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I Hate Online Dating Sites

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    Everyone is just looking

    for one thing, and no one reads the actual profile, they only look at pictures. Why is it so hard to meet someone real?
    waiting4mylife2begin waiting4mylife2begin 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    This actually happened...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    What A Joke.

    Internet dating sites are worst that an on-line job application.
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45, M Dec 12, 2011

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    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    Got two long term relationships from it (2yrs &

    4 yrs) but I still hate it. I crave the magic that happens in person. I turned to online because I tend to date outside my race. That is somewhat harder to do in person esp. If it's not just for a hookup/sex. Both online and in person has its challenges and you still have to...
    mimet mimet 36-40, F Dec 11, 2013

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    Rejection

    Rather I meet a guy in person or online dating etc none of them ever think I am pretty enough to talk to me. If I meet someone online once they see me they never call again, if they do not know what I look like they call all the time or email. But as soon as we exchange pics or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    Stay away , Darkness !

    I thought I fell in love with darkness, I cried ... The darkness doesn't like me, so he abandoned me again. God is protecting me from hurt, So the darkness can't approach close, But I am hurt, Still Because my heart already broken by darkness Each every time the darkness...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse 22-25, F May 20

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    In A Love/Hate Relationship With Technology

    Here we are in 2013 and we have the ability to communicate 24/7 in a variety of ways with anyone on earth. Pretty awesome right? If its so awesome why are we so ******* disconnected from each other? Seriously I feel so isolated in a huge city. I can go down town or to any...
    Brandiv Brandiv 31-35, F Apr 30, 2013

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    IS Online Dating Good Or Bad?

    yes i have tried so many dating sites but i am so tired of clicking on one that says free and then half way it's says you have to pay... what a big waste... then when you do find one then the guys say meet me at a nude beach for the first date or we will go swimming at hotel only...
    Augusttwix Augusttwix 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    What's the point, really?

    You're basically just whoring yourself out to whoever sees you on said site...
    WatchOutItsKyle WatchOutItsKyle 18-21, M Feb 6

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    Yeah, it sucks. It's more like applying to a job

    than finding "the magic." But, some people manage to find their long term SO's through the sites. Pros and cons to online and IRL. But either way, I don't see anything that bad about it. The internet was set up to connect people. And it's only "not real" if you never actually...
    earthquakeweather earthquakeweather 22-25 Jun 19

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    On Tree Dating Morning,

    I opened my eyes, heard birds were singing, They are literally singing with rhythm, it sounded very pleasant . It is spring, birds now are trying to find mates. The singing I heard was from a male bird , soon later, I heard a pleasant talking sound, seemed answering the bird...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse 22-25, F May 2

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    They are not for people like me.

    They cater to social people who like to "play the dating game" whereas I hate that it's seen as a game in the first place. I've tried niche dating sites for nerdy/geeky types as well as one for people who do not want children and they have so few users that it's not even worth...
    Syzygy11 Syzygy11 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 16

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    This Is Sort Of A Vent

    I tried it for a while. I was getting a bad attitude about it so I deleted any profiles I had. It was a joke. I hope not to offend anyone with what I'm going to say. The few men I did respond to were very pushy and in such a hurry. The ones that seemed somewhat normal had tons of...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2013

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    I Was On Them

    I think I have tried a dozen of dating sites, and left rapidly, cause it's always the same. I expected to find the Mulder of my dreams looooooool No seriously it will never happen on a dating site; because men are so commonplace on them, they're nearly all the same. Or they're...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 29, 2012

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    Just Go Outside!

    Gosh, I hate online dating sites. I used to get on them, because I was just that bored. I can't believe people actually do relationships like that. One of my favorite things about couples is the 'how we met' story. And I definitely don't want mine to be, "Well I was on the web...
    emstem emstem 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    Lies Lies ... the most scary things of all,

    We can't stop it , As it is so useful to achieve all our goals, even knowing the consequences are to slice up the tender human hearts, We can't never resist the temptation, it is a high from your Leapers ... so you keep lying ...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse 22-25, F May 20

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    I actually have a friend

    who tried the whole online dating thing, but they wouldn't accept her on the website because she wasn't pretty enough. That is no lie! Another story: A girl looked at my profile when I tried one. She asked me to post a photo of myself, and as soon as I did, she didn't speak to...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Mar 23

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    Watched 'HER' I Watched 'HER',

    realized online dating never works... No matter how deep you think you feel, it just won't work because it has never been real. In the end, Theodore wrote an letter told Catherine (his ex-wife) that they grew up together, and she made him who he was and she would be always the...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse 22-25, F May 1

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    Darkness No pain killer can stop the pain,

    I tried, believe me, nothing can stop it from aching, My heart is not broken, it is smashed. My body feels numb, all senses left me, only the pain stays, I saw lights passing by, but I only have strength breathe in the darkness. He knows I am in the darkness, he left me...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse 22-25, F 1 Response May 20

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    Related Experiences

    Man! I cannot stand online dating sites, these people nuckin futs man! Seriously. I've been online dating for several months and it has been a nightmare, chicks crawling around in...
    2Blueiiz 2Blueiiz 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't use them anymore due to personal, past experiences and from hearing crazy stories about online dating. From all of my experiences, I've learned about 90% percent of people...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I tried it today. I signed up to some dating sites. It hasn't worked for me. Maybe also because it's harder for me to find a lesb gf than a straight guy. I'll keep trying.
    lauracassie92 lauracassie92 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Online dating sucks, but what other options are there? I'm not a bar or club person, I hate sports, and I work with only one other person so meeting a guy through a coworker is...
    dolceharajuku dolceharajuku 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    LONG READ BUT ID APPRECIATE SOME FEEDBACK PLZ Hey so i tried match.com for about a month before i got sick of it and cancelled my acc. Im 26 year old guy considered handsome by...
    braster25 braster25 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Word to those who want to try online dating: Search the other person's nickname and any email address he or she gives you. It's may not be something that you think about doing...
    rav4u rav4u 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I tired haven't seem to be working maybe I'm not doing it right and what if this guy is a killer or something I'm kind of scared at the sametime I watched to many horror movies and...
    Crazybunny101 Crazybunny101 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm too young have a boyfriend and also I don't think I want to use a dating site to find someone to love or to love me back. I want to have someone find me or me find him in real...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Meet this guy online and started texting with him and I saw him one day at the grocery store so I know he's not a fake , and we might go on a first date soon. I'm nervous though .
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I used to love making new friends "online", talking to them, sharing etc., but i sorta hate it now, they we'rent as genuine as i was to them, they talk to you for a long time and...
    Rraj619 Rraj619 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    I don't agree with interracial dating.. I think everyone should stick with there own kind. There are to many mixed race children in this world and it's frustrating to see!!
    cherrikisses22 cherrikisses22 22-25 8 Responses Jul 14

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    Why tell me that you love me when we had only known each other for a day??? Why do that to my brain... Why did I say it back? Why did I let myself want it? Why aren't we trying to...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 31-35, F Jul 12

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    It's such a time waster mostly!
    Li1981 Li1981 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    This is an irritating conversation I had with some guy who chatted me up.He wrote "I need a break" on his Marital Status, so I asked why.
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    Actually I have never dated anyone before.
    codinglikeajet codinglikeajet 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Shared4life you di@kless motherfu@#r if you are not an infertile son of a b@#ch unblock me and face me. Don't hide behind your skanky mother. I know you have mental illness. You're...
    PorcelainRose85 PorcelainRose85 26-30, F a week ago

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    They are always full of uncoherent people that can't find any argument to discuss about but the most risible ones.
    psycopower90 psycopower90 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Look, just saying, im here to write about my problems, thoughts and experiences in hope to get back some good advice as well. Im also here to give my advice and help others. I am...
    freedomanddreaming freedomanddreaming 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    The block button is not always enough
    RiverTitan RiverTitan 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I'm new to think site but I thought it would be interesting to share my story here, since I'm uncomfortable sharing it elsewhere.Coming close to 2 years ago now, I met a guy on...
    chungking chungking 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I'm fourteen years old and a freshman in highschool. I strongly dislike being black. I wish I was born white. I constantly try to mimick white people with fake hair and dying my...
    niamcmillan niamcmillan 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 5

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    I know its a real taboo of online dating, what makes it worse is that it is long distant as we are both from different countries, I from the UK him from Romania (tom-not his real...
    kitakata1 kitakata1 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 17

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    Hello everyone,nice to meet you!Anyone is sugar baby or sugar daddy here ? I would like to recommend a online dating website which is 100% free to you. http://www.findingsugardaddy...
    Saralink Saralink 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I am 23 years old and have essentially had no dating experience whatsoever. I have recently trying to venture into online dating with no avail. I just don't seem to know how to...
    aha55555 aha55555 22-25, M Jul 10

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    Ted(my "boyfriend") and I have had an intense love affair... We met on an online dating site and talked on the phone that very night.. ALL night we were still on the phone as the...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 31-35, F Jul 13

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    Where are some good ways to meet people in your late 20's-early 30's? I only work with one other person and I'm really not into activity/sports clubs or the bar scene :/. Online...
    dolceharajuku dolceharajuku 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I love gaming. I've always found it easier to hang around guys and I had grown up gaming since I was a kid. I made a Steam account a few months ago and I game on it almost everyday...
    skylasting skylasting 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    datingayoungerwoman datingayoungerwoman 22-25, F Jul 2

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