I Hate Online Dating Sites

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    Sick of internet dating sites.

    Women think rude guys. I think most women online are scamers.
    Coolcat1974 Coolcat1974
    41-45, M
    Oct 25, 2015

    and "Me Too" is not one of them.

    so stop acting like it is.
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    1 Response Jul 30, 2015
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    2 Responses Jan 15, 2016

    Everyone is just looking

    for one thing, and no one reads the actual profile, they only look at pictures. Why is it so hard to meet someone real?
    waiting4mylife2begin waiting4mylife2begin
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2014

    I just made an account on OkCupid.

    com. I feel like I'm waisting my time with it. I've tried match.com and even badoo.com. On that website some guy messaged me and then after a few days he just stopped talking to me. Whatever. It's pathetic. Probably meet someone outside of websites would be better duh.
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    1 Response Dec 6, 2015

    I've tried several "free" dating sites.

    and only get messages from spambots and scams. Where do you go to meet new people?
    Cooltaz Cooltaz
    51-55, M
    1 Response Nov 23, 2015

    Got two long term relationships from it (2yrs &

    4 yrs) but I still hate it. I crave the magic that happens in person. I turned to online because I tend to date outside my race. That is somewhat harder to do in person esp. If it's not just for a hookup/sex. Both online and in person has its challenges and you still have to...
    mimet mimet
    41-45, F
    Dec 11, 2013

    I honestly have no idea how to start a

    conversation with a girl on any dating site. I try to be casual and they ignore me because I'm "not interesting." I try to put more thought into and I usually feel like an idiot because now there's all this pressure that I have one chance to immediately get your attention or be...
    smotheredbycats smotheredbycats
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Jun 8, 2015

    It really sucks . I feel like I

    either meet guys who run for the hills or guys I want to run for the hills from. I also feel like they all just want sex. Sex is amazing and great but I don't want to hear it brought up before I've even met you for a cocktail. I'm slowly giving up hope on finding someone.
    theirthere theirthere
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 29, 2014

    This is usually how it plays out: Guy: what's

    your number, let's chat Me: dubious, but ok Guy: chats for a while, seems human, can spell, gaining trust Me: drops my guard a little, comfortable Guy: asks same questions over and over Me: wonders why Guy can't scroll back and read old messages Guy: send me a photo, I've "lost...
    jesabellica jesabellica
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 23, 2015

    I'm seriously tired of seeing men's profile

    pics of them rock climbing, sailing, snow boarding, walking on the great Wall of China, kissing fishes in Thailand and fuckn' sky diving! seriously! do they expect me to do all that crap. then their profile says that they love camping, fishing, golf and Sunday football and that...
    shadyshadow shadyshadow
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Nov 30, 2015

    On Tree Dating Morning,

    I opened my eyes, heard birds were singing, They are literally singing with rhythm, it sounded very pleasant . It is spring, birds now are trying to find mates. The singing I heard was from a male bird , soon later, I heard a pleasant talking sound, seemed answering the bird...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse
    26-30, F
    May 2, 2014

    I Was On Them

    I think I have tried a dozen of dating sites, and left rapidly, cause it's always the same. I expected to find the Mulder of my dreams looooooool No seriously it will never happen on a dating site; because men are so commonplace on them, they're nearly all the same. Or they're...
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    2 Responses May 29, 2012

    I really hate online dating sites

    because they are very boring and dangerous. You don't know who you are talking to. I tried dating sites before but none didn't work out for me. I wish there was a better way to meet people instead of these dating sites.
    elana453 elana453
    41-45, F
    Jan 14, 2015

    I always get the creepiest people messaging me

    telling me how I'm cute or how I can make money off my looks (probably because they want to pay me for sexual favors) and the apps are always very heteronormative, even if I put im a "lesbian" on there I'll still get a **** ton of men trying to hook up with me. I end up deleting...
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    Jun 9, 2015
    wingeyes wingeyes
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Apr 7, 2014

    I actually have a friend

    who tried the whole online dating thing, but they wouldn't accept her on the website because she wasn't pretty enough. That is no lie! Another story: A girl looked at my profile when I tried one. She asked me to post a photo of myself, and as soon as I did, she didn't speak to...
    Whoami30 Whoami30
    31-35, M
    Mar 23, 2014


    Rather I meet a guy in person or online dating etc none of them ever think I am pretty enough to talk to me. If I meet someone online once they see me they never call again, if they do not know what I look like they call all the time or email. But as soon as we exchange pics or...
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    1 Response Nov 5, 2012

    don't send me a picture of yourself plz

    because I have nighmares and a lot of dudes here look really ******* scary !
    MyraTomPhil MyraTomPhil
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 9, 2015

    Watched 'HER' I Watched 'HER',

    realized online dating never works... No matter how deep you think you feel, it just won't work because it has never been real. In the end, Theodore wrote an letter told Catherine (his ex-wife) that they grew up together, and she made him who he was and she would be always the...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse
    26-30, F
    May 1, 2014

    They are not for people like me.

    They cater to social people who like to "play the dating game" whereas I hate that it's seen as a game in the first place. I've tried niche dating sites for nerdy/geeky types as well as one for people who do not want children and they have so few users that it's not even worth...
    Syzygy11 Syzygy11
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Feb 16, 2014

    Lies Lies ... the most scary things of all,

    We can't stop it , As it is so useful to achieve all our goals, even knowing the consequences are to slice up the tender human hearts, We can't never resist the temptation, it is a high from your Leapers ... so you keep lying ...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse
    26-30, F
    May 20, 2014

    I am so tired of online dating.

    I have been doing it for two months and I have had enough. It is unacceptable how men behave these days. They do not want to court a woman or make the effort to have a decent effin conversation before asking if you like sex or not. The ones that actually do, chicken out when it...
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    4 Responses Feb 11, 2015

    Darkness No pain killer can stop the pain,

    I tried, believe me, nothing can stop it from aching, My heart is not broken, it is smashed. My body feels numb, all senses left me, only the pain stays, I saw lights passing by, but I only have strength breathe in the darkness. He knows I am in the darkness, he left me...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse
    26-30, F
    May 20, 2014

    What's the point, really?

    You're basically just whoring yourself out to whoever sees you on said site...
    WatchOutItsKyle WatchOutItsKyle
    18-21, M
    Feb 6, 2014
    EBestest EBestest
    22-25, M
    Aug 25, 2014

    I wasted so much time

    and money with many of them and seen not so good things with them myself. If anyone finds someone and lives a wonderful life afterwards, they better keep up promoting themselves for the companies/sites they're with.
    asert12345678 asert12345678
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2015

    I really don't understand these idiots on

    dating sites. Typical idiotic things guys always say and do: -"Are you a virgin?" -"I'm h*rny." -"I have morning wood." -"Want to trade pix(nudes)?" -How big are your b**bs?" -Asks me to come to their house for a first date. Why do guys not understand that my answer to any of...
    firecancatchme firecancatchme
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2014

    Using online dating sites is analogous to

    window shopping for **** you can't afford.
    Psilocybinaut Psilocybinaut
    36-40, M
    Aug 4, 2015

    Stay away , Darkness !

    I thought I fell in love with darkness, I cried ... The darkness doesn't like me, so he abandoned me again. God is protecting me from hurt, So the darkness can't approach close, But I am hurt, Still Because my heart already broken by darkness Each every time the darkness...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse
    26-30, F
    May 20, 2014

    What A Joke.

    Internet dating sites are worst that an on-line job application.
    darkreality68 darkreality68
    41-45, M
    Dec 12, 2011

    Just Go Outside!

    Gosh, I hate online dating sites. I used to get on them, because I was just that bored. I can't believe people actually do relationships like that. One of my favorite things about couples is the 'how we met' story. And I definitely don't want mine to be, "Well I was on the web...
    emstem emstem
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 20, 2012

    IS Online Dating Good Or Bad?

    yes i have tried so many dating sites but i am so tired of clicking on one that says free and then half way it's says you have to pay... what a big waste... then when you do find one then the guys say meet me at a nude beach for the first date or we will go swimming at hotel only...
    Augusttwix Augusttwix
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Aug 27, 2013

    Yeah, it sucks. It's more like applying to a job

    than finding "the magic." But, some people manage to find their long term SO's through the sites. Pros and cons to online and IRL. But either way, I don't see anything that bad about it. The internet was set up to connect people. And it's only "not real" if you never actually...
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    Jun 19, 2014


    This actually happened...
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    2 Responses Apr 26, 2013

    In A Love/Hate Relationship With Technology

    Here we are in 2013 and we have the ability to communicate 24/7 in a variety of ways with anyone on earth. Pretty awesome right? If its so awesome why are we so ******* disconnected from each other? Seriously I feel so isolated in a huge city. I can go down town or to any...
    Brandiv Brandiv
    36-40, F
    Apr 30, 2013
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