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I Hate People Who Use Others to Feel Better and Then Drop Them

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    people who befriend you or talk to you..just so they can rant and rave about their life..then after it's said and done..they're back with their life..or origional friends etc. It is wrong for people to USE in the first place..
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Dec 24, 2009

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    Gets Me Sick...

    Its kinda funny, actually, to see how some people find their lives to be terrible at the moment and just confronts some random person to rant about something. Well it hurts to just drop someone just because you finished youre right. Its not right. Its not logical. Its stupid and...
    PorcelainChinaDoll PorcelainChinaDoll 16-17, F Aug 9, 2010

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    Drop Me, Will You?

    That is the dirtiest thing you can do. To say "Thanks for the help, now buzz off." is just inhumane. If a person has consoled you through a harsh time, you -must- respect them. I don't use the words love and hate lightly, but I do hate this. Go drain yourself of life...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 25, 2008

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    Gone

    Something that drives me nuts.  Someone who pretends to be your friend, needs you to listen, wants you to hug them, calls you late at night to pour their heart out and of course being the kind person I am am there for them no matter what.  Hey I dont mind being...
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 2 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    This Is Wrong!

    It's funny actually that some people seem to think it's in order to come to someone - have them help them out and then be gone in a flash leaving this person behind. It just seems to me that they're missing a fundamental truth - that you give as you receive - in life. Just...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2009

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    It's So Wrong!

    I have never been the type with the attitude of, "I got mine! So, goodbye." That's so stupid in my opinion. Those who cheer me up, in my bad times, are the very ones I want around me in my good times too! Especially them, because they already seen me at my worse and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    when someone can lie to your face about how

    they feel about you, you find yourself falling head over heels for them, all the time you are giving them 110% of you, letting yourself become vulnerable and open, trusting them...you imagine a future, a lil dream that could perhaps come real :3 then you see true colours...they...
    PonderingPanda PonderingPanda 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    This will apply to gay women

    and hetro men- I hate women that use you when they are feeling down in an unhappy relationship. Just dump the partner and stop making peoples lives a ******* misery. Lol rant over
    olafmakvyx olafmakvyx 18-21, F Jan 31

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    Absolutely This.....

    I can't stand users and am always upset at the fact that I always seem to be used. I am always someones second choice or the last option it seems. I had a colleague who I did a lot for. I looked after her son at work for years and was supportive towards her. Now, she barely...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F Dec 7, 2011

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    Users

    why do so many of us have to go thru this. If your using a person how can you live with yourself. If your not in to it for the long run dont start. we none of us need to use others. Being dropped is so hard on everyone.
    silvercoins4 silvercoins4 70+, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2008

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    Don't You Feel My Love in Those Days???????????

    yes, he lifted me in my fall. he guided me when i met with failure, he wiped my tears in my times of sorrow, and made his happiness as mine. after three years we got a chance of chatting in facebook. i thought that he will convey his love towards me. he also told about his love...
    mylovablesoul mylovablesoul 18-21 Oct 20, 2011

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    I can't ******* stand this.....I am so tired of this happening....why can't some people just be real and straightforward about what they want....I hate when ppl try to lead me on...
    VivirLaVida VivirLaVida 16-17, F Jul 31

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    Has happened to me loads of times. But just something that I'm currently going through, it breaks me. I met this really amazing guy, who always made me smile and I loved being...
    Niveda14 Niveda14 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    EricRadliffe EricRadliffe 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    Since EP no longer lets us format our stories, I think we should start posting everything as images... or maybe I'm just too lazy to type it out :)
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I met him online, we shared our first Skype call and decided to date... Everything was great until July, when he left to go to a camp. I found out he was dating another girl at the...
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    Stop fuckking judging people. Your no better. God i hate people who judge
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    I hate people who talk and be on their phone during a movie. Sometimes I want to throw their phone. And yell at them to SHUT THE **** UP
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    I wish these experiences would stop with the "I hate people that..." You shouldn't hate anyone, because when you hate you are really hating God! So fist off I want to say I do not...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Just because im really a 97yo male nudist from Japan why cant i make a fake profile and pretend to be a hot 26yo babe so no i dont hate people who make fake profiles, would i have...
    ExtremeNext ExtremeNext 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    All my life I have been judged by people. First let me explain why I was judged. My mother is the victim of Rape. I am a product of Rape. The religion she is in thought that the...
    Lilique Lilique 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I saw this horrific video of some 12 year olds putting oil on a tiny puppy then setting it on fire it was ******* horrible!! they were just laughing at his while it cried and...
    TargetAimShootKill TargetAimShootKill 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    so theres this girl that use to be in my group, ill name her allie (not her real name). any who on her birthday party she was super happy, but she invited a girl she liked who was...
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M Jul 30

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    It's not okay, no matter the circumstance. By cheating you betray the person who you supposedly "love" and throw away their trust. It is a horrible and despicable thing to do...
    VoraciousTurtles VoraciousTurtles 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    They say it's because we're unhealthy and killing ourselves. What are people who drink alcohol or smoke cigarettes doing? Alcoholics kill their organs and when they drive drunk...
    Sugarcoatedfatty Sugarcoatedfatty 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    I absolutely hate it. When people talk, laugh, scream, etc. during movies it drives me livid, I literally feel like throwing my popcorn at 'em to pass my point. I understand the...
    Gabbygirl123 Gabbygirl123 13-15, F Jul 28

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    I ******* hate people that talk so ******* disrespectfully about someone.
    abbyseaney abbyseaney 16-17, T Jul 30

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    Let's not even bother with mentioning genders. People who abuse other people suck. It doesn't matter what gender they are.
    blargendee blargendee 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    The ironic thing is that the bunch of people who bullied me on this site hide behind this same banner. I didnt realise it was a bully gang until i noticed the affiliations through...
    PinkNPunky PinkNPunky 31-35, T 1 Response Aug 11

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    It takes a lot for me to hate someone. So to be specific I don't hate the person I hate the behavior. I deal with kids five days a week all day in the summer. It's a martial arts...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    I'm upset with one of my family members. I'm a Christian, and so is my aunt but it seems like our worldviews are completely different. I have a hard time keeping my patience and...
    ifyouseekamyxxx ifyouseekamyxxx 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So I made this edit of Luke Hemmings and posted on Facebook on his birthday. I trust the people on my Facebook because they are all my friends but my best friend's cousin posted it...
    littlefighter littlefighter 13-15, F Aug 6

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    Last night I had some friends over for drinks, and two of my so called male friends made some insulating comments at my X wife's expense behind her back. My X wife is a disabled...
    gordie60 gordie60 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I have special needs education, which means I work with kids in kindergarten and elementary school, that suffer from disabilities or have some diagnoses that keeps them on the...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    There is just no plausible excuse in my book, you can be sarcastic sure even be bitchy at times- but going so much as to disrespect someone just to make yourself look cool or above...
    Sei02 Sei02 18-21, F Jul 25

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    I have a disability, a mental one. And some people may think that I'm a bit arrogant or obsessive. That I care too much for people with the same disability because they are 'just...
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 3

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    They should just take all the rapists, pedophiles, child molesters, murderers, and hardcore thief's and put them on a island surrounded with barbed wire. So they still have freedom...
    FunSizedNigga FunSizedNigga 22-25, F 13 hrs ago

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    8/ 14/ 14 This is a true recounting of how ridiculous texting has become. My first question to my son was why do you text all the time when a phone conversation is so much easier...
    minimeowz minimeowz 61-65, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I just hate it when people at school joke about people being autistic and a downie.. It's not funny it hurts peoples feelings and how do you know if that person isn't best friends...
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    As an older man honesty I just don't get this. I grew up in an era that you just fought a bully with your fists and not your words.I was that skinny kid with a lot of hair that got...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M Jul 27

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    This girl at my school ALWAYS acts depressed! Her mom was raped at 14 years old and that's how she was born. She tells me all the time that she feels like a mistake because she...
    AnonymousJSS AnonymousJSS 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    Before I enter any kind of food restaurants I attend to wash my hands then eat . I have seen people don't even think of washing their hands it really ****** me off so much that I...
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    Treat others the way you want to be treated! Pay it forward!
    graeff120 graeff120 36-40, F Jul 31

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    Ur mean pooheads. Does it make u feel good hurting others, especially disabled people. Practically no-one wants to be disabled but we are. So don't make our lives harder 😊
    Nickstar13 Nickstar13 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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    this is very interesting so get ready. I was on instagram and I saw people complaining about how they miss Connor Franta and yada yada, the I see this hashtag "#cutforconnor...
    auxds auxds 13-15, F Jul 31

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    Today at work we had a couple come in with their son who had autism. You could tell something was wrong with him by the way he carried himself and talked. Okay anyway my coworkers...
    HaleyP HaleyP 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    I can't even describe the anger that runs through me when it happens. This girl used to make fun of the disabled kids at my school all the time. And each time I got pissed off and...
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3