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I Hate One Sided Friendships

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    Why do you always get my hipes up?

    Why do you not text me? Why do i always have to text you first? I'm so tired of this game, i want you to show me i'm important to you... Why everytime i want to hangout with you do you cancel? Did something really happen or can you just not bother? I've had it!! But i don't want...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    If...

    I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if I can't hold a conversation with you as there is some people I do and some people I don't enjoy conversing...
    Qtip1976 Qtip1976 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting

    all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What can I do? Nobody is perfect.. I hope they understand me.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 16-17, F Apr 8, 2014

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    Hate Them

    This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how one sided my friendships can be.Or what I truly hate is being the third wheel. "Hello?!? I'm here too?? Thanks...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    ladylove38 ladylove38 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another "

    best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 18-21, F Feb 23, 2014

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror!

    It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be the same here on Experience Project. I have some girlfriends, but we rarely seem to be on the same page. I wonder sometimes if other girls...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 24, 2013

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold!

    I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and always shows interest me in, this was the girl I first became friends with. However there is a major problem, she is really into astrology and she reads...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    An Ode To No One

    im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting off things i had planned because u guilted or talked me in to yet 5more minutes,or saying please dont go.putting off...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    Bullshit Friends

    Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular friend that i had a few years ago that really sucked. She was a girl i met at school, we instantly became best friends...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome

    and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks having a good time. And she stole my favourite top.
    girlauless girlauless 22-25, F Apr 8, 2014

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    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww

    I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has terrible taste in men, a dad who I've only seen a week in my life, and two other younger brothers. I'm stressed from school, trying to be top 5 in...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8

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    I can't stand when i'm trying to have a conversation with someone and I get "Ik" "Idk" "yea" "Maybe" or just an emoticon. It is like you couldn't care less to carry on the...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 1

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    Here I am, just pouring my heart out to them. Their response? "K." I guess they're not really trustworthy after all.
    SayMinty SayMinty 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 1

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    That ****** me off. I sit here and write long paragraph. All I get is 1 or 2 words. Now I usually do the same thing to them
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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    I'm just putting this out here. If you send me a message that says nothing but "hi" or "hw r u" I'm not responding. Learn to spell and how to have a conversation. If you're horny...
    Nessathedorkduh Nessathedorkduh 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    almost all the girls I know love 1D and it just makes me want to jump off a cliff to know that people actually think they're good at singing!
    Killerlemon Killerlemon 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 3

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    "Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get , the more you need the people who knew you when you were young." Although I agree with most of...
    misyblue misyblue 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    It’s sad you know, when you realized that you truly don’t mean anything to a person. The friendship you had with them wasn’t really a friendship. Everything you two had done...
    AziaLee AziaLee 18-21, F Feb 10

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    I hate one side is cold and the other is warm
    ridleyswaq ridleyswaq 13-15, M Feb 20

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    I hate living in a small town. I don't hate all small towns, I love the cool artsy villages full of artisans and independent studios and cafes. I don't even mind the country. But I...
    LowFidelity LowFidelity 31-35 1 hr ago

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    What's wrong with this old man??!! He is walking in front of me and passing by like more than one time! Come on old man stop it! You are getting my admirer jealous, and I hate to...
    DawnSahour DawnSahour 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    So where i work there are 7 guys ages around 20-30 they are same generation as me, same likes and dislikes. those guys have a strong bond and they are having fun make jokes...
    Nobunaga88 Nobunaga88 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    What a difference a year makes. 12 little months......Wow! I can scarcely believe it. Today is the first anniversary of my EP membership! When l look back, the year has flown.The...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 15 Responses Feb 15

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    I have had several people tell me - "I will not contact you first. If you want to be in my life, you will have to contact me." These people said this to all their "friends...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 3

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    I hate Long Island. Everyone is happy being miserable and happy being stagnant, so, at 14, I moved to Columbus, OH to live with my dad, and I was happy, I never wanted to come back...
    mevsme22 mevsme22 22-25, F Feb 17

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    I hate that you start talking to someone and then they just disappear. especially when you start becoming friends with them. It sucks, why is it so hard to make long term...
    savvy1998 savvy1998 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I hope one day to be able to look back and say I had some great friendships that grew and evolved. Not grew then withered bitterly on the vine. Longest friendship lasted years but...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    I really do. I hate being a teenager. I hate everything about myself.
    lamiavarc lamiavarc 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    It is not so much I hate the actual job. It is somewhat interesting and challenging in a good way. I hate the schedule I have and seem to be trapped in as long as I have the job...
    Alston76 Alston76 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I've made so many connections on here and I need to say I love each and every one of them in my own way, because they are unique in their own way. I won't mention names because...
    kinkysexybabe kinkysexybabe 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    No I really mean it ! Isn't this a strange thing that the more human being is looking for real love the more he is getting alone with time ? Can real love be only found in movies...
    Fatima12 Fatima12 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I love true friendships. True friendships are everything. It's always good to know who REALLY has your back at times when you need them the most ! 💕
    desireeguzmann desireeguzmann 18-21, F Feb 4

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    Most friendships aren't friendships at all.
    sixfiveguy sixfiveguy 26-30, M 4 Responses Feb 11

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    And the internet is one.People don't log in anymore or form new friendships and forget the old.I am removing people who do not log in anymore.Sad but true.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 25 Responses Feb 3

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    I really hate talking to strangers online because I will become best friends with them.. And then the distance will ruin my life.. -__-
    Rourou19 Rourou19 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    I cannot describe how much I hate these people. Some of my family members are extremely fake people. They will put up a front and be like "Hi how are you! I've missed you!" but...
    MarioT96 MarioT96 18-21, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    I really hate it when people throw my stuff away. The maid just threw away my converse shoes that my brother bought for me. I kept the shoes in the balcony, and she thinks I don't...
    Julietxxx Julietxxx 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    my dad left us when i was 9... now i live with my mom ans sis.. my mom always scold us and use bad words... she blames us for everything due to some reasons.. but she loves us.. i...
    strongbutweak strongbutweak 13-15, F 32 mins ago

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    I'm going to be honest. None of my friendship that I have with guys last. The reason why it doesn't last is because the guy always want sex from me. Why can't me and a guy just...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    It's sad that you think of friendships as long term, but your friends think it can only last until you don't see each other much anymore. With this said, there's no point in...
    szchwakovpf szchwakovpf 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 3

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    I really am. don't form a friendship with me if you're not in it for the long run. I don't have time for temporary people on my life. I've formed friendships with people who I...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Confidence is built by experience. People share something about themselves, other people respond to what was shared and a dialogue happens. I would say, that this experience will...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 3 Responses Feb 14

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    so, I have a good friend, who I've been friends with for almost a year, and well, I feel like he has been really distant with me lately... we aren't talking as much as we usually...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    One smile, can start a friendship. One word, can end a fight. One look, can save a relationship. One person can change your life.
    cat20079 cat20079 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    This is one of the group of my friends. We four are really close to each other and like a sisters. We did many crazy and fun things together. We are like partner in crimes. We...
    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 8