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I Hate Rushing Things In A Relationship

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    Relationships Are Nothing To Rush !!!

    i am 41 when i was little ( around 6 to 8 ) tell about 5 yrs a go i never knew what true love was or what it meant! ( i grew up in a vary hateful and abousive chilld hood ) i use to fall in love vary fast and easaly ! now that im older and much whiser , i take my time !!! at this...
    pugdog5150 pugdog5150 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    I get out of a relationship

    and jump straight into another on. Knowing I'll be hurt. And I just need to stop and chill down. How many boyfriends have I had? 8 entirely. 1 I cared about.
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail 18-21, M Jan 22

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