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I Hate People Who Use Others to Feel Better and Then Drop Them

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    Don't You Feel My Love in Those Days???????????

    yes, he lifted me in my fall. he guided me when i met with failure, he wiped my tears in my times of sorrow, and made his happiness as mine. after three years we got a chance of chatting in facebook. i thought that he will convey his love towards me. he also told about his love...
    mylovablesoul mylovablesoul 18-21 Oct 20, 2011

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    Drop Me, Will You?

    That is the dirtiest thing you can do. To say "Thanks for the help, now buzz off." is just inhumane. If a person has consoled you through a harsh time, you -must- respect them. I don't use the words love and hate lightly, but I do hate this. Go drain yourself of life...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    when someone can lie to your face about how

    they feel about you, you find yourself falling head over heels for them, all the time you are giving them 110% of you, letting yourself become vulnerable and open, trusting them...you imagine a future, a lil dream that could perhaps come real :3 then you see true colours...they...
    PonderingPanda PonderingPanda 22-25, M Dec 30, 2013

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    Absolutely This.....

    I can't stand users and am always upset at the fact that I always seem to be used. I am always someones second choice or the last option it seems. I had a colleague who I did a lot for. I looked after her son at work for years and was supportive towards her. Now, she barely...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F Dec 7, 2011

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    Gets Me Sick...

    Its kinda funny, actually, to see how some people find their lives to be terrible at the moment and just confronts some random person to rant about something. Well it hurts to just drop someone just because you finished youre right. Its not right. Its not logical. Its stupid and...
    ConLocura ConLocura 18-21, F Aug 9, 2010

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    Gone

    Something that drives me nuts.  Someone who pretends to be your friend, needs you to listen, wants you to hug them, calls you late at night to pour their heart out and of course being the kind person I am am there for them no matter what.  Hey I dont mind being...
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 2 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    It's So Wrong!

    I have never been the type with the attitude of, "I got mine! So, goodbye." That's so stupid in my opinion. Those who cheer me up, in my bad times, are the very ones I want around me in my good times too! Especially them, because they already seen me at my worse and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    For Example

    people who befriend you or talk to you..just so they can rant and rave about their life..then after it's said and done..they're back with their life..or origional friends etc. It is wrong for people to USE in the first place..
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Dec 24, 2009

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    Users

    why do so many of us have to go thru this. If your using a person how can you live with yourself. If your not in to it for the long run dont start. we none of us need to use others. Being dropped is so hard on everyone.
    silvercoins4 silvercoins4 66-70, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2008

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    This will apply to gay women

    and hetro men- I hate women that use you when they are feeling down in an unhappy relationship. Just dump the partner and stop making peoples lives a ******* misery. Lol rant over
    olafmakvyx olafmakvyx 18-21, F Jan 31, 2014

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    This Is Wrong!

    It's funny actually that some people seem to think it's in order to come to someone - have them help them out and then be gone in a flash leaving this person behind. It just seems to me that they're missing a fundamental truth - that you give as you receive - in life. Just...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda 36-40, F Jul 28, 2009

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    yeah ok I'm f'd up but as much as I feel this way and you don't doesn't give you the right to talk down to me. Either shove off dude or be a support. People can be such trolls.
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    This is referring to my I am a teenage lesbian.... People are going around assuming things and so on and so on.... I'm being diverse with my writing. Most of my writing is dark...
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    I finally don't love him anymore or feel like I need his air to breath or whatever (insert here corny stuff). I don't eager to hear from him again, he can burn in hell or hook with...
    Blackberries Blackberries 26-30, F 1 Response May 19

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    I hate all those things that I have got to go through just to stay and keep what we have. I have done my best in understanding you, make adjustments just to talk to you and make my...
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    Why did he come back into my life and tell me how beautiful I am and say he's still in love with me... Then went talk to me anymore... I hate that I still love him
    RahRah73 RahRah73 41-45, F 1 Response May 19

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    EP is not doing its jobs. There is real scum on here.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 4

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    Why build me up only to break me down again? It's happened so many times I don't even care anymore. Maybe I deserve this after all. If I was special, they would have stayed.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 1 Response May 19

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    Hate People Who Do Harm To Childen
    pullups26 pullups26 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    money is just a piece of paper that has been assigned value in order to control us and give some people power over others. it enslaves us and holds us back. the last thing we need...
    femininespirit femininespirit 22-25, F 2 Responses May 24

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    A lot of people who seek attention have low self esteem. They feel bad about some part of themselves, real or imagined, and need to find ways to get compliments. For example, the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 3

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    To me this works both ways, everyone knows it's wrong to look down on the poor. Also many people work very hard and practice self sacrifice to do well . People shouldn't assume...
    sirnatural sirnatural 31-35, M May 24

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    I am so sick of people acting like they care and then they turn around and act as if they never met you. like they never even cared
    XxautychanxX XxautychanxX 13-15, F May 5

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    Feeling it rn... Like just stop being so damn egotistical and acknowledge that I stuck up/helped you and don't be a condescending *******
    wedgiedbyangelalahaha wedgiedbyangelalahaha 22-25, F 3 Responses May 16

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    Same thing for the women who know they are being used, and letting them get away with it. Well, I pity these people more, than hate. It's the idea that I find so hateful.
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 4 Responses May 24

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    my siblings mean the world to me I would die for them. I have two brothers ones name is tai he is 6 and the other is richard he is 7,now I will admit that when I watch these two...
    teal00 teal00 13-15, F 6 Responses May 12

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    i have a friend, she acts like she knows me so well and i especially ******* hate that. she relates me to herself and i really hate that. i always feel like i should tell her off...
    theanoymouswreck theanoymouswreck 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    My ex was a pro at this. She spent our entire relationship manipulating my mental disorders and using them to abuse me (by pretending to be possessed, then cutting, beating, or...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 1 Response May 14

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    I'm 15 (just turned) I've lost my virginity at the age of 14 just a month back, it was with a guy who wasn't my boyfriend he was such a good friend of mine.....I just had some...
    sandy15vin sandy15vin 13-15, F 2 Responses May 7

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    gays,bisexuals,lesbian,transgender are human too learn to respect them as they respect people...I may not be like them but i love my gay friends:)
    GeramieKrissia GeramieKrissia 18-21, F May 14

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    Hey, adults that think people under 18 shouldn't use this site, go **** yourself! You're the ones (mostly) who are making this site inappropriate and something that should be used...
    YouCantEscapeMyDemons YouCantEscapeMyDemons 13-15, M 9 Responses May 22

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    Replace "men" and "women" with " people" and I agree 100%......though I do agree anyway
    justfloatingby2day justfloatingby2day 18-21, F 5 Responses May 24

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    I don't like it when people label those with disabilities as "disabled". No. They are not "disabled", they "have a disability". Because their disability is not all they are about...
    RH17 RH17 18-21, F 1 Response May 5

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    I've watched my sister and the way that her boyfriends have treated her. I always try to stand up for her or get her to stand up for herself. It kills me to see some of the things...
    digitaloverload digitaloverload 36-40, M May 24

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    you think it is ok to use me to get to my best friend. naaa you know what **** YOU :)
    nolanlewis6602 nolanlewis6602 13-15, M May 17

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    Everybody has a weakness or disability that limits them in life so none of us should be made to feel inferior. Bullying of any sort is sheer cowardice by insecure wannabes on...
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8 41-45, M May 18

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    If I ever hear or see a disabled person getting picked on I am honored bound to step up and defend them I don't care what happens to me I will stand toe to toe with absolutely any...
    sissyfag43 sissyfag43 31-35, T 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I was in the gym with my college mate yesterday and we were in there with special needs kids. And this girl was laughing at them, giving them dirty looks, and saying stuff like...
    LIVISHA LIVISHA 18-21, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I really almost lost my cool when this guy started cussing at a guy who was deaf which I feel wasn't right at all I had to speak up and say something because the guy couldn't speak...
    shericka1992 shericka1992 22-25, F 3 Responses May 7

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    I was at the mall a few years ago. There was a kid hobbling around with crutches. Some older nutwads were laughing and were like "hey look at the little cripple!" The kid with the...
    pardax pardax 13-15, M 2 Responses May 8

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