No one dares reply to me.
Had some reply, but zero of them were Christian. They don't read my profile.
I'm tired of constantly trying with these guys and not a single one is interested. What the hell do they want in me? I'm not pretty enough? I'm not exciting enough...
and I get a message from a guy I messaged the other day. I don't remember him so he must've changed his picture. His picture is scary as HELL. He is 51 and looks like a predator. His face is creepy and he isn't even smiling. He is after women 20 to his age. Terrified a little to...
You won't believe what happened.
I really like the culture of Japan and Japanese people seem to be the sort of people I'd get along more with.
So I joined and filled out three parts with "filling out later" as I am not in the mood to do it yet. I have serious health issues...
conversation with a girl on any dating site. I try to be casual and they ignore me because I'm "not interesting." I try to put more thought into and I usually feel like an idiot because now there's all this pressure that I have one chance to immediately get your attention or be...
smile and flattering my profile page.
Two days ago: 7 views
Yesterday: 10 views
Today: 4 views
Messages? None. Except a wink from non paying member with empty profile.
Am I really this ugly?? Do they hate I'm not working and a Christian?
Some even play "wink wars" with me...
Here we are in 2013 and we have the ability to communicate 24/7 in a variety of ways with anyone on earth. Pretty awesome right?
If its so awesome why are we so ******* disconnected from each other?
Seriously I feel so isolated in a huge city. I can go down town or to any...
I opened my eyes,
heard birds were singing,
They are literally singing with rhythm,
it sounded very pleasant .
It is spring, birds now are trying to find mates.
The singing I heard was from a male bird ,
I heard a pleasant talking sound,
seemed answering the bird...
I tried it for a while. I was getting a bad attitude about it so I deleted any profiles I had. It was a joke. I hope not to offend anyone with what I'm going to say. The few men I did respond to were very pushy and in such a hurry. The ones that seemed somewhat normal had tons of...
com. I feel like I'm waisting my time with it. I've tried match.com
and even badoo.com. On that website some guy messaged me and then after a few days he just stopped talking to me. Whatever. It's pathetic.
Probably meet someone outside of websites would be better duh.
because they are very boring and dangerous. You don't know who you are talking to. I tried dating sites before but none didn't work out for me. I wish there was a better way to meet people instead of these dating sites.
so much worse than those who aren't?
I've had far more luck with non christians than those who are "Christian" (it's more than just going to church to call yourself a chrisfian). I've had only one or two that messaged that were 'Christian' yet several who weren't. The...
They cater to social people who like to "play the dating game" whereas I hate that it's seen as a game in the first place. I've tried niche dating sites for nerdy/geeky types as well as one for people who do not want children and they have so few users that it's not even worth...
and money with many of them and seen not so good things with them myself. If anyone finds someone and lives a wonderful life afterwards, they better keep up promoting themselves for the companies/sites they're with.
My strength for it has completely died. I only went on to spy out of desperateness (is that even a word?!) because I want escape out of my life. Marrying can offer that. I want love and happiness so badly!!!!!! :( some days I long for arms around me.
I'm not messaging or...
I tried, believe me, nothing can stop it from aching,
My heart is not broken, it is smashed.
My body feels numb, all senses left me, only the pain stays,
I saw lights passing by,
but I only have strength breathe in the darkness.
He knows I am in the darkness, he left me...
pics of them rock climbing, sailing, snow boarding, walking on the great Wall of China, kissing fishes in Thailand and fuckn' sky diving! seriously! do they expect me to do all that crap. then their profile says that they love camping, fishing, golf and Sunday football and that...
So I decided to unhide my picture. Had over 7 people view me. I didn't want to unhide as it upsets me. I knew it would happen but I want people to actually read my profile.
Got a wink. Don't even want to reply.
Guys should fight for women. Sorry.
I guess I'm too ugly. I...
I never would main reason why because I don't want to be with someone that hasn't at least got the confidence to walk up to me and impress me. Online we can be anything our imaginations want us to be, if your standing in front of me, then these something at least you can't ever...
than finding "the magic." But, some people manage to find their long term SO's through the sites. Pros and cons to online and IRL. But either way, I don't see anything that bad about it. The internet was set up to connect people. And it's only "not real" if you never actually...
your number, let's chat
Me: dubious, but ok
Guy: chats for a while, seems human, can spell, gaining trust
Me: drops my guard a little, comfortable
Guy: asks same questions over and over
Me: wonders why Guy can't scroll back and read old messages
Guy: send me a photo, I've "lost...
looking to rape and murder you. They could not even be themselves in the picture.
They could be looking for bait that seems weak to them, or pretty for them to 'rape and murder' because there are so many psychopaths in his world. They could get obsessed with you and begin to...
Gosh, I hate online dating sites. I used to get on them, because I was just that bored. I can't believe people actually do relationships like that. One of my favorite things about couples is the 'how we met' story. And I definitely don't want mine to be, "Well I was on the web...
yet again. This is such a weekly occurrence for me. I just get so annoyed. I usually like to allow myself a few days then go back to it. Sometimes it takes longer. Even up to a month or two.
It sounds so stupid doesn't it?! I get upset or annoyed, then get over it and go back.
either meet guys who run for the hills or guys I want to run for the hills from.
I also feel like they all just want sex. Sex is amazing and great but I don't want to hear it brought up before I've even met you for a cocktail.
I'm slowly giving up hope on finding someone.
dating sites. Typical idiotic things guys always say and do:
-"Are you a virgin?"
-"I have morning wood."
-"Want to trade pix(nudes)?"
-How big are your b**bs?"
-Asks me to come to their house for a first date.
Why do guys not understand that my answer to any of...
telling me how I'm cute or how I can make money off my looks (probably because they want to pay me for sexual favors) and the apps are always very heteronormative, even if I put im a "lesbian" on there I'll still get a **** ton of men trying to hook up with me. I end up deleting...
I have been doing it for two months and I have had enough. It is unacceptable how men behave these days. They do not want to court a woman or make the effort to have a decent effin conversation before asking if you like sex or not. The ones that actually do, chicken out when it...