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I Hate People Who Use Others to Feel Better and Then Drop Them

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    This will apply to gay women

    and hetro men- I hate women that use you when they are feeling down in an unhappy relationship. Just dump the partner and stop making peoples lives a ******* misery. Lol rant over
    olafmakvyx olafmakvyx 18-21, F Jan 31

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    Gone

    Something that drives me nuts.  Someone who pretends to be your friend, needs you to listen, wants you to hug them, calls you late at night to pour their heart out and of course being the kind person I am am there for them no matter what.  Hey I dont mind being...
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 2 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Drop Me, Will You?

    That is the dirtiest thing you can do. To say "Thanks for the help, now buzz off." is just inhumane. If a person has consoled you through a harsh time, you -must- respect them. I don't use the words love and hate lightly, but I do hate this. Go drain yourself of life...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    This Is Wrong!

    It's funny actually that some people seem to think it's in order to come to someone - have them help them out and then be gone in a flash leaving this person behind. It just seems to me that they're missing a fundamental truth - that you give as you receive - in life. Just...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2009

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    For Example

    people who befriend you or talk to you..just so they can rant and rave about their life..then after it's said and done..they're back with their life..or origional friends etc. It is wrong for people to USE in the first place..
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Dec 24, 2009

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    when someone can lie to your face about how

    they feel about you, you find yourself falling head over heels for them, all the time you are giving them 110% of you, letting yourself become vulnerable and open, trusting them...you imagine a future, a lil dream that could perhaps come real :3 then you see true colours...they...
    PonderingPanda PonderingPanda 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    It's So Wrong!

    I have never been the type with the attitude of, "I got mine! So, goodbye." That's so stupid in my opinion. Those who cheer me up, in my bad times, are the very ones I want around me in my good times too! Especially them, because they already seen me at my worse and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    Absolutely This.....

    I can't stand users and am always upset at the fact that I always seem to be used. I am always someones second choice or the last option it seems. I had a colleague who I did a lot for. I looked after her son at work for years and was supportive towards her. Now, she barely...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F Dec 7, 2011

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    Users

    why do so many of us have to go thru this. If your using a person how can you live with yourself. If your not in to it for the long run dont start. we none of us need to use others. Being dropped is so hard on everyone.
    silvercoins4 silvercoins4 70+, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2008

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    Gets Me Sick...

    Its kinda funny, actually, to see how some people find their lives to be terrible at the moment and just confronts some random person to rant about something. Well it hurts to just drop someone just because you finished youre right. Its not right. Its not logical. Its stupid and...
    PorcelainChinaDoll PorcelainChinaDoll 18-21, F Aug 9, 2010

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    Don't You Feel My Love in Those Days???????????

    yes, he lifted me in my fall. he guided me when i met with failure, he wiped my tears in my times of sorrow, and made his happiness as mine. after three years we got a chance of chatting in facebook. i thought that he will convey his love towards me. he also told about his love...
    mylovablesoul mylovablesoul 18-21 Oct 20, 2011

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    Change is constant. Even if just chronologically.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I passionately hate people who embarrass me in front of others for whatever reason they have. This thwarts me in many ways to get around with my live. I really hate it. I would...
    KaiWong KaiWong 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I wish these experiences would stop with the "I hate people that..." You shouldn't hate anyone, because when you hate you are really hating God! So fist off I want to say I do not...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    People who do are immature bunch of lowlives how can they stoop so low!?! It just shows me their stinking attitude and that they're sick in the head! I mean why would people do...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Okay, hate maybe abit extravagated. I am not sayings its not dumb. But it does not make one dumb dumb. I could easily come with an counter attack of how dumb the other person is...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    VoraciousTurtles VoraciousTurtles 16-17, F Aug 20

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    SonoftheDark SonoftheDark 18-21, M 16 hrs ago

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    I'm feeling down...again. Is there anyone I can talk to?
    xsimplysara xsimplysara 16-17, F 3 Responses 48 mins ago

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    They should just take all the rapists, pedophiles, child molesters, murderers, and hardcore thief's and put them on a island surrounded with barbed wire. So they still have freedom...
    FunSizedNigga FunSizedNigga 22-25, F Aug 21

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    They've obviously got some extreme self esteem issues to work out themselves if they feel the need to impersonate someone else. But that doesn't make it okay to hurt and destroy...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M Sep 1

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    8/ 14/ 14 This is a true recounting of how ridiculous texting has become. My first question to my son was why do you text all the time when a phone conversation is so much easier...
    minimeowz minimeowz 61-65, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I just hate it when people at school joke about people being autistic and a downie.. It's not funny it hurts peoples feelings and how do you know if that person isn't best friends...
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 17

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    PrettyLikeHelloKitty PrettyLikeHelloKitty 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 13-15, F Sep 6

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    WigginsEP WigginsEP 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    My ex, keeps talking for me. And he blames everything in the fact that he's depressed. No he's not! He's not in the slightest! (Disclaimer: I know that a lot if people do have...
    Xxxshanxxx Xxxshanxxx 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Unless they are perverts, then you can mock them
    goodwillhunting goodwillhunting 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    SmrtGuyUT SmrtGuyUT 61-65, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    I love it when people try to spite me and I didn't even do anything wrong. It's funny to watch them try, and even funnier when they think I care. :)
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I feel you have to put 100 people in my circle just to find one or two that are sincere. Why can't people be who they are?
    kma247 kma247 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    I went to target and there was a disabled kid in a wheel chair he couldn't talk or any of that and some old lady walked by and sterred and more people passed and just looked and...
    PANDASAREAWESOME67 PANDASAREAWESOME67 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 20

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    They r so weird and they should be ashamed of themselves for stalking people online ugh weird!!😒😒
    nadia721 nadia721 13-15, F Sep 1

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    seriously? why are people making fake profiles? i hate that **** .
    Jthelover Jthelover 18-21 5 Responses Aug 18

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    I think its pure evil :( I hate too
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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