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I Hate One Sided Friendships

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    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww

    I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has terrible taste in men, a dad who I've only seen a week in my life, and two other younger brothers. I'm stressed from school, trying to be top 5 in...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another "

    best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 22-25, F Feb 23, 2014

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    Hate Them

    This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how one sided my friendships can be.Or what I truly hate is being the third wheel. "Hello?!? I'm here too?? Thanks...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting

    all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What can I do? Nobody is perfect.. I hope they understand me.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 16-17, F Apr 8, 2014

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    An Ode To No One

    im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting off things i had planned because u guilted or talked me in to yet 5more minutes,or saying please dont go.putting off...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    ladylove38 ladylove38 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    Bullshit Friends

    Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular friend that i had a few years ago that really sucked. She was a girl i met at school, we instantly became best friends...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    Why do you always get my hipes up?

    Why do you not text me? Why do i always have to text you first? I'm so tired of this game, i want you to show me i'm important to you... Why everytime i want to hangout with you do you cancel? Did something really happen or can you just not bother? I've had it!! But i don't want...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror!

    It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be the same here on Experience Project. I have some girlfriends, but we rarely seem to be on the same page. I wonder sometimes if other girls...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 24, 2013

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome

    and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks having a good time. And she stole my favourite top.
    girlauless girlauless 22-25, F Apr 8, 2014

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    If...

    I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if I can't hold a conversation with you as there is some people I do and some people I don't enjoy conversing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold!

    I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and always shows interest me in, this was the girl I first became friends with. However there is a major problem, she is really into astrology and she reads...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Please share with me any stories.... About when you had to let somebody you deeply love go. Did you ever fall in love with somebody you knew you had to let go? I thought it...
    Selene0801 Selene0801 36-40, F 12 mins ago

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    I hate hw soooooooooo muuuuuuuch!!! But the ironic part is that I always do my hw. But seriously there have even times when I've cried from having too much hw. And yes, I know that...
    heyimbored224 heyimbored224 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    Ready to change your life? My fiancé and myself were in the same position. We were both over weight and we're not happy when we looked in the mirror! So we took a chance on...
    ZacharyOstenso ZacharyOstenso 26-30, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I am one of these people who will avoid killing any living creature no matter what it is. Whether that means catching the big hairy spider in the bath or swerving on the road to...
    jaymi999 jaymi999 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    I have been married to my husband for 10 yrs. I used to love him, but after years of not supporting our family, and the constant putting me down I just hate him . Everyone around...
    sambray sambray 36-40, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    We recently hired two women in our office. One 20-something and one 50-something. We have two alpha women running the show, the accountant and the sales manager. On one of the...
    Aryko Aryko 41-45, M 6 hrs ago

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    Maybe that good thing has come to an end, so something even better can take place... God works in mysterious ways. It is important to remember that whenever you wish you could have...
    Cirabeastly Cirabeastly 22-25, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    The Australian troll... There are only a handful of situations where I could imagine people actually spending extra energy to annoy others and defend their proud homeland on an...
    escapedfromhell escapedfromhell 41-45, M 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    The most sensitive topic that rubs me off the most is about Muslims. Why, what about them? We ignore people who doesn't have a religion at most because, they're just people and its...
    mischievouswreck mischievouswreck 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    so after throwing a suprise party for my friend today I'm laying on my bed thinking about middle school years. then a memory comes to mind. I remember when I invited all of my best...
    eagi eagi 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I didn't start out with that hate, it developed over time. I LOVED elementary school. Had plenty of friends. Learning was broken up by recess time. Everything we learned was so...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    That's why I don't like making friends.
    Xemplefied Xemplefied 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    Two girls having one of those difficult conversations where one has a boyfriend and the other hasn't.'I text you and you don't always answer and I don't see you so much now.'In...
    Teamouse Teamouse 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Im so grateful for one of my bestfriends on here thankyou ang for being there for me through thick and thin and helping me out even when im at my worst sickest moments I...
    Thelandiswhereimfrom Thelandiswhereimfrom 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Soo i know its late but happy 21st birthday goes to the baddest ***** here!! Happy late birthday Alicia!!! But shes one of my bestfriends and i love her to death 😘😍 now go...
    Thelandiswhereimfrom Thelandiswhereimfrom 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    A couple of years ago I had to end a friendship with one of my best friends. We where friends since high school. When she was in high school she ended up getting pregnant at an...
    TheNewClassic82 TheNewClassic82 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    God love the man in Texas who seems to always know how to make my bad days better. He is always there to put that smile back on my face when I run to him with my sob stories. He...
    Macy21 Macy21 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    i work at a sandwich shop and there's this woman who works with me but I think she's some type of manager. anyways, she always gives me an attitude and raises her voice at me even...
    Allcatsareawesome Allcatsareawesome 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I believe friends are the family member whom we choose.. :) I cherish true friendships.. :)
    Zarina23 Zarina23 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I truly value my friends on EP. I came here when I was having some issues with my marriage (minor compared to many) and was looking for people to talk to. What I found is much...
    alteregoeleven alteregoeleven 46-50, M 6 Responses Jul 27

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    like a good friend of mine on EP likes to quote Lilo and Stitch "Ohana means Family and Family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten." No matter how brief our time together...
    JamieWalks JamieWalks 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I want to get married some day but I don't trust myself to commit for that long. And therefore I don't attract the kind of love that leads to building anything with anyone. I have...
    ExperienceisMyProject ExperienceisMyProject 26-30, F Jul 27

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    HI everybody .I have one best friend her name is shadi, we were really into each other, meet everyday , talk alot , ... once we consume marijuana and she became sick.she was...
    mahsathz mahsathz 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    Warning this is a rant about how much I hate my life. All the way through middle school I was bullied and to cope with that I cut my self....a lot. I also attempted suicide and...
    shybutfunky shybutfunky 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I truly cherish true and not fake friendships. I have many friends and enjoy their relationship's with me very much. I am looking for others with the same interest or experiences...
    blondemomathome blondemomathome 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I'm 26 years old I have been dealing with depression and anxiety for longer than I care to remember. I feel ashamed because I have let my depression and anxiety take over my life...
    robbi123 robbi123 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 25

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    So many one sided Relationships... I even keep going back to these people that I give and give to but never see an ounce of return, a phone call or a hello would be nice, hang out...
    MatthewNS MatthewNS 16-17, M Jul 22

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    I'm confused, I've been in Australia for around 12 years, I have only 1 Australian friend, it's hard to meet people here and have real friendships. Now I'm thinking about moving...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jul 22

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    I know the value of genuine friendships but yet and still I blow them off. I'm at a point in my life that I don't wanna **** around. I live with my boyfriend we are trying to get...
    Lovlee46 Lovlee46 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I have but one really close friend right now. She has been helping me through my separation even if she doesn't realize it. I met her on this site and even though she is across an...
    rnwytrain85 rnwytrain85 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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