I Hate People Who Talk About You Behind Your Back

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    At Work.

    I am a white American living in Japan (no I don't teach English). Most of my co-workers are Japanese, but there is one who is Chinese and she spends every free moment she can with the boss tattling (with embellishments of course) on everyone else in the team. I wish I could...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 25, 2011

    Work Not Working Out

    Is it odd for coworkers you don't know well to ask you about personal stuff? Example: i had a brand new co worker come back from a smoke break and ask about my husband and I meeting online, Why did that come up? I always feel like they are discussing me behind my back and i...
    Jen817 Jen817
    31-35, F
    Sep 4, 2013

    Obvious

    I dont see the point in being two faced. The person you are talking about is most likely going to find out regardless. Its just cruddy. If you have a problem with some one you need to just say it to their face and confront them about it. It makes the situation worse when you go...
    angeliceyes11 angeliceyes11
    18-21, F
    May 18, 2011

    Jenny

    my friend Jenny was some one i thought i could tell anything to have fun with no matter what, thought it was impossible to get mad at her. Ever since i met her i knew we would be best friends. I thought i could trust her.... As i walked down the hall to french class 2 girls in...
    nking2015 nking2015
    13-15
    Jan 18, 2011

    I know it's not right to 'hate' anyone,

    but talking about people behind their back is the one thing that really gets on my nerves. Most, if not all of my friends talk about others behind their back, some of whom are lovely genuine people, so I am sure they are probably doing the same to me 👋 it's just not nice...
    Johnathanb Johnathanb
    18-21, M
    Jan 10, 2014

    I seriously hate it. My roommate did it today

    because he thinks I went through his phone just to delete some girl's number that probably wasn't even there to begin with because he got a new phone and didn't think to transfer the numbers over...
    jenni234 jenni234
    22-25, F
    Jan 22, 2015
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