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I Hate One Sided Friendships

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold!

    I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and always shows interest me in, this was the girl I first became friends with. However there is a major problem, she is really into astrology and she reads...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww

    I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has terrible taste in men, a dad who I've only seen a week in my life, and two other younger brothers. I'm stressed from school, trying to be top 5 in...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting

    all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What can I do? Nobody is perfect.. I hope they understand me.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 16-17, F Apr 8

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    Bullshit Friends

    Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular friend that i had a few years ago that really sucked. She was a girl i met at school, we instantly became best friends...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror!

    It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be the same here on Experience Project. I have some girlfriends, but we rarely seem to be on the same page. I wonder sometimes if other girls...
    DebbieDel DebbieDel 26-30, F Apr 24, 2013

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    Why do you always get my hipes up?

    Why do you not text me? Why do i always have to text you first? I'm so tired of this game, i want you to show me i'm important to you... Why everytime i want to hangout with you do you cancel? Did something really happen or can you just not bother? I've had it!! But i don't want...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    If...

    I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if I can't hold a conversation with you as there is some people I do and some people I don't enjoy conversing...
    Qtip1976 Qtip1976 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another "

    best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 18-21, F Feb 23

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome

    and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks having a good time. And she stole my favourite top.
    girlauless girlauless 22-25, F Apr 8

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    Hate Them

    This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how one sided my friendships can be.Or what I truly hate is being the third wheel. "Hello?!? I'm here too?? Thanks...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    ladylove38 ladylove38 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 12

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    An Ode To No One

    im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting off things i had planned because u guilted or talked me in to yet 5more minutes,or saying please dont go.putting off...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    I work with this guy. He is a subordinate, but he likes to critique my decisions as if I asked for his opinion. He is so annoying he says, how are you, multiple times a day to me...
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    They make me very sad, lonely and empty inside. Like I wasn't good enough to be seen again. The last one night stand I had turned me down for breakfast - I took her home, then...
    MarxistLuciferKongJr MarxistLuciferKongJr 22-25, M Nov 17

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    Well, not really them mostly their fans. Most of their fans are immature ********. Like, I've gotten death threats from both fanbases for not liking them, yet when they were making...
    CanYouHearTheSilence CanYouHearTheSilence 13-15, F Nov 11

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    I come from a very broken family. My mother tortures my dad physically, hits him with knifes and bricks and my father is too scared to retaliate or even argue back. My sister is...
    faketure faketure 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    I don't hate her, but she is very irritating. She is very loud, argumentative, and the sound of her manly voice grates on my nerves. She does more talking than listening. For...
    melhgriff melhgriff 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 9

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    Hi guys... This will be such a long story . But I need help ... or someone just to tell me that they are there for me ... Because I don't know what else to do. So here it goes my...
    singingthestoryofmylife singingthestoryofmylife 13-15, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    My mother in law is a repeat offender. Before I came along, my Sister in Law (husband's brother's wife) had to endure 4 years of abuse. My mother in law treated her very badly...
    genie201 genie201 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 30

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    I just hate myself. I really do. I did work really hard to improve myself. What I hate about myself lately is that I seemed to have lost my motivation for life. I just don't care...
    ChrisBoshi ChrisBoshi 22-25 1 Response Nov 12

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    I just hate myself. I really do. I did work really hard to improve myself. What I hate about myself lately is that I seemed to have lost my motivation for life. I just don't care...
    ChrisBoshi ChrisBoshi 22-25 Nov 12

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    I hate family get togethers, I hate Christmas. I hate thanksgiving, I hate Easter, I hate everything. They are all drama, someone always ends up getting hurt from a fight, I'm...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 51 mins ago

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    I feel horrible! I had made a friend here on EP earlier this week. We had a lot in common and I enjoyed reading the stories and comments that he wrote. I don’t know how I could...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F Nov 1

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    This past weekend it was Halloween, and so to celebrate, my friend and I went trick or treating for the last time. When we returned back to my house, it was time to drive her home...
    whyphy whyphy 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    I dont really HATE anybody but it does make me sad and tired at the same time dealing with the billion and one fake people you run across on a daily basis.In real life and online...
    shinjorai shinjorai 36-40, M 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    So about this "best friend". I didn't have an actual really "best best friend" until the other year. I became close to this girl one summer and eventually became "best friends...
    coconutmeraki coconutmeraki 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    I've been hating racism cuz T. Martin'a incident....The one police shotted him while he walked to the police and said shoot me..and two police officers were shooting at his head or...
    ggalaxyth ggalaxyth 18-21, M 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I often attract all the wrong ones, and I tend to be attracted to the worst ones. I can't ever seem to get a grip on how to detect unkind people. I find myself being friends with...
    LonelyKite LonelyKite 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    Since I was little I have had the fear of being alone. I have watched throughout the years people grow and move apart from people. I have watched relationships become torn and...
    searchingfar searchingfar 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

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    Often i have always thought the world to be a wonderful place...the same cant be said about people living in it.... racism doesn't seem to just die with age....racism critiques...
    LAFLOR LAFLOR 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I work in a call center for a company everyone hates so I spend the entire day having people scream at me for something I had no control over meanwhile having to worry about...
    rainbowdasher rainbowdasher 22-25, F 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I hate when you think your someone's everything and then one day they just up and leave like you meant nothing like it was all just some game....
    tigersfan195 tigersfan195 18-21, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Mainly because of what you are taught based on who your parents are sided with or whoever you're around. I was told that democrats tax the upper class less, middle class more and...
    AlwaysAnonnymous AlwaysAnonnymous 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 10

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    True friendships should be cherished. Finding someone you click with, connect with and have fun with can be hard to find. Sometimes you just meet someone and you know you are...
    1meowmix 1meowmix 26-30, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    Ever since the day I was born my mother has been the bane of my existence. She lied to me all of the time about how my family never cared about me and how they wouldn't talk to me...
    LordZetroc2696 LordZetroc2696 18-21, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Living in Australia, is like living in a horror movie. In the beginning of your tale, you move into a "beautiful" house, with the belief that you are "privileged" and "lucky". Nice...
    silvioh silvioh 18-21, M 8 Responses Oct 31

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    Can I just say that I am entirely too tired to fight for friendships anymore. If you're busy in life and don't reach out to me, consider us not friends. If you talk **** behind my...
    JustSomeTeenagerr JustSomeTeenagerr 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    Feeling pretty sad tonight :/ I met one of my childhood friends today (briefly) after not seeing him for 10 years. I know it's normal for people to drift apart, for many reasons...
    TheHeartOfALovingSoul TheHeartOfALovingSoul 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 7

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    Friendship a: we went to secondary school together but only started a friendship in college, it was always about just going out and having fun. As time progressed we talked more...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    It´s a recent thing... though I like to talk about emotions and thoughts, when it comes to feelings I´ve found out some people would ask and encourage me to talk to them about my...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I value friendships. It's a bond between two people who just click. I want. A friend. A friend that'll be there for me. Engage in the relationship. Do not become a figure of my...
    vanessamoomoo vanessamoomoo 22-25, F Oct 27

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    It never ceases to amaze me at the people that are just hanging out around you... Some are very genuine others pretend to be. In any case there is the potential to make new and...
    Beardly77 Beardly77 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 29

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    Friendships are very important to me because friends will be their whenever you need them. When you fall, climb, trip, whatever it is you do in life lol. You can always count on...
    izzylark izzylark 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    Obviously. I overthink everything so much that sometimes I am just wondering exactly why I am making such a fuss over some things. Fact is that I think over all my options more...
    Ic3Queen Ic3Queen 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 6

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    Which is exactly what I did without regrets. I mean its useless chasing empty friendships. Will only get you sick and obsessed eventually.
    Ic3Queen Ic3Queen 22-25, F Nov 8

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    I'm new here just Like many people and i really want to find someone that I can talk to mainly with the issue of friendships, I really can't get my head around it
    toobztheguru toobztheguru 16-17, F 1 Response