I Hate My Step-daughter

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    Waw; i am impressed by the number of people in

    this forum!! I am a relatively a news step mum (been married for 2years1/2). I am discovering that bit by bit; I am wishing deep down that thf step daughter to be out of my life; I wish she doesn't come around to visit anymore; also that my son not to be called her brother...
    Sabrinay Sabrinay
    36-40, F
    4 Responses May 24, 2015

    my step daughter is manipulative

    and everyone falls for it, she is lazy beyond the normal teen, is a compulsive liar and starts drama just for fun so she can watch others lives fall apart or just so they can suffer. thats just the short version
    stressedstepmom1 stressedstepmom1
    26-30, F
    Apr 15

    She Just Doesn't Stop!

    My 15 yr old step daughter has been in my care since she was 6.  He bio-mom died of suicide two years before her dad and I married.  Her extended family feels awful that she lost her mom so suddenly, and has covered her in gifts.  My DH and i have tried to limit the gift...
    ginajoy ginajoy
    41-45
    1 Response Aug 24, 2011

    My husband and I have been together

    for 14 years. At the time we started dating, he had a 4 year old daughter from a previous marriage. His ex was psycho and used the kid as a pawn. My husband only had visitation in the summer and never had a very good relationship with his daughter. Fast forward 14 long years...
    jerrirhoads jerrirhoads
    41-45, F
    Jan 12, 2014

    Step-daughter Has Gone Too Far

    My husband and I have been married 3 almost 4 years now, My step-daughter, the only girl, is a nightmare (from the beginning) At 15, She had a 19 year old BF, and ran away if she was told no. At 16, the boy moves in, (ofcourse I said no) she gets pregnant , says she is ready to...
    MarineMom3 MarineMom3
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 19, 2012

    How do I go on this summer without feeling like

    I want to "rip her a new one"??Blatant disrespect to her BD, calling him her "step dad"....Completely brainwashed by her BM....More and more she's learning from that douche bag...So Angry!!
    bdmooreswife bdmooreswife
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 28, 2014

    Hate Is a Strong Word But.....

    Hate is a strong word but it's getting harder and harder everyday NOT to hate her.  I have two daughters of my own and they are very close in age with his daughter ages 10, 9 and 8 his daughter is 9.  And we have a 4 month old together..It sounds so bad and I ...
    pcards pcards
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Dec 1, 2008

    At My Wits End

    I married a man who has an adult daughter who treats me terribly. I've tried for 7 years to include her into our new family by bending over backwards for her and ignoring her rude behavior.My two children are very different. Both of them love and resect my new spouse and we've...
    christylouise christylouise
    51-55
    4 Responses Dec 12, 2011

    Holidays are coming. I dread them.

    How many of you dread them because of you have to buy gifts for someone who hates you & you can't stand the sight of? We haven't seen her at the holidays for 8 years & then last year she shows up to see what she could get from her family. We got there & she said to the friend...
    DAK1969 DAK1969
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Sep 3, 2014

    My Step Daughter Hates Me and I Hate Her

     It all started in 1976 when I married her father. He had been raising his child along with help from his parents. She was 10 years old and looked like she needed some extra love and attention. I on the other hand happen to be 22 years old no children of my own. I had always...
    bluejeankindagal bluejeankindagal
    51-55, F
    23 Responses Jul 6, 2008

    I just found out my step daughter has been

    stealing money from me. I keep money in what I thought was a secret spot. My husband knows of it. But I always accused my husband of taking money. I was fine with him taking money when he'd tell me. Say he forgot to run to the bank that morning or whatever. He'd say I'm taking a...
    goofymf goofymf
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Mar 1, 2015

    This Is Her Show, We'Re Just All Along For The Ride!

    So I'm 21 and married my older husband this past September. He has a now 9 year old daughter with a crazy ex-wife who I've always ignored. Now for a little backstory: During the 3 years my husband and I were dating, I never had that much contact with my step-daughter. He would...
    sublimegamer424 sublimegamer424
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 31, 2013

    Mutual Hatred

    ugh.. where do I even start?First of all I will apologize in advance for my rambling. I have held this in for so long and really don't know where to start. ..... I was married and had a son and divorced. My current husband was never married and had a daughter. When we met, his...
    klsswimsagain klsswimsagain
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

    I Despise My Two Step-daughters

    I have two step-daughters, aged 18 and 14. Neither of the two live with us (thankfully!).The 18 year old recently moved in with her boyfriend and his mother last summer. She is CONSTANTLY texting my Husband and demanding money. She has never had a job nor does she act like she...
    Tstorm44 Tstorm44
    26-30
    3 Responses Aug 3, 2011

    Hi folks, I need advice.

    I am the hated daughter. I am an only child and we were really close. My mother died in Jan of 2013. My dad started dating a woman that is only 10 years older than me. She is very rude and tells him not to spend time with me. She is also really into PDA. It makes me...
    mcrn96 mcrn96
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jul 31, 2014

    I've been with my bf

    for 2 years, but we have been living together for 10 months. From those 2 years his 24 year old daughter has been out if his life because she said it was too weird to be around me- she didn't even us a chance to get to know each other. Well last month her father let her move...
    TiredofFighting2 TiredofFighting2
    46-50
    5 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    westsideblues1 westsideblues1
    56-60, F
    1 Response Jul 9, 2014

    A Rant For the Stepdaughters

    When you read our stories, please do not prescribe your ideas as if they are the fix-all.  Allow me to provide you some information ... We stepmother's are not 20 years old.  Most of us writing in this group have lived lives, have our own children, our own professions...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal
    31-35, F
    46 Responses Aug 27, 2007

    She 8 and a evil little fat monster from hell.

    I hate her. She lies, lies and lies. She weighs almost 100 pounds and to be honest it's embarrassing to be seen with her. She can't do anything for herself. She screams and throws fits like a baby. She screams at her Dad constantly telling him how much she hates him. The kid...
    bugnit bugnit
    41-45, F
    Oct 4, 2015

    Step-dad to two girls,

    now 28 and 23. As well as a daughter of ten (together with my wife of eleven years). A short history on the early days reflects many of the stories I’ve read on here. The eldest of the two SDs proved a little trying through the teenage years and was ultimately kicked out to...
    Gutsful Gutsful
    51-55, M
    1 Response Dec 31, 2014

    hi im so relieved and ashamed of my self.

    i have a 2 yr old and my husband has a 3 yr old from his ex wife. we've been married. 2 yrs now and im in my third trimester. his daughter is a beautiful little girl but has many issues. my daughter is a very sweet organized toddler she is on a strict schedule and eats healthy...
    ghost2015 ghost2015
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2015

    Great Stories About My Step-daughter(s). It'll Make You Shake Your Head!

    I met my stepdaughter when she first turned three. 12 years later...I still can't deal with her. She is not the type of person I want around me or my family. She and her Mom are these scrappy little podunks who literally are hillbillys. Seriously...they live in the hills. Now...
    VodkaJax VodkaJax
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Jun 14, 2010

    I Can'T Stand Her Even Though She Is Grown Now.

    I know this seems very petty for someone my age to be feeling this way but I do. The thoughts and feelings of hatred towards her just won't go away for good. When they become so overwhelming I have to get busy doing something or get involved watching TV or reading, surf the...
    nyxie66 nyxie66
    46-50, F
    1 Response Oct 26, 2013

    My 12 Year Old Stepdaughter Is Really Trying To Break Up Her Fathers And Mine Marriage

    I have a stepdaughter that just turned 12 years old in February. I married her father in July 2009, not to mention that him and I also have a son together who was borned in October 2005.  I go onto facebook after I just get back with the children and myself from The Great Wolf...
    Cherish515 Cherish515
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Mar 28, 2011

    Another Sd Story

    I am 39 and my boyfriend is 53. We have been dated three years, living together for two. My boyfriend (HR) has four children. The oldest, 23, lives out of state, and, though we really know each other well, we get along fine. In town is his 20 yr old daughter, who lives...
    msgirlygirl71 msgirlygirl71
    36-40
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2010

    I Don't "hate" Her, I Just...

    Hi. I have a 17 year old step-son and a 12 year old step daughter.  I am only 22yrs old and I don't have any children of my own.  My husband and I are 23yrs apart in age and if that didn't make things hard enough his children make it very difficult.  My SS isn't as bad as he...
    troubledtimes123 troubledtimes123
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Mar 31, 2011

    I Have Had It

    where to begin..... i have been a stepmom since my stepdaughter was 6y/o she is now 16 - we have always had a pretty decent relationship since i was a bit younger than her father and we did great stuff together but i also didn't put up with any BS and she alwasy respected that...
    patienceover patienceover
    31-35
    1 Response Jun 5, 2009

    I can't do this anymore.

    ...I don't hate her but I can't take her behavior and more so the fact nobody will help her/do anything about it. Sometimes it's fine but about fifty per cent of the time she screams when I go near her and tells me she hates me. Funny thing is for the first six months I was I...
    porcellina porcellina
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

    Forgive Or Continue To Forget

    When I became involved with my now husband I was 22 and he was 33. He had a 9 year old daughter who appeared to be a handful at times but I figured it was just the age and the fact that she was only with him on the weekends, vacations and holidays so her behaviors were just an...
    lindscarl lindscarl
    31-35, F
    Oct 3, 2013

    i cant explain in words how much i hate this

    child. i really despise her. shes terrible.....really terrible. ive tried everything to help her but nothing works. im going insane and honestly i am finally to the point where i am seriously considering leaving my husband whom i love to death but i just cannot live witht his...
    DearDonna DearDonna
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 26, 2014

    I Feel Like Such A *****....:(

    My bf recently moved in with me & my 3 daughters. Everything is going amazing, my kids love him and things between us are great! My issue is with his 7 year old daughter. She is an only child for him and his ex-wife, an he is havin issues adjusting to her dad being with me...
    countrymama6292 countrymama6292
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Oct 25, 2013

    Hi Every One

    I'm a single mom with a 13 year old daughter, previously it was only the two of us in the house.Six months ago I met a guy, he has a 14 year old daughter and his wife passed on earlier this year. We started dating and her daughter came to stay with us. My boyfriend is still...
    khanyisa khanyisa
    36-40, F
    Aug 27, 2012

    Stepdaughter, what to do?

     I had it with my stepdaughter last night, I did! I admit I might have gone too far with my ranting and telling her off, but I got sick and tired of her attitude and arrogance. I know she's 13, and is changing all the time, and I know most teens bear an attitude,but she went...
    riorose1995 riorose1995
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jul 4, 2011

    House Of Lies

    I do want the people to know in the world that there's such a thing in Hate your step children. I'm a mother of two and I honestly never hated a child in my life until now.When things first started off,I was dating their father and I understood why they didn't want me in the...
    SmallRogers SmallRogers
    36-40, F
    Dec 4, 2012

    I Am Ready To Throw In The Towel!

    My 15 year old step-daughter is rude, disrespectful, a pathological liar, a thief and a manipulator. She has stolen from my 2 daughters, 17 and 11, myself, her father her cousin and "friends" (she cannot keep friends, they leave faster than they appear). She shows no remorse for...
    newdanielle newdanielle
    41-45
    5 Responses Jan 23, 2012

    Just Got Out of Jail

    I have a step-daughter. I have been with her father for 5 years. He is wonderful and the love of my life. His daughter, on the other hand, must be the spawn of satan. She gave birth to our first Grandson eight months ago. Her husband, is one of the laziest men I have met in my...
    RAY13 RAY13
    31-35
    3 Responses Jun 23, 2009

    It's Comforting To Know That I Am Not The Only One Experiencing Step-child Problems

    It's been YEARS that I have been experiencing the manipulative and sneeky things that Melanie does to me.  I hate to admit it, but when she moved out of our home I actually did a "conga like - happy dance".  Since the very young age of three, she has had a dislike to me...
    lorrieartiste lorrieartiste
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2010

    8yr Old Compulsive Liar And Makes Serious Allegations. Don't Know How Else To Help Her....?

    My 8yr old step daughter accused her mother and step father of physical, emotional and intellectual abuse and moved in with her father and myself almost a year ago. She has since come clean and said it was all lies. She tells them lies about us too. We have tried counselling...
    needsomehelphere needsomehelphere
    31-35
    8 Responses Jan 30, 2011

    If I Knew Then What I Know Now....

    I have been with my husband for 5 years (two married). I met my “loving" step when she was 4. The first time i met her was horrible, and I should have ran for the door. She actually kicked my in the mouth, laughed, then ran crying to her dad because i yelled at her. If you are...
    losinmymind00 losinmymind00
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 22, 2013

    Hating Step Kids

    I honestly hate my stepdaughter as well. She is 13 and gets away with practically anything. Her dad will allow her to do anything she wants, but when it comes time for my own daughter to choose something, my stepdaughter will come up with an excuse not to go. It is not...
    rippeson rippeson
    26-30
    31 Responses Jun 13, 2009

    I Got So Jealous From the Relation of My Sd and My Husband

     Hi all, Im glad i found this site so i can share my story with others that can understand what i feel... I love my husband so much, i was not a jealous person at all, until i married him... My husband is a very kind hearted person, very loving and affectionate with me...
    thriller thriller
    26-30
    13 Responses Jul 9, 2009

    Why I Hate People Who Hate Their Step Kids

    Alright, so I've been reading a lot of disturbing posts on here about step moms hating their YOUNG step daughters and I believe that it is time to share why this SERIOUSLY infuriates me. I was 2 when my dad met my step mom. She moved in about two weeks after they met, like all...
    marieisme333 marieisme333
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2013

    Help I Was Conned!

    After googling this subject I was relieved to find that I am not the only one going through this ****. my partner whom I have bought a house with and have been with for 2 years has two daughters from hell. I knew him as a friend for 20 years. I went overseas for 7 years so I hadn...
    disorderathome disorderathome
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 16, 2012

    My step-daughter is now 25 years old (going on

    6). She just married a man she met in AA (This is another whole story, but sheesh! AA is not the best place to hook up.) who has allegedly (I believe absolutely nothing that comes out of her mouth) abused her several times over the past three years. She has been diagnosed...
    MostEvil MostEvil
    61-65, F
    Jan 5, 2015
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