I Hate Pre Deployment Emotional Shutdown

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 17 People

    Should I Move On ?

    I met my boyfriend not ex boyfriend in high school .We started to date while he was on leave .Before we seen each other in person again as bf and gf throw text he told me he wanted to get engaged.Then when he was home everything was fine but 3 days he dident come see me becuase...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Mar 19, 2012

    Not A Deployment But I Can't Find Anywhere Else To Put This

    I started dating my boyfriend on and off last February (2011) and we started a relationship the first of this year.  I moved in with him (1200+ miles) in April and our relationship has been awesome. He’s been patient, kind, and done nothing but help me grow and love me like...
    LoveSam LoveSam
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2012


    I may be over thinking.. But i am scared that things will change come time of deployment. I am scared that he will change. I am scared nothing will be the same. If I am having this much trouble now, it's gonna be even worse next month when he leaves :( I don't know who to talk...
    Marissaneubert Marissaneubert
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 24, 2013

    Our Story

    Its pretty crazy the way fate works sometimes.. I moved to Midway Middle School in 2002. My Marine moved to Lorena Middle School in 2002 as well. Lorena and Midway are about 15 minutes apart. I went to Midway all the way until 2004 which is when I moved to Lorena. My Marine went...
    Birdy4997 Birdy4997
    22-25, F
    Nov 29, 2012

    Potential Break Up

    So my boyfriend of a year is set to deploy in january. He has spent the last month away in kansas for training which is leading both of us to overthinking what lies ahead. Last night we discussed the idea of breaking up and just both of our fears and insecurities (his idea). His...
    mcfarfar mcfarfar
    22-25, F
    Nov 22, 2013

    Why Bf Looking At Wedding Rings

    My bf just come home from the deployment and being station over sea for 2 years .He has 20 days left.It been going alright just having a hard time that he be leaving again to go back for 7 months .All he been talking about since he been gone is how he cant wait to get married to...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Sep 10, 2012

    Mary Me

    MY bf in the marines while home in leave in sep for month We went to the jewlery store to look at rings and told me for the future.When he got back to his station I talk to his brother and told me he has the ring or was going to buy it soon.I talk to my bf and told me it was the...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Apr 26, 2013

    Are We On Break Or Broken Up ?

    My boyfriend broke up with me once again .He did this once while station in japan for a year.His mood and depression is something that drive me crazy .He would always say things like why you with me and try to hock me up with his friends .One night he went out drinking and was to...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Mar 17, 2012

    Hes Pushing Away So Much

    I have only been with my boyfriend for about 8 month. hes been in the army for 6 years now, divorced as am i. i moved to el paso, (fort bliss) at the beginning of the year, and the beginning was wonderful, always so so sweet i love yous, can i keep yous, little...
    jesseelane jesseelane
    1 Response Apr 23, 2009

    Really Depressed

    I dont know what happed but my ex bf broke up with me about a month ago .He told me he really depressed and stressed .I understand why and know its the deployment .Since I got in this reationship I deal with his mood going back in forth .One min he tell me he hope this work the...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Apr 16, 2012

    Ex Boyfriend

    My ex boyfriend broke up with me for the second time in 2 years .Only becuase being away in the military .The first time he broke up with me I tryed to move on and he went out with those other girls and broke up with them for me .He came home for a month after 2 years .Everything...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Oct 2, 2012

    10 Days Left....

       I have 10 days until my boyfriend leaves for Afghanistan. I know he is starting to get stressed , but so am i. I truely believe that girlfriends/wives/fiances also go through Pre deployent depression. Mine started almost 2 weeks ago the day he told me he was deploying...
    briannamartin89 briannamartin89
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 4, 2011

    Double Deployment Family

    My husband and I are both getting ready for deployment. He's stopped telling me that he loves me, and now tells me that he hates me. We've been married for six months, and we knew that deployments were a possibility when we said "I do." We're in different branches of service...
    Airforce88 Airforce88
    1 Response Sep 19, 2012
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