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I Hate Rushing Things In A Relationship

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    Relationships Are Nothing To Rush !!! - i am 41 when i was little ( around 6 to 8 ) tell about 5 yrs a go i never knew what true love was or what it meant! ( i grew up in a vary...
    pugdog5150 pugdog5150 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    I get out of a relationship and jump straight into another on. Knowing I'll be hurt. And I just need to stop and chill down. How many boyfriends have I had? 8 entirely. 1 I cared...
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail 18-21, M Jan 22

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    My 18 year old son is a drug addict. This is the 3rd time I have discovered he has been selling things from my house. The first time was half my jewelry. The second time was the...
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    I tried to sustain my fear and hatred against him. I tried to put myself in his shoes. I tried to make sure that i didn't make any mistake that make him shamed. I tried to make...
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    I have NEVER liked being struck. I barely tolerated listening to scoldings. There were two avoidance strategies I used for years to get myself out of trouble with my stepmother and...
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    righteousjay righteousjay 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Yes I really do. Especially when they are nasty about my age, nasty about my medical history, and nasty about me not being able to do well on their tests. I'm hoping to get...
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    LikeASailor4 LikeASailor4 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I wouldn't say I actually hate her. If anything, I'm jealous and hurt. Our parents were friends since before we were born so we grew up together. Inseparable throughout grade...
    Schism7 Schism7 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    marcel888 marcel888 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    anovasiangel anovasiangel 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I'm not sure how well I will be received here but I am sharing my story nonetheless. I was widowed at the age of 32 and my son was 2 1/2. I was not looking for a relationship after...
    MomofOZ2003 MomofOZ2003 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 6

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    This post maybe a nonsense... -_- so there's a girl in my class who I hate very much, call her Lucy. She's such an attention-seeker and a crybaby who gets scared of every little...
    Tiffany98702 Tiffany98702 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    My mom has been a horrible mother. She decided to participate in the oldest profession about the time I was 10. I was pretty smart for my age and figured out what she was doing...
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    To people that don't really know her--my SIL is an absolute delight! That's probably why she doesn't have very many friends...beside the point. My hubs and I have been married...
    karmacatcher87 karmacatcher87 26-30, F Apr 1

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    So I have a love/hate relationship with him. I love him, because he's my dad and I'm supposed to. But if you were to ask me if I like him as a person...no I don't. He was a...
    estrellita75 estrellita75 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I was once confident and outgoing with girls. Not that I was a player, but I could easily maintain a conversation with them and flirt every now and then. When I reached my freshman...
    PrepubescentStranger PrepubescentStranger 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I have always been in serious relationships. After a broke up with my most recent 4 year relationship, one of my really good guy friends (John) confessed that he's had a major...
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    1. I was born on September 5th, 1954. 2. I am female. 3. I have one child, a daughter who was born June 15, 1985. 4. I watch FOX News. 5. I live with my parents: Mom was born...
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    reconworm reconworm 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I wanted to take a moment to reflect on a common theme I see on this forum and I have lived it myself. #1 – We find the person we want to spend our life with #2 – Things go...
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    Did I Burn The Bastard? A month before I started dating my boyfriend, or before even knowing him, I tried to get back to my ex (I know that was stupid, i felt lonely, that was...
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    Here's my list, with somewhat detailed answers: Smoked A Cigarette: Yes, many times Smoked A Cigar: Also many times Kissed A Member Of The Same Sex: No, I and I don't plan to...
    Hatebreeder59 Hatebreeder59 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I have never fully opened myself up during relationships considered serious at the time. Great women but both have been devastated by my lack of honesty up front, generally...
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    elugo12345 elugo12345 18-21, M Apr 1

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    bekahbouma bekahbouma 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I have grown into a very miserable 18 years old who everyone hates. When I was young I thought my life mattered. I was getting scholarships, citizenships, and many friends due to...
    AnimeFan90210 AnimeFan90210 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    Slumbergirl92 Slumbergirl92 18-21, F a week ago

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    cvhcutie cvhcutie 16-17, M 6 hrs ago

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    Iesha94 Iesha94 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Apr 2

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