I Hate My Sister-in-law

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    I am in desperate need of advice!

    My soon to be SIL hates me and let's just say the feeling is mutual... I try my hardest to keep as much distance from her and not say more than what is needed when I'm around her because she and my "ex" friend have made it their lives work to twist everything thing I say in an...
    stidda stidda
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2014

    I absolutely Hate my sister in-law.

    I've been married to her brother for over 30 years and from day one her and the "family" has done everything they could to try to make my life a living Hell. She tried to tell my husband that our oldest son "isn't " his,when all of our children look just alike and they all look...
    nanaof6 nanaof6
    51-55, F
    Jul 28, 2014

    Recently I met my sister in law,

    I am just confused whether to make a relationship with her, I know she is a witch and aggressive female. I just want to keep a distance from her and just do any thing she needs. Thats it. And she keeps showing off that she is very closer to my husband. How should I react for...
    MithraRaj MithraRaj
    26-30, F
    Nov 17, 2015

    Ahh Thee Two Sister In Laws From Hell!

    I met my bf in 2009. His oldest brother was married to Jazmen (still is) they had one child jaslyn. She was really cool like my best friend basically I talked to her about everything. The end of 2009 his second oldest brother met this girl named Brittany. Brittany was alright but...
    babymama16 babymama16
    18-21, F
    Apr 10, 2013

    I'm the one who has worked

    so damn hard in every serious relationship I've had (5 of them), waited 4 years with each guy only to get the "i'm not ready for marriage and kids" speech, for the guy to marry the next girl that comes along. I'm the one who tried to do the right thing and wait for Mr Right. I...
    emotionalthinking emotionalthinking
    36-40, F
    Oct 10, 2014

    So Lost

    I have two sister in laws one who lives with me and one who is a foster parent with her husband i absolutely despise. The sister who lives with me lost custody of her kids to drugs and i wish somehow someway would be able to get her kids back because she's not using anymore and...
    passion4kids passion4kids
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 21, 2013

    Update - It's Now Been Two Years - And Nothing Has Changed!

    Well it's been almost a year since I first posted on experience project about my issues with my overweight slattern of a Sister-in-law. I wish that I could re-post now and say that she's actually become a productive member of society or that my brother has divorced her ***, but...
    mckimwim mckimwim
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Jun 28, 2012

    She Is Beyond Help!!!

    I've been with my boyfriend for almost four years now, and eventually we are going to get married. That means for me I get to marry into the most dis-functional family I have ever met! OK, so let me just vent for a little bit, bare with me. My boyfriend has one of the most sad...
    lauralea lauralea
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2008


     My sister-in-law read a book at my mothers wake. The day after the funeral she took off on a personal spiritual retreat. Prior to this - she went through my personal affects and would use jewelry and clothing as if hers. When caught - got angry at me for being upset with...
    brama brama
    Aug 27, 2008

    I just wanted to finally have a lovely warm

    hearted family but instead i have godzilla storming around all the time. I want things to be different
    HappyGoLightyAlways HappyGoLightyAlways
    22-25, F
    Aug 2, 2015

    Look Up the Word Goldigger In the Dictionary, and You'll Find a Picture of My Sister-in-law

    It would be one thing if my sister-in-law actually made an effort to do anything for anyone.  But she doesn't.  She doesn't even take care of her own baby.  She has stolen money from my family, tricked people into doing all kinds of things, and I also believe...
    barbieworld barbieworld
    26-30, F
    Oct 3, 2009

    My family have always been really close

    but my sister-in-law is gradually putting a wedge between my brother and the rest of the family. To the point she's convinced him to spend Christmas with her friends this year instead of with us! Christmas has always been a huge family occasion which we've always spent together...
    rahrah81 rahrah81
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 11, 2013

    My Brothers Wife Is Abusive To Me And My Sister

     I think she hurts their pets and she is violent I do not trust her at all she thinks she is better than us... I believe she would stop any men liking me who has got something half way going for him I think she is a mental case and a bully girl she is a control freak and I...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 12, 2012

    That I want to pull her hair

    and smashed her face into the toilet bowl. She always seeing my son to discipline him about something in front of me. Like wtf? Im just beside my son and what does she thinks of? I'm not doing something to discipline my own son? She is very disrespectful.
    Andrea0328 Andrea0328
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 10, 2014

    why do i think my sister in law is superior

    and that i need her approval? i need help
    HappyGoLightyAlways HappyGoLightyAlways
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2015

    Hate is such a strong word,

    I tolerate her. My brother used to come to my house once a week for dinner until the day he brought her. First impression was good although I wasn't told she would be joining my brother but she baked a cake and I thought that was sweet. Everything seemed ok until he proposed...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 8

    I was always close to my brother

    when we were growing up. When we grew up and moved into our own lives, I lost contact with him for a few years. Then I signed up on Facebook and we found each other on there. We resumed right where we left off, comfortably bantering back and forth thanks to this great new medium...
    Baralinel Baralinel
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 19, 2014

    Well Not "hate" But Don't Like At All

    She is a really weird person who has no personality. We have no relationship at all and that is certainly not for lack of trying on my part. I have repeatedly tried to be warm and friendly to her and take an interest in her and she is just a distant, cold fish who has never...
    Fairyland29 Fairyland29
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 29, 2012

    She's not even technically my sister-in-law

    yet (they're engaged). She's a lazy, materialistic, self-centered brat. She belittles my brother. She doesn't let him see his friends. She refuses to work, so she sits at home all day, but still never seems to be able to do things like cleaning, laundry, or grocery shopping...
    aj245 aj245
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 23, 2015

    my husband cant understand

    that I cant stand his sister because , she opened my backyard gate when my dog was in the yard she that he would get hit by a car . that's so mean and he cant understand that really!!!!!!!!
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    Sep 21, 2015

    I have been married to my husband

    for 22 years. Nice man and a wonderful father. We were staying somewhere in the East when he actually wanted to be nearer to his parents somewhere in the North. So we moved and that's when the problem started. I changed to a new parish where I attend mass there with my husband...
    RuiMei RuiMei
    46-50, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2014

    Money is all that witch loves.

    Wouldn't visit her dying mother,because she was convinced that her mom cheated her out of property. The woman owned nothing. Tried to get money out of her brother by bullying him about a life insurance policy after the poor woman died. She is a real piece of work to say the...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 7, 2015

    Awful Woman That She Is...

    My twin brother's wife is a mean, cold, jealous, money grubbing bizo who wants NOTHING to do with me or our family. We were always close knit until she came around, took over, poked a hole in her diaphragm (who uses one of those??), pressured my brother to buy a new house in the...
    SadSally2013 SadSally2013
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2013

    My sister-in-law takes two-faced back stabbing

    to a whole new level. She has this warped sense of "family". MY mother in law had 3 husbands with children from each. She only includes the children from her husband's father in any celebrations, cause they are 'blood'. But boy does she have her hand out when it comes to...
    southiegirl southiegirl
    Dec 23, 2013

    She never was nice since day 1,

    okay a bit she was but not really. I'll tell you a lil background. Me and her are complete opposites. She is 24 and I am 20 and my brother she married is 26. I am a different kinda strange gal you can say, well I always feel different from others, so a black sheep I guess. And...
    sabzi2 sabzi2
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 25, 2014

    I Hate Hate Hate My Sister In Law

    fedup9911 fedup9911
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Oct 29, 2011

    The Saga So Far...

    I guess hate is a strong word.  But when the shoe fits... At Thanksgiving of this year I got a call from my brother.  He was notifying me that he was cancelling a dinner that my sister-in-law had planned for a few friends as sort of a pre-holiday holiday...
    VirginiaSuzanne VirginiaSuzanne
    26-30, F
    Feb 19, 2009

    I have been with the same man

    for six years and we finally tied the knot last week! I am overjoyed to be his wife however a dark cloud is in the horizon...Sarah. I knew I wouldn't like this woman after talking to her for five minutes. She was 8 months pregnant with her last boyfriends baby and immediately...
    MockingJ26 MockingJ26
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2014
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