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I Hate My Vagina

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 79 People

    Hating Ones Own Vagina is not a nice thing.

    Here a girl has written that she does not like her Vagina.I do not know why she hates her own vagina.A girl will have vagina and a boy will have a nasty penis it is quiet natural.Every girl washes her vagina every day and keeps it clean and it will look like an apple or rose...
    rooth81 rooth81
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2012

    No Ordinary Girl

    I don't know where to begin. For as long as I could remember I knew that my vagina was different. I noticed a change in what I (eventually) found out was my clitoris. During puberty, it went from being invisible to being very prominent. It looks like a minipenis (for the record I...
    RespCrissy3 RespCrissy3
    4 Responses Feb 4, 2013

    I can't say I have always been happy with my

    vagina. It's a progression that has escalated over the years. 15 years ago I had my first menstrual cycle. I hated it. I still do. I understand the science behind it, but I just don't understand why women? Why me? I was always a sexual person although I felt uncomfortable about...
    Johanna27 Johanna27
    26-30, F
    Dec 24, 2014

    I Feel Like I Have a "Strange" Vagina

    I am too afraid to get sexual because I am so shy about my vagina. They "lips" seem strange shaped. I don't know if it should be worried or not. But over all, I HATE MY VAGINA. I don't know if a geonocologist can even help. Can you get surgery on "it...
    ineedadviceplease ineedadviceplease
    2 Responses May 4, 2009


    I hate my vagina because my clitoris looks like a tiny penis. I think I'm semihermaphroditic and it disgusts me so much. I'm jealous of women, even if they think they have big lips or anything because they have normal vaginas. And what I hate more is my boyfriend doesn't let me...
    krazygurl krazygurl
    4 Responses Jun 2, 2011

    I Am Worried I Have Cancer

    my vagina is a bug bare of pain and frustration to me. sore and irritated skin all the time. that just makes life miserable and lets not even consider sex cuz it will just make it worse... I feel dreadful today I have been in my Pj's all day and I am just sore and tired and...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2011

    This Is A Very Sad And Unnecessary Experience

    Stop the vulva shame and shaming! You really need to work on feeling better about yourself. Your current situation is neither fair to you nor to your present or future lovers, of either sex. Back away from all men, spend quality time by yourself, and sort out your feelings about...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 11, 2013

    My Vagina

    I have always thought my vagina was weird looking, I think my labia is too big :/ to make it worse the last guy to see it told me it was weird too, this was devastating to me. Pls I need help of a female (no guys) to tell me what u think and to give me an HONEST answer
    Ashhhhh123 Ashhhhh123
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 25, 2012

    I Just Don't Know What To Do.

    So ever since I was about 16 I realized that my vagina was "different." Although I didn't even know what other vaginas looked like. I hate it. My inner lips protrude. They don't buldge in my bathing suit (well they do in a white one I have, but I don't wear it). But they do...
    frustratedfemale frustratedfemale
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 23, 2012

    I Hate My Vagina And My Vagina Hates Me.

    I will start this little story by saying that... it doesn't help that I am FtM transgendered.. Which is point one in hating my vagina.. It seems my vagina also hates me. I always have irregular periods. I will go months without a period or I will bleed...
    ArieMouse ArieMouse
    Jan 15, 2010

    Constant Source Of Trouble....

    I hate my vagina, not for how it look, but how it makes me feel. At 16 i got my first yeast infection, and since then I've had nothing but pain and suffering because of it. Its constant UTI's and yeast infections, and now pre cancer cells. I'm tired of the pills and the creams...
    zomberz zomberz
    3 Responses Apr 22, 2013

    Why I Hate My Vagina

    I didn't realize I hated my vagina until my boyfriend and I were talking a few days ago and he got me into a mood. It's the type of mood I only get into when I have to retell the story about my ex raping me for six months. It's a pretty unique mood characterized by a...
    butterflyorigami butterflyorigami
    22-25, F
    20 Responses Jan 8, 2008

    Honestly, I don't see what's

    so great about the vagina. Women rave about how beautiful it is, how it gives us pleasure and can make our life "better" somehow. It's so overrated! I also feel that sex is overrated. I get no pleasure from my vagina. I seldom have sex with my husband. I never m********* either...
    jjewell84 jjewell84
    31-35, F
    Nov 7, 2015

    Shame. Fear. Guilt. Apologetic.

    Being a girl can be fun. I like dressing cute. Wearing makeup. Doing my hair and nails and getting free admissions to night clubs just for being a girl. What I don't like? Having a vagina. For the most part, I rarely, if ever say the word vagina. It took me a while to even be...
    PrincessOfPisces PrincessOfPisces
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 16, 2010

    I Hate My *i Can't Even Say The Word*

    Early on in my childhood I became a chronic ***********. When I would peak I would immediately feel a sick dirtiness pervade me from the inside out. I hated what I had, and what I had done. As I grew older, the ************ lessened and then the revulsion I felt for my...
    emotionsickness86 emotionsickness86
    22-25, F
    Jul 11, 2012 Disguting.

    i am a young girl who has always been very sensitive. two years ago i was raped, and its only recently that ive begun to let my boyfriend touch me again. but when he went down there, he said it was disgusting and i should shave. this broke my heart, and he keeps apologising and...
    jbec123 jbec123
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

    I believe that every woman with a vagina pays a

    costly price for having this organ for the entirety of their lives. For one, the vagina is always sought after.. Men will beg for it, manipulate ya to get to it and damn near kill over it. Of course, the vagina bleeds on a monthly basis...causing us so much pain & suffering.. It...
    caramelLova1 caramelLova1
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Feb 20, 2014

    I Hate It.

    I was molested as a child and raped as an adult.  It causes me more pain than pleasure.  Rape aside... I hate men's desire for it in general.  I hate that every boyfriend I have seems to feel as though they have full access to it whenever they want it.  It...
    BlueWhaleMeatMcFacer BlueWhaleMeatMcFacer
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 7, 2008


    I just want to say sorry for all the hurt and pain you have suffered, and I wish I could take it away. I really have no idea how you feel, nor am I ever likely too. I just want to try and help if I can, but I doubt anything I can say will make things any better; sorry.
    thickyholden thickyholden
    51-55, M
    Mar 30, 2011


    I hate my vagina. I wasn't raped and I want to be a woman..... I just want to be a better woman. Oddly, my vagina makes me feel unfeminine and dirty. I'm fastidious when it comes to hygene. Mostly because I obsess about dirt and filth on my body and I always feel dirty down there...
    MyTinyWrist MyTinyWrist
    8 Responses Jul 7, 2008

    I Wish I Didnt Have One.

    I hate my vagina. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with it. Its actually very pretty.I just can't stand it. I've never liked it. I can't ********** because it grosses me out. The feel the juices everything about it is gross. What is wrong with me?
    ck6312 ck6312
    22-25, F
    Sep 3, 2012

    Mangled By Childbirth

    When I gave birth a few months ago, I loved my vagina. I was in awe of it and how it expanded as a mysterious passageway for my son to venture through. With the final push, I tore. I was stiched up and I thought that was the end of it. Several weeks later, I noticed...
    octopuss1 octopuss1
    3 Responses May 21, 2009

    I Wish I Loved It

    I get chronic yeast infections. I can't move sometimes. I wash regularly and I use presciption medicine but they NEVER go away. It prevents me from doing things I love: Swimming, sex, sitting down a certain way???!! , thongs... I don't know what to...
    brombese brombese
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2009


    I very rarely ****** during sex because I dont like how my lips look =/ like I can make myself *** just fine but im always self conscious of how the guy thinks it looks ......honestly a lot of guys have loved to go down on me licky lickyy and never complained but i think my vag...
    jerzshorecoll21 jerzshorecoll21
    26-30, F
    55 Responses Dec 1, 2011

    I Despise It

    I hate everything about my vag the way it looks. I have stupid,ugly lips. I really wish I didn't have them. They look awful and they're gross. If surgery wouldn't make me hate my vag more; I would just get surgery. I hate the strong smell it gives off. The list could go on...
    Mybodyisacage Mybodyisacage
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 19, 2013

    Hate My Vagina

        I don't want men to fall in love with me.  I want to be a man, so I can be the person I am.  Existence with out having to provide so much emotional support for so many others.  If you think women have a lot of emotional...
    Cade Cade
    1 Response Jan 21, 2009

    Hating Ones Own Vagina.

    Here a girl has written that she does not like her Vagina.I do not know why she hates her own vagina.A girl will have vagina and a boy will have a nasty penis it is quiet natural.Every girl washes her vagina every day and keeps it clean and it will look like an...
    rooth81 rooth81
    22-25, F
    Jan 16, 2012

    I Want A New One Please.

    For almost seven years now I've obsessed over the appearance of my vagina. To put it frankly the outer lips are fat and stick out as do the inner lips, the skin between my legs and vagina looks old and wrinkly and when I look at it in the mirror, legs apart and sat down, it...
    Fudgemeup Fudgemeup
    22-25, F
    9 Responses May 6, 2011


    Every since I was young, I have always hated my vagina due to the fact that I was sexually abused and also something else which occured which I thought it was normal.  I always felt disgusted, shy and not feminine at all, it depressed me and I always thought it...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 26, 2010

    I Hate My Vagina

    Im a teenage girl. My vaginas been like this since I was little. Ive never had any sexual activity, which all my friends find strange because theyve all AT LEAST been fingered. Ive had two major relationships during my highschool years. Both of which my boyfriends wanted to...
    shelbyyyyyykayy shelbyyyyyykayy
    7 Responses Jul 20, 2010

    Vagina Bibel

    My girlfriend bought this book and our sex life went from a 2 to 10 in days see link below Click Here!
    stevemac84 stevemac84
    1 Response Sep 26, 2012
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