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I Hate People Who Use Others to Feel Better and Then Drop Them

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    This will apply to gay women

    and hetro men- I hate women that use you when they are feeling down in an unhappy relationship. Just dump the partner and stop making peoples lives a ******* misery. Lol rant over
    olafmakvyx olafmakvyx 18-21, F Jan 31

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    people who befriend you or talk to you..just so they can rant and rave about their life..then after it's said and done..they're back with their life..or origional friends etc. It is wrong for people to USE in the first place..
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Dec 24, 2009

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    Gone

    Something that drives me nuts.  Someone who pretends to be your friend, needs you to listen, wants you to hug them, calls you late at night to pour their heart out and of course being the kind person I am am there for them no matter what.  Hey I dont mind being...
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 2 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Absolutely This.....

    I can't stand users and am always upset at the fact that I always seem to be used. I am always someones second choice or the last option it seems. I had a colleague who I did a lot for. I looked after her son at work for years and was supportive towards her. Now, she barely...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F Dec 7, 2011

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    Gets Me Sick...

    Its kinda funny, actually, to see how some people find their lives to be terrible at the moment and just confronts some random person to rant about something. Well it hurts to just drop someone just because you finished youre right. Its not right. Its not logical. Its stupid and...
    PorcelainChinaDoll PorcelainChinaDoll 16-17, F Aug 9, 2010

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    why do so many of us have to go thru this. If your using a person how can you live with yourself. If your not in to it for the long run dont start. we none of us need to use others. Being dropped is so hard on everyone.
    silvercoins4 silvercoins4 70+, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2008

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    This Is Wrong!

    It's funny actually that some people seem to think it's in order to come to someone - have them help them out and then be gone in a flash leaving this person behind. It just seems to me that they're missing a fundamental truth - that you give as you receive - in life. Just...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2009

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    It's So Wrong!

    I have never been the type with the attitude of, "I got mine! So, goodbye." That's so stupid in my opinion. Those who cheer me up, in my bad times, are the very ones I want around me in my good times too! Especially them, because they already seen me at my worse and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    when someone can lie to your face about how

    they feel about you, you find yourself falling head over heels for them, all the time you are giving them 110% of you, letting yourself become vulnerable and open, trusting them...you imagine a future, a lil dream that could perhaps come real :3 then you see true colours...they...
    PonderingPanda PonderingPanda 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    Don't You Feel My Love in Those Days???????????

    yes, he lifted me in my fall. he guided me when i met with failure, he wiped my tears in my times of sorrow, and made his happiness as mine. after three years we got a chance of chatting in facebook. i thought that he will convey his love towards me. he also told about his love...
    mylovablesoul mylovablesoul 18-21 Oct 20, 2011

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    Drop Me, Will You?

    That is the dirtiest thing you can do. To say "Thanks for the help, now buzz off." is just inhumane. If a person has consoled you through a harsh time, you -must- respect them. I don't use the words love and hate lightly, but I do hate this. Go drain yourself of life...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    I am tired of people coming in my life and pretending to be my friends and then after a few days leave when they're bored.
    scarredbutrelentless scarredbutrelentless 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I can say there was a person that made me smile, made me laugh and made me feel special! I have a caring heart and it likes people too easily. We talked and all of the suddenly...
    EricRadliffe EricRadliffe 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    In my case they don't actually "leave". It's more like, the moments when they show you really how much they care for you aren't actually long lasting, y'know?
    gruuyi gruuyi 13-15, T 1 Response 3 days ago

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    People don't understand disabled people because they are, (excuse my language) stuck up little *******. They think people that are a bit different from them are weird. If you've...
    Mikaylaxo Mikaylaxo 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    My mother is a Special Education teacher and her sister, my aunt, was severely disabled and died at the age of 17 due to a bad lung transplant. I hate to hear the word "retard...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I really hate people who is be mean to people who have disable i know how they feel because I am someone how have disable
    kyledevares305512 kyledevares305512 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    I hate people who whine it makes me want to give them something go actually cry about
    Arcdapreslamort Arcdapreslamort 16-17, F Jul 7

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    Seriously! Like who are you to judge?? I hate people who do this, if your going to do it, don't associate yourself with me. It's disgusting!! They already have other things to...
    thanamesnyaa thanamesnyaa 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I don't "hate" people who wear too much perfume, but a spray or two is quite enough, especially if it's strong.
    mournwiththemoonandthestars mournwiththemoonandthestars 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Hate People Who Don't Take Care Of Their Children
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 18 hrs ago

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    What a dumb question. I especially hate it when guys who want to date me ask this. When I was single, it was completely by choice. It was because, although I had guys who liked me...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I know how it is to be depressed cos i was depressed. Now i look at myself like i look on a freak. I was wronged by some people in my past and somehow i allways had this memories...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F Jun 30

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    Judge Me Not EP is the biggest offender of this. They censored so much on this site that people can't even share their experiences anymore. So the biggest judgmental 'persons' on...
    SilviaAnnGinger SilviaAnnGinger 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    It's true I do. My biggest pet peeve. Whatever happen to elevator etiquette?Here I am a mother of three my youngest being 4 and 18 months so I sometimes use a double stroller. How...
    blovedsmle blovedsmle 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I thinking making fun of disabled people is one of the most ignorant things someone can do. Honestly, I think people who make fun of disabled people have issues with themselves and...
    XxMarxX XxMarxX 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I don't hate anyone but my mother and I just got into an argument because she didn't wanna speak to me. If you don't wanna talk to me then why are you still speaking. If you don't...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Jul 17

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    People who make fun of someone who is disabled are some of the lowest people on earth. 👊
    brizle brizle 22-25, F 15 Responses Jul 5

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    Just tell the truth. It may hurt but at least you're being honest. I can't stand people who tell lies
    carolinalady64 carolinalady64 46-50, F Jun 27

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    There is just no plausible excuse in my book, you can be sarcastic sure even be bitchy at times- but going so much as to disrespect someone just to make yourself look cool or above...
    Sei02 Sei02 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    It takes a lot for me to hate someone. So to be specific I don't hate the person I hate the behavior. I deal with kids five days a week all day in the summer. It's a martial arts...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I hate what they do. My parents used to call me stupid and retarded because I couldn't process information exactly as well as other people could, I was uncoordinated, I got lost...
    Buckley4U Buckley4U 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I never understood why people felt like it was ok for them to do so. I've seen it happen a few times here and there throughout school when I was younger. And every time I saw it...
    SweetKrazyChill SweetKrazyChill 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    It disgusts me to no end to see people actively insulting or making fun of a disabled person, for something which cannot be helped. It makes me want to smack them over the back of...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Well I could go on and on for days about my work situations, all the jobs I've been at and left. Some that I was fired from, etc. Some days I love making money but dread the people...
    bettygingham bettygingham 22-25, F Jun 28

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    My inspiration for this post is the children down the street. When a car is driving by, they don't move out of the way. They stand in the middle and laugh as if it's funny. I was...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I have my own views.. my own way of thinking, my own problems, my own wishes and my own likes and dislikes... who the hell is anyone to form opinion and tell me if i am right or...
    hemantscorpion hemantscorpion 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 1

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    I don't know why, but back in elementary school, I happened to be around more special needs students than normal back then. I got to know a lot of them because I has needs back...
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    Hey guys don't get so angry its not worth it . If anything don't get angry but pity all those who do it as its ignorance and fear of the unknown makes people do it . Feel sorry for...
    beastman111 beastman111 46-50, M Jul 5

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    I came on here to vent yet some fools seem intent on handing out lectures about how i'm "moraly wrong", if i want advice or a lecture i'll ask for them, just like everyone else i'm...
    woundedwolf woundedwolf 31-35, M Jun 27

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    Ok, I know sometimes people judge others by the way they look or their age, but that's just f*cking wrong.
    hitmeagain hitmeagain 70+ 1 Response Jul 13

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    There's this girl in Special Education Class at my school. Her name is Victoria. And there's this really short boy at my school, Omar. They both are on my bus, and they don't get...
    BossiRossi BossiRossi 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Do you know even staring too long is rude? I always try to avoid staring at someone who has disabilities. It's because if you stare too long at someone, it may cause them to think...
    flyoffsomewhere flyoffsomewhere 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate what they do. And I block them when they make mocking comments on my posts.
    Buckley4U Buckley4U 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    Mental retardation is nothing to joke about my family takes care of special needs adults and I've been around these lovely adults since I was in diapers. They have no more of a...
    huntersmiles14 huntersmiles14 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    I don't "hate" them, but it saddens me. I saw videos of it in high school and it was very disturbing. If someone recorded those videos in more modern times, we might doubt it. I...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 3 Responses Jul 16

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    it's ignorant and downright disgusting. I have spina bifida and am in a wheelchair and i've had crap from people all my life. Its damn low and those idiots should be ashamed of...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have severe depression, diagnosed. So when someone says they have depression but they just want attention and the "Awe, it's okay sweetie. You're a great person" act, it truly...
    LezzieRose LezzieRose 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago