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I Hate One Sided Friendships

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 139 People

    An Ode To No One

    im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting off things i had planned because u guilted or talked me in to yet 5more minutes,or saying please dont go.putting off...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    Hate Them

    This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how one sided my friendships can be.Or what I truly hate is being the third wheel. "Hello?!? I'm here too?? Thanks...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww

    I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has terrible taste in men, a dad who I've only seen a week in my life, and two other younger brothers. I'm stressed from school, trying to be top 5 in...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting

    all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What can I do? Nobody is perfect.. I hope they understand me.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F Apr 8

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    If...

    I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if I can't hold a conversation with you as there is some people I do and some people I don't enjoy conversing...
    Qtip1976 Qtip1976 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another "

    best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 18-21, F Feb 23

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    Why do you always get my hipes up?

    Why do you not text me? Why do i always have to text you first? I'm so tired of this game, i want you to show me i'm important to you... Why everytime i want to hangout with you do you cancel? Did something really happen or can you just not bother? I've had it!! But i don't want...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome

    and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks having a good time. And she stole my favourite top.
    girlauless girlauless 22-25, F Apr 8

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror!

    It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be the same here on Experience Project. I have some girlfriends, but we rarely seem to be on the same page. I wonder sometimes if other girls...
    DebbieDel DebbieDel 26-30, F Apr 24, 2013

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    Bullshit Friends

    Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular friend that i had a few years ago that really sucked. She was a girl i met at school, we instantly became best friends...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold!

    I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and always shows interest me in, this was the girl I first became friends with. However there is a major problem, she is really into astrology and she reads...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    This weekend had its highs and lows. Basically I had plans to meet up with my friends and they bailed on me. These were plans we had in advance from 2 weeks ago and they acted...
    bettygingham bettygingham 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I contacted with this guy and he said he loved me and stuff and I felt the same too.. Almost after a week he told me that he said I love you to everyone that he finds cool. So all...
    NynnaDavis NynnaDavis 16-17, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    The only time it is ok is if it's only a yes or no question. I hate trying to have a convo then I get yup, no, yes, nope. Like damn really??!!? Expand your damn vocabulary or if...
    elementnov elementnov 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 25

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    Is it always me who has to keep the conversation going. God I hate those awful silences on the phone.
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 2

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    at least messaging or responding I like mental stimulation! Not just yep... No. Give me something to work with!
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Was-Bullied/4606483 Read this first, this is basically part one of the story. Sorry this is long, & kinda venting. My therapist has started...
    njgirll njgirll 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I have been labeled as some horrible abusive monster worthy of no understanding yet there is know acknowledgment or understanding for the abuse i am receiving. And i am just...
    JudyGrimes JudyGrimes 31-35, F Oct 14

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    I hate being ignored! I can't stand when I ask someone a question then they don't respond to me and when I ask again they Yell the answer at me Like im annoying them with my...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    How can customers hate ones persons guts....oh yea... we told them every fcking thing you do in the morning you fat good for nothing slob file her in...thanks
    LetsGetHer LetsGetHer 46-50, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    How can so many people hate one persons guts... she is use to it...we got the scoop in her home town... hahahahahahahahah....she lies there also
    LetsGetHer LetsGetHer 46-50, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    well, i dont teach anymore, but i thought id write this post from all the past pent up anger and frustration lol. well, ive never taught at a public school, and my respect goes out...
    blahblah2789 blahblah2789 36-40, F 47 mins ago

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    shes nothing but a selfish b!tch I would do anything for her and she can't do crap for me not even one simple favor I asked to borrow her charger so I can charge my phone but noooo...
    FadingStarrr FadingStarrr 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    I moved because my husband hated his job in beautiful and wonderful Hawaii. I loved it there, but he was so miserable, it broke my heart. On the other hand, my little son and I...
    Sillyrabbit07 Sillyrabbit07 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    Today my younger brother came to me and said "how is it that you have no friends? No one in this world lives the way you do, they all have friends! I mean you look hot, you are...
    AstridPhotographer AstridPhotographer 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 26

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    I just absolutely hate it. I hate learning i'm just more of a laid back kind of person. i'm far from a dummie though,. I just hate waking up early. I have to be to school by 8:15...
    Dsanders13 Dsanders13 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    For leaving me. I'm not jealous, I'm just upset because I'm the one who introduced them to each other. Now they've sided as one and are dissing me. When I'm already being treated...
    DarkLoser DarkLoser 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 26

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    I hate it, but I've gotten used to it. In college, my friends started gossiping about me because I had a different schedule from them. I had no choice but to meet and hangout...
    lonelydinosaur lonelydinosaur 26-30, F Sep 27

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    Throughout life we make friends or acquaints ,many of which will fall away to nothing. How many actually stay beside you and can certainly rely on when your back is against the...
    blindfoldstacy blindfoldstacy 41-45, T 2 Responses Oct 1

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    Friendships make you the person you are, friendships ending badly can make you or break you, however when a true friend comes along you soon know it
    Margareta92 Margareta92 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    I know the best option for me would be going out with a nice, funny guy, but I am always attracted the ones who are arrogant and jealous... I really hate this about myself
    H3lloK1tty H3lloK1tty 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    AT one point you conclude that friendship is just an illusion, just a dream, just a box of scrap with a thin layer of chrome to make it look nice. That's the point I'm at now and I...
    gomega98 gomega98 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't do well with friendships because I always got my guard up. Isn't there a saying : you have to be a friend to get a friend?
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 28

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    I'm in a situation that is foreign to me because I'm not use to developing friendships online... I'm very hesitant to let my guard down and get attached. After all, I don't truly...
    dafunkofamadhatter dafunkofamadhatter 26-30, M 10 Responses Sep 30

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    I hate him now. I did not intend to hurt him i admitted my mistake and said sorry but he did not accept. Hes so unfair. He just only cares about his feeling, how about me? I was...
    misssaharra misssaharra 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    Time Together - people lie about the reasons why they can't spend time together or see each other ("I am so busy, I have so much work to do, I don't have time right now").... Past...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 8

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    What do you do when you've been friends for a few years and dated but never had sex and then went back to trying to be friends. We used to flirt and it was so passionate, but he...
    EmilyFaith77 EmilyFaith77 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    No one understands me because no one knows me. Everyone I know I can't trust they all have someone else they have to tell. If I tell someone anything everyone knows. So I tell no...
    AnnaSpring AnnaSpring 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    all I've ever wanted was to find that one man who I just knew I could be with till the day I die without even thinking about wanting another man. when I found that, I was so happy...
    summerwinterfallspring summerwinterfallspring 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I have one true friend in the area where I now live and she is moving away in one month. I am already feeling alone and sad because ever since we met we have both been each other's...
    ArdentLuna ArdentLuna 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 1

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    That one person who knows every horrible thing you've done but never judges you. Knows all your crazy relatives by name bc they have probably been to a family get together . Knows...
    FallenAngel0 FallenAngel0 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 25

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    I'm 34 and I still care about the friends I had growing up. I'm still friends with a few but there is a few that won't have anything to do with me and I don't why. One in...
    Morrgin Morrgin 31-35, F Sep 27

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    Im new to this site and its already making me happy . I have had many experiences wether their old or new and i can cherrish those memories but its so much more enjoyable to share...
    andiloveyou andiloveyou 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 30

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    Today I bumped into an old flatmate as I walked down the road with a classmate. The look on her face was one of excitement and joy as she opened her mouth to say my name. I...
    SomeoneOneDay SomeoneOneDay 18-21 Oct 2

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    I have many close friends that mean more to me than my family in fact they are my family. I love them more than they know, some know Im gay and others don't but I just felt like we...
    Dannyl1 Dannyl1 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 7

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    I remember 5th grade and walking into the classroom and seeing all my friends that I had known my whole life. However, I saw a new face and that was a big deal in my neck of the...
    cici0307 cici0307 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    I've never had dozens of friends throughout school or even now and I'm okay with that because I've always has a few close friends who have always been there for me and I have...
    jenni234 jenni234 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    I don't have very many friends. I have been used and screwed over so many times by friends; therefore now I am very careful who I choose as a friend. I would rather have one good...
    wisdom26 wisdom26 46-50, F 10 Responses Oct 10

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