I Hate Selfish People

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    We all can be selfish to an extent,

    but Jesus Christ I can't stand people who are completely preoccupied with themselves. There's more to life than your ******* problems & aspirations. How arrogant one must be to believe that only they can truly "understand" & completely lack regard for anyone else's feelings. I...
    Dreambrother Dreambrother
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 17, 2014

    Selfish People Are Gutless

    I hate selfish people because many who are like that like this gutless woman I knew, don't care and have no regard for other people's feelings. A couple of months ago, I lent who was one of my closest friends Savannah an AU $50 as she was going through a difficult period...
    Cranky1 Cranky1
    18-21
    Nov 28, 2009

    I just had someon txt me something really

    selfish and I thought they were my friend. I have been missing off of FB for a week now and I got a txt from someone that first went into how they felt about me "ignoring" them. Mind you I was taking a break from everyone to clear my own head. If I haven't heard from someone...
    ClickCloser ClickCloser
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 9, 2015
    neekyneek neekyneek
    18-21, F
    Mar 13

    When I observe people talking,

    I notice that in most cases, they talk about themselves the whole time. They don't really listen to the person, they just stay silent until the person stops talking so they can start talking about themselves. I find myself doing this and I hate that. I'm trying to be conscience...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 15, 2015

    Well, that is a lie..

    .I hate no one in my life right now, but one of them is being a selfish ***! And it is killing me as he takes insulting jabs at me in front of my kids. never thought he would sink this low! I am so pissed, and hurt, and scared. the guilt that I feel is preventing me from saying...
    lifesinlimbo lifesinlimbo
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Jan 26, 2014

    who would like selfish people?

    ?? lol. seriously though, everybody has selfish moments. Life isn't about doing crap for everyone else 24/7, but it also shouldn't be lived in a way that says nobody matters but you. There is a healthy balance. I think it's good to not seek everyone's approval and to put yourself...
    kk1874 kk1874
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 16

    If I sense someone has a high sense of self I

    immediately cut them from my life. I don't tolerate people who are obsessed with themselves. It is the most unattractive thing in the world when someone is always on their twitter posting selfies and ****.
    herewegothen herewegothen
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 24, 2014
    00Broken00 00Broken00
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 27, 2015

    Stop!

    I really can't stand people who are selfish. Usually, I don't say anything and ignore it whenever it happens, but this time is just too much. One of my friends is very, very selfish. She doesn't really care what happens to other people, even if they are her friends. She's one of...
    starsoffire starsoffire
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2011

    I feel so sad today but glad i got lid of some

    people. yeah true indeed: "There's a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything , but it's not giving up, its realizing that you don't need certain people and their crap" " I can choose to let it Define me, Confine me, Refine me...
    Kadosa77 Kadosa77
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 23, 2014

    I hate it when people don't give up their seat

    for the elderly or disabled. I mean, these people need the seats more than you, so give it to them. Another thing that I hate is when there is an extra seat next to the person, they decide to block anybody from going in. Why can't you just share the seat? Are you allergic to...
    Teleport98 Teleport98
    18-21, M
    Feb 2, 2014

    I rebuke selfish people.

    How can you put yourself in front of others needs?
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2014

    Selfish people have a very narrow focus.

    They are focused on getting what they want, when they want it. Instead of seeing others' opinions, feelings, and desires as guides ( things to consider)....they view them as obstacles( things to go get around). Selfish peopl have an attitude that says, " if you, then i, "if you...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 8, 2015

    I Feel Pity...

    It seems like people who are selfish are missing out on this vital part of human interaction. What makes existence so beautiful is the way that there's this give and take of knowledge and comfort, without that, life seems meaningless. So, I guess I don't quite hate selfish people...
    thebeautyinalone thebeautyinalone
    18-21, F
    Dec 8, 2012

    Selfish

    I am in the process of dealing with one heck of a selfish man, the most selfish I have ever met to be quite honest. He has denied his feelings for me to the public, then complains that I wish to crawl under a more decent tree for shade... He then allows a psychopath to post as...
    woodlandwench woodlandwench
    41-45, F
    Jun 27, 2012

    I walked passed the needy

    and didn't stop to give I walked passed the struggling and didn't stop to help I walked passed the ill and didn't stop to care I walked passed the afraid and didn't stop to comfort I walked passed the attacked and didn't stop to defend And when I had lost all, when I was all...
    AReadingWriter AReadingWriter
    13-15, F
    Sep 19, 2015

    lmafo I am trying to do something nice

    for my sister and me and got the nerve to say that I can be selfish sometimes when she's greedy and selfish half of the time herself. It'd really **** me off since I am a little too nice before I am selfish and she gets mad when I am not able to afford stuff sometimes, but I...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 23, 2015

    The Opposite Is Too Often True.

    Has anyone else noticed how often it is the very people proclaiming to be 'all-giving' and 'never-receiving', who are, in fact, the most ungiving and highly selfish people of all. It's something that irritates me. Like chalk on the chalk board when you hear the old "I'm so...
    rockyj rockyj
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2008

    So sick of caring about other people

    but when it comes down to my problems they have suddenly disappeared, a big majority of the population are self absorbed *****, we are all struggling in different ways and people still don't seem to care about anyone else but themselves. GOD THE WORLD MAKES ME FURIOUS!!
    maddieXxx maddieXxx
    18-21, F
    Aug 11, 2014

    I think selfish people are entitled to be

    selfish ( as long as they realize that in being selfish they'll have no/fewer friends :-)
    cashetty69 cashetty69
    51-55, M
    Aug 14, 2015

    The fact that some people still think it's all

    about them and have to make a situation only about them is the most annoying thing! Get over yourself! Stop assuming someone doesn't or didn't really like you....the world doesn't revolve around you....
    bbykaybear bbykaybear
    22-25, F
    Feb 5, 2014

    I Believe In Helping People Who Help Themselves

    I believe in helping people who help themselves. I'm not going to give my money to people who don't even try. I don't care how hard on your luck you are. I don't care how sad your story is (because EVERYONE has issues and EVERYONE has a story). If you have a drug addiction, I...
    lilskyy lilskyy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2008

    Is She Selfish....

    Education is so important these days, and I want my daughters to be able to make the most of their opportunities at school. My ex took her older daughter out of school when she was about 15 years old, and she never went back to education. Now my daughters are having lots of...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 12, 2012

    Not His Emergency, Not His Problem...

    Last night, at about 7pm.... I got a very severe pain in my left side. It was constant and wouldn't go away. I had a UTI and was taking medication for it, so I suspected it had something to do with that. 5 hours later... and the pain worsens to the point that I'm in tears. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 11, 2011

    Christmas...Oh, You Didn'T Get What You Wanted?

    So it's Christmas day, you wake up, run down stairs, open all your presents and you didn't get an iPhone/iPad/MacBook/some other expensive **** that other people have, so what? I'd bet my house your parents bought what they could for you, they spent hundreds of pounds buying you...
    ThoughtsOfADreamer ThoughtsOfADreamer
    16-17, F
    Jan 24, 2013

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    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 24, 2015

    My Little Rant :)

    hate it when people act as if they're so selfless but really theyre not. Everyone is selfish, every 'good deed' has an ulterior motive, even christians who are all 'help others coz were so kind' but really everything they do is for personal gain, they want to go to heaven. Not...
    pappillion pappillion
    13-15, F
    Mar 24, 2010

    Is it bad that we make decisions

    for our own happiness. Or is it bad that we aren't stepping in line with what other people want. It sounds selfish to demand from people who are proud of being selfish. At least we can live our own lives
    RDevil87 RDevil87
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 20, 2015

    Selfish People, This Is the World You're Building!

    I'm not saying I believe that everyone should be martyrs, but everyone should weigh the needs of other people into their actions and be willing to give at least a little. I really am repulsed by people who have this "dog eat dog world" attitude. I really believe in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 5, 2007

    Selfish People, This Is the World You're Building!

    I'm not saying I believe that everyone should be martyrs, but everyone should weigh the needs of other people into their actions and be willing to give at least a little. I really am repulsed by people who have this "dog eat dog world" attitude. I really believe in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Aug 5, 2007

    Selfishness Is Sign Of Weakness

    Selfish people are weak and are haunted by the fear of loss of contro.
    Superscret Superscret
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 18, 2013

    How do you tell someone

    that they are SELF ABSORBED ?
    CODECRACKER2014 CODECRACKER2014
    41-45, M
    Feb 4

    My Gf

    ever since life i've been thinking about anyone else before myself. my gf is quite on the uppersit person she think of herself, all about her and her and her. if the encident when she is not in the middle of it she'll get angry 'n irretated. i've been living with her for five...
    kaaliyuut kaaliyuut
    31-35, M
    1 Response Nov 30, 2013
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