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I Hate My Wife

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    Here is my story, During my college years,

    I have been a runner up, and been known for it all over the college. A girl came to me to help her understand computer programming, she wasn't my type at all (she's full, white and tall, I like slim, short and with a skin tone). We were meeting in the college library, until it...
    t0ta1c0ntr01 t0ta1c0ntr01 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    Recently married. This is the list of things

    that constantly swirl around me and are driving me crazy. Should I just bounce? 1. Insisted and fought over my not inviting any family to my own civil marriage. She wanted only two witnesses ONLY, one on her side and one on mine..but I have 3 brothers and a very close family...
    applebot1 applebot1 26-30, M 9 Responses Feb 13

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    she expected me to marry her

    and I did... because I really do love her more than anything. she expected us to move in to her mother's house and we did because I believed in her.... but I soon regretted thatdecision.... I soon realize that she is a completely different person when she's with her family and...
    Dioca Dioca 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I AM A MAN OF 37 YEARS.

    I HAD A NAGGING WIFE.AND A DAUGHTER. I DONOT HAVE KINS. I HIRED A MAID OR 15 YEARS. WE FALLEN IN LOVE. ONE DAY MY WIFE STARTED QUARRELING. I GAVE HER A SLAP. SHE FELL DOWN. THEN I AND MY VIRGIN MAID KILLED HER BY PUTTING A PILLOW OVER HER MOUTH. THEN WE GOT MARRIED.
    pmwertyy pmwertyy 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    My wife is mean and selfish.

    She treats other better than she treats me. She has been going through menopause for three years, and is becoming unbearable to live with at home. She fails to be intimate in any way. She works out five days a week, twice a day...but can not exercise the discipline to be...
    MarriageIsNot4Me MarriageIsNot4Me 46-50, M 3 Responses Jun 13

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    The Contract

    I've been reading through the comments on this forum for a couple of days now and I think I have something to contribute. It appears that there are many here with similar circumstances to my own. I've never posted to an internet forum in my life, and I don't intend to become a...
    used4life used4life 41-45 30 Responses Aug 9, 2009

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    What Happened to My Life?

    Well, in some respects I suppose I am lucky. My wife does not spend money with abandon, doesn't cheat on me, and at least does a little bit of work around the house (more on that later). We are each employed with decent jobs. But she is a self-centered, domineering...
    miserable3 miserable3 36-40, M 75 Responses May 15, 2007

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    Hi guys! I'm deeply sorry,

    and I give you my condolences to being in the situation that you're certainly in! If I had a husband, my life's purpose would be to make Him happy and to do my best to satisfy His every needs, and wait on Him hand and foot. And if I don't then I should be punished! And when...
    ExoticXDarkness ExoticXDarkness 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    I don't hate my wife.

    I think she's a great mother to my kids, but sure knows how to get on my damn nerve. I would do great things if I never married this dream crusher. I slipped up and got her pregnant back in college and you know the rest of the story.
    monte202 monte202 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 1

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    Praying For the End of Time..

    I hate my wife. I find myself saying it tourette-like.  So far I'm only whispering, but soon the volume will increase. I have none of the horrors in the other stories. My wife is faithful and she understands the need to spend less most of the time.  I still...
    foolwithnomoney foolwithnomoney 36-40, M 89 Responses Mar 21, 2007

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    Wife gave our 1yr old rice

    for tea and left for work. Around 7pm , baby became violently ill and started choking on the rice. I had to put my fingers in her mouth to clear out, and calm her Down. It was a scary experience for both of us. When I told wife what happened, didn't seem to bothered. Again...
    T8443613 T8443613 31-35, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Fat Wives Suck.

    Brother let me tell you, it’s every excuse in the book for my wife to stay fat. I can’t lose weight after having three kids. My back hurts. My knee hurts. My thyroid isn’t working correctly. (Although she has had it checked 3-4 times in the last 10 years and it is...
    Space1999 Space1999 36-40 127 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    Sorry To Interrupt

    My husband and I had a major blow out recently.  Really it pales in comparison to the years of fighting we've gone through.  Of the seven years we've been married so far I have to say this last one has been the best and even then it's been hell. I found this group...
    abusivewife abusivewife 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    I grown to hate my wife.

    Before meeting my wife, I was in a four year relationship with a great woman. The only thing was she had issues from time to time and we would take breaks...during our break, I met my current wife, and before i knew it, she is pregnant and I get screwed. the funny think I...
    ujj9810 ujj9810 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 16

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    I Am Sad I Am Not Alone.

    I had a good relationship with my wife until my son was born. After that it has been down hill. It certainly not from lack of effort on my part. I have tried to make thing work. I am unsure if I can continue to keep things going like this. I have been married for about ten years...
    Jamcojay Jamcojay 31-35, M 70 Responses May 3, 2007

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    My wife is a piece of s*** she got onto my phone

    when I was asleep and deleted all female friends that I have on Facebook emphasis on the word friends that is all they are and nothing more. They are people I worked with and people I went to school with. Most of them are married or in relationships with other people. If it wasn...
    birdlips84 birdlips84 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 30

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    It's Not Her At All...it's All Me

    Where to start? Nothing is good here. I spend my life living for her and the kids. Where do you need to go? What do you need to do? Okay...I'll schedule my life a little later....right after you do your thing. What's that? I gave up my career so you wouldn't have to give up yours...
    michas michas 41-45, M 8 Responses Aug 12, 2007

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    Happy Choices

    Hey all,   Im really enjoying these stories, not because Ive had similar experiences, just the opposite.  I have been firmly commited to staying single for years.  Im now 32 and I don't envy a single person I know (married or single).  Im...
    joshanon joshanon 31-35 53 Responses May 4, 2009

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    Why Do We Continue to Do It?

    I can't stand my ***** wife for another day! September marks two years without sex. My dog is starting to look good to me. I work with toothless fat guys with hairy necks that get more trim than I do. It's pathetic.  Sits on the ******* couch with an attitude ands always...
    JustADogGuy JustADogGuy 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 11, 2007

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    I hate my wife with a passion,

    i have only been married to her for 2 years and i cant stand the sight of her. Im from America and i marriaed a women from europe and i moved to europe to live with her, what a hugeee mistake. How do you go from crazy in love to cant stand the sight of a person in 2 years, i...
    Phil1633 Phil1633 41-45, M 5 Responses Feb 11

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    I'm sick of my wife's bullshit.

    Her insistence of being right drives me nuts. She has to be right and she has to make a point. If I don't agree with her on every point she gets mad. I'm a loving husband who makes a great home, and earns a great living. I am sick of it. Everything is an issue with her...
    ck1houston ck1houston 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 3

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    I recently posted an experience

    that showed a great lack of empathy on my part. I stand corrected. My heartfelt apology to you all.
    Loverofpeace Loverofpeace 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    Yesterday I got told at my job,

    that I really love, that probably I'll have to quit soon, because of my impulsive emotional behaviour, which doesn't come in handy when you're a doctor in a nursing home. Later that night I got into a fight with my wife. I knew I was putting my own **** on her, but I couldn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 16

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    Meet the Wife!!!

      Damn, I hate my wife!!  The only thing that reminds me we are a couple is when she’s drunk and wants a stiff one!  (Not a drink)…this is what elrodinsa wrote back in June ’07.   Sit tight ‘cause this is gonna be a good one, you...
    wifeofelrodinsa wifeofelrodinsa 36-40, F 13 Responses Sep 7, 2007

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    Please refer to my earlier stories.

    This Sunday my evil wife had a tiff with me on the same issue of going for another IVF and while quarreling with me she held me by my collar and tore the collar of my kurta(an Indian attire wore by men). Then she left for my parents house. My mom asked how has collar torn, I...
    wsing wsing 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 20

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    I hate my wife she lies,

    she's not that good at sex anymore, she doesn't work, she doesn't cook, and she doesn't clean. This is not what I thought I signed up for I'm living with a different person I can't stand it I feel like a prisoner in my own home and I make all the money she contributes zero...
    Frustrated1911 Frustrated1911 36-40, M 2 Responses May 27

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    My Life Is Spent Keeping Her Happy.....at My Expense

    I hate my wife for various reasons.  There are moments that I can actually stomach her but mostly I just wait for her to go to work and be gone.  I don't even like talking to her.  We are so different.  Im a "glass is half full" and shes a "what...
    johnwad3 johnwad3 26-30, M 16 Responses Dec 14, 2006

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    My wife will text things to me

    and then blame it on something or have some kind of excuse. Who else thinks she sent that to the wrong person.
    slippybad slippybad 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 18

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    Seriously Ladies.....

    if your guy/husband wasn't answering your texts would you send him a text like this? I guess somehow she thinks I will answer her more by her doing this? UGH!!! 'Can I say how rude it is how many of my text msgs you never answer the same way I ask them?'ADDITIONAL BACKGROUND 7/11...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 14 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    on3more52 on3more52 51-55, F 13 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    The title says it, I do.

    I have been married for 5 years and almost all 5 years have been ****. My wife who is a great mother to our daughter treats me like complete ****. She has called the cops on me 4 times all of which the cops told her to "stop with the games" she even lied and said I had a gun...
    ConfusedFloridian ConfusedFloridian 26-30, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Nothing Happened Today

    You know, so many times I can come up with easy story material for this group. But I actually had a great day today where the Mrs. Is concerned. I thought it would be nice to share this positive news for a change! Today there was no drama, no arguing. Today I actually LIKED my...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Horrible Selfish Wife... Want a Way Out

    i married this person i thought i loved about 2 years back... worst decision of my life. even during our courtship we had terrible fights and arguments. But always thought it resulted due to her past experiences in previous relationships. but it wasnt, i was wrong and its just...
    myrtlethyme myrtlethyme 26-30 105 Responses Oct 17, 2008

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    I Love My Wife

    Many things have changed in my life over the last couple of weeks and it is all for the better.  My wife and I are working on things and with Gods help it will be for the better.  Thank you everyone for your support but it is time for me to let go of the past and move...
    SoulSeekerUSA SoulSeekerUSA 41-45 23 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Stuck With Her

    My wife and I have been married for a little over 10 years and everyday I think to myself, "What the hell was I thinking?" You've all heard that phrase, "If I knew then what I know now,....". Needless to say, I wouldn't marry the ***** again. I was raised in a...
    Stuck Stuck 41-45, M 18 Responses Sep 17, 2007

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    I Am Soooooo Done.

      I am so done with my wife. I am so sick to death of her s**t, and she won’t get it together. I understand that trying to change someone to suit your wants is BS and shouldn't be don as it isn't fair to either. However, if your spouse is a total slug...
    WTFnow WTFnow 36-40, M 13 Responses Dec 21, 2008

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    Cheating Wife

    This is the story of my life with my wife.  I am writing this so that it may help some other guys to not make the same mistakes I made and to possibly help me clear out my thoughts and vent a bit. Mistake number 1 which is probably a big source of many marriage...
    dansin dansin 26-30, M 30 Responses Nov 7, 2009

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    We got married back in 2006,

    after dating since 2003. In 2007 my job pace really picked up, and I was not able to be around for much other than going to bed, and asking her to accompany me to work based social functions. Well out of the blue I caught her packing up and leaving one day, and that was all she...
    ArmyStock ArmyStock 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 31

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    I Know...i Created the Beast...

    I've been married well over 20 years and should be smart enough to know that I should have bailed a long time ago. First it was, she'll come around, she was different before. Then it was staying for the kids, now I really have no reason to stick it out, but why do I stay...
    furiousandunhappy furiousandunhappy 41-45 24 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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    The invention of the smartphone has created

    really stupid relationship issues. We spend more time buried in Facebook than speaking face to face. We email and text each other from the same room. We let our children watch TV or play video games because we are too busy building out crops within "FarmVille." We replace...
    Heartbreak007 Heartbreak007 70+, M 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    My wife developed OCD

    while pregnant with our first child. Before this illness we were amazing. When we first got together we didn't label what we had, we decided that we would wake up every day and decide if we liked what we were doing, as long as the answer was "yes" we would keep doing it. We...
    Aguy79 Aguy79 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    It Doesn't Get Better With Age

    42 years ago, at 19 and 17, my wife and I "fell in love," lived together, got married, and everything went downhill from there. She tossed out her birth control pills without telling me and I wasn't permitted to have a vasectomy until I'd had two kids, by Texas state...
    BitterGeezer BitterGeezer 61-65 38 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I Hate My Bitchy Wife !

    My wife is a nagging, harping, finger pointing know it all *****. I am seriously thinking of just up and leaving her ! I cannot stand her touching me, we never have relations anymore, I don't want to spend time with her, talk to her, and I could care less about anything she has...
    cyberfixture cyberfixture 41-45, M 72 Responses Apr 11, 2007

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    I Am Sick of My Lazy Wife

    We've been married almost 20 yrs.  She isn't the same girl I married.  We have 2 beautiful children who I love to death.  My wife can't stand to spend 5 mins with either of them.  This summer break is already a nightmare!  She has a part time job, works...
    jumpship jumpship 41-45 112 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    Met My Bitchy Wife On Aol

    When I met my wife I was the last single person in a group of about 20 friends. That year my best friend hung himself and that is when I became an introvert, no longer going out after work to play hockey, volleyball or any other activities. I turned to AOL in a time of...
    jpd1966 jpd1966 41-45, M 18 Responses Apr 1, 2007

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    I met my wife 5 years ago.

    The first 2 were amazing and I proposed. Since I have been married my wife has become a lazy joke. She quit her job , decided to do some course on transpersonal counselling at a "cult" school which takes her ( my ) money and is not even recognised by any universities or colleges...
    Dimmy1981 Dimmy1981 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 10

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