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I Hate My Stepson

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    ~ - When the dad thinks the following are normal behaviour! At the wedding reception the 11 and 1/2 year old (then) cried like a baby because he wants to come with us, eventually...
    Kabousie Kabousie 41-45, F 1 Response May 6, 2013

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    My stepsons are products of their parents and I really dislike both of them most of the time. I've been with my husband for 15 years when the kids were 5 and 7. They are now 19 and...
    rochesteranon rochesteranon 31-35 1 Response Jan 20

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    I Wanna Scream Hurtfull.Hateful.Lying.Stealing.Lazy.Disrespectful.Spounges...But - I have 5 stepchildren and 2 daughters of my own. 1 of the 5 stepies is self sufficient. All are...
    Jan 30, 2013

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    Pulling My Hair Out... - I have been living with my boyfriend for 7 years. There is a bit of difference in our ages he is 15 years older than I am . I have two daughters ages 12...
    anna62477 anna62477 31-35 3 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    I Don't See A Good Outcome Here - Myself and my 3 year old daughter live with my fiancée who has a 7 year old boy, who has some developmental/psychiatric/behavioral issues. Let me...
    denverchik24 denverchik24 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2013

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    Running Out Of Ideals - This is a very long story but I will try to make it short. I have been married for a yr now, My husband and I have been together for 3 yrs altogether. I...
    thegraylady1214 thegraylady1214 22-25 3 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Lost Between 2 Men & A Hard Place - I married the love of my life this year....he has a son (adopted a ward of the state) who is actually the half-brother of his ex-wife...
    prairiedogger08 prairiedogger08 31-35 1 Response Sep 1, 2010

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    Not A Happy Step Mama - i am a stay at home mother and step mother.. my daughter is 8 and my step son is 7. my partner and i have been together for 5 years, and i have been a big...
    sheen1989 sheen1989 22-25, F 1 Response May 6, 2013

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    My soon to be stepson I have known since he was 5. He is the most socially awkward person I have ever met. I have only lived with him for the past 2 years along with his father...
    50fab 50fab 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    I don't refer to them as my stepsons. They are my husband's children from a previous marriage. And, it is all to clear their criminal and social problems are a direct result of his...
    Owliegirl Owliegirl 41-45 Jan 23

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    I Hate My Stepson And My Feelings For My Husband Are Almost Gone - Married when step son was 9.  Step hated me from the moment I appeared.  Dad can't discipline child, due to...
    quilty55 quilty55 56-60 19 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    I Despise My Stepson - I have a 12 year old stepson whom I can not stand for the life of me... his dad and I are not married but I consider him my stepson since we have been a...
    LilahMae82 LilahMae82 31-35, F 8 Responses May 6, 2013

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    My 11 Year Old Stepson - I am ready to divorce my husband as well. My 10 year old SS throws himself on the ground, cries for 20-30 screaming saying I f***** hate you. If something...
    Kelliy Kelliy 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    I'm Worried I'm Going To Hurt My Stepson. - I'm in a horrible situation. I'm a divorced mother with an awesome 5 year old girl who just started kindergarten. 2.5 years ago, I...
    ssitton42 ssitton42 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    Fighting A Loseing Battle. - ok so i have been married now for 4 years and i am deeply inlove with my husband we have a 2 year old daughter together. My husband has a son who is 12...
    1 Response Jan 31, 2013

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    Hate Is A Rather Strong Word But I Cant Handle My Stepson. - Let me give you background on my stepson. He is five years old and lives with us full time. His mom is bipolar and in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    Need Advise, Please Help... - well, where to start... I'm 33 yrs old, male, married, my wife is 28 and had a son from a very brief relationship (2 months she said). I met her about...
    jp79 jp79 31-35, M 5 Responses Oct 20, 2012

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    Heartbreak - My realtionship is in jeopardy and I hate to put the blame on my stepson the stress he puts on me is unreal . He never listens even in school . He has a very smart...
    wendy1972 wendy1972 36-40, F 9 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Demon Step Sons. - I have been with my husband 4 years this September. He has 2 boys from a former relationship. Before we met, I was told I had a very small chance of ever having...
    EmoStarDust09 EmoStarDust09 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 9, 2013

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    Uhaul Needed - I live with my partner and her two step sons.  The oldest is 17 and a senior in high school.  He wants his independance but doesn't see the relationship between...
    jacknmaxx jacknmaxx 46-50 6 Responses Oct 15, 2011

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    Tommytee - I absolutely have the worst of all stepchildren. He is a habitual liar and uses old grandmother's to get money.  This is my partners son and he acts like the biggest...
    Frauke Frauke 51-55 4 Responses Apr 14, 2012

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    Doubtful Marriage - Hi everyone,I'm new in this forum, the reason I'm asking for advice is because I'm loosing my mind thinking about my coming marriage to my fiancé. First I'm 33...
    Ladylike8 Ladylike8 31-35 3 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    ADVICE NEEDED!!! I've been with my husband now for ten yrs and together we have four children. Three are his from previous relationships and my daughter from my first marriage. His...
    Just2tirednow Just2tirednow 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    Step Son Horror - I have known my husband now for 22 years.We got together 3 years ago.Mystepson has made my life a living hell!!! He is only 15 and his dad will not discipline him...
    nutsinnc nutsinnc 36-40 6 Responses Feb 2, 2012

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    I have three stepchildren. Two I adore and the eldest I cannot stand. He was 25 when I met his father and an addict (oxycodone). Like an idiot, I thought I would try to help him...
    SwimmerCate SwimmerCate 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    My Ss Is A Mutant. - My stepson in 5. He has no common sense and cant even follow simple tasks. I think he has aspergers but his biological mother and father won't get him tested...
    Momster312 Momster312 22-25 4 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    Hate is a very strong word, so I'll try not to use it. I have a stepson (he's 15 now) who I have been around since he was 6. I knew that he was gay the day I met him. That is of no...
    needinghelpbadly needinghelpbadly 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I'm tired of my 12 year old stepson. He is rude and stubborn. I asked him to take off his shoes at the door because of all the mud, my 8 year old son said okay Momma and did as I...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    This is more to do with dating. But I hate always having to make the first move on someone. Cant someone come up to me for once? Bah, I probably wouldn't be able to realize that...
    Incanto33 Incanto33 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    I don't like people who lie. Who play those kinds of games with me. It's unfair. Immature. I hate it when people are effortless. I try to be understanding as I can but no. This...
    thatgirl0821 thatgirl0821 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I told you guys that I hated myself. Now I am in a messy circumstance and I felt everything was falling apart. I might not finish my degree on time when the financial stance is not...
    InFiDeL0020 InFiDeL0020 26-30, M Mar 24

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    School is possibly the worst invention ever. I don't hate education, I just hate school. I hate the people, I hate the teachers, I hate the early morning, I hate the uniform, I...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I have never hated anyone in my life. My MIL I DO hate she has destroyed my marriage with get son her golden child . I am 45, he is 63, she is 86. Her son divorced his wife 30...
    sueoneil sueoneil 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I hate the feeling of missing someone, even though they say it's what makes the reunion more special. I hate the feeling of losing someone, it hurts deep. I hate the feeling of...
    grey019 grey019 31-35, M Apr 3

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    People don't like hate, and it's understandable. It's not a pleasant feeling. However, many self-help and New Age books talk longly and vigorously about how to 'extinguish hate in...
    MidsouthGuy MidsouthGuy 22-25, M 8 hrs ago

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    Okay….so…..I know this is trivial and probably in the long run very unimportant but I feel like I need to say it. So I used to like this guy a lot, but I never liked talking...
    CantThinkofAUsernameNow CantThinkofAUsernameNow 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Dear ugly sagging boobs, I want to make sure you know that I attribute every miserable moment of self-doubt and self-pity to you. I've hated you the moment I discovered my...
    onnest onnest 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    I hate the way that my love makes me fake indifference when your name is mentioned. I hate the way you make me break into a sweat, and talk too loud, and go red, I hate the way you...
    yuichie yuichie 13-15, F Mar 31

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    I hate myself. I hate that I was born with depression. I hate that at age ten I already loathed myself to cut. I hate that at age 11 I was already done with experiencing life and...
    Rawrimabeast Rawrimabeast 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    This post maybe a nonsense... -_- so there's a girl in my class who I hate very much, call her Lucy. She's such an attention-seeker and a crybaby who gets scared of every little...
    Tiffany98702 Tiffany98702 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    My dad cheated on my mom with my best friend. I had just made friends with this girl and her husband and children. In the short time I've gotten to know them, I became attached...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hate can take over a body and is a degenerate invasion of  negitive thoughts and emotions. It tries to collect others and is aimed at targeting anyone or anything...
    MsOracle MsOracle 66-70, F 4 hrs ago

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    I hate my life. I hate the seconds i have to continue this crap. I wish I never existed at all. I wish I would disappear now. Then everyone could get on with their lives of...
    IAimForHonor IAimForHonor 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Both, human and vets. I hate how their mistakes go unnoticed unless they're really big, I hate how they don't care about emotional wellbeing of their patient. I hate the doctor who...
    LauNaAb LauNaAb 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I hate how I changed when I met my ex. I became this girl looking back that I'm ashamed of. I hate myself for it. Why did I become her? When I look in the mirror I don't hate how I...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I hate everything about me. I hate my hair, I hate face, I hate my nose. I just hate every inch of my body. No one will ever care. Because they'll soon hate me to
    rainsyd2014 rainsyd2014 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I hate PMDD and all its side effects, 50% of the time I had mood swings that no one understands. I hate that I'm under 20 and considering a hysterectomy. I hate how people tell me...
    txaxomel txaxomel 18-21, F Mar 24

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    Hate is a strong word but yes, I hate my best friend but the only reason is because I love her. I can't stay indifferent to her and when she hurts me, I hate her because I'm angry...
    Bearloveshoney Bearloveshoney 18-21 Mar 24

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    I love the fact that I am not even famous and my name is will known around town not because I am a hoe or that I talk **** or that I am a bad person but because I am a good person...
    Ownership Ownership 18-21, F Mar 25

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    I know it's wrong to hate who I am. God made me this way for a reason. But I hate being female. It doesn't feel right. I can't relate to other girls. I mean, I can relate to girls...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I don't hate my ugliness...I hate people shallowness I don't hate being different ... I hate it when people think being a sheep is smart I don't hate being proud of myself...I...
    AutoLove0 AutoLove0 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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