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I Hate My Stepson

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    Lost Between 2 Men & A Hard Place

    I married the love of my life this year....he has a son (adopted a ward of the state) who is actually the half-brother of his ex-wife. Confused yet?  He bonded with the boy & rather than sending him packing after the ex wife (sister of the boy) and adopted him last year. The...
    prairiedogger08 prairiedogger08 31-35 1 Response Sep 1, 2010

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    I can relate to all of the stories

    that evolve around "stepchildren." My husband and I have been married for 10 years, together for 12 years. I have a son and daughter, my husband has three sons. His children were raised with money, my children were raised with very little. How did the children fair as adults...
    pinterest pinterest 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Uhaul Needed

    I live with my partner and her two step sons.  The oldest is 17 and a senior in high school.  He wants his independance but doesn't see the relationship between responsibilty and independence.  He said some hurtful things to me the other night.  My partner did not back me up...
    jacknmaxx jacknmaxx 46-50 6 Responses Oct 15, 2011

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    This year makes 4 years

    that my husbands son has been living with us permanently. It has been a nightmare. He is now 10.5 years old and extremely disrespectful and rude. My husband and I have two boys together (2 & 4 years old). His son is such a nuisance when he is around. He still poops his pants and...
    Frustrated1982 Frustrated1982 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    My stepson aged 14 has been really hostile to me

    and my two new sons 14 & 16. My partner and stepsons dad split about a year ago (nothing to do with me). The dad of my stepson owns the house me and my partner are living in he has said he will never kick my partner or me out etc long story anyway. My house has three bedrooms...
    derick113 derick113 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    Fighting A Loseing Battle.

    ok so i have been married now for 4 years and i am deeply inlove with my husband we have a 2 year old daughter together. My husband has a son who is 12 his mother gave him up from birth as she was 17 and choose not to parent so my husband won full custody of him and he has had...
    1 Response Jan 31, 2013

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    I don't refer to them

    as my stepsons. They are my husband's children from a previous marriage. And, it is all to clear their criminal and social problems are a direct result of his ex-wife's bitterness and resentment from their divorce, that she did not want. He caught her cheating on him 20 years...
    Owliegirl Owliegirl 46-50 Jan 23

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    I Hate My Stepson And My Feelings For My Husband Are Almost Gone

    Married when step son was 9.  Step hated me from the moment I appeared.  Dad can't discipline child, due to guilt???   Step went to stay with mom from 13-15.  Came back bigger and more pissed.  Stayed about a year and moved in with grandma so she could commiserate with him...
    quilty55 quilty55 56-60 19 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    Hate Is A Rather Strong Word But I Cant Handle My Stepson.

    Let me give you background on my stepson. He is five years old and lives with us full time. His mom is bipolar and in prison. He has lived with us for over a year and a half. He is disruptive in preschool, hateful to me, and tells my daughter she is stupid. My daughter is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    I spent a ton of money on my stepson's grad

    party - the only request I had was no underage drinking. Had the convo at least 3 times. He ends the evening with drinking vodka, kicked him and his flavor of the month out 4 the night. Sorry - NOPE - I deserve respect in my own house.
    50fab 50fab 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    ADVICE NEEDED!!! I've been with my husband now

    for ten yrs and together we have four children. Three are his from previous relationships and my daughter from my first marriage. His oldest and youngest are very delightful to have around but that middle son is awful. He's nothing but a spoiled, disrespectful, lying, drug using...
    Just2tirednow Just2tirednow 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    Running Out Of Ideals

    This is a very long story but I will try to make it short. I have been married for a yr now, My husband and I have been together for 3 yrs altogether. I have 2 children of my own and he also has 2 children. The oldest child is like one of my own but the smallest( 4 yrs old) I...
    thegraylady1214 thegraylady1214 22-25 3 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    When the dad thinks the following are normal behaviour! At the wedding reception the 11 and 1/2 year old (then) cried like a baby because he wants to come with us, eventually went home with his grandma, which then phoned us twice, oh my goodness! What a way to start our...
    Kabousie Kabousie 41-45, F 1 Response May 6, 2013

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    My Ss Is A Mutant.

    My stepson in 5. He has no common sense and cant even follow simple tasks. I think he has aspergers but his biological mother and father won't get him tested. He is unberable to me because he doesn't think. He throws up at the dinner table if we dont give him the food he wants...
    Momster312 Momster312 22-25 4 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    My 11 Year Old Stepson

    I am ready to divorce my husband as well. My 10 year old SS throws himself on the ground, cries for 20-30 screaming saying I f***** hate you. If something doesn't go his way he winds up like a siren and cries and daddy comes running. My own children do not like to be around him...
    Kelliy Kelliy 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    I have three stepchildren.

    Two I adore and the eldest I cannot stand. He was 25 when I met his father and an addict (oxycodone). Like an idiot, I thought I would try to help him and let him house sit for me while I was away. I paid him well, too. And then I noticed that things were missing...
    SwimmerCate SwimmerCate 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    I'm Worried I'm Going To Hurt My Stepson.

    I'm in a horrible situation. I'm a divorced mother with an awesome 5 year old girl who just started kindergarten. 2.5 years ago, I reconnected with an old friend "Mark" from high school who had recently separated from his "baby mama" and had full custody of his 2.5 yo son. The...
    ssitton42 ssitton42 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    Nearly 22 years old, suckling his mother,

    and crybaby half-breed! Has had one visitation with my husband in all his 22 years that lasted 3 days, because though he and his sister had flown already from United States to Greece and he was 10 he couldn't be away from his precious Mummy. Called his mother on his cellphone as...
    MarinaDokar MarinaDokar 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I Despise My Stepson

    I have a 12 year old stepson whom I can not stand for the life of me... his dad and I are not married but I consider him my stepson since we have been a family for over 4 years now. I started disliking this kid about a year ago when he became incredibly disrespectful towards my 7...
    LilahMae82 LilahMae82 31-35, F 7 Responses May 6, 2013

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    good news and bad news - the step son moved out

    of the house - yahoooo - did the pharell williams happy dance! bad news is he still comes to visit a few times a week unannounced.
    50fab 50fab 46-50, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Doubtful Marriage

    Hi everyone,I'm new in this forum, the reason I'm asking for advice is because I'm loosing my mind thinking about my coming marriage to my fiancé. First I'm 33 yrs old, Never married, no kids and I had a very good job abroad before, till Me and my fiancé decided that I should...
    Ladylike8 Ladylike8 31-35 3 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    I Hate My Stepson And My Husband!

    My Stepson was 20 when I met his father and he lived at home then and he still lives at home now, and he's almost 28!  The pathetic, dysfunctional reality of it, is that he will never be a man and go out and make a life on his own because my husband doesn't...
    hailey238 hailey238 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2009

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    I Don't See A Good Outcome Here

    Myself and my 3 year old daughter live with my fiancée who has a 7 year old boy, who has some developmental/psychiatric/behavioral issues. Let me explain a little of the back history here. The boy at 5 months old was thrown and burned by his biological mother (who has been...
    denverchik24 denverchik24 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2013

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    My stepson aged 14 has been really hostile to me

    and my two new sons 14 & 16. My partner and stepsons dad split about a year ago (nothing to do with me). The dad of my stepson owns the house me and my partner are living in he has said he will never kick my partner or me out etc long story anyway. My house has three bedrooms...
    derick113 derick113 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    If your future spouse has kids,

    RUN...as far and fast as you can!
    user1billion user1billion 46-50, F 5 Responses May 1

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    Step Son Horror

    I have known my husband now for 22 years.We got together 3 years ago.Mystepson has made my life a living hell!!! He is only 15 and his dad will not discipline him.I am constantly argueing with dad to put his foot down but it goes on deaf ears.I have 2 girls which go to school and...
    nutsinnc nutsinnc 36-40 6 Responses Feb 2, 2012

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    Heartbreak

    My realtionship is in jeopardy and I hate to put the blame on my stepson the stress he puts on me is unreal . He never listens even in school . He has a very smart mouth and today he made me so angry I thought I was going to have a panic attack . For example he will call be a...
    wendy1972 wendy1972 36-40, F 9 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Demon Step Sons.

    I have been with my husband 4 years this September. He has 2 boys from a former relationship. Before we met, I was told I had a very small chance of ever having children, so when he had the DNA tests done and they came back as both being his I was estatic. I really wanted kids...
    EmoStarDust09 EmoStarDust09 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2013

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    Tommytee

    I absolutely have the worst of all stepchildren. He is a habitual liar and uses old grandmother's to get money.  This is my partners son and he acts like the biggest momma's boy that ever walked.  Thing is, he also lies to her and she believes the big liar.  I fully intend to...
    Frauke Frauke 51-55 4 Responses Apr 14, 2012

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    Not A Happy Step Mama

    i am a stay at home mother and step mother.. my daughter is 8 and my step son is 7. my partner and i have been together for 5 years, and i have been a big part if my stepsons life throughout his whole life. he used to live with his mother ( who i hate with a passion) but was...
    sheen1989 sheen1989 22-25, F 1 Response May 6, 2013

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    I Wanna Scream Hurtfull.Hateful.Lying.Stealing.Lazy.Disrespectful.Spounges...But

    I have 5 stepchildren and 2 daughters of my own. 1 of the 5 stepies is self sufficient. All are above the age of 16. Drug addict dealing mother. And the theory in my common laws family "kids only know what they learn" holds true. The youngest 2 girl 18 boy 16 are both sitting on...
    Jan 30, 2013

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    Pulling My Hair Out...

    I have been living with my boyfriend for 7 years. There is a bit of difference in our ages he is 15 years older than I am . I have two daughters ages 12 and 14 he has two sons ages 25 and 20 . They all have lived with us in this time period although the 25 year old has joined the...
    anna62477 anna62477 31-35 3 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    Need Advise, Please Help...

    well, where to start... I'm 33 yrs old, male, married, my wife is 28 and had a son from a very brief relationship (2 months she said). I met her about 4 years ago, felt in love with her and wanted her to be with me no matter what. At first, her son (barely 2yrs old) had a very...
    jp79 jp79 31-35, M 5 Responses Oct 20, 2012

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    My stepsons are products of their parents

    and I really dislike both of them most of the time. I've been with my husband for 15 years when the kids were 5 and 7. They are now 19 and 21 and I still cant stand when they are around. I have 2 pieces of advise for all of you stepmoms and stepdads who hate their stepkids: 1...
    rochesteranon rochesteranon 31-35 1 Response Jan 20

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    I hate my Stepson !! I hate

    that stupid boy, ugly, disgusting , idiot ... I don't know why my boyfriend was so stupid !!! One night that is it !!! One night with that ***** and now they have a stupid child !!!! I'm with him almost 2 years and that stupid boy has almost 3 years and I hate him . I always...
    aneblond aneblond 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    Help!!! I have 15 yr stepson

    that I just can't not tolerate! He is rude, disrespectful just like his crazy bio polar mother. Everything my husband and I do gets reported back to his mother. There are no trust in him from me or his father. Neither one of us want him at our house. The husband pays mega buck...
    sexywhw sexywhw 26-30, F 5 Responses May 23

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    Related Experiences

    Ok, I have a question and really need advice. My husband's ex-girlfriend and I have NEVER gotten along, and now it's to the point where we try to avoid each other at all cost. She...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    Let me start off by giving background on me…….. I grew up with my mom and stepdad. We had the normal family issues, and there were times that I threw out the "you’re not my...
    bevd928 bevd928 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I don't hate my job. I hate who I work with. I am in school and I also work. I work as a petcare guy at PetSmart. I've been there for 2.5 years and in that time I really started...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    So...I am just going to do some point forms here to give a basis: I cannot combine the past 5 years into one story but as I go I would like to share my experiences and would love...
    Deflatedone Deflatedone 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I hate it. I don't like it, I don't think it's cute, I will kick you in your ******* face. :p
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    i hate it all. its stupid and worthless. i know guys dont want me or want to talk to me. im just unattractive and i dont even try anymore because i know they dont like me. and its...
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 59 mins ago

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    Thanks, Taylor. That sounds like a great idea! "Shake It Off" "I stay out too late Got nothing in my brain That's what people say, mmm-mmm That's what people say, mmm-mmm I go on...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I think I'm in need of physcological help. I hate school, I hate homework, I hate how my mind set hates everything, I hate how I can't change that fact, I hate life, I hate food I...
    Kywen97 Kywen97 16-17, F Aug 19

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    Today has started badly. I hate the sound of the dog, downstairs, scratching the back off the kitchen door, but that is my wake up alarm this morning. I hate the fact that he...
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    No joke... I hate my school, I hate my teachers, I hate the students! I hate my family! I hate my ****** up lungs I hate my brain! I hate everyone who bully's me I hate the...
    Chocolate29 Chocolate29 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I hate the fact that you've had sex with 4 girls and one of those girls had sex with 15 other people. I hate the fact that you smoke that stupid e cigarette. I hate the fact that...
    ADayToRememberForever ADayToRememberForever 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I'm just glad I found a place where I can say I HATE HER! I HATE HER!! I HATE HER!! I have never hated anyone in my life but I hate her!! I hate her for the way she treats me & my...
    DAK1969 DAK1969 41-45, F 7 Responses Sep 1

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    I hate my life, I hate my age, I hate my hair, I hate my eyes, I hate every body part I have, I hate my past decisions, I hate my current decisions, I hate my family, I hate my...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I hate my job. I didn't always hate it, but I do now and with a passion. The thing is, I really wanted this job....BAD! When I started here I worked one day a week, four hours...
    gracienglory gracienglory 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I hate my legs. I'm only 18, I have stretch marks, so much hair. They're huge, They're not tight. I can't seem to shave them right. I hate my stomach. It's big, it's pale, it's...
    leboyd leboyd 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 5

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