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I Hate My Stepdad

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    My mom got married to a guy

    and I just plain don't like him they fight all the time he never says I love you to me a lot and I just miss my dad and yes I have a house and things but I dot want these things I just want my real dad and my life how it was
    ZaniyaWard13 ZaniyaWard13 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 11, 2014

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    I live at two different houses.

    One with my dad and one with my mom and her partner. My mom moved in with my stepdad when I was 7 or 8 and I've never gotten to really liking the guy. He's a pessimistic, biased, aggressive, "I am the most perfect being to ever be born why can't you be perfect like I am...
    ayazmisarenrag ayazmisarenrag 18-21, M Jan 21, 2014

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    My Mom Always Chooses Her Husband Over Me.

    I'm 17. When i was 9, my mom met her current husband. I was young and so I didnt really have a problem with it, but i saw the way he treated my brother and sister. He hated them because he wasnt able to control them... My sister was the first to leave at 16, then my brother at 16...
    NiallsIrishSwag NiallsIrishSwag 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2012

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    my mum decided to go back with my stepdad

    and we are going to see him this weekend at his home. when he was my stepdad I still remember been spanked by him regular.
    tony2014 tony2014 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 13, 2014

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    Whenever I'm in the same room with him,

    I feel extremely uncomfortable and angry. My mom is trying to force me to eat family dinner with him but my therapist says I'm not ready and I also don't think I am. I feel like I might snap at any second. I was forced to last night and it was so horrible. I don't know what to...
    DemonicallyPossessed DemonicallyPossessed 16-17, M Dec 25, 2014

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    He's really miserable

    and always having digs!! Like using the bread, even though I've bought it!! He has a twitter account, it was a secret until I stumbled across it. And on it all he did was slag me, my siblings and my mum off on it. I showed mum and she went mad! Few hours later they where all...
    Danielle89mcevilly Danielle89mcevilly 22-25, F Dec 25, 2013

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    Well.. About 2 years ago my mum

    and step dad got married and we didn't get along at all so u loved to my grandparents and last year when my mum cheated e became horrible to me and my mum didn't seem to noticed now they are divorced and everyone blames me for it
    Ridingtonewyork Ridingtonewyork 13-15, F Feb 21, 2014

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    He is such a *****. He thinks he knows

    everything but he doesn't. He ruins my family. Ruins my whole life. Ruins everything I am and want to be. I hate him. He's the reason I'm depressed, seeking attention, wanting guys to like me. He makes me feel so insignificant and insecure. He is worthless to me. I hate him. I...
    Sib232228 Sib232228 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    My stepdad is lower than garbage.

    His belated wife died "mysteriously" of a drug overdose. He has been the subject of domestic abuse implications numerous times in the past. It is suspected that he is currently on meth judging by the always missing foil, white powder, and cut straws that have been found. This is...
    CaitlinK08 CaitlinK08 22-25, F Apr 18, 2014

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    I Hate Him.

    I can't describe it, I have no words to describe it.Everything he does annoys the living hell out of me.Chewing, walking, breathing, everything.Oh god. I feel like such a ***** sometimes becuase he has done everything for me.My real dad, I dont know him. He was abusive. Im from...
    adipdyedtaco adipdyedtaco 16-17, F 1 Response May 18, 2013

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    I Dont Hate Him But...

    I like him until he opens his mouth anymore This morning i had my door open about an inch and he just opens the door asks me if ive not been to sleep cuz apparently it affects his life or something and its not the first time he's done it He then tells me i better not be naked...
    Uniqueen Uniqueen 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    Stepdad I Hate Him

    I cant remember what year IT happened by i remember the day so much, i was at my uncles house and my mum came back from going out and there was this man with her and she goes to me that oh hi pumpkin (that's what she calls me) this is my boyfriend, might i add she never said...
    lipsybaby lipsybaby 16-17 9 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    I'm Loosing My Mom To My Stepdad

    So my mom has been single ever since I was 3. For as long as i can remember we've been bestfriends. Then last october she met this guy at a town meeting. They started writing letters and seeing eachother on the weekends. I hated him at first. HATED him. I refused to meet him...
    maddierose690 maddierose690 13-15, F 6 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    Well. Parents fighting again.

    . Its becoming more and often. He makes my mother cry all the time and I really want to step up and say something but every time I do my mom gets angry at me for it.. I don't know what to do.
    Dacer13 Dacer13 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    I Don't Know How to Start

     He drinks constantly. He argues at 3 in the morning with my mum and I wake up every time. He's done things I don't even want to mention, and I know things because of him that I shouldn't have to. I even personally prefer my biological father who is in prison for killing a...
    BlackUnknown BlackUnknown 18-21 2 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    I know I made an experience before

    but now I'm confused. It feels like my mom and his' connection is fading because they don't really talk like they used to and now I feel so bad for him. I think my mom has been ignoring him and i can't help but feel like she's going to leave him and as much as I dislike him I...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F Mar 4

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    I really can't stand my stepdad.

    He is nothing but a pig and he treats girls and women like complete ****. He is mean to my mom and he's tried on more than one occasion to rape me. Although I am pretty fast and I can get away from him pretty easily. My stepdad is just an evil man and my mom deserves waaayyy...
    beatendownbylife47 beatendownbylife47 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    My mother has been with my step dad

    since I was about 8, I'm 35 now. He treated me different from his own kids from the start, which in turn made my feelings toward him start to change almost immediately. It only got worse until I turned 18 and moved out. At which time I started to gain weight and work out...
    dawks123 dawks123 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    LAST Year!

    Hi im Dallas From Nebraska and i have a 52 year old step-dad that is a true a**!!!!!! Last year at forth of july he got soooo drunk and he yelled at me and my mom! we were going to b gone but he said that he would change and now he stil drinks ALOT!!!! and he starts drinking beer...
    pandaking pandaking 13-15 Jun 28, 2009

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    I Meet My Stepdad When I Was 2

    He hit my mom twice.and had sexual relations with other women through out their marriage he even got a woman pregnant. But my mom still acts like nothing ever happened.plus she treats him better than her own child. She would even have sex with him.so one day after they do it she...
    ihateyou12345678 ihateyou12345678 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2013

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    Like I said before if ur on his good side ur ok

    but when ur on his bad side........bad things will start to happen. this morning I was sooo tired, I slept for like an hour and then my sister woke me up. It was 6 in the morning and my mom and step dad where in the kitchen arguing as usual, but for some reason a part of me...
    SecretSephira14 SecretSephira14 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    I Dnt Like My Stepdad

    Ok I am13 years oldnd I have a lil brother nd I accidently droped him in the bathrom and he didnt cry r anything so my stepdad fets mad at me nd says. Aye why u drop him and I was like I didnt nd my mom agreed with him if ur mom agreed with ur stepdad wen he comes at u wat wuld u...
    Ayeeimcute Ayeeimcute 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

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    I am sorry but i do. Its been me

    and mom all my life and now its up. I love that he makes mommy happy, but he is so mean to me and hard on me. I am never good enough for him and always in trouble
    SadAlyssa SadAlyssa 13-15, F Mar 8

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    Scumbag...

    So my mom has made some bad decisions in her life. Both my father and my stepfather are examples of this. My parents got divorced when I was 2 because my dad is an alcoholic and a drug addict. But I still love him, because he's my dad. My stepdad, on the other hand, I hate him. I...
    wanderingthroughlife wanderingthroughlife 18-21 4 Responses Jun 22, 2008

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    My Step Dad Makes Me Sick

    he alwys try to hit me when i say somethin to him when i tell him to stop starring at me he use to hit my mom to he act so crazy and mean he alwys pickin at y brothers i dont understand why he hits people if they say something he...
    brownada12 brownada12 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2012

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    He's Horrible

    My parents got divorced when I was very young I was about 5 when it happened. At about 6 my mom started dating my stepdad a few years after they married. I wish they never got married but I had no say I remember him bending down to my level when nobody else was around saying I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    I don't hate him. I feel sorry

    for him, and the way he makes my mom and I feel. He just go back from treatment for his PTSD, he's had it for years and everything was going good, but that never lasts long with him. He got prescribed medicinal marijuana and abused it. He's unstable and right before we sent him...
    qwernia qwernia 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    He is always tryna get me in trouble

    for no type of reason like he need to sit down. always scrramin at me and of course when I slap the **** out of him my m come slap me cuz she think my stepdad right about everything.
    MonicaisBae MonicaisBae 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I Hate Him

    He is so so so horrible .... He is mean to me and says I can control you anyway my mum broke up with him , but then they got back together my life has been hell since he is a control freak !!! He is mean to my friends when they walk in the house he points his fingers in there...
    isobelpx isobelpx 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Well it all started in 2011-12

    when he moved in my house and ever since then, it's been hell. He would lie to my mom all the time and yell at us for nothing. I would spend weeks at my grandmom's house and as soon as i came back, He would yell at me for messing up the house before i could put my things down...
    Therewaspieinthefridge Therewaspieinthefridge 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2014

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    I hate him so friggin much.

    This is bad to say but I swear if he drove off a cliff would be dancing at his funeral.
    kat990 kat990 13-15 2 Responses Jun 28, 2014

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    Ever since I remember my stepdad has done

    everything to try and rip my family apart. He's cheated on my mum, lied to her and causes arguments for no reason and the worst thing is it doesn't help because he's an alcoholic so he has been violent with me and my mum and sister. I keep out of his way so it doesn't cause...
    Tulip3198 Tulip3198 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2014

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    Gee, such hate for stepdads here.

    As one my own self, I'm sorry to hear so many kids have bad ones. I'm a good one, I think, even though our girls would probably say I'm sometimes too strict with them. Feel like venting about stepfathers in real time? Find me on Messenger under my EP handle.
    Stepfatherx2 Stepfatherx2 61-65, M Jul 15, 2014

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    I Cant Live With Him Anymore.

    It was last year when my mom married that idiot, my step dad. He is the meanest person on earth... They met in the middle of summer of  '09 and got married in June of  '10. The day of the wedding I was happy for my mom but I was crying on the inside. It was like I felt like I...
    LizzieAnne LizzieAnne 13-15 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    My mom married my stepdad mike 5 years ago.

    At first he seem nice kinda funny. But soon into the their marriage his true colors began to show. Now my mother isn't a saint either and she used to abuse me but she recently stopped or rather more of lessen she often tries to have heart to heart chats with me and she admitted...
    Rachlm214 Rachlm214 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 29, 2014

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    OMG my stepfather is

    so ******* aggressive some times I just want to smack the **** out of him… ******* *******.
    leyendomanos leyendomanos 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    Just had a screaming match with my stepdad.

    Who says he works to hard to come home and do anything like play with his son, cook, take the trash out, really just anything. It's mine and my moms job to do everything.
    LifeRebel LifeRebel 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2014

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    He Needs To Be In Jail

    My step dad talk to my mom any kind of way my mom could not stand up for her self so my brother told him to respect our mother before he have to get involved. My step dad got extremely pissed and kicked him out of our house. I was very ANGRY because me and my brother didnt want...
    hersheycheeka12 hersheycheeka12 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    I Hate My Stepdad

    So I have known my step-dad ever since I was 6 or 7. When i was younger i liked him, but for the past 3 years he has really started to get on my nerves and just be plain creepy. I started to not to really like him when he married my mom when i was 11. Ever since then he has done...
    katper1223 katper1223 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2013

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    i really hate my stepdad.

    my mom married this man when i was about five or six, now i am 14. he had a kid with my mom. everyday he screams at me. and if i argue back he almost hits me. i go to my grandparents house every weekend but he hates that. every friday he screams at me for going with them. i...
    adrianleyva adrianleyva 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 17, 2014

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    Turd Burger

    Turd burger, cupboard boy *** hole head. Hate him HAte Him HATE HIM!! i'm so glad i found a group of ppl who share my frustration. I'm 17 and just got my p plates, sooooooooo good cause now it will b so easy 4 me to avoid him. He is everything i hate in a person, self...
    Merlez Merlez 16-17, F Dec 24, 2008

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    I Dont Like My Step Dad

    he always looking at me and everytime i get on the computer he looks at me and when i go to the refragiator he stares at me when me my mom and my two younger brother and him go out to eat he stares at me right in my face and then when we go...
    brownada12 brownada12 16-17, F Sep 6, 2012

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    My stepdad is such a mean man,

    the first day I met him he was really nice, but when he moved in with me in my mom and sister everything he changed. Me and my sister where really young when he moved in with us and he would tell my mom lies on us just to get us in trouble, but he hated me the most I remember...
    Dahsweetheart Dahsweetheart 18-21, F Dec 22, 2013

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    Predator Of My Life

    yes, i call him predator coz he behaves like a predator,i dont believe how i survived till today...he abused me,i cried everyday and no one tried to protect me from him....nobody knows what i have been through,i still have scars in my heart...its hard to overcome this pain....i...
    maniwani maniwani 26-30 1 Response Jul 5, 2013

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