getting her own way. All her life (she is 32) she has always gotten everything that she wanted. And A...
    momtoalmost2 momtoalmost2 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 8

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    A text conversation with the ape-**** crazy SIL.

    ... The setting: I had recently(6 days earlier) attended a bridal shower 4 hours away with my MIL and SIL for a cousin. I offered to drive since my MIL is 63 and my SIL has a POS that wouldn't make it out of the driveway. Me: When M(my husband) brings you to lunch tomorrow...
    farmgirl79 farmgirl79 31-35, F Apr 26

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    What Do You Do When Your Hubby Won't Support You?

    My sil is the source of my problems. We have been married 20 years and she STILL has been a thorn in my side - she takes a dig at me whenever she can and just makes my life hell. She's 8 years younger and the baby of the family. Problem is, my husband ALWAYS takes her side and...
    needafriend1 needafriend1 46-50, F 7 Responses Nov 24, 2012

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    So I have more of a question

    or am looking for advice on this subject, more than just here to complain. So here's the background: I've been married for 15 years to the same great guy. He's the youngest of the family (as am I) and tends to steer clear of any drama, no matter who's fault it is. He just...
    paintinglove paintinglove 36-40, F 5 Responses May 15

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    My Sister In Law Hates Me

    It all started when my husband and I first started dating. His sister was very verbal about her feelings for me, and how she thought I was incredibly wrong for her brother, and had preferred his previous girlfriend (who she had become very good friends with). She would tell these...
    vandea9 vandea9 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    Glad to know that I am not the only one

    that doesn't really like their sil...sometimes, or most of the time. Well, at first I was okay with them, we were always having a good time. My husband has two sisters. Sil #1, the oldest & Sil #2, the step sister and the youngest. I don't really know what happened, but the way...
    brigitte2012 brigitte2012 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    I really don't want to hated her

    but everytime I saw her she's not in the mood she doesn't care to all people around her. She's not smiling, silent, that you can't even talk to her because she's not in the mood she always look angry. I really hate her in that way I really don't understand her. Her mood swings...
    smjuap21 smjuap21 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Shortly after we got married,

    my husband and I had to move in with his mother and step-father. His little brother and sister also lived there. His sister is a piece of work! She is conniving and manipulative and emotionally abusive. She thrives on making other people jealous of her. She yells and screams to...
    Bluebutterflywings Bluebutterflywings 26-30, F Jun 15

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    Be The Bigger Person?

    When my husband and I met I was thrilled to find out he had two sisters.  I myself have no sisters and I was very hopeful I would become good friends with these girls.  We are all three close in age.  The two of them and their mom (my mother in law) are all best...
    italia815 italia815 26-30, F 17 Responses May 5, 2010

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    I know this group is called I hate my sister in

    law...but she hates me..ive never done anything wrong to her or said anything mean..I feel that she hates me cuz I'm happy and successful and I feel that she's jealous.. But she shouldn't feel that way she's family and should be happy..me and her brother been married for almost...
    laylass laylass 22-25, F 2 Responses May 8

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    My SIL is a lying crazy *****

    that has come between my husband and I too many times. Yes I even once returned the wedding ring because she is crazy and he allows it. I have never in my life told off another person so many times as I have my SIL. I quit talking to her a few years ago when she called screaming...
    sweetie383 sweetie383 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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