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I Hate People Who Use Others to Feel Better and Then Drop Them

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    Don't You Feel My Love in Those Days???????????

    yes, he lifted me in my fall. he guided me when i met with failure, he wiped my tears in my times of sorrow, and made his happiness as mine. after three years we got a chance of chatting in facebook. i thought that he will convey his love towards me. he also told about his love...
    mylovablesoul mylovablesoul 18-21 Oct 20, 2011

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    This will apply to gay women

    and hetro men- I hate women that use you when they are feeling down in an unhappy relationship. Just dump the partner and stop making peoples lives a ******* misery. Lol rant over
    olafmakvyx olafmakvyx 18-21, F Jan 31

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    Gone

    Something that drives me nuts.  Someone who pretends to be your friend, needs you to listen, wants you to hug them, calls you late at night to pour their heart out and of course being the kind person I am am there for them no matter what.  Hey I dont mind being...
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 2 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    when someone can lie to your face about how

    they feel about you, you find yourself falling head over heels for them, all the time you are giving them 110% of you, letting yourself become vulnerable and open, trusting them...you imagine a future, a lil dream that could perhaps come real :3 then you see true colours...they...
    PonderingPanda PonderingPanda 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    Users

    why do so many of us have to go thru this. If your using a person how can you live with yourself. If your not in to it for the long run dont start. we none of us need to use others. Being dropped is so hard on everyone.
    silvercoins4 silvercoins4 70+, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2008

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    This Is Wrong!

    It's funny actually that some people seem to think it's in order to come to someone - have them help them out and then be gone in a flash leaving this person behind. It just seems to me that they're missing a fundamental truth - that you give as you receive - in life. Just...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2009

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    Drop Me, Will You?

    That is the dirtiest thing you can do. To say "Thanks for the help, now buzz off." is just inhumane. If a person has consoled you through a harsh time, you -must- respect them. I don't use the words love and hate lightly, but I do hate this. Go drain yourself of life...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    Absolutely This.....

    I can't stand users and am always upset at the fact that I always seem to be used. I am always someones second choice or the last option it seems. I had a colleague who I did a lot for. I looked after her son at work for years and was supportive towards her. Now, she barely...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F Dec 7, 2011

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    It's So Wrong!

    I have never been the type with the attitude of, "I got mine! So, goodbye." That's so stupid in my opinion. Those who cheer me up, in my bad times, are the very ones I want around me in my good times too! Especially them, because they already seen me at my worse and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    For Example

    people who befriend you or talk to you..just so they can rant and rave about their life..then after it's said and done..they're back with their life..or origional friends etc. It is wrong for people to USE in the first place..
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Dec 24, 2009

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    I hate when people think they are better than you all because they could do one worthless thing better than you can.
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    People always end up leaving me. I don't know why I bother trusting humans anymore.
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    This has happened way to many times. It's the reason why i have trust issues and can't let people in
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    There are too many people who try to control you, but they do this just because they know deep down you are better than they are. So let them be and ignore it ;-)
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    I would like to point out we are not all the same some of us are looking for meaningful relationships and the ones who use women are just boys, real men respect women.
    klain45 klain45 26-30, M Apr 6

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    when your super ready to leave but you can't because the other people is not yet ready and they are still preparing it really annoys me.. every time when we have an outing with...
    mcindygrace mcindygrace 22-25, F Apr 9

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    I dont know I just do and I dont get them. I dobt even get how you can't support gay marriage. If U want to debate about it message me!
    Tessisweird Tessisweird 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    In where I live the core value is money. There s nth left. I can't understand why people are so twisted.
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    I felt as though I was under control and I was trapped by a 'friend' for 2 years... She had problems... And it felt as though if she died it would have been my fault because 'I was...
    KT98 KT98 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    More like a love hate type deal. I love they way they look and their drive to acquire life goals but once I get to know them I find them mean and unaffected rigid and unforgiving...
    just2lovelee just2lovelee 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I dont know, but I have always waiting someone. Once, there was a guy who ask me for a date. Disgusting, I wait him for four hours and more. When I text him, he said that he ride...
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    It's happening right in my town and I hate that nothing is being done. Just down the road, there are three pitbulls that are left outside most of the day. Chained and unable to...
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    With a passion do I hate it so much! I have family and friends that have disabilities. They are just like everybody else and they are honestly the most compassionate, sweet people...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I hate that ppl anise animals how would they feel it that happend to them
    Helper233 Helper233 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    My aunt is disabled and I love her so much because even though no one can really understand what she's saying I feel like me and her have a special bond we have many things in...
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    It's just a big waste of time. It's useless!!! For me,a classmate of mine always talks behind my back. I was mad at first but,I realized later that people like him have nothing to...
    Mary0710 Mary0710 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I admire anyone who is willing to bare someones bottom and give them a good sound spanking when they need it most.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 19

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    It's started since last year. He was my best friend, and we would always hang out. I was his friend and nobody else. But then he started liking me a lot more than I thought, and so...
    Mariella123 Mariella123 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I am sure that everyone encountered a "know it all" at some point! My problem is, I work with one! This person ALWAYS has something to say about everything!!!! Most days I am...
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    This is for Ruth wherever she may be.She was a girl in my class.She had polio and we used to help her up the stairs.She had a smiling face.I suddenly remembered her today.
    mona87 mona87 46-50, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    I REALLY HATE disrespectful people! I think germaphobic people are the most disrespectful people on this Earth. These people will not shake your hand, but they will go out to...
    Missinterpret Missinterpret 31-35, F Apr 6

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    My mom is one of those people. Whenever I'm being quiet, she has to talk it up way too much and jump from subject to subject. Also, the people at school who talk way too much...
    laubrown1 laubrown1 16-17, F Apr 11

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    My mom is a special ed teacher and I want to be a speech therapist for special ed. I work with the kids a lot and love them so much and it seriously breaks my heart when people...
    oliviahuss1 oliviahuss1 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    I was just watching hunger games and my mum dad and brother were talking then they were eating so loudly!!! So annoying :( :(
    yunlikesanime yunlikesanime 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    If I see you've posted pics of "your wife" or "yourself" that are obviously commercial or different people, I will remove you from my circle. I don't mind albums labeled "Things I...
    SamanthaLei SamanthaLei 46-50, M Mar 24

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    Why can't people love other people for Christ sake!!!! We can't all be the same, we were made to be different, how can you hate a black, a white, Mexican. It's just so annoying...
    mrij mrij 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I got picked on and bullied since as far as I can remember for everything from being poor and having red hair and for being different and I had no friends because no one wanted to...
    JadenLangVageta JadenLangVageta 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Having my disability, I can understand what the children go through. I feel looked down upon by some on this site. I recently told someone here that I have epilepsy and they...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 8

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    Lies.... I just.... I can't take them anymore..... Just make them stop....
    calicorex4 calicorex4 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    People like that are ignorant and stupid. They don't know him much they hurt that person, what if they had a disability also? Wouldn't they get mad or sad if someone made fun of...
    captainlexter captainlexter 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate guys that are disrespectful... I'm taken so respect that.
    arenales arenales 18-21, F Mar 21

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    There's millions of dogs just wondering the streets in Mexico. There's also a lot if traffic and traffic and wondering dogs just isn't good. I was walking around one time and I see...
    Live5772 Live5772 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I wish people could really understand the impact of what they do or say. Everyone is fighting some kind of battle,so thats why you should always show love
    4evamaureen 4evamaureen 22-25, F Mar 30

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    They can't help it and most of the time they are just the sweetest people!
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    Cameltoelove Cameltoelove 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Xybots Xybots 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    me too! I just cant understand it
    Tessisweird Tessisweird 18-21, F 1 day ago

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