I Hate My Stepdad

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    It has been just my mum,

    sister and I for a very long time. I also see my dad but I mainly live with my mum. We were struggling with money for a long time and moved into a council flats, but we still loved each other with all our hearts. One day my mum met a man and soon after this they were married. I...
    Music007007 Music007007
    13-15, F
    Jan 3

    I live at two different houses.

    One with my dad and one with my mom and her partner. My mom moved in with my stepdad when I was 7 or 8 and I've never gotten to really liking the guy. He's a pessimistic, biased, aggressive, "I am the most perfect being to ever be born why can't you be perfect like I am...
    ayazmisarenrag ayazmisarenrag
    18-21, M
    Jan 21, 2014

    Hello, First this has happened before.

    last time it was because I was "sulking" since I didn't say anything on a 2-5 minute journey back from my grandmas. He took my phone, laptop, kindle and EVEN my old phone which I haven't used in years, and he must've taken it because it was my only form of contact- which is very...
    xx44Anon44xx xx44Anon44xx
    13-15, F
    Nov 10, 2015

    mine is terrible. he thinks

    that women are just idiots. he comes from a very stereotypical white family. he likes to say that I don't know anything because I'm young and he attacks my mom and brother. we deserve waaay better then him
    NarayanaUnicorn NarayanaUnicorn
    13-15, F
    1 Response May 13, 2015

    Ever since I remember my stepdad has done

    everything to try and rip my family apart. He's cheated on my mum, lied to her and causes arguments for no reason and the worst thing is it doesn't help because he's an alcoholic so he has been violent with me and my mum and sister. I keep out of his way so it doesn't cause...
    Tulip3198 Tulip3198
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 31, 2014

    Scumbag...

    So my mom has made some bad decisions in her life. Both my father and my stepfather are examples of this. My parents got divorced when I was 2 because my dad is an alcoholic and a drug addict. But I still love him, because he's my dad. My stepdad, on the other hand, I hate him. I...
    wanderingthroughlife wanderingthroughlife
    18-21
    4 Responses Jun 22, 2008

    Like I said before if ur on his good side ur ok

    but when ur on his bad side........bad things will start to happen. this morning I was sooo tired, I slept for like an hour and then my sister woke me up. It was 6 in the morning and my mom and step dad where in the kitchen arguing as usual, but for some reason a part of me...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2014

    He's such an *** so disrespectful

    and perverted and abusive. Bleh. I hope Santa hits him with a frying pan
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Dec 6, 2015

    I know I made an experience before

    but now I'm confused. It feels like my mom and his' connection is fading because they don't really talk like they used to and now I feel so bad for him. I think my mom has been ignoring him and i can't help but feel like she's going to leave him and as much as I dislike him I...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda
    13-15, F
    Mar 4, 2015

    He's so ******* gross I'll be going to take a

    pee and he'll be taking a **** with the door open like oh my god dude he's 60 years old and he gets mad about me having my school books on the coffee table in the living room I swear when ever I'm sick or hurt he'll just shrug and say she'll get over it soon ugh I wish he'd die...
    CookieMonsta16 CookieMonsta16
    18-21, F
    Jul 1, 2015
    Anna2001 Anna2001
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 4, 2015

    My Step Dad Makes Me Sick

    he alwys try to hit me when i say somethin to him when i tell him to stop starring at me he use to hit my mom to he act so crazy and mean he alwys pickin at y brothers i dont understand why he hits people if they say something he...
    brownada12 brownada12
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 10, 2012

    I don't hate him. I feel sorry

    for him, and the way he makes my mom and I feel. He just go back from treatment for his PTSD, he's had it for years and everything was going good, but that never lasts long with him. He got prescribed medicinal marijuana and abused it. He's unstable and right before we sent him...
    qwernia qwernia
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2014

    OMG my stepfather is

    so ******* aggressive some times I just want to smack the **** out of him… ******* *******.
    leyendomanos leyendomanos
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2015

    So today, I was watching my little sister

    while my stepdad took my brother and my dog to the dog park. When he left I noticed that my sister had green marker on her hands. I tried cleaning it off but it wouldn't come off. when they came back he starts yelling at me because he thought that I wasn't watching her. After he...
    felicia1106 felicia1106
    13-15, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2015

    My stepdad is such a mean man,

    the first day I met him he was really nice, but when he moved in with me in my mom and sister everything he changed. Me and my sister where really young when he moved in with us and he would tell my mom lies on us just to get us in trouble, but he hated me the most I remember...
    Dahsweetheart Dahsweetheart
    18-21, F
    Dec 22, 2013

    Just had a screaming match with my stepdad.

    Who says he works to hard to come home and do anything like play with his son, cook, take the trash out, really just anything. It's mine and my moms job to do everything.
    LifeRebel LifeRebel
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 24, 2014

    My Mom Always Chooses Her Husband Over Me.

    I'm 17. When i was 9, my mom met her current husband. I was young and so I didnt really have a problem with it, but i saw the way he treated my brother and sister. He hated them because he wasnt able to control them... My sister was the first to leave at 16, then my brother at 16...
    NiallsIrishSwag NiallsIrishSwag
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2012

    Thanks to him I'm scared of men.

    I flinch whenever I hear a male voice shout or see one raise a hand and I'm overall terrified. I don't think smashing a glass cereal bowl in my face was a suitable punishment for giving him a angry look cause honestly he deserves to be hit by a ******* car. He makes my life...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 1, 2015

    He is such a *****. He thinks he knows

    everything but he doesn't. He ruins my family. Ruins my whole life. Ruins everything I am and want to be. I hate him. He's the reason I'm depressed, seeking attention, wanting guys to like me. He makes me feel so insignificant and insecure. He is worthless to me. I hate him. I...
    Sib232228 Sib232228
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    My mom married my stepdad mike 5 years ago.

    At first he seem nice kinda funny. But soon into the their marriage his true colors began to show. Now my mother isn't a saint either and she used to abuse me but she recently stopped or rather more of lessen she often tries to have heart to heart chats with me and she admitted...
    Coconutsin1698 Coconutsin1698
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2014

    I hate him so friggin much.

    This is bad to say but I swear if he drove off a cliff would be dancing at his funeral.
    kat990 kat990
    13-15
    1 Response Jun 28, 2014

    I hate my stepdad. He's the reason my mum

    doesn't fight for us and lost her backbone. He is very biased to his two sons (one of them is my stepsibling, the other my halfsibling) and if anything happens to them while we're around he scolds us like crazy and makes us feel like an outcast. He gives this vibe where we don't...
    sofiahafirda sofiahafirda
    16-17, F
    May 17, 2015

    He's such a **** he never has anything nice

    or good to say and even if I do something good he just says how I could have done it better and he talks so much **** I just I feel like I cry in the shower every night so no one sees my tears
    KittyLannister KittyLannister
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 24

    The whole topic stresses me out,

    but I have to pour my feelings into something. My step dad has anger issues where he isn't afraid to hit me, but I don't even care about that. I can ignore that; I ignore the insults that I'm called. I can just block all of it out. My mom wants a divorce because she sees it too...
    whateverr10 whateverr10
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jul 21, 2015

    My stepdad is lower than garbage.

    His belated wife died "mysteriously" of a drug overdose. He has been the subject of domestic abuse implications numerous times in the past. It is suspected that he is currently on meth judging by the always missing foil, white powder, and cut straws that have been found. This is...
    CaitlinK08 CaitlinK08
    26-30, F
    Apr 18, 2014

    He's a Liar a closet homo has disrespected

    me has disrespected my mother has no care for us cold as ice piece of **** disgusting dirty filty hate his guts
    hg111 hg111
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 24

    I hate my stepdad. As what he did to me I loved

    him when he 1st came into moms life he was one of the family but after a bit he turned smacking us drinking and. Drugs and then he started. Have sex with me rapeing me I hope he goes to hell
    Joanne181 Joanne181
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 11, 2015

    Well it all started in 2011-12

    when he moved in my house and ever since then, it's been hell. He would lie to my mom all the time and yell at us for nothing. I would spend weeks at my grandmom's house and as soon as i came back, He would yell at me for messing up the house before i could put my things down...
    Therewaspieinthefridge Therewaspieinthefridge
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2014

    I am sorry but i do. Its been me

    and mom all my life and now its up. I love that he makes mommy happy, but he is so mean to me and hard on me. I am never good enough for him and always in trouble
    SadAlyssa SadAlyssa
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 8, 2015

    Well. Parents fighting again.

    . Its becoming more and often. He makes my mother cry all the time and I really want to step up and say something but every time I do my mom gets angry at me for it.. I don't know what to do.
    Dacer13 Dacer13
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2014

    my mum decided to go back with my stepdad

    and we are going to see him this weekend at his home. when he was my stepdad I still remember been spanked by him regular.
    tony2014 tony2014
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 13, 2014

    he is nice like never he always has something

    mean to say and he grounds me for the littlest things it's dumb
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 24

    Ok... hate is a strong word

    and I was taught not to use it but I strongly dislike my step dad. I mean John is a goof guy and all but he is super annoying like he is so loud and he would just fart any and everywhere and not even say exuse me ... he is NOT MY DAD but he acts like it and i don't like it he he...
    hzleyeztoo hzleyeztoo
    13-15, F
    Oct 7, 2015

    He is always tryna get me in trouble

    for no type of reason like he need to sit down. always scrramin at me and of course when I slap the **** out of him my m come slap me cuz she think my stepdad right about everything.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2015

    Gee, such hate for stepdads here.

    As one my own self, I'm sorry to hear so many kids have bad ones. I'm a good one, I think, even though our girls would probably say I'm sometimes too strict with them. Feel like venting about stepfathers in real time? Find me on Messenger under my EP handle.
    Stepfatherx2 Stepfatherx2
    61-65, M
    Jul 15, 2014

    Whenever I'm in the same room with him,

    I feel extremely uncomfortable and angry. My mom is trying to force me to eat family dinner with him but my therapist says I'm not ready and I also don't think I am. I feel like I might snap at any second. I was forced to last night and it was so horrible. I don't know what to...
    DemonicallyPossessed DemonicallyPossessed
    18-21, M
    Dec 25, 2014

    Well.. About 2 years ago my mum

    and step dad got married and we didn't get along at all so u loved to my grandparents and last year when my mum cheated e became horrible to me and my mum didn't seem to noticed now they are divorced and everyone blames me for it
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 21, 2014

    Well before my stepdad came along in our lives,

    me and my mom never had such a thing as asking for each other's phone passwords. But once he came in our lives, he started banding me from the wifi because I bought a MacBook Air with my own money. Now whenever he walks in anywhere I can see or hear him, my mood turn the moment...
    JcCrazyLife JcCrazyLife
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Aug 30, 2015

    My mom got married to a guy

    and I just plain don't like him they fight all the time he never says I love you to me a lot and I just miss my dad and yes I have a house and things but I dot want these things I just want my real dad and my life how it was
    ZaniyaWard13 ZaniyaWard13
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 11, 2014
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