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I Hate Myself Sometimes

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    I hate my body so much

    that sometimes I just want to peel my skin off and find a new body.
    LittleBeelzebub LittleBeelzebub 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    We All Hate Ourselves At Times

    I have days where I hate absolutely everything about myself - my hair is frizzy, my skin looks dull and blemished, my eyes are cloudy, my breasts are too big, even though i have lost a lot of weight i focus on the weight i need to lose, my legs are too short...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 14 Responses May 3, 2008

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    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    Idk why but sometimes I just don't like myself.

    I don't like all the choices I've made in life and sometimes it stresses me out
    ChrisBynum ChrisBynum 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 13

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    I just feel like I can't be good enough

    for anyone, nobody how hard I try..
    CaysenB12 CaysenB12 16-17, M Jul 1

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    I'm in a wheelchair (have been my whole life)

    and I hate the way I look and honestly it makes me want to cry. I don't know if I'll ever feel attractive or my intimate life will be. I've also had a lot of surgeries and I'm insecure. People tell me "your amazing" but they don't understand ...😢
    cuteshaybay cuteshaybay 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 27

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    Not all the time but sometimes.

    I always make my friends mad and I hate it as hard as I try they still get mad.. I always f.uck up. And I hate it. God I'm such a bad friend. I have ADHD and I get a little to hyper and make my friends mad.. Love always, Alexander
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 13-15, M Feb 17

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    I am sometimes such a stupid ***.

    Like I don't think of how it will affect others and... Well... It just ends badly sometimes. And a lot I the time there's nothing I can do to fix it. It's been done, there's no way out. It just sucks. I know I have a tendency to do stupid **** like that but yet I still don't...
    Stormymusic599 Stormymusic599 13-15, F May 31

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    Those Times

    society just hurts me so much. i feel so lonely every time but no one listens. I try to say it, talk about it but they just don't understand. I hate everything about myself sometimes i just wish i would die. every time, every night i cry myself to sleep and think about how much...
    paulinav paulinav 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    So I've asked my boyfriend

    for sex 12 times, anal 18 and asked if I could give him a blow job 13 times over the last 3 days and still isn't "in the mood". Maybe I'm just not attractive to him anymore? :( Never gone 3 days without anything before.
    LittleBeelzebub LittleBeelzebub 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I sometimes hate myself

    because I'm a lesbian. I was bullied really badly when I was younger because people suspected me. Now it's a lot more accepted at my school, but I still feel ashamed. I can't change myself, I can't hide myself, but sometimes it's hard to embrace that I'm different.
    Boo37 Boo37 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Trying to leave this tendency to come down upon

    myself when something does not go well for one reason or another. I know it all comes down to self-esteem and it's hard to build up after so many years of it being low. I can love/respect everyone else, but never myself.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    It's totally ridiculous!

    First of all,i want to tell you that i am a muslim girl. You see, it's totally hard to grow up to be a muslim teenage girl. First, i always hurt my mum. I don't mean it at all. It just i can be patient whenever my sister urge with me. I don't really like my sister much. She...
    MyTruthLife MyTruthLife 13-15 1 Response Jun 29

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    I just had my abortion last Tuesday

    and I feel so bad I feel sad, hate myself. I regret my decision Idk if it was the right choice. I just stay home all the time I only leave to go to work and at that I don't even wanna be there. I decided to Google support groups and I found this site hope it will help me...
    princessangiev13 princessangiev13 22-25, F 2 Responses May 19

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    Zeire Zeire 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    Ugh

    I am not a good person.  If people only knew...
    ehl7279 ehl7279 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2008

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    Some times I wish I could just fit in with the

    crowd; blend in. I wish some times that I could be like the cute white girls at my school who aren't very smart, but always get the guys that I like. I some times wish that I could conform like everybody else and have a good time without a care in the world. I wish sometimes I...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 13-15, F 2 Responses May 16

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    Hate... Not a Strong Word, This Time.

    I hate myself for being so... Angry, sometimes. I hate myself for seeming to have so little control over my own life. I hate myself for not ensuring that I *do* have control over my own life. I hate myself for not being able to let go, and let fate or god or whatever you want...
    Elwing Elwing 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2008

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    When I meditate yesterday I can't help

    but concentrate on the physical pain I felt when guilt takes over all feeling and overwhelms me. I wished during meditation whenever I hurt someone to feel these pain. The headache, chest pain all of it to make me remember not to hurt other people's feeling ever again. I wish...
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15

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    I don't know why sometimes I do sometimes I

    don't . When I'm alone it's so sad and boring.
    adamsoweird adamsoweird 18-21, M Mar 26

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    Hate Myself

    When I wake up some mornings I really dont want to go on. I hate everything about myself. Especially thoughts that go on in my head. I find it so hard to deal with emotions especially when people kind caring and show you warmth. Due to things in my past love hugs etc are...
    angel7 angel7 41-45 1 Response Apr 3, 2008

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    Rogerxxx Rogerxxx 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Especially right now.

    So much going on in my life and sometimes when I hold it all in for too long, I lash out! Why am I like this? I hate myself for this
    Laserbeam18 Laserbeam18 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    My Dad.

    I'm such an idiot why do I keep doing this my dad loves me and he loves all of us but I keep feeling so uncomfortable around him and I sometimes don't like it when he is around I really don't know what the hell is wrong with me I can't even like my own dad? what is going on with...
    Frozenfires Frozenfires 18-21 5 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    Sometimes I feel like I'm ever good enough I'm

    hard on myself If I do something wrong I'll get angry with myself or get frustrated I'm not perfect but sometimes I do hate myself
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Not 'sometimes' I'm nowhere near it.

    I'd say it's more like....I hate myself all the time
    XxBellabixtch49xX XxBellabixtch49xX 13-15, F May 2

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    I hate myself. But I smile an laugh.

    I donn't want people to know I'm unhappy. The people in my school are judgmental. If I said I'm not happy, they think I'm depressed. Life seems to have a lot of downs then ups right now 😔
    hockeytho121 hockeytho121 13-15, F Mar 25

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    I've never really been someone to talk about

    how I feel. I've always struggled with it. Lately though, the moods have been really bad. I can't seem to pick myself up. And I know I need to talk to some one but I really don't want to talk to someone I know. So I googled depression forums which is a really weird thing for me...
    capitalbreeze capitalbreeze 16-17, F 1 Response May 1

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    " And She will learn to love people

    and use things and not the other way around".
    TheVirginRapids TheVirginRapids 18-21, F 1 Response May 9

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    Ungrateful

    I hate myself quite intensly a lot of the time. It has been like this for years. That little voice of self doubt inside my head often tells me what I think of myself and generally expletives are used. If I look at myself in a mirror my first reaction is disgust and when times are...
    WyldHoney WyldHoney 31-35, F 6 Responses May 4, 2008

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    HidingTheScars HidingTheScars 13-15, F May 2

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    "Give me a ******* reason not to look down on

    you" ^ So tell me:what am I supposed to do with that statement?
    Naty14 Naty14 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Why Am I Like This Now ??

    I am starting to change ... I'm not that happy , cheerful person I used to be . Instead I'm the exact opposite . My friends are slowly pushing me away .. They don't even acknowledge my presence anymore . Maybe it is my fault , I should pretend to be happy right ? I should put on...
    shineeemoon shineeemoon 13-15 Jul 20, 2012

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    College orientation, should be excited ,

    right? Wrong, thinking of high school crush. I can pack all my stuff and not forget anything, right? Wrong, I almost lost my phone. Seconds later I find that it's not in my bags, it's in my room. I put it on my desk as I normally do. After about 20 minutes of searching and...
    Shamandora Shamandora 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Whatever I do/try, I cannot keep a lasting

    relationship with people, friends OR boyfriends. This one guy started texting me a few weeks ago and he'd call me beautiful, tell me I'm perfect, and just lead me on. He'd send me hearts and kisses... well anyway, once we hung out, as soon as we went home afterwards he texted...
    shlumbug shlumbug 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    You know that moment

    when you and your friend are having a little fun and then you say something you shouldn't of? Well yeah that just happened.... You know this is probably why I lose a lot of my friends.... I hate myself sometimes, cuz I say things I shouldn't of said. Yeah I know he should be man...
    Zimry96 Zimry96 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 20

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    I Hate Me.

    well I hate myself basically all the time really. I hate most things about me... I hate who I am. I wish I was someone else. I always make stupid mistakes and I'm so shy that I just end keeping things to myself and then I end up getting myself into situations I just don't want to...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2009

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    I wish I didn't want the things I want,

    or feel the things I feel. I always feel like such a bad person. People tell me I'm not and am quite the contrary, but I don't agree. Only I know me completely...and I feel like some of the things I think, feel, and want are not good. The thing is, I know that none of what is in...
    misscoffee misscoffee 22-25, F 1 Response May 5

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    I could not able to understand myself sometimes.

    When everything is going good around me, I feel really bad. When the world cries for its own grievance, I feel calm, cool and relaxed. Even I hate my beloved ones when they do good for me ! One sure thing is that I love loneliness.
    Brainy123 Brainy123 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    Ignorance is a bliss

    that I have not been fortunate enough to fall into
    renguard renguard 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I hate myself a lot. I make my mom really mad a

    lot, I'm mean to my little sister, and I make the wrong choices. I wish it could all be over...
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F 2 Responses May 16

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    I think everyone does sometimes.

    But then, I think that if I had the opportunity to change anything, I wouldn't because one little fix could change everything about yourself. Sometimes I don't like me, but there's a bunch of things I do like about myself. So I have to focus on those things rather than those I...
    taylor468 taylor468 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I just look at other people's lives

    and seeing them with their friends just breaks my heart constantly. :'(
    whatupdoc54 whatupdoc54 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    When you miss him so much to the point

    where you just want to ran and go find him kiss him and hug him and tell him you love him I miss you so much Robert I can't live with out you you are my every thing
    nikkismith15 nikkismith15 13-15, F Jun 30

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    I wish I never texted you I wish I never

    thought about you I wish I never wanted you so bad I wish I never asked you the most important question first and I wish I wouldn't cry over you because I know you hate it and I wish I still didn't care about what you think because I'll always want and care about you
    MissButterfly007 MissButterfly007 18-21, F Jun 15

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    okay...all the time. I'm just

    so fat and a bad dancer and so horrible.
    dancer4life99 dancer4life99 13-15, F Jun 21

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    %$#@!!!

    There are a lot of times where I absolutely cannot stand who I am. My mind starts racing and I become so overwhelmed and anxious with self-loathing. It's not like hating somebody else... you can always try to avoid people you despise, but when you really feel like you hate...
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    I hate myself sometimes

    because my happiness depends on my girlfriend.. why I love her that much.... If she talks with me or she messages me(we are long distance relationship) .. I feel perfect and feel like the whole world is in my hand.. if she doesnt reply my message.. I feel sad and disappointed...
    AnnaKhit AnnaKhit 26-30, F 1 Response May 4

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