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I Hate Rejecting People

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    I Hate To Hurt Them.

    i know i'm not attractive, far from it actually and neither i'm in a place in my life where i want to be in a relationship but i still have people who wants to give us a try. i know it will never work because i am not either mentally or emotionally prepared for it but i hate to...
    wannastartnew wannastartnew 18-21, F Nov 14, 2012

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    He asked me to Prom and I explained to him

    that I had other plans. I feel so bad and hope I didn't break his heart but it's my first dance and I'll know that I'll have so much more fun with my friends. We are just friends but I know he likes me and I wasn't trying to give him the wrong idea. Hopefully it's not awkward...
    bexk bexk 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Rejection

    I hate rejecting people in life because I know how it feels to be rejected. In 2002; it happened to me twice. I was in a workshop and one person was giving his business cards to other people in the room and he never give me his card. the second was in a workshop too, he give...
    LittleLena LittleLena 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2009

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    I Do

    That is why I do not reject people.  I know how it feels to be rejected, so I do not reject others.  There is no reason for it unless the person you must reject will try to harm you in some way.  That is when rejection is okay, in my opinion.  It is good to be...
    BBUDS BBUDS 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2010

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    It's True!

    Well, let me start off by saying I developed this state by being rejected myself, and then knowing all too well what it feels like. When I was diagnosed with schizophrenia in 2005, all my friends seemed to vanish like smoke. The fact they left for college is a factor, but how...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 11, 2012

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    So I Don't Do It

    Hey, no-one ever got sick from having too many friends. No-one ever died of diversity. Everyone I've ever met has taught me something about themselves, about the world and -most importantly- about myself. Sure, there are a lot of ah-souls out there, but where would we be without...
    amberdextrous amberdextrous 51-55, M 4 Responses Nov 7, 2009

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    I Hate Rejecting People

    I hate it when I'm rejected so therefore I hate rejecting people but I do reject people when they are bullies or trolls.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Jan 29, 2012

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    Rejection

    The bad needs to be done sometimes...
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Apr 5, 2010

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    I have a phobia, a terrible fear of negative people. I hate when people whining about everything. This is what I hate most in the world. So if you want to talk to me, don't be...
    AlwaysBeAGoodPerson AlwaysBeAGoodPerson 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    I hate lazy people. There's always one in my group assignments and group discussions. How can I have a group discussion in my tutorial classes if people don't prepare the work or...
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    Myshelle13 Myshelle13 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I hate fake people and then they clam to be your best friend and yet they don't stick up for you and rub you problems in your face.
    Pluviophile32 Pluviophile32 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    i hate when people cheat on university exams and dont get caught. they do better than everyone else and just dont get caught! LIFE SEEMS SO UNFAIR
    LonelyThoughts LonelyThoughts 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I hate rude people. If you send them a friendly message, the polite thing to do is for them to reply..it takes a moment, and shows that the are not selfish an d up their own arses...
    piers1 piers1 56-60 Apr 8

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    I hate those people you come across in life that are just so.... annoying!
    dplastini dplastini 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I believe at one time or another everyone hates stupid people, but if you think about it, what would keep us entertained? There is a common balance to it I'm sure. Random thoughts...
    Lo2011 Lo2011 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I always feel bad when I hurt people
    Elizabethr1518 Elizabethr1518 13-15, F 12 hrs ago

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    I'm watching Lost and Pretty Little Liars and I just hate Benjamin Linus and Alison DiLaurentis. They mess up with people's minds and it hurts them. They even hurt other people...
    DreamerX01 DreamerX01 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I'm not sure if this is considered selfish, but I didn't know where else this list would fit. Basically, I hate people act like this: -People who make everything about them...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I guess hate is a strong word. I don't hate anybody; I just hate the way fake people make me feel once they're done with me. :/
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I just started at a new job working in a group home for people with disabilities about a month and a half ago. I know how to help most of the people right now and usually ask for...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F Apr 1

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    I always do someone to **** something up and cause people to hate me or be annoyed by me. I hate annoying others also. Don't like bother people with my problems. But then they...
    PandaHaven PandaHaven 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    epic stupidity--this includes, complaining just about everything and not doing something about it, crying over abusive addict husband and not leaving him 'cause he's got nice wheel...
    FoxxySilverCrow FoxxySilverCrow 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 19

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    ''You should be lucky to have parents, some people don't have them.'' Lucky? I would be luckier if I didn’t have people who I call mom and dad, maybe then other people would...
    KidAgony KidAgony 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I see people keep staring at each others and envy what everyone have...or look down at what they don't have and imagine themselves better then others...i always see people keep...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Mar 27

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    I can't stand people who have the need to "fit in" with every body. Well, let me re-phrase that because I feel the need to get along with just about every one I meet. Its the...
    IO4ever IO4ever 26-30 1 Response Apr 11

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    ESPECIALLY on the web! Okay HATE is strong but still! I dislike people who troll on stories and questions, I dislike people who never say please and thank you, and I dislike people...
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't hate anything more than people who pretend to be something they're not. Don't sit here and tell me that you have multiple personalities, like me, when you're OBVIOUSLY...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I HATE IT. its the worst feeling , especially when it comes from someone you love or care about. I hate that guilty feeling you have when you stand up for your self and say no. I...
    IllecebrousIvy IllecebrousIvy 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Hate is a rather powerful word. I prefer dislike. Being pretentious only reinforces the fact you have no identity of your own. I can't understand the need to have a false nature...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't like people who lie. Who play those kinds of games with me. It's unfair. Immature. I hate it when people are effortless. I try to be understanding as I can but no. This...
    thatgirl0821 thatgirl0821 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hate it when people have a dig at teen mothers most of them do a better job than older mothers yeah nay not be able to bring them up but they learn the hard way and appreciate life...
    kelslouise kelslouise 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 24

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    THE EP BOSSY MEN!!!!! I hate them I do, I bet you hate them too!!! The ones that won't take NO, The ones that think pressure will achieve their goal, The ones that keep pestering...
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F Mar 25

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    So there's this new girl that moved to our school and I hate her, she's so bubbly and happy all the time and she doesn't get I hate her she won't bloody leave me alone and she...
    TheGreenEyedGirl TheGreenEyedGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I'm a nice person. But if you're gonna hate on me, I'm gonna hate on you.
    LiyaR LiyaR 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I hate people in general. Massive C*nts😡👌 ✊💦
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    Most people I know cannot be honest with what they feel about me, and I hate it. It bugs me when they go drink alcohol so they can have the guts to tell me. Man up and say what you...
    Kaksy Kaksy 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    There are many different reactions to suicide. Some think it's selfish, some think it's sad, some blame theirselves, and others just can't bare to process it. But no one should...
    Audrina14 Audrina14 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    so im walking home not the best and this ***** playing happy the freaking song from despicable me im sorry but today I wanted to punch the shite out of you u don't scream at a...
    mizzcola17 mizzcola17 18-21, F Mar 21

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    I'm so sick of fake people!! One minute they have your back the next they leave you all by yourself. My ex boyfriend has a new girl and everyone is mad at him for dumping me over...
    Arleyn Arleyn 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    My biggest pet peeve is when people assume people with tatoos and piercings are trash. Someones appearance does not account for whats on the inside. It does not mean they are a...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 16-17, F Apr 3

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    So whenever there's a funeral being held, many people come to say their final farewells to the dead person right? However, whenever I go to funerals, I see teens on their phones...
    XXXPOT XXXPOT 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    "before you accuse me take a look at yourself" .. The worst thing in my saturdays is meeting people with prejudices. I have a friend with a lot of troubles in mind and in his...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've checked out a lot of stories posted on this site, and one thing that stands out with some of the ones I've read, is that people are extremely judgmental for all the wrong...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M Mar 23

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    Fake friends fake relationships fake people always lie dissappear when they find someone better. Or try to come back in your life when they realize what they lost. Fk you...
    LIfeCanBeRough1 LIfeCanBeRough1 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    What is wrong with the truth? Its really so bad to listen at it? I get in a lot of troubles for the simple fact that I cant (or maybe I prefer do not hide )what I feel or think...
    thestepppy thestepppy 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    People who talk to me only when they need to talk to someone. I'm all for listening to my friends vent but not ONLY for that. I'm not a therapist, nor do I plan on being a...
    PitchDaffy PitchDaffy 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I hate internet dating so much...it's alway never be true!!! Cheater alway cheat! Hurt us so bad!! Anyone had of this experience??
    JingNean JingNean 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Considering I work at a coffee shop, I encounter lots of rude people all day. I wish some people realized that if you show some kindness, people will be more willing to go out of...
    caitlynmarks caitlynmarks 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    "Maybe you're depressed and having all these problems in your life because you strayed from God," my sister told me. What bullshit. Even when I was religious, I was depressed...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 70+ 2 Responses 4 days ago

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