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I Hate One Sided Friendships

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting

    all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What can I do? Nobody is perfect.. I hope they understand me.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F Apr 8

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another "

    best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 18-21, F Feb 23

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    If...

    I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if I can't hold a conversation with you as there is some people I do and some people I don't enjoy conversing...
    Qtip1976 Qtip1976 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    Bullshit Friends

    Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular friend that i had a few years ago that really sucked. She was a girl i met at school, we instantly became best friends...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome

    and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks having a good time. And she stole my favourite top.
    girlauless girlauless 22-25, F Apr 8

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold!

    I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and always shows interest me in, this was the girl I first became friends with. However there is a major problem, she is really into astrology and she reads...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Hate Them

    This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how one sided my friendships can be.Or what I truly hate is being the third wheel. "Hello?!? I'm here too?? Thanks...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror!

    It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be the same here on Experience Project. I have some girlfriends, but we rarely seem to be on the same page. I wonder sometimes if other girls...
    DebbieDel DebbieDel 26-30, F Apr 24, 2013

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    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww

    I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has terrible taste in men, a dad who I've only seen a week in my life, and two other younger brothers. I'm stressed from school, trying to be top 5 in...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    An Ode To No One

    im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting off things i had planned because u guilted or talked me in to yet 5more minutes,or saying please dont go.putting off...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    Why do you always get my hipes up?

    Why do you not text me? Why do i always have to text you first? I'm so tired of this game, i want you to show me i'm important to you... Why everytime i want to hangout with you do you cancel? Did something really happen or can you just not bother? I've had it!! But i don't want...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    If you exist God, I just want to say thanks. Thanks for bringing me into this world an awkward only child that is so alone he slowly goes insane. The type of mental development...
    Unnkn0wn Unnkn0wn 22-25, M Jul 2

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    I normally co with solo artist like fall out boy with like one singer I hate Harry , Neil , Zane and who ever I didn't mention I don't know and I don't care !! Haters ganna hate
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    I don't actually hate them, I just hate that they're so overrated. Seriously, all they do is sing and dance- like every other pop star out there! Girls only like them because...
    sayakakyouko sayakakyouko 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Hate is a strong word but 2 of my coworkers are some of the hardest people to communicate with. They cut me off, ask me questions then tell me I'm wrong, then go talk to a...
    Kelloggs207 Kelloggs207 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Most of you won't really care about this but I really need to rant.... I am only two months into my new job, I work at a dog kennel with 50+ dogs a day. And I work in all areas of...
    AMB97 AMB97 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Who loves them? SHEMURRR!!! they are girls and they act like one , and their music ... DUH!! please don't tell me I am the only one who thinks these 5 gay boys are eggs laid by...
    beckygg beckygg 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 11

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    I don't get why everyone is obsessed with one direction it's just a bunch of grown *** men singing like little ******* like dafuq but I guess that's just me but they be having...
    wolfhaileyyy wolfhaileyyy 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Please.. you are not doing any favor on others by replying in one words. If someone takes the initiative to talk that doesn't means he/she has no value. If you don't want to talk...
    avatar1990 avatar1990 22-25, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    if someone takes the initiative to start a conversation and ask a question, it's better to not answer at all than to reply with just one word. at best, you look inconsiderate and...
    hoblinbobgoblin hoblinbobgoblin 41-45, M 17 hrs ago

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    His name is Chirag and I want to punch his face in, he always tries to get everyone else to pick up his slack while he goes and talks and visits with people the entire time. He...
    KillMeInARecordShop KillMeInARecordShop 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    Me: "Hello there :3" Random: "Hi" Me: "How are you? cx" Random: "Good." At least pretend you're interested, please 😖
    HighOnMisery HighOnMisery 13-15, F Jul 11

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    I can not stand that stupid band. I mean, sure the 1D guys are sexy as f***, but their "band" gets on my nerves so bad.
    heyitsashley53 heyitsashley53 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    That moment when you send a paragraph to your friends and they send you back a "K"..... I'm like OHHH a message ! 😱 and then I see "k." And I'm like 😒...
    KellsThr13 KellsThr13 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I dislike this fact/reality of life; however, if the relationship is one sided, then how can it prosper or be equal to both ? As a maturing woman, I find that being in quality...
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Jul 13

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    It's my hopeless hope to find a friend like you. You've been anything but supportive to me, but lately? Not only we're drifting apart, we are no longer something that we could call...
    Mininyaa Mininyaa 18-21, F Jul 7

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    I'm at the gym right now. I love in an extremely small town and I always come to the gym around nine with my boyfriend because we usually have it all to ourselves. Today, though...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I only hate one;my dad. He is selfish and pompous and always has to be right. He gets violent when his authority is threatened which is anytime i question him. We get into heated...
    detestme detestme 13-15 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    yes i hate. Because for years he treats my sister and me as we are bad people . As if we are going outside with boys and we do bad actions because his mind is full of these bad and...
    themoodofsolitude themoodofsolitude 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I wish I could - "go home", I mean. *Like some days, I would just about sell the eyes out of my head to be able to get the hell out of here, and go back to the US. ( My husband...
    JusDifferent JusDifferent 41-45, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I remember being younger and writing on paper that I hate my mother and I would show her the paper. I use to like and love my mother. Now I no longer do. I don't trust her and her...
    Hannarose Hannarose 22-25, F 2 Responses 58 mins ago

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    I was riding my bike up to the library, so that I could get online and see if there's any nice messages/emails for me that would make me feel better, anyway some tw@ts stepped out...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 7 hrs ago

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    Seeing people saying they want to adopt a baby or small child drives me up the wall. I can totally empathise with them on this subject, however it breaks my heart as well. I'm not...
    laurena123 laurena123 16-17, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Well it has happened and it was quite enjoyable. I was cyber bullied right here on E P. I'd like anyone that is a friend of one of E P 's helpers EPARSINEH . Go to her profile page...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    The saddest part is that I didn't always hate him. I don't know if you could call what we had then loving but I didn't always have this feeling of disdain for him. And what makes...
    flowerchild712 flowerchild712 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Many people don't realize how selfish humans are, and that friendships are a joke. We are friends with ourselves only. There are many things a person could want from you...(We'll...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I get a lot of anxiety when things are not planned ahead of time. I like to know if I'm supposed to be doing things in advance so I can prepare properly. I'm a control freak about...
    PrincessKayleigh PrincessKayleigh 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I can't help it. Someone posts something that's obviously wrong and I want to provide the evidence. A day or two ago, someone posted the well circulated "Muslim...
    TucsonTallBoy TucsonTallBoy 26-30, M 6 hrs ago

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    I lie a lot but I can't stand when someone does it to me. When I was in a mental hospital I had this note on my wall that one of the staff put on there that was from my mom. It...
    Neonnightmare0 Neonnightmare0 16-17, F 5 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    what i have for myself is beyond hate. i hate everything about myself. i hate my own existence. i hate my parents for having me. i hate god for creating such a weak helpless being...
    SlaveToMyBullshit SlaveToMyBullshit 18-21 15 hrs ago

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    I was reading a Facebook post from one of my (I guess you can say) friends, and it sounded something like this: "My mom is always the one to spot a fake friend first". Was that for...
    TheAnonymousINFP TheAnonymousINFP 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So I joined a meetup site and I joined a few groups.... One of the groups I joined has really few members and I'm going to my first activity this upcoming week. So today, I...
    Lilypad718 Lilypad718 31-35, F Jul 4

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    Humanity disgusts me to the point where it don't want to go outside. People always say to me "you don't hate people you have friends" and I say "I don't have "friends" I have...
    Arcdapreslamort Arcdapreslamort 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 7

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    I have always been the type that can have few friends at a time. I have surrounded myself with people that I thought were friends before and the outcome was never good. There was...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'm so unhappy with myself. I long for close friendships, but I don't allow people to get close to me because I have trust issues. I lie to the majority of people because I'm...
    hanako0848 hanako0848 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    U hurt me so much and I can stop missing only one of u and I don't know why cuz I feel like I hate u and I am angry but the truth is I wish that bow if we could just Cher again...
    cheeringforlife20 cheeringforlife20 13-15, F Jul 24

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    Is it just me who doenst care if friends come and go? .. Everyone is just fake and I can careless in cherishing friendships. Shouldn't the only relationships that matter are the...
    Chylena Chylena 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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