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I Hate Self-pity

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    "Fvck My Life, Nobody Listens To Me"

    There's so much more to do than to always look at ourselves as victims and the rest of humanity, villains. The world doesn't owe us a good life, we owe the world compassion and care. We all have our issues, let's deal with them like grown ups.
    crookedpath crookedpath 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    Self Pity

    Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do anything wise in this world.
    maverick321 maverick321 70+, M Jan 24, 2012

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    I hate in others and in myself,

    especially myself. I hate that I'm jealous of the kid who filled my spot in my absence in the team. Hate the look that the coach gave him that I worked so hard to get before and that they need me even less now. That he won his first match when I lost three in a row on my first...
    persononinternet persononinternet 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 16

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    Alcoholics Self Pity And Faith

    My ex husband is going through rehab and called me to be his "support system"...I'm the only person he knows who doesn't drink.Well, I don't hate him, I do support him.  Our divorce was based solely on his "choice" to be a drunk, rather than be a decent husband.  He's not a...
    imahappycamper imahappycamper 46-50 Nov 6, 2011

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    haha I just came up with a smartass name for the phenomenon of unjustified self loathing teen girls... emo, whiny, I am soooo ugleh, etc etc hateurbation. n. The act of getting...
    mrinvader mrinvader 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    It's my birthday. I'm 16 yay I guess. My mom offered to take me clothes shopping and I really want to accept the offer, but I hate the anxiety and the insecurities that come along...
    lovelyscones lovelyscones 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I hate you all hope you fall madasalizard you're an arse AGH22 you're an arse Troubled1mind wallows in self pity your life seems "Sh!tty" You can be happy unfortunately you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I used to have all this sympathy for people who commit suicide, but after yesterday, that's greatly lessened; I know now, without a doubt, that is the most selfish act a human can...
    GoldButterfly GoldButterfly 18-21, F Jul 4

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    I'm not one of those types of people that complain about the little things or one who likes to wallow in self pity and despair. I just wish life would stop kicking me when I'm...
    MysteriousKitty MysteriousKitty 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm a 16 year old boy and these past 18 months have been the worst 18 months of my life and I really want them to end. It started in the valentine school break, I was talking to...
    Bonban Bonban 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    My family had always been very close but things started to Change . My cousin and I were very close since the beginning, we were like sisters . As we grew our bodies are started...
    michal16 michal16 18-21, F Jul 1

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    When you get to that point of trusting someone and you tell them about your past. They instantly jump to pity you. I loath that, I didn't want to tell.you for.that very reason. I...
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I ******* hate it when people pity me. I have to waste my time making them feel better about I am!! Worry about you not me
    mypath43 mypath43 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I live nearby my cousins houses.. we live in a small neighbourhood consists of few houses... I hate them because they are so mean to me especially these 3 people.. they are toxic...
    Loneliness78 Loneliness78 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I live in a town filled with these specific kind of people. They're mostly all the same. Mostly very loud, obnoxious, proud, arrogant, and overall rude people. Now of course I've...
    bentocoffin bentocoffin 13-15 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I wish my dad would put this narcissistic bi*tch in her place and beat the sh8t out of her too..if anyone deserves to be f8cking slapped it's her..i don't know what the hell he...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    i am banned or ignored or flamed on forums i have lost count and grown board with user names i think it way way in the thousands funny even disorder websites ban me i have gotten...
    themosthatedman themosthatedman 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    I hate it. I hate it with a passion. My entire family looks down on me because of who my mom is. It's not fair that everyone assumes I'm going to grow up to be **** because of her...
    KilljoyTillTheEnd KilljoyTillTheEnd 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Here goes. I hate being treated like a mental case or someone who actively needs attention and help. I talk to people about my thoughts and ideas, not necessarily my beliefs, and...
    ImagineA ImagineA 16-17 Jun 27

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    Not just today, but almost everyday. I mean I love him, I truly do but I hate him too. He's a disappointment in every imaginable way. He's been this way for a very long time. But...
    kacie1197 kacie1197 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I hate my birthday, for the past 4 years I've had no one but me, myself and I in a pity party in my room...yay I guess. I don't have to wear pants that day.
    Izuka Izuka 13-15, F Jul 6

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    I've always been close to my mother simply because she has always been there for me , it's not that my dad is never around , no no no he's around , just watching TV doing nothing...
    Nightingale123 Nightingale123 18-21 1 day ago

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    I can't remember the name, but I recently saw a trailer about a reality tv show that would follow around these billionaires as they pretend to be broke in order to find "true love...
    CairnRook CairnRook 22-25, F Jun 29

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    Hey guys don't get so angry its not worth it . If anything don't get angry but pity all those who do it as its ignorance and fear of the unknown makes people do it . Feel sorry for...
    beastman111 beastman111 46-50, M Jul 5

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    I have a rule; if you lie to me once, you lose all credibility with me, period. If you lie to me twice, I'll never trust you again. I don't make exceptions to this rule, and I've...
    Iamalpha Iamalpha 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    If you don't want me to be your GF then why the hell did I spend that time talking to you out of pity ?
    2tall4heels 2tall4heels 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    So I have this cousin on my Dad's side and she's a total witch. My little sister is really good friends with her, even though she knows what she's like, which I don't get it all...
    thewaytodawn thewaytodawn 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm so confused and desperate mother of 4. My husband thinks he controls everything in my life like he is my god or something I hate him so much he won't buy a car for me and the...
    Lindalilly Lindalilly 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    And finally, it's over. Two years of lies. Two years wasted. I saw it coming. I felt us drifting apart. I could feel your absence. I just never thought it'd come to this, that you...
    mitted mitted 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    Sooo, here is my story: I'm 26, average looking(i guess), and i never dated a girl. More than that, such shame to admit: i never ever kissed girl (insert “dum dum dummm” music...
    FinnnTheHuman FinnnTheHuman 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I got a call on my mobile today in the evening. Number didn’t show up. Just an incoming call message flashing. An unknown call… always that little chilly moment before hitting...
    Varun555 Varun555 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    In my late teens and twenties I fell into a cycle of substance abuse. I was a manipulative liar and blamed all of my problems on every one else. I was often consumed with impotent...
    faustianecho faustianecho 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I know when I was under 18 (and over as well) I was a self-pitying, emotional, over-sensitive, attention hungry, self-serving mess. Most kids, teens, etc. believe they have been...
    MooMooKittyKat MooMooKittyKat 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Mind of Mirrors I glance in a mirror, I realise I fear her, This feral dirty *****. She's scratching where I itch. She glares through her hair, I'm caught in her stare. Who is...
    Nataliefosterdoglover Nataliefosterdoglover 26-30, F Jul 7

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    The most unattractive thing to me I think is insecurity or self pity. I can't stand someone who is so lost in negative thoughts and too stubborn to even listen to anyone else, the...
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    Do you ever get the feeling that you don't even know yourself anymore? That empty, anxious feeling you get when you realize that you're completely unsure of who you are? That...
    BewareTheGonzo BewareTheGonzo 13-15 9 Responses Jul 9

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    By Philip Larkin Love, We Must Part Now Love, we must part now: do not let it be Calamitous and bitter. In the past There has been too much moonlight and self-pity: Let us have...
    truthandbeauty truthandbeauty 36-40, F Jun 24

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    Again, like the living in a sexless marriage and married and lonely posts, I am sad a lot. I live with depression as it is and didn't get married to spend all of my time alone, but...
    myguitarisbusted myguitarisbusted 41-45, M Jun 25

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    I feel desperate to tell someone everything but I don't want to drag people down with me when I drown in my own self pity
    DarlinYoullBeOkay DarlinYoullBeOkay 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    We often think to ourselves poor me ... but think of others there are always going to be people a lot worse off than yourself and those are the people who need the most compassion...
    Summerandroses Summerandroses 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Recently I've sunk deep into my pool of self pity and depression... So deep one could almost say I'm drowning in it. I miss my cousin... Our Birthday is coming up she would have...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    My heart is sore. Literally. It's been years since I've felt this way, this alone. Futility. That's been my word for the day. It manages to be a word both handed to me and selected...
    KeagzB KeagzB 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 27

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    High school has now ended and I'm feeling so regretful. You would think that someone who grew up in a poor family would try to do well in school so they could have a higher...
    Charmantic Charmantic 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Today I went kayaking. It was my 4th trip this summer. I flipped once busted up my hand and scraped my knee. Drank several beers, saw a bunch of turtles and relaxed in the sun. All...
    damiaal damiaal 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I am 27. I am going nowhere..... At primary and secondary school i was consatntly achieving the highest marks, with very little effort. By 3rd year though (14 years of age) my...
    aloneandunknown aloneandunknown 26-30, M 6 Responses Jun 29

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    When I was 11, I started this very long state of depression. Over time, this depression grew worse and worse. It went on for two years. It was on my 13th birthday. Like my past...
    TacTaco TacTaco 22-25, M Jul 3

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    Good clean people vs Bad dirty people Good people are happy people they can easily ignore things that are different from goodness. They pray and are peaceful all day long. They...
    hemititestone hemititestone 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 5