I Hate Pity

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    I don't mind it towards other people

    but when people pity me its like its a crime I don't get it, it tends to make me feel worse :P
    ItsCalledLife ItsCalledLife
    16-17, F
    Nov 6, 2015

    I don't know why people think pity is welcome.

    It's demeaning. If you want to help, then help, but don't ever pity.
    Twichl Twichl
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2015

    Please don't pity me.

    It makes me think less of my self. It makes me feel worse.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 31, 2014

    When you get to that point of trusting someone

    and you tell them about your past. They instantly jump to pity you. I loath that, I didn't want to tell.you for.that very reason. I know they do it because theycare and feel bad but no , pity makes it worse.
    Living2Heights Living2Heights
    18-21, F
    Jul 13, 2014


    I have such bitterness about pity. This is story is a cathartic rant of that bitterness. November 19th is Transgender Day of Remembrance. It is a day to remember, mourn, and celebrate the lives of transgender people who have been hurt, degraded, and killed. Transphobic violence...
    Corvid Corvid
    22-25, M
    Oct 8, 2010

    I Hate It When People Give Me That Look

    I'm sure someone out here knows what look I'm talking about. The second you tell someone some sad story about yourself they just look at you with such pity. Then of course there's the concerned phone calls and open arms. Then they all start making excuses for you because now that...
    abigail12 abigail12
    1 Response Jul 29, 2011

    I'm in a scootmobile

    whenever I go outside. A lot of the time, especially at the mall, people give me those disgusting pity looks and pity smiles because I'm young and in a scootmobile. Also, whenever they talk to me, it's like they're trying to make a 2-year old understand something. I may not be...
    Junkard Junkard
    22-25, M
    Sep 20, 2014

    Why do wives eventually become Just a get off

    friend after awhile? Not all .....many marriages are fabulous and I want too know why so many are stale
    awakeja awakeja
    51-55, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2014

    The Most Unsettling

    What a stupid emotion, what a stupid 4 letter word. What does it even accomplish anyways- nothing. Learning to ignore the gesture is something I've been able to accomplish since my child hood- as long as it doesn't directly pertain to me. If it's something minor then I can...
    Linxer Linxer
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 9, 2010

    A Selfish Emotion

    I think pity is selfish. I recognize that the selfishness of pity is usually unconscious and unaddressed by the person feeling it, but it is selfish none the less. Pity is something in which people feel sad for you and/or about your situation. It is a shallow reflection of...
    Corvid Corvid
    22-25, M
    Oct 8, 2010

    Alright, I don't mean to be rude,

    but it's time for me to vent. I actually hate when I see people with depressing usernames. And I especially hate when all of your experiences are depressing as well. I get it if you have a few, or several. Everybody has their problems. But if every single one of them are...
    BookWonderer BookWonderer
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2014
    deleted deleted
    Mar 19, 2016

    My Pity

    My life served on a plate For all of you to eat Take my love and hate But what is this inside of me Pity me pity me don't you pity me Pity me pity me don't you pity me don't you pity me don't you pity me Under everything something that you can't see I can't...
    MyraG MyraG
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2009

    Well, You Can Keep Your Pity!

    No! The last thing I want in this world is pity! You may give me your understanding, your care, or your empathy. But don't insult me with your pity! =p I also don't pity many... only those I'm truly disgusted by! I only feel sorry for those few... very few. Most out of ...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 21, 2009

    So I have brain cancer lost right leg to cancer

    have leukemia lymphoma hydrocephalus heart problems have been abused and I'm only 12 and HATE I mean HATE pity
    photographyismylife photographyismylife
    16-17, F
    3 Responses May 24, 2015
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