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I Hate One Sided Friendships

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 155 People

    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww

    I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has terrible taste in men, a dad who I've only seen a week in my life, and two other younger brothers. I'm stressed from school, trying to be top 5 in...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another "

    best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 18-21, F Feb 23, 2014

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    Bullshit Friends

    Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular friend that i had a few years ago that really sucked. She was a girl i met at school, we instantly became best friends...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    An Ode To No One

    im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting off things i had planned because u guilted or talked me in to yet 5more minutes,or saying please dont go.putting off...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror!

    It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be the same here on Experience Project. I have some girlfriends, but we rarely seem to be on the same page. I wonder sometimes if other girls...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 24, 2013

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting

    all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What can I do? Nobody is perfect.. I hope they understand me.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 16-17, F Apr 8, 2014

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    If...

    I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if I can't hold a conversation with you as there is some people I do and some people I don't enjoy conversing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold!

    I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and always shows interest me in, this was the girl I first became friends with. However there is a major problem, she is really into astrology and she reads...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Why do you always get my hipes up?

    Why do you not text me? Why do i always have to text you first? I'm so tired of this game, i want you to show me i'm important to you... Why everytime i want to hangout with you do you cancel? Did something really happen or can you just not bother? I've had it!! But i don't want...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    ladylove38 ladylove38 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    Hate Them

    This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how one sided my friendships can be.Or what I truly hate is being the third wheel. "Hello?!? I'm here too?? Thanks...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome

    and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks having a good time. And she stole my favourite top.
    girlauless girlauless 22-25, F Apr 8, 2014

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    prashik1996 prashik1996 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I'm not sure to consider if I this hating one direction, sure I like 4 of their songs, but I hate the members and the rest of their songs. When I told my friends that I liked some...
    GamerGirlB GamerGirlB 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    i know its not right to hate a coworker. but in this case I have to. I work 10-6 at night. if a room comes up dirty at 5:50 this coworker will say if I didn't sit down all night...
    peppit peppit 36-40, M Apr 16

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    I don't understand how someone could be so rude. She judges everyone. I can't even stand being next to her.
    monicaar3 monicaar3 18-21, F Apr 7

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    But what is a true friendship anyway? I try to be a true friend. Alas, when I need one they are too busy. I'll drop everything to take a friend to the emergency room, make...
    teadiva teadiva 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 4

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    Dont you hate those sometimes friendships. The kind where you guys only talk sometimes and then thats only when the other person is bored. I do..
    jadawada01 jadawada01 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Most teens my age disrespectful rude and rebellious they listen to horrible music.that is teaching them to hate one another to kill one another how to make babies only over at the...
    Whyicry Whyicry 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    I honestly haven't even worked here two weeks and I already have my letter of resignation written. I just want to save up some money to help float my boyfriend and I until I get a...
    mxsable mxsable 18-21, T 4 days ago

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    I was born in CA, then moved to IL. I loved it in IL, but when I graduated from High school, my mother and I moved back to CA, and I hate it here. Especially since we ended up in...
    Florana Florana 22-25, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    If they watch your every move, they are a fan! its impossible for a hater to hate just another person from the crowd, they always hate on the stand outs. The fearless ones, that...
    RestlessFlame RestlessFlame 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20

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    I've had a tough ride through friendships and this account that I have made for myself is going to be mainly about friendships!.. In year 6 I lost two amZing friends of mine...
    D1AnGraB D1AnGraB 13-15, T Apr 9

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    He has to take a dementia test. Doctor is worried about him. It hurts a lot my doctor really likes him and my mother but hates me. He won't take me seriously or see how bad I am...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Everything was fine when I was just a baby. But, when I started walking and talking, my relatives and people in general just hated me. The only ones that didn't hate me was my...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    What can I say? Just the usual suspect, the bullies, the picking on, the anguish you want to do something but you couldn't? I suppose I beat myself up every now and than. Sometimes...
    Cudd1efish Cudd1efish 26-30, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Dear Switzerland, dear Swiss folksFirst of all, I love you. I grew up here. Even if I wasn’t born here, I can’t help but love you. Despite your occasional quirkiness...
    mishale80 mishale80 31-35, F Apr 9

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    As much as I think some of the PC lefty stuff can get nonsensical and go too far at times, I have yet to meet a single racist or homophobic person who struck me as being an...
    SonOfSartre SonOfSartre 36-40, M Apr 23

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    I've been suffering from acne for the past 3 years. I've tried many types of skincare product. From drugstore to the high end ones. I've also been to New York Skin Solution. But...
    TikaTikaTika TikaTikaTika 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Hated gym class - I was one of the shortest guys in the school and we always wound up playing basketball. Dodgeball was ok for us vertically challenged. Didn't mind...
    guydude3 guydude3 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    On the other hand, anti-conformism kills friendships. Is there space for real friendships without giving up yourself?
    Zennny Zennny 26-30, M Apr 8

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    True friendship. I don't even know if I have that these days. It's very surprising how far relationships can change in a year. I thought I had it all, a precious family that I love...
    Nitram13 Nitram13 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I cannot ever get out of this. I know I can never and will never. I hate my life. I keep crying and crying and nothing works in my life well to the point that makes me satisfactry...
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

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    Okay so basically I started my driving last year in August 14' with a manual car but had to switch to an automatic due to just not getting hang on clutch control and gears/stalling...
    jaexo jaexo 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    I can't stand American girl dolls. I also cannot stand cabbage patch dolls and all the dolls meant to be babies or children. I find hem grotesque and awful to look at. Even as a...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I want to make some lasting genuine friendships with people who are also looking for the same. Good friends to talk about life and daily things we do. Want friends who can be there...
    cdef12 cdef12 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 21

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    I value the real friendship which is very rare in a few exceptional. However, with a lot of bad "fakes", around I'm just disappointed. Even so, they can't strike me down to their...
    IloveAutumn115 IloveAutumn115 22-25, F Apr 21

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    I have many friends and looking for more. I cherish true friendships with others; males and females. A person can never have enough friends.
    stephaniewashington stephaniewashington 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't see why exactly people bully, I mean it can let off steam or try to make the person feel better, but isn't it more beneficial and rewarding to love instead of hate? What...
    lleggo lleggo 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    Life is a sea and we are ships. We conquer the storms, master the tides, face the hurricanes and keep sailing forth to our next horizon. On our ship we are either alone or we have...
    AkaiAmbrosine AkaiAmbrosine 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am so glad I found this forum. I am glad I am not the only one living the Australian lie (not Australian dream). I am born and grew up in Malaysia to Chinese parents. Everybody...
    malaysianinoz malaysianinoz 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    one of the many reasons I left my ex.
    shellyseashore shellyseashore 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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