I Hate People Who Pretend to Be My Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 534 People

    Guys Can Cause So Much Drama!

    So, today I took my girlfriends out for a photoshoot. I payed over $300 dollars for makeup and pictures, just for fun. We meet two guys. At first, everything is awesome. But then my friend starts acting weird on Facebook and all, commenting on stuff that the guys can see (they...
    tragicharmonies tragicharmonies
    13-15, F
    Apr 19, 2009

    I Work With A Pathological Liar

        I'm 39 years old and I work with people half my age. One of my co-workers has a real problem with telling the truth. That includes pretending she has my back, when what she really does is go around running her mouth about me. Recently she had to fill in for me at our...
    crimzon26 crimzon26
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2011

    Where Have All the Good People Gone?

    If you have been in the Vancouver, so-called art scene ....... (literally, little children playing with their parents money) ......you will know what im talking about. i left the little city right next to it to step into commercial drive, main street and the famously sketchy...
    opheliaophelia opheliaophelia
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 6, 2009

    Is It Me Or Do I Really Have False Friends.

    well i am 52 years old with no friends i have long distance friends always have they live in other states only see them once in a while but i talk to them on the phone and have knowen them all for over twenty years. but have no close friends that live in the same city and i have...
    jodymadruga jodymadruga
    2 Responses Jun 18, 2011

    Honsty and Friends

    thay say to be honest with people and the ones you love but is it honesty that tears people apart? if we could just get past that fear of bing honist bc you think it will couse conflict then we could all ways be honest with people and our selvs. bc in the long run when will it...
    edsterjin edsterjin
    Jun 27, 2008

    STOP Pretending

    I wish if someone hated me they'd just tell me instead of saying they were my friend. I prefer it if they just came right out and said "i hate you" and then i''d respond with "fcuk off" and walk away and never talk to them again instead of "ur my friend...
    DeMiDeMiSe DeMiDeMiSe
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 4, 2008

    I Can Relate On the Fake Thing

    (Note: I previously had this story under a comment to another story before I realized I should share my own) I understand exactly what you are trying to explain and I empathize with you. I joined EP specifically to respond to you and then when I saw what this project is about...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 29, 2009


    I thought he was a friend but he turned out to be a frenemy. frenemy = one who pretends to be a friend but is actually an enemy.  I met a guy in my apartment complex. We talked and chatted a few times and we were becoming friends. Well,  one day I was awoken by...
    chefmarc chefmarc
    1 Response Jul 10, 2009

    Jealous Friends

      I hate "friends" who can't stand to see good things happen to you. Is it cause you can't share sob stories or just plain jealousy? Whatever it is it's such a put off when so-called friends get quiet or moody when you have good things happen in your life...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 29, 2009

    Yeah Had One Today

    He's gone.. and to tell you the truth I'm grateful he's gone.  I really couldn't care less if he ever appeared again. Then there's the one that when I told him about my depression dumped me as a friend. The ones that add you to their circle and never reply to messages...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Jun 12, 2010

    Read the Logo!!!

    Fake is the new trend I guess everyone is in Style. That iss how I Feel most days.. Here excluding a Few People.. My Circle of Friends are Varied. None of them Talk to me.. And when they do. I have others coming back saying someone is talking about me behind my back.. Now To me...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy
    18-21, F
    Oct 2, 2008

    The Most Insulting Thing Anyone Can Ever Do To You

    I hate it when people pretend to be my friend especially the ones who make it so obvious because they know I have aspergers and don't think I can tell.When people know you have a disability it complicates things and when they don't think they need to make an effort to be...
    chrysalid chrysalid
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2012

    What's Her Problem?

    ERMAHGOSSSHHH! Angeroverload, guys. Alright, so there's this girl in MY HIGH SCHOOL (Let's call her Brooke.). And my best friends who we are calling Skylar and Chel. So, I am in my BEST FRIEND GROUP with only three of us, Skylar and Chel, and I have this AMAZINGLY TALKATIVE...
    JazzylnBehca JazzylnBehca
    22-25, F
    Sep 18, 2013

    Why would you pretend?

    If you don't like me just either go away or tell me nicely you don't like me. I don't want friends that don't appreciate me for who I am....
    Raptax231 Raptax231
    22-25, M
    Sep 28, 2014

    Stab In D Back

    really hate fake friends...pretending to be nice to u when you're facing them, but once u turn ur back to them they will stab u, say and make up stories about u... friends like that hate way too much, will look up and down yet they have nothing to say that is of course...
    kitschy kitschy
    22-25, F
    Jun 10, 2008

    Fake: Rent A Friend

    I am not poor: A mortician. after so many years. I rent a friend$ this way I know what I have. It is a sad lifestyle.
    55beekeeper 55beekeeper
    Oct 14, 2012

    Them Or Me

    i mean, is it them or me that i hate?  them for using me..pretending to like me for something that they want/like? or is it me..for knowing how pple are and can be..and allowing myself to be too trusting..thinking a true friendship can come outta being nice,friendly and...
    lostprophet lostprophet
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 14, 2009

    A Story About Jerkface

    I left my old group of friends because i'd had enough of the bitching. So i joined another group it was much better and i met another girl who i liked and we became wat i thought was "best friends" we when to each others houses and everything however about a month...
    pissedoffatjerkface pissedoffatjerkface
    Oct 22, 2008

    I never thought a friend would make my life

    so messed up! You think you know someone! It's so upsetting!
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2014

    If You Are You Are If Your Not Get the **** Out My Face!!!!

    Don't play games with me. Don't take my heart as your Toy. I am not your Toy. I have emotions. I fell just the **** Like you. Don't Fake to be my Friend and Turn around. And back stab me. I Don't mind Being your Friend. I love Making new Friends. Don't play games. Either you are...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy
    18-21, F
    Jun 4, 2008

    I Hate YOU SO MUCH..

    Feelings we torment Feelings we befriend Feelings we forget.. No more best friends.. As if sadness had draped over me The sadness sealed over eternity There was no way I could heal And there was no way I could flee.. If there was an answer If there was a key Forget the laughter...
    JazzylnBehca JazzylnBehca
    22-25, F
    Sep 25, 2013

    There are two girls in my HighSchool (Let's

    Call them Hannah And Grace)who I've know since 4th grade (I'm in 9th now) and I've always thought we were friends…But lately I've been hearing from my best friend (We'll Call Her Marie) that all this time they've been saying things behind back and spreading rumors of me. A...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 16, 2015

    Just Because Of This

    I just f***ing hate people who have motives for befriending me. Just some days ago, there's this groupwork that needs 5 people in a group. This girl (let's call her Ash) told me that I could join their group, since I don't have any. I wasn't hated by many people in class, though...
    MoonlightCiel75 MoonlightCiel75
    18-21, F
    Jul 28, 2013

    I Can Relate On the Fake Thing

    (Note: I previously had this story under a comment to another story before I realized I should share my own) I understand exactly what you are trying to explain and I empathize with you. I joined EP specifically to respond to you and then when I saw what this project is about...
    deleted deleted
    May 29, 2009

    I Am Putting a Distance Between Me and Fake Friends

     I am putting a distance between me and fake and toxic people in my life becalse people like this i dont need in my life and the drama queens and kings . iam having peace in my life and happyness
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    Sep 29, 2009


    tryme223 tryme223
    56-60, F
    Apr 5, 2013

    People Saying They Want To Be My Friend And Then Ignore Me

    This happens to me often online. Hasn't happened here yet but it may soon. People on websites will message me saying they want to be my friend or ask me if I want to be. I say yes and we chat and then they ignore me after that or never come online again. We may also be chatting...
    girlwithanxiety girlwithanxiety
    26-30, F
    May 19, 2012

    Give and Take

    Stop ******* pretending, and actually give a ****. It's really not that hard. I'm not a piece of **** here to treat you like crap the way you treat me. I know I'm worth so much more, so give it to me or get the **** out, because you're worthless to me. If I can care about you...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 3, 2008

    In Order To Have A Friend You Have To Be Fake Like Them.

    There are SO MANY FAKE AZZ PEOPLE out here in this world until its utterly sickening!!!! Faking they're like you, faking they are like them--damm make up your mind! I can't be bothered with 2 faced people. I had to curse out a relative of mine for speaking to me. I told that...
    TrustNobody TrustNobody
    26-30, F
    Jan 11, 2010
    Sylphy Sylphy
    41-45, F
    Aug 6, 2012

    Why Pretend?

    You either are my friend or you are not... Why waste my time pretending you are something you are not ? Is it really worth it in the long run?  No...it truly isn't. Get on with your own life as I have mine.... and yea stop pretending to be something you simply aren't.
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Sep 12, 2010

    I Hate Pretenders

    this year a girl named emily pretended to be my friend for the whole school year. she is nice, rude, sweet, a jerk,non respectful, and I hate her. if people could just say,"go away. i dont like you'', the world might sound lonlier, but we would know who to talk to and who to...
    ihartdoggz ihartdoggz
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 3, 2008


    I had rather a person outright tell me that they hate me if they don't like me than to allow me to waste my time on them.  I put everything into my friendships and it would be so much easier if people were just honest so that we don't have to put our hearts into everyone.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    18 Responses Jun 3, 2008

    Ffffffffffake. Bs.

    be my friend. a true friend. dont pretend to care. dont **** with me. k? thanks.
    gypsysoul gypsysoul
    22-25, F
    Jan 14, 2009

    My Life In A Nutshell

    This isn't so much a song as it is a poem of sorts...and I'm not even sure if that's what I can call this. But any way, here goes: // It's only when you think you know someone, When you think your life has finally turned around, That you learn the truth which shatters it all. You...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 2, 2012

    Oh Yeah!

    Wow, I SO needed to find this group this week!! (BTW, my deep gratitude to Urbrandofheroin for joining this group, which allowed me to see it pop up on my circle activity...  Thanks Girl!!!)  That is the one thing that goes all over me... okay, several things...
    dyin2live dyin2live
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2009

    Why Did You Pretend?

    My ex boyfriend pretended to be my friend. He told me he would always be there yet when the going got tough he completely left me alone. I told him how i felt depressed and he told me he wanted nothing to do with it. That hurts. I listened to his problems but when i told him mine...
    leh12 leh12
    Mar 22, 2012


    Beware of the evil coworker! Coworkers are notorious for this!
    goldie25 goldie25
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jun 9, 2008


    Only gutless insecure cowards would pretend to be someone's friend. I can not stand people who have ulterior motives of any kind for any reason. How miserable does one have to be in their own lives to have to blindside someone else for no real purpose?  This is one of many...
    WakgUp WakgUp
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 28, 2012
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