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I Hate One Sided Friendships

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    An Ode To No One

    im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting off things i had planned because u guilted or talked me in to yet 5more minutes,or saying please dont go.putting off...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another "

    best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 18-21, F Feb 23

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold!

    I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and always shows interest me in, this was the girl I first became friends with. However there is a major problem, she is really into astrology and she reads...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Why do you always get my hipes up?

    Why do you not text me? Why do i always have to text you first? I'm so tired of this game, i want you to show me i'm important to you... Why everytime i want to hangout with you do you cancel? Did something really happen or can you just not bother? I've had it!! But i don't want...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome

    and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks having a good time. And she stole my favourite top.
    girlauless girlauless 22-25, F Apr 8

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    Hate Them

    This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how one sided my friendships can be.Or what I truly hate is being the third wheel. "Hello?!? I'm here too?? Thanks...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting

    all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What can I do? Nobody is perfect.. I hope they understand me.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F Apr 8

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    Bullshit Friends

    Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular friend that i had a few years ago that really sucked. She was a girl i met at school, we instantly became best friends...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror!

    It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be the same here on Experience Project. I have some girlfriends, but we rarely seem to be on the same page. I wonder sometimes if other girls...
    DebbieDel DebbieDel 26-30, F Apr 24, 2013

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    If...

    I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if I can't hold a conversation with you as there is some people I do and some people I don't enjoy conversing...
    Qtip1976 Qtip1976 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww

    I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has terrible taste in men, a dad who I've only seen a week in my life, and two other younger brothers. I'm stressed from school, trying to be top 5 in...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    If you exist God, I just want to say thanks. Thanks for bringing me into this world an awkward only child that is so alone he slowly goes insane. The type of mental development...
    Unnkn0wn Unnkn0wn 22-25, M Jul 2

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    I normally co with solo artist like fall out boy with like one singer I hate Harry , Neil , Zane and who ever I didn't mention I don't know and I don't care !! Haters ganna hate
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    Hate is a strong word but 2 of my coworkers are some of the hardest people to communicate with. They cut me off, ask me questions then tell me I'm wrong, then go talk to a...
    Kelloggs207 Kelloggs207 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Most of you won't really care about this but I really need to rant.... I am only two months into my new job, I work at a dog kennel with 50+ dogs a day. And I work in all areas of...
    AMB97 AMB97 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Who loves them? SHEMURRR!!! they are girls and they act like one , and their music ... DUH!! please don't tell me I am the only one who thinks these 5 gay boys are eggs laid by...
    beckygg beckygg 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 11

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    I don't get why everyone is obsessed with one direction it's just a bunch of grown *** men singing like little ******* like dafuq but I guess that's just me but they be having...
    wolfhaileyyy wolfhaileyyy 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    His name is Chirag and I want to punch his face in, he always tries to get everyone else to pick up his slack while he goes and talks and visits with people the entire time. He...
    KillMeInARecordShop KillMeInARecordShop 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    Me: "Hello there :3" Random: "Hi" Me: "How are you? cx" Random: "Good." At least pretend you're interested, please 😖
    HighOnMisery HighOnMisery 13-15, F Jul 11

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    I can not stand that stupid band. I mean, sure the 1D guys are sexy as f***, but their "band" gets on my nerves so bad.
    heyitsashley53 heyitsashley53 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    Its so irritating when people on here think this message system on EP is chat. OK... I realize it is somewhat different than email but come on... Its not like its chat either...
    HotBoxDatRocks HotBoxDatRocks 22-25, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hey friends, I found myself loving a famous boy,and it's neither a fake nor a hormonal feeling.so let me tell u what the story is all about: One of my friends,that loves him also...
    Elina14 Elina14 13-15, F Jun 30

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    I dislike this fact/reality of life; however, if the relationship is one sided, then how can it prosper or be equal to both ? As a maturing woman, I find that being in quality...
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Jul 13

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    It's my hopeless hope to find a friend like you. You've been anything but supportive to me, but lately? Not only we're drifting apart, we are no longer something that we could call...
    Mininyaa Mininyaa 18-21, F Jul 7

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    Opinionated Entitled Ozzies ... Here’s something I found written by an ozzie who was upset to have discovered the forum “ I hate LIVING IN australia”…. His rant is in...
    Spankerr Spankerr 51-55 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I have maybe three TRUE friendships and a few more good friendships. I think people often confuse friendships and acquaintanceships. They are quite different. I also believe...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 26

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    I hate to argue cause then I go out of control and my feeling come out and I say the meanest and cruelest thing I could say or think about that person I argue with. It also damages...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F Jun 30

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    The saddest part is that I didn't always hate him. I don't know if you could call what we had then loving but I didn't always have this feeling of disdain for him. And what makes...
    flowerchild712 flowerchild712 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    i have done few friendships online and for a person like me for whom attachments meant to be really important wether it be a simple friendship...it sucks when others are unable to...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    Yeah I do value friendships.. But I don't think many of my real life friends see friendships the way I do. I'm the type of friend that's always there for you no matter what, I'm...
    LittleKandi LittleKandi 16-17, F Jun 27

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    I used to love making new friends "online", talking to them, sharing etc., but i sorta hate it now, they we'rent as genuine as i was to them, they talk to you for a long time and...
    Rraj619 Rraj619 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    So I joined a meetup site and I joined a few groups.... One of the groups I joined has really few members and I'm going to my first activity this upcoming week. So today, I...
    Lilypad718 Lilypad718 31-35, F Jul 4

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    Humanity disgusts me to the point where it don't want to go outside. People always say to me "you don't hate people you have friends" and I say "I don't have "friends" I have...
    Arcdapreslamort Arcdapreslamort 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 7

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    I have always been the type that can have few friends at a time. I have surrounded myself with people that I thought were friends before and the outcome was never good. There was...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'm so unhappy with myself. I long for close friendships, but I don't allow people to get close to me because I have trust issues. I lie to the majority of people because I'm...
    hanako0848 hanako0848 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    U hurt me so much and I can stop missing only one of u and I don't know why cuz I feel like I hate u and I am angry but the truth is I wish that bow if we could just Cher again...
    cheeringforlife20 cheeringforlife20 13-15, F 19 hrs ago

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    I'm lucky to have many true friends, and lots of aquaintances. But what defines a "true friend"? Well, it's someone who will stick by you through thick and thin. Someone who never...
    CarMechanic CarMechanic 66-70, M 5 Responses Jun 25

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    i have developed issues in my relationships ,my friendships and my trust towards others...i have seen so many deceiving and lies from them that for a time it converts me into a...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F Jun 26

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    If you find someone who makes you smile, who checks up on you often to see if you're okay, who watches out for you and wants the very best for you, don't let them go. Keep them...
    happygirl100 happygirl100 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I want to get away from people who annoy me. The problem is that lately those people I want to get away from are my friends. Friends who I know better now and I can't stand in some...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 29

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    I cherish true Friendships, I have friends for many years and that is what True Cherished Friendship is all about, Would Like to have the same thing on here, so let's gets...
    sunnyday55 sunnyday55 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    But most friendships / relationships don't stay the same ... They get stronger or weaker or even cease to exist along with passage of time. I remember some of my best friends from...
    Mysticme Mysticme 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Is it possible to earn True Friendships here? :3
    yalalast yalalast 16-17, F 10 Responses Jul 14

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    Time zones and time difference really messes up online friendships and chat partners
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Honestly I really do cherish real friendships because you never know when they will end. I had a friend for five years and I took her for granted, the next things I know we aren't...
    ryyleeiigh ryyleeiigh 16-17, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I truly believe this. When I was in elementary school, I was forced to move because of my dad's work. I used to live in Hawaii so anywhere away from there was very far from home...
    ForgottenCelestria ForgottenCelestria 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I once had friend whose name was Sam. He and I got along great and our friendship at one point turned into a "thing". The thing faded after a while though making us just friends...
    goats4lyfe goats4lyfe 13-15, F Jun 30

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