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I Hate One Sided Friendships

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold!

    I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and always shows interest me in, this was the girl I first became friends with. However there is a major problem, she is really into astrology and she reads...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome

    and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks having a good time. And she stole my favourite top.
    girlauless girlauless 22-25, F Apr 8

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    Hate Them

    This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how one sided my friendships can be.Or what I truly hate is being the third wheel. "Hello?!? I'm here too?? Thanks...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another "

    best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 18-21, F Feb 23

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    Bullshit Friends

    Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular friend that i had a few years ago that really sucked. She was a girl i met at school, we instantly became best friends...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    If...

    I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if I can't hold a conversation with you as there is some people I do and some people I don't enjoy conversing...
    Qtip1976 Qtip1976 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    An Ode To No One

    im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting off things i had planned because u guilted or talked me in to yet 5more minutes,or saying please dont go.putting off...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting

    all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What can I do? Nobody is perfect.. I hope they understand me.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F Apr 8

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror!

    It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be the same here on Experience Project. I have some girlfriends, but we rarely seem to be on the same page. I wonder sometimes if other girls...
    DebbieDel DebbieDel 26-30, F Apr 24, 2013

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    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww

    I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has terrible taste in men, a dad who I've only seen a week in my life, and two other younger brothers. I'm stressed from school, trying to be top 5 in...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    Why do you always get my hipes up?

    Why do you not text me? Why do i always have to text you first? I'm so tired of this game, i want you to show me i'm important to you... Why everytime i want to hangout with you do you cancel? Did something really happen or can you just not bother? I've had it!! But i don't want...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    My bestfriend pretends like I dont exist and I feel so alone all the time. I'm trying to talk to her and she's just not responding. She only responds when i'm in a crisis which is...
    99jasi 99jasi 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    Hey, if we are messaging then that means I wanna convo. It's cool if You don't wanna chat. If you don't wanna chat then don't chat, but don't give one worded answers. There is no...
    Poopoohead17 Poopoohead17 18-21, M Aug 28

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    I can write a novel of how much I hate people and their stupid, lack of knowledge, and zero common sense behaviour! I hate people who think they know everything yet they are so...
    Navia55 Navia55 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    i really dont like talking about this stuff but nobodys gonna read this anyway:/. lately ive been being bullied at school and i have had no friends since apparently im the hated...
    gagebisson gagebisson 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    I hate taking care of my mom. I hate that she's living with me. I feel suffocated and overwhelmed. I moved over 800 miles to get away from her. That lasted 9 months before she...
    EclecticHumanDecoy EclecticHumanDecoy 41-45 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I hate that I always fall into the trap of "don't worry, I'm not like them" or "I would never leave you." But everyone always stays for my good side, the fake me, the me that's...
    OsyriaRose OsyriaRose 16-17, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    yea i hate all my life hate family love my parents love my brother love my sister but i hate other of my family hae them they treat me like iam child like iam insane hate them hate...
    Outsider92 Outsider92 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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    So it all started when i was young when my dad killed my mom and started using me...i felt dirty....very ....unfit for . then when i started cutting i felt even worse because of...
    EmoNekoNiki EmoNekoNiki 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    i know this is going to be pretty long, but i just need to vent. People at school call me a loner, but its not that i want to be one, i feel like i have to be one. im pretty sure...
    xGillyLiciousx xGillyLiciousx 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    10 things I don't need in a friend. This is for those people who thinks that I am just dumb and easy to be bullied. Even though you call me your “friend”. BUT actually, no...
    Artz4Life Artz4Life 16-17, F 8 hrs ago

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    Wearing large amounts of make up or hiding behind a shadow of your imaginations is NOT fake. You should not be clarified plastic or unreal because someone tells you that you need...
    MaraIsNotKawaii MaraIsNotKawaii 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    I decided to expose them one by one. Especially the ones who are looking for online relationships.Kamishiro is what I call a casual perv who say and do perverted stuff so naturally...
    loveandwars loveandwars 22-25, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I gave up everything for a relationship and just found out I had been cheated on... He told me... And in our place we made together.... As much as I appreciate the honesty... The...
    EricaAshli EricaAshli 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 26

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    Over the years I met so many people and with some good values , few places questioned my relationships with people, I even thought something was wrong with me , because living in...
    hunlove hunlove 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Not really.. Actually if you want a Temporary Friend, im always here. It does sucks because some friendships i wanna stay for long.. But i suck at friendships and im only good at...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Life is too strange, ironic, and unfair. Life is strange because everything has a deeper meaning that we can't see, but it's always around us in every step we take. Life is ironic...
    DeniedWings DeniedWings 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I honestly cherish friendships with people I can talk to. Be it online friends, or friends in real life. I like protecting my friends, if anyone tries to harm them or insult them I...
    Verasayshi Verasayshi 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com Focus on Connecting Younger Women with Older Men Recently launched online age gap dating site, YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com, has become popular between...
    sandycc11 sandycc11 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    We're all born without a choice, we can't configure how we will look in the future apart from mabye keeping fit and healthy then mabye that counts but that only goes so far right...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F Aug 31

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    I lose interest in people fast, friendships are pointless especially when they realize they can't get any freebies off you. As I get older, I'm starting to become like my great...
    LadyOutspoken LadyOutspoken 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    It is so easy to misunderstand what one says,especially in online friendships.Moreso when the few times I message people and they don't answer.I keep quiet but it does hurt.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F Sep 13

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    The fingers of time can intertwine But when they do, they must only hold the truth. Lies will create sweaty palms And when the hands can slip, they will fall. This is a poem I...
    aknownothing aknownothing 13-15, F Sep 14

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    Sometimes you just click with a person on here. You start out telling them basic things about yourself. And after sharing these some what trivial facts you start to open up and let...
    margai margai 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    I hate my acne scars. They limit my life somehow every day. I'm 16, about to be 17, and I've been fighting acne scars since I was 13. I have mixed skin, so my scars come in a...
    LoneStella LoneStella 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I do hate when I already know that a person is lying to me and when I confront that person they still lie, and that makes me hate them.
    mcindygrace mcindygrace 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

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    I don't hate it because we have study there. I just hate some people in my school. And of course school didn't teach most important things that life teaches us. I know many people...
    Ramakichi Ramakichi 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    My hubby wonders why I shy away from meeting people and possibly starting new friendships. It's because I always end up getting hurt. I always feel used because I'll be 100% for...
    jlynnaz jlynnaz 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 24

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    I think the best friendships are with people that you don't see as friends but as family.
    sunnyvic sunnyvic 31-35, F Sep 5

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    I have many acquaintances but few true friends. My best local friend moved 1500 miles from here. However, we make time to talk and share a beer or two . Cheers for true...
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M 6 Responses Sep 13

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    I had this friend and long story short; she was a ***** to me. Following that bad friendship were many other bad friendships. Today I was just feeling really cummy about friends...
    mountainseal mountainseal 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Most of my friendships have span for almost three decades now. These people are my soulmates :-)
    lifepath9 lifepath9 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    One thing that makes me sick is a fat guy with a nasty attitude and his trash ex playing me
    worthlessex worthlessex 46-50, F 6 hrs ago

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    Guess what? Hearting a story is not going to stop the pervs. If we want the pervs out, we should act. It's time we report each one of them. You should get involved. There are 1,164...
    loveandwars loveandwars 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I hate fat men who think they are better then me
    worthlessex worthlessex 46-50, F 6 hrs ago

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    I don't even know HOW I feel. I am having a very horrible week....maybe 2 weeks. Maybe more....I had an awful day today and I'm on the verge of a mental breakdown. I want to share...
    howlingtiger howlingtiger 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    Never too old to hate on homework :/
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I hate the silence when we are together. There's so much we could be talking about right now. There's so much I want to say to him. I don't like always starting the conversation...
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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