I Hate People Who Use Others to Feel Better and Then Drop Them

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    Drop Me, Will You?

    That is the dirtiest thing you can do. To say "Thanks for the help, now buzz off." is just inhumane. If a person has consoled you through a harsh time, you -must- respect them. I don't use the words love and hate lightly, but I do hate this. Go drain yourself of life...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jul 25, 2008


    Something that drives me nuts.  Someone who pretends to be your friend, needs you to listen, wants you to hug them, calls you late at night to pour their heart out and of course being the kind person I am am there for them no matter what.  Hey I dont mind being...
    tatteredwings tatteredwings
    2 Responses Mar 17, 2009

    This Is Wrong!

    It's funny actually that some people seem to think it's in order to come to someone - have them help them out and then be gone in a flash leaving this person behind. It just seems to me that they're missing a fundamental truth - that you give as you receive - in life. Just...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda
    36-40, F
    Jul 28, 2009

    For Example

    people who befriend you or talk to you..just so they can rant and rave about their life..then after it's said and done..they're back with their life..or origional friends etc. It is wrong for people to USE in the first place..
    lostprophet lostprophet
    22-25, F
    Dec 24, 2009


    why do so many of us have to go thru this. If your using a person how can you live with yourself. If your not in to it for the long run dont start. we none of us need to use others. Being dropped is so hard on everyone.
    silvercoins4 silvercoins4
    70+, F
    3 Responses Jul 9, 2008

    when someone can lie to your face about how

    they feel about you, you find yourself falling head over heels for them, all the time you are giving them 110% of you, letting yourself become vulnerable and open, trusting them...you imagine a future, a lil dream that could perhaps come real :3 then you see true colours...they...
    PonderingPanda PonderingPanda
    26-30, M
    Dec 30, 2013

    Absolutely This.....

    I can't stand users and am always upset at the fact that I always seem to be used. I am always someones second choice or the last option it seems. I had a colleague who I did a lot for. I looked after her son at work for years and was supportive towards her. Now, she barely...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 7, 2011

    Gets Me Sick...

    Its kinda funny, actually, to see how some people find their lives to be terrible at the moment and just confronts some random person to rant about something. Well it hurts to just drop someone just because you finished youre right. Its not right. Its not logical. Its stupid and...
    ConLocura ConLocura
    18-21, F
    Aug 9, 2010

    Don't You Feel My Love in Those Days???????????

    yes, he lifted me in my fall. he guided me when i met with failure, he wiped my tears in my times of sorrow, and made his happiness as mine. after three years we got a chance of chatting in facebook. i thought that he will convey his love towards me. he also told about his love...
    mylovablesoul mylovablesoul
    Oct 20, 2011

    It's So Wrong!

    I have never been the type with the attitude of, "I got mine! So, goodbye." That's so stupid in my opinion. Those who cheer me up, in my bad times, are the very ones I want around me in my good times too! Especially them, because they already seen me at my worse and...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

    This will apply to gay women

    and hetro men- I hate women that use you when they are feeling down in an unhappy relationship. Just dump the partner and stop making peoples lives a ******* misery. Lol rant over
    olafmakvyx olafmakvyx
    22-25, F
    Jan 31, 2014
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