I Hate Seeing Others Cry

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    i always have a soft spot

    when i see people cry . so i will just try to make them smile or make them stop crying. i will also cry when i see people cry in the movies sometimes
    xiaospirit xiaospirit
    22-25, M
    Apr 11, 2015
    jchayungs jchayungs
    13-15, M
    Feb 6

    I Don't Cry

    I don't hate to see people cry, I hate to be with people crying because I don't do that. I've been to funerals, most of them I've managed to hide in the back. But when I was young a close relative died (the only one who understood me) and I had to be in the front. Everyone were...
    transcendent transcendent
    Aug 11, 2010

    Oh No.....

    It makes things so much more difficult because I end up wanting to cry right along with them.  I almost have to detach myself from them in order to keep myself together and not cry and to also still be able to help them out.  It really pains me to see people hurt. Then...
    yoyy yoyy
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 18, 2008

    Hurts Within

    I feel powerless when I see others cry.  I feel that I have not reacted in time nor in the right way.  I know there is a release in crying, I know that all crying does not have to be negative and some can actually be quite beautiful and poignant in a sense. Yet, if I...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 20, 2008

    Can I Look Away Now?

    It is one of the moments where to look away is the best thing to do. If someone ends up crying in front of me, I get all uncomfortable and guilty! I dont even know why. As if I have made the other person to cry...which is not true! And then, the guilt builds up inside me and the...
    madamoiselle madamoiselle
    16-17, F
    Oct 2, 2008

    PLEASE Dont Cry

    All my life I have analized people and my biggest question has always been WHY. Im not happy staying above the surface when I see people cry or in pain. I am a very sensitive person  and I love helping people if I can. I was told once by a phycoligist that if given the...
    61-65, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2008

    Yeah :/

    No matter what the person is crying about, it could be the most retarded thing in the world... But if someone is crying, I start crying too. I can't help it. It hurts me to see others in pain. I express my pain through tears. Even if I don't know the person, I want to go and give...
    kleisse kleisse
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2008

    More Uncomfortable

    This may label me the typical male but I am uncomfortable seeing other people cry. I can't explain it but it almost feels too personal, too awkward. It would almost feel like walking in on someone in the middle of getting off. Which is odd to say the least because I do thirst for...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 23, 2009


    Talking about crying, I just wish to share my thoughts. I am a late twenties single guy and i don't have much reasons to cry. (The last good cry was before 6 years.) I believe my views towards this subject might be helpful to someone and as usual these are just my opinions and...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2013

    I don't like to see my loved people cry.

    Today lil bro was in a terrible mood while we were driving around. I asked him if there was something wrong. like a typical man he said no. A minute later he was crying. Trying to stifle my own tears I asked I'd there was anything I could do and gave him a cigarette.--------- At...
    DancesWithUnicorns DancesWithUnicorns
    26-30, F
    May 27, 2015

    I Hugged A Stranger

    I found her at the corner crying ... she touched my heart ... she was just a average lady I couldn't do anything but ask if she was ok. and to offer a shoulder and her tears made me want to cry I hugged her and she told me a little of her problems I am not one to really be...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2011
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