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I Hate My Stepson

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    good news and bad news - the step son moved out

    of the house - yahoooo - did the pharell williams happy dance! bad news is he still comes to visit a few times a week unannounced.
    50fab 50fab 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Uhaul Needed

    I live with my partner and her two step sons.  The oldest is 17 and a senior in high school.  He wants his independance but doesn't see the relationship between responsibilty and independence.  He said some hurtful things to me the other night.  My partner did not back me up...
    jacknmaxx jacknmaxx 46-50 6 Responses Oct 15, 2011

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    let me begin by saying I am a really nice person

    who tries to see the good in all. I am an adult who runs a successful business and I have an 11 year old child. I met my boyfriend a little over 2 years ago. He is fantastic... loves me unconditionally, is so very sweet and caring... I feel I don't even deserve him. He came...
    spunk99 spunk99 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Hi. I am 27 years old.

    My husband is 43. I fell madly in love with him very quickly when we met four years ago. He was very attractive, hard working, funny, and had the same goals I had. The only issue was he had an 11-year-old son. But here's the twist...it isn't really his son. My husband dated a...
    desperatehousewife87 desperatehousewife87 26-30, F Nov 12, 2014

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    I Hate My Stepson And My Feelings For My Husband Are Almost Gone

    Married when step son was 9.  Step hated me from the moment I appeared.  Dad can't discipline child, due to guilt???   Step went to stay with mom from 13-15.  Came back bigger and more pissed.  Stayed about a year and moved in with grandma so she could commiserate with him...
    quilty55 quilty55 56-60 19 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    Demon Step Sons.

    I have been with my husband 4 years this September. He has 2 boys from a former relationship. Before we met, I was told I had a very small chance of ever having children, so when he had the DNA tests done and they came back as both being his I was estatic. I really wanted kids...
    EmoStarDust09 EmoStarDust09 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 9, 2013

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    ADVICE NEEDED!!! I've been with my husband now

    for ten yrs and together we have four children. Three are his from previous relationships and my daughter from my first marriage. His oldest and youngest are very delightful to have around but that middle son is awful. He's nothing but a spoiled, disrespectful, lying, drug using...
    Just2tirednow Just2tirednow 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    Nearly 22 years old, suckling his mother,

    and crybaby half-breed! Has had one visitation with my husband in all his 22 years that lasted 3 days, because though he and his sister had flown already from United States to Greece and he was 10 he couldn't be away from his precious Mummy. Called his mother on his cellphone as...
    MarinaDokar MarinaDokar 36-40, F Sep 9, 2014

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    Sounds so horrible I no,

    and I do think I need help. Am having so many problems with my partner child it's unreal. I have him full time and some times I just feel like he's dumped on me, his mum's a waste of space and sees him 1 day aweek, we have recently had a daughter am so frightened he's gunna hurt...
    greeneye24 greeneye24 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    My stepson was adorably cute

    when I met him 3 years ago. He was sweet and well behaved and I was thinking to my self I was very lucky. Fast forward a year later and he had to come live with us as CAS found there to be abuse, drugs and violence where he lived with his mom. My husband and I took him in with...
    Linelle Linelle 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I Hate My Stepson And My Husband!

    My Stepson was 20 when I met his father and he lived at home then and he still lives at home now, and he's almost 28!  The pathetic, dysfunctional reality of it, is that he will never be a man and go out and make a life on his own because my husband doesn't...
    hailey238 hailey238 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 16, 2009

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    Not A Happy Step Mama

    i am a stay at home mother and step mother.. my daughter is 8 and my step son is 7. my partner and i have been together for 5 years, and i have been a big part if my stepsons life throughout his whole life. he used to live with his mother ( who i hate with a passion) but was...
    sheen1989 sheen1989 22-25, F 1 Response May 6, 2013

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    I Don't See A Good Outcome Here

    Myself and my 3 year old daughter live with my fiancée who has a 7 year old boy, who has some developmental/psychiatric/behavioral issues. Let me explain a little of the back history here. The boy at 5 months old was thrown and burned by his biological mother (who has been...
    denverchik24 denverchik24 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    Heartbreak

    My realtionship is in jeopardy and I hate to put the blame on my stepson the stress he puts on me is unreal . He never listens even in school . He has a very smart mouth and today he made me so angry I thought I was going to have a panic attack . For example he will call be a...
    wendy1972 wendy1972 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Running Out Of Ideals

    This is a very long story but I will try to make it short. I have been married for a yr now, My husband and I have been together for 3 yrs altogether. I have 2 children of my own and he also has 2 children. The oldest child is like one of my own but the smallest( 4 yrs old) I...
    thegraylady1214 thegraylady1214 26-30 3 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Lost Between 2 Men & A Hard Place

    I married the love of my life this year....he has a son (adopted a ward of the state) who is actually the half-brother of his ex-wife. Confused yet?  He bonded with the boy & rather than sending him packing after the ex wife (sister of the boy) and adopted him last year. The...
    prairiedogger08 prairiedogger08 31-35 1 Response Sep 1, 2010

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    If your future spouse has kids,

    RUN...as far and fast as you can!
    user1billion user1billion 46-50, F 6 Responses May 1, 2014

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    My stepson aged 14 has been really hostile to me

    and my two new sons 14 & 16. My partner and stepsons dad split about a year ago (nothing to do with me). The dad of my stepson owns the house me and my partner are living in he has said he will never kick my partner or me out etc long story anyway. My house has three bedrooms...
    derick113 derick113 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    I have three stepchildren.

    Two I adore and the eldest I cannot stand. He was 25 when I met his father and an addict (oxycodone). Like an idiot, I thought I would try to help him and let him house sit for me while I was away. I paid him well, too. And then I noticed that things were missing...
    SwimmerCate SwimmerCate 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Hello to everyone who reads this,

    I could use some listening or advice. Here is my dilemma in the most concise manner possible. I live with my fiancé, he has full custody of three children. The two older kids are teens and are ok, but the youngest is the one I dislike. He's very dramatic, lies, inconsiderate...
    ktr17 ktr17 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    I am literally at my wits end here.

    One of the reasons I joined this app/community is so I could maybe get some insight. I literally cannot stand my 15 year old stepson. The thought of him makes me cringe. My husband has had full custody of him since he was 4 years old and of course things were ok when he was...
    melissaanne03 melissaanne03 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 17

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    My Ss Is A Mutant.

    My stepson in 5. He has no common sense and cant even follow simple tasks. I think he has aspergers but his biological mother and father won't get him tested. He is unberable to me because he doesn't think. He throws up at the dinner table if we dont give him the food he wants...
    Momster312 Momster312 22-25 4 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    Need Advise, Please Help...

    well, where to start... I'm 33 yrs old, male, married, my wife is 28 and had a son from a very brief relationship (2 months she said). I met her about 4 years ago, felt in love with her and wanted her to be with me no matter what. At first, her son (barely 2yrs old) had a very...
    jp79 jp79 31-35, M 5 Responses Oct 20, 2012

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    I'm Worried I'm Going To Hurt My Stepson.

    Update: James has been in a residential treatment center for the last 2 years. He was diagnosed with Reactive Attachment Disorder and Conduct Disorder, which is the precursor to being labeled a Sociopath. He has made tremendous strides in his treatment and the other day actually...
    ssitton42 ssitton42 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    Doubtful Marriage

    Hi everyone,I'm new in this forum, the reason I'm asking for advice is because I'm loosing my mind thinking about my coming marriage to my fiancé. First I'm 33 yrs old, Never married, no kids and I had a very good job abroad before, till Me and my fiancé decided that I should...
    Ladylike8 Ladylike8 31-35 5 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    I met my wife abroad

    and brought her and my stepson back to the United States so he could get a better education. He was around 5 at the time and quite a handful. Now he is 11 and is an amazing manipulator and threatens me and my wife often. He has even gone to the extreme of making false reports...
    Tarponking Tarponking 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 3

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    I Despise My Stepson

    I have a 12 year old stepson whom I can not stand for the life of me... his dad and I are not married but I consider him my stepson since we have been a family for over 4 years now. I started disliking this kid about a year ago when he became incredibly disrespectful towards my 7...
    LilahMae82 LilahMae82 31-35, F 9 Responses May 6, 2013

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    Hate Is A Rather Strong Word But I Cant Handle My Stepson.

    Let me give you background on my stepson. He is five years old and lives with us full time. His mom is bipolar and in prison. He has lived with us for over a year and a half. He is disruptive in preschool, hateful to me, and tells my daughter she is stupid. My daughter is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    Help!!! I have 15 yr stepson

    that I just can't not tolerate! He is rude, disrespectful just like his crazy bio polar mother. Everything my husband and I do gets reported back to his mother. There are no trust in him from me or his father. Neither one of us want him at our house. The husband pays mega buck...
    sexywhw sexywhw 26-30, F 4 Responses May 23, 2014

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    Pulling My Hair Out...

    I have been living with my boyfriend for 7 years. There is a bit of difference in our ages he is 15 years older than I am . I have two daughters ages 12 and 14 he has two sons ages 25 and 20 . They all have lived with us in this time period although the 25 year old has joined the...
    anna62477 anna62477 31-35 3 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    I don't refer to them

    as my stepsons. They are my husband's children from a previous marriage. And, it is all to clear their criminal and social problems are a direct result of his ex-wife's bitterness and resentment from their divorce, that she did not want. He caught her cheating on him 20 years...
    Owliegirl Owliegirl 46-50 1 Response Jan 23, 2014

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    I can relate to all of the stories

    that evolve around "stepchildren." My husband and I have been married for 10 years, together for 12 years. I have a son and daughter, my husband has three sons. His children were raised with money, my children were raised with very little. How did the children fair as adults...
    pinterest pinterest 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2014

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    I spent a ton of money on my stepson's grad

    party - the only request I had was no underage drinking. Had the convo at least 3 times. He ends the evening with drinking vodka, kicked him and his flavor of the month out 4 the night. Sorry - NOPE - I deserve respect in my own house.
    50fab 50fab 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2014

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    Step Son Horror

    I have known my husband now for 22 years.We got together 3 years ago.Mystepson has made my life a living hell!!! He is only 15 and his dad will not discipline him.I am constantly argueing with dad to put his foot down but it goes on deaf ears.I have 2 girls which go to school and...
    nutsinnc nutsinnc 36-40 6 Responses Feb 2, 2012

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    My husbands son left our house in the summer to

    go live with his granny as there would be no rules. Seems granny wants to kick him out too now. Guess it wasn't just the ugly stepmother huh? VINDICATED
    50fab 50fab 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I don't know if many of you will agree with me

    but children are the product of their environment. If you don't get them to obey rules - they will be a mess. My husband wanted his son to have freedom in high school so he let him stay out on weekends until 5 in the morning. He thought nothing of letting his high school...
    50fab 50fab 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Tommytee

    I absolutely have the worst of all stepchildren. He is a habitual liar and uses old grandmother's to get money.  This is my partners son and he acts like the biggest momma's boy that ever walked.  Thing is, he also lies to her and she believes the big liar.  I fully intend to...
    Frauke Frauke 51-55 4 Responses Apr 14, 2012

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    Separation Until After Graduation?

    Today is my 7th wedding anniversary. While I love my husband dearly and am trying to figure out how to celebrate, but my 16 year old step son from hell has me looking for apartments. I'm DONE. If he doesn't get exactly what he wants, how he wants it, when he wants it, DUCK...
    UnBlend UnBlend 36-40, F Oct 27, 2014

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    My stepson aged 14 has been really hostile to me

    and my two new sons 14 & 16. My partner and stepsons dad split about a year ago (nothing to do with me). The dad of my stepson owns the house me and my partner are living in he has said he will never kick my partner or me out etc long story anyway. My house has three bedrooms...
    derick113 derick113 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 20, 2014

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    This year makes 4 years

    that my husbands son has been living with us permanently. It has been a nightmare. He is now 10.5 years old and extremely disrespectful and rude. My husband and I have two boys together (2 & 4 years old). His son is such a nuisance when he is around. He still poops his pants and...
    Frustrated1982 Frustrated1982 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 22, 2014

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    When the dad thinks the following are normal behaviour! At the wedding reception the 11 and 1/2 year old (then) cried like a baby because he wants to come with us, eventually went home with his grandma, which then phoned us twice, oh my goodness! What a way to start our...
    Kabousie Kabousie 41-45, F 1 Response May 6, 2013

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    Well the she devil has arose once again. This time her ordeal was over stinky clothes in her son's (my stepson) book bag. Somehow it was my fault that his clothes left in his book...
    lynne7722 lynne7722 36-40, F Mar 21

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    I don't hate my parents. I'm just making this post to ask a question to those who say this. How could you say you hate your parents? I understand if they abused you and you have a...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    It's the worst time a month I can't handle it who does I hate every time it comes I really hate this ****
    flife flife 13-15, F 12 hrs ago

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    Why.Must.I.Be.Here? I can't handle myself. I just can't... I'm so done and over myself.. I sell myself short, I disrespect myself, I intentionally hurt myself... I'm all sorts...
    Catho Catho 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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