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I Hate My Stepdaughter

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    Such a glorious thing happened a few weeks ago. My family was in town visiting and we were all sitting down to dinner at a local restaurant. DH gets to talking to his daughter...
    Milktheostrich Milktheostrich 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    For the last 8 years I've been raising my girlfriends two daughters along with my own. The oldest of the two, who turns 16 next month, is completely out of control. Ever since she...
    LostStepDad LostStepDad 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 2

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    Shes 9 years old and she is the only kid in Earth I detest!..she is my boyfriend's daughter, but she got nothing from him cause hes a wonderful person and I love him so much, but...
    thestepppy thestepppy 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    my girlfriend of 4 years has broken up with me .. reasons shes given 1.. her daughter hates me with a furious passion and it will never change 2.. lifestyle diferences... im...
    templar1307 templar1307 46-50, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Faking Sick - So, SD has had a "stomach ache" and naturally, that means we have to babysit her while she misses school for no reason. There is NOTHING WRONG with this child. She's...
    Milktheostrich Milktheostrich 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    Why Do I Feel This Way? - I've come here for some advice, I've been with my husband for over 4 years now and I knew he had two daughters when I married him. One is 9 the other is 7...
    br0210 br0210 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 5, 2013

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    I don't feel bad about this at all. I have 2 SD's. I have known them since they were 3 and 5. They are now 13 and 15. I have a close relationship with the 15 year old, let's...
    skidmom skidmom 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    My Letter To Her - I've had some time to really think about what I want to say to you and I am going to try to put it down on paper so that you can read over it and think about it...
    Madreofmany Madreofmany 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 14, 2013

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    I'm 26 years old and I have a step daughter 3 years younger than I. I when I first moved in everything seemed fine we would get a long pretty good i thought. It wasn't until she...
    malcant46 malcant46 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 10

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    She's Not a Bad Kid - She is 14 and decided to move in with me and her dad soon after I found out I was pregnant, this is my first baby and is actually my husbands first baby also...
    tatiana tatiana 26-30, F 79 Responses Dec 3, 2007

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    Oh Can't You Quit Your Complaining?! - All in all? Most of you sound jealous your husbands (or boyfriends) care more about their daughters than you. 'WAH I HATE MY STEPDAUGHTER...
    ttopper ttopper 18-21 12 Responses Nov 26, 2011

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    She's Only Five Years Old - Things moved really fast when I met my husband. We were married a year from our first date, in September of 2010. My daughter from my first marriage is...
    notarealmomastepmom notarealmomastepmom 31-35 4 Responses May 28, 2011

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    My Husband Thinks She's a Princess! - My step-daughter is well-mannered and sweet, but can utilize those fine skills to be very manipulative and get exactly what she wants.  She...
    kathie618 kathie618 36-40 30 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    How To Keep Your Stepdaughters Away From Your House - Ladies, after reading lots of posts here on how much we hate our SDs, well, I am half way through on banning them from...
    Janicemann Janicemann 22-25 15 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    Well I think the reason why I hate this 9 years old manipulative little b.... is because 99% of my discussions with her father (my boyfriend) is because of her! I already wrote...
    thestepppy thestepppy 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have a 17 y/o SD who had been addicted to drugs since she was 13. She had only lived with her mother until she got in trouble with the law at 15, then her mother handed her off...
    Dakari Dakari 36-40, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Hate Being Home - It's been over two years that I've dealt with her. She's still whiny, rude, disrespectful and annoying. And I've tried to get along with her. Trust me, I've tried...
    Milktheostrich Milktheostrich 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2013

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    I don't really hate. hate is a very strong word . My husband treats his 2 yr old daughter from previous relationship better then our daughter .For example he buys his daughter...
    Redgirljanine Redgirljanine 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 14

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    I am the step to 3 adult children. I've been a part of their lives for 20 years. For 20 years I gave and gave and I gave some more. The eldest daughter is about to be married. She...
    beingastepsucks beingastepsucks 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    This Is What Worked For Me...It's Called - I won't bore you all with my story of the evil troll I am loath to call my step-daughter. I have the same stories as almost everyone here...
    USinUK USinUK 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2013

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    Never thankful is what she is. Stepdaughter is allowed to participate in the play which requires me to go back out across town and pick her up. She gets annoyed and upset too often...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    I don't know why but I can't stand my boyfriends 3 year old daughter she is already having attitude throwing fits and whenever she sees me she hides in pillows, blankets runs away...
    jasmin1030 jasmin1030 22-25, F Mar 6

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    Game On Honey!! - Okay it's on!! I have turned the corner. The time has come to stop trying to protect her from herself and instead to protect myself FROM her! I have left my...
    Madreofmany Madreofmany 41-45, F Feb 26, 2012

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    The Visitation Aftermath: I thought our visit went well. The SD was out for 5 days. Right off the bat, I told her I wasn't putting a lock on my door because I wasn't changing the...
    maemaddy maemaddy 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    IF IT'S NOT TOO LATE....SAVE YOURSELF!!!!! Things I've experienced as a Step. *Any material item I ever cared for broken or stolen. *Beloved pets killed or tormented. *Toothbrushes...
    beingastepsucks beingastepsucks 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    This Will Be A Long Story But Someone Please Read I Really Need To Know Iam Not The Only One Who Hates Their Stepdaughter!!! - Ok where to begin...I met my husband about 3 yrs. ago...
    ss2013 ss2013 18-21 4 Responses Dec 12, 2010

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    Okay, first of all, please no mean judgments towards me, it's not like I decided one day to start hating her. This was a progression to it. My SD is 10 years old with the...
    marikate82 marikate82 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 18

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    Dear Significant Other: - Hello, darling. I know you'll end up reading this because you've found my rantings in the past. Well, that's fine. I've never said anything on here...
    Milktheostrich Milktheostrich 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    I wish she could just visit in the summers or on weekends like most normal stepchildren. But, no her sorry mother gave her away and SD prefers to live here because she says she...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    Feeling Helpless to My Stepdaughter's Cruelty - Hi... I am feeling completely helpless to deal with my stepdaughter's cruelty toward me.  Hopefully some of you can offer a...
    DeserveBetterThanThis DeserveBetterThanThis 46-50 28 Responses Dec 25, 2008

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    I am posting this under the experience "I Hate My Stepdaughter" because I have updated this particular community about the issues revolving around her. In order to understand the...
    sheyshey12 sheyshey12 26-30 2 Responses Mar 5

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    I've Made a Complete Mess of Things - I hardly know where to begin.  My husband and I have been married 9 years.  We were both widowed with one daughter each. ...
    lgs45 lgs45 41-45 3 Responses Dec 21, 2008

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    My stepmother despises me. She yells at me over and over and she made me cry several times. She almost hit me and I hate her too.
    LucyGirlAkita2 LucyGirlAkita2 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    I haven't seen her since November. This makes me happy. Although, DH Will be going to court soon for visitation. Cringe. But maybe it's a good thing that there will be a schedule...
    angiede angiede 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Sd Dropped Her Barrette In Her Potty Directly Into Her Poop... - ...and sure I wasn't fishing it out of there!  I had my own baby in October, so non biological SD wants more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    Visitation Prequel: Why I should have known she's still a brat. My stepdaughter's godmothers decided that as a result of her behaviors on her last two trips with them, this...
    maemaddy maemaddy 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I am engaged and we recently moved in together. He has 3 kids...only 1 who visits every weekend. I have 2 boys full time. His 4 yr old daughter is a nightmare. She is bossy to my...
    mortician87 mortician87 26-30, F 59 Responses Feb 5

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    Poem About Her Graduation - I didn't come to watch you Walk across the stage. I didn't come to see you on your special day. This day when every eye, is focused just on you...
    Madreofmany Madreofmany 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    Well, it has been awhile...SD has been out for a week...yes, she ran away...and get this: hasn't attended school for the past 3 weeks all the while having her father and I believe...
    THS1963 THS1963 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    Once Again This Little Idiot Is Running My Life! - i freakin hate this kid...seriously. theres no more even using somewhat nice words to describe her...she is a little idiot and i...
    frustratedmess frustratedmess 26-30 5 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    You know, it's such a small thing, but there are times when you're doing something in your day, and something clicks in your head. It's like your brain is working on it, and then...
    maemaddy maemaddy 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    Still gone...ahhhh! Her dad is such a wimp...he's talked to her a couple of times but, he wouldn't dare ask her why she left, why she quit school or why she stole my things and...
    THS1963 THS1963 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    When I read these stories, I realize that I am not the only person going through this and I am not crazy. This is reassuring. My stepdaughter has made it her mission in life to...
    point1 point1 36-40 3 Responses Feb 24

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    I really don't hate my SD, actually totally non-caring about her after 37 years of marriage to her father. She was 7 years old when we married, her parents divorced when she was 2...
    rejecteda1 rejecteda1 66-70 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I long for the day I don't have to come on here to vent. I just found out my SD has been drinking. Like, she's 13! I wasn't of age when I first drank but I sure wasn't drinking...
    Countrychicky Countrychicky 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Getting Rid of Yur Stepdaughter - I wanted to share my story because like all of you I hate my stepdaughter! However, I took action and got rid of her, from my life at least. I...
    cellens11 cellens11 18-21 176 Responses Jul 25, 2009

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    I am getting married this summer. My future stepdaughter is 25, 100 lbs overweight and very immature. She has never been on a date and acts as though she is to young to think...
    obsessednyc obsessednyc 46-50, F 7 Responses Feb 21

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    My husband and I have been together for 9 years and have a 7 year old son together. When we met, I was a single mum to my 2 year old son and he had a 2 year old daughter who liver...
    don11282 don11282 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    We've Been Infiltrated! - Yes, ladies. Some little pouty stepdaughter whose daddy dared to marry another woman is posting in our group now. Expect very soon to see her nasty little...
    Milktheostrich Milktheostrich 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    She'S Finally Gone But I Can'T Let Go Of The Hurt And Anger - My husband and I married when she was 10 years old and I have known her since she was 8. I truly loved her. Her mother...
    Madreofmany Madreofmany 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    I am living in a home that I fear will never feel like home because of my step children. My spouse has custody of his 17 year old daughter and my children and I moved in 6 months...
    notabadmom notabadmom 36-40 12 Responses Jan 17

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    So today the last couple of days since SD hasn't been home we have been going through her notes and stuff to help in my sons defense against the allegations of molestation. Well...
    Kaosinmyheart Kaosinmyheart 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 6