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I Hate My Step Father

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    So, it's been about seven years

    since my mother remarried after divorcing my father a year or so before. I'm not particularly broken up about the divorce
    JaguarLover52 JaguarLover52 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 4

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    Well...I hate that ************!

    !! My mom saved him from an abusive woman,Help him financially although she doesn't have any money and what did he do? NOTHING! He doesn't want to spend ANYTHING ON ME OR HER! We live in Israel,Where it is hard to get money,My mom get's about 7500 ILS(Not a lot) and at the end of...
    Anomalec Anomalec 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 17

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    How He Treats Her

    the reason I hate my step father is because the way he treats my mother. She is the most beautiful person inside and out. she tries so hard and puts in 100 percent. I know he notices, but just one day I would like him to tell her that he appricates her. I dont care if...
    campy89 campy89 18-21, F 12 Responses May 17, 2009

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    Lost, Alone And Broken

    It was naptime and he told me I could get up when the kids fell asleep. I never could of imagined how much I would regret that decision. I was so excited it was a "big girl" thing to skip naptime. After the kids fell asleep I got up and went to the livingroom, he sat me down and...
    skyyalexxis skyyalexxis 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    I have a step dad who I hate,

    he abuses me and my brother mentally and physically. The other day he hit my brother in the face with the buckle of a belt and today with his hand. He spanks us so hard we have bruises on our bodies. I'm not worried about me so much but my brother. I'm 13 and my brother is...
    Tearya13 Tearya13 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2014

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    so i was 10 when my mom married him,

    i didn't like him from the start, he was my neighbor, my mom was with a guy named Eric and he was the sweetest guy my mom had ever been with. then my mom met **** and everything went down hill from there. my mother would stay out late, come home drunk, cheating on Eric. she...
    sotrueandihateit sotrueandihateit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2014

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    I Hate My Stepfather So Much, I Just Want To Put A Giant Hole In The Wall

    i really hate my stepfather. he makes fun of me all the time. i always have a feeling that he is cheating on my mom. he is always talking to other girls and flirting with them on facebook or twitter. he closes doors in my face, he mocks me ALL THE TIME. he calls me names. he says...
    Feb 3, 2013

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    U Screwed Up My Childhood But I Wont Let U Have The Rest Of My Life!!!

     when i was 9 you decided to touch me,taking my innosence away.you destroyed everything that i knew to be good, how i hate you so.You beat me up all the time,i turned to the bottle to numb the pain of having to live in the same damn house with u. Smelling you makes me sick,the...
    ucanthurtmenomore ucanthurtmenomore 26-30 2 Responses May 16, 2011

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    Letter To The Man I Live With Who'S Not Married To My Mom But She Can'T Leave Him. I Haven'T Given It To Him Yet - Feedback Might Be Helpful.

    John, I'm writing this because it's too hard to talk to you, and I want to tell you, basically, that I'm through with you. I'm still scared of you, but I'm fighting it, so don't count on it anymore. And I'm not beholden to you – without you I would probably be living a much...
    jarrodh jarrodh 22-25 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    I hate him so much, I never know I had the

    ability to hate someone before I met him! he's a horrible father, stepfather and husband. he makes the kids and my mom clean the whole house before he gets home from work or he yells at us or my mom. he's a pig, he never cleans up after himself he doesn't clean his discussing...
    SpideyAlyx SpideyAlyx 13-15, M 11 Responses Jul 15

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    My "real" father has never been a dad to me,

    so he is not in my life at all. Then my step father came into our lifes after living alone with my mother for 16 years. He has been here for soon 2 years and i hate his guts. I went away for 4 months because i needed it, then when i come back, they are arguing every single day...
    EverythingAndAnything EverythingAndAnything 18-21, F Feb 26

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    I Wish My Mum Had Left Him For Good.

    i'm 14, i live with my mum, stepdad & little brother. When i was younger my mum & dad got a divorce and when i was about 6 my mum met my stepdad. For a while he was really nice to me, like brought me everything i wanted and treated me like his own. But after about a year,whenever...
    Savannah254 Savannah254 13-15, F 6 Responses May 30, 2011

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    Sick of the worship!!

    !!!! She is so concerned with pleasing him and being nice to him and giving him what he wants at my expense. She doesn't want to upset him and will do whatever he wants. Doesn't care about my health or anything. It hurts so much.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Apr 27

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    I Hate Him

    there are so many reasons i do. too many to fit here. every little thing he does is so rude and i hate it. he is not abusive or anything like that, thank god. i just hate the way he is. he acts like he is my father and im his daughter. well, guess what?!?!? you will never be my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2012

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    I'm 14 and my step dad is a f*cking d-bag.

    When I was 11, my mom told us as in me and siblings that my dad was having an affair so she brought us to run away with her to another state away from my dad. We temporarily moved into an apartment, there my mom introduced us as in my siblings to her "friend". He lived with us...
    windyblue windyblue 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2014

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    I Hate My So Called Sted Father...

    i dont know what it is that makes my mother decide to pick losers but she's like the strongest magnet to them i swear!!!. When i was one my mm and dad split. and from then on she had boyfriends in and out. some nice others...whatever. but through it all it was just me and her...
    livinoel15 livinoel15 16-17 6 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    Crusade of the Jerks.

    In my earlier post, in this group, I haven't really gone into a whole lot of detail about all two of the guys I've seen my mom get into serious relationships with. So, I've decided to tell you a little more about the situation. In June 2011, my mom "fell in love" with a guy...
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 18-21, F Jun 25, 2014

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    My Evil Step Dad

     i know hate may seem a strong word but in this case i dont think its strong enough. im 16 years old and live in england. my step dad treats me like a **** head i dont understand why when im a good child i get good grades at school dont ever get in trouble im just dont...
    itstwilton itstwilton 16-17 80 Responses Apr 13, 2009

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    Verbal And Emotional Abuse Isn't Fun...

    This isn't your typical "I hate my step father" post. I'm 22 years old and graduated from college in May 2011. Due to the economy, I moved back home in order to save money...Chicago is a pretty expensive city. My step father has always been a problem to everyone in our household...
    BN23 BN23 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 4, 2011

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    He's a f*cking *******.

    I can't stand it. I don't want to be here anymore. He's a stupid man who should be in jail.
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 30

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    I Hate My Step Father

    I hate my step dad with every fiber of my being, Honistly im just waiting for him to die. I know thats horabel and I think im a bad person for it but thats the way I honistly feel. Untill i was 14 or 15 he sexually abused me and I couldent do anything about it. I was so afraid of...
    deamongirldevileyes deamongirldevileyes 12 Responses Oct 17, 2008

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    my stepdad hates my guts.

    ... i dont no what i did i am a good kid (most of the time) when i try to be good he screeeeaaammmss at me its pretty much how he talks i dont know if my mom will even care he turnd he into a monster! she never is on my side any more. before she met him 5 years ago she was so...
    22kovek 22kovek 16-17, F Mar 25

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    He has to take a dementia test.

    Doctor is worried about him. It hurts a lot my doctor really likes him and my mother but hates me. He won't take me seriously or see how bad I am. I can't stand how bad my stepfather treats me and my mother. I can't stand how now he is growing a disgusting beard and moustache...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 Responses May 4

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    I was about 13 when my mom married my step-dad

    and from the time we started living together until he kicked me out of the house when I turned 18, he was pretty much always a jerk to me. For the next few years I really hated him but things have gotten better since then. He still can be a jerk sometimes but at least now I can...
    MissAmanda2u MissAmanda2u 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8

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    Ok so basically I live with my mom most of the

    year because i go to school here and my dad lives in a different state. So like 2 months ago my mom married this guy she's been dating off and on the past couple years. Anyways I've told my mom over and over I don't like this guy and I really didn't want us to move in with him...
    sodapopfiction sodapopfiction 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    The Pain He Caused My Sister...

    My mother and my father got divorced when I was 2 years old. My older sister, Savannah at the time was 6 and my little sister hadn't been born yet. Our parents knew that the marriage wasnt working out, and they came together, as two civil parents, and spoke with us about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    Yesterday, i got truly sick of my stepfather

    and really angry. I would not let him be that mean towards my mother anymore so i gave him 2 minutes to be out of the door, but he stayed. So, i called the cops and they got him out of here, took his key since this is not his apartment nor the adress for him. He can't come back...
    EverythingAndAnything EverythingAndAnything 18-21, F Mar 22

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    I am now 37 and finally healing from a very

    painful childhood. My mother was nothing short of evil, and my stepfather was also sadistic and terrifying. He abused my sister and I sexually, physically and emotionally from the time I was 9-14. He threatened to kill me, and tried to, on several occasions, kill me. On one...
    astrongsurvivor astrongsurvivor 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    my stepdad hates my guts.

    ... i dont no what i did i am a good kid (most of the time) when i try to be good he screeeeaaammmss at me its pretty much how he talks i dont know if my mom will even care he turnd he into a monster! she never is on my side any more. before she met him 5 years ago she was so...
    22kovek 22kovek 16-17, F Mar 25

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    I wanted to write an update to my last post.

    I have been thinking about my relationship to my step children. The oldest has been the most difficult. As a family, we have a family discussion with scriptures, current events, thought about life every night at 9PM. At times these discussions go well and other nights not so...
    FutileFather FutileFather 46-50, M Dec 20, 2014

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    I absolutely hate him.

    I cannot stand being in his presence even for a minute before I try to cause him misfortune in any way I can. He sound nice, talks nice and is kind but it is all plastic. It is all an act. Behind closed doors he is a crude, disgusting, violent piece of worm-infested ****. He...
    littleowlet littleowlet 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I'm a step dad. I'm reading your posts

    because I want to see how other kids feel. It's hard being a step dad, too. I get a lot of accusations thrown my way by my step kids but when I ask for specifics, they have none. It's just a feeling they have. I get it, we're not blood. But I've coached my stepson's football...
    FutileFather FutileFather 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    7 years of my step dads ****,

    Iv ******* had enough:( I'm nearly 18 and I need to move out quick.
    kirstyjayne kirstyjayne 18-21, F Oct 13, 2014

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    So now I'm moving out in November.

    FINALLY!!! But I can't take my car -_- because my grandmother had it in her will for me to take it but my mother lost her car... She got a new one but because my stepdad feels the need to take my car whenever he wants without asking he thinks it's his. So now Its a problem...
    JuBear424 JuBear424 18-21, F Sep 30, 2014

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    It takes every ounce of my will power not to

    tell my grandparents how fake my stepfather is being right now. He acts like he's this amazing person when in reality he's not. I hate it.
    NarryCake NarryCake 13-15, F Jun 24

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    Beyond Ridiculous

    How many of u out there have retarded stepdads that we must obey their every rule..??that it has to be there way or no way..??that when they say the sky is red it is red cuz they say so..how abt broken promises..??any of u have a stepdad that promised there moms their hand in...
    ILoveToCutHair ILoveToCutHair 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2013

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    I never bothered leaving the room

    since yesterday, it's all because of him.
    MaryJay712 MaryJay712 16-17, F Oct 1, 2014

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    So my mom and my dad got a divorce

    but it didn't really matter to me because 1 I was little 2 I knew both of them really loved me. In kindergarten my mom met some one I was ok at the time because he was nice. But little did I know they got married at the time I was still a.o.k👌! But as I got older like in 4th...
    Xxmylife1234Xx Xxmylife1234Xx 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 20, 2014

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    I Honestly Despise Him And It'S Killing Me Inside

    People say hate is a strong word, and I agree. But I feel so strongly that hate is an understatement in this situation. I love my mum to bits, and I think she deserves someone better. Three years ago, I thought he was good for my mum, but all that changed when I found out he was...
    emmimi emmimi 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    I'm 13 and my mum can't afford to send me to

    boarding school so I have to live with the demon that has been with my mum for almost 9 years. Today when I asked what we were having for dinner he said "it doesn't matter your going to eat it because I say so" and I got annoyed and eventually he told me. When I said I don't...
    Boundbydemons Boundbydemons 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    so I just recently turned 15.

    my step dad was caught cheating by my mom in October 2014. ever since than he talked about leaving that this family is too much for him and that he was too young. ( my mom is 35 and he is almost 34). he had been with me since I was 3. he finally left around March of 2015 to...
    nermigarcia nermigarcia 13-15, F 1 Response May 30

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    Hi guys... This will be

    such a long story . But I need help ... or someone just to tell me that they are there for me ... Because I don't know what else to do. So here it goes my story from the beginning ... So I'm born in Bulgaria , I grew there etc. My mom and dad separated when I was 6. So...
    singingthestoryofmylife singingthestoryofmylife 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    Once again thanks to him another outing is

    ruined. I'm moving out soon and I wanted to do something with my mom and sisters. Yet he insists on coming. But to make matter worse we have to wait til it's convenient to him to go anywhere -_- I was gonna pay to go to Santa cruise with my sisters and at the last minute he had...
    JuBear424 JuBear424 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2014

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    This is the only forum I could find to somewhat

    relate to my experience. I don't hate my stepfather but at the same time I do. He's really nice at times but he can get very verbally abusive to my younger half brother. And on occasion me and other people in our household, I guess you could say. Let's go back in time My mom...
    love0112 love0112 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    correction: hated. he died a few years back due

    to alcohol consumption. he wouldn't give up abusing alcohol and abusing his wife so he chose to divorce my mom, steal everything in our house that wasn't dirty dishes, and literally drink himself to death. and my feelings have not changed. him dying does not make me forget what...
    lmcrepsley lmcrepsley 18-21, T Dec 14, 2014

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    Well I need to be cautious,

    he has the day off work today. Very vulnerable when I am alone in the house with him, and that's a majority of my time.
    Profweird Profweird 22-25, M Mar 3

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