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I Hate My Wife

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    I Know...i Created the Beast...

    I've been married well over 20 years and should be smart enough to know that I should have bailed a long time ago. First it was, she'll come around, she was different before. Then it was staying for the kids, now I really have no reason to stick it out, but why do I stay...
    furiousandunhappy furiousandunhappy 41-45 23 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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    My wife is a immature,

    insecure, evil, witch. I live a boring life since she doesn't like to have friends or do anything. She uses or 10 month son against me. I left her and she for pregnant in order to keep me manipulated and stay! I would leve but I don't want my only child to suffer. The witch has...
    mruiz252 mruiz252 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Nothing Happened Today

    You know, so many times I can come up with easy story material for this group. But I actually had a great day today where the Mrs. Is concerned. I thought it would be nice to share this positive news for a change! Today there was no drama, no arguing. Today I actually LIKED my...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Jenemy Jenemy 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Wishing Bellamae, Frustrated 1978

    and all my other friends on this forum a Very Happy & Prosperous New Year 2014. May all your worries and troubles vanish in 2014.
    wsing wsing 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 1

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    The invention of the smartphone has created

    really stupid relationship issues. We spend more time buried in Facebook than speaking face to face. We email and text each other from the same room. We let our children watch TV or play video games because we are too busy building out crops within "FarmVille." We replace...
    Heartbreak007 Heartbreak007 70+, M 8 Responses Feb 8

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    Her son my setp son got in trouble are last

    home he couldn't live there with us because of it (the house was updated everything new and didn't have to pay a water bill) she decided to fine a new home she tould she wanted to rent to own bull crap in a house built 1919 not happy I was lie to just renting with a water bill I...
    Los69mind Los69mind 41-45, M 4 Responses Mar 20

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    My wife drives me crazy.

    I am going through the sixth time or so that she has kicked me out or left me. Sometimes these episodes last just a few days while she has stayed at her mom's. Three times I have actually gotten my own place and stayed away for a few months just to give it up and return to...
    whatnow73 whatnow73 36-40, M 5 Responses Jan 19

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    Forgiveness

    God gave us the tool to conquer evils, to withstand corruption and not to just survive but to prosper in the den of my enemies. One of these tools seems to be the smallest, dullest knife but in true it is one of the most deadliest weapon in the arsenal of man, mind you it is one...
    lionof1 lionof1 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    SetMeFree1805 SetMeFree1805 36-40, M 5 Responses Mar 12

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    I work day and night,

    earn a six-figure salary and am a senior manager, and my wife berates me throughout the day that I don't make enough money and that she has to work. She snaps at anything I do (angrily retorts when I say most anything) and is just miserable to be around. Many people I know...
    marriedtodevil marriedtodevil 41-45, M 6 Responses Jan 28

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    hatred HATRED Hatred is necessary.

    Hatred is socially acceptable. Hatred is good. To say I hate my ex wife was encouraged, to say the truth you could make a case for this hatred to be deserving. To leave a horrible marriage for hatred for your ex is not progression, is not freedom but simple leavening one cage...
    lionof1 lionof1 41-45, M Dec 30, 2013

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    Recently my wife of 5 years told me

    that she has been having an affair. At first she told me it was a spur of the moment thing that happened when she was visiting her parents over the summer. Later down the line I found out that it was an affair that lasted months with a coworker. Apparently the physical part of...
    merc84 merc84 26-30, M 9 Responses Feb 4

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    Met My Bitchy Wife On Aol

    When I met my wife I was the last single person in a group of about 20 friends. That year my best friend hung himself and that is when I became an introvert, no longer going out after work to play hockey, volleyball or any other activities. I turned to AOL in a time of...
    jpd1966 jpd1966 41-45, M 17 Responses Apr 1, 2007

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    I wish I never married there are way hotter

    chicks I'd like to bang, now I'm really stuck as we have a child, lex luthor.
    awesomegamer7 awesomegamer7 26-30, M 5 Responses Mar 12

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    Our relationship was spectacular

    and unique that I could write a book about our story... I am 27 and she is 25, 5 years have passed by since when we got married. Long story short now, she is threatening me to hurt me or herself when we argue with a knife couple of times lately... I want a child but I have had...
    thesparkar thesparkar 26-30, M 9 Responses Feb 25

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    It's Been a While

    Just wanted to stop by and share.    I still hate my wife.  It is getting stronger everyday. We are going on a marriage retreat. SHE thinks it is to go and get help.  There is NO helping us.  I am going just so that I can say that I tried to fix our...
    wikkedirish wikkedirish 31-35, M 5 Responses Jul 23, 2008

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    Yeah. Tonight she told me I was worth "nothing"

    after supporting her for 14 years solely. Then she spit in my face saying "pfft" the light drizzle of spittle killed my soul.
    mksajdja mksajdja 36-40, M 12 Responses Mar 5

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    She's not even my wife she's my girlfriend of 5

    years and I dread thinking about another day with her. First and foremost..I have been nothing but faithful and loyal to her through our whole relationship ..and to my knowledge she has been too. But these last 2 years has been the most difficult . Since I got laid off beginning...
    LoneWolf860 LoneWolf860 18-21, M 7 Responses Feb 1

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    I Am Sick of My Lazy Wife

    We've been married almost 20 yrs.  She isn't the same girl I married.  We have 2 beautiful children who I love to death.  My wife can't stand to spend 5 mins with either of them.  This summer break is already a nightmare!  She has a part time job, works...
    jumpship jumpship 41-45 94 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    she is really bad, though me

    and my family (parents) are far well off, she thinks she is some big shot. Treats my parents like ****..initially i was pretty tough, now she has started giving it back to me, or she is at least is trying...earlier i used to get pulled into her nonsensical arguments and would...
    dwineguru dwineguru 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    I Am Sad I Am Not Alone.

    I had a good relationship with my wife until my son was born. After that it has been down hill. It certainly not from lack of effort on my part. I have tried to make thing work. I am unsure if I can continue to keep things going like this. I have been married for about ten years...
    Jamcojay Jamcojay 31-35, M 70 Responses May 3, 2007

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    My Wife Hates Herself..

    Actually my wife loathes herself.  I did not realize it when we were dating, but after marraige the truth slowly manifested itself piece by piece.  The thing about being married to a person that hates themselves, is that they hate you too.  They pretty...
    AlaskaMagnum AlaskaMagnum 31-35, M 21 Responses Jul 28, 2007

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    I am 30 years old from India.

    Before 6 months I was spending my life very happy. I had a lovely family, and I had a respectable job which was I got very difficulties, I had a lovely girlfriend, we love each other very much. We were planning to get marry. But 6 month ago I met a girl. Who is very beautiful...
    ihatemywifetoomuch ihatemywifetoomuch 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 25

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    I Am Soooooo Done.

      I am so done with my wife. I am so sick to death of her s**t, and she won’t get it together. I understand that trying to change someone to suit your wants is BS and shouldn't be don as it isn't fair to either. However, if your spouse is a total slug...
    WTFnow WTFnow 36-40, M 13 Responses Dec 21, 2008

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    I Hate My Wife Because She Deserves That

    hi this is my story. my wife always sad person. she works hard but her language unbearable. my kid is very active . she usually scold my 2 year old kid cursing cruel words. i usually work 365 days. some time we go for vacation. i never forgive people who are irresponsible to kids...
    bobbysvm bobbysvm 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 14, 2013

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    My Wife Is Getting Fat

    my wife is gaining weight every year. she is 5' tall and probably now 135lbs. when i first dated she weighed a 100lbs. i dont want to have sex with her, i dont want to even look at her. we have been married for two years and she has gained that weight in those two years. i knew...
    johnston123 johnston123 31-35 40 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    I Love My Wife

    Many things have changed in my life over the last couple of weeks and it is all for the better.  My wife and I are working on things and with Gods help it will be for the better.  Thank you everyone for your support but it is time for me to let go of the past and move...
    SoulSeekerUSA SoulSeekerUSA 41-45 23 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    I Used to Love Her, But I'm Over That Now

    She is intelligent, talented, and, in her way, attractive. HOWEVER, she is also narcissistic, rude, uncaring, self-absorbed, and extremely given to self-pity. She has cheated on me, wooing an ex-high school boyfriend with complete hog-wash stories about how tough, yet...
    SomeGuy SomeGuy 46-50, M 31 Responses Sep 14, 2006

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    Horrible Selfish Wife... Want a Way Out

    i married this person i thought i loved about 2 years back... worst decision of my life. even during our courtship we had terrible fights and arguments. But always thought it resulted due to her past experiences in previous relationships. but it wasnt, i was wrong and its just...
    myrtlethyme myrtlethyme 26-30 80 Responses Oct 17, 2008

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    Well, where to start.

    ... Our relationship is polarised almost to the point of paralysis. We can rarely make a mutually agreeable decision about anything no matter how trivial. I won't say that I'm completely without fault here but I do feel that I am more willing to compromise than she does. Some...
    waratah67 waratah67 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 30

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    Cannot Leave.......

     I've been married for a long time. So long I don't even want to think about it. My eldest son is 23, so I guess it would be a little over 25 years of pure hell. From the day we got married there was trouble. My friends saw this before my wife and I got married. She treated...
    givenup1 givenup1 51-55, M 7 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    Hi All, Me Raj new to this website,

    my experience with my wife she was good at me from 2008 to till 11-12-2013, i loved her very much (i use to help her in all her daily activiiteis at my home before and after office timings) she udergone for two times miscarried when we planned for kids.. and the third time we...
    RajuSai RajuSai 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    I Wish My Wife Would Just Up And Leave Me And My Daughter Forever.

    Ive been married 2 years. We have a beautiful 2year old daughter. She is my everything. And she is the reason why I dont leave. It breaks her little heart when I walk out the door for work. I can just imaginehow she would feel if I never came back. Her mother threatens to keep...
    KingBaconTX KingBaconTX 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Sorry To Interrupt

    My husband and I had a major blow out recently.  Really it pales in comparison to the years of fighting we've gone through.  Of the seven years we've been married so far I have to say this last one has been the best and even then it's been hell. I found this group...
    abusivewife abusivewife 26-30, F 10 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    My russian wife has punched,

    scratched and spat at me constantly for the past year.LAst time my face was scarred and she called the police and they made me leave.I won't hit back because I have two girls I love. Then this year she was arrested for fraud against the Royal Mail and is currently on bail till...
    Nat33398 Nat33398 31-35, M 10 Responses Jan 4

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    I Hate You

    I  never thought about doing this but i have to, otherwise i will explode. Reading stories on this website has helped but i still needed to share my experience. I have been married for 4 years now and not a day goes by when  don't regret this marriage. She is stupid...
    superraider superraider 26-30, M 7 Responses Mar 24, 2010

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    It's Not Her At All...it's All Me

    Where to start? Nothing is good here. I spend my life living for her and the kids. Where do you need to go? What do you need to do? Okay...I'll schedule my life a little later....right after you do your thing. What's that? I gave up my career so you wouldn't have to give up yours...
    michas michas 41-45, M 7 Responses Aug 12, 2007

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    Stuck With Her

    My wife and I have been married for a little over 10 years and everyday I think to myself, "What the hell was I thinking?" You've all heard that phrase, "If I knew then what I know now,....". Needless to say, I wouldn't marry the ***** again. I was raised in a...
    Stuck Stuck 41-45, M 17 Responses Sep 17, 2007

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    How Could This Have Happened to Me??

    Hi There, Yes, I'm not a very smart guy.  I watched a movie and decided I liked latino girls...So naturally I was so excited when I met my first Latino girl...She was so sexy and curvy and I couldn't believe that such a sexy girl was so attracted to me...an ordinary white...
    stupidswanz stupidswanz 31-35, M 10 Responses Jul 21, 2007

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    Casting - Couples With Marriage Troubles

    ARE YOU SEPARATED BUT STILL LIVING WITH YOUR SPOUSE? Is your Marriage in Trouble and are you BOTH Considering Dating other people? We are looking for Married Couples who have hit a rough patch in their marriage and are still living together. Have you Grown Apart from your...
    MPCasting23 MPCasting23 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    I Have A Question For All The Men --Not Negative--

    When you first fell madly in love with the same woman you now despise, what changed? Is it more mental or physical? Does she act like she doesn't have to look beautiful because she has you wrapped around her finger? Does she take you for granted and feel like you'll always be...
    Tearmyheartopen Tearmyheartopen 22-25, F 13 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    Seriously Ladies.....

    if your guy/husband wasn't answering your texts would you send him a text like this? I guess somehow she thinks I will answer her more by her doing this? UGH!!! 'Can I say how rude it is how many of my text msgs you never answer the same way I ask them?'ADDITIONAL BACKGROUND 7/11...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 14 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    She takes two hours to get ready on the weekend.

    I'd wake her up at 11 after I've done a whole lot of errands and she'd take her sweet time getting ready before we finally go out to lunch. I can't even count the hours I wasted waiting around for her every month, but if I start doing something (productive or for entertainment...
    seandm seandm 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 10

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    My wife is a bully. For 50% of the time she is

    so aggressive when ever I ask a question. She shouts so much knowing I don't want a scene with the kids around I will back down. Last week she punched me in the head after rubbing dirty washing in my face when I was in the bath. She then proceeded to shout abusive in the end I...
    Dazis5 Dazis5 41-45, M 9 Responses Mar 18

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    Please refer to my earlier stories "An

    unfortunate incident happened" and a few other stories. Now the latest is that my so-called wife left my house on 23rd March 2014 for her parents house. Her brother is getting married on 13th April 2014. She has taken all her jewellery along with her. She is as usual quite rude...
    wsing wsing 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 5

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    My Life Is Spent Keeping Her Happy.....at My Expense

    I hate my wife for various reasons.  There are moments that I can actually stomach her but mostly I just wait for her to go to work and be gone.  I don't even like talking to her.  We are so different.  Im a "glass is half full" and shes a "what...
    johnwad3 johnwad3 26-30, M 16 Responses Dec 14, 2006

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    I Hate My Bitchy Wife !

    My wife is a nagging, harping, finger pointing know it all *****. I am seriously thinking of just up and leaving her ! I cannot stand her touching me, we never have relations anymore, I don't want to spend time with her, talk to her, and I could care less about anything she has...
    cyberfixture cyberfixture 41-45, M 71 Responses Apr 11, 2007

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    Praying For the End of Time..

    I hate my wife. I find myself saying it tourette-like.  So far I'm only whispering, but soon the volume will increase. I have none of the horrors in the other stories. My wife is faithful and she understands the need to spend less most of the time.  I still...
    foolwithnomoney foolwithnomoney 36-40, M 90 Responses Mar 21, 2007

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    It Doesn't Get Better With Age

    42 years ago, at 19 and 17, my wife and I "fell in love," lived together, got married, and everything went downhill from there. She tossed out her birth control pills without telling me and I wasn't permitted to have a vasectomy until I'd had two kids, by Texas state...
    BitterGeezer BitterGeezer 61-65 35 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Why Do We Continue to Do It?

    I can't stand my ***** wife for another day! September marks two years without sex. My dog is starting to look good to me. I work with toothless fat guys with hairy necks that get more trim than I do. It's pathetic.  Sits on the ******* couch with an attitude ands always...
    JustADogGuy JustADogGuy 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 11, 2007

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    GOD GOD GOD please deliver me from this pile of

    dog crap. I don't think I can make it another 17 years with this thing. Ten years and she has amounted to nothing. Most people go to school for ten years, hey their called doctors not sophmores. everything she does just ****** me off, everything. Gives me time limits on how long...
    scheff68 scheff68 31-35 6 Responses Feb 10

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    I hate her, but I hate her family more.

    Greeks who think greeks are gods and Americans are trash. We have a 5 month old who I'm trying to get away from this mentality so I can raise him a normal proud american child. She's a monster too. No respect for me or him. Today we were fighting in the car and she was screaming...
    jeffCar jeffCar 31-35, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    What Happened to My Life?

    Well, in some respects I suppose I am lucky. My wife does not spend money with abandon, doesn't cheat on me, and at least does a little bit of work around the house (more on that later). We are each employed with decent jobs. But she is a self-centered, domineering...
    miserable3 miserable3 36-40, M 63 Responses May 15, 2007

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    Trapped And Mocked

    I married her without knowing her because my family thought her a good match. Our marraige has been for 14 years with 2 sons ages 12 and 9. When I marry her I do not tell her of a relationship I have years prior in Greece while my city Sarajevo was attacked. The affair gave me my...
    Sarajevo4Life Sarajevo4Life 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    The Contract

    I've been reading through the comments on this forum for a couple of days now and I think I have something to contribute. It appears that there are many here with similar circumstances to my own. I've never posted to an internet forum in my life, and I don't intend to become a...
    used4life used4life 41-45 32 Responses Aug 9, 2009

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    Fat Wives Suck.

    Brother let me tell you, it’s every excuse in the book for my wife to stay fat. I can’t lose weight after having three kids. My back hurts. My knee hurts. My thyroid isn’t working correctly. (Although she has had it checked 3-4 times in the last 10 years and it is...
    Space1999 Space1999 36-40 94 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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