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I Hate My Vagina

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    I believe that every woman with a vagina pays a

    costly price for having this organ for the entirety of their lives. For one, the vagina is always sought after.. Men will beg for it, manipulate ya to get to it and damn near kill over it. Of course, the vagina bleeds on a monthly basis...causing us so much pain & suffering.. It...
    caramelLova1 caramelLova1 31-35, F 9 Responses Feb 20

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    I Wish I Loved It

    I get chronic yeast infections. I can't move sometimes. I wash regularly and I use presciption medicine but they NEVER go away. It prevents me from doing things I love: Swimming, sex, sitting down a certain way???!! , thongs... I don't know what to...
    brombese brombese 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2009

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    Mangled By Childbirth

    When I gave birth a few months ago, I loved my vagina. I was in awe of it and how it expanded as a mysterious passageway for my son to venture through. With the final push, I tore. I was stiched up and I thought that was the end of it. Several weeks later, I noticed...
    octopuss1 octopuss1 22-25 2 Responses May 21, 2009

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    Sorry

    I just want to say sorry for all the hurt and pain you have suffered, and I wish I could take it away. I really have no idea how you feel, nor am I ever likely too. I just want to try and help if I can, but I doubt anything I can say will make things any better; sorry.
    thickyholden thickyholden 51-55, M Mar 30, 2011

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    Just...so Disguting.

    i am a young girl who has always been very sensitive. two years ago i was raped, and its only recently that ive begun to let my boyfriend touch me again. but when he went down there, he said it was disgusting and i should shave. this broke my heart, and he keeps apologising and...
    jbec123 jbec123 18-21 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    I Despise It

    I hate everything about my vag the way it looks. I have stupid,ugly lips. I really wish I didn't have them. They look awful and they're gross. If surgery wouldn't make me hate my vag more; I would just get surgery. I hate the strong smell it gives off. The list could go on...
    Mybodyisacage Mybodyisacage 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    I Hate My Vagina And My Vagina Hates Me.

    I will start this little story by saying that... it doesn't help that I am FtM transgendered.. Which is point one in hating my vagina.. It seems my vagina also hates me. I always have irregular periods. I will go months without a period or I will bleed...
    ArieMouse ArieMouse 18-21 Jan 15, 2010

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    Constant Source Of Trouble....

    I hate my vagina, not for how it look, but how it makes me feel. At 16 i got my first yeast infection, and since then I've had nothing but pain and suffering because of it. Its constant UTI's and yeast infections, and now pre cancer cells. I'm tired of the pills and the creams...
    zomberz zomberz 22-25 3 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    Ew

    I very rarely ****** during sex because I dont like how my lips look =/ like I can make myself *** just fine but im always self conscious of how the guy thinks it looks ......honestly a lot of guys have loved to go down on me licky lickyy and never complained but i think my vag...
    jerzshorecoll21 jerzshorecoll21 18-21, F 36 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    Disgusted

    I hate my vagina because my clitoris looks like a tiny penis. I think I'm semihermaphroditic and it disgusts me so much. I'm jealous of women, even if they think they have big lips or anything because they have normal vaginas. And what I hate more is my boyfriend doesn't let me...
    krazygurl krazygurl 18-21 5 Responses Jun 2, 2011

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    I Hate It.

    I was molested as a child and raped as an adult.  It causes me more pain than pleasure.  Rape aside... I hate men's desire for it in general.  I hate that every boyfriend I have seems to feel as though they have full access to it whenever they want it.  It...
    BlueWhaleMeatMcFacer BlueWhaleMeatMcFacer 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 7, 2008

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    I Want A New One Please.

    For almost seven years now I've obsessed over the appearance of my vagina. To put it frankly the outer lips are fat and stick out as do the inner lips, the skin between my legs and vagina looks old and wrinkly and when I look at it in the mirror, legs apart and sat down, it...
    Fudgemeup Fudgemeup 22-25, F 10 Responses May 6, 2011

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    Dirty

    I hate my vagina. I wasn't raped and I want to be a woman..... I just want to be a better woman. Oddly, my vagina makes me feel unfeminine and dirty. I'm fastidious when it comes to hygene. Mostly because I obsess about dirt and filth on my body and I always feel dirty down there...
    MyTinyWrist MyTinyWrist 22-25 9 Responses Jul 7, 2008

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    Hating Ones Own Vagina.

    Here a girl has written that she does not like her Vagina.I do not know why she hates her own vagina.A girl will have vagina and a boy will have a nasty penis it is quiet natural.Every girl washes her vagina every day and keeps it clean and it will look like an...
    rooth81 rooth81 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2012

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    Vulva

    Every since I was young, I have always hated my vagina due to the fact that I was sexually abused and also something else which occured which I thought it was normal.  I always felt disgusted, shy and not feminine at all, it depressed me and I always thought it...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 26, 2010

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    I Wish I Didnt Have One.

    I hate my vagina. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with it. Its actually very pretty.I just can't stand it. I've never liked it. I can't ********** because it grosses me out. The feel the juices everything about it is gross. What is wrong with me?
    ck6312 ck6312 22-25, F Sep 3, 2012

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    Vagina Bibel

    My girlfriend bought this book and our sex life went from a 2 to 10 in days see link below Click Here!
    stevemac84 stevemac84 26-30 1 Response Sep 26, 2012

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    Hating Ones Own Vagina is not a nice thing.

    Here a girl has written that she does not like her Vagina.I do not know why she hates her own vagina.A girl will have vagina and a boy will have a nasty penis it is quiet natural.Every girl washes her vagina every day and keeps it clean and it will look like an apple or rose...
    rooth81 rooth81 22-25, F Jan 16, 2012

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    I Feel Like I Have a "Strange" Vagina

    I am too afraid to get sexual because I am so shy about my vagina. They "lips" seem strange shaped. I don't know if it should be worried or not. But over all, I HATE MY VAGINA. I don't know if a geonocologist can even help. Can you get surgery on "it...
    ineedadviceplease ineedadviceplease 18-21 2 Responses May 4, 2009

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    I Am Worried I Have Cancer

    my vagina is a bug bare of pain and frustration to me. sore and irritated skin all the time. that just makes life miserable and lets not even consider sex cuz it will just make it worse... I feel dreadful today I have been in my Pj's all day and I am just sore and tired and...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2011

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    I Hate My Vagina

    i am a 16 year old girl who is generally very bubbly and confident. the one thing that i am not confident about is my vagina. I absolutely hate the way it looks, my labia hang down slighty and are very dark in colour. They make me not want to do anything with anyonme ever...
    selfconsiousgirl111 selfconsiousgirl111 16-17, F 10 Responses Feb 3, 2010

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    I Just Don't Know What To Do.

    So ever since I was about 16 I realized that my vagina was "different." Although I didn't even know what other vaginas looked like. I hate it. My inner lips protrude. They don't buldge in my bathing suit (well they do in a white one I have, but I don't wear it). But they do...
    frustratedfemale frustratedfemale 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    I Hate My *i Can't Even Say The Word*

    Early on in my childhood I became a chronic ***********. When I would peak I would immediately feel a sick dirtiness pervade me from the inside out. I hated what I had, and what I had done. As I grew older, the ************ lessened and then the revulsion I felt for my...
    emotionsickness86 emotionsickness86 22-25, F Jul 11, 2012

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    Hate My Vagina

        I don't want men to fall in love with me.  I want to be a man, so I can be the person I am.  Existence with out having to provide so much emotional support for so many others.  If you think women have a lot of emotional...
    Cade Cade 18-21 1 Response Jan 21, 2009

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    I Hate My Vagina

    Im a teenage girl. My vaginas been like this since I was little. Ive never had any sexual activity, which all my friends find strange because theyve all AT LEAST been fingered. Ive had two major relationships during my highschool years. Both of which my boyfriends wanted to...
    shelbyyyyyykayy shelbyyyyyykayy 18-21 7 Responses Jul 20, 2010

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    This Is A Very Sad And Unnecessary Experience

    Stop the vulva shame and shaming! You really need to work on feeling better about yourself. Your current situation is neither fair to you nor to your present or future lovers, of either sex. Back away from all men, spend quality time by yourself, and sort out your feelings about...
    consa consa 61-65, M 1 Response Sep 11, 2013

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    My Vagina

    I have always thought my vagina was weird looking, I think my labia is too big :/ to make it worse the last guy to see it told me it was weird too, this was devastating to me. Pls I need help of a female (no guys) to tell me what u think and to give me an HONEST answer
    Ashhhhh123 Ashhhhh123 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 25, 2012

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    Why I Hate My Vagina

    I didn't realize I hated my vagina until my boyfriend and I were talking a few days ago and he got me into a mood. It's the type of mood I only get into when I have to retell the story about my ex raping me for six months. It's a pretty unique mood characterized by a...
    butterflyorigami butterflyorigami 21-25, F 22 Responses Jan 8, 2008

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    Shame. Fear. Guilt. Apologetic.

    Being a girl can be fun. I like dressing cute. Wearing makeup. Doing my hair and nails and getting free admissions to night clubs just for being a girl. What I don't like? Having a vagina. For the most part, I rarely, if ever say the word vagina. It took me a while to even be...
    PrincessOfPisces PrincessOfPisces 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2010

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    No Ordinary Girl

    I don't know where to begin. For as long as I could remember I knew that my vagina was different. I noticed a change in what I (eventually) found out was my clitoris. During puberty, it went from being invisible to being very prominent. It looks like a minipenis (for the record I...
    RespCrissy3 RespCrissy3 22-25 6 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    It didn't use to be this bad. I just felt like being a guy was better, but now it's at a whole other level. I look into a mirror and I see breasts, I see a vagina, and I hate...
    WhiteSparrow127 WhiteSparrow127 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't think any girl would enjoy their periods. Surely there are some who are okay with it and accept it as a part of life, but I am definitely not one of them. Firstly, the...
    WhiteSparrow127 WhiteSparrow127 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm 17 years old and I'm in love with this girl. We've been going out for 4 months and it's amazing. But her best friend is bloody creepy. In the first week that we were going out...
    Georgewash1 Georgewash1 16-17 1 Response 3 days ago

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    All I can say is the bigger the vagina the better. I love a woman who can wrap her vaginal lips around my wrist as I'm thrusting my hand deep inside her and getting her juices to...
    mrfister1967 mrfister1967 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I'm sorry if you don't like or agree with my opinion I suggest you to not read this I seriously DON'T get why people are lesbian like what's the point? Either one looks like a...
    Maaaaarmaa Maaaaarmaa 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I have a large labia minors, those of you who don't know what that is, it's the little flab inside the fold of your vagina. Most aren't seen but mine hangs out like roast beef...
    Lindsey238 Lindsey238 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    No playstation, someone get me the young version of johnny depp and a tub of ben and jerry's!!! 😩 menstrual cycle my middle finger has a ***** for you! like why can't boys get...
    bubble212 bubble212 13-15, F Jul 8

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    Modern feminism is so twisted... This is the 21st century. We live in America. Women are not being oppressed so they need to stop acting like they are! Stop victimizing yourself...
    WildFlowerChild19 WildFlowerChild19 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I think that saying that "real women" do anything, look a certain way, or act a certain way is degrading. Real women have vaginas. That's all that's required of you. The same can...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opgKhJB9OJw This is how a penis turned into vagina :)
    confusedbi0 confusedbi0 22-25 1 Response Jul 21

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    I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself...
    Ashley1421 Ashley1421 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Life sucks. I feel like I have no purpose here. I want to die on the floor. If I had acess to a gun, I would be dead. I hate the fact that I can't like myself. I hate that whenever...
    kitkat923 kitkat923 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    How can love and hate be so close but yet so far in definition? I would know considering i love the person i hate most. And i now realize that the only reason i hate him is because...
    verox3 verox3 13-15, F Jul 12

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    If I ever could change ANYTHING in my life, it would have been to NEVER ever have tasted alcohol. It would seriously not been any loss at all! I am no alcoholic. I never drunk and...
    Olmed Olmed 36-40 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I hate me. I hate what ive become. I hate when I think of what I could have become and come back to reality. I hate that it seems that I cant have a relationship. I hate the fact...
    w3029790 w3029790 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    It is not so that I hate my mother in law because she in my mother in law. No, no, no. I hate her because she is a bad person. At the begining I wanted to be a friend of hers, but...
    emikolic emikolic 26-30, F Jul 3

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    You know what I hate? What I really hate? Is when someone tells me nothing's wrong but makes no effort whatsoever to show it. They can just tell me they don't want to talk to me...
    pleadingsorry pleadingsorry 16-17, F Jul 9

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    I'm new to this experience thing. But The reason I joined is so that I could write about my feelings towards my "dad". Ever since I was little he's really been nothing more than a...
    aloflo aloflo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I hate being touched over all and I hate when the doctor touches me. I know I should trust her but I freak out. Lately my body has been going to hell and my doc calls every day...
    CaliforniaPsycho CaliforniaPsycho 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm young I was never raised to hate anything i have a very caring heart I don't have a lot if hate in me so when I say I hate someone with all my hate that's Amazing There are...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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