I Hate Seeing People I Love Hurting

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    Hate It, and Sometimes Do Too Much

    I think we all hate seeing people we love, or those we are close to hurt, but do you ever want to help someone so much that in the end it seems to hurt you and you put your needs on the back burner and in the end end up getting shi*t on? 
    hopefulgirl1 hopefulgirl1
    18-21, F
    Jan 12, 2009

    soo.. my beautiful best friend is going through

    so much at the moment, don't want to say too much in case she finds this ahha, but I know I've been scared that I'm going to wake up and she won't be here anymore.. She's become so distant from me, she doesn't mean to it's just all the crap going on in her mind:( I want to love...
    tabbyrose234 tabbyrose234
    18-21, F
    Mar 21, 2014

    Truly Hate It.

    I can't stand to see someone I love hurting. If I could, I would take the pain away from everyone as my own. It would probably kill me but I think I would do it if no one would hurt anymore. I hate seeing someone hurting so badly that I have prayed that I could carry the pain...
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia
    41-45, M
    12 Responses Apr 4, 2008


    I hate seeing people hurt, especially those I care for.  Its at these moments I just feel helpless.  I want to do something to make them feel better.  I want to find a solution to make the pain just disappear but can think of no magic to do so. Those are the times...
    ichooselife ichooselife
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 23, 2009

    I Hate It

    I hate seeing the people i Love and care about hurting. If I could I would take all their pain and all their hurt away just to make it better for them. They don't deserve to be hurting, and I would do anything to stop them from hurting.
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 23, 2008

    Not just that i hate anyone hurting.

    I dont think anyone deserves such cruelty and pain and if i saw someone down i would encourage them to get back up and if they refuse i wont stop trying until they are safe and sound even if it is costing my own life
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto
    13-15, M
    Nov 27, 2014

    I'm So Useless...

    My mother has just had all her money stolen from her and has no way to pay any of the bills. She is more stressed out then she normally is. I'm no good with feelings or crying or touching. So all I could do was just stand by and feel bad and not know what to in this situation. My...
    Alisaperne6446 Alisaperne6446
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2013
    renguard renguard
    18-21, M
    Nov 30, 2014


    i hate seeing the people i love hurting inside and there's nothing i can do to help but stand by and watch and listen and let them vent on me if i could take all the bad stuff away from them i would do it in a heartbeat.no matter how much they try to push me away or distance...
    dreamcatcher4u dreamcatcher4u
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2008

    It Kills Me

    Just today, the girl I love (I'm bisexual, by the way, and I'm a girl) was being made fun of and hurt. It was her birthday, and these people were making fun of a bunch of people who go to my school and eventually got to her. It was in the middle of class, too. She started crying...
    lightshadow lightshadow
    13-15, F
    Nov 19, 2012


    I hate hurting over the people I love.
    AnimaliaAustralis AnimaliaAustralis
    22-25, F
    May 3, 2009

    Hurts Me

    When i see people hurting, it hurts me to see them in so much pain. I try to help as much as i can. I especially hate it when i see people hurting cause i am hurting. Like when i used to cut myself my friend would be in pain of seeing me hurting, i didn't care if i was hurting...
    tomtombear tomtombear
    18-21, M
    Sep 25, 2008

    Just found out my friends parents have just

    split up. God I feel sorry for her
    Frankineedles Frankineedles
    16-17, F
    Jun 29, 2014

    Hate, Hate, Hate It

    My grandmother is in pain physically and mentally. She is hurting physically from her broken hip. A few years ago she slipped and fell. Now one leg is shorter than the other just slightly. It has caused no end of trouble. She limps, it swells hugely, gets irritated easily and...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Apr 4, 2008

    I Hate Seeing People I Love Hurting....

    I hate seeing the people i Love and care about hurting. If I could I would take all their pain and all their hurt away just to make it better for them. They don't deserve to be hurting, and I would do anything to stop them from hurting. BroknWings
    deleted deleted
    May 23, 2009

    It's hard to see someone I love

    so much be hurt, or hurt themselves. I'm here for them, I wish that they could understand that I wouldn't give up on them. It tears me apart inside, all I wish to do is help them. I just don't know how. Maybe I'm not enough to be that help for them. I want to be though I don't...
    Bluetoxicity Bluetoxicity
    18-21, F
    Aug 3, 2014

    You May Have Killed the One That Meant Everything to Me

    My best friend, Marksonwalls as he is known here, was just seriously injured by another. He was riding his motorcycle at night in a state park. Someone had cut a number of small trees across the trail to teach someone on a motorcycle a lesson. Motorcycles were allowed on the...
    johnnyangel johnnyangel
    2 Responses May 25, 2008
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