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I Hate My Stepdaughter

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    So SD came thurs after telling my husband she

    wanted to, she was fine thurs night... Annoying as always for me but she was fine. She played with the boys and then fri morning before school they were all playing outside.... They were all happy. Hubby took them to school. Anyway, mommy dearest who has brainwashing SD was...
    MommyToMine MommyToMine 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    She comes home today

    after spending two weeks at my mom's house and I am already dreading it. She's going to get on my nerves for sure and absolutely detest dealing with her. I am 8 months pregnant and would like to enjoy this time in peace. She is going to be the reason why I end my marriage.
    Wisdomswisdom Wisdomswisdom 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    every time I post something

    or try to on here I get flagged... I'm obviously not the only person that dislikes their stepdaughter, considering the group was made long before I joined.
    gallaforth gallaforth 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    this morning, at 4:45 am,

    i gently touched my sweet sleeping husband to awaken him, as he had instructed the ex to drop off SD at 5am for their trip today. he's taking her to NYC for an anniversary celebration hosted by his favorite publisher. i made him coffee, helped him pack a lunch, and kissed him...
    tryingtobeamazing tryingtobeamazing 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 18

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    So happy to find this site.

    Where I can say aloud I HATE MY F**KIN STEPDAUGHTER....actually I don't even want to acknowledge her as that. She is simply my husbands oldest offspring. She's a selfish, lazy, disrespectful b****. I cant wait until life chews her up and spits her out. She has this sense of...
    crissyboo87 crissyboo87 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    How To Keep Your Stepdaughters Away From Your House

    Ladies, after reading lots of posts here on how much we hate our SDs, well, I am half way through on banning them from visiting my house, at least for a while. Really hope that those of you who are suffering from the pain that your SDs caused you, will soon deserve the true love...
    Janicemann Janicemann 22-25 16 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    Her worthless mother has programmed her

    so bad it's sickening. My husband has dropped our visits to once a month, thank god. Her mom says she doesn't want to come at all and she only wants a relationship with him and his oldest son. Not me, which is fine, but also not my boys (who sd loves btw) and our newborn son...
    MommyToMine MommyToMine 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    I could write for hours about this manipulative

    brat. SD moved in with us 3 months ago. For the 17.5 years prior to that she lived with her mother who is a pathological liar and drama queen. My SD is morbidly obese and her mother is bulimic/anorexic. She refused to enroll her in any sports (dance, swim, soccer) even when we...
    SJosephine SJosephine 36-40, F 5 Responses May 30, 2014

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    I can't quite figure this girl out.

    She's 17, hasn't seen her bio mom since 2011. She doesn't want to live with her mom or even visit her. She likes talking to BM on her cell phone however and she's said that she will be here for graduation next year. I get ALL the teen years and the attitudes and rebelliousness...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    She's Not a Bad Kid

    She is 14 and decided to move in with me and her dad soon after I found out I was pregnant, this is my first baby and is actually my husbands first baby also... He didn't get a chance to help raise her as he got someone pregnant when he was 14. He didn't see this child till she...
    tatiana tatiana 26-30, F 79 Responses Dec 3, 2007

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    I Am An Evil Stepdaughter well at least

    according to some of your posts. I found this site because I was looking for advice on how to get along with my stepmom, and this made me even more hopeless. The hate and selfishness in these posts towards your spouse's daughter is extremely depressing. I don't get along with my...
    evilstepdaughter evilstepdaughter 26-30 2 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    Such a glorious thing happened a few weeks ago.

    My family was in town visiting and we were all sitting down to dinner at a local restaurant. DH gets to talking to his daughter about her band stuff at school, and she comes out and says tat she was kicked out of band. Why, you ask? Because she missed so many classes and...
    Milktheostrich Milktheostrich 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 28, 2014

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    When I read these stories,

    I realize that I am not the only person going through this and I am not crazy. This is reassuring. My stepdaughter has made it her mission in life to tear me down and drive a wedge between me and her dad. She is 12 and this has been going on since she was 6. There have...
    point1 point1 36-40 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    Am I the only one who strongly dislikes

    when people who aren't members of this group call themselves trying to lecture, scold, judge or educate us?
    Wisdomswisdom Wisdomswisdom 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    So I told my husband

    that he needs to consider allowing his daughter stay in MO when she goes for the summer. This morning, I dropped his daughter off at the bus stop and by the time I had returned back to the house, I had an email from her teacher stating that she has gotten in trouble yet again...
    Wisdomswisdom Wisdomswisdom 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    We've Been Infiltrated!

    Yes, ladies. Some little pouty stepdaughter whose daddy dared to marry another woman is posting in our group now. Expect very soon to see her nasty little posts on your experiences. She'll no doubt leave you a little quip full of her huffing and puffing, cursing us evil witches...
    Milktheostrich Milktheostrich 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    I am seriously considering telling my husband

    that he needs to figure out what to do with his daughter because I am beyond fed up. First and foremost because I don't think I should be the one dealing with her 99.9% of the time. She is not my kid...shouldn't one of her parents be the ones bearing the brunt of the...
    Wisdomswisdom Wisdomswisdom 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    I never thought I'd be saying something like

    this, but I'm so glad to have found an outlet for it because it's taking my sanity lately. My fiancé and I have been together for about 3 years now and she is the love of my life. Both of us are divorced and have children from previous marriages. My daughter (8) lives with her...
    DookSilvur116 DookSilvur116 26-30, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    I am sitting here once again dreading Sunday,

    because that's when SD7 and SD5 arrive and ruin everything until my partner drops them off at school on Monday morning. We have them every Sunday overnight, and then again on Tuesday evenings. I know it's not much, but it makes me crazy. Every Sunday becomes all about SD7 (who...
    reluctantstepmom reluctantstepmom 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    Her mom called me last weekend to tell me

    that my stepdaughter is behaving better. She's getting better grades in school, and she's registering for classes at the community college. My first thought was "Maybe she's growing up and getting her life together." Then her mother's next words were: She's hoping she can...
    maemaddy maemaddy 31-35 4 Responses Apr 3

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    It is not a lie, a phase I am going through

    or any other temporary circumstance, I truly and honestly from the bottom of my heart do not enjoy having to deal with my husband's daughter. She turns the simplest conversation or daily task into a nightmare. She is the one aspect of my life that I wish I could change daily...
    Wisdomswisdom Wisdomswisdom 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 22

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    Hates a powerful word

    and bet step children pick up on it. I know how it feels to receive hate cause of sexuality. We have three beautiful children 2 daughters 15 and 13 and son 11 but when we first sent them to school they told people they have to mom's. at first they were ok with it some were...
    Lezsoccermom75 Lezsoccermom75 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    So my stepdaughter, who has not spoken to me in

    at least a year, has been engaged for a few months now. Apparently, she called her dad the other day and asked if he thought I would go wedding dress shopping with her. He thought this was just soooooo sweet of her. Seriously? This is a girl who will not even acknowledge me...
    Emilie75 Emilie75 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    My partner has a 5 year old daughter from a

    previous relationship. He claims he had never wanted kids but that chick just stopped taking her pills without telling him. We've been talking lately and he said he couldn't promise me he would like a kid with me. I feel like this relationship should end. I want to have a kid...
    fosterpaste fosterpaste 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Warning For A Potential Stepmother Or Stepfather: Are You Making The Right Decision?

    I'm writing this in the hope that it will be found through a Google search by some person who is considering getting married to a person with children. To be honest, if I had read this before I got married I'm not sure it would have changed anything.  But at least I can say...
    FrustratedSF1 FrustratedSF1 31-35, M 130 Responses May 13, 2010

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    Here is a question to all stepmoms.

    My hubby has a picture of him and SD on his nightstand next to our bed. I always turn the pic away from the bed and like once a month he turns it back. I want to ask him to take it out of our room. I don't want to see the product of a woman he used to have sex with. Is that too...
    2Loves1Hate 2Loves1Hate 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 8

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    Well I think the reason

    why I hate this 9 years old manipulative little b.... is because 99% of my discussions with her father (my boyfriend) is because of her! I already wrote before about it here...she is selfish and spoiled as hell and she give attitude to me and her dad when she is not getting her...
    thestepppy thestepppy 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    Getting Rid of Yur Stepdaughter

    I wanted to share my story because like all of you I hate my stepdaughter! However, I took action and got rid of her, from my life at least. I live with my fiance who had is 8 year old daughter every weekend when we first started dating. A year and a half later he sees her 3 to 4...
    cellens11 cellens11 18-21 192 Responses Jul 25, 2009

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    UPDATE: we are on the mend.

    thanks to this site, and the wonderful people on it, my hubs and i are working toward a new life without the constant interference of the ex and the SD. i have been clear about my boundaries, and he has heard me. he has developed a new plan to parent his daughter, outside of my...
    tryingtobeamazing tryingtobeamazing 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    my new husband is angry.

    a lot. he's angry that his ex is insane. he's angry that his oldest can't handle half-time college and is so hopped up on meds that she's dropping out and forfeiting her scholarships and grants. he's angry that his son, 14, had rejected everything his dad tried to teach him and...
    tryingtobeamazing tryingtobeamazing 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I've posted about this subject before,

    but since my last post things are very different. My girlfriend (K) and I are no longer together, but we are living together. She broke it off with me in January and ever since then I've been trying to get my affairs in order so I can move out and take care of my autistic...
    LostStepDad LostStepDad 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 23

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    I'm having pretty bad anxiety about tmrw.

    Hubby hasn't seen SD since March 1st and he has to go see her tomorrow and if she wants to come to our home she will if not she's getting dropped off to her mom. I feel like I'm throwing him to a pack of wolves... She's so brainwashed we already know what's going to come out of...
    MommyToMine MommyToMine 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    So here's my update..

    .it's Monday. I am back from my anniversary to find that a) she was walking around the babysitters house talking to people in a non childlike manner being a smart azz and rude. (basically what she's not allowed to do here) b) she is starting my week off wrong already with the...
    Wisdomswisdom Wisdomswisdom 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    So mommy dearest isn't going to let him

    relinquish rights not without screwing him over more. So he's going to take the brat to dinner once or twice a month and if she wants to come to our house she will and if not she's going to be dropped back off to her mother. Her moms programmed her to hate us all though so I'm...
    MommyToMine MommyToMine 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    My SD lives with us full time

    and my husband works more then I do so I have his kid 90% of the time. I also have a son and we have another son together. Everyone in our house gets along perfectly, except for my SD. She is 6 and poops and pees her pants when shes mad. She clolors on walls and hits the baby. I...
    Stephthestep Stephthestep 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Oh Can't You Quit Your Complaining?!

    All in all? Most of you sound jealous your husbands (or boyfriends) care more about their daughters than you. 'WAH I HATE MY STEPDAUGHTER. she gets more attention from me than my husbandddddd. she eats at home. he helps pay to take care of her. she has a learning disability...
    ttopper ttopper 18-21 14 Responses Nov 26, 2011

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    I am feeling so depressed right now

    because SD is coming tonight through Sunday. I am so tired of the yo-yo relationship with my husband. We are pretty much awesome until she comes. All he does when she is here is make everything about her and his excuse is, she is hardly ever here. Why does this have to be so...
    2Loves1Hate 2Loves1Hate 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    Dear Significant Other:

    Hello, darling. I know you'll end up reading this because you've found my rantings in the past. Well, that's fine. I've never said anything on here that I haven't said to your face (or over the phone, as sometimes happens). We had another argument this morning about your...
    Milktheostrich Milktheostrich 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    I am drunk right now.

    Just had amazing sez with the husband and the last thing he talks about before we go to bed is SD. She comes tomorrow only until Sunday. Why would he talk about her after we spent an amazing hour together. I am furious and on the couch while he is peacefully sleeping in bed. I...
    2Loves1Hate 2Loves1Hate 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 24

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    so she's in my house.

    her mother dumped her on us so that she could run off to the crazy college student, who is now apparently going to some loony bin in Cincinnati and dropping out of UVA. SD has been badmouthing me to the mother and her brother (who lives with me) since we got back from the trip...
    tryingtobeamazing tryingtobeamazing 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    Thank God I'm not married yet.

    I am engaged to a guy who for the most part has been good to me in our relationship. I have 2 issues that are preventing me from marrying him; My son and his daughter. My fiancé & his 2 girls live with me but they do not have a relationship with my son. It's weird, we all live...
    stepmominpgh stepmominpgh 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 13

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    I am engaged and we recently moved in together.

    He has 3 kids...only 1 who visits every weekend. I have 2 boys full time. His 4 yr old daughter is a nightmare. She is bossy to my boys and I and her daddy gives her whatever she wants. She does not have a bedtime when she is here and she cries if he doesn't sleep with her. She...
    mortician87 mortician87 26-30, F 54 Responses Feb 5, 2014

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    Okay, well let me begin by stating how nice it

    is to have found this forum of people who not only understand what I am going through, but share the same struggles. I live the same life as so many of you. I have an eight year old step-daughter who is ruining not only my marriage, but my life. I must admit, that in reality, I...
    Gracey0079 Gracey0079 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 22, 2014

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    How can we (step parents) be expected to endure

    such misery? How dare our husbands/wifes bring us into these lives? We were fine before them and now such misery...and they do nothing...and experience only the "nagging" we are left with as our only defense...I want to hear from the parents of these NASTY human beings that...
    THS1963 THS1963 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 5, 2014

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    This Is What Worked For Me...It's Called

    I won't bore you all with my story of the evil troll I am loath to call my step-daughter. I have the same stories as almost everyone here...some worse, some better. The only difference is the way in which I decided to deal. On another site I came across an idea that seem to fit...
    USinUK USinUK 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    A message to the people

    who like to read our stories and post their comments on how hateful we are: SHUT THE HELL UP. This is a forum of support and understanding. As step-parents, we are all struggling with our issues regarding our SKs. That's why we post our stories and feelings here; to rant, to...
    Milktheostrich Milktheostrich 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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