I Hate My Step Father

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    I'm a step dad. I'm reading your posts

    because I want to see how other kids feel. It's hard being a step dad, too. I get a lot of accusations thrown my way by my step kids but when I ask for specifics, they have none. It's just a feeling they have. I get it, we're not blood. But I've coached my stepson's football...
    FutileFather FutileFather
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2014

    My "real" father has never been a dad to me,

    so he is not in my life at all. Then my step father came into our lifes after living alone with my mother for 16 years. He has been here for soon 2 years and i hate his guts. I went away for 4 months because i needed it, then when i come back, they are arguing every single day...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 26, 2015

    This is the only forum I could find to somewhat

    relate to my experience. I don't hate my stepfather but at the same time I do. He's really nice at times but he can get very verbally abusive to my younger half brother. And on occasion me and other people in our household, I guess you could say. Let's go back in time My mom...
    love0112 love0112
    18-21, F
    Apr 10, 2015

    Hi guys... This will be

    such a long story . But I need help ... or someone just to tell me that they are there for me ... Because I don't know what else to do. So here it goes my story from the beginning ... So I'm born in Bulgaria , I grew there etc. My mom and dad separated when I was 6. So...
    singingthestoryofmylife singingthestoryofmylife
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Nov 25, 2014

    he's like a ******* six year old,

    if he doesn't get his way he throws a fit, goes out to the bar, gets drunk, and ******* screams at anyone who says he's drunk.
    MrPoolofsouls MrPoolofsouls
    16-17, M
    Sep 5, 2015

    The Pain He Caused My Sister...

    My mother and my father got divorced when I was 2 years old. My older sister, Savannah at the time was 6 and my little sister hadn't been born yet. Our parents knew that the marriage wasnt working out, and they came together, as two civil parents, and spoke with us about...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jun 16, 2012

    correction: hated. he died a few years back due

    to alcohol consumption. he wouldn't give up abusing alcohol and abusing his wife so he chose to divorce my mom, steal everything in our house that wasn't dirty dishes, and literally drink himself to death. and my feelings have not changed. him dying does not make me forget what...
    lmcrepsley lmcrepsley
    18-21, T
    Dec 14, 2014

    I absolutely hate him.

    I cannot stand being in his presence even for a minute before I try to cause him misfortune in any way I can. He sound nice, talks nice and is kind but it is all plastic. It is all an act. Behind closed doors he is a crude, disgusting, violent piece of worm-infested ****. He...
    littleowlet littleowlet
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

    I'm 13 and my mum can't afford to send me to

    boarding school so I have to live with the demon that has been with my mum for almost 9 years. Today when I asked what we were having for dinner he said "it doesn't matter your going to eat it because I say so" and I got annoyed and eventually he told me. When I said I don't...
    Boundbydemons Boundbydemons
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Aug 4, 2014

    Well...I hate that ************!

    !! My mom saved him from an abusive woman,Help him financially although she doesn't have any money and what did he do? NOTHING! He doesn't want to spend ANYTHING ON ME OR HER! We live in Israel,Where it is hard to get money,My mom get's about 7500 ILS(Not a lot) and at the end of...
    Anomalec Anomalec
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jun 17, 2015

    Once again thanks to him another outing is

    ruined. I'm moving out soon and I wanted to do something with my mom and sisters. Yet he insists on coming. But to make matter worse we have to wait til it's convenient to him to go anywhere -_- I was gonna pay to go to Santa cruise with my sisters and at the last minute he had...
    JuBear424 JuBear424
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2014

    I was about 13 when my mom married my step-dad

    and from the time we started living together until he kicked me out of the house when I turned 18, he was pretty much always a jerk to me. For the next few years I really hated him but things have gotten better since then. He still can be a jerk sometimes but at least now I can...
    MissAmanda2u MissAmanda2u
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 8, 2015

    U Screwed Up My Childhood But I Wont Let U Have The Rest Of My Life!!!

     when i was 9 you decided to touch me,taking my innosence away.you destroyed everything that i knew to be good, how i hate you so.You beat me up all the time,i turned to the bottle to numb the pain of having to live in the same damn house with u. Smelling you makes me sick,the...
    ucanthurtmenomore ucanthurtmenomore
    26-30
    2 Responses May 16, 2011

    Nobody understands. Nobody knows what I go

    through every time I come home from school. Nobody understands why I love to go to school. They don't know how much I literally HATE to be home & it's all because of one person. my step "father". He has been married to my mom for about ten years.. I have had a horrific childhood...
    ItsAllASecret ItsAllASecret
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2014

    It takes every ounce of my will power not to

    tell my grandparents how fake my stepfather is being right now. He acts like he's this amazing person when in reality he's not. I hate it.
    NarryCake NarryCake
    16-17, F
    Jun 24, 2015

    I Hate My Stepfather So Much, I Just Want To Put A Giant Hole In The Wall

    i really hate my stepfather. he makes fun of me all the time. i always have a feeling that he is cheating on my mom. he is always talking to other girls and flirting with them on facebook or twitter. he closes doors in my face, he mocks me ALL THE TIME. he calls me names. he says...
    Feb 3, 2013

    my stepdad hates my guts.

    ... i dont no what i did i am a good kid (most of the time) when i try to be good he screeeeaaammmss at me its pretty much how he talks i dont know if my mom will even care he turnd he into a monster! she never is on my side any more. before she met him 5 years ago she was so...
    22kovek 22kovek
    16-17, F
    Mar 25, 2015

    Hello. I'm currently living with my mother,

    stepfather, and stepbrother. More importantly, I hate my life. See, 3 years ago my mother met my stepfather, inviting him to come live with what was once the two of us. He changed up our life, diet, and how we did things, first by bringing in his child. 1 year later he stopped...
    YosukeHanamura YosukeHanamura
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 7, 2015

    I'm 16 and I have a son who's 2,

    but this doesn't involve my stepfather I'd die if it did. Long story short I was only 12 when my Mom brought into our apartment and introduced him as a 'friend' I knew he wasn't because my mom tends to sleep around a lot with other men thinking we don't know what she was doing...
    catanddogperson123 catanddogperson123
    16-17, F
    Nov 13, 2015

    Ok I will start by saying my "step father"

    isn't actually married to my mom yet but I need to get my feelings about him out. My mom and I have had trouble getting along ever since I can remember. We've tried counseling, talking about it together and setting new rules but nothing seems to work. A couple of years ago (I...
    RachelSnell2020 RachelSnell2020
    18-21, F
    Oct 22, 2015

    My Mom Chose Her Husband Over Me!

         I'm a 17 year old girl and feel as if I've been through more crap than anyone my age should have to.     About 6 or 7 years ago, my mom met her husband and decided to get married. Of course, me, my sister, and my brother hadnt even heard of this guy until she told us...
    cdr2255 cdr2255
    16-17
    15 Responses May 6, 2011

    My Evil Step Dad

     i know hate may seem a strong word but in this case i dont think its strong enough. im 16 years old and live in england. my step dad treats me like a **** head i dont understand why when im a good child i get good grades at school dont ever get in trouble im just dont...
    itstwilton itstwilton
    16-17
    86 Responses Apr 13, 2009

    oh well, i was 10 when my dad died

    and i was a kinda child who was just attached to her father,not even her mom but when he died it was like i've lost everything.Anyways few months passed by and my mum got married to this *******.i tried my best to accept him but as i mentioned above he,s an ******* it explains...
    Wolverine5 Wolverine5
    18-21, F
    Sep 26, 2015

    I Hate My Step Father

    I hate my step dad with every fiber of my being, Honistly im just waiting for him to die. I know thats horabel and I think im a bad person for it but thats the way I honistly feel. Untill i was 14 or 15 he sexually abused me and I couldent do anything about it. I was so afraid of...
    deamongirldevileyes deamongirldevileyes
    12 Responses Oct 17, 2008

    I wanted to write an update to my last post.

    I have been thinking about my relationship to my step children. The oldest has been the most difficult. As a family, we have a family discussion with scriptures, current events, thought about life every night at 9PM. At times these discussions go well and other nights not so...
    FutileFather FutileFather
    46-50, M
    Dec 20, 2014

    I Was Physically Abused And Humiliated By My Stepdad As A Teenager

    --- By Becky Romero --- I've made an early New Year's Resolution. For about ten years I've been too ashamed to admit and talk about (except to my most dearest friends) how my now thankfully EX-stepdad physically abused and punished me when I was a teenager in high school - and...
    BeckyRomero BeckyRomero
    31-35, F
    29 Responses Dec 23, 2010

    Beyond Ridiculous

    How many of u out there have retarded stepdads that we must obey their every rule..??that it has to be there way or no way..??that when they say the sky is red it is red cuz they say so..how abt broken promises..??any of u have a stepdad that promised there moms their hand in...
    ILoveToCutHair ILoveToCutHair
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 3, 2013

    I Hate Him

    there are so many reasons i do. too many to fit here. every little thing he does is so rude and i hate it. he is not abusive or anything like that, thank god. i just hate the way he is. he acts like he is my father and im his daughter. well, guess what?!?!? you will never be my...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 30, 2012

    Letter To The Man I Live With Who'S Not Married To My Mom But She Can'T Leave Him. I Haven'T Given It To Him Yet - Feedback Might Be Helpful.

    John, I'm writing this because it's too hard to talk to you, and I want to tell you, basically, that I'm through with you. I'm still scared of you, but I'm fighting it, so don't count on it anymore. And I'm not beholden to you – without you I would probably be living a much...
    jarrodh jarrodh
    22-25
    1 Response May 24, 2013

    I remember how I got rid of my stepdad,

    it was awesome lol. When I was 16 I hated my stepdad and knew he was lazy, so I played the ultimate prank... I bought sexy lacy lingerie and hid it in my stepdads drawer and on his bed, I put lipstick smears on his collar, and even put a perfume on his clothes. It worked so fast...
    DrugLover72 DrugLover72
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 5, 2014

    I hate him so much, I never know I had the

    ability to hate someone before I met him! he's a horrible father, stepfather and husband. he makes the kids and my mom clean the whole house before he gets home from work or he yells at us or my mom. he's a pig, he never cleans up after himself he doesn't clean his discussing...
    SpideyKid1999 SpideyKid1999
    16-17, M
    10 Responses Jul 15, 2015

    I live with my mother

    and step father, because my biological father was in jail for almost all of my life(just getting out over the summer. My step father has stepped in as the role of my father but to say i wanted that to happen would be a lie. I disliked him the moment i met him at age 3. That...
    kayleegibson1 kayleegibson1
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2014

    Verbal And Emotional Abuse Isn't Fun...

    This isn't your typical "I hate my step father" post. I'm 22 years old and graduated from college in May 2011. Due to the economy, I moved back home in order to save money...Chicago is a pretty expensive city. My step father has always been a problem to everyone in our household...
    BN23 BN23
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Dec 4, 2011

    Itz A Looonng Story

    Didn't like the mudafcka from the start. i member i was like 10 years old. this was back in 06' when my mom got a new boyfriend. the previous ones where just some fckin assholez so i thought to myself "Oh **** not again" Now i wasnt the only one who didnt like the mudafcka. the...
    MeAgainstDaWorld MeAgainstDaWorld
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2011

    So my mom and my dad got a divorce

    but it didn't really matter to me because 1 I was little 2 I knew both of them really loved me. In kindergarten my mom met some one I was ok at the time because he was nice. But little did I know they got married at the time I was still a.o.k👌! But as I got older like in 4th...
    Xxmylife1234Xx Xxmylife1234Xx
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jun 20, 2014

    so i was 10 when my mom married him,

    i didn't like him from the start, he was my neighbor, my mom was with a guy named Eric and he was the sweetest guy my mom had ever been with. then my mom met **** and everything went down hill from there. my mother would stay out late, come home drunk, cheating on Eric. she...
    sotrueandihateit sotrueandihateit
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 30, 2014

    I just hate him so much.

    I lived with my single mom, brother and sister for a while and now he just came. They do everything together and even don't let us walk with them when we walk the dog. I'm so depressed and I don't know what to do
    failingsociety failingsociety
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 27, 2015

    Oh brother! Here's a story!

    So. My mother meets, dates and eventually married this guy. Cue disapproval from my brother and I. Not just because of that whole 'taking the place of the now absent father' thing. But concern over how slightly creepy we feel about him. Like......there's something not quite...
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    1 Response Oct 23, 2015

    im 20 still living with my parents my dad died

    when i was 18 and now i got this step dad. he is verbally abusive. he yells and curses at my mom everyday. i ask my mom why do u stay with him she said she loves him. i go up to him all the time to tell him to back off of my mom and to not talk to her like that. he says how much...
    Kingkneeler Kingkneeler
    22-25, M
    1 Response May 18, 2015

    my stepdad hates my guts.

    ... i dont no what i did i am a good kid (most of the time) when i try to be good he screeeeaaammmss at me its pretty much how he talks i dont know if my mom will even care he turnd he into a monster! she never is on my side any more. before she met him 5 years ago she was so...
    22kovek 22kovek
    16-17, F
    Mar 25, 2015

    so I just recently turned 15.

    my step dad was caught cheating by my mom in October 2014. ever since than he talked about leaving that this family is too much for him and that he was too young. ( my mom is 35 and he is almost 34). he had been with me since I was 3. he finally left around March of 2015 to...
    nermigarcia nermigarcia
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 30, 2015

    Ok so basically I live with my mom most of the

    year because i go to school here and my dad lives in a different state. So like 2 months ago my mom married this guy she's been dating off and on the past couple years. Anyways I've told my mom over and over I don't like this guy and I really didn't want us to move in with him...
    sodapopfiction sodapopfiction
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2015

    Well I need to be cautious,

    he has the day off work today. Very vulnerable when I am alone in the house with him, and that's a majority of my time.
    Profweird Profweird
    22-25, M
    Mar 3, 2015

    I Wish My Mum Had Left Him For Good.

    i'm 14, i live with my mum, stepdad & little brother. When i was younger my mum & dad got a divorce and when i was about 6 my mum met my stepdad. For a while he was really nice to me, like brought me everything i wanted and treated me like his own. But after about a year,whenever...
    Savannah254 Savannah254
    13-15, F
    6 Responses May 30, 2011

    So, it's been about seven years

    since my mother remarried after divorcing my father a year or so before. I'm not particularly broken up about the divorce
    JaguarLover52 JaguarLover52
    16-17, F
    Jun 4, 2015

    Lost, Alone And Broken

    It was naptime and he told me I could get up when the kids fell asleep. I never could of imagined how much I would regret that decision. I was so excited it was a "big girl" thing to skip naptime. After the kids fell asleep I got up and went to the livingroom, he sat me down and...
    skyyalexxis skyyalexxis
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Nov 14, 2013

    How He Treats Her

    the reason I hate my step father is because the way he treats my mother. She is the most beautiful person inside and out. she tries so hard and puts in 100 percent. I know he notices, but just one day I would like him to tell her that he appricates her. I dont care if...
    campy89 campy89
    18-21, F
    11 Responses May 17, 2009

    i hate my step dad. i am 20 years old

    and still living with my parents and going to school part time and working part time. my step dad married my mom when i was 7 years old. at first he was the nicest guy i have ever met.. after just one year later is when everything started. he started being abusive towards my mom...
    esperanzagabrielaa esperanzagabrielaa
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2015

    No word to describe my tragic depressing

    teenage life I hate for 5 year now I don say this because I'm saying the truth now how hateful this life is to live with hateful discriminating, judge, critic and selfish person in the world. Hate is not enough for me, I grow up living down my whole adolescent life with my...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 17, 2015

    I Just Call Him By His First Name

    (If you start this story, I hope you finish it and leave a comment) My mom and dad got a divorce when I was 5. Although I was young, I can still remember the daily fights that my parents got into. For most of my life my mom raised me and my brother as a single mom, and I loved my...
    sethfox sethfox
    18-21, M
    9 Responses Feb 4, 2013

    My stepfather is abusive.

    I can still contact my biological dad but he's abusive too. However, my stepdad is more abusive and makes me feel worse than my biological dad ever has. There have been a few times where I considered cutting because of my stepfather, and my dad never got me to that point. I've...
    igetweirddreams igetweirddreams
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 3

    I Hate My So Called Sted Father...

    i dont know what it is that makes my mother decide to pick losers but she's like the strongest magnet to them i swear!!!. When i was one my mm and dad split. and from then on she had boyfriends in and out. some nice others...whatever. but through it all it was just me and her...
    livinoel15 livinoel15
    16-17
    6 Responses Aug 15, 2008

    Yesterday, i got truly sick of my stepfather

    and really angry. I would not let him be that mean towards my mother anymore so i gave him 2 minutes to be out of the door, but he stayed. So, i called the cops and they got him out of here, took his key since this is not his apartment nor the adress for him. He can't come back...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 22, 2015

    I Honestly Despise Him And It'S Killing Me Inside

    People say hate is a strong word, and I agree. But I feel so strongly that hate is an understatement in this situation. I love my mum to bits, and I think she deserves someone better. Three years ago, I thought he was good for my mum, but all that changed when I found out he was...
    emmimi emmimi
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 23, 2013

    My stepfather is being an ******* too BC I was

    busy all day yesterday and I didn't give him food. I cook last night 10 minutes later he went to get dinner and complain about it being cold. This morning he complain about the dishes. Now he wont take me to school in the morning BC we are fighting. I haven't said anything to...
    19BiGirl 19BiGirl
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 26, 2015

    I get that this is pretty much complaining

    but I have to get it off my chest. I hate my step father with a passion. He's the type of person to take his anger out on everyone around him so whenever he's drunk, stressed, or angry for whatever reason it may be he takes it out on everyone that lives with him. I get that this...
    AnonymousGirl8701 AnonymousGirl8701
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 2
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