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I Hate My Step Father

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    I live with my mother

    and step father, because my biological father was in jail for almost all of my life(just getting out over the summer. My step father has stepped in as the role of my father but to say i wanted that to happen would be a lie. I disliked him the moment i met him at age 3. That...
    kayleegibson1 kayleegibson1 13-15, F Feb 22

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    I Honestly Despise Him And It'S Killing Me Inside

    People say hate is a strong word, and I agree. But I feel so strongly that hate is an understatement in this situation. I love my mum to bits, and I think she deserves someone better. Three years ago, I thought he was good for my mum, but all that changed when I found out he was...
    emmimi emmimi 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    He is such a condicending jerk

    that loves watch me and my sister fail. He doesn't think my sister is smart at all. He's making me plan out a future I don't even want. Everything I do is try to keep him happy and it's never good enough. He's just always looking for something to be mad about and I hats him...
    breecrazy98 breecrazy98 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My step dad is such an ******* he always bullys

    me and picks on me infront of my mom, but my mom just sits there and insults me with him like cmon mom, as much as i love my mom i cant take it anymore.
    erosado erosado 13-15, F Jan 4

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    My Evil Step Dad

     i know hate may seem a strong word but in this case i dont think its strong enough. im 16 years old and live in england. my step dad treats me like a **** head i dont understand why when im a good child i get good grades at school dont ever get in trouble im just dont...
    itstwilton itstwilton 16-17 69 Responses Apr 13, 2009

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    The Pain He Caused My Sister...

    My mother and my father got divorced when I was 2 years old. My older sister, Savannah at the time was 6 and my little sister hadn't been born yet. Our parents knew that the marriage wasnt working out, and they came together, as two civil parents, and spoke with us about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    He's A Shopaholic And My Mom Spoils Him

    I hate my Mom's husband (I won't even call him my stepdad). He doesn't pay any bills. I pay MOST of the bills and he lives with us. He has 3 shopaholic kids. His daughter lives with us because her mom can't stand her. I don't know what's going on with my Mom's head but she spoils...
    greensoda greensoda 26-30 Sep 17, 2013

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    I Wish He'd Just Leave

    After reading some of these experiences I can see how many people have had terrible conflicts with their own Step Fathers. Mine may not be so bad but I still wish he would just get out of our lives. My Step father has been living with us for more than 7 years now and it wasn't...
    pgha pgha 13-15, F Jul 30, 2013

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    Never Spoken In Ten Years

    When I was 9 years old my mother married a man who had only met me and my sister twice. They had been dating for 6 months. I had never spoken to him. Throughout their dating and engagement, my mother neglected me and my sister severely. She had a job that was already very...
    forcastiscloudy forcastiscloudy 18-21 Dec 18, 2011

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    Why Do I Have To Take On His Responsibility

    I do not mind watching my brothers but why is it that when I don't want to Im attacked. Im told that I don't do nothing so at least I can do is watch my brothers, but my step dad does not work and he hangs out with his friends really late at night. I do more in the house and for...
    A995 A995 18-21 Oct 25, 2013

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    Dealing With A Blithering Idiot

    Well, to start things off, my step father is an overweight, lazy, oblivious moron. His hobby is watching t.v.. He constantly puts my brother and my mother down. To which I called him an ******* to his face. He is a freak. Whenever I go off on my own to say, put something away, I...
    hannahC147 hannahC147 13-15, F Feb 5, 2012

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    Step Father.

    I dislike my Step father greatly. for every little thing he made my mom go through. I hate the fact that she lets him take full control of this damn place. my mother used to be very caring, loving, being her own self. but ever since he came home. my mom changed to a different...
    Skarleth Skarleth 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2013

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    I Hate My Step Dad

    When I was seven my parents got a divorce and it hurt me. My Mom started dating angain and I didn't like it, but i didn't say anything. In a month or so my mom met this man we will call "Bob". The first time I met "Bob" I knew i didn't like him. I just had this gut feeling. The...
    unnamed12 unnamed12 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    What Did I Do To Deserve This?

     All my life I've been cursed. My parents divorced when I was 2, so I don't see my real dad very often. Then my mom met my step dad. She tells me I used to get along with him. But as far as I can remember, I've always hated him.  He's nothing but a Hypocritical...
    Blackheart108 Blackheart108 16-17, M 5 Responses Jan 4, 2010

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    I Wish My Mum Had Left Him For Good.

    i'm 14, i live with my mum, stepdad & little brother. When i was younger my mum & dad got a divorce and when i was about 6 my mum met my stepdad. For a while he was really nice to me, like brought me everything i wanted and treated me like his own. But after about a year,whenever...
    Savannah254 Savannah254 13-15, F 6 Responses May 30, 2011

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    Hate Him Till This Day...

    all i can sayyy is that i hate him for what he did to me...he molested me from the age of 10 till 11, i am 18 now. He did it 5 times throughout the year. thank god my mother wasnt the kind to just ignore it, my mom believed me. the first couple times i told her, she gave him...
    fukitol fukitol 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 13, 2009

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    Hes A Real Tool.

    Hey all. I have been happily married for about 4yrs. And my wife's parents are living with us. I get along with her mother. But its her father that really gets under my skin. he does the same thing every day. His daily routine is gets up around 8am. And heads for the computer...
    Lexeo Lexeo 26-30 Jul 24, 2013

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    I don't know what to do about it.

    I truly despise him.
    DemonicallyPossessed DemonicallyPossessed 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 25

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    Oh Blah

    I'm really getting sick of this person..every week is constant fighting..!!!is either cuz we farted in front of him or cuz we burp behind his back..that was a wierd figure of speech by the way..seriously if this guy wants to leave he should leave already he gets angry or...
    ILoveToCutHair ILoveToCutHair 22-25, F Jun 16, 2013

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    I Hate My Step Father

    I will love to punch him in the nose me and my mom be fighting all the time because of him i wish are parent can see this
    Ejjjf Ejjjf 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    I Hate My Step Father

    I hate my step dad with every fiber of my being, Honistly im just waiting for him to die. I know thats horabel and I think im a bad person for it but thats the way I honistly feel. Untill i was 14 or 15 he sexually abused me and I couldent do anything about it. I was so afraid of...
    deamongirldevileyes deamongirldevileyes 12 Responses Oct 17, 2008

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    My Step Dad Scares Me

    My parents had been divorced since I was three, so I had grown used to having each of my parents belonging to me and my siblings. I was content. My mother is one to be submissive and she doesn't speak for herself often, but she had a personality that I loved. My mother started...
    ShamefulMetaphors ShamefulMetaphors 13-15, F 8 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    Itz A Looonng Story

    Didn't like the mudafcka from the start. i member i was like 10 years old. this was back in 06' when my mom got a new boyfriend. the previous ones where just some fckin assholez so i thought to myself "Oh **** not again" Now i wasnt the only one who didnt like the mudafcka. the...
    MeAgainstDaWorld MeAgainstDaWorld 18-21, F Aug 16, 2011

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    How He Treats Her

    the reason I hate my step father is because the way he treats my mother. She is the most beautiful person inside and out. she tries so hard and puts in 100 percent. I know he notices, but just one day I would like him to tell her that he appricates her. I dont care if...
    campy89 campy89 18-21, F 10 Responses May 17, 2009

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    My Step Father

    I have to say, I've read some of the other stories, and I'll say that I don't have it nearly as bad as some other people do. But, my step dad ******* yells at me for /EVERY/ little thing I do. It's now 1:30, I've been up since about 7, and I'm starving. I don't even want to go to...
    Jak999999555 Jak999999555 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    I have like a "stepfather" my mom has been

    going out with him for a long time but didn't get married yet(please don't) well he's okay when he is NOT drunk but when he is he drinks a lot and so does my mom and today I saw something nasty... And I'm just so sick and tired and want to get out of this house. I hate him so...
    wonderlandbap wonderlandbap 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Time To Get A Bit Personal...

    Hate is a strong word and when it comes to people I don't use it very often but I can honestly say I hate my step father. I really do but at the same time I have a conflict with saying I hate him. I feel like I'm giving him to much power over me. Hate it's a strong emotion but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    I Hate My Step Father

    A while back when I was in the 8th grade my mom met this guy and I hated going over his house with her because I was so use to it just win me and my mom.When it was just me and my mom I always got so much attention and I could talk to her about anything me and my mom had the...
    Imonromeo Imonromeo 16-17 2 Responses Oct 20, 2010

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    my step dad and my mom got married like 8 years

    ago. we have moved out and returned at least 3 times. he does not have a job and lives off his fathers social security, my mother, and my real dad's child support checks. during deer season he processes deer and makes little profit that he gives to his father and we never see...
    bbh961 bbh961 18-21, F Dec 5, 2013

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    I Dont Even Want To Call Him "My" Step Father

    he abused me,he ruined my childhood life,he is the real example of evil,i want him to suffer the same way i did..so that he can understand my pain...hate him...
    woing woing 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 5, 2013

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    I Just Call Him By His First Name

    (If you start this story, I hope you finish it and leave a comment) My mom and dad got a divorce when I was 5. Although I was young, I can still remember the daily fights that my parents got into. For most of my life my mom raised me and my brother as a single mom, and I loved my...
    sethfox sethfox 18-21, M 9 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    He Just Isn't Nice

    My step dad, we'll call him G, is a wealthy man. My biological dad, who we'll call D, always used to say that my mother only married G because of the money. I always found that hard to truly believe, my mother is honestly not that kind of person. She's very loving and gentle...
    kzchrko kzchrko 22-25, F Sep 18, 2013

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    He's Just A Douche!

    So my Ma is like everything. I grew up without my father, but I've seen him recently, and I love him all the same. He loves me too. That's not the point! The point is, my Ma's boyfriend is a douche. They've been dating for about 4 years now. Anyway, it's not that he's a total...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    My Stepdad And Uncle

    ok so im in the living room on the floor while my stepdad and my uncle were playing the xbox360 like football and they were drinking no biggie. and they always have to go pee and when they go past me they were kicking me in the stomach it didnt hurt though becuz they were...
    lover37 lover37 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    He's The Horror Of My Life

    I hate him. I'm scared stiff of him. But that doesn't stop me from standing up for my mother. I'm never going to let him hurt her again. I'm never going to let him get away with it. He hit her lots of times and I've had enough of it. If this isn't the end of their marriage, I'm...
    TrueBlueKid TrueBlueKid 13-15, F Sep 3, 2013

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    A Drive In The Taxi

    I was 3 years old when my mum broke up with my dad as he wanted everything perfect but now i see him every 2 weeks, hes great to me, he feeds me good, he takes me places, tells me story's and tells jokes! I got a step-dad called Peter who is still my step-dad now and we always...
    Bradleyyy Bradleyyy 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 2, 2013

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    Nobody understands. Nobody knows what I go

    through every time I come home from school. Nobody understands why I love to go to school. They don't know how much I literally HATE to be home & it's all because of one person. my step "father". He has been married to my mom for about ten years.. I have had a horrific childhood...
    imjustemma imjustemma 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 27

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    Who inspects their own home

    when they walk in after work? Sad. You sad sad ****.
    ohmyele717 ohmyele717 18-21, F Feb 26

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    The Black-eyed Sheep

    Every family has one member that might as well have been switched at the hospital by accident. In my family it's me. Hate is a word I rarely use with any feeling, especially towards other people. I'm the type of person that will apologize to funiture when I bump into it...
    taintedtea taintedtea 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    Lost, Alone And Broken

    It was naptime and he told me I could get up when the kids fell asleep. I never could of imagined how much I would regret that decision. I was so excited it was a "big girl" thing to skip naptime. After the kids fell asleep I got up and went to the livingroom, he sat me down and...
    skyyalexxis skyyalexxis 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    I Hate You

    (Just something I wrote when I was extremely angry at my step-father I needed to calm down so I wrote this long time ago. It's not a poem, its just my feelings I guess..) I've been waiting here Patiently, Wishing and wanting for you to leave already. When is it That you will...
    Diddy20 Diddy20 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 21, 2011

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    I Hate Him

    there are so many reasons i do. too many to fit here. every little thing he does is so rude and i hate it. he is not abusive or anything like that, thank god. i just hate the way he is. he acts like he is my father and im his daughter. well, guess what?!?!? you will never be my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2012

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    My Stepfather Who I Believe Is Ruining My Relationship With My Mother.

    When he first arrived from _____ state, my mother promised everything would be happier and better. But then, about 5 months after he got here, we found out he had cancer. No I didn't hate him for HAVING cancer, because he cant help that, but in a way it just ruined any hope I had...
    bansheeboo bansheeboo 16-17, F Sep 25, 2013

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    Verbal And Emotional Abuse Isn't Fun...

    This isn't your typical "I hate my step father" post. I'm 22 years old and graduated from college in May 2011. Due to the economy, I moved back home in order to save money...Chicago is a pretty expensive city. My step father has always been a problem to everyone in our household...
    BN23 BN23 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2011

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    Hate Is A Strong Word.

    That belongs to my ex step father.Anyhoo.My current step father.I don't hate him. He's not a bad guy. Really.But I do dislike him very much.He has his good points. But...He whines like a freaking baby, he is slow, he is lame, he thinks he's all high and mighty, he wants to own...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2011

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    I Hate My Stepdad

    I hate my stepdad he cheated on my mom with his workers! He told my mom to get a abortion from my little brother. When he went to a trip to Peru he ****** his cusion daughter and treated my mom bad when he came back. He also has more than what you could think of. My stupid mom...
    13torch84md 13torch84md 18-21, M Nov 11, 2013

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    Valid Step"Father" Concerns.

    I am an adult child of a parent in a concerning relationship. To give you some back ground. I am a Mom , wife and a sucessful women with a busy career. I do not live in the same city as my Mom. My parents have been divorced for 23yrs. My Mom remarried 5 yrs after the divorce and...
    gerinsg gerinsg 36-40 Nov 3, 2013

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    I'd Like To Thunder Punch Him In The Neck...

    So after reading some of the stories about horrible step fathers on here, I realize my situation is not that bad... But I still want to slap the crud out of him. I think it's safe to say these past 7 years have been the hardest of my life. When I was 11 my mother married this guy...
    Motorola324 Motorola324 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22, 2013

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    My Stepdad

    honestly i don't like him one bit. his thinking, ideas, what he does, and his way of living sickens me. an eye sore. i believe he doesn't deserve the title of being a father or a dad. and to list some reasons: 1) complains to much 2) grounds me for no apparent reason. (grounds...
    lonewanderer lonewanderer 22-25, M 33 Responses Apr 21, 2008

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    I Hate My Stepdad So Much!

    Umm this is my first story ever, so i dont kno were to begin, but ill just start out with what sounds right to me, so here we go..Im 13(yes i know it says 18-21,but i was affraid that it wouldnt let me create and account if i wasnt 18 or older,cuz thats happened to me before...
    offgridchild offgridchild 18-21 1 Response May 15, 2011

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    My Stepdad

    ok well i have these crazy dreams right becuz i was suppose to goin boxing well i had a dream tht i was at school and my stepdad wouldnt let me go to the school concert becuz i had a boxing termant and he said no and my uncle and step dad get paid 1500 each i get paid2500 becuz...
    lover37 lover37 22-25, F Jun 12, 2013

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    I Hate My So Called Sted Father...

    i dont know what it is that makes my mother decide to pick losers but she's like the strongest magnet to them i swear!!!. When i was one my mm and dad split. and from then on she had boyfriends in and out. some nice others...whatever. but through it all it was just me and her...
    livinoel15 livinoel15 16-17 5 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    He'S Not Even My Dad

    My parents divorced when I was 3. Since that day I have always lived with my moms mom I loved staying with as her cooking was awesome n she treats us very well until my mom met him his name is Jonathan he has been controlling me right till now when I do something wrong he will...
    Alyssa004 Alyssa004 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    Letter To The Man I Live With Who'S Not Married To My Mom But She Can'T Leave Him. I Haven'T Given It To Him Yet - Feedback Might Be Helpful.

    John, I'm writing this because it's too hard to talk to you, and I want to tell you, basically, that I'm through with you. I'm still scared of you, but I'm fighting it, so don't count on it anymore. And I'm not beholden to you – without you I would probably be living a much...
    jarrodh jarrodh 22-25 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    U Screwed Up My Childhood But I Wont Let U Have The Rest Of My Life!!!

     when i was 9 you decided to touch me,taking my innosence away.you destroyed everything that i knew to be good, how i hate you so.You beat me up all the time,i turned to the bottle to numb the pain of having to live in the same damn house with u. Smelling you makes me sick,the...
    ucanthurtmenomore ucanthurtmenomore 26-30 2 Responses May 16, 2011

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    Depressing Stepfather

    Hi everyone. I'm 15 years-old, and I consider myself to be a good student and a good kid. I always do my best to make my parents happy. My bio parents split up when I was about 3, and I still remember it until today. I understand, though. Both my parents are great people and I...
    Noelle15 Noelle15 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2012

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    More Than Anything

    The only reason I even tolerate that man is because he hasn't hit my mother (she's been in abusive relationships in the past) and for the sake of my little sister (whom I love more than anyone else in my family). At first, I thought he was pretty okay. Then eventually, he started...
    kiwi17 kiwi17 18-21, F Sep 29, 2009

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