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I Hate One Sided Friendships

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold! - I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror! - It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be...
    DebbieDel DebbieDel 22-25, F Apr 24, 2013

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another " best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 18-21, F Feb 23

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    Bullshit Friends - Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What...
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F Apr 8

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    If... - I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if...
    Qtip1976 Qtip1976 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks...
    girlauless girlauless 18-21, F Apr 8

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    Hate Them - This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww - I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    An Ode To No One - im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    Have you ever had a friend that you thought you were so close to, that you call your best friend, but a time comes where they can stand by you or stand 10 feet away from you? This...
    CollegeStudent22 CollegeStudent22 22-25, F Apr 3

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    I hate texting someone first and they have the nerve to say, "You don't talk to me anymore." No, friendships works both ways. If you want to speak to me then stop waiting on me to...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    I am I'm absolutely done with being the only person who actually cares and puts time and effort into all my friendships I have no true friends. And I'm so done with people telling...
    ashleymac96 ashleymac96 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I'm done with the both of them. My two exes. They said they still want to be friends. If they really wanted to be friends, they would still talk to me. The first says he wanted to...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I hate hate hate being in one sided love. Why? Because it's only me that cares, it's only me who thinks that we can be more than friends, and it's only me that likes you. What...
    Stephanie3729 Stephanie3729 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I feel like the one I love claims to love me just as much back but NEVER shows is and ignores me constantly I feel like.. I hate it and it's killing me😔😔😔
    katelynfoster1 katelynfoster1 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    my dad has been separated with my mom for more than 2 years ago,, and now my dad has 2 girlfriend. a nurse and a teacher. and i really hate the teacher she's really really feeling...
    mcindygrace mcindygrace 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I hate Zayn Malik the most. Then Harry Styles. Then Niall, Payne and last, Luis.
    Zaran7 Zaran7 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It kills the conversation... "Hey, how are you? Long time no see!" ..... "I'm ok." -.- Or the one that really kills me, "So yesterday I did this and that... bla bla bla" and they...
    sc1701 sc1701 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    I work with a few people I don't like. This one woman, is so nosy and does nothing but make personal calls and sit on her iPhone. I'll be talking with someone and she will just...
    wrightlover wrightlover 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    We have no receptionist and have to answer the door ourselves. There is this one fat, lazy ***** who always make some excuse to not answer the door, even when she has a client...
    wrightlover wrightlover 31-35, F Mar 24

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    It really bothers me when one of my coworkers says to me "What's wrong? You are so quiet". I wish I could say "I go to work to work not to socialize. I'm not like some people who...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F Apr 1

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    To people that don't really know her--my SIL is an absolute delight! That's probably why she doesn't have very many friends...beside the point. My hubs and I have been married...
    karmacatcher87 karmacatcher87 26-30, F Apr 1

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    Do you want to make a new friend? I would love to build more friendships - if this is something that is important to you too, please read on before you reply: 1. I do not and will...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 1 Response 56 mins ago

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    Have you ever felt different? Like your current so called "friends" don't really understand you? Like the fact that you had Cancer? And you don't want their pity? My name is Chad...
    MannedOrbRex MannedOrbRex 18-21, M Mar 26

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    I hate my teeth. I'm seventeen, but my teenage years have sucked. A while back in primary school I was such a happy, care free child. I knew my teeth were different, but it didn't...
    ibak12 ibak12 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I'm not sure how well I will be received here but I am sharing my story nonetheless. I was widowed at the age of 32 and my son was 2 1/2. I was not looking for a relationship after...
    MomofOZ2003 MomofOZ2003 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I know it sounds so horrible, but I do. I try. I try so hard to like them. I want to get along and enjoy whatever it is that everyone else seems to love, but I just can't! Every...
    faeriefate faeriefate 18-21 1 Response Mar 20

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    I wouldn't say I actually hate her. If anything, I'm jealous and hurt. Our parents were friends since before we were born so we grew up together. Inseparable throughout grade...
    Schism7 Schism7 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    More like a love hate type deal. I love they way they look and their drive to acquire life goals but once I get to know them I find them mean and unaffected rigid and unforgiving...
    just2lovelee just2lovelee 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I hate it, I go on everyday and yet still thinking I should deactivate it, but then I don't. It's kinda annoying. It causes an end in friendships and people use it for a confidence...
    ohmyglob18 ohmyglob18 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Tell me girls PLEASE... It has been said and largely agreed amongst my female friends (which form the majority of my friendships) that, I quote, ' every girl should have a Karl...
    spiike65 spiike65 46-50, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    such a rare event for a friendship to truly endure throughout the years. My best friend is my husband and always will be but I'm grateful for the few girlfriends I've known since...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    I want to open a spot for it at the national museum, it's something that extincted long time ago. I've never imagined that one day I'll have hard time finding good decent true...
    Joungar Joungar 26-30, M Mar 23

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    "Friendships are like money! Easier made than kept!" There is nothing better than having a good friend other than one that has chocolate!!! Friends are the family you choose!!!:)
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I finally deleted you, you know? All that time & energy wasted on listening to your LIES. I think the reason you "disappeared" is because lies are simply too hard to keep up and...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F Apr 4

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    Yesterday my old best friend and I went to a movie. It was the greatest time I had in a long while, and it put me at ease knowing our old friendship could still be renewed. My...
    RhiannonStorm RhiannonStorm 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I'm not here to have cyber with you (Guys). When are you going to respect women? PLEASE DO NOT ADD ME!! I'm not interested in dating anyone. I'm looking for friendships ONLY...
    PixieLeah PixieLeah 41-45 2 Responses Apr 3

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    We are ALL fimilar with the "Friendships" nowadays ... Im there while the Party lasts , or Im there but when times get rough , I run , or the ever popular "I posted once on your...
    TsavoHunter TsavoHunter 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    Friendships don't crumble in a day. If it does, it wasn't real in the first place.
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    Friendships are too precious to mess about with ... I adore my close friends and in return I would love to be the best friend possible to them.... To have a good friend that you...
    saxappeal saxappeal 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    I've only had one true friend that I called a bro, but they walked away on me at one point.
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I was a freshmen in Highschool at the time. I had a really good friend, she always smiled when she saw me. She just was never upset when I was around. Keep in mind I was just...
    Shauntreece Shauntreece 16-17, F Apr 1

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    My friend is going through a break up...he was her world...n life to her is very cruel...she hasnt no one until he came...now that hes gone she's hurting even more...how i wish i...
    ardesia ardesia 18-21, F Mar 30

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    I told you guys that I hated myself. Now I am in a messy circumstance and I felt everything was falling apart. I might not finish my degree on time when the financial stance is not...
    InFiDeL0020 InFiDeL0020 26-30, M Mar 24

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    I have never hated anyone in my life. My MIL I DO hate she has destroyed my marriage with get son her golden child . I am 45, he is 63, she is 86. Her son divorced his wife 30...
    sueoneil sueoneil 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    My dad cheated on my mom with my best friend. I had just made friends with this girl and her husband and children. In the short time I've gotten to know them, I became attached...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I've been with my mom and dad for 15 years. I hate them because I know they don't care about me. My life is hard. I'm cranky alot because it is hard to sleep. Especially because I...
    savadavid savadavid 13-15, M Mar 18

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    Okay….so…..I know this is trivial and probably in the long run very unimportant but I feel like I need to say it. So I used to like this guy a lot, but I never liked talking...
    CantThinkofAUsernameNow CantThinkofAUsernameNow 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I long for the day I don't have to come on here to vent. I just found out my SD has been drinking. Like, she's 13! I wasn't of age when I first drank but I sure wasn't drinking...
    Countrychicky Countrychicky 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Dear ugly sagging boobs, I want to make sure you know that I attribute every miserable moment of self-doubt and self-pity to you. I've hated you the moment I discovered my...
    onnest onnest 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    I hate the feeling of missing someone, even though they say it's what makes the reunion more special. I hate the feeling of losing someone, it hurts deep. I hate the feeling of...
    grey019 grey019 31-35, M Apr 3