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I Hate One Sided Friendships

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    Bullshit Friends

    Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular friend that i had a few years ago that really sucked. She was a girl i met at school, we instantly became best friends...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    An Ode To No One

    im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting off things i had planned because u guilted or talked me in to yet 5more minutes,or saying please dont go.putting off...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another "

    best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 18-21, F Feb 23

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    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww

    I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has terrible taste in men, a dad who I've only seen a week in my life, and two other younger brothers. I'm stressed from school, trying to be top 5 in...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    If...

    I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if I can't hold a conversation with you as there is some people I do and some people I don't enjoy conversing...
    Qtip1976 Qtip1976 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold!

    I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and always shows interest me in, this was the girl I first became friends with. However there is a major problem, she is really into astrology and she reads...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome

    and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks having a good time. And she stole my favourite top.
    girlauless girlauless 22-25, F Apr 8

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    Hate Them

    This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how one sided my friendships can be.Or what I truly hate is being the third wheel. "Hello?!? I'm here too?? Thanks...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting

    all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What can I do? Nobody is perfect.. I hope they understand me.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F Apr 8

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror!

    It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be the same here on Experience Project. I have some girlfriends, but we rarely seem to be on the same page. I wonder sometimes if other girls...
    DebbieDel DebbieDel 26-30, F Apr 24, 2013

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    Why do you always get my hipes up?

    Why do you not text me? Why do i always have to text you first? I'm so tired of this game, i want you to show me i'm important to you... Why everytime i want to hangout with you do you cancel? Did something really happen or can you just not bother? I've had it!! But i don't want...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    My bestfriend pretends like I dont exist and I feel so alone all the time. I'm trying to talk to her and she's just not responding. She only responds when i'm in a crisis which is...
    99jasi 99jasi 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    Hey, if we are messaging then that means I wanna convo. It's cool if You don't wanna chat. If you don't wanna chat then don't chat, but don't give one worded answers. There is no...
    Poopoohead17 Poopoohead17 18-21, M Aug 28

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    i really dont like talking about this stuff but nobodys gonna read this anyway:/. lately ive been being bullied at school and i have had no friends since apparently im the hated...
    gagebisson gagebisson 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    I hate my acne scars. They limit my life somehow every day. I'm 16, about to be 17, and I've been fighting acne scars since I was 13. I have mixed skin, so my scars come in a...
    LoneStella LoneStella 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I hate mirrors. I hate photos. Why? Because they show a reflection of me, and I can't stand me. I just want to be pretty. I want to be beautiful. I want to have what other girls...
    Skollon Skollon 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I hate people who try to one-up everybody else by hating people who try to one-up the people who hate being one-up'ed by everybody else.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I wasn't always like this. When I got married I had a dog. I was forced to get rid of it due to it not being female. My husband hated the fact that I had a male dog. How disgusting...
    SuffocatingSoul SuffocatingSoul 26-30, T 5 hrs ago

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    I am so very afraid of my boyfriend. It all started when I met him. I met him online. Yeah there is a lot of stigma against meeting people online but I had met other people and...
    naturlista10 naturlista10 31-35, F 14 hrs ago

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    People say we aren't Ugly, society is. But what people don't get is that we apart of is! Everything and everyone is apart of this stupid messed up society that involves cruel...
    Chocolate29 Chocolate29 13-15, F 15 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend is Black, Hispanic, Asian, & White I love him to death but my sister hates him because of his nationalities. She won't even give him the time of day. Since the day we...
    MsHesitationsx3 MsHesitationsx3 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    I didn't do it because I was depressed or suicidal. I did it because I hated being sick. I didn't take illegal drugs. Just typical over-the-counter ones found in medicine cabinets...
    dustyoldclock dustyoldclock 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    how much longer can I deal with the small mindedness before I explode? for example, just today I went to put gas in my car at one of the local stations. when I walked in to pay...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    I live with a mom who has a mental illness. I truly do love my mom, but coming home after a day at school you never know what is gonna happen. And I am so sick of it. The littlest...
    hrmo hrmo 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I was raped two years ago, I'm fourteen now my sister and I were home alone and, a man broke in. I'm not going in to details or I'll end up having to kill something. After this...
    KillThemAll32 KillThemAll32 13-15, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    So... I've been reading some of the post and comments on here in this "experience"... In some of the comments there where racist comment... ( it's so ignorant) I hope most of you...
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I think my mom really hates me like one time I fell down she do not really care about me but when my older brother fell down she is very worried and sometime my mom breaks my heart...
    Hongyang1597 Hongyang1597 13-15 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I'm currently a freshman in college and I really dislike it. It's only been a month and I'm still trying to figure out why people say it's going to be "some of the best years of...
    marialadelbarrio marialadelbarrio 18-21, M 17 hrs ago

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    And I don't want you and I don't need you Don't bother to resist, or I'll beat you It's not your fault that you're always wrong The weak ones are there to justify the strong
    Roninturnedmartyr Roninturnedmartyr 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    Sometimes when I reach way down, in the bottom depths of my soul I try to pull out something other than a piercing ache, only to pull up hate. A self hatred that is vile and...
    pinemtnwife pinemtnwife 41-45, F 5 hrs ago

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    I gave up everything for a relationship and just found out I had been cheated on... He told me... And in our place we made together.... As much as I appreciate the honesty... The...
    EricaAshli EricaAshli 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 26

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    Over the years I met so many people and with some good values , few places questioned my relationships with people, I even thought something was wrong with me , because living in...
    hunlove hunlove 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Not really.. Actually if you want a Temporary Friend, im always here. It does sucks because some friendships i wanna stay for long.. But i suck at friendships and im only good at...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Life is too strange, ironic, and unfair. Life is strange because everything has a deeper meaning that we can't see, but it's always around us in every step we take. Life is ironic...
    DeniedWings DeniedWings 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    We're all born without a choice, we can't configure how we will look in the future apart from mabye keeping fit and healthy then mabye that counts but that only goes so far right...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F Aug 31

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    I lose interest in people fast, friendships are pointless especially when they realize they can't get any freebies off you. As I get older, I'm starting to become like my great...
    LadyOutspoken LadyOutspoken 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It is so easy to misunderstand what one says,especially in online friendships.Moreso when the few times I message people and they don't answer.I keep quiet but it does hurt.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    The fingers of time can intertwine But when they do, they must only hold the truth. Lies will create sweaty palms And when the hands can slip, they will fall. This is a poem I...
    aknownothing aknownothing 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Sometimes you just click with a person on here. You start out telling them basic things about yourself. And after sharing these some what trivial facts you start to open up and let...
    margai margai 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    We have lived across from each other for SEVEN YEARS. First, it was our dogs were bothering them with barking. I never heard them bark at night while outside at all. So, okay...
    BluCrystal BluCrystal 41-45 2 hrs ago

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    Okay, I know I'm going to sound like an angry, jilted woman. But, I might as well be who I am. So, here goes: why does my ex's new GF feel the need to post her feelings about him...
    Beth1218 Beth1218 46-50 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    When I was little, 9 or so, I was molested by my fathers father. When this happened I knew it was wrong in every kind of way, when I think back on that day I remember him asking if...
    Wasitwrong Wasitwrong 16-17, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    My friendships lasts until you screw up
    imshy1234 imshy1234 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 20

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    My hubby wonders why I shy away from meeting people and possibly starting new friendships. It's because I always end up getting hurt. I always feel used because I'll be 100% for...
    jlynnaz jlynnaz 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 24

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    I think the best friendships are with people that you don't see as friends but as family.
    sunnyvic sunnyvic 31-35, F Sep 5

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    I never take true friendships for granted. If you decide to turn on me and become fake just know i will never forgive you.
    h3yjay h3yjay 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I have many acquaintances but few true friends. My best local friend moved 1500 miles from here. However, we make time to talk and share a beer or two . Cheers for true...
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    If you are going to force it; leave it alone. Relationships, friendships and even conversations. They are things that just happen. Let them work out their own way. If it is meant...
    FreeyourSoul FreeyourSoul 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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