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I Hate Self-pity

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    I hate in others and in myself,

    especially myself. I hate that I'm jealous of the kid who filled my spot in my absence in the team. Hate the look that the coach gave him that I worked so hard to get before and that they need me even less now. That he won his first match when I lost three in a row on my first...
    persononinternet persononinternet 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 16, 2014

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    "Fvck My Life, Nobody Listens To Me"

    There's so much more to do than to always look at ourselves as victims and the rest of humanity, villains. The world doesn't owe us a good life, we owe the world compassion and care. We all have our issues, let's deal with them like grown ups.
    crookedpath crookedpath 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    Alcoholics Self Pity And Faith

    My ex husband is going through rehab and called me to be his "support system"...I'm the only person he knows who doesn't drink.Well, I don't hate him, I do support him.  Our divorce was based solely on his "choice" to be a drunk, rather than be a decent husband.  He's not a...
    imahappycamper imahappycamper 46-50 Nov 6, 2011

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    Be strong people of the world.

    For you are made conquerers. From the ashes of defeat burn the flame of victory. I believe in your ability to believe in yourself. I will not tolerate naysayers. Be strong.
    casualtyofwar casualtyofwar 22-25, M Sep 2, 2014

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    Saying I am sorry fell on deaf ears not ready

    to hear it. Going on 4years since I left is long enough for me to grieve, recoup myself... My frailties, my strengths and take a big breath and move on. It is one step then the next then the next. I trust people again. That took a while but I did it by choices that are made each...
    rowenbumble rowenbumble 56-60, F Jan 12

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    casualtyofwar casualtyofwar 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    **** weakness. **** pain.

    **** problems.
    casualtyofwar casualtyofwar 22-25, M Sep 9, 2014

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    Don't start our conversation by saying stuff

    like "I know I'm ugly but," or "I'm not the smartest,". Just stop. The first step to being confident is acting confident, and thinking positively.
    TickleMeCell TickleMeCell 18-21, T 1 Response Mar 26

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    Self Pity

    Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do anything wise in this world.
    maverick321 maverick321 66-70, M Jan 24, 2012

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    I just get the dreadful feeling that everyone hates me, I feel like they all are ignoring me or if they listen to me it's just them taking pity on me. I don't know why I feel this...
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    FluttershyLabeouf FluttershyLabeouf 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Pity? Compassion? God is love? Where do we fit it all in? Christ once told of the " prodigal son story". https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke+15%3A11-32...
    Stephenrko Stephenrko 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    The last few days I've been letting self-doubt creep in. I got a "No" the other day which caused me to spend the rest of it and some of the next in "Pity Party" mode. Then I let...
    MyKidsAreMyWorld MyKidsAreMyWorld 36-40, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Neoebonite Neoebonite 51-55, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    CleosMoon CleosMoon 22-25 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    jkellison52 jkellison52 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    RandomPseudonym RandomPseudonym 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Idk it's like weird my mom just had her third baby a boy I'm happy but I feel something else I don't like the feelings it's kinda of heavy ish or like if someone is squishing it or...
    7J99 7J99 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    How is it that no matter what happens, I come out wrong? My response is always the wrong one? whatever I say is the wrong thing? I always seem to be wrong. I don't know how I ended...
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    In my internal demise I would exclaim how it was not fair and could not be so that I was suffering and he was not. Woe was me. Self pity was me. But I realise that all the...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Aug 22

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    I am hate incarnation tonight. Come purchase your gate through me. Plenty to spare. If you fing dare. Doubt you can. F$ck you all!! F&ck you to the darkest depths the solar...
    Golfknar Golfknar 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    I've had a job since I was 17, contributing verily, but in essence equally, to the household income over that span. 3 months ago I was downsized (through no fault of my own...
    PicklesAndPie PicklesAndPie 26-30 Aug 22

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    I still love him for some ungodly reason. To clarify, he owns 30% of our business. (Which I won't name) He's a self-pitying liar, and a thief. He'll take every drop of kindness...
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F Aug 21

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    asami13 asami13 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 21

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    giannaboleyn giannaboleyn 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Be careful with self pity, It doesn't often end pretty. While you wallow in dirt, Others still get hurt. By the time it gets to you There may be little you can do. So...
    RoadPoet RoadPoet 41-45, M Aug 20

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    I just realised recently that I hate my mother. Because she practiced favouritism, and was abusive with it. And from the time I was under 5 years old, she would constantly accuse...
    AngryPlum AngryPlum 31-35, F Aug 20

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    Confessions of a Habitual Apologizer: I’m sorry. I say it when I bump into someone at the store, when my card doesn’t swipe the first time, and when my phone cuts out. In...
    MissMimiMusic MissMimiMusic 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    I am paranoid I am bipolar I am anxious at times I am mildly depressed yet I can still laugh like god I am broken but slowly putting myself back together I am empty of a love that...
    mozartdoesnotreek mozartdoesnotreek 18-21, F Aug 19

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    The title of this group is misleading... To be honest, everybody who suffers from legitimate depression will battle with it their entire lives, however having dealt with it for 7...
    cocojean cocojean 18-21, F Aug 18

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    This is gonna be long but this is my experience - my story. I come from a complicated family background. You can say I don't know much about my parent's stories since they never...
    Abcak937 Abcak937 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I don't complain to him about it of course and at least our schedule works out that we have plenty of time together. But the quality of people the neighbors have over almost...
    NerdModeActivate NerdModeActivate 31-35, F Aug 18

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    But sometimes you just have to dwell in the pity. Sometimes the anger and the loneliness and the hate and the lack of hope push you down and the only way to get over it is to...
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