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I Hate My Step Father

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    I Just Call Him By His First Name

    (If you start this story, I hope you finish it and leave a comment) My mom and dad got a divorce when I was 5. Although I was young, I can still remember the daily fights that my parents got into. For most of my life my mom raised me and my brother as a single mom, and I loved my...
    sethfox sethfox 18-21, M 9 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    Lost, Alone And Broken

    It was naptime and he told me I could get up when the kids fell asleep. I never could of imagined how much I would regret that decision. I was so excited it was a "big girl" thing to skip naptime. After the kids fell asleep I got up and went to the livingroom, he sat me down and...
    skyyalexxis skyyalexxis 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    Once again thanks to him another outing is

    ruined. I'm moving out soon and I wanted to do something with my mom and sisters. Yet he insists on coming. But to make matter worse we have to wait til it's convenient to him to go anywhere -_- I was gonna pay to go to Santa cruise with my sisters and at the last minute he had...
    JuBear424 JuBear424 18-21, F Aug 13

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    I just can't stand his presence.

    Because of him, I actually love school since I can get away from him and just have 8 hours a day with just my friends. In 7 years of knowing him, I don't think I have ever felt so much hate to one person than I have these last few months. He ruined a spring break that I would've...
    EvanTheWeatherKid EvanTheWeatherKid 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    Crusade of the Jerks.

    In my earlier post, in this group, I haven't really gone into a whole lot of detail about all two of the guys I've seen my mom get into serious relationships with. So, I've decided to tell you a little more about the situation. In June 2011, my mom "fell in love" with a guy...
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F Jun 25

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    I Hate Him

    there are so many reasons i do. too many to fit here. every little thing he does is so rude and i hate it. he is not abusive or anything like that, thank god. i just hate the way he is. he acts like he is my father and im his daughter. well, guess what?!?!? you will never be my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2012

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    My Evil Step Dad

     i know hate may seem a strong word but in this case i dont think its strong enough. im 16 years old and live in england. my step dad treats me like a **** head i dont understand why when im a good child i get good grades at school dont ever get in trouble im just dont...
    itstwilton itstwilton 16-17 75 Responses Apr 13, 2009

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    I Hate My Step Father

    I hate my step dad with every fiber of my being, Honistly im just waiting for him to die. I know thats horabel and I think im a bad person for it but thats the way I honistly feel. Untill i was 14 or 15 he sexually abused me and I couldent do anything about it. I was so afraid of...
    deamongirldevileyes deamongirldevileyes 12 Responses Oct 17, 2008

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    I Hate My Stepdad

    I hate my stepdad he cheated on my mom with his workers! He told my mom to get a abortion from my little brother. When he went to a trip to Peru he ****** his cusion daughter and treated my mom bad when he came back. He also has more than what you could think of. My stupid mom...
    13torch84md 13torch84md 18-21, M Nov 11, 2013

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    I Hate You

    (Just something I wrote when I was extremely angry at my step-father I needed to calm down so I wrote this long time ago. It's not a poem, its just my feelings I guess..) I've been waiting here Patiently, Wishing and wanting for you to leave already. When is it That you will...
    Diddy20 Diddy20 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 21, 2011

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    I live with my mother

    and step father, because my biological father was in jail for almost all of my life(just getting out over the summer. My step father has stepped in as the role of my father but to say i wanted that to happen would be a lie. I disliked him the moment i met him at age 3. That...
    kayleegibson1 kayleegibson1 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    My step dad is such an ******* he always bullys

    me and picks on me infront of my mom, but my mom just sits there and insults me with him like cmon mom, as much as i love my mom i cant take it anymore.
    erosado erosado 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I despise my stepdad he is an angry abusive

    horrible man and my mum separated from him and it was the happiest I had been since I was a little girl but she's back with him now and it's got so much worse he has out me out of my family home and everything! The rest of our family and friends all can see how horrible he is...
    nikkijamieson nikkijamieson 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    My Step Father

    I have to say, I've read some of the other stories, and I'll say that I don't have it nearly as bad as some other people do. But, my step dad ******* yells at me for /EVERY/ little thing I do. It's now 1:30, I've been up since about 7, and I'm starving. I don't even want to go to...
    Jak999999555 Jak999999555 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    Beyond Ridiculous

    How many of u out there have retarded stepdads that we must obey their every rule..??that it has to be there way or no way..??that when they say the sky is red it is red cuz they say so..how abt broken promises..??any of u have a stepdad that promised there moms their hand in...
    ILoveToCutHair ILoveToCutHair 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2013

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    I Honestly Despise Him And It'S Killing Me Inside

    People say hate is a strong word, and I agree. But I feel so strongly that hate is an understatement in this situation. I love my mum to bits, and I think she deserves someone better. Three years ago, I thought he was good for my mum, but all that changed when I found out he was...
    emmimi emmimi 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    my step dad and my mom got married like 8 years

    ago. we have moved out and returned at least 3 times. he does not have a job and lives off his fathers social security, my mother, and my real dad's child support checks. during deer season he processes deer and makes little profit that he gives to his father and we never see...
    bbh961 bbh961 18-21, F Dec 5, 2013

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    I'm 13 and my mum can't afford to send me to

    boarding school so I have to live with the demon that has been with my mum for almost 9 years. Today when I asked what we were having for dinner he said "it doesn't matter your going to eat it because I say so" and I got annoyed and eventually he told me. When I said I don't...
    Boundbydemons Boundbydemons 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Why Do I Have To Take On His Responsibility

    I do not mind watching my brothers but why is it that when I don't want to Im attacked. Im told that I don't do nothing so at least I can do is watch my brothers, but my step dad does not work and he hangs out with his friends really late at night. I do more in the house and for...
    A995 A995 18-21 1 Response Oct 25, 2013

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    Itz A Looonng Story

    Didn't like the mudafcka from the start. i member i was like 10 years old. this was back in 06' when my mom got a new boyfriend. the previous ones where just some fckin assholez so i thought to myself "Oh **** not again" Now i wasnt the only one who didnt like the mudafcka. the...
    MeAgainstDaWorld MeAgainstDaWorld 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2011

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    Valid Step"Father" Concerns.

    I am an adult child of a parent in a concerning relationship. To give you some back ground. I am a Mom , wife and a sucessful women with a busy career. I do not live in the same city as my Mom. My parents have been divorced for 23yrs. My Mom remarried 5 yrs after the divorce and...
    gerinsg gerinsg 36-40 Nov 3, 2013

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    After my father died she decided to marry

    another about 2 years later when I was 7 almost 8. All my sisters (older) and one of my sisters husbands, and my grandmother were telling mom not to marry him even me including throwing my bible at him. Six months later they had a fight which ended up with him trying to smack me...
    Angellove2014 Angellove2014 18-21, F Jan 13

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    Nobody understands. Nobody knows what I go

    through every time I come home from school. Nobody understands why I love to go to school. They don't know how much I literally HATE to be home & it's all because of one person. my step "father". He has been married to my mom for about ten years.. I have had a horrific childhood...
    ItsAllASecret ItsAllASecret 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 27

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    My Stepdad

    honestly i don't like him one bit. his thinking, ideas, what he does, and his way of living sickens me. an eye sore. i believe he doesn't deserve the title of being a father or a dad. and to list some reasons: 1) complains to much 2) grounds me for no apparent reason. (grounds...
    lonewanderer lonewanderer 22-25, M 33 Responses Apr 21, 2008

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    So my mom and my dad got a divorce

    but it didn't really matter to me because 1 I was little 2 I knew both of them really loved me. In kindergarten my mom met some one I was ok at the time because he was nice. But little did I know they got married at the time I was still a.o.k👌! But as I got older like in 4th...
    Xxmylife1234Xx Xxmylife1234Xx 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 20

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    The Pain He Caused My Sister...

    My mother and my father got divorced when I was 2 years old. My older sister, Savannah at the time was 6 and my little sister hadn't been born yet. Our parents knew that the marriage wasnt working out, and they came together, as two civil parents, and spoke with us about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    I don't know what to do about it.

    I truly despise him.
    DemonicallyPossessed DemonicallyPossessed 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 25

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    I Hate My Step Dad

    When I was seven my parents got a divorce and it hurt me. My Mom started dating angain and I didn't like it, but i didn't say anything. In a month or so my mom met this man we will call "Bob". The first time I met "Bob" I knew i didn't like him. I just had this gut feeling. The...
    unnamed12 unnamed12 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    My dad died in a car accident

    when I was young and since then my mom has talked with people on some dating sites and dated one person. My mom used to share stuff with us like when she was dating the previous person (I'll just call him "T"). She told us that she was dating him and how he had met him and...
    roxashasthestick roxashasthestick 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    Is It Me Or..........

    ....? My mother seems to have a pretty bad taste in men. She told me (we weren't fighting or anything) that she thought I would hate anyone she was with. She's only had two boyfriends so far (after my dad, who was actually her husband), but when she's in a relationship it kind...
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    The S.O.B. is at it again.

    I can hear him standing outside of my door. I hear him telling the dog to go away. I hear him put his ******* head against the door like I don't know he's listening. I don't get what he's listening for? I don't come out if my room for a reason. I swear there's a reason I don't...
    JuBear424 JuBear424 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    He's Just A Douche!

    So my Ma is like everything. I grew up without my father, but I've seen him recently, and I love him all the same. He loves me too. That's not the point! The point is, my Ma's boyfriend is a douche. They've been dating for about 4 years now. Anyway, it's not that he's a total...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    Letter To The Man I Live With Who'S Not Married To My Mom But She Can'T Leave Him. I Haven'T Given It To Him Yet - Feedback Might Be Helpful.

    John, I'm writing this because it's too hard to talk to you, and I want to tell you, basically, that I'm through with you. I'm still scared of you, but I'm fighting it, so don't count on it anymore. And I'm not beholden to you – without you I would probably be living a much...
    jarrodh jarrodh 22-25 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    I Hate My So Called Sted Father...

    i dont know what it is that makes my mother decide to pick losers but she's like the strongest magnet to them i swear!!!. When i was one my mm and dad split. and from then on she had boyfriends in and out. some nice others...whatever. but through it all it was just me and her...
    livinoel15 livinoel15 16-17 6 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    I Was Physically Abused And Humiliated By My Stepdad As A Teenager

    --- By Becky Romero --- I've made an early New Year's Resolution. For about ten years I've been too ashamed to admit and talk about (except to my most dearest friends) how my now thankfully EX-stepdad physically abused and punished me when I was a teenager in high school - and...
    BeckyRomero BeckyRomero 26-30, F 31 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    He's Not My Step Father, He Is My Mothers Husband!

    I thought I knew what hate felt like, but I didn't. well, not untill he came. you don't have to read it, I just had to get it out. 4 years ago my mother married a man. he's very old and I find that disgusting. I'm not even sure I can explain it, but i'll try. as written...
    readheaddevil readheaddevil 13-15, F 7 Responses Sep 16, 2009

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    I'm 14 and my step dad is a f*cking d-bag.

    When I was 11, my mom told us as in me and siblings that my dad was having an affair so she brought us to run away with her to another state away from my dad. We temporarily moved into an apartment, there my mom introduced us as in my siblings to her "friend". He lived with us...
    windyblue windyblue 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    He's so lazy, it's unbelievable!

    He does nothing for his son! Even my mum knows it! When she's busy she tells me to look after him... NOT HIS DAD! he ignores him most of the time, I love looking after him! It's just it annoys me that he does nothing with him!
    MusicIsMyTherapy101 MusicIsMyTherapy101 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 29

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    Verbal And Emotional Abuse Isn't Fun...

    This isn't your typical "I hate my step father" post. I'm 22 years old and graduated from college in May 2011. Due to the economy, I moved back home in order to save money...Chicago is a pretty expensive city. My step father has always been a problem to everyone in our household...
    BN23 BN23 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2011

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    He'S Not Even My Dad

    My parents divorced when I was 3. Since that day I have always lived with my moms mom I loved staying with as her cooking was awesome n she treats us very well until my mom met him his name is Jonathan he has been controlling me right till now when I do something wrong he will...
    Alyssa004 Alyssa004 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    How He Treats Her

    the reason I hate my step father is because the way he treats my mother. She is the most beautiful person inside and out. she tries so hard and puts in 100 percent. I know he notices, but just one day I would like him to tell her that he appricates her. I dont care if...
    campy89 campy89 18-21, F 11 Responses May 17, 2009

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    so i was 10 when my mom married him,

    i didn't like him from the start, he was my neighbor, my mom was with a guy named Eric and he was the sweetest guy my mom had ever been with. then my mom met **** and everything went down hill from there. my mother would stay out late, come home drunk, cheating on Eric. she...
    sotrueandihateit sotrueandihateit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    Who inspects their own home

    when they walk in after work? Sad. You sad sad ****.
    ohmyele717 ohmyele717 18-21, F Feb 26

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    I have like a "stepfather" my mom has been

    going out with him for a long time but didn't get married yet(please don't) well he's okay when he is NOT drunk but when he is he drinks a lot and so does my mom and today I saw something nasty... And I'm just so sick and tired and want to get out of this house. I hate him so...
    wonderlandbap wonderlandbap 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    When a human being must face his

    or hers fear, it is not different than tell that person to die. To live is to live in despair, and dying seems to be the only optional way than just living hell on earth. Forcing someone to face his most fatal fear is both humiliating and torturing. It is a tyrant ruling over...
    TomPency TomPency 13-15, M 2 Responses May 16

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    He made me ****** up life

    even worse. He's a wicked and evil human being. He treats me and my mother like crap
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 5 hrs ago

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    I Wish My Mum Had Left Him For Good.

    i'm 14, i live with my mum, stepdad & little brother. When i was younger my mum & dad got a divorce and when i was about 6 my mum met my stepdad. For a while he was really nice to me, like brought me everything i wanted and treated me like his own. But after about a year,whenever...
    Savannah254 Savannah254 13-15, F 6 Responses May 30, 2011

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    My Step Dad Scares Me

    My parents had been divorced since I was three, so I had grown used to having each of my parents belonging to me and my siblings. I was content. My mother is one to be submissive and she doesn't speak for herself often, but she had a personality that I loved. My mother started...
    ShamefulMetaphors ShamefulMetaphors 13-15, F 10 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    He is such a condicending jerk

    that loves watch me and my sister fail. He doesn't think my sister is smart at all. He's making me plan out a future I don't even want. Everything I do is try to keep him happy and it's never good enough. He's just always looking for something to be mad about and I hats him...
    breecrazy98 breecrazy98 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 19

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