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I Hate One Sided Friendships

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    Why do you always get my hipes up?

    Why do you not text me? Why do i always have to text you first? I'm so tired of this game, i want you to show me i'm important to you... Why everytime i want to hangout with you do you cancel? Did something really happen or can you just not bother? I've had it!! But i don't want...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting

    all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What can I do? Nobody is perfect.. I hope they understand me.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 16-17, F Apr 8, 2014

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold!

    I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and always shows interest me in, this was the girl I first became friends with. However there is a major problem, she is really into astrology and she reads...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Hate Them

    This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how one sided my friendships can be.Or what I truly hate is being the third wheel. "Hello?!? I'm here too?? Thanks...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww

    I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has terrible taste in men, a dad who I've only seen a week in my life, and two other younger brothers. I'm stressed from school, trying to be top 5 in...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome

    and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks having a good time. And she stole my favourite top.
    girlauless girlauless 22-25, F Apr 8, 2014

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    I hate when you are expected to constantly to

    be the one to text or call. If I am the only one to start conversations or to check up ....then we aren't friends. Friendship is mutual!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 20

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    I have decided for myself.

    I will not do one sided relationships from here on out! Wether it's friendship or otherwise. I don't have to, I get to choose! giggles 😝
    whispernred whispernred 41-45, F Jan 17

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror!

    It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be the same here on Experience Project. I have some girlfriends, but we rarely seem to be on the same page. I wonder sometimes if other girls...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 24, 2013

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    An Ode To No One

    im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting off things i had planned because u guilted or talked me in to yet 5more minutes,or saying please dont go.putting off...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another "

    best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 22-25, F Feb 23, 2014

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    ladylove38 ladylove38 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    Bullshit Friends

    Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular friend that i had a few years ago that really sucked. She was a girl i met at school, we instantly became best friends...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    If...

    I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if I can't hold a conversation with you as there is some people I do and some people I don't enjoy conversing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    wow. must be a real problem here if this many people hate "ep pervs." I haven't been here very long at all and I've had to deal with a few so far. thank goodness there is a block...
    TimeUnfolds TimeUnfolds 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I Hate Coloured Creeps That's right you ethnic creeps, I hate you. How dare you monkeys come here whing to us, demanding from us, acting all upset because we reject you. Nothing...
    Andrew29 Andrew29 31-35, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I am one of the guys, but I don't want to be. I grew up with a brother so it happened naturally. I do look girly in general and enjoy girly activities. I am just way too okay with...
    shoffman22 shoffman22 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I really hate slow replies .. either u stop chatting or do it proper ..
    newsun newsun 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I love my mom and dad when I was still 1-10 years old. My mom work in a government office. While my dad he was working overseas when i was still young. My dad used to send as stuff...
    ventolero15 ventolero15 13-15, M 4 hrs ago

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    For me, it's the pressure of being expected to smile and enjoy "holiday things." I have 2 loving sons, well-meaning friends, and have set good boundaries with my emotionally...
    CallMeSal CallMeSal 51-55, M 4 hrs ago

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    Nobody has an idea about my life. My parents had no idea I was physically abused by my older brother by 10 years when I was just a child. Nobody knows my younger cousin by 2 years...
    writingforlife6 writingforlife6 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    I have a disability but no one has ever made fun of me or treated me differently than regular people. for that I'm blessed
    Niceguy890 Niceguy890 26-30, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    while I don't hate him I don't really like him either. out of all the people I know he's the only person I genuinely can't stand. he's rude and annoying and has never respected me...
    Niceguy890 Niceguy890 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    I have been so unlucky with humans even with the person who suppose to be my mother ..she was so hateful since I was a little kid before I even could walk and talk ..she never...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Pay attention to who your real friends are. – As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to have more friends and more important to have real ones. Remember, life is...
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind 31-35, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    In 2004 I got treated badly and heavily humiliated by two managers at hotel du vin in Brighton ..the mistreatment could possibly be racial or it could because I'm an ugly looking...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why do people need to bring politics like this into everything? Does Israel actually have any impact on your life? The media is so one sided, so much of what they say isn't even...
    TheEverythingFanX TheEverythingFanX 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I feel that most people in my life are only there due to convenience. I don't feel any "bond" or connection with even my closest friends and family anymore. I know it's my fault...
    Sparklyblueunicorns Sparklyblueunicorns 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Im never what I like I'm double sided , and I just can't hide it I kinda like it when you cry because I'm all twisted up...inside my mind ?? I'm semi automatic
    PoetryApocolypse PoetryApocolypse 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm burned out on friends that only complain about ****, but don't ask about me. I'm sick of always being the one that always makes sure everyone else is happy. I am a good...
    XxshenanigansxX XxshenanigansxX 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Sometimes I can be an extremely quiet person... but I will never ever just text you back with 'k'
    annabearrr annabearrr 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Oh, how my heart goes out to you. If only I could take away your pain. My heartfelt love and prayers go out to all who are experiencing a loss. Hopefully, I might bring you a...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm sorry, but I need to get these feelings of resentment and hatred out of me before I end up doing something very foolish. I hate my mother. I just hate her. I cant stand to be...
    aaron812 aaron812 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    #OscarSoWhiteOh yeah, you better believe I have something to say about this! The Fire Rises!!!For the last couple of days, I've watched video after video, I've read article after...
    HiPpIeRoNiN HiPpIeRoNiN 31-35, M 5 Responses Jan 27

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    They really are hard to come by these days so if you do happen to come across a friend u cherish hold on to them! So hard to find genuine people to have friendships with ppl tend...
    princesspeacock princesspeacock 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    Has anyone made any real, long lasting friendships on EP. It seems like after a few conversations through pm the connection slowly dwindles. Also, I'm quite surprised in how many...
    minisuko minisuko 26-30, F 22 Responses Jan 25

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    an excellent anime with an excellent , omnipotent protagonist that can only have one sided battles , a fresh air breathe after years of pathetic and miserable laughingstock...
    ParisHiltonfan ParisHiltonfan 26-30, M Jan 24

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    Well I have seen many psychiatrists and mental health professionals and they all said the same thing that I do not suffer from schizophrenia or any psychotic disorder ...so if...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    I've posted here before about my social anxiety, and it's something I've been working extremely hard to combat. The thing is, forming friendships is difficult for me because I...
    Caridinals21 Caridinals21 22-25, M Jan 23

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    At the moment I feel painfully traumatised and I feel deeply hated and it is hurting me so much ... I hate my mother and I won't allow her to abuse me anymore ..she never liked me...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    At the moment I feel painfully traumatised and I feel deeply hated and it is hurting me so much ... I hate my mother and I won't allow her to abuse me anymore ..she never liked me...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    I got hurt enough in my life and when I'm hurting I send lots of negative energy away towards the person who made me feel hurt ..there is in particular a white French European...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16