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I Hate Repeating Myself

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    Over And Over

    it seems that i spend my whole life saying and doing the same thing over and over. if they already know the problem why do they have to ask me about it everyday? it just adds to the pressure. i dont want to be reminded of it, but if they keep forgetting whats the point, thre...
    whenyoucantsleepatnight96 whenyoucantsleepatnight96 18-21, F Oct 23, 2013

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    Especially when it comes to very simple things

    like an identification preference or sexual preference/definition for it. Some people have told me I'm being sensitive when someone does something that triggers me to have to repeat myself and I get flustered. But in reality it's not just me being sensitive, it's like Water...
    Hemmelighed Hemmelighed 18-21, M Jul 18

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    But I Will Go The Distance!

    Ok I have built a very impressive tolerance for repeating myself. But I still hate it. And I know hate is a really strong word. And there are some areas that I don't really mind at all repeating myself in. But I think of things in great detai a lot. And go to great lengths to try...
    afaintreflection afaintreflection 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    A Lie..on the Phone

       I hate it when i'm asking a person a question- who's LYING- and when I ask the question they say "huh"..  when i DON'T reask the question, they answer. Now that truely ****** me off.   ALso, When i'm on the phone and the person is...
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 12, 2009

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    Hate

    Now this is a story that is the intersection the group "I hate repeating myself" and the group "I hate my husband" Every time we fight (well it is mostly he that is doing the fighting and I that am trying to convince him there is nothing to fight about). Many a time I have told...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F Mar 3, 2011

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    Frustrating

    My Dad is hard of hearing and I often have to repeat things at least 3 times before he can make out what i'm saying. I hate to get annoyed with him but it's really frustrating.
    vivalagloria vivalagloria 22-25, F Sep 16, 2008

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    Left Wondering.

    Sometimes I'm just left here to wonder. Wonder why I feel the way i feel. Like I can't just slide into groups and become apart of it. I'm just an outcast. I always will be, I have to except that fact. I'm too clingy, too whiny, ask for too much. But the thing is, I really don't...
    xSummerofBiohazardx xSummerofBiohazardx 18-21, F May 3, 2013

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    Just Listen the First Time!

    If you ask me something and require a response, LISTEN when I give it. Don't ask me to repeat it. Don't ask me two days later to repeat it. If I tell you something, pay attention. Nothing ****** me off more than repeating something important over and over again...
    ImminentDisaster ImminentDisaster 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    Pet Peeve...

    it's one of my top 3 pet peeves. having to repeat myself. i don't do it. i get all ticked off. or i just choose to ignore.
    JenniferLAyn JenniferLAyn 18-21, F Jun 18, 2010

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    Just Listen To Me For Once

    I sympathize to people when I know they can't hear me, or they're distracted by something important. If they have something else to worry about, I get that they just can't leave what they're doing and give all attention to me. The universe does not revolve around me and people...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    Oh My God !

    This is one of the reasons I hate going out with large groups of people I don't know. Weddings, parties, families, whatever. All of them, one by one - who are you? How do you know ...? When did you move here? What do you do? Whereabouts do you live? I think repeating solid...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 27, 2012

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    Several Times

    I have an extremely quiet voice. I always remember in Middle and High school when the teacher would call on me, everyone in the class would stop talking so that the room was dead silent because everyone knew it was hard to hear me, but on top of that...that made me get nervous...
    innocentlover1428 innocentlover1428 18-21, F 3 Responses May 24, 2012

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    Repeating Myself

    Repeating myself,Makes me feel gurrrrrr,I hate it,So don't ask me.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jan 26, 2012

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    I really hate repeating myself

    either pay attention or don't talk to me. Honestly it just boils my blood. Keep up for heavens sake. Also if you don't get it use context clues come on I know you all had to learn this. Like if it's just one word missing or misspelled your really telling me you don't get it or...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F Jun 24

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    i really hate to repeat myself haha.

    if someone ask me to i usually get bitchy haha or loud.
    brineff91 brineff91 22-25, F Mar 5

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    I Know, But Still.

    I'm high maintenance. And a little crazy. And, believe me, I know it. But few things drive me off the wall the way having to repeat myself to my boyfriend so many friggin times. It doesn't matter what I say, or how loud I say it, or where I'm standing, or what he's...
    DreamCyn DreamCyn 18-21, F Nov 4, 2009

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