I Hate People Who Hurt You And Then Act Like Theyre The Victim

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    I'm not sure what I'm feeling at the moment.

    I ran across a few pamphlets for different trauma survivors today, and I read through the brochure for domestic violence victims. It listed qualities of a healthy relationship and the qualities for an unhealthy relationship. I look through both parts and see that I provided...
    wtfgirl001 wtfgirl001
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 9

    There have been so many people

    that have walked into my life and have caused such chaos to the point where I feel like I don't have a choice except to walk away from them. Its so hard to understand why anyone would treat someone this way. But apparently it's my fault... according to the insane lies and...
    hannahB3223 hannahB3223
    22-25, F
    Mar 11

    My girlfriend and I fight quiet a bit now,

    and whenever I'm hurt or crying, she always makes it seem like it's my fault for crying and then she always walks away without caring and making me feel worse. Then she says it's my fault.
    Jvaah Jvaah
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 10

    my ex tortures me, by using my daughter against

    me. I just want the court case to be finished, she has kept the baby away from me for over 10 weeks, before that, 7 months! she pretends shes a victim, as if I'm doing those things. all I've done is love my baby girl, and watch my little pony with her, we both like Applejack...
    bizzbanny bizzbanny
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 10

    Unfortunately, I know from bitter experience,

    this is just what paedophiles do.
    TValentine TValentine
    56-60, M
    1 Response Mar 30

    To be fair though, I hate it

    when people act like a victim in general.
    IntenseCookie IntenseCookie
    18-21, F
    Feb 2

    about my sister. she really hurts me ,

    until i bleed, or even cried. she always said that the younger one always must listen to the older one. when do i even have time to fight back? even if i fought back, she'll be mad and blame me for doing it AGAIN. I never even started it!! all my family (kinda) hates her, they...
    Yisa Yisa
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 10

    I Hate People Who Hurt You And Then Act Klike They're The Victims???

    Ah, Ep created this group!  :)Does anyone have anything to say about this matter?
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 28, 2011
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses May 14, 2015

    Oh my word!!! this one of my very very most

    extrem and intense pet peeves that I absolutely hate. people can be absolutely ridiculous. it makes my blood boil.
    dathglas dathglas
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Mar 10
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 21

    research dealing with narcissist .

    . narcs r more common n around us than we evar thot
    cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle
    36-40, T
    2 Responses Mar 10

    Quite often abusers flip on you

    when you wont be their victim and you fight back...kick and uncaged lion *************...I dare you...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 5

    This is about my ex. Towards the end of the

    relationship, we started drifting apart. We were both busy with school and other things. I guess she thought I didn't care about her or didn't love her anymore for some reason. I wouldn't hold her hand in public as much because I started getting annoyed at people staring and I...
    InfiniteUniverse14 InfiniteUniverse14
    13-15, F
    Mar 9

    Where to begin on this one?

    Conservatives acting insulted when they get pointed out as racist bigots. Coworkers who'd slack work off on to me but get angry when I'd point it out to them. Neighbors who'd get mad at me when I told them they can't just toss their trash onto my yard.
    Mossonarock Mossonarock
    41-45, M
    1 Response Mar 10

    Long story sorry, but I'm severely underweight

    and have almost no stomach but get bigger during my period. My brother said I Was fat today and when everyone agreed and I got upset, they basically said, me being gloomy ruined our day out, I'm sorry but I wasn't really expecting to be called fat. I want to know if I have a...
    AnoynomousReader AnoynomousReader
    16-17, F
    3 Responses May 24, 2015

    narcissists : do a lot of research about them

    and how to "deal" with them .. but main thing is get away or hav them moved far far away . know that they know they can stil affect u via cellphone or indirect lies that u wont even kno r occuring .. {i had sum stuf said to me at a party about what had been hapenin for years...
    cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle
    36-40, T
    1 Response Mar 30

    Is it wrong for a girl to cheat on her boyfriend

    when their relationship turns abusive? (The guy hits her so many times, gave her bruises, and told her bad things about herself to make her lose her self confidence, makes her cry to sleep, and doesn't care for her well-being but then after all that the guy makes false...
    chiellme chiellme
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Mar 10

    My ex was a pro at this.

    She spent our entire relationship manipulating my mental disorders and using them to abuse me (by pretending to be possessed, then cutting, beating, or raping me while threatening my loved ones if I fought too much). She would then harm herself and tell her mom and friends that...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand
    22-25
    1 Response May 14, 2015
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