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I Hate One Sided Friendships

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting

    all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What can I do? Nobody is perfect.. I hope they understand me.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F Apr 8

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    Bullshit Friends

    Ive had many friendships like this. They suck, they really do. Whenever the friendship ends i always feel stronger in the end. Anyway there was one particular friend that i had a few years ago that really sucked. She was a girl i met at school, we instantly became best friends...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    I Might As Well Just Talk To A Mirror!

    It HAS to be one of the most annoying things anybody can experience. I seem to be a magnet for one-sided friendships and hope it won't be the same here on Experience Project. I have some girlfriends, but we rarely seem to be on the same page. I wonder sometimes if other girls...
    DebbieDel DebbieDel 22-25, F Apr 24, 2013

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome

    and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks having a good time. And she stole my favourite top.
    girlauless girlauless 18-21, F Apr 8

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    Hate Them

    This is another reason as to why I choose to have a limited amount of friends.There have been times where I feel like I am talking to an imaginary friend because of how one sided my friendships can be.Or what I truly hate is being the third wheel. "Hello?!? I'm here too?? Thanks...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    If...

    I'm the only one looking forward to talking to you or trying to I'm going to question whether I'm a good friend or even worth talking to, I'd rather not waste your time if I can't hold a conversation with you as there is some people I do and some people I don't enjoy conversing...
    Qtip1976 Qtip1976 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    An Ode To No One

    im tired of puttin myself out for people and gettin little or nothing in returni stop up late to listen to your problems,or just talk because your down,putting off things i had planned because u guilted or talked me in to yet 5more minutes,or saying please dont go.putting off...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    I knew it that I shouldn't have made another "

    best friend". Best friends never ever work out and it sucks cause it hurts.
    marticles marticles 18-21, F Feb 23

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    Life, School, And Lack Of Love...pfeww

    I am 14 and a Freshman, almost the end of the beginning of high school. I have a baby brother with alagille syndrome, a mom who has terrible taste in men, a dad who I've only seen a week in my life, and two other younger brothers. I'm stressed from school, trying to be top 5 in...
    ThatPuella ThatPuella 13-15, F Feb 9, 2012

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    I Have No Time For People Who Blow Hot Then Cold!

    I have this friend, when she is in a friendly mood she can be my best friend, she is attentive, funny, thoughtful/caring and always shows interest me in, this was the girl I first became friends with. However there is a major problem, she is really into astrology and she reads...
    sjmorgan1 sjmorgan1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Have you ever had a friend that you thought you were so close to, that you call your best friend, but a time comes where they can stand by you or stand 10 feet away from you? This...
    CollegeStudent22 CollegeStudent22 22-25, F Apr 3

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    I hate texting someone first and they have the nerve to say, "You don't talk to me anymore." No, friendships works both ways. If you want to speak to me then stop waiting on me to...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    I am I'm absolutely done with being the only person who actually cares and puts time and effort into all my friendships I have no true friends. And I'm so done with people telling...
    ashleymac96 ashleymac96 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I'm done with the both of them. My two exes. They said they still want to be friends. If they really wanted to be friends, they would still talk to me. The first says he wanted to...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I feel like the one I love claims to love me just as much back but NEVER shows is and ignores me constantly I feel like.. I hate it and it's killing me😔😔😔
    katelynfoster1 katelynfoster1 18-21, F Apr 16

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    I thought the bullying and the negativity would stop after high school. Well, I thought wrong! I go to college and I live by myself, so I have to pay my way through - it's not a...
    emogeneticist emogeneticist 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I hate Zayn Malik the most. Then Harry Styles. Then Niall, Payne and last, Luis.
    Zaran7 Zaran7 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 15

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    It kills the conversation... "Hey, how are you? Long time no see!" ..... "I'm ok." -.- Or the one that really kills me, "So yesterday I did this and that... bla bla bla" and they...
    sc1701 sc1701 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    We have no receptionist and have to answer the door ourselves. There is this one fat, lazy ***** who always make some excuse to not answer the door, even when she has a client...
    wrightlover wrightlover 31-35, F Mar 24

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    It really bothers me when one of my coworkers says to me "What's wrong? You are so quiet". I wish I could say "I go to work to work not to socialize. I'm not like some people who...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F Apr 1

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    To people that don't really know her--my SIL is an absolute delight! That's probably why she doesn't have very many friends...beside the point. My hubs and I have been married...
    karmacatcher87 karmacatcher87 26-30, F Apr 1

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    Hate can take over a body and is a degenerate invasion of  negitive thoughts and emotions. It tries to collect others and is aimed at targeting anyone or anything...
    MsOracle MsOracle 66-70, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    It started great.. loads of prospects.. very challenging.. until I started becoming good at it. Now to most you regular folk, being good at your job is a good thing, and I use to...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Have you ever felt different? Like your current so called "friends" don't really understand you? Like the fact that you had Cancer? And you don't want their pity? My name is Chad...
    MannedOrbRex MannedOrbRex 18-21, M Mar 26

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    I hate my teeth. I'm seventeen, but my teenage years have sucked. A while back in primary school I was such a happy, care free child. I knew my teeth were different, but it didn't...
    ibak12 ibak12 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    One of the main reasons for joining EP was because I enjoy meeting people, talking to them and getting to know them. And sometimes true friendships develop. It doesn't mean that...
    aussieguy01 aussieguy01 51-55, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    So earlier today, a friend and I went to the store.. We went for some munchies and found an amazing deal where the drinks were 2 drinks for dollar.. So, We decided to get one, no...
    Karleighmarley Karleighmarley 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    ok, am so relieved i have a space where i can share my story without any fear. i haven't shared any bit of it ever since the beginning. we have been married for 8 yrs and have a 2...
    deceivedmultipletimes deceivedmultipletimes 26-30, F 1 min ago

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    More like a love hate type deal. I love they way they look and their drive to acquire life goals but once I get to know them I find them mean and unaffected rigid and unforgiving...
    just2lovelee just2lovelee 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I am far from what I thought I'd be at the moment and it seems that there's no way to get back on track. I planned to go to college in America but things didn't really work out for...
    pleadndsting pleadndsting 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    I hate myself so much.. I feel so f****** stupid and useless.. Like everything I do seems messed up. No matter what i do, I end up being a disappointment. And now I think people...
    Amature14 Amature14 13-15, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I have maybe one true friend in the world. I can quickly make friends, but the friendships only last about a month at most. I'm intelligent, but far too lazy to even pretend to...
    Jared1494 Jared1494 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Friendships are good things to have with people. But from my experience, friendships are similar to a roller coaster ride: at first their fun, but then you go through times where...
    HappyMarie7 HappyMarie7 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    How do you annoy an old person? Like to throw a dictator? This Team Leader of our small company is a big pain in the ***, he is really arrogant, bigheaded, perfectionist, rude and...
    trishhh04 trishhh04 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    The very first impression she made on me wasn't a good one she was mean the very first day that I met her she didn't like me so she make up a story about me . Through the years I...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 4 hrs ago

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    Update: Sil (my husband’s brother’s wife) and I used to be good friends, after I moved out, she turned against me. She was upset that I moved out, and stated that I stole my...
    genie201 genie201 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    I hate it, I go on everyday and yet still thinking I should deactivate it, but then I don't. It's kinda annoying. It causes an end in friendships and people use it for a confidence...
    ohmyglob18 ohmyglob18 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Tell me girls PLEASE... It has been said and largely agreed amongst my female friends (which form the majority of my friendships) that, I quote, ' every girl should have a Karl...
    spiike65 spiike65 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 10

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    such a rare event for a friendship to truly endure throughout the years. My best friend is my husband and always will be but I'm grateful for the few girlfriends I've known since...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F Apr 15

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    "Friendships are like money! Easier made than kept!" There is nothing better than having a good friend other than one that has chocolate!!! Friends are the family you choose!!!:)
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I finally deleted you, you know? All that time & energy wasted on listening to your LIES. I think the reason you "disappeared" is because lies are simply too hard to keep up and...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F Apr 4

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    Hi I'm trying to quit smoking herion.. I hate it! I don't feel "normal" I want to feel "normal" again.. Everyday I can't get up & go unless I smoke! It sucks so bad having to...
    fugginemma fugginemma 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Yesterday my old best friend and I went to a movie. It was the greatest time I had in a long while, and it put me at ease knowing our old friendship could still be renewed. My...
    RhiannonStorm RhiannonStorm 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I'm not here to have cyber with you (Guys). When are you going to respect women? PLEASE DO NOT ADD ME!! I'm not interested in dating anyone. I'm looking for friendships ONLY...
    PixieLeah PixieLeah 41-45 1 Response Apr 3

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    We are ALL fimilar with the "Friendships" nowadays ... Im there while the Party lasts , or Im there but when times get rough , I run , or the ever popular "I posted once on your...
    TsavoHunter TsavoHunter 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    Friendships don't crumble in a day. If it does, it wasn't real in the first place.
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    Friendships are too precious to mess about with ... I adore my close friends and in return I would love to be the best friend possible to them.... To have a good friend that you...
    saxappeal saxappeal 41-45, F Apr 12

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    Do you want to make a new friend? I would love to build more friendships - if this is something that is important to you too, please read on before you reply: 1. I do not and will...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have a few friends, only one is a true friend. She's always been there for me, and never has walked away. She's there for me if I have a problem, she stands by my side while the...
    16countrygirl 16countrygirl 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've only had one true friend that I called a bro, but they walked away on me at one point.
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I was a freshmen in Highschool at the time. I had a really good friend, she always smiled when she saw me. She just was never upset when I was around. Keep in mind I was just...
    Shauntreece Shauntreece 16-17, F Apr 1

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    My friend is going through a break up...he was her world...n life to her is very cruel...she hasnt no one until he came...now that hes gone she's hurting even more...how i wish i...
    ardesia ardesia 18-21, F Mar 30