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I Hate People Who Use Others to Feel Better and Then Drop Them

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    It's So Wrong!

    I have never been the type with the attitude of, "I got mine! So, goodbye." That's so stupid in my opinion. Those who cheer me up, in my bad times, are the very ones I want around me in my good times too! Especially them, because they already seen me at my worse and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    Don't You Feel My Love in Those Days???????????

    yes, he lifted me in my fall. he guided me when i met with failure, he wiped my tears in my times of sorrow, and made his happiness as mine. after three years we got a chance of chatting in facebook. i thought that he will convey his love towards me. he also told about his love...
    mylovablesoul mylovablesoul 18-21 Oct 20, 2011

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    Gets Me Sick...

    Its kinda funny, actually, to see how some people find their lives to be terrible at the moment and just confronts some random person to rant about something. Well it hurts to just drop someone just because you finished youre right. Its not right. Its not logical. Its stupid and...
    ConLocura ConLocura 18-21, F Aug 9, 2010

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    Users

    why do so many of us have to go thru this. If your using a person how can you live with yourself. If your not in to it for the long run dont start. we none of us need to use others. Being dropped is so hard on everyone.
    silvercoins4 silvercoins4 66-70, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2008

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    Drop Me, Will You?

    That is the dirtiest thing you can do. To say "Thanks for the help, now buzz off." is just inhumane. If a person has consoled you through a harsh time, you -must- respect them. I don't use the words love and hate lightly, but I do hate this. Go drain yourself of life...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    For Example

    people who befriend you or talk to you..just so they can rant and rave about their life..then after it's said and done..they're back with their life..or origional friends etc. It is wrong for people to USE in the first place..
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Dec 24, 2009

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    when someone can lie to your face about how

    they feel about you, you find yourself falling head over heels for them, all the time you are giving them 110% of you, letting yourself become vulnerable and open, trusting them...you imagine a future, a lil dream that could perhaps come real :3 then you see true colours...they...
    PonderingPanda PonderingPanda 22-25, M Dec 30, 2013

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    Absolutely This.....

    I can't stand users and am always upset at the fact that I always seem to be used. I am always someones second choice or the last option it seems. I had a colleague who I did a lot for. I looked after her son at work for years and was supportive towards her. Now, she barely...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F Dec 7, 2011

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    This will apply to gay women

    and hetro men- I hate women that use you when they are feeling down in an unhappy relationship. Just dump the partner and stop making peoples lives a ******* misery. Lol rant over
    olafmakvyx olafmakvyx 18-21, F Jan 31, 2014

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    This Is Wrong!

    It's funny actually that some people seem to think it's in order to come to someone - have them help them out and then be gone in a flash leaving this person behind. It just seems to me that they're missing a fundamental truth - that you give as you receive - in life. Just...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda 36-40, F Jul 28, 2009

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    Gone

    Something that drives me nuts.  Someone who pretends to be your friend, needs you to listen, wants you to hug them, calls you late at night to pour their heart out and of course being the kind person I am am there for them no matter what.  Hey I dont mind being...
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 2 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    i relate to this much.so exausting right
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    wawbanunagway wawbanunagway 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 days ago

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    nateh25 nateh25 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    hawaiinpunch hawaiinpunch 18-21, M a week ago

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    nobodynumbah8 nobodynumbah8 13-15, F a week ago

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    Or the ones who are frigging and are such cowards they can't tell the truth about it!!!
    ginaw35 ginaw35 46-50, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    also by the way..it'd be wolves* not wolfs.
    Cocrispy Cocrispy 22-25, M a week ago

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    If you have ever hurt or killed a wolf, I loathe you to the highest degree of loathing. You must burn forever in the fires of hell! And I will personally make sure you go there!
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    I can think of another "empath" Elshara. our old Admin on the whole Starseed thing.
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M Feb 3

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    http://www.experienceproject.com/about/skyofamethyst case in point.
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M Feb 3

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    I dunno what it is but most of the time around the house im like this because it just feels better than socks or shoes :P
    LizzieTheKitty LizzieTheKitty 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    That **** spins both ways....no one has any right to judge anyone for being broke just as well as the rich dude getting **** on for having money! It depends on how he earned it or...
    Spitbak Spitbak 46-50, M Feb 3

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    My best friend does that to everyone and it's really obvious that she does it to cover her own insecurities, but it's so annoying and people who doesn't know how she is always end...
    Danimp5 Danimp5 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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