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I Hate Online Dating Sites

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    I really don't understand these idiots on

    dating sites. Typical idiotic things guys always say and do: -"Are you a virgin?" -"I'm h*rny." -"I have morning wood." -"Want to trade pix(nudes)?" -How big are your b**bs?" -Asks me to come to their house for a first date. Why do guys not understand that my answer to any of...
    firecancatchme firecancatchme 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Darkness No pain killer can stop the pain,

    I tried, believe me, nothing can stop it from aching, My heart is not broken, it is smashed. My body feels numb, all senses left me, only the pain stays, I saw lights passing by, but I only have strength breathe in the darkness. He knows I am in the darkness, he left me...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse 22-25, F 1 Response May 20

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    Stay away , Darkness !

    I thought I fell in love with darkness, I cried ... The darkness doesn't like me, so he abandoned me again. God is protecting me from hurt, So the darkness can't approach close, But I am hurt, Still Because my heart already broken by darkness Each every time the darkness...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse 22-25, F May 20

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    Yeah, it sucks. It's more like applying to a job

    than finding "the magic." But, some people manage to find their long term SO's through the sites. Pros and cons to online and IRL. But either way, I don't see anything that bad about it. The internet was set up to connect people. And it's only "not real" if you never actually...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 19

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    Just Go Outside!

    Gosh, I hate online dating sites. I used to get on them, because I was just that bored. I can't believe people actually do relationships like that. One of my favorite things about couples is the 'how we met' story. And I definitely don't want mine to be, "Well I was on the web...
    emstem emstem 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    IS Online Dating Good Or Bad?

    yes i have tried so many dating sites but i am so tired of clicking on one that says free and then half way it's says you have to pay... what a big waste... then when you do find one then the guys say meet me at a nude beach for the first date or we will go swimming at hotel only...
    Augusttwix Augusttwix 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    Lies Lies ... the most scary things of all,

    We can't stop it , As it is so useful to achieve all our goals, even knowing the consequences are to slice up the tender human hearts, We can't never resist the temptation, it is a high from your Leapers ... so you keep lying ...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse 22-25, F May 20

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    Got two long term relationships from it (2yrs &

    4 yrs) but I still hate it. I crave the magic that happens in person. I turned to online because I tend to date outside my race. That is somewhat harder to do in person esp. If it's not just for a hookup/sex. Both online and in person has its challenges and you still have to...
    mimet mimet 36-40, F Dec 11, 2013

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    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    What A Joke.

    Internet dating sites are worst that an on-line job application.
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45, M Dec 12, 2011

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    Watched 'HER' I Watched 'HER',

    realized online dating never works... No matter how deep you think you feel, it just won't work because it has never been real. In the end, Theodore wrote an letter told Catherine (his ex-wife) that they grew up together, and she made him who he was and she would be always the...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse 22-25, F May 1

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    It really sucks . I feel like I

    either meet guys who run for the hills or guys I want to run for the hills from. I also feel like they all just want sex. Sex is amazing and great but I don't want to hear it brought up before I've even met you for a cocktail. I'm slowly giving up hope on finding someone.
    theirthere theirthere 26-30, F Sep 29

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    On Tree Dating Morning,

    I opened my eyes, heard birds were singing, They are literally singing with rhythm, it sounded very pleasant . It is spring, birds now are trying to find mates. The singing I heard was from a male bird , soon later, I heard a pleasant talking sound, seemed answering the bird...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse 22-25, F May 2

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    Rejection

    Rather I meet a guy in person or online dating etc none of them ever think I am pretty enough to talk to me. If I meet someone online once they see me they never call again, if they do not know what I look like they call all the time or email. But as soon as we exchange pics or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    Everyone is just looking

    for one thing, and no one reads the actual profile, they only look at pictures. Why is it so hard to meet someone real?
    waiting4mylife2begin waiting4mylife2begin 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    This actually happened...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    What's the point, really?

    You're basically just whoring yourself out to whoever sees you on said site...
    WatchOutItsKyle WatchOutItsKyle 18-21, M Feb 6

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    All they want 1: must be slim 2: must be

    successful 3: must be wanting kids 4: must have a whole lot of interests 5: must be attractive 6: must not be overweight 7: must want sex before marriage 8: must have great breasts and backside 9: must have a great job Don't have at least a few of those? Then you are had it.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M Aug 25

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    I actually have a friend

    who tried the whole online dating thing, but they wouldn't accept her on the website because she wasn't pretty enough. That is no lie! Another story: A girl looked at my profile when I tried one. She asked me to post a photo of myself, and as soon as I did, she didn't speak to...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Mar 23

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    This Is Sort Of A Vent

    I tried it for a while. I was getting a bad attitude about it so I deleted any profiles I had. It was a joke. I hope not to offend anyone with what I'm going to say. The few men I did respond to were very pushy and in such a hurry. The ones that seemed somewhat normal had tons of...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2013

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    I Was On Them

    I think I have tried a dozen of dating sites, and left rapidly, cause it's always the same. I expected to find the Mulder of my dreams looooooool No seriously it will never happen on a dating site; because men are so commonplace on them, they're nearly all the same. Or they're...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 29, 2012

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    In A Love/Hate Relationship With Technology

    Here we are in 2013 and we have the ability to communicate 24/7 in a variety of ways with anyone on earth. Pretty awesome right? If its so awesome why are we so ******* disconnected from each other? Seriously I feel so isolated in a huge city. I can go down town or to any...
    Brandiv Brandiv 31-35, F Apr 30, 2013

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    They are not for people like me.

    They cater to social people who like to "play the dating game" whereas I hate that it's seen as a game in the first place. I've tried niche dating sites for nerdy/geeky types as well as one for people who do not want children and they have so few users that it's not even worth...
    Syzygy11 Syzygy11 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 16

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    Why is it I don't care about looks (weight,

    acne) and yet people only care about my looks?
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Online dating has proved an epic failure for me. I've met probably 15/20 men off dating sites over the past couple years when I've been in between relationships. They have almost...
    theirthere theirthere 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    BeautifulPeople.com How does it work? This online dating site does exactly what it says on the tin and only people deemed beautiful enough will be allowed to join. To become a...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Tried christiancafe. Got rejections for being too young. Or just got ignored. Guys that seemed ok ignored me as well or haven't been online in a long time. Then my trial expired...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    People looking for hook ups and sex on dating sites commonly use it. Urgh. Can't you just type like this. Instead of "how r u 2day" (or so much worse than that). It takes little to...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    Been on and off pof for 2 years. I have been pretty good at choosing who to actually meet. A few frogs have hopped in but not many get past the screening phase. I have met some...
    prettyjj prettyjj 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    I have a good friend, we play as a child, what all like to share, to complete together.There is no doubt that we are the best a couple of girlfriends in the world.A few days ago...
    Tink0624 Tink0624 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 8

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    Hello Dear, I am living in West Africa and I’m a Black African. I’m 36, a University graduate and employed. However, I will like to enjoy the fun of having an online...
    OnlineLonve OnlineLonve 31-35, M 4 hrs ago

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    Still nothing. Quite a lot of views. Think my profile is ok. No one is interested though. This is on Christian and non Christian sites. I recently started back up again. I had been...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I have not ever been able to meet somebody online , ( attached is a photo ) I need some help am i unattractive ? I have tried several sites all i wanted was a female to just chat...
    EjTwinty EjTwinty 18-21, M 5 Responses Sep 29

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    "Free dating site" Sign up. First page says to pay to continue. They already got your email.... Or those other sites where you must pay to use advanced search or message or...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 4 days ago

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    I don't get why these wierdos invade sites like this one? There are hundreds if not thousands of adult sites that cater to that kind of stuff, im fine with talking about serious...
    AntonioV AntonioV 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 30

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    Christiandating has got to be one of the worst sites. They lead you along with everything free for a few days (about 2). To extend your trial to a WEEK you have to put up a photo...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It seems without paying for attention on the stupid sites you won't get too far, still paying to be seen is still pretty bad. I think they're a waste of time.
    drinksandflowers drinksandflowers 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    I think so because the guys around my age ignore me and the messages I send them. Instead i get older men contacting me....i didnt want that. Once i did get a meet up date with...
    redphoenix02 redphoenix02 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    So guys, it's been a year almost that I have been doing this. A year and more than fifty dates . More than that if you include dates with just one person numerous times. I think...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    The only ones I normally do is "btw" or "idk" or "tbh" (not as much).. But when typing them, I read them as "by the way" and "I don't know".. I just type them because of how fast I...
    WouldyeKindly WouldyeKindly 13-15, T 1 Response a week ago

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    In my experience. Loads of fake profiles and endless hassle from companies trying to get you to 'upgrade' your account!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    They certainly seem to be. Far too many profiles. Far too many messages left that are never responded to. Dissapointing all round. In my experience.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    I like to meet ppl in person I have tried pof every last girl on there was some form of crazy......deleted it after s yr
    ArtofFashion ArtofFashion 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Just meet ur true one for real like long distances are too tough to see each other!
    90slove 90slove 18-21, F Oct 5

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    Certainly seem to be. You can spend ages filling out all the supposedly scientifically thought out questions, add your photos, add who you are looking for, THEN you find out it...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Oct 5

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    Ugh, it is a complete mess. So many guys who were just the same as the rest of them. Then I stumbled upon his profile. He was very nice looking, and his profile was very...
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 13

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    I mean I'm fine with ones like "ur, r, u, wtf, wth, wyd" stuff like that but hen it's every single word nah ah ain't havin none O that!
    NormalTeenGirl NormalTeenGirl 13-15, F Oct 14

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    Everytime someone types LOL a piece of literature dies
    ziggybaby86 ziggybaby86 26-30, F a week ago

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