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I Hate People Who Use Others to Feel Better and Then Drop Them

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    why do so many of us have to go thru this. If your using a person how can you live with yourself. If your not in to it for the long run dont start. we none of us need to use others. Being dropped is so hard on everyone.
    silvercoins4 silvercoins4 70+, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2008

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    people who befriend you or talk to you..just so they can rant and rave about their life..then after it's said and done..they're back with their life..or origional friends etc. It is wrong for people to USE in the first place..
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Dec 24, 2009

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    when someone can lie to your face about how

    they feel about you, you find yourself falling head over heels for them, all the time you are giving them 110% of you, letting yourself become vulnerable and open, trusting them...you imagine a future, a lil dream that could perhaps come real :3 then you see true colours...they...
    PonderingPanda PonderingPanda 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    Absolutely This.....

    I can't stand users and am always upset at the fact that I always seem to be used. I am always someones second choice or the last option it seems. I had a colleague who I did a lot for. I looked after her son at work for years and was supportive towards her. Now, she barely...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F Dec 7, 2011

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    Gone

    Something that drives me nuts.  Someone who pretends to be your friend, needs you to listen, wants you to hug them, calls you late at night to pour their heart out and of course being the kind person I am am there for them no matter what.  Hey I dont mind being...
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 2 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Don't You Feel My Love in Those Days???????????

    yes, he lifted me in my fall. he guided me when i met with failure, he wiped my tears in my times of sorrow, and made his happiness as mine. after three years we got a chance of chatting in facebook. i thought that he will convey his love towards me. he also told about his love...
    mylovablesoul mylovablesoul 18-21 Oct 20, 2011

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    This Is Wrong!

    It's funny actually that some people seem to think it's in order to come to someone - have them help them out and then be gone in a flash leaving this person behind. It just seems to me that they're missing a fundamental truth - that you give as you receive - in life. Just...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2009

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    Drop Me, Will You?

    That is the dirtiest thing you can do. To say "Thanks for the help, now buzz off." is just inhumane. If a person has consoled you through a harsh time, you -must- respect them. I don't use the words love and hate lightly, but I do hate this. Go drain yourself of life...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    This will apply to gay women

    and hetro men- I hate women that use you when they are feeling down in an unhappy relationship. Just dump the partner and stop making peoples lives a ******* misery. Lol rant over
    olafmakvyx olafmakvyx 18-21, F Jan 31

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    Gets Me Sick...

    Its kinda funny, actually, to see how some people find their lives to be terrible at the moment and just confronts some random person to rant about something. Well it hurts to just drop someone just because you finished youre right. Its not right. Its not logical. Its stupid and...
    ConLocura ConLocura 18-21, F Aug 9, 2010

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    It's So Wrong!

    I have never been the type with the attitude of, "I got mine! So, goodbye." That's so stupid in my opinion. Those who cheer me up, in my bad times, are the very ones I want around me in my good times too! Especially them, because they already seen me at my worse and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    I don't hate anyone, but this experience makes me want to vent. My friend who is female used to compliment me, hug me all the time, but me things randomly (jewelry, dresses, even a...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 18

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    Don't just come into my life make me feel great then turn around and walk away then I go all the way back to step one
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F Sep 18

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    Or when you talk to someone and they are so nice to you and sweet and everything and you feel special, then you find out that he/she talks like that to everyone.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 19

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    Sometimes it feels as though there is a disconnect between my outward voice and my inside voice. Maybe because words could never describe certain things and even though you can try...
    wanderquietly wanderquietly 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18

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    I despise it when someone always try to find a way to make you praise something in their looks, life, and personality. When in the end they do nothing to make their life better...
    OutOfTheOrdinary OutOfTheOrdinary 13-15, F Sep 2

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    What's with people that wanna make you feel all deserved and warm inside and then just abandon you
    youguyssuck69 youguyssuck69 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 20

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    Always sad when you meet someone who boosts your ego and makes you feel good. And then for whatever reason they leave. Leaves you with a hole in your sole.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 19

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    I met a guy online, we talked on the phone and then my ex came back talking to me. I was so lonely that I needed to talk to someone. This guy made me feel special and tell me that...
    nonichecliche nonichecliche 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 19

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    Maybe it is your fault? Did he/she feel special like you?
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    If you know you are going to leave me pls don't make me feel special
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 19

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    He made me fall in love with him, he said he loves me so much, and that it is painful knowing that we've been seperated by distance. Too far. We skyped almost everyday. And then...
    paupaw paupaw 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 19

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    If you're not serious about your feelings PLEASE leave me the **** alone, I'm getting tired of laying all my cards on the table just for you to back the **** out at the last min. I...
    suxsco suxsco 18-21, F Sep 19

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    Change is constant. Even if just chronologically.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 8

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    No one can judge and if you do judge you're nothing but a piece of ****** up **** !
    Yovanna Yovanna 18-21, F Sep 16

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    I'm always hopeful for love but I'm becoming jaded with it too. I can't remember the last selfless person to come into my life.
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 18

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    I am guilty of this myself sadly... But until I was a victim recently it put things into perspective. Possibly one of the cruelest things someone could do.
    Jb2402 Jb2402 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    >They are beautiful.They look original..They look adorable..Gorgious..and really much more.You wonder where they come from?Just type in address bar Crossdressers in saree images...
    ExUser007 ExUser007 18-21 1 Response Sep 4

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    I passionately hate people who embarrass me in front of others for whatever reason they have. This thwarts me in many ways to get around with my live. I really hate it. I would...
    KaiWong KaiWong 18-21, M Sep 13

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    I hate people who try to one-up everybody else by hating people who try to one-up the people who hate being one-up'ed by everybody else.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    People who do are immature bunch of lowlives how can they stoop so low!?! It just shows me their stinking attitude and that they're sick in the head! I mean why would people do...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    i cant get interested in ukip, as they are packed full of haters, i wont be freinds with people who are bigots, as their negativity grinds me down. i take people as i find them...
    kuminme kuminme 26-30 Sep 8

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    Who's sick of people treating animals inhumanely? Want to show these jerks just how "funny" it is to get beat up? I'm casting a new show for SPIKE TV where people who have a...
    CastNow CastNow 31-35, F a week ago

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    My friend's brother has orchestrated the divorce of his elderly parents for his own financial gain. The parents are elderly and the mother has beginnings of dementia. The brother...
    crede800 crede800 51-55 Sep 16

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    People who take advantage of the Elderly parents or elderly people should never be mistreated, disrespectful or never allowed to be near elderly people. They all needed love & be...
    DiscoNight1970s DiscoNight1970s 46-50, F Sep 16

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    It's been lot of bad experience across my friends and family that they all tend to tell lie , I never wanted to be one of them ,feel very angry and really sorry for them. My...
    hussein85 hussein85 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    I'm fairly sure this is sort of a quote but I can't remember who said it. Anyway, if you talk a lot, you're hearing what you already know. If you're open to hearing what others say...
    rapfordays rapfordays 13-15, F 15 hrs ago

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    Hey everyone I'm Rachel I'm 17 I'm in a weelchir since a baby can't walk I used to self harm but have been clean for too years now I used to be bulled I have moved school I have no...
    Rach1544 Rach1544 16-17, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    They've obviously got some extreme self esteem issues to work out themselves if they feel the need to impersonate someone else. But that doesn't make it okay to hurt and destroy...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M Sep 1

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    /rant Today on my regular minecraft server (which I almost don't want to play on anymore.) I was told I by a staff member that the youngsters who play deserve to be berated and...
    PrettyLikeHelloKitty PrettyLikeHelloKitty 26-30, F Sep 10

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    I hate it when people bully others I wish I could just get violent but I know that won't solve anything
    Gian422 Gian422 18-21, M Sep 15

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    Unless they are perverts, then you can mock them
    goodwillhunting goodwillhunting 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I used to be mocked, but now that I'm not being mocked anymore— I just have this feeling of defending somebody. Something that always happened and eventually turned me into a...
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 16-17, F Sep 6

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    My ex, keeps talking for me. And he blames everything in the fact that he's depressed. No he's not! He's not in the slightest! (Disclaimer: I know that a lot if people do have...
    Xxxshanxxx Xxxshanxxx 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Hostess life- so I'm a hostess at a local restaurant in my hometown. Last weekend was the start of football season. It was kind of slow. We had 3 hostess on and our seater went...
    HaleyP HaleyP 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 14

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    Today a woman was being bullied for being big,so i helped her with her bags and glared at the "bullies" the entire time making them feel as stupid as they were acting...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 16

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    This is one of the most obnoxious things someone can do. I say something and it's either "Oh, I've had it worse" or "I've had it better". It's not always about you.
    Dayman0x Dayman0x 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 18

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    There is absolutely no reason to ever hit your animal. Yea you might hit them during a training process. But if you are a person that can't manage your anger and you feel like you...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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