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I Hate People Who Use Others to Feel Better and Then Drop Them

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    Drop Me, Will You?

    That is the dirtiest thing you can do. To say "Thanks for the help, now buzz off." is just inhumane. If a person has consoled you through a harsh time, you -must- respect them. I don't use the words love and hate lightly, but I do hate this. Go drain yourself of life...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    Don't You Feel My Love in Those Days???????????

    yes, he lifted me in my fall. he guided me when i met with failure, he wiped my tears in my times of sorrow, and made his happiness as mine. after three years we got a chance of chatting in facebook. i thought that he will convey his love towards me. he also told about his love...
    mylovablesoul mylovablesoul 18-21 Oct 20, 2011

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    This will apply to gay women

    and hetro men- I hate women that use you when they are feeling down in an unhappy relationship. Just dump the partner and stop making peoples lives a ******* misery. Lol rant over
    olafmakvyx olafmakvyx 18-21, F Jan 31, 2014

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    when someone can lie to your face about how

    they feel about you, you find yourself falling head over heels for them, all the time you are giving them 110% of you, letting yourself become vulnerable and open, trusting them...you imagine a future, a lil dream that could perhaps come real :3 then you see true colours...they...
    PonderingPanda PonderingPanda 22-25, M Dec 30, 2013

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    This Is Wrong!

    It's funny actually that some people seem to think it's in order to come to someone - have them help them out and then be gone in a flash leaving this person behind. It just seems to me that they're missing a fundamental truth - that you give as you receive - in life. Just...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda 36-40, F Jul 28, 2009

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    Absolutely This.....

    I can't stand users and am always upset at the fact that I always seem to be used. I am always someones second choice or the last option it seems. I had a colleague who I did a lot for. I looked after her son at work for years and was supportive towards her. Now, she barely...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F Dec 7, 2011

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    Users

    why do so many of us have to go thru this. If your using a person how can you live with yourself. If your not in to it for the long run dont start. we none of us need to use others. Being dropped is so hard on everyone.
    silvercoins4 silvercoins4 66-70, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2008

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    For Example

    people who befriend you or talk to you..just so they can rant and rave about their life..then after it's said and done..they're back with their life..or origional friends etc. It is wrong for people to USE in the first place..
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Dec 24, 2009

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    It's So Wrong!

    I have never been the type with the attitude of, "I got mine! So, goodbye." That's so stupid in my opinion. Those who cheer me up, in my bad times, are the very ones I want around me in my good times too! Especially them, because they already seen me at my worse and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    Gone

    Something that drives me nuts.  Someone who pretends to be your friend, needs you to listen, wants you to hug them, calls you late at night to pour their heart out and of course being the kind person I am am there for them no matter what.  Hey I dont mind being...
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 2 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Gets Me Sick...

    Its kinda funny, actually, to see how some people find their lives to be terrible at the moment and just confronts some random person to rant about something. Well it hurts to just drop someone just because you finished youre right. Its not right. Its not logical. Its stupid and...
    ConLocura ConLocura 18-21, F Aug 9, 2010

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    My other two siblings are much older than me, so I've never had this sort of relationship with them. My younger brother is different. He's 18 and he is, literally, my life. I...
    Storiesnotforthefaintofheart Storiesnotforthefaintofheart 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    Someone people need to think before they speak!!
    Uniquesouls Uniquesouls 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I just don't understand how someone can look at a child and think 'do harm' . Nor do I understand the 'it was done to me so I'll do it to another ' mentality. I am very much a...
    tadmore254 tadmore254 51-55, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I hate being disabled so much ...
    Uniquesouls Uniquesouls 18-21, F 4 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I need help!! Ok so I I'm made a Facebook page called https://www.facebook.com/TeenDisabillites please check it out and tell me what you all think people and and please tell me...
    Uniquesouls Uniquesouls 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    Oh Oh, and those people that justify their abuse by saying its discipline. I understand a slap, maybe a spank or two but lets say getting hit with a pan over the head. Getting...
    RandomExistence RandomExistence 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    if anyone does this kind of bullshit I will disable them myself and we'll see how they feel
    stella2b3 stella2b3 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ofcourse if you're using abusive behavior then I dislike you.
    KindredKings KindredKings 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate being in a wheelchair so much....
    Uniquesouls Uniquesouls 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I just posted something on 'I Hate Fat People' and I should've posted it on here but I didn't see this. But you can go read it if you want to..hopefully I made sense in it I'm like...
    Lcy2472 Lcy2472 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    it's worries me and make me wonder why would a human hate or make fun out of another human just because he's/she's different from there know perception? aren't we are all human...
    lame44 lame44 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    If I've learned anything with the years is that "no one is better than you" no one is born in a different way ... and so those who believe that they are better than others and you...
    rb47 rb47 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I just lost the love of my life due to money His family puts money before everyone. I had a stroke, couldn't contribute towards the expenses and they decided I was a burden...
    moonstar312 moonstar312 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    if any one who make fun of a kid disabled should be in jail I have Asad
    chrisburns11 chrisburns11 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    People who make fun of disabled people are insecure about their own disabilities
    ryanmona ryanmona 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Some people need to think before they speak on here!! Do not tell me that being disabled isn't hard I'm disabled and I can tell you its very hard!!
    Uniquesouls Uniquesouls 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Is it really so hard? A conversation in person doesn't happen in grunts and bits. Can't we speak better online as well? I am not asking for a soliloquy. And I understand that...
    NellyRose NellyRose 51-55, F 5 days ago

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    ...and discard them like a used condom. Allowing them to move on to their next prey.
    cairah cairah 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    has it occurred to you that maybe we have shared the txts with the same guy?
    amymayoral01 amymayoral01 51-55, F a week ago

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    Ladies, if he doesn't respond to your texts but he decides to text you at 10 pm telling you how gorgeous you are, do not respond. If he tells you he misses you and still loves you...
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    i hate that too. just because someone looks or acts differently doesnt mean they are less of a human being... people have becomes so cruel and shallow that they wont associate or...
    loveknowsnobounds loveknowsnobounds 31-35 a week ago

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    There are people that are so uncomfortable with their own sexuallity that they feel the need to pick on others! It drives me insane. If you are sad and down and need someone to...
    Declanx Declanx 13-15, M 4 Responses Jul 21

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    I am a person with special needs. I have very little in the left eye & partial vision in my right eye. When I was in grade school the kids who didn't have a vision impairment would...
    JohnL2015 JohnL2015 36-40, M Jul 20

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    I want a friend who understands what I'm going trough have to sit in a wheelchair all the time 😔
    Uniquesouls Uniquesouls 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 19

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    For those who think it funny and okay to bully disabled kids/teens it's not funny or okay at all!!! Disabled kids /teens have enough to go through without people bullying the in...
    Uniquesouls Uniquesouls 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 18

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    Hey Everyone I'm back 💗😄 I'm Rachel I'm 18 years old I live in Ireland I'm in a wheelchair since a baby can't walk never will 😔I used to self harm but have been clean for...
    Uniquesouls Uniquesouls 18-21, F 23 Responses Jul 18

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    I'm one confused hurt messed up person.ny 27 years has been packed with hurt . The most hurt has come from the male species. I have studied them lately. I have read about their...
    uncontrollabledesire88 uncontrollabledesire88 26-30, F Jul 18

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    People who do are utter scum.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 16

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    If a conversation leads you to say "Because the bible says so" then I've got nothing left to talk with you
    GCWhiskey GCWhiskey 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    My twin brother has Down syndrome. I've always been really protective of him, he's mentally about 5, and he can't talk using full words, say the alphabet, count to 5, or read etc...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 16 Responses Jul 14

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    I removed this from my experiences because I hate no one no madder how mad they make me
    jeremyrodgers135 jeremyrodgers135 13-15, M Jul 14

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