I Hate My Sisters Boyfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 93 People

    They Are Getting Married

    my sister is bipolar. she has attempted suicide in the past. she met him online at the beginning of Feb. within 2 weeks she had a promise ring. she moved in 3 weeks later. later that summer she attempted suicide (she missed her ex-boyfriend). a week after that ordeal they were...
    elizabeth53 elizabeth53
    Jul 20, 2009

    Dealing With Sis''s Life

    i hate him!! he slowly is changing her and prolly  gonna make her hate me .and that "ur wrong or thats just dumb laugh i hate" and she don't agree or take my side no more....stupid boy her ex boyfriend was better and thats not much to say ....gtg ...bye
    MissSweetRose MissSweetRose
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 4, 2008

    I hate my sister's boyfriend.

    He's emotionally abusive and ruins every one of our family holidays because he doesn't understand when he's not welcome. My parents won't say anything to him because they don't want to be rude and everytime we try to set boundaries he gets mad and takes it out on my sister and...
    Jv6ish Jv6ish
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 26, 2013

    Sorry for the long story!

    Im 17 and my sister is almost 25. When she moved to Australia for her job, She met this guy over online dating who is 32. They started dating and at first he didn't seem that bad. He was just a typical douchebag. My sister seemed to really like him so i stayed out of her space...
    tessagj14 tessagj14
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 8, 2014

    I Hate Him

    he made her hate me. he abuses her emotionally and he doesn't even realize it. he has made our home life complete hell and he sexual harassed me a few times.
    em4040 em4040
    16-17, F
    Oct 9, 2007

    21 Year Old Sister, 33 Year Old Boyfriend

     The very thought of him makes me sick to my stomach. My sister just turned 21 and in so many ways, she is still a child. He just got out of a relationship with a woman his own age of 7 years (she was cheating).  Before I get comments about how age doesn't matter... I...
    katewmak katewmak
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2009


    Where do I even begin... My sister has been dating this guy for a year now. She even liked him before that but didn't want to date her for a long time and was rude to her. Strike one. Next, he's my age (21) which is 3 years older than her. Not a huge deal but it's a bigger...
    Nmm8309 Nmm8309
    Sep 15, 2012

    My sister's bf is THE WORST.

    Nobody in my family can stand him. I think he probably senses this because he doesn't come to a lot of family events. He has zero people skills ... to the point that I wouldn't be surprised if he was on the autism spectrum. Not that that matters. I have several close friends and...
    septemberiscoming septemberiscoming
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 28

    My sister had a baby at the age

    if 14. She then went on to meet Dan, her current boyfriend and she had a child with him at 16. They recently split up because he cheated on her. Obviously, it's their relationship so I didn't get involved with the politics of it. Because of the children, my parents invited...
    Summ93 Summ93
    Dec 13, 2013

    I Hate My Sisters Boyfriend

    He is such a jerk. He acts like he is better than everyone else. He hits my sister but my sister is stupid enough to stay with him because he's rich. They started dating in high school when she was a cheerleader and he was a football player. Neither one went to college. They are...
    Rockergurl382 Rockergurl382
    Oct 14, 2012

    I Am In Fear

    My sister has had the boyfriend that she has now for roughly 6 months. A month after they were going out he pretty much kidnapped her. He would not take her back home and she had no way of getting home. So my family had to drive an hour to go get her. She was balling her eyes out...
    meggieverde meggieverde
    Oct 5, 2008

    I don't care if you read this Megan I hate him!

    I hate him! he doesn't talk to me or pay attention to me at all! he hates me just as much as I hate him and he shouted at me when I broke your mirror! he makes me cry and I hate him!
    kindaspoilt kindaspoilt
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 8

    The Thng That Wouldn't Leave

    Have u ever felt you hate someone so much but u can't put your finger on it? That's how I feel about my sister boyfriend. My younger sister is to good for him. He comes over and eats with us comes with us on trips now. I just really hate him!!!!!!! He is here now as I type and...
    Eldersis Eldersis
    4 Responses Sep 5, 2011

    Can't Get It Out Of My System!?

    Hey,sup,just want too get this off my chest.So here, I met my sis's boyfriend a little around two yrs ago and needless to say I knew he wasn't good for her,but I felt like couldn't say any thing because she's the oldest and he keeps poising her.I remember when my sister used to...
    josephlewis09 josephlewis09
    Sep 27, 2011

    I Lost My Sister

    Me and my sister have always been close. Close in age and because we are the only children. We were always together and even "best friends" with eachother. Until he came along. He was thirty and her teacher and my sister was a minor when they started shagging. I always...
    invisibleray invisibleray
    1 Response Jul 3, 2009

    I Need Advice On How To Deal With This....

    My sister met her boyfriend about 6 months ago on a dating website. She had been getting increasingly desperate to meet someone and had a string of weddings coming up that she didn't want to face alone knowing that all her friends would be in couples.She met this guy and they...
    CosmicKid CosmicKid
    Dec 7, 2011

    My sister is honestly a fantastic person.

    She is humorous, witty and kind hearted. What I don't like about her is her constant need to please others, especially her boyfriend. She's always dressed scantily and buying push up bras because she feels the need to show off her body to show how pretty she is. The locus of her...
    ihatemydad666 ihatemydad666
    22-25, F
    Mar 8, 2015

    Where To Start...

    I don't think hate is a strong enough word for how I feel about my sister's boyfriend. I was in a very emotional abusive relationship for two years. It almost ruined my life. Now I'm watching it happen to my sister. It hurts to watch and she won't listen to anyone about him...
    cld4892 cld4892
    1 Response Dec 3, 2009

    And most of her friends,

    too. With a burning passion. They harass me, staring, pointing, whispering about me. I tried telling my mom, and she dismissed the behavior, and found ways to excuse it. Of course, my sister said the same things when I politely asked, then begged her to tell them to knock it...
    Smolderous Smolderous
    16-17, F
    Feb 14, 2015

    My sister is 18 years old

    and her boyfriend who's 19. I am 17. I don't like him. He is always here in our house and it annoys me so much. EVERYTIME. They just met 4 months ago. I observed how he moves and I think he's not a loyal person. He always jokes around and never get serious. He comes all the time...
    HateDae HateDae
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 7, 2013

    Hipster Nightmare

    My sister Nora is dating a dipshit. It's been about 8 months she's been dating this hipster. This guy is ridiculous. His name is Joseph Myers, but he goes by Holden. Everything he does oozes hipster. He has huge black-rimmed glasses, even though he doesn't have a prescription...
    charbakes charbakes
    26-30, F
    May 1, 2012

    I Hate My Sisters Fiance

    My sister and I had always been close friends, she was my best friend as an adult.  We went places together, and did all kinds of stuff.  Then one day she met this guy on the internet....he was 15 hrs aways, getting divorced, and has 2 kids.  She started talking to...
    melmar32 melmar32
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 15, 2009

    Good For Nothing Jerk,

    My sister has been seeing this guy, let's call him X, for over a year and she's now living with him and HIS MOM. X is 26 years old, lives with his mother and he has NO JOB, NO EDUCATION and no plans for either. My sister is 21 years old and is now a university drop-out working...
    Nivita02 Nivita02
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 1, 2013

    My Sister's Boyfriend

    i am 13 years old, and my sister is 15. although i love her and all, she is kind of a ****. she has this really stupid boyfriend who's 16 who she is always making out with in public and in the back of cars and even at church! she will do just about anything with him. well, my...
    jojoyo32 jojoyo32
    1 Response Jun 7, 2012

    I Really Hate My Sisters Boyfriend

    I really need some advice on how to deal with this situation.  My sister has been dating this loser guy for 3 years now.  They have a 2 year old daughter together and in my opinion is the only reason that she is still dating him.  He is into drugs and lies about it...
    sherribaby sherribaby
    3 Responses Jul 16, 2008


    so i love my sister to death but it seems like she is ether scared to be alone or she just doesn't want to be she always has a bf after the other one breaks up with her and her bf now is ugly for one thing and he is an arse whole he is a big baby when he doesn't get what he...
    deleted deleted
    May 22, 2012

    I Hate That Bastard

    I hate him! Completely!! He's a man ***** and has cheated on my sister several times. Everytime they break up she's in so much pain and to her the only way to make it better is by taking him back. She constantly forgives him for all the stupid **** that he does and he doesn't...
    JulieXx JulieXx
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2012

    I Hate My Sisters Boyfriend.

    My sister is 17 years old. Turning 18 this January. She has a boyfriend who just turned 16. I am 15 turning 16 in October. I cant stand him. He is always here and it annoys the **** out of me. They haven't even been dating for a year. They argue quite a bit but yet stay together...
    saviabaybay123 saviabaybay123
    70+, F
    1 Response Jul 28, 2013

    I Hate Me Sisters Boyfriend!

    So my sister has been dating this guy on and off for about 6 years. He has cheated on her multiple times, yet she still runs back to him. He doesn't have a job, stays up all night, sleeps all day, NEVER showers, plays video games 24/7, has a 1 year old daughter and doesn't take...
    CrazyRasins CrazyRasins
    16-17, F
    Dec 8, 2012

    My Sister's Stupid Boyfriend

    My sister has been with her boyfriend for a couple of years. If have tried to get along with him but the fact is that I really do not like him. He is very insecure, not so bright, always wants attention and always makes some random comments. He is so self-absorbed even to the...
    AnaCarina AnaCarina
    Aug 15, 2011

    I Do Really Need An Advice

    see...my little sister falls in love with a guy from internet:they never see each other yet, because we live too far, in different sides of the world. He had some criminal past, no higher education but now manages business with his bro and is ok. As I understand from my sisters...
    lyalyok lyalyok
    Oct 17, 2012

    And probably my sister too

    for being so stupid. My sister is gorgeous and well brought up. She looks like a pinup girl. She could literally have any man walking this earth. My sister used to have big dreams and was working towards them, She was so passionate and dedicated to her goals. She wanted to...
    midnightdahlia midnightdahlia
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2015


    My little sister has been dating this guy H for almost a year, and I can't stand him. He's a hipster nightmare who doesn't work except for his "band" and has a Jens Lekman hair. He treats her like a 1950s housewife, constantly blows her off, but throws a fit when she wants to go...
    charbakes charbakes
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 3, 2012

    Can't Stand My Sisters Arrogant Boyfriend!

    Been dating for a year, no men in our house so he really thinks he's something at my mom's whereas at my dad's, his head couldn't be further up his ***. My mum isn't one to cause a scene or create an atmosphere so he tells my nan (on more than one occasion) that hes the man of...
    1 Response Jan 13, 2013

    My sisters boyfriend is physically

    and mentally abusive... He hates everybody and gets jealous that she might love an animal (her dog) more then him... He has tried to kill her dog... He has also tried to throw my parents in jail... He tells her she isn't worth anything and never lets her take her medicine... She...
    nerdforlife16 nerdforlife16
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 8, 2014
    yoojeenie yoojeenie
    May 2, 2014

    I Hate Him

    i really hate my sisters boyfriend even that he doesn't know that i take things seriously i still hate him  so much i hate it i wish i've never met him i want him out of my life and if my sister disagree the heck with her i was feeling happy before but now my mood change. i...
    cherrysweet65 cherrysweet65
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 10, 2010

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