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I Hate One Sided Friendships

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    I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if I can't hold a conversation with you as there is some people I do and some people I don't enjoy conversing...
    Qtip1976 Qtip1976 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold!

    I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and always shows interest me in, this was the girl I first became friends with. However there is a major problem, she is really into astrology and she reads...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome

    and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks having a good time. And she stole my favourite top.
    girlauless girlauless 22-25, F Apr 8

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting

    all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What can I do? Nobody is perfect.. I hope they understand me.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F Apr 8

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    Why do you always get my hipes up?

    Why do you not text me? Why do i always have to text you first? I'm so tired of this game, i want you to show me i'm important to you... Why everytime i want to hangout with you do you cancel? Did something really happen or can you just not bother? I've had it!! But i don't want...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Hate Them

    This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how one sided my friendships can be.Or what I truly hate is being the third wheel. "Hello?!? I'm here too?? Thanks...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another "

    best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 18-21, F Feb 23

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    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww

    I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has terrible taste in men, a dad who I've only seen a week in my life, and two other younger brothers. I'm stressed from school, trying to be top 5 in...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    An Ode To No One

    im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting off things i had planned because u guilted or talked me in to yet 5more minutes,or saying please dont go.putting off...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    Bullshit Friends

    Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular friend that i had a few years ago that really sucked. She was a girl i met at school, we instantly became best friends...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror!

    It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be the same here on Experience Project. I have some girlfriends, but we rarely seem to be on the same page. I wonder sometimes if other girls...
    DebbieDel DebbieDel 26-30, F Apr 24, 2013

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    Recently my best friend told me she doesn't want to move in together anymore. I was really upset about it and finally decided it's impossible to change her mind so I stopped...
    CollegeStudent22 CollegeStudent22 22-25, F Jul 24

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    I am so ******* done with fake friends. just saying.
    KittyTittyGang KittyTittyGang 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Reasons why someone is a good friend- for women-1- they take your money and never give it you back so you will appreciate things more.-2- they steal your stuff so if you fall out...
    Ameliaaaa Ameliaaaa 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    It really hurt if you love someone that don't love you back but what hurt most is that I thought he loves me because he was so sweet to me but suddenly he doesn't. I really hate...
    Lureen77 Lureen77 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I don't actually hate them, I just hate that they're so overrated. Seriously, all they do is sing and dance- like every other pop star out there! Girls only like them because...
    sayakakyouko sayakakyouko 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    This is payback to all the stuck up, bitchy Directioners and Bielebers in my class. I have a persuasive speech coming up on why we shouldn't abuse the Freedom Of Speech to our...
    InnerEgo InnerEgo 13-15, F Aug 2

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    Please.. you are not doing any favor on others by replying in one words. If someone takes the initiative to talk that doesn't means he/she has no value. If you don't want to talk...
    avatar1990 avatar1990 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 25

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    if someone takes the initiative to start a conversation and ask a question, it's better to not answer at all than to reply with just one word. at best, you look inconsiderate and...
    hoblinbobgoblin hoblinbobgoblin 41-45, M Aug 1

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    I'm mad right now. I'm so tired of people that right one-word messages and people that are clearly active but don't respond to my messages. Gosh some people on here!
    devinprater devinprater 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't get girls who are like OMG ONE DIRECTION IS THE BEST OMG I LOVE THEM!!!! And I'll be here like calm your fish ******* girl they not even special!!!!!!!!
    vivian3172 vivian3172 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    And what really hurt is that I thought she loved me.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    All my exes say that. Then get mad when i do too.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    That moment when you send a paragraph to your friends and they send you back a "K"..... I'm like OHHH a message ! 😱 and then I see "k." And I'm like 😒...
    KellsThr13 KellsThr13 13-15, F Jul 31

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    I can't stand ppl tht only send back with lol or k....what the hell am I'm suppose to say or do with that.....either make an effort and come up with something else or don't message...
    VivirLaVida VivirLaVida 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I only hate one;my dad. He is selfish and pompous and always has to be right. He gets violent when his authority is threatened which is anytime i question him. We get into heated...
    detestme detestme 13-15 3 Responses Jul 29

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    I dislike talking about this sort of thing. I suppose it is because it makes me feel weak, I don't know. I have not felt right since I was really little. I have been anxious...
    jord4567 jord4567 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    I was the outcast, gay, geeky nerd in 70's Texas and was avoided like the plague. I was the one no one noticed or socialized with. I was in and out of school as quick as I...
    travis43 travis43 56-60, M 55 mins ago

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    Divide and rule: manipulative tactics from mil My mil has ruined many friendships for me. I used to be best friend's with my Sil (husband's brother's wife). We understood each...
    genie201 genie201 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 5

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    Many people don't realize how selfish humans are, and that friendships are a joke. We are friends with ourselves only. There are many things a person could want from you...(We'll...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 27

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    I had a best friend since I was in 4th grade, I am now 26 years old. We have had our times where we were so close and then life happened and we grew apart. That part I can...
    thelightbehindyoureyes thelightbehindyoureyes 26-30, F Aug 4

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    I just can't handle jealousy. Jealousy has torn apart my friendships, my life, even my family at one point. I can always tell when someone is jealous. That look that they give me...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I was reading a Facebook post from one of my (I guess you can say) friends, and it sounded something like this: "My mom is always the one to spot a fake friend first". Was that for...
    TheAnonymousINFP TheAnonymousINFP 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I value good friendships and good friends. And honestly i am here to fidn new friend from all around World. Any race or age no matter. Good friendships are difficult to find.
    HonestFriend13 HonestFriend13 31-35, M 21 hrs ago

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    U hurt me so much and I can stop missing only one of u and I don't know why cuz I feel like I hate u and I am angry but the truth is I wish that bow if we could just Cher again...
    cheeringforlife20 cheeringforlife20 13-15, F Jul 24

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    Is it just me who doenst care if friends come and go? .. Everyone is just fake and I can careless in cherishing friendships. Shouldn't the only relationships that matter are the...
    Chylena Chylena 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I still remember how we met each other , in a way that we both didn't even expected, I just know you for like 3months or less .. And yet we became close friend like sister .. Those...
    fish090912 fish090912 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Weren't you the cherished friend. Sharing my heartfelt words with others to get a laugh. Pulling me in and pushing me away, words cutting me so deep, I didn't know I could hurt...
    tsollost tsollost 70+, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't have friends, because every-time I open up to some one. They always seen to prove to me why I shouldn't trust or talk to them. So fū*k friendships.
    SweetiePiePrincess SweetiePiePrincess 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    Honestly I really do cherish real friendships because you never know when they will end. I had a friend for five years and I took her for granted, the next things I know we aren't...
    ryyleeiigh ryyleeiigh 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    I promised myself i would never get attached to anyone else again. Done with friendships because in the end im trying my best to hold on to something that doesnt exist anymore. I...
    Atlchris Atlchris 16-17 Aug 3

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    It's simple... I'm her for friendships and casual conversations. Don't expect anything more. And if you made my circle, don't expect anything less. It's simple.
    Scaramooch Scaramooch 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 12

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    Yes, lasting and real friendships.
    infinitygirl98 infinitygirl98 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    My friendships lasts until you screw up
    imshy1234 imshy1234 13-15, M 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Rebekahumf Rebekahumf 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's almost been a year since I met my first true friend. Before I met her I never really believed in true friends. They seemed too good to be true. You know? People might look at...
    SpecialKind SpecialKind 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 31

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    My best friend and I met in 6th grade, at first I didn't like her because her mom was a bible thumper and she was just like her mom, but then we started hanging out and I ended up...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I really want to meet some good and honest people. I love coming home and reading messages people send me.. Mostly. I don't appreciate the guys who pretend like they want to be...
    Inthepr0cess Inthepr0cess 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 26

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