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I Hate People Who Pretend to Be My Friend

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    Where Have All the Good People Gone?

    If you have been in the Vancouver, so-called art scene ....... (literally, little children playing with their parents money) ......you will know what im talking about. i left the little city right next to it to step into commercial drive, main street and the famously sketchy...
    opheliaophelia opheliaophelia 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 6, 2009

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    Them Or Me

    i mean, is it them or me that i hate?  them for using me..pretending to like me for something that they want/like? or is it me..for knowing how pple are and can be..and allowing myself to be too trusting..thinking a true friendship can come outta being nice,friendly and...
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F 2 Responses May 14, 2009

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    Why Did You Pretend?

    My ex boyfriend pretended to be my friend. He told me he would always be there yet when the going got tough he completely left me alone. I told him how i felt depressed and he told me he wanted nothing to do with it. That hurts. I listened to his problems but when i told him mine...
    leh12 leh12 18-21 Mar 22, 2012

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    The Love In Your Heart --(Poem)

    The love in your heart And the joy in your soul Their tainted with sadness As black as coal. The anger, the sadness, They both need to go. Forgiveness is needed; For all to grow. Happiness, gladness Should rue the day I am MAD here, too Such is the way. Forgive one and all; Reap...
    Elandra77 Elandra77 56-60 3 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    I Am Putting a Distance Between Me and Fake Friends

     I am putting a distance between me and fake and toxic people in my life becalse people like this i dont need in my life and the drama queens and kings . iam having peace in my life and happyness
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F Sep 29, 2009

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    I Hate YOU SO MUCH..

    Feelings we torment Feelings we befriend Feelings we forget.. No more best friends.. As if sadness had draped over me The sadness sealed over eternity There was no way I could heal And there was no way I could flee.. If there was an answer If there was a key Forget the laughter...
    JazzylnBehca JazzylnBehca 18-21, F Sep 25, 2013

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    Pretends

    I DO NOT LIKE PEOPLE WHO PRETENDS TO BE SOMEONE FRIEND AND THEN TURN ON U WHAT GOES AROUND COMES BACK AROUND AGAIN
    tryme223 tryme223 56-60, F Apr 5, 2013

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    A Story About Jerkface

    I left my old group of friends because i'd had enough of the bitching. So i joined another group it was much better and i met another girl who i liked and we became wat i thought was "best friends" we when to each others houses and everything however about a month...
    pissedoffatjerkface pissedoffatjerkface 16-17 Oct 22, 2008

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    People Saying They Want To Be My Friend And Then Ignore Me

    This happens to me often online. Hasn't happened here yet but it may soon. People on websites will message me saying they want to be my friend or ask me if I want to be. I say yes and we chat and then they ignore me after that or never come online again. We may also be chatting...
    girlwithanxiety girlwithanxiety 26-30, F May 19, 2012

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    A Certain Manager

    A certain manager at my workplace tries to seem really nice and outgoing to everyone, until I noticed how harshly she back stabs work. This, of course, was unkind and I began to observe her behavior towards other co-workers and noticed she does the same to everyone. I wish I...
    BellaFairy BellaFairy 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 8, 2012

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    What's Her Problem?

    ERMAHGOSSSHHH! Angeroverload, guys. Alright, so there's this girl in MY HIGH SCHOOL (Let's call her Brooke.). And my best friends who we are calling Skylar and Chel. So, I am in my BEST FRIEND GROUP with only three of us, Skylar and Chel, and I have this AMAZINGLY TALKATIVE...
    JazzylnBehca JazzylnBehca 18-21, F Sep 18, 2013

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    Oh Yeah!

    Wow, I SO needed to find this group this week!! (BTW, my deep gratitude to Urbrandofheroin for joining this group, which allowed me to see it pop up on my circle activity...  Thanks Girl!!!)  That is the one thing that goes all over me... okay, several things...
    dyin2live dyin2live 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2009

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    I Don't Care If You Don't Like Me!

    I really don't care if someone doesn't like me, but I hate when they jsut pretend to be my friend so they can gain something from it or they think their sparing my feelings. I know some people in the past have used me for one reason or another - sometimes I have information about...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2008

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    I Can Relate On the Fake Thing

    (Note: I previously had this story under a comment to another story before I realized I should share my own) I understand exactly what you are trying to explain and I empathize with you. I joined EP specifically to respond to you and then when I saw what this project is about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 29, 2009

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    Sylphy Sylphy 41-45, F Aug 6, 2012

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    Stab In D Back

    really hate fake friends...pretending to be nice to u when you're facing them, but once u turn ur back to them they will stab u, say and make up stories about u... friends like that hate way too much, will look up and down yet they have nothing to say that is of course...
    kitschy kitschy 21-25, F Jun 10, 2008

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    I Work With A Pathological Liar

        I'm 39 years old and I work with people half my age. One of my co-workers has a real problem with telling the truth. That includes pretending she has my back, when what she really does is go around running her mouth about me. Recently she had to fill in for me at our...
    crimzon26 crimzon26 36-40 2 Responses Oct 28, 2011

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    Guys Can Cause So Much Drama!

    So, today I took my girlfriends out for a photoshoot. I payed over $300 dollars for makeup and pictures, just for fun. We meet two guys. At first, everything is awesome. But then my friend starts acting weird on Facebook and all, commenting on stuff that the guys can see (they...
    tragicharmonies tragicharmonies 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2009

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    Honsty and Friends

    thay say to be honest with people and the ones you love but is it honesty that tears people apart? if we could just get past that fear of bing honist bc you think it will couse conflict then we could all ways be honest with people and our selvs. bc in the long run when will it...
    edsterjin edsterjin 16-17 Jun 27, 2008

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    Fake: Rent A Friend

    I am not poor: A mortician. after so many years. I rent a friend$ this way I know what I have. It is a sad lifestyle.
    55beekeeper 55beekeeper 51-55 Oct 14, 2012

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    Done.

    Only gutless insecure cowards would pretend to be someone's friend. I can not stand people who have ulterior motives of any kind for any reason. How miserable does one have to be in their own lives to have to blindside someone else for no real purpose?  This is one of many...
    WakgUp WakgUp 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2012

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    Just Because Of This

    I just f***ing hate people who have motives for befriending me. Just some days ago, there's this groupwork that needs 5 people in a group. This girl (let's call her Ash) told me that I could join their group, since I don't have any. I wasn't hated by many people in class, though...
    MoonlightCiel75 MoonlightCiel75 16-17, F Jul 28, 2013

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    Is It Me Or Do I Really Have False Friends.

    well i am 52 years old with no friends i have long distance friends always have they live in other states only see them once in a while but i talk to them on the phone and have knowen them all for over twenty years. but have no close friends that live in the same city and i have...
    jodymadruga jodymadruga 51-55 2 Responses Jun 18, 2011

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    Beware!

    Beware of the evil coworker! Coworkers are notorious for this!
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    I Don't Want You In My Life.

    Yes, too many in the past,now things changed, i changed,and i changed also the friends, who care only for themself and for nothing else, and if it happens again i will show them the door before they really figure out.
    blackweirdcat blackweirdcat 46-50, F Aug 17, 2012

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    Yeah Had One Today

    He's gone.. and to tell you the truth I'm grateful he's gone.  I really couldn't care less if he ever appeared again. Then there's the one that when I told him about my depression dumped me as a friend. The ones that add you to their circle and never reply to messages...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 12, 2010

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    I Can Relate On the Fake Thing

    (Note: I previously had this story under a comment to another story before I realized I should share my own) I understand exactly what you are trying to explain and I empathize with you. I joined EP specifically to respond to you and then when I saw what this project is about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 29, 2009

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    STOP Pretending

    I wish if someone hated me they'd just tell me instead of saying they were my friend. I prefer it if they just came right out and said "i hate you" and then i''d respond with "fcuk off" and walk away and never talk to them again instead of "ur my friend...
    DeMiDeMiSe DeMiDeMiSe 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 4, 2008

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    If You Are You Are If Your Not Get the **** Out My Face!!!!

    Don't play games with me. Don't take my heart as your Toy. I am not your Toy. I have emotions. I fell just the **** Like you. Don't Fake to be my Friend and Turn around. And back stab me. I Don't mind Being your Friend. I love Making new Friends. Don't play games. Either you are...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F Jun 4, 2008

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    Read the Logo!!!

    Fake is the new trend I guess everyone is in Style. That iss how I Feel most days.. Here excluding a Few People.. My Circle of Friends are Varied. None of them Talk to me.. And when they do. I have others coming back saying someone is talking about me behind my back.. Now To me...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2008

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    Ffffffffffake. Bs.

    be my friend. a true friend. dont pretend to care. dont **** with me. k? thanks.
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F Jan 14, 2009

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    Frenemy

    I thought he was a friend but he turned out to be a frenemy. frenemy = one who pretends to be a friend but is actually an enemy.  I met a guy in my apartment complex. We talked and chatted a few times and we were becoming friends. Well,  one day I was awoken by...
    chefmarc chefmarc 46-50 1 Response Jul 10, 2009

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    Why Pretend?

    You either are my friend or you are not... Why waste my time pretending you are something you are not ? Is it really worth it in the long run?  No...it truly isn't. Get on with your own life as I have mine.... and yea stop pretending to be something you simply aren't.
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 7 Responses Sep 12, 2010

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    Jealous Friends

      I hate "friends" who can't stand to see good things happen to you. Is it cause you can't share sob stories or just plain jealousy? Whatever it is it's such a put off when so-called friends get quiet or moody when you have good things happen in your life...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 29, 2009

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    In Order To Have A Friend You Have To Be Fake Like Them.

    There are SO MANY FAKE AZZ PEOPLE out here in this world until its utterly sickening!!!! Faking they're like you, faking they are like them--damm make up your mind! I can't be bothered with 2 faced people. I had to curse out a relative of mine for speaking to me. I told that...
    TrustNobody TrustNobody 26-30, F Jan 11, 2010

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    Please.....

    I had rather a person outright tell me that they hate me if they don't like me than to allow me to waste my time on them.  I put everything into my friendships and it would be so much easier if people were just honest so that we don't have to put our hearts into everyone.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 18 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    The Most Insulting Thing Anyone Can Ever Do To You

    I hate it when people pretend to be my friend especially the ones who make it so obvious because they know I have aspergers and don't think I can tell.When people know you have a disability it complicates things and when they don't think they need to make an effort to be...
    chrysalid chrysalid 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    I Hate Pretenders

    this year a girl named emily pretended to be my friend for the whole school year. she is nice, rude, sweet, a jerk,non respectful, and I hate her. if people could just say,"go away. i dont like you'', the world might sound lonlier, but we would know who to talk to and who to...
    ihartdoggz ihartdoggz 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2008

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    Give and Take

    Stop ******* pretending, and actually give a ****. It's really not that hard. I'm not a piece of **** here to treat you like crap the way you treat me. I know I'm worth so much more, so give it to me or get the **** out, because you're worthless to me. If I can care about you...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2008

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    My Life In A Nutshell

    This isn't so much a song as it is a poem of sorts...and I'm not even sure if that's what I can call this. But any way, here goes: // It's only when you think you know someone, When you think your life has finally turned around, That you learn the truth which shatters it all. You...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 2, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Not only that, but who talk to you and it really legitimately seems like they do like you, and you can tell that they do, but the moment you're out of their mind, it's like you...
    RianBennett RianBennett 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Well, this is almost everyone for me :P
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    I wish these experiences would stop with the "I hate people that..." You shouldn't hate anyone, because when you hate you are really hating God! So fist off I want to say I do not...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    >They are beautiful.They look original..They look adorable..Gorgious..and really much more.You wonder where they come from?Just type in address bar Crossdressers in saree images...
    ExUser007 ExUser007 18-21 1 Response Sep 4

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    I passionately hate people who embarrass me in front of others for whatever reason they have. This thwarts me in many ways to get around with my live. I really hate it. I would...
    KaiWong KaiWong 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    i cant get interested in ukip, as they are packed full of haters, i wont be freinds with people who are bigots, as their negativity grinds me down. i take people as i find them...
    kuminme kuminme 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    I guess I'm "judging" people because I dislike the way they judge others but I don't understand. I mean, you have people that make it obvious and known that they won't accept...
    BallinBae BallinBae 16-17, F Aug 22

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    Okay, hate maybe abit extravagated. I am not sayings its not dumb. But it does not make one dumb dumb. I could easily come with an counter attack of how dumb the other person is...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    People who do are immature bunch of lowlives how can they stoop so low!?! It just shows me their stinking attitude and that they're sick in the head! I mean why would people do...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's not okay, no matter the circumstance. By cheating you betray the person who you supposedly "love" and throw away their trust. It is a horrible and despicable thing to do...
    VoraciousTurtles VoraciousTurtles 16-17, F Aug 20

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    I just hate it when people at school joke about people being autistic and a downie.. It's not funny it hurts peoples feelings and how do you know if that person isn't best friends...
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 17

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    I hate when people dont train their dogs! Having a run in with untrained dachshunds has greatly made me hate the breed to this very day. When I was like 8 i went to my future step...
    KiwiLiv KiwiLiv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22