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I Hate People Who Use Others to Feel Better and Then Drop Them

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    why do so many of us have to go thru this. If your using a person how can you live with yourself. If your not in to it for the long run dont start. we none of us need to use others. Being dropped is so hard on everyone.
    silvercoins4 silvercoins4 70+, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2008

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    when someone can lie to your face about how

    they feel about you, you find yourself falling head over heels for them, all the time you are giving them 110% of you, letting yourself become vulnerable and open, trusting them...you imagine a future, a lil dream that could perhaps come real :3 then you see true colours...they...
    PonderingPanda PonderingPanda 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    Gone

    Something that drives me nuts.  Someone who pretends to be your friend, needs you to listen, wants you to hug them, calls you late at night to pour their heart out and of course being the kind person I am am there for them no matter what.  Hey I dont mind being...
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 2 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Don't You Feel My Love in Those Days???????????

    yes, he lifted me in my fall. he guided me when i met with failure, he wiped my tears in my times of sorrow, and made his happiness as mine. after three years we got a chance of chatting in facebook. i thought that he will convey his love towards me. he also told about his love...
    mylovablesoul mylovablesoul 18-21 Oct 20, 2011

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    Drop Me, Will You?

    That is the dirtiest thing you can do. To say "Thanks for the help, now buzz off." is just inhumane. If a person has consoled you through a harsh time, you -must- respect them. I don't use the words love and hate lightly, but I do hate this. Go drain yourself of life...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    It's So Wrong!

    I have never been the type with the attitude of, "I got mine! So, goodbye." That's so stupid in my opinion. Those who cheer me up, in my bad times, are the very ones I want around me in my good times too! Especially them, because they already seen me at my worse and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    Gets Me Sick...

    Its kinda funny, actually, to see how some people find their lives to be terrible at the moment and just confronts some random person to rant about something. Well it hurts to just drop someone just because you finished youre right. Its not right. Its not logical. Its stupid and...
    ConLocura ConLocura 18-21, F Aug 9, 2010

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    For Example

    people who befriend you or talk to you..just so they can rant and rave about their life..then after it's said and done..they're back with their life..or origional friends etc. It is wrong for people to USE in the first place..
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Dec 24, 2009

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    This Is Wrong!

    It's funny actually that some people seem to think it's in order to come to someone - have them help them out and then be gone in a flash leaving this person behind. It just seems to me that they're missing a fundamental truth - that you give as you receive - in life. Just...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda 36-40, F Jul 28, 2009

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    This will apply to gay women

    and hetro men- I hate women that use you when they are feeling down in an unhappy relationship. Just dump the partner and stop making peoples lives a ******* misery. Lol rant over
    olafmakvyx olafmakvyx 18-21, F Jan 31, 2014

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    Absolutely This.....

    I can't stand users and am always upset at the fact that I always seem to be used. I am always someones second choice or the last option it seems. I had a colleague who I did a lot for. I looked after her son at work for years and was supportive towards her. Now, she barely...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F Dec 7, 2011

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    Or people who make you feel special Then make sure you know you're not Particularly special to them. I hate that
    funlecy1 funlecy1 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I hate it how there are some Americans on here who think they are top **** just because they live in America.... I've had some hate from Americans and some of them say how their...
    moonlighteclipse moonlighteclipse 16-17, F Jan 9

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    All you people who avoid people because you think they are weird or something I hate you guess what we all are weird in a way we al mess up we all have emotions we are not perfect...
    natsufairy12 natsufairy12 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    Like really though. people talk to you, you make a friendship, you tell each other secrets and explain yourself to each other, and then all of the sudden they're gone. Disappear...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I do not hate anyone, but I will say this; we are all equal and God is the only one who is greater than all. Though he is greater however, he still has love, respect and patients...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jan 10

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    Really. Tell me what you get from judging others. I'd love to know. I've been judged all my life called a druggie and junkie because I have Tourettes Syndrome (a neuropsychological...
    wolfboy1993 wolfboy1993 18-21 Jan 19

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    Hm, hate is a strong word. Maybe strongly dislike is a better way to express my feelings. Why bother to make someone feel special if your just going to leave? What a waste of...
    liveurbestlifenow liveurbestlifenow 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    Exactly. My ex likes to drop back in my life to "check on me", be super sweet, and then ghost back out. It's now up to me to cut that shyte out and take care of ME.
    essie01 essie01 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    "Don't fall in love with anyone else" He said, and I said it to him too. We were not anything special, but we had mutual feelings. We didn't embark on a relationship becaue we know...
    Seaspiritaria Seaspiritaria 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    There's something I want to say when I saw this topic just now is that.. I can see the "victim"s point of view went it happens to them but there was once when I liked this girl and...
    KenjaminL KenjaminL 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    My fiancé (now ex) proposed not even 3 weeks ago. 4 days ago he said he needed time to think and space, 4 days later he dumps me. His reasons: he wants to get black out drunk...
    DeepThoughtOfJessica DeepThoughtOfJessica 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 10

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    Ugh.. Hate this so much! :/ :(
    K33024W K33024W 13-15 Jan 10

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    He made me feel special but he just left without properly saying goodbye. Then i just found out he got engaged. Someone like him could never really like someone like me. I already...
    waruchen waruchen 31-35 1 Response Jan 14

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    This is one of the things I hate the most
    PedroNune PedroNune 16-17, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I get that it was a ploy. I get that I was gullible. I needed to feel special and he gave me that even if it was a lie to seduce. I am glad I didn't give in, but sometimes I wish...
    serendipitousone serendipitousone 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    i keep dealing with ppl like that and thats why i dont trust this evil world
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 6 Responses Jan 9

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    rolling my eyes. it happens every time
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    I just want him to realize that at the end of the day when the club is closed and the party is over...he won't have that special someone to come home to anymore...
    DeepThoughtOfJessica DeepThoughtOfJessica 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    That's 90% of the male population
    Sammi92 Sammi92 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 17

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    I say If you're not GOD why are you judging
    jovorrism jovorrism 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm just going to say it i hate people who cheat on others. I've seen and experienced cheaters in my life and i just have to say poor choice. my philosophy is if your not going to...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I hate it when people think they know me better, its like they decide how i feel its like they decide what i am saying or doing. I am the one who says the truth about myself, i am...
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F Jan 11

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    Hmmm... many to say but to keep it short I will just mention the current people I encounter in my day to day life. first my younger brother - for me all people are important and...
    psycruler psycruler 31-35, M Dec 28, 2014

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    Hi everyone and no not everyone is like me likeI am by my 21 year old special needs daughter my husband is disabled suffers with grand mall seizures well his oldest sister was...
    peaches2 peaches2 46-50, F Jan 5

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    I'm not one of those sensitive people who gets offended when someone uses the word retarded. What ****** me off is when people try to make fun of or harass disabled people for...
    saeteurn saeteurn 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    People who don't even know you and decide to comment on your post then call you a ***** just because you stating a fact. Whatever I guess, if you think I'm a ***** then I guess I'm...
    soon2016 soon2016 16-17, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    People who make fake profiles make me sick! I got this app to meet people who are just like me because where i live, NO ONE is like me... But those selfish predators who make fake...
    Wehtt4m Wehtt4m 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    When people ask me to do something like drive them to the airport, or help them move, and I say no, it bugs me when they cannot accept my answer. Either they continue to ask me to...
    hanticklish hanticklish 18-21, M Dec 30, 2014

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    I have the most beautiful niece in the world. Her name is Shiloh and she has Down syndrome. But that doesn't define her, in my opinion it is nothing more than a trait of hers. She...
    j1494 j1494 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    People who think they know everything are a great annoyance to those of us who do. Isaac Asimov
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    How long will it take for us to actually be people . Why does my relevancy and worth depend on a man?
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    How many of you fall for all the fake profiles? Really,do you even read some of them. If they are true,then we are really ****** up as humans.
    jusleaving jusleaving 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    So there was a woman who went through breast cancer and took a nude pic of herself to show her strength as a cancer fighter and another of a woman breast feeding her child. These...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Maybe it's because I never had grandparents of my own... at least, to appreciate. One died in 1989 (far before I was born) and the other three died within six weeks of each other...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I was working in a company were the tea boy is from other country that is economically weaker and backward but i treated him with respect but in return he spoke well did well and I...
    psycruler psycruler 31-35, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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