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I Hate One Sided Friendships

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 154 People

    An Ode To No One

    im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting off things i had planned because u guilted or talked me in to yet 5more minutes,or saying please dont go.putting off...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    Why do you always get my hipes up?

    Why do you not text me? Why do i always have to text you first? I'm so tired of this game, i want you to show me i'm important to you... Why everytime i want to hangout with you do you cancel? Did something really happen or can you just not bother? I've had it!! But i don't want...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold!

    I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and always shows interest me in, this was the girl I first became friends with. However there is a major problem, she is really into astrology and she reads...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting

    all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What can I do? Nobody is perfect.. I hope they understand me.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 16-17, F Apr 8, 2014

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome

    and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks having a good time. And she stole my favourite top.
    girlauless girlauless 22-25, F Apr 8, 2014

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    Bullshit Friends

    Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular friend that i had a few years ago that really sucked. She was a girl i met at school, we instantly became best friends...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    ladylove38 ladylove38 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww

    I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has terrible taste in men, a dad who I've only seen a week in my life, and two other younger brothers. I'm stressed from school, trying to be top 5 in...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    Hate Them

    This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how one sided my friendships can be.Or what I truly hate is being the third wheel. "Hello?!? I'm here too?? Thanks...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another "

    best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 18-21, F Feb 23, 2014

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror!

    It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be the same here on Experience Project. I have some girlfriends, but we rarely seem to be on the same page. I wonder sometimes if other girls...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 24, 2013

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    If...

    I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if I can't hold a conversation with you as there is some people I do and some people I don't enjoy conversing...
    Qtip1976 Qtip1976 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    do you ever have a person at your work that treats you like you are f*ckin dumb? they keep sending you emails that are very patronizing...so I answer back in a tactful manner but I...
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    YINYANGINSANE YINYANGINSANE 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I don't understand how someone could be so rude. She judges everyone. I can't even stand being next to her.
    monicaar3 monicaar3 18-21, F Apr 7

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    But what is a true friendship anyway? I try to be a true friend. Alas, when I need one they are too busy. I'll drop everything to take a friend to the emergency room, make...
    teadiva teadiva 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 4

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    Ever since I was little, I was jealous of girls at school who's moms seemed to always be there for them. Helping out at school, going with them to Girl Scouts trips, etc. I thought...
    sunnysenpai sunnysenpai 13-15, F Apr 2

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    Dont you hate those sometimes friendships. The kind where you guys only talk sometimes and then thats only when the other person is bored. I do..
    jadawada01 jadawada01 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Most teens my age disrespectful rude and rebellious they listen to horrible music.that is teaching them to hate one another to kill one another how to make babies only over at the...
    Whyicry Whyicry 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    Bestfriends: They act like your.. - theraphist - worst enemy - your lesbian lover - your bestfriend - your mom - your like - like their freakin God or something - but most...
    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I've been going to therapy for about 3 years now & at first I was okay with it cause I knew I needed it & know it's just stupid. So when I first went to therapy it was because my...
    BatVein BatVein 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    I am surprised at the gullibility of everyone posting on this forum. People who love living in Australia, and people who hate living in Australia. Regarding the Australians in...
    tonino60 tonino60 51-55, M 4 hrs ago

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    If they watch your every move, they are a fan! its impossible for a hater to hate just another person from the crowd, they always hate on the stand outs. The fearless ones, that...
    RestlessFlame RestlessFlame 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I've had a tough ride through friendships and this account that I have made for myself is going to be mainly about friendships!.. In year 6 I lost two amZing friends of mine...
    D1AnGraB D1AnGraB 13-15, T Apr 9

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    Why am I even going to see the snobby ***** tomorrow? He doesn't listen or take me seriously. I can't tell him about wanting a ct scan done or about my other health issues because...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 7 hrs ago

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    hahaha I got a post removed from here cause I had to many course words so thi is what I said I hate people that have to make fun of people that misspell a word when they know...
    ashes1229 ashes1229 26-30, F 1 Response 41 mins ago

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    I'm having a **** load of flashbacks right now.. all from high school.. memories of all of my closest friends who I don't have anymore. It's making me smile and killing me at the...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    Has anyone noticed all the "ask me anything" posts, and that when a 13- 18 year old asks one the replies have got these words in them "how big" "pube colour" "panties or thongs...
    Mloomps Mloomps 13-15, M 5 hrs ago

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    So...since i've told some guys i'm not only attracted to man,they are suddenly turn to b*tch and gone. Are you f*ckin serious? One of them even told be You are dirty w*ore and...
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    So.... Went from married, to divorced and almost homeless in less than two months. A friend guy stepped up and we started seeing each other. Nice guy, great guy actually! He has...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    On an other website I am one guy asked me be his girlfriend then I told I already have one since I do and he was like Him: oh ok Him: what's his name Him: <3 Him: send me a...
    CustardGirl CustardGirl 13-15, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Political correctness is turning this country into a society where you can't say anything with out offending anyone! I work in a politically incorrect place and if I spoke the way...
    k5rjtxj k5rjtxj 26-30, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Dear Switzerland, dear Swiss folksFirst of all, I love you. I grew up here. Even if I wasn’t born here, I can’t help but love you. Despite your occasional quirkiness...
    mishale80 mishale80 31-35, F Apr 9

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    As much as I think some of the PC lefty stuff can get nonsensical and go too far at times, I have yet to meet a single racist or homophobic person who struck me as being an...
    AnotherNightOwl AnotherNightOwl 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    On the other hand, anti-conformism kills friendships. Is there space for real friendships without giving up yourself?
    Zennny Zennny 26-30, M Apr 8

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    Real friends are the ones who are always there for you no matter what, fake friends leave you in the dark and never try to help. I no longer have time for meaningless friendships...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 7 Responses Mar 31

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    True friendship. I don't even know if I have that these days. It's very surprising how far relationships can change in a year. I thought I had it all, a precious family that I love...
    Nitram13 Nitram13 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    We all have people in our life who pretend to care.Deep down they don't give a ****.Manipulating us to their needs.That's one of the reasons I don't make friends easily.I have very...
    ComplexGrl111 ComplexGrl111 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    I cook, clean, take care of our child, I'm always available for him, I dress up, get on my knees, listen to him, watch him play video games, put up with his **** addiction, I do...
    MsBlasian MsBlasian 22-25, F 12 Responses 7 hrs ago

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