I Hate People Who Make You Feel Special And Then Leave

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    Compliments are so skin-deep.

    They give you so much attention when they want something and when someone sees you special. But then suddenly ignore you when everybody else is leaving
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 26, 2016

    ''You're my best friend'' that's what she said.

    But in the end she just left when the road got bumpy, and to think of the times where I took the blame for her, I got caught in the fire just to save her. I'd have done anything for her, but she wouldn't do the same. So now she treats me like someone she used to know, but I...
    LikeICare13 LikeICare13
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2016

    I was treated so well by my boyfriend at the

    time. He made me feel like everything was going to be okay. That I nattered. And right when I thought nothing could go wrong, he dumped me. What the ****
    londonbr1dge londonbr1dge
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2015

    That recently happened to me right here in

    Experience Project. I met someone who I really thought I hit it off with. We started conversing a lot then all of a sudden nothing!!! Would not tell me why and stopped messaging me completely. I really hate people like this, grow up and realize when you lead someone on and...
    kma247 kma247
    61-65, M
    1 Response Mar 1, 2016

    This happened to me about 10 years ago.

    We met online and eventually a few times in person and chatted on/off for several years about everything, life, sports, kids, work, etc. All of a sudden he disappeared. He lives relatively close by and I have run into him once since he disappeared. I was with my husband at the...
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    4 Responses Mar 1, 2016

    People always end up leaving me.

    I don't know why I bother trusting humans anymore.
    DeletedDeletedDeleted DeletedDeletedDeleted
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Mar 26, 2014

    i like a guy, i've liked him

    for so long. maybe around more than 2yrs. we were friends in the same class in collece and i got close to him when i worked in the same project. i just like him out of the blue because he's just that attractive. but nowadays, i fall head over heels for him more and more. why...
    xxabixxx xxabixxx
    22-25, F
    Dec 24, 2015

    It's sad, isn't it? You meet someone.

    You two get close. Everything's great for a while. You talk a lot. You tell them a lot. They know a lot. About you. They're different from everyone else somehow. Then someone stops trying. Something happens. Something changes. A switch is flicked. Talk less. Avoiding. Awkward...
    ThatAwkwardPanda ThatAwkwardPanda
    Nov 23, 2014

    No Surprise

    It's happened so many times that I have lost count. These people, there's something that attracts you to them. Whether it's their charm, humour or simply their friendly demeanour that has this...profound effect on you - they make you feel alive and incredibly special. But much...
    ashlaay21 ashlaay21
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 20, 2013

    I hate when I chat with a female

    and we have somethings in common on here and we really get to know each other and she tells me that she wants to be with me and then she leaves because I'm not her type
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    Feb 13, 2016

    I can make others feel special

    and bring them up. I can make you smile and laugh all day. I can love you a way you have never been loved...but if you love me back I'll run away and hide. if you love me back it's time for me to go. I'll love you now and forever and you will always know.....but if you love me...
    lovestoostrong lovestoostrong
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Mar 2, 2016

    I hate people who make you feel special

    and then leave without saying a word. It hurts so much. I don't want to experience that ever again.
    Gayprince1234 Gayprince1234
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Jan 23, 2016

    I'm watching The Bachelor right now.

    I hate this fact but Ben is so adorable. He is so handsome and sweet and he is terribly honest. What a horrible predicament he is in. He is a nice guy and he is in love with two incredible women. It's a little too close to reality for me. I will say something about my recent...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk
    46-50, F
    Mar 14, 2016

    I just found the experience

    where it all started, read the starter for what was (I thought) to become a beautiful friendship. 7 months and 4 days ago since we met. We hit it off right off the bat, there was something about that first response that left me thinking - Omfg someone gets it! It started off...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Aug 17, 2015

    I hate when people say how lucky they are

    knowing you and how perfect you are, they say you are their best friend, how much they like you and care for you then they disappear. But when they're back, they treat you like you're nothing to them.
    cuteshy cuteshy
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 13, 2016
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    Dec 24, 2015

    I hate it when people make me feel special

    because I have experiences with people forgetting about me. I am always afraid they are just eventually going to stop and I am going to feel all alone again.
    Rangaas Rangaas
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2016

    Maybe they made you feel special those times

    because they needed you and now that they are done with you they will leave . That's life
    1234yan12 1234yan12
    22-25, F
    Dec 5, 2015

    Almost every guy I've talked to did this to me.

    The worst was the one who I lost everything for, my future, my home, my job... The last guy, told me he was going to show me what real love felt like, that I was the best girl and he was going to mend my broken heart... We spent every night together and kissed and he'd tell me I...
    thedarkfantasy thedarkfantasy
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 2, 2016

    Just Words

    I remember when I was in seventh grade I had a huge crush on this cute guy. But he didn't pay me any attention because he had so many other options. Well fast forward six years, and I actually have a few options and he has a lot less. He's still kind of cute but beer has changed...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 2, 2013

    I loved you. And you ******* lied.

    Even if 'we' were morally wrong, you still had me. You had my trust, my word, my everything. And you stabbed me in the back HARD. You told me that I was everything. I was smart and beautiful and had a future so bright. But no, I'm a fat ******* idiot. I believed yet another mans...
    soitskindoflikeadiary soitskindoflikeadiary
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 28, 2014

    You lied? I cried. You flirt?

    I hurt. You wanted? I needed. You forgot? I remembered. You promised? I kept it. You stopped? I started. You were done? I was trying. You love me? Stop lying.
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    Feb 15, 2015

    I liked a guy a lot. It's funny

    because the thing is, it was all his fault. I had no interest in meeting him, no interest in his hobbies or his friends. One day he texted me out of the blue and he was so outgoing, so cute, so free spirited. He asked me out, said we'd go to a park. He caught me by surprise. I...
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    2 Responses Dec 24, 2015

    I've done this before,

    and I've had it done to me. In fact, I've done this AFTER it's been done to me. Not that I'm evil or some sort of douche, I just can't help it. Everyone is special to me... until they're not. I get bored easily, what made someone soooo special one week could be the very thing...
    peacefulrebel peacefulrebel
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2014

    It hurts the worst when the person

    that made you feel so special yesterday, makes you feel so unwanted today.....
    akkshu akkshu
    22-25, M
    Nov 10, 2014

    The first guy in over a year

    that I've been even slightly interested in came into my life, tore down my defensive walls like cardboard, and now I got to know that he makes jokes about marriage to all girls. And just like me, they all get to hear how special they are from the rest. I'm just a nice girl who...
    himlavalv himlavalv
    22-25, F
    Mar 2, 2016
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 11, 2015

    Especially on EP. Please,

    dear EPers. If you show a liking for me, and you make a strong debut, either then be polite and say "err, I mistook you. Sorry. Have a good life." or let's see. Just don't, don't just think that falling silent is an option. It is not. At least not of a decent EPer.
    roobs42 roobs42
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Mar 5, 2016

    "Don't fall in love with anyone else" He said,

    and I said it to him too. We were not anything special, but we had mutual feelings. We didn't embark on a relationship becaue we know we have other priorities in life, we decided to just be friends for now. So for such a long time, all we did was text. But soon it withered with...
    Seaspiritaria Seaspiritaria
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 11, 2015

    Why do people do that?

    We throw the blame on ignorance, neglect or on simply being "human". No, those are excuses, not valid reasons. You would hate it when it's done to you, so you do to someone anyway? And yet when you're alone, miserable, lost, confused and sad, you can't figure out why? Look in...
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    1 Response Sep 28, 2015

    I don't know why I remember a few specific

    adults that I just loved above all others when I was little. Somehow they made me feel very special and important. I missed them so much when I didn't see them anymore. I wonder what it was exactly that they would do or say that made me feel so special? Wish I knew.
    Morrgin Morrgin
    31-35, F
    Mar 3, 2016

    When something bad happens there are people

    who are there for you and people who disappear. Even on EP.
    funlecy1 funlecy1
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2014

    I met someone on EP to build a relationship

    with. we had phone chats St lots of messages to one another over a period of 2 months now the relationship had it's up and down that's cause friction tween me and him
    kittybaby1968age3 kittybaby1968age3
    46-50, M
    1 Response Mar 1, 2016

    I met someone online

    and we had a great conversation for days. I can sense that he's starting to like me but I've confronted him that I wnt to kno him more and we should not rush on things we might regret in the end. I admit that I'm staring to like him too 'cause he makes me feel special with his...
    waterfallsie02 waterfallsie02
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 23, 2016

    I hate when I'm close to someone

    and they up and leave me and I have no way to contact them, or they just ignore me, I am a very carrying person so it hurts me. More then most people
    SassyNclassy04 SassyNclassy04
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Jun 29, 2015

    I always though my family loved me,

    but it turns out i was really wrong. I was afraid that when i turned 18, all the stories people told me would come true and people would suddenly stop caring about me, how i feel or what i need in life.. When i did turn 18, even though the very people i trusted tried telling me...
    ColorPrince ColorPrince
    18-21, T
    Dec 24, 2015

    A guy I met on here claimed he cared about me

    but when I told him I didn't want to be his girlfriend he decided to say bye. I'm only 15, a junior in high school who doesn't have the time to be with someone online. Like c'mon. People always think someone wants to be with them romantically after like five seconds of a...
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    4 Responses Aug 14, 2015
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    3 Responses Jan 23, 2016

    my ex made me feel like i was the most special

    girl in the world.. he was unbelievably sweet with me and in the end he broke my heart. He had to leave greece and go in another country where he could play profesional football. it was his dream i know.. but he decided to leave me after all those things he did to make me feel...
    mommyJess mommyJess
    16-17, F
    Oct 10, 2015
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    2 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    Because of me, myself!

    I shouldn't feel that special easily... forget it! #NOTE #lesson
    kimlys kimlys
    22-25, F
    Jan 9, 2016

    I met him, I fell so in love

    but I wasn't enough and I've never recovered, my heart is forever lost
    inboots inboots
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Apr 29, 2014
    karado karado
    22-25, M
    Oct 17, 2014
    deleted deleted
    Oct 3, 2015

    I started talking to a guy about like 4 months

    ago and we both had a lot of things in common expect that he was about 3 years older than me. We were both broken, hurt by past relationships and have gone through rough times growing up. We got to know each other and he actually started to break down my walls that I put up...
    MissQueenB MissQueenB
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Sep 29, 2015

    Or people who make you feel special Then make

    sure you know you're not Particularly special to them. I hate that
    funlecy1 funlecy1
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2015

    Want a no doubt be there kind of man You came

    real close But everytime you built me up You only let me down And everybody knows Almost doesn't count Maybe you'll be sorry Maybe you'll be cold Maybe you'll come runnin' back, baby From the cruel cruel world Almost convince me You're gonna stick around But everybody knows...
    blahblahblahxoxo blahblahblahxoxo
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 27, 2015

    Feeling like someone made me like him,

    now he does not like me anymore
    spaceylibra spaceylibra
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 28, 2015

    This is probably the worst feeling anyone could

    feel in my opinion. I hate when you finally think you could trust someone, and when you do, they betray you or give you more reason to not trust them.
    kidLeftInTheDark kidLeftInTheDark
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Aug 14, 2015

    Last week on Thursday my boyfriend left me.

    ..... It's been tough and I haven't wanted to go to school...... I don't know if I can handle it
    thegoodemo thegoodemo
    16-17, F
    7 Responses Mar 15, 2016

    Ok so my husband and I started hanging out with

    this other military couple. My husband and I are 19 & 20 and the couple is 28&30. So the friendship started off really good because my husband worked with her husband. Months went by and we hung out every now and then. I was thinking we could trust them. Eventually they got...
    AmberNykkol AmberNykkol
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2015

    There a lot of guys who make me feel special

    but at the end everyone leave me even my real mom. I get to met this guy he make me feel so special and I'm in love with him and he is willing to take a bullet proof for me and I will do everything that I could to make him happy even though that mean I have to give up my life...
    lookket lookket
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2016
    Sunnflower00408 Sunnflower00408
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 14, 2016
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