Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Hate Myself Sometimes

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2,090 People

    Who I thought was my bestfriend in the entire

    world, now hates me. All I did was try and look out for her and she doesn't understand. If I tell her straight up how the guy she's in love with acts, it ain't my fault. I ******* loved this girl like family and she just goes off cause I got a lil mad. This guy goes around...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M Dec 22, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My crush hates me. I don't know why

    or how, but I know it's because I'm an *******. I'm such a f*cked up person, and I felt something like this would happen. I felt that I would drive him away someday because i dont know how to control my emotions when I'm heated. We haven't even talked that much, but he must've...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F 14 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I always seem to annoy some peeps in sum way

    or anotha. If I'm trying to explain summink, I end up annoying them, if I try 2 b nice, I end up being even more mean. I'm just not the peep I dreamed of being as a young little cute kid. I can't ever say something widdout annoying them and I can't ever think of anything nice...
    HermioneGlasse HermioneGlasse 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't know why sometimes I do sometimes I

    don't . When I'm alone it's so sad and boring.
    Adamsworld Adamsworld 18-21, M Mar 26, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Errrrrrrrrrrrrr I dunno,

    I always **** up -_-
    TeethTheSizeOfPianoKeys TeethTheSizeOfPianoKeys 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 23, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    " And She will learn to love people

    and use things and not the other way around".
    TheVirginRapids TheVirginRapids 18-21, F May 9, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate myself. But I smile an laugh.

    I donn't want people to know I'm unhappy. The people in my school are judgmental. If I said I'm not happy, they think I'm depressed. Life seems to have a lot of downs then ups right now 😔
    hockeytho121 hockeytho121 13-15, F Mar 25, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    MissSara13 MissSara13 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 3

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yea. Sometimes you just wanna get punched in

    the face because you're so stupid sometimes. That's how I feel right now. So dumb.
    Euphoricbunnymaster Euphoricbunnymaster 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This week has been long

    and horrible, and IDK if it'll get better. I have been upset about my body and myself. I was doing great in accepting myself and trying to be ok with myself, but i don't know what is happening. I have felt like purging and not eating and I hate it but it has just been on my mind...
    imgivingupnow imgivingupnow 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Welp... Here's another mental breakdown.

    . Today isn't the best day... I was in the bathroom brushing my teeth when I just looked in the mirror and realized how ugly I am. All my flaws. Hating myself because I will never have the perfect body, and yes.. There is a perfect body. My friends don't even really even like...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 23

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Those Times

    society just hurts me so much. i feel so lonely every time but no one listens. I try to say it, talk about it but they just don't understand. I hate everything about myself sometimes i just wish i would die. every time, every night i cry myself to sleep and think about how much...
    paulinav paulinav 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have this friend. Or.

    ..ex friend I guess as we stopped talking. We at first got along really well and liked similar things but soon it became apparent he wanted more than I could give. He told me that he needed someone to make happy in order for him to be happy and I believe he wanted me to be that...
    Catherdra Catherdra 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So I've asked my boyfriend

    for sex 12 times, anal 18 and asked if I could give him a blow job 13 times over the last 3 days and still isn't "in the mood". Maybe I'm just not attractive to him anymore? :( Never gone 3 days without anything before.
    LittleBeelzebub LittleBeelzebub 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    One of those days where I just can't stand

    looking at myself in the mirror. It's especially disheartening because I try so hard to look good and I put a lot of effort into my appearance but it never seems to be enough. I still feel completely invisible and unimportant. Most of the time I'm fine because my life is pretty...
    brimc7 brimc7 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ungrateful

    I hate myself quite intensly a lot of the time. It has been like this for years. That little voice of self doubt inside my head often tells me what I think of myself and generally expletives are used. If I look at myself in a mirror my first reaction is disgust and when times are...
    WyldHoney WyldHoney 31-35, F 6 Responses May 4, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate myself for loving you.

    I am definitely done with you. I was stupid for giving you my attention and time. What a waste. I realized you aren't worth it and you aren't the one. I have no regrets.
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Trying to leave this tendency to come down upon

    myself when something does not go well for one reason or another. I know it all comes down to self-esteem and it's hard to build up after so many years of it being low. I can love/respect everyone else, but never myself.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sometimes I just have those moments

    where a little voice in my head says "you're not good enough quit now" and the voice always sounds like my biological dad which makes it that much more frightening. I cut myself for years and quit cold turkey when my ex threatened to leave me. I still have my blade and sometimes...
    arirose43 arirose43 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Hate Myself.

    I hate how im so self conscious. I hate that I always feel alone even when I have people around me. I hate how fast my mood changes. I hate that I cant communicate my feelings to my boyfriend or my family. I hate being fat. I hate wanting to but not being able to. I hate not...
    Difficultme Difficultme 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    silverstrike silverstrike 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 11

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Negative Belief System: Trauma based

    Beliefs "I am a flawed, worthless person" TRUTH: I am a creation of God and worthy of love and respect! "No one will love me as I truly am" TRUTH: I have strengths and weaknesses like everyone else. I can be authentic, which is the key to connection with others. "I must...
    MostArdently MostArdently 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 16, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Whatever I do/try, I cannot keep a lasting

    relationship with people, friends OR boyfriends. This one guy started texting me a few weeks ago and he'd call me beautiful, tell me I'm perfect, and just lead me on. He'd send me hearts and kisses... well anyway, once we hung out, as soon as we went home afterwards he texted...
    shlumbug shlumbug 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 1, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    TeethTheSizeOfPianoKeys TeethTheSizeOfPianoKeys 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 21, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Did a tumblr post in relation to this go check

    it out http://chanelconoco.tumblr.com
    someoneforyou12 someoneforyou12 22-25, F Oct 23, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Like right now. I'm tired

    and I just want to sleep. I feel like nothing really matters. I feel so stupid.
    namelessentity namelessentity 13-15 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    You know that moment

    when you and your friend are having a little fun and then you say something you shouldn't of? Well yeah that just happened.... You know this is probably why I lose a lot of my friends.... I hate myself sometimes, cuz I say things I shouldn't of said. Yeah I know he should be man...
    Zimry96 Zimry96 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 20, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I find hate to be quite fueling

    and productive when it comes a dominant force in my life. After the crash of course haha
    VampGuy1 VampGuy1 22-25, M 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I can be mean,cruel,ruthless,

    and a ***** sometimes. I mean I'm a mistake after all. Then I can be sweet,nice,caring,loving,passionate, but it makes me feel fake. I'm nothing but a mistake that's careless and screw everything up. I'm not wants I don't belong here on this planet. I was born in the wrong time...
    Idiedinside Idiedinside 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    When I meditate yesterday I can't help

    but concentrate on the physical pain I felt when guilt takes over all feeling and overwhelms me. I wished during meditation whenever I hurt someone to feel these pain. The headache, chest pain all of it to make me remember not to hurt other people's feeling ever again. I wish...
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate myself or being weak,

    for being caring, sympathetic all these useless things that make the persona weak. I hate myself for bringing the pain on myself from my own blindness and stupidity. Betrayal. One of the things I loathe mostly with all my heart in this world. Deception AND Betrayal then is...
    3kstazy 3kstazy 22-25, F Nov 24, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm in a wheelchair (have been my whole life)

    and I hate the way I look and honestly it makes me want to cry. I don't know if I'll ever feel attractive or my intimate life will be. I've also had a lot of surgeries and I'm insecure. People tell me "your amazing" but they don't understand ...😢
    cuteshaybay cuteshaybay 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Dad.

    I'm such an idiot why do I keep doing this my dad loves me and he loves all of us but I keep feeling so uncomfortable around him and I sometimes don't like it when he is around I really don't know what the hell is wrong with me I can't even like my own dad? what is going on with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 28, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    %$#@!!!

    There are a lot of times where I absolutely cannot stand who I am. My mind starts racing and I become so overwhelmed and anxious with self-loathing. It's not like hating somebody else... you can always try to avoid people you despise, but when you really feel like you hate...
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 23, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate how I look. I hate how Im weak.

    I hate how Im alone. I hate myself.
    vicki90 vicki90 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 16

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hate Myself

    When I wake up some mornings I really dont want to go on. I hate everything about myself. Especially thoughts that go on in my head. I find it so hard to deal with emotions especially when people kind caring and show you warmth. Due to things in my past love hugs etc are...
    angel7 angel7 41-45 1 Response Apr 3, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate being me. I'm

    so tired. I wish I didn't hate my self but I do.
    TeenagerInPain TeenagerInPain 13-15, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why Am I Like This Now ??

    I am starting to change ... I'm not that happy , cheerful person I used to be . Instead I'm the exact opposite . My friends are slowly pushing me away .. They don't even acknowledge my presence anymore . Maybe it is my fault , I should pretend to be happy right ? I should put on...
    shineeemoon shineeemoon 13-15 Jul 20, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I relive every moment of the day

    before I go to sleep and analyze all the times I said or did something stupid. I do this until I hate myself.
    magickmegs magickmegs 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Isn't it the most frustrating feeling,

    laying in your bed looking at pictures of people who are more successful, beautiful and talented than you. It just drives me into this pit of self loath that I can't even try to get out of because it's what I want, I want to be like them, I want to look like them and though it...
    LittlePrincess01 LittlePrincess01 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 28, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I sometimes hate myself

    because I'm a lesbian. I was bullied really badly when I was younger because people suspected me. Now it's a lot more accepted at my school, but I still feel ashamed. I can't change myself, I can't hide myself, but sometimes it's hard to embrace that I'm different.
    Boo37 Boo37 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sometimes I have motivation,

    other days I am too harsh on myself and put myself down...
    blueworldsapart blueworldsapart 16-17, F Jan 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why is it that every time I'm asleep,

    you need me the most.. Why is it that things get worse when I'm not there? I'm so over seeing people hurt you! I'm so over seeing people **** you over :/ I hate seeing you upset, I feel your pain.. But I try not to let it bother me, because you mean everything to me....
    catho catho 18-21, F Jan 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I think everyone does sometimes.

    But then, I think that if I had the opportunity to change anything, I wouldn't because one little fix could change everything about yourself. Sometimes I don't like me, but there's a bunch of things I do like about myself. So I have to focus on those things rather than those I...
    taylor468 taylor468 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate myself a lot. I make my mom really mad a

    lot, I'm mean to my little sister, and I make the wrong choices. I wish it could all be over...
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F 2 Responses May 16, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel