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I Hate My Wife

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    I have been married for 12 years.

    Married young, had kids young, did everything I could do to be the very best. My wife I knew from high school and we connected a few years after. She was a party girl, into drugs and was not in an admirable financial situation. She got pregnant, I did what was right and moved...
    DumbIdiot DumbIdiot 36-40, M 5 Responses May 7

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    I Have A Question For All The Men --Not Negative--

    When you first fell madly in love with the same woman you now despise, what changed? Is it more mental or physical? Does she act like she doesn't have to look beautiful because she has you wrapped around her finger? Does she take you for granted and feel like you'll always be...
    Tearmyheartopen Tearmyheartopen 22-25, F 14 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    I try my best to bring up the fact

    that girls can wear WHATEVER they want to. They can wear girls and guys clothes. Guys can only wear one thing pants or shorts or a kilt if Scottish or from somewhere that allows it. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm going crazy with it. I want to wear footless tights so f...
    thestifmeister thestifmeister 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    This will take a while

    and it is long. I am again in a hospital, think I may as well move in. I had another stroke yesterday morning I am told. My left arm wont work at all. I had a visitor this morning, it was a state adult protective services representative, They wanted my statement about...
    toughth toughth 56-60 1 Response May 29

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    Let me start off with I don't hate my wife I

    just really don't like this part about her. So I work all day and my wife stays home with our 17 month old son. But when I come home the house is still a mess. Dishes in the sink, laundry not done, toys all over the place and dinner not even started. When I get home from...
    dcabrera94 dcabrera94 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 4

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    Everytime I try to talk to my wife she gets

    hateful and snooty and acts like she is blowing me off. Makes me wonder if she is really listening to what I'm trying to express to her. She says stuff like ok I got it. But I know she is just saying that to stop talking bout it. I'm sick of dealing with it. We have a new born...
    wesporter20 wesporter20 22-25, M 4 Responses May 1

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    It's Not Her At All...it's All Me

    Where to start? Nothing is good here. I spend my life living for her and the kids. Where do you need to go? What do you need to do? Okay...I'll schedule my life a little later....right after you do your thing. What's that? I gave up my career so you wouldn't have to give up yours...
    michas michas 41-45, M 8 Responses Aug 12, 2007

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    I think I made a mistake

    when I married. I married someone with no common interests, so what I want to do never really happens. This is ok though in the bigger picture, however .. .i try to be as nice as possible, i cook, clean, do laundry .. probably 80% of the house work easily. She doesnt really move...
    needhelp30 needhelp30 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 21

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    I am a divorce attorney

    who has represented women and men in countless cases. based on my observations, there are certain truths about marriage and divorce. 1. Marriage is a synonym for sex – not love. I have never seen a case in which two people who were sexually satisfied got divorced. A...
    divorceatty divorceatty 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 1

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    I Am Sad I Am Not Alone.

    I had a good relationship with my wife until my son was born. After that it has been down hill. It certainly not from lack of effort on my part. I have tried to make thing work. I am unsure if I can continue to keep things going like this. I have been married for about ten years...
    Jamcojay Jamcojay 31-35, M 70 Responses May 3, 2007

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    Praying For the End of Time..

    I hate my wife. I find myself saying it tourette-like.  So far I'm only whispering, but soon the volume will increase. I have none of the horrors in the other stories. My wife is faithful and she understands the need to spend less most of the time.  I still...
    foolwithnomoney foolwithnomoney 36-40, M 90 Responses Mar 21, 2007

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    I Hate My Bitchy Wife !

    My wife is a nagging, harping, finger pointing know it all *****. I am seriously thinking of just up and leaving her ! I cannot stand her touching me, we never have relations anymore, I don't want to spend time with her, talk to her, and I could care less about anything she has...
    cyberfixture cyberfixture 41-45, M 72 Responses Apr 11, 2007

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    I Used to Love Her, But I'm Over That Now

    She is intelligent, talented, and, in her way, attractive. HOWEVER, she is also narcissistic, rude, uncaring, self-absorbed, and extremely given to self-pity. She has cheated on me, wooing an ex-high school boyfriend with complete hog-wash stories about how tough, yet...
    SomeGuy SomeGuy 46-50, M 31 Responses Sep 14, 2006

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    I have fond memories of previous years with my

    wife, but in the last few months she doesn't want to help me with the simplest thing and we don't go have fun together either. We also have a daughter together and a son from a previous marriage of hers. She wants to me to do everything around the house and if I'm home I have to...
    wakeupdead wakeupdead 26-30, M 6 Responses Aug 17

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    Sorry To Interrupt

    My husband and I had a major blow out recently.  Really it pales in comparison to the years of fighting we've gone through.  Of the seven years we've been married so far I have to say this last one has been the best and even then it's been hell. I found this group...
    abusivewife abusivewife 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    It Doesn't Get Better With Age

    42 years ago, at 19 and 17, my wife and I "fell in love," lived together, got married, and everything went downhill from there. She tossed out her birth control pills without telling me and I wasn't permitted to have a vasectomy until I'd had two kids, by Texas state...
    BitterGeezer BitterGeezer 61-65 37 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    The necklace My wife my 6 yr.

    old son and I went on vacation to Miami as we are leaving the beach one day we see a street vendor selling necklaces of sharks tooth. My six year old son wanted one we asked how much the guy said $20. It’s a megalodon prehistoric shark’s tooth (yes I know it’s a street...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 3 Responses Aug 5

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    Stuck With Her

    My wife and I have been married for a little over 10 years and everyday I think to myself, "What the hell was I thinking?" You've all heard that phrase, "If I knew then what I know now,....". Needless to say, I wouldn't marry the ***** again. I was raised in a...
    Stuck Stuck 41-45, M 17 Responses Sep 17, 2007

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    Is there anyone in this group

    who wants to be apart of a documentary? You would submit a video to us and the team will contact you if we want to use it for the documentary. We would have to speak by email first and explain everything to you before you would make and submit the video. Currently, we are...
    ShyMysticc ShyMysticc 26-30, F Aug 2

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    Nothing Happened Today

    You know, so many times I can come up with easy story material for this group. But I actually had a great day today where the Mrs. Is concerned. I thought it would be nice to share this positive news for a change! Today there was no drama, no arguing. Today I actually LIKED my...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Fat Wives Suck.

    Brother let me tell you, it’s every excuse in the book for my wife to stay fat. I can’t lose weight after having three kids. My back hurts. My knee hurts. My thyroid isn’t working correctly. (Although she has had it checked 3-4 times in the last 10 years and it is...
    Space1999 Space1999 36-40 113 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    The Contract

    I've been reading through the comments on this forum for a couple of days now and I think I have something to contribute. It appears that there are many here with similar circumstances to my own. I've never posted to an internet forum in my life, and I don't intend to become a...
    used4life used4life 41-45 30 Responses Aug 9, 2009

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    I Love My Wife

    Many things have changed in my life over the last couple of weeks and it is all for the better.  My wife and I are working on things and with Gods help it will be for the better.  Thank you everyone for your support but it is time for me to let go of the past and move...
    SoulSeekerUSA SoulSeekerUSA 41-45 23 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Usually i just get mad at her

    and keep thinking how my life would've been if i haven't married her. Today i can totally say I just hate her!! I totally regret trying to make things work this much. And for all of those who are going to wonder why i still with her, simple, i not gonna give up on seen my kids...
    diaz23 diaz23 31-35, M May 10

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    I don't really hate my wife.

    It's just that I don't love her like a wife any longer. She's just a roommate and we have a great division of labor. In our relationship, there's me and there's her, but there's no longer an "Us". We have no real common interests. We just exist together. It's been almost...
    RoniHo RoniHo 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 27

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    I Hate You

    I  never thought about doing this but i have to, otherwise i will explode. Reading stories on this website has helped but i still needed to share my experience. I have been married for 4 years now and not a day goes by when  don't regret this marriage. She is stupid...
    superraider superraider 26-30, M 8 Responses Mar 24, 2010

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    I work day and night,

    earn a six-figure salary and am a senior manager, and my wife berates me throughout the day that I don't make enough money and that she has to work. She snaps at anything I do (angrily retorts when I say most anything) and is just miserable to be around. Many people I know...
    marriedtodevil marriedtodevil 41-45, M 6 Responses Jan 28

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    OK here i am , writing to you guys about the

    worst phase of my life, which is the time I've spent with my wife (12 years) , and that i continue to do so. The only reason i am not calling it quits with her is because of my 2 precious angels (11 and 5 yrs old) as i do not want them to grow up in a broken home. She never is...
    deepakdubai1 deepakdubai1 36-40, M 3 Responses May 5

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    My wife has told me to cancel my overnight

    interstate trip because she invited her old boyfriend to stay in our home on the night that I am away and I said I didn't like it. I posted a long story about this yesterday when things were emotional but today in all calmness she still thinks this is a fair outcome. Just to...
    tuxiflet tuxiflet 36-40, M 8 Responses Jun 13

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    Happy Choices

    Hey all,   Im really enjoying these stories, not because Ive had similar experiences, just the opposite.  I have been firmly commited to staying single for years.  Im now 32 and I don't envy a single person I know (married or single).  Im...
    joshanon joshanon 31-35 52 Responses May 4, 2009

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    Oh Boy here we go again.

    Its June and we are fighting about Christmas already. She doesn't provide any monetary value but is already telling me how to spend it. How not to invite my family, or spend money renovating my home. If I do I need to start now blah boa blah, I'm fat and miserable. What did I do...
    scheff68 scheff68 31-35 2 Responses Jun 28

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    Well, what can I say.

    This is my first time posting here, but I finally found a place to vent. I don't hate my wife all the time, but lately the percentage of time I spend hating her is way more than not hating her. I've got tons of stuff to say but for now I'll just say how much I hate get...
    frustrated3678 frustrated3678 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I have suspected my wife of having an emotional

    affair around 5 months. In that time she reassured me countless times that he is not her type, he is not as sexy as me and there is no way she wants to be with him. Well!!. The stupid ***** left her phone unlocked and Facebook open. So far I have 100's of messages between...
    tuxiflet tuxiflet 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 28

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    My current spouse doesn't work,

    hasn't slept with me or even hinted at nookie in months doesn't cook and carries no financial burden, complains to me bout how much money we owe..... She makes me feel worthless, hardly calla me when I'm over the road and accuses me of cheating when I'm out trying to make a...
    Jackem82 Jackem82 31-35, M 5 Responses May 6

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    What Happened to My Life?

    Well, in some respects I suppose I am lucky. My wife does not spend money with abandon, doesn't cheat on me, and at least does a little bit of work around the house (more on that later). We are each employed with decent jobs. But she is a self-centered, domineering...
    miserable3 miserable3 36-40, M 68 Responses May 15, 2007

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    How Could This Have Happened to Me??

    Hi There, Yes, I'm not a very smart guy.  I watched a movie and decided I liked latino girls...So naturally I was so excited when I met my first Latino girl...She was so sexy and curvy and I couldn't believe that such a sexy girl was so attracted to me...an ordinary white...
    stupidswanz stupidswanz 31-35, M 10 Responses Jul 21, 2007

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    Please refer to my earlier stories.

    My evil wife has created a big confusion in my life. She is not willing to divorce me and wants to have a baby through IVF. She is also building pressure on me to start physical relations with her again which we dint have since a few months. My parents also want me to go for...
    wsing wsing 36-40, M 8 Responses Sep 5

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    Meet the Wife!!!

      Damn, I hate my wife!!  The only thing that reminds me we are a couple is when she’s drunk and wants a stiff one!  (Not a drink)…this is what elrodinsa wrote back in June ’07.   Sit tight ‘cause this is gonna be a good one, you...
    wifeofelrodinsa wifeofelrodinsa 36-40, F 13 Responses Sep 7, 2007

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    Married 10+Years, have small kids,

    regret the day I met my wife, wake up in middle of night saying obscenities about her, I truly regret the day I met her, let alone marrying her, I am truely beginning to despise her and that is an understatement. I don;t belive in divorce, and if not for kids, most likely...
    regtretful regtretful 41-45, M 5 Responses May 19

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    The invention of the smartphone has created

    really stupid relationship issues. We spend more time buried in Facebook than speaking face to face. We email and text each other from the same room. We let our children watch TV or play video games because we are too busy building out crops within "FarmVille." We replace...
    Heartbreak007 Heartbreak007 70+, M 7 Responses Feb 8

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    I Am Soooooo Done.

      I am so done with my wife. I am so sick to death of her s**t, and she won’t get it together. I understand that trying to change someone to suit your wants is BS and shouldn't be don as it isn't fair to either. However, if your spouse is a total slug...
    WTFnow WTFnow 36-40, M 13 Responses Dec 21, 2008

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    Well where do I begin.

    .. If I could go back in time I would kick my own *** for marrying this sorry, pathetic individual. It is amazing because when we dated she worked 2 jobs and was independent. Now this idiot has not worked in 10 years and yet wants to demand that I perform actions. We have a child...
    sodonehusband sodonehusband 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I Am Sick of My Lazy Wife

    We've been married almost 20 yrs.  She isn't the same girl I married.  We have 2 beautiful children who I love to death.  My wife can't stand to spend 5 mins with either of them.  This summer break is already a nightmare!  She has a part time job, works...
    jumpship jumpship 41-45 112 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    I just don't like who she is.

    I can't stand her Facebook posts and how she responds to the public messages she is sent.
    nodal2method nodal2method 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 26

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    Met My Bitchy Wife On Aol

    When I met my wife I was the last single person in a group of about 20 friends. That year my best friend hung himself and that is when I became an introvert, no longer going out after work to play hockey, volleyball or any other activities. I turned to AOL in a time of...
    jpd1966 jpd1966 41-45, M 18 Responses Apr 1, 2007

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    I have a wife who I hate with a passion.

    She emigrated from Hungary via the UK to Australia. We have a 10 month old daughter who is perfect, she bought her mother over for 12 months and her father for 3 months. She turned me against my mother and she recently died and I resent for that... I hate her culture , she is...
    regrettheexperience regrettheexperience 51-55, M 5 Responses Jun 12

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    Horrible Selfish Wife... Want a Way Out

    i married this person i thought i loved about 2 years back... worst decision of my life. even during our courtship we had terrible fights and arguments. But always thought it resulted due to her past experiences in previous relationships. but it wasnt, i was wrong and its just...
    myrtlethyme myrtlethyme 26-30 91 Responses Oct 17, 2008

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    I hate her, but I hate her family more.

    Greeks who think greeks are gods and Americans are trash. We have a 5 month old who I'm trying to get away from this mentality so I can raise him a normal proud american child. She's a monster too. No respect for me or him. Today we were fighting in the car and she was screaming...
    jeffCar jeffCar 31-35, M 8 Responses Apr 14

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    Seriously Ladies.....

    if your guy/husband wasn't answering your texts would you send him a text like this? I guess somehow she thinks I will answer her more by her doing this? UGH!!! 'Can I say how rude it is how many of my text msgs you never answer the same way I ask them?'ADDITIONAL BACKGROUND 7/11...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 13 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    A lazy wife is like a plague

    that one just can't get rid of. She is like an infection that grows and grows, expecting your body to continue providing while all she does is grow nastier some more. Only one who has gone through the same would understand. My life schedule is as follows: Mon-Fri: 10am to 9pm...
    alexmin alexmin 31-35 2 Responses Jun 7

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    My Life Is Spent Keeping Her Happy.....at My Expense

    I hate my wife for various reasons.  There are moments that I can actually stomach her but mostly I just wait for her to go to work and be gone.  I don't even like talking to her.  We are so different.  Im a "glass is half full" and shes a "what...
    johnwad3 johnwad3 26-30, M 16 Responses Dec 14, 2006

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    Cannot Leave.......

     I've been married for a long time. So long I don't even want to think about it. My eldest son is 23, so I guess it would be a little over 25 years of pure hell. From the day we got married there was trouble. My friends saw this before my wife and I got married. She treated...
    givenup1 givenup1 51-55, M 7 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    I Know...i Created the Beast...

    I've been married well over 20 years and should be smart enough to know that I should have bailed a long time ago. First it was, she'll come around, she was different before. Then it was staying for the kids, now I really have no reason to stick it out, but why do I stay...
    furiousandunhappy furiousandunhappy 41-45 24 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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