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I Hate My Wife

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    Yeah. Tonight she told me I was worth "nothing"

    after supporting her for 14 years solely. Then she spit in my face saying "pfft" the light drizzle of spittle killed my soul.
    mksajdja mksajdja 36-40, M 12 Responses Mar 5

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    It's Been a While

    Just wanted to stop by and share.    I still hate my wife.  It is getting stronger everyday. We are going on a marriage retreat. SHE thinks it is to go and get help.  There is NO helping us.  I am going just so that I can say that I tried to fix our...
    wikkedirish wikkedirish 31-35, M 5 Responses Jul 23, 2008

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    Let me start off with I don't hate my wife I

    just really don't like this part about her. So I work all day and my wife stays home with our 17 month old son. But when I come home the house is still a mess. Dishes in the sink, laundry not done, toys all over the place and dinner not even started. When I get home from...
    dcabrera94 dcabrera94 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 4

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    I Hate My Bitchy Wife !

    My wife is a nagging, harping, finger pointing know it all *****. I am seriously thinking of just up and leaving her ! I cannot stand her touching me, we never have relations anymore, I don't want to spend time with her, talk to her, and I could care less about anything she has...
    cyberfixture cyberfixture 41-45, M 72 Responses Apr 11, 2007

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    I Know...i Created the Beast...

    I've been married well over 20 years and should be smart enough to know that I should have bailed a long time ago. First it was, she'll come around, she was different before. Then it was staying for the kids, now I really have no reason to stick it out, but why do I stay...
    furiousandunhappy furiousandunhappy 41-45 24 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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    Why Do We Continue to Do It?

    I can't stand my ***** wife for another day! September marks two years without sex. My dog is starting to look good to me. I work with toothless fat guys with hairy necks that get more trim than I do. It's pathetic.  Sits on the ******* couch with an attitude ands always...
    JustADogGuy JustADogGuy 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 11, 2007

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    I Am Soooooo Done.

      I am so done with my wife. I am so sick to death of her s**t, and she won’t get it together. I understand that trying to change someone to suit your wants is BS and shouldn't be don as it isn't fair to either. However, if your spouse is a total slug...
    WTFnow WTFnow 36-40, M 13 Responses Dec 21, 2008

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    OK here i am , writing to you guys about the

    worst phase of my life, which is the time I've spent with my wife (12 years) , and that i continue to do so. The only reason i am not calling it quits with her is because of my 2 precious angels (11 and 5 yrs old) as i do not want them to grow up in a broken home. She never is...
    deepakdubai1 deepakdubai1 36-40, M 3 Responses May 5

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    I work day and night,

    earn a six-figure salary and am a senior manager, and my wife berates me throughout the day that I don't make enough money and that she has to work. She snaps at anything I do (angrily retorts when I say most anything) and is just miserable to be around. Many people I know...
    marriedtodevil marriedtodevil 41-45, M 6 Responses Jan 28

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    Fat Wives Suck.

    Brother let me tell you, it’s every excuse in the book for my wife to stay fat. I can’t lose weight after having three kids. My back hurts. My knee hurts. My thyroid isn’t working correctly. (Although she has had it checked 3-4 times in the last 10 years and it is...
    Space1999 Space1999 36-40 101 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    My wife has told me to cancel my overnight

    interstate trip because she invited her old boyfriend to stay in our home on the night that I am away and I said I didn't like it. I posted a long story about this yesterday when things were emotional but today in all calmness she still thinks this is a fair outcome. Just to...
    tuxiflet tuxiflet 36-40, M 8 Responses Jun 13

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    It's Not Her At All...it's All Me

    Where to start? Nothing is good here. I spend my life living for her and the kids. Where do you need to go? What do you need to do? Okay...I'll schedule my life a little later....right after you do your thing. What's that? I gave up my career so you wouldn't have to give up yours...
    michas michas 41-45, M 8 Responses Aug 12, 2007

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    Happy Choices

    Hey all,   Im really enjoying these stories, not because Ive had similar experiences, just the opposite.  I have been firmly commited to staying single for years.  Im now 32 and I don't envy a single person I know (married or single).  Im...
    joshanon joshanon 31-35 52 Responses May 4, 2009

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    Horrible Selfish Wife... Want a Way Out

    i married this person i thought i loved about 2 years back... worst decision of my life. even during our courtship we had terrible fights and arguments. But always thought it resulted due to her past experiences in previous relationships. but it wasnt, i was wrong and its just...
    myrtlethyme myrtlethyme 26-30 86 Responses Oct 17, 2008

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    I Am Sick of My Lazy Wife

    We've been married almost 20 yrs.  She isn't the same girl I married.  We have 2 beautiful children who I love to death.  My wife can't stand to spend 5 mins with either of them.  This summer break is already a nightmare!  She has a part time job, works...
    jumpship jumpship 41-45 105 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    Oh Boy here we go again.

    Its June and we are fighting about Christmas already. She doesn't provide any monetary value but is already telling me how to spend it. How not to invite my family, or spend money renovating my home. If I do I need to start now blah boa blah, I'm fat and miserable. What did I do...
    scheff68 scheff68 31-35 2 Responses Jun 28

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    Met My Bitchy Wife On Aol

    When I met my wife I was the last single person in a group of about 20 friends. That year my best friend hung himself and that is when I became an introvert, no longer going out after work to play hockey, volleyball or any other activities. I turned to AOL in a time of...
    jpd1966 jpd1966 41-45, M 17 Responses Apr 1, 2007

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    Our relationship was spectacular

    and unique that I could write a book about our story... I am 27 and she is 25, 5 years have passed by since when we got married. Long story short now, she is threatening me to hurt me or herself when we argue with a knife couple of times lately... I want a child but I have had...
    thesparkar thesparkar 26-30, M 8 Responses Feb 25

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    I hate her, but I hate her family more.

    Greeks who think greeks are gods and Americans are trash. We have a 5 month old who I'm trying to get away from this mentality so I can raise him a normal proud american child. She's a monster too. No respect for me or him. Today we were fighting in the car and she was screaming...
    jeffCar jeffCar 31-35, M 7 Responses Apr 14

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    There are a million experiences.

    First I must say that I blame her mother and step dad for making her what she is today. It should have also been a warning, meeting her mother, to let me know what my wife would turn into. One epic time, we needed a new micro wave oven. I was there only because she...
    obiwanbruce obiwanbruce 46-50, M 5 Responses May 27

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    qwerty350 qwerty350 26-30 7 Responses Jul 4

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    What Happened to My Life?

    Well, in some respects I suppose I am lucky. My wife does not spend money with abandon, doesn't cheat on me, and at least does a little bit of work around the house (more on that later). We are each employed with decent jobs. But she is a self-centered, domineering...
    miserable3 miserable3 36-40, M 66 Responses May 15, 2007

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    A lazy wife is like a plague

    that one just can't get rid of. She is like an infection that grows and grows, expecting your body to continue providing while all she does is grow nastier some more. Only one who has gone through the same would understand. My life schedule is as follows: Mon-Fri: 10am to 9pm...
    alexmin alexmin 31-35 2 Responses Jun 7

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    Nothing Happened Today

    You know, so many times I can come up with easy story material for this group. But I actually had a great day today where the Mrs. Is concerned. I thought it would be nice to share this positive news for a change! Today there was no drama, no arguing. Today I actually LIKED my...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I Hate You

    I  never thought about doing this but i have to, otherwise i will explode. Reading stories on this website has helped but i still needed to share my experience. I have been married for 4 years now and not a day goes by when  don't regret this marriage. She is stupid...
    superraider superraider 26-30, M 7 Responses Mar 24, 2010

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    Stuck With Her

    My wife and I have been married for a little over 10 years and everyday I think to myself, "What the hell was I thinking?" You've all heard that phrase, "If I knew then what I know now,....". Needless to say, I wouldn't marry the ***** again. I was raised in a...
    Stuck Stuck 41-45, M 17 Responses Sep 17, 2007

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    It Doesn't Get Better With Age

    42 years ago, at 19 and 17, my wife and I "fell in love," lived together, got married, and everything went downhill from there. She tossed out her birth control pills without telling me and I wasn't permitted to have a vasectomy until I'd had two kids, by Texas state...
    BitterGeezer BitterGeezer 61-65 37 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Usually i just get mad at her

    and keep thinking how my life would've been if i haven't married her. Today i can totally say I just hate her!! I totally regret trying to make things work this much. And for all of those who are going to wonder why i still with her, simple, i not gonna give up on seen my kids...
    diaz23 diaz23 31-35, M May 10

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    Please refer to my few earlier stories.

    Now to continue from last time. She rang me up on 11th April 2014 and said that her brother's wedding has been posponed to 14th April 2014 in place of 13th April, the venue was also changed. Her father also rang up up my father and informed about the same and insisted that we...
    wsing wsing 36-40, M 3 Responses May 5

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    Everytime I try to talk to my wife she gets

    hateful and snooty and acts like she is blowing me off. Makes me wonder if she is really listening to what I'm trying to express to her. She says stuff like ok I got it. But I know she is just saying that to stop talking bout it. I'm sick of dealing with it. We have a new born...
    wesporter20 wesporter20 22-25, M 4 Responses May 1

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    Well where do I begin.

    .. If I could go back in time I would kick my own *** for marrying this sorry, pathetic individual. It is amazing because when we dated she worked 2 jobs and was independent. Now this idiot has not worked in 10 years and yet wants to demand that I perform actions. We have a child...
    sodonehusband sodonehusband 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Please refer to my earlier stories "An

    unfortunate incident happened" and a few other stories. Now the latest is that my so-called wife left my house on 23rd March 2014 for her parents house. Her brother is getting married on 13th April 2014. She has taken all her jewellery along with her. She is as usual quite rude...
    wsing wsing 36-40, M 4 Responses Apr 5

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    I Used to Love Her, But I'm Over That Now

    She is intelligent, talented, and, in her way, attractive. HOWEVER, she is also narcissistic, rude, uncaring, self-absorbed, and extremely given to self-pity. She has cheated on me, wooing an ex-high school boyfriend with complete hog-wash stories about how tough, yet...
    SomeGuy SomeGuy 46-50, M 31 Responses Sep 14, 2006

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    My wife is a bully. For 50% of the time she is

    so aggressive when ever I ask a question. She shouts so much knowing I don't want a scene with the kids around I will back down. Last week she punched me in the head after rubbing dirty washing in my face when I was in the bath. She then proceeded to shout abusive in the end I...
    Dazis5 Dazis5 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 18

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    How Could This Have Happened to Me??

    Hi There, Yes, I'm not a very smart guy.  I watched a movie and decided I liked latino girls...So naturally I was so excited when I met my first Latino girl...She was so sexy and curvy and I couldn't believe that such a sexy girl was so attracted to me...an ordinary white...
    stupidswanz stupidswanz 31-35, M 10 Responses Jul 21, 2007

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    I have a wife who I hate with a passion.

    She emigrated from Hungary via the UK to Australia. We have a 10 month old daughter who is perfect, she bought her mother over for 12 months and her father for 3 months. She turned me against my mother and she recently died and I resent for that... I hate her culture , she is...
    regrettheexperience regrettheexperience 51-55, M 5 Responses Jun 12

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    Seriously Ladies.....

    if your guy/husband wasn't answering your texts would you send him a text like this? I guess somehow she thinks I will answer her more by her doing this? UGH!!! 'Can I say how rude it is how many of my text msgs you never answer the same way I ask them?'ADDITIONAL BACKGROUND 7/11...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 14 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    SetMeFree1805 SetMeFree1805 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 12

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    Praying For the End of Time..

    I hate my wife. I find myself saying it tourette-like.  So far I'm only whispering, but soon the volume will increase. I have none of the horrors in the other stories. My wife is faithful and she understands the need to spend less most of the time.  I still...
    foolwithnomoney foolwithnomoney 36-40, M 90 Responses Mar 21, 2007

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    Cannot Leave.......

     I've been married for a long time. So long I don't even want to think about it. My eldest son is 23, so I guess it would be a little over 25 years of pure hell. From the day we got married there was trouble. My friends saw this before my wife and I got married. She treated...
    givenup1 givenup1 51-55, M 7 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    I Am Sad I Am Not Alone.

    I had a good relationship with my wife until my son was born. After that it has been down hill. It certainly not from lack of effort on my part. I have tried to make thing work. I am unsure if I can continue to keep things going like this. I have been married for about ten years...
    Jamcojay Jamcojay 31-35, M 70 Responses May 3, 2007

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    I Love My Wife

    Many things have changed in my life over the last couple of weeks and it is all for the better.  My wife and I are working on things and with Gods help it will be for the better.  Thank you everyone for your support but it is time for me to let go of the past and move...
    SoulSeekerUSA SoulSeekerUSA 41-45 23 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    My Life Is Spent Keeping Her Happy.....at My Expense

    I hate my wife for various reasons.  There are moments that I can actually stomach her but mostly I just wait for her to go to work and be gone.  I don't even like talking to her.  We are so different.  Im a "glass is half full" and shes a "what...
    johnwad3 johnwad3 26-30, M 16 Responses Dec 14, 2006

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    My Wife Hates Herself..

    Actually my wife loathes herself.  I did not realize it when we were dating, but after marraige the truth slowly manifested itself piece by piece.  The thing about being married to a person that hates themselves, is that they hate you too.  They pretty...
    AlaskaMagnum AlaskaMagnum 31-35, M 22 Responses Jul 28, 2007

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    My wife is a immature,

    insecure, evil, witch. I live a boring life since she doesn't like to have friends or do anything. She uses or 10 month son against me. I left her and she for pregnant in order to keep me manipulated and stay! I would leve but I don't want my only child to suffer. The witch has...
    mruiz252 mruiz252 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 29

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    Well, where to start.

    ... Our relationship is polarised almost to the point of paralysis. We can rarely make a mutually agreeable decision about anything no matter how trivial. I won't say that I'm completely without fault here but I do feel that I am more willing to compromise than she does. Some...
    waratah67 waratah67 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 30

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    I have been married for 12 years.

    Married young, had kids young, did everything I could do to be the very best. My wife I knew from high school and we connected a few years after. She was a party girl, into drugs and was not in an admirable financial situation. She got pregnant, I did what was right and moved...
    DumbIdiot DumbIdiot 36-40, M 5 Responses May 7

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    This will take a while

    and it is long. I am again in a hospital, think I may as well move in. I had another stroke yesterday morning I am told. My left arm wont work at all. I had a visitor this morning, it was a state adult protective services representative, They wanted my statement about...
    toughth toughth 56-60 1 Response May 29

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    I wish I never married there are way hotter

    chicks I'd like to bang, now I'm really stuck as we have a child, lex luthor.
    awesomegamer7 awesomegamer7 26-30, M 4 Responses Mar 12

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    The Contract

    I've been reading through the comments on this forum for a couple of days now and I think I have something to contribute. It appears that there are many here with similar circumstances to my own. I've never posted to an internet forum in my life, and I don't intend to become a...
    used4life used4life 41-45 32 Responses Aug 9, 2009

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    Married 10+Years, have small kids,

    regret the day I met my wife, wake up in middle of night saying obscenities about her, I truly regret the day I met her, let alone marrying her, I am truely beginning to despise her and that is an understatement. I don;t belive in divorce, and if not for kids, most likely...
    regtretful regtretful 41-45, M 5 Responses May 19

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    Sorry To Interrupt

    My husband and I had a major blow out recently.  Really it pales in comparison to the years of fighting we've gone through.  Of the seven years we've been married so far I have to say this last one has been the best and even then it's been hell. I found this group...
    abusivewife abusivewife 26-30, F 10 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    GOD GOD GOD please deliver me from this pile of

    dog crap. I don't think I can make it another 17 years with this thing. Ten years and she has amounted to nothing. Most people go to school for ten years, hey their called doctors not sophmores. everything she does just ****** me off, everything. Gives me time limits on how long...
    scheff68 scheff68 31-35 7 Responses Feb 10

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